It's cool to be KIND and if you are not....please swipe on by

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  • Опубліковано 10 лис 2024
  • Daily Drop. Day Four
    Oh yes! It finally happened. I woke up to respond to comments today and received two not so lovely ones. Talking it out helps. Thanks for listening.
    If you like the music I select check out Epidemic Sound, it's the music app I use as a creator and all the music is Royalty Free and there is some amazing music on this app. My link is below and then you can do the same, share your own link until maybe perhaps your membership will become free after like 12 referrals or something like that.
    share.epidemic...
    The songs in the video are:
    Opening: Calm Inner Thoughts by Victor Lundberg
    Closing: All the Little Things by the Eastern Plain

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  • @AgingOnYourTerms
    @AgingOnYourTerms Місяць тому +2

    Keyboard courage is rampant these days. But they will never be able to dull your sparkle. You shine too bright. ❤

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you Vicki so much. I really appreciate your encouragement.

  • @DadLifeOfBrian
    @DadLifeOfBrian Місяць тому +7

    All we can do is respond with kindness. Time is our most precious resource and when someone chooses to use their time to bring others down, that speaks volumes. All we can do is hope they find happiness.

  • @beautifullifesageg.3951
    @beautifullifesageg.3951 Місяць тому +2

    Not weird. That’s an HSP. We feel that deeply. ❤

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      More and more I’m finding things out about myself and you are helping bring these things to my attention and I really appreciate it. I always wondered if everyone feels the actual body feelings as I do. We are all made so uniquely.

  • @EmbraceTheJourney
    @EmbraceTheJourney Місяць тому +1

    As more and more people watch your videos, there will be more and more strange comments. But you are a light in the world that needs to continually shine and always be the nice good person you are. I agree completely with you, those who have nothing positive to contribute should move on, they take the oxygen from the flame. Have a most fantastic day, Tracie and I'll see you tomorrow.

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому

      Hi Tee, it’s an honor to be called a light, I love that we are both lights in this world. It’s why I’m so drawn to you and your channel.

  • @Roehrtribe
    @Roehrtribe Місяць тому +3

    We did daily videos in June. It is a lot of work! Good way to stretch you and get your name out there more. I just started UA-cam back up end of may. I enjoy your channel. Thank you so much!

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      Amazing! I just took a peek at your channel because this is what I do when I see a new comment. You are doing so amazing with subs in such a short amount of time. I’m going to watch some of your videos and subscribe. I love supporting other creators. My husband’s dad came from a family of 9 children and we have a big family because of it. Makes things quite fun. Thank you for your comment and stopping by.

    • @Roehrtribe
      @Roehrtribe Місяць тому

      @@Lifeinthewyldewest no no no! The channel used to be my husbands years ago. I have only grown by 206 or so subs since I started. And I am not even to 1000 watch time hours yet. It just looks better due to the channels past. I have been following you since you visited the multi media artist. You two were fun together! I just stink at leaving comments.

  • @SimoneWhippArtist
    @SimoneWhippArtist Місяць тому +2

    How sad that people feel the need to be so mean. It is usually because something is missing in their life. The best thing to do is not respond and just delete or block. They may self reflect if you don't give them what they want, which is - attention. I think red hair is stunning and quite unique! I love your Pippi Longstocking doll! Have a good day Tracie and don't give mean people the power to get inside your head. ☺

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      Over your wisdom on this Simone. Thank you. Also thank you for loving my Pippi and hair❤❤

    • @SimoneWhippArtist
      @SimoneWhippArtist Місяць тому

      @@Lifeinthewyldewest 😉

  • @TeacherKellyTag
    @TeacherKellyTag Місяць тому +3

    What makes a total stranger think they should tell someone what they should do with their hair? I love red hair as I come from a family of red heads. My sister is a red head. You can tell a true red head by their freckles so I knew you were. Also, I like how your videos are about you. You have a great personality and a kind spirit.

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      You know what funny about my freckles? My mom doesn’t have red hair but must have had freckles as a child and when I was a child I wanted them to go away and she told me when I grew up they would go away like hers did. Welp we know that didn’t happen. Amazing to know you have a sister with red hair too, your hair is nearly the opposite at a rich dark brown nearly black. I love your hair. I always wanted dark brown hair growing up like Sabrina on Charlie’s angels.

