Changing Gender Discrimination in the Movie Industry | Rima Kallingal | TEDxThiruvananthapuram
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- Опубліковано 3 січ 2018
- Malayalam Movie Industry is perhaps the most well-respected movie industry among the Indian movies Industries. In this talk, Danseuse and Actress, Rima Kallingal challenges the status quo and questions the narrative as it currently exists in one of the largest movie Industry in India. She has been fighting gender-based discrimination since the time she was a child and her fight for equality has led her to co-found along with other actresses in the Malayalam movie industry, the Women in Cinema collective, a rights based group dealing with issues faced by women in the Movie industry. Rima Kallingal is a danseuse, model and Kerala state award winning actress. She began practising dancing when she was three years old & has performed on national and international stages. After being named First Runner-up in the Miss Kerala 2008 contest, she went on to pursue a career in acting. She is popular for her roles in movies like City of God, Indian Rupee, Nidra , 22 Female Kottayam , August Club and Rani Padmini. She is also skilled in various martial arts like Taekwondo, Chao and Kalari. She is currently pursuing her dream project which is a dance academy named ‘Mamangam’ to provide mentorship to aspiring dancers. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx
Who came after seeing mallu analyst
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വിളമ്പുമ്പോൾ നല്ല ഒരു ചിക്കൻ പീസ് കൊടുക്കുന്നതിന്റെ,മീൻ വറുത്തതു
കൊടുക്കുന്നതിന്റെ ഉള്ളിലും സ്നേഹം ഉണ്ട്.മകനും മകൾക്കും ഉള്ളത് ഒരുപോലെ
വീതിച്ചു കൊടുത്തില്ലെങ്കിൽ അച്ഛന്റെയും അമ്മയുടെയും ആ സ്നേഹത്തിനു
വ്യത്യാസമുണ്ട്.അത് തുറന്നു പറഞ്ഞ ഒരു സഹോദരിയെ അർഥം മനസ്സിലാകാതെ
കളിയാക്കി കൊല്ലുന്നതു വിവരക്കേട് തന്നെ ആണ്.
👏👏👏👌
😂😂
Ente ponno 🤣
Ithonnm manassilakkathe chirichondirikkunna viddikal comment section il dharalamund
See, the problem is not in the message but the example... The example is trivial.. There might be multiple reasons why her mother did it... Maybe her brother likes fish more... And it's not like women alone sacrifice... In Average india... Men also sacrifice daily for their mother, father and sister and daughters.. U think it's easy... But her outlook is not compreheneive and lacks the maturity to see it from a 360 degree... Athrem ullu
Sensible talk,some guys still think that she was asking for some fish lol.
Exactly
ഞാൻ എന്റെ ജീവിതത്തിൽ ഏറ്റവും കൂടുതൽ gender discrimination കണ്ടിട്ടുള്ളതും അനുഭവുച്ചിട്ടുള്ളതും എന്റെ വീട്ടിൽ ആണ്..
It is the root cause of it
തൻറെ വീട്ടുകാർ ശേരിയല്ല
Athanda poricha fish thannilla
Nigaluda vittilum
@@rameshramachandran8965 maththi പകുതി കൊടുത്ത് കാണില്ല😂. ഇൗ kuttikalkokke phone മേടിച്ചു കൊടുത്ത വീട്ടുകാര് മണ്ടന്മാർ, ഓൺലൈൻ വന്നിരുന്നു vellavanmarum പറയുന്ന കേട്ട് സ്വന്തം kudumbathine തള്ളി പറയുന്നവര്
@@pictureswithstories4362 onnum kittatha. Rodil pattini kidakunna
Pillaru undu lokathu.
Namuku daivam ethankilum thannallo eannu alojikilla.
Aggu. Thalli marikuva
Alla bro. Ethina okk eandu parayana
നിങൾ പറഞ്ഞത് മനസ്സിലാക്കാൻ വർഷങ്ങൾ വേണ്ടിവന്നു ♥
പുതിയ തലമുറയിൽ മാറ്റം വരട്ടെ
Yes
When you see the kurupottal in the comments, you know that Rima has done a good job.
Champoorna chakchartha polum.. thoo...
attitudego 🤗😘nice words
Well said
അമ്മമാർ തന്നെയാണ് വിവേചനം പഠിപ്പിയ്കുന്നത്
💯💯
My mother never showed a discrimination because she also faced that
സമൂഹം ഒരിക്കലും തുല്യതയെ അംഗീകരിക്കുന്നില്ല എന്നതല്ലേ അതിന്റെ സത്യം
@@princessfort6448 agree
That's true but it's hard to digest for them☹️
My mom never showed discrimination..but I agree with u because I have seen many other moms who is like what u just said..bloody idiots
Happy to see the change in attitude of society. Two years back this comment section was filled with people who can't even understand a simple analogy . Now it's seems more sensible.