    • @TeacherKellyTag
      @TeacherKellyTag Місяць тому

      @@Lifeinthewyldewest Yes, and my brother had blonde hair. We were all different. I like freckles! Consider it a blessing that you have them. Thanks for the compliment. I always wanted blonde hair. Don’t we always want what we can’t have.

  • @mollieanne
    @mollieanne Місяць тому +2

    I write the days in my title since I will forget lol Oh my gosh, I am so glad you did a video about this. My daughter with red hair also mostly gets compliments, but when she was in elementary school she was teased a few times and about her sweet freckles. Your red is gorgeous.

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      It took me a long while to embrace this hair. People can be kind of rude about it. I don’t like the term ginger, maybe because of the “kick a ginger” thing so when Rich will say look, a ginger like you because it’s become a term for red hair, I will say…those are my people the strong Vikings. Actual Vikings were kind of brutal but I like to think of being strong. We are rare that’s for sure and I think your Grace is stunning! Like triple stunning.

    • @mollieanne
      @mollieanne Місяць тому

      @@Lifeinthewyldewest Grace would totally be in your tribe. I won't call you a ginger. Good to know. What do you think of the term red head? Grace does not like that so then she told me to call her a ginger. I actually had a orange tabby Male cat that I named Ginger, he ran away sadly, maybe he did not like his name lol.

  • @JoshuaCaudell-fy6ev
    @JoshuaCaudell-fy6ev Місяць тому +2

    You are beautiful as you are, Mrs. West. Don't let those bullies get to you. My channel has the same antibullying policy as yours. You are doing the right thing, and please continue to press on, Mrs. West.

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you Joshua, we will continue to press on and be kind humans because it just feels better to be kind. Have a wonderful Friday.

  • @SimplyKatieWalks
    @SimplyKatieWalks Місяць тому +1

    How can anyone be unkind to you? You are so lovely ❤

  • @beautifullifesageg.3951
    @beautifullifesageg.3951 Місяць тому +4

    Yes. Go away mean people and remember that KIND IS COOL!❤

  • @DanielleRosaria
    @DanielleRosaria Місяць тому +2

    P.S. I told Jim what that troll said and he said, “For someone to actually take the time to write that they’re so disturbed that it’s actually funny!” 😂😂😂

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      It's just so silly and I don't know why my body got all weird about it.

    • @DanielleRosaria
      @DanielleRosaria Місяць тому

      @@Lifeinthewyldewest I do the same.

  • @xploradora8099
    @xploradora8099 Місяць тому +1

    Please ignore those people who are being nasty. It’s on them

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      Thank you new friend from way way across the world where it’s your winter and it’s my summer and you’re living in the future from me. That stuff trips me out. How wonderful to meet this way. Thank you for your comment.

  • @annelivingstonart
    @annelivingstonart Місяць тому +1

    What a lovely soul you have, Tracie! I am so glad you embrace YOU❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      @@annelivingstonart thank you Anne. I’m so happy with how your channel has taken off! You have put so much time and work into it me never gave up and it gives me the inspiration to keep going o st this way.

  • @jowildsmith
    @jowildsmith Місяць тому +1

    I'm gutted you got a couple of neggy comments. I think you've got incredible hair! And just yesterday I got my roots done - I'm not embracing the grey yet because I don't want to so yah boo sucks to anyone who says I should! As for the other one, if you can't talk about you, the one subject we all have so much we can each authentically share about, then frankly that is ridiculous! Keep doing your adorable you - we love it!

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      I love your spunk! I also love when people can be who they want. My mom in her 70’s still colors her hair and she looks like a sexy fox and I say….mom you are exactly who you want to be! I love it. Can’t wait to watch your daily today to see what you’re up to!

    • @jowildsmith
      @jowildsmith Місяць тому

      @@Lifeinthewyldewest recording it right now!

  • @MindSoulGrit
    @MindSoulGrit Місяць тому +2

    I always wonder why people take the time to leave mean comments. I realise that we are not for everyone (and hey, I am not for everyone - for sure!), and if I don't agree with something, I leave and don't engage with it. Just ignore those. It's your life, your terms! 🙌

  • @LivingLifewithJudith
    @LivingLifewithJudith Місяць тому +3

    I can't understand why people take their precious time to watch videos and then comment nasty things. They really have time to waste! Sad.
    I love your red hair, I used to dye mine red cause I would have loved to have red hair! Even if it wasn't your natural color... doesn't matter. Your hair, your decision. Because even if you had your hair grey... someone may comment that you should dye them because it makes you look old. 😒
    "You are full of yourself" comment... well, yeah, it's YOUR channel. So yeah, it's going to be about you. And that's why we are here! To know more about you!
    Well, you know what they say, if you receive mean comments, that says that you have made it on YT! Lol
    I know how you might have feel while reading them... but they are the ones not feeling good about themselves. Because people feeling good about themselves and their lives, don't talk bad about others lives. Why would they?
    Stay strong. You're doing a great job!

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      Gosh, I so adore you Judith. Somehow you always find the most perfect words to say. Your friends and family must just love you the biggest. I’m so darn excited on a different note that you have brought vlogging back to your channel to bring variety with rides and daily life. I love to learn more about you. You will always be what I call an OG, you have been with me so long and it feels like such an honor that you spend time over here with me.

    • @LivingLifewithJudith
      @LivingLifewithJudith Місяць тому

      @@Lifeinthewyldewest ♡

  • @thesource479
    @thesource479 Місяць тому

    Bless their souls!

  • @thesource479
    @thesource479 Місяць тому +1

    You’re such a pure soul;
    Stay you
    Perfect
    What we need is more sages like you

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      You are truly a kind encouraging person.

    • @thesource479
      @thesource479 Місяць тому

      @@Lifeinthewyldewest There’s a song 🎶 and dance 🕺🏼 we created in Oregon.
      “I’m a mirror, I’m miraculous…
      I’m another you” 😆🫶❤️

  • @JasenomadeTV
    @JasenomadeTV Місяць тому

    Forget the keyboard warriors, they’re sad and need to put other people down. You’re a beautiful human being, and we’re here for you all the way. Your videos make the world a warmer place, and watching them always makes me feel loved and hopeful for this world.❤

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому

      Thank you Jase. Took me a bit off guard however talking about it helped.

  • @DanielleRosaria
    @DanielleRosaria Місяць тому

    I’m sorry those trolls came out from under their respective bridges. Anyone who’s posted creative content online knows their ugly faces. Offer that jello feeling for the salvation of their souls and you will immediately feel much better.
    I’ve learned to have fun with them. I actually got trolled this week too! At first I just said, “That is so ridiculous,” but then I tried to be kinder and explain my position. He was still rude so I told him if he continued to be rude I would block him. Then I decided I’d just block him. lol
    Here’s a great line, appropriate for anyone trying to establish an abusive relationship. You simply say, “How long have you had this problem of being ultra negative?” That way it doesn’t legitimize their topic but rather puts it back on them. Then walk away.

  • @thesource479
    @thesource479 Місяць тому

    You’re awesome;
    Don’t mind them fools/
    Meanies!

  • @thesource479
    @thesource479 Місяць тому

    Always love ❤the intros!

  • @RobinsonKris
    @RobinsonKris Місяць тому +1

    OMG, I call that feeling "swimming in Jello" - I hear you.
    Why do people think it's ok to make comments on appearance unsolicited. You don't need to explain anything to anyone. They must feel crappy about themselves to say stupid things to you.
    We love you and are here for you. I'm staying!

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому

      So crazy how I started to explain to that "man" about how I wish I could have my gray hair but my hair is just not turning yet. Then just DELETED it cause you are right, not worth it. I also went back and re-read the comment and I had it all wrong. It read "you should go gray because your hair doesn't match your face" Then I thought, well this is still a not very nice thing to say, that means he thinks my face is old and my hair doesn't match yet. Geesh. One of my old friends called me and explained that he was simply making an observation but for a highly sensitive person it felt more than an observation.

    • @RobinsonKris
      @RobinsonKris Місяць тому

      @@Lifeinthewyldewest No matter how you read it, it is still one human presuming that their opinion about another human's physical appearance is relevant and important enough to say out loud in a public forum and that the person on the receiving end should care what they say. It's just really sad. I tried to respond nicely but not just letting it pass.