😂😂അതെല്ലാം ഇവർ delete ആക്കിയത് aanu
@@shajahan4865 Aayirikaam.... ennalum ithrayum positive comments ullath mattathe soochipikkunna onnanu :)
എന്ത് മൈര്, അണ്ടിക്ക് ഒറപ്പു ഇല്ലാത്ത കൊറേ കുണ്ടനെയും പൂറനെയും കണ്ടൂ എന്നും പറഞ്ഞ് എല്ലാരും അങ്ങനെ ആണ് എന്ന് konakkanda പൂttiച്ചി നീ..!!!
മീൻ ന്റെ കാര്യം പറയുന്നെ അല്ല എന്നാലും, അവർക്കു കൊടുക്കണേ അത്ര തന്നെ ഞാൻ ചോദിച്ചു വാങ്ങാറുണ്ട്, പക്ഷെ അന്ന് അമ്മക്ക് മീൻ ഉണ്ടാവൂല കഴിക്കാൻ എന്ന് മാത്രം, സ്നേഹത്തോടെ അമ്മേടെ എനിക്ക് തരും എന്നിട്ട് പറയും ഞാൻ നേരത്തെ ഒന്ന് തിന്നു എന്ന്,, ഇതിലും വല്ല്യ തോൽവി എനിക്കിനി വരാനുണ്ടോ എന്നോർത്ത് -കരച്ചിലാണോ ദേഷ്യമാണോ വരുന്നെന്നറിയാതെ ആ മീനൊക്കെ (മത്തി /ചാള ആണെങ്കിൽ ) മുള്ള് പോലും കളയാതെ തിന്നും, ബാഹുബലിയെ കൊന്നിട്ടും പരാജയം feel ചെയ്യുന്ന ലെ പൽവാൾ ദേവൻ ഞാൻ 😴, അമ്മ പിന്നെയും പിന്നെയും എന്നെ തോൽപ്പിച്ചുകൊണ്ടിരിക്കുന്നു, അവരുടെ ആയുധം ആവട്ടെ സ്നേഹവും,, 💥, "റീമ കല്ലിങ്കൽ' ❤ wt a lady....❤️️, ഒരുപാടു റിമ മാർ ഉണ്ടാവട്ടെ
അതാണ് point 🔥💯💯. അവിടെയും വിട്ടുവീഴ്ച ചെയ്യുന്നത് അമ്മ എന്ന പെണ്ണ് തന്നെ.. hmm.
രാത്രി ഉറങ്ങാൻ കിടക്കുമ്പോൾ ഒരു ഗ്ലാസ് പാൽ അനിയന് . ഉച്ചയ്ക്ക് ചോറുണ്ണുംബോൾ ചിക്കൻ കറിയിലെ ലീഗ് പീസ് അനിയന്. പക്ഷേ അമ്മയോട് ഇത് ചോദിക്കുമ്പോൾ അവൻ ആൺകുട്ടിയല്ലേ അതാണ് സഹിക്കാൻ വയ്യാത്തെ
Athe
Ente vettil parangal avan cheriya kutti alle ennan parayuka. Athukond marupadi onnum parayan pattilla
Veetil Gas kuttiyedukkan thudangi kadayilpokkum kurachu kzhiyumbol panik vidum ennit sakala responsibility um ankuttikalk kodukkum, Appolum girls ammayodu vazhakum pidichu ithoke orthu mongi veetil irikkunnundavum sughamayit, Every Individuals have thire own roles and responsibilities pattillenkil irangi ponam
Athinte nere oppositum aanu koooduthal nadakkarullath....nee oru aankuttiyalle karyan padillla...,eda aanugalayal randennam kittiyennu verum , joli medikkanam , kalyanam kazhinj nee thanne nokkinadathanam kudumbam ,agene enthellam kedakkunu.....athine kurich samsarikkan onnum evde arum illa...very nice society ...😏
@@jj4J900 അതാ എനിക്കും അത്ഭുതം കഷ്ടപടിന്റെയും mental truama ടെയും പരാതി പറയാൻ തുടങ്ങിയാൽ ആണുങ്ങളെ ഇവിടെ Score ചെയ്യു, ആളുകൾക്കു പെണ്കുട്ടികളോടാൻ Empothy, ആണ്കുട്ടികളുടെ പ്രശ്നത്തിന് ഒരു Emotional hit ഇല്ല, അത് ആർക്കും കേൾക്കുകയും വേണ്ട പരിഹാരവും ഇല്ല, 3x ആൻമഹത്യ കൂടുതലാണ് Famales നെ ക്കാൾ Males നു heartattack,Mental issue..etc
Such a bold woman!
Keep going and let's bring a change in our society. More power to you 💞
Rima, you are right!
As the father of a girl, I am standing for the equal rights for women.
Ban burqa 👏give your woman empowerment 👏proud of you bro...
First ask to ban sack
Claps :)
@@satyabhamakrishnan108 Why ban burqa ?
@rambo h I don't know about that but I think it is okay if she is wearing it by her own choice. If she want's to wear it, it's okay. If she doesn't want to wear that is also fine but it's not good to force someone to wear something.
'Dislikes' are outnumbering the 'likes' because she is demanding a gender equal society?. Gender bias is real. Fish fry scenes are real. She put it in a humorous way. Nothing to mock and make memes out of it. If only people understood the difference between feminists and 'feminazis'. We need real feminists in our world not hypocrites masquerading as feminists aka feminazis. Well done Rima Kallingal for doing this talk.
Edwin Varghese I think most ppl don't get the context !!!
No, people are not against feminism.If someone like Parvathy(social worker) were to say the same words, the video would have more likes than dislikes.People are questioning her about equal pay in Mayanadhi and 22FK plagiarism not to counter her arguments regarding feminism. They are simply questioning her credentials. If she is the most honest person she claims to be, then why the hypocrisy when it comes to something she is directly related to? All she has to do is come out and answer the doubters. Thats how it works, its a mutual exchange
Julian Sam I totally understand your argument. Demanding equal pay in movie industry is absurd. It depends on the artist's market value. After the watching her talk, I felt that, the emphasis was more on the discrimination which women have to face in the general society (from household to work). Many things what she said is true as well, especially the scenarios at home. There are many commenting the fish fry problem were a thing of the past, but the discrimination of various other kinds still exist. I also agree that there better qualified personalities, but the idea remains the same. I support the idea. It's good to see someone from Kerala to come up on a stage like Tedx and deliver a speech like this.
(PS: I never said people are against feminism. )
@@juliansam I agree with your argument/point...but what makes you think/how do you know that female and male actors weren't paid equally in 22FK and Mayanadhi?
@@ME-yj5xb If that was the case, it would have made news. Bigger issue with 22FK is blatant plagiarism. I cant recall a single moment from the movie you can call original. Almost every movie done by Aashiq Abu has had similar claims of plagiarism, Rani Padmini, Mayanadhi and even his newest movie Virus. For some reason Rima never felt the moral obligation to call out her husband regarding any of these issues
ഒരു സാധാരണ വീട്ടമ്മയായ ഞാൻ ഒരുപാടുകാലം മനസ്സിൽ കൊണ്ടുനടന്ന ഒരു ചോദ്യമാണ് ഇന്ന് റിമയിലൂടെ എനിക്ക് കേൾക്കാൻ കഴിഞ്ഞത്..റിമപറഞ്ഞതു അക്ഷരംപ്രതി ശരിയാണ് ...നിങ്ങളെപ്പോലുള്ള പെണ്മക്കളെയാണ് മോളെ നമുക്കാവശ്യം...വിമര്ശനങ്ങളെ നീ കാര്യമാക്കെണ്ടതില്ല ...നിന്റെ പ്രസ്സംഗത്തിലെ 'മീൻ' എന്ന വാക്കു മാത്രമേ അവർക്കു കാണാൻ കഴിഞ്ഞുളൂ....ഒരു 90 മുതൽ 2000 വരേയ്ക്കും ഇങ്ങനെയൊക്കെത്തന്നെയായിരു നമ്മുടെ അടുക്കളകളും തീന്മേശകളും ...അനുഭവത്തിന്റെ വെളിച്ചത്തിൽ പറഞ്ഞതാണ് ..പുതിയ തലമുറയെ സൃഷ്ട്ടിക്കാൻ ആരോഗ്യത്തോടെയിരിക്കേണ്ട സ്ത്രീക്ക് എന്നും എല്ലാവരും കഴിച്ചു ബാക്കിവരുന്ന എച്ചിൽ പത്രങ്ങൾ തന്നെയായിരുന്നു ആശ്രയം ..ഇന്ന് പുതിയ തലമുറ ഒരുപാടു മാറിയിട്ടുണ്ട് ..അതുകൊണ്ടു അവരുടെ അമ്മമാർ അനുഭവിച്ചതെല്ലാം അവർക്കൊരു കഥപറച്ചിലായി തോനാം....ഞാനനുഭവിച്ചതുകൊണ്ടു എന്റെ മക്കളെ തുല്യരായി ഞാൻ വളർത്തി ..രണ്ടുപേരെയും ഒരുപോലെ ഊട്ടി ..പുതിയ തലമുറ പ്രതികരിച്ചു തുടങ്ങി അതിന്റെ വെപ്രാളത്തിൽ സ്വായമറിയാതെ പലരും ഭ്രാന്തമായി ആക്രമിച്ചെന്നിരിക്കും...അതൊന്നും റിമി കാര്യമാക്കേണ്ട ഞങ്ങൾ അമ്മമാരുണ്ട് നിന്റെ കൂടെ ..വാക്കുകൾക്ക് ആയുധങ്ങളേക്കാൾ മൂർച്ചയുണ്ട് കുട്ടീ .