  • @LonnaRae
    @LonnaRae Місяць тому +1

    For me it's like a tingly numbness, it's an uncomfortable feeling. I actually love your hair! You are rare, Tracie! And you are amazing! and yes, the bullies and trolls can just scroll on by. I showed you my mean comment and then I couldn't find it again after I screenshotted it. I was told to get over myself among other ignorant things and it is just that, ignorance. Some people have nothing better to do that drag others through the mud. Thanks for the new channel recommendation. I'm going to check her out. Have a wonderful weekend sweet friend. 💕

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      I would describe it as a bit tingly too and for sure a wave of weirdness. I'm sorry you also got some negative feed back. You handle things well and we will just keep going and forget about what those nay sayers say.

    • @LonnaRae
      @LonnaRae Місяць тому

      @@Lifeinthewyldewest the only other option is to let them win and quit and we can’t do that. We have a wonderfully supportive community. There’s always a bad apple in the bag so I just throw them out and enjoy the rest. 🧡💕

  • @thesource479
    @thesource479 Місяць тому

    One day, I will have awesome outros like you, as well.. beautiful, and music 🎶 is so good!

  • @Juliannaebrown
    @Juliannaebrown Місяць тому

    I love your freckles so much!!! Also, how awesome that you found a way to turn that situation into a positive message to share✌️❤️

  • @GEN-X_POV
    @GEN-X_POV Місяць тому

    Umm, not weird at all you have a Pippi Longstocking. I literally texted my wife last night a link to a stuffed Eastern Cottontail rabbit I want. ROFL. Seriously! We have a LOT of Eastern Cottontail rabbits in our neighborhood and I call them "My Little Bunny Buddies" and look for two specific ones each morning. I thought how cool would it be to have a stuffed realistic looking bunny of them! So yeah . . . you're good. Love it! :)

  • @BoredLazyandRetired
    @BoredLazyandRetired Місяць тому

    I never understand the meanness that some people have to express. I adore your Pippi doll I wish I had one as a fellow redhead I can relate. I found you because of Jen the beautiful life sage. And I'm a southern california gal too. I grew up in Los Angeles County in the east San Gabriel Valley but now live in Riverside County. Keep doing you, you're great just the way you are. I find your videos very soothing and it's a blessing when the world around us can get so chaotic. Thank you.

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      hello! I'm so happy to meet YOU, another fellow read head! I see you also have a channel. I took a quick peek. I love all the purple and butterflies. I have subscribed and about to watch my first video. Thanks for stopping by. Jen is a true gem! You are not too far from us!

  • @Pickletrees
    @Pickletrees Місяць тому

    You are amazing and your videos always give me peace in my soul!🥰

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому

      This is so kind of you to say and I love how your mama makes me smile and laugh. Bless you for capturing those moments with her.

  • @Liberty_Ranch
    @Liberty_Ranch Місяць тому

    Criticism always comes from a place of unhappiness within one’s self. You are beautiful just the way you are and lucky to have such healthy, gorgeous hair. I hope you’re in for a beautiful day! Love, peace, and chicken grease
    ❤✌️🐓

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      You had me cracking up at the chicken grease part. Thank you for being so kind and supportive always Moon. I hope it all comes back to you ten fold.

    • @Liberty_Ranch
      @Liberty_Ranch Місяць тому

      @@Lifeinthewyldewest thank you, friend 🩷

  • @BevThorogood
    @BevThorogood Місяць тому

    It’s so sad that people are so unhappy they have to spend their time being mean. All we can do is feel pity for them and carry on being who we are. That said the rejection sensitivity dysphoria is visceral and feels like physical pain for neurodivergent people so I’m sending you a big 🤗 from across the pond xxx

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      You are always so validating of my feelings and thoughts. Thank you Bev.

  • @jowildsmith
    @jowildsmith Місяць тому

    Haha, I have enough trouble with days of the week these days!😂

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      Me too and especially since I’m not going to my job anymore and on top of that, the days go so quick I can barely keep up.

  • @recreatingcaitlin
    @recreatingcaitlin Місяць тому

    You’re beautiful inside and out! I’m sorry there were rude comments on your page. People get behind a keyboard and say the rudest things! And you’re right… those types of people have a lot of learning to do.