Ammmamaaru yechil paathrangal tinnittilla...ini tinnan njnagall anuvadikkukayum illa.
😍😍
Correct
Njan ee discrimination ee kalathum anubavikunu
2000 kazhinjit ipozhum ingne oke thaneyanu karyngl..it still existss
Let's just be glad that this video exists on the internet.
More power to you, Rima. And to all the men and women in this comment section who are restoring my faith in Malayalis. More power to y'all
റിമ ഉദ്ദേശിച്ച മീൻ കഥ ഇഷ്ടമായി. ജന്മം കൊണ്ട് തന്നെ അവഹേളനം സഹിക്കേണ്ടി വരുമ്പോൾ സമൂഹം അത് ഏറ്റെടുക്കുന്നു. അമ്മയിൽ നിന്ന് തുടങ്ങണം മാറ്റം.
Gender equality aanu demand cheynekil aadyam maraendath vanitha samvaranam alle🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
@@yadukrishnana.v3857 അതെ സംശയമെന്താ? പക്ഷേ അത് മാത്രം മാറ്റാൻ ശ്രമിക്കരുത്. എല്ലാ വിധ സംവരണങ്ങളും എടുത്തു മാറ്റണം പറ്റുമോ? സാമ്പത്തിക മായി ഏറ്റവും പിന്നിൽ നിൽക്കുന്നവരെ ഒഴിവാക്കുക ബാക്കിയെല്ലാം
@@reejavidyasagar3832 enth kond ennu koodi para
@@yadukrishnana.v3857 ജാതിയുടെ പേരിൽ സംവരണം, ex-service കാർക്ക് സംവരണം ന്യൂന പക്ഷത്തിനു സംവരണം ഇങ്ങനെ പോയാൽ ഏതിലേ കൂടിയെങ്കിലും നമുക്കും ഒന്ന് രക്ഷപ്പെടണ്ടേ? പക്ഷേ ഇപ്പോൾ പെണ്ണിനെ രണ്ടാം തരത്തിൽ കാണുന്ന രീതിയൊന്നും തീരെയില്ല. ഇതൊക്കെ കുറച്ചു പഴയ കാര്യങ്ങളല്ലേ
@@reejavidyasagar3832 pennugale 2am tharakarai kannunthinte karanam avar thanne aanu
കുട്ടിക്കാലത്തു കിട്ടാതെപോയ ഒരു ഗ്ളാസ് വെള്ളമാണ് തന്നെ പിൽക്കാലത്തൊരു പോരാളിയാക്കിയതെന്നു അംബേദ്‌കർ പറഞ്ഞിട്ടുണ്ട്. ദാഹജലശാലകളിൽപോലും പ്രവേശനം ഇല്ലാത്ത കാലമാണ്. താഴ്ന്ന ജാതിക്കാരനായതുകൊണ്ടു മാത്രം കിട്ടാതെപോയ ദാഹജലവും അന്നവും കിട്ടിയ അവഗണനയും പരിഹാസവും ആണ് അംബേദ്കറെ പിന്നീടുള്ള ജീവിതത്തിലൊരു പോരാളിയാക്കിയത്.അപമാനിതന്റെ വേദനയും ആത്മനിന്ദയുമാണ് പിൽക്കാലത്തെ സമരഭടനായ ഗാന്ധിജിയെ രൂപപ്പെടുത്തുന്നത്. ഖനിത്തൊഴിലാളികൾക്കു കിട്ടാതെപോയ അന്നവും വസ്ത്രവുമാണ് ചെഗുവേരയ്ക്കുപോലും ഊർജമായത്. അപമാനങ്ങളും അവഗണനകളും അത് അനുഭവിക്കുന്നവരിൽ മാത്രമേ ആഴത്തിൽ പതിയൂ. മറ്റുള്ളവർക്ക് അതൊരു തമാശയായി തോന്നാം. കിട്ടാതെപോയ മീൻകഷണമാണ് തന്നെ ഫെമിനിസ്റ്റാക്കിയതെന്നു ഒരു സ്ത്രീ പറയുമ്പോൾ നമ്മുൾ പുരുഷന്മാർക്ക് അത് തമാശയാകുന്നത് പുരുഷൻ എന്നും മീനിൻറെ നടുക്കഷ്ണം മാത്രം തിന്നുവളർന്നവൻ ആയതുകൊണ്ടാണ്.
the casual observer well said
the casual observer well said!