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому

      Sure didn't feel so good in the moment. Glad I'm over it now. Talking it out helped. Blocking them really helped.

  • @beautifullifesageg.3951
    @beautifullifesageg.3951 Місяць тому

    You’re for me!❤😊

  • @travelingexpats
    @travelingexpats Місяць тому

    Don’t understand why some people feel the need to leave mean comments. You’re beautiful just the way you are so try not to take it personally. I know how hard it is because I’m super sensitive too. Pipi was my favorite when growing up. Hang in there! ❤Betty

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      So nice to meet you Betty! I'm Tracie and I subscribed to your channel and I see it's all about travel! Since I don't get out much I think it will be quite nice to watch and see where you take me. I'll tune in when I can. It's the weekend so I'll be away a lot from my phone/computer/iPad. Pippi is just a riot and if I could just channel her courage, strength and attitude of "I can do anything" then that will be a great space to be.

  • @thewildcherryfarm
    @thewildcherryfarm Місяць тому

    There are so many things I want to say to you after watching this!
    First of all thank you for mentioning my channel. I really appreciate that. And I'm glad you enjoyed the journalling prompts.
    Next, I can so relate to the way you felt when reading those comments this morning. My channel is a bit smaller than yours so I didn't get any mean ones yet, but I suppose that's coming up soon too. But for anything like this I try to remember that negative vibes are usually about the person that sends them off, not about you or me. If you feel good and happy in yourself you just wouldn't do anything like that. Quite the opposite.
    So the best thing is probably to just delete any comments like that, block the people and move on. But as I said, I haven't been there yet, so it might be easier said than done.
    Also: I LOVE your freckles!! I always wanted to have freckles when I was younger (like Pipi Longstocking) but I could only draw them on my face when we dressed up for carnival. Haha. And now I actually have a son with a face full of freckles. So I got my freckles in the end, just in a different way. :)
    Sending you a virtual hug ❤

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      It was my pleasure to recommend your channel. I truly love it and always walk away thinking good thoughts and feeling inspired. It's a mindful and beautiful channel.
      Thank you for that hug and your encouragement. I love that you got your freckles after all in a different and unexpected way! How beautiful.
      I ended up deleted and blocking them. In the end it did seem like the best way to handle it. I can be a little feisty sometimes and after I responded I thought better of it, did the old delete and block. I agree with you fully, sadly it's about them. Not me.

  • @JackieWolven
    @JackieWolven Місяць тому

    We have a rule: if someone can’t change something in 15 seconds we don’t say anything. Like you can tell someone they have spinach in their teeth, but you can’t tell them they have weird eyebrows. Because it’s just not your business to tell someone that.
    Mean people are just hurting, but I’m not their therapist and therefore not here to fix them! Keep being you and delete those comments!

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому

      I love your advice about the spinach in someones teeth verses the weird eyebrows (lol) I do feel a bit sad for those who leave negative comments. It really does say more about them than myself. I deleted them both and blocked any further comments from them.

  • @thesource479
    @thesource479 Місяць тому

    No need to take fools crap/ personally,
    They’re fools 😂

  • @kimberlygibson3
    @kimberlygibson3 Місяць тому

    Omg that's what the person got from that video hahahahahahaha. When you are beautiful you will meet jealousy so don't take them on. Next time tag me for the mean people and I will get them for you.….no one mess with my friends😀.
    I love your spirit.
    When you are doing good you will get negativity.
    Keep being you and who doesn't like you let them deal with it. I got your back🥳

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      I love how you have my back, I have your back too! I rather like to think of the fact that when I'm doing well I'll get negativity...that means it was kind of a good thing.
      Lot of Love Kimberly.

    • @kimberlygibson3
      @kimberlygibson3 Місяць тому

      @@Lifeinthewyldewest love you too 😊

  • @AbilityToBeAwesome
    @AbilityToBeAwesome Місяць тому

    What is the cats name?

    • @Lifeinthewyldewest
      @Lifeinthewyldewest  Місяць тому +1

      That one is LUNA "LoveGood". It's R.J.s kitty, more like a support kitty than anything. When R.J. is sad little Luna lays on her chest and makes her feel more calm. I added the Lovegood, because I love Harry Potter. R.J. just called her Luna.