Rightly put
the casual observer .. Totally agree..
Well said
I always heard about the fish fry incident and that Reema had to face some social media attacks. Now listening to your talk, I have no idea why fish fry became a major talk. Maybe the people who attacked you in social media only understood the word fish fry in your entire talk. Or Maybe they felt attacked. If they felt attacked, it’s a good thing. Because they know that there is a conflict inside themselves. It may be hard for them. But they will change eventually. Because if they didn’t feel uncomfortable, they would not have attacked Reema back.
Your talk is inspiring. The fact that you credited the other strong women in the industry who stood up for themselves is amazing. A woman like you standing as an example and supporting other women is educational. A gorgeous woman like you talking about the power (feminism), may challenge some people. That is a good result. It created a reflection.
What I am trying to say is “ I support Reema”.
The way she said it....awsome...theri vilikkunna chettanmaare...she just said that women and men should be considered equal...not higher...
I'm so proud to be in a family where everyone is treated the same way... No discrimination..😇
Claps!!!! The conclusion is so true... നാളത്തെ കുട്ടികൾക്ക് കിട്ടണ്ട തണൽ ആണ് ഇന്ന് ആളുകൾ മുളയിലേ നുള്ളാൻ ശ്രമിക്കുന്നത്...
Halo
She is absolutely gem of our film industry . I proud of it
Respect you Madam. What you said is 100% right. Proud to have such a person in our Malayalam Industry
I'm a student of 11th. I have a friend in my school. She's 16. Her marriage is being finalized so that she can settle down,when she's 18. Her parents don't give her enough food,on contrary of her brother. They say," ketti vere veetil povaan ullathineyokke enthina teethi potthi valarthunne?" . She's anaemic,all skin and bones. She writes beautifully,a talent she discovered of late. Will she ever be able to nourish her talent and understand what her true calling is? All the people who said things rima in the comment section,should answer this.
Well, I am truly sad for your friend. I know my grief will not help her situation in any way but please don't try to generalise families like this. Just because some random conservative did all these things doesn't mean all Keralites are like this.
Hope your friend is better now. From your comments it looks like she is suffering neglect as a child. It is not okay. Is there any social resources that can help your friend nearby?
@@sunnysandhyamalanthra169 she's nearing 20 now. It's a fight for her everyday, but she's able to study for her degree, by working herself and with the help of various scholarships. I had tried contacting social resources, but all of them have the misogyny deep rooted. They believe that she shouldn't be studying,if her parents are against it. The seat that she got in her college was through merit and the scholarships can usually cover the academic fees. Hostel fees and other expenses are met by her part time job. The pressure to be married and the humiliation is so high, that she is an anxious mess after every family event. None of her family or her extended family has girls as old as 19 stay a spinster and they keep taunting her. Atleast, her education is going on and she excels in it.
പോ മൈരെ
@@anishabose3001 എന്ത് പൂർ misogyny എന്ന്? പോയി തന്തെനെ പണ്ണിക്കോ punda
Great speech....I came here seeing trolls on her (the meen fry thing) ..But now I can say undoubtedly that those who are trolling her either haven't seen this speech or aren't educated enough to understand it's meaning.guys english is just a language to express your feelings and all those stuffs which you are talking about are her metaphors in a funny way ...Better try to understand what she is talking about. ..And if you think ng yourself without being biased on any emotional hold back (for fans of great actors) you can find its true!!!
(Atleast to some extends )
എനിക്ക് ഒറ്റ ചോദ്യം മാത്രം നിന്റെ പ്രൊഡക്ഷൻ കമ്പനി നിർമിച്ച പടങ്ങൾക്ക് നായികക്കും നായകനും നടന്മാർക്കും നടിമാർക്കും ഒരേ പ്രതിഫലം ആണോ കൊടുത്തത്?
After mallu analyst 👍
All the pongala army out there..she is standing in the tedx platform and you guys don't even have a face..shes talking sense and you guys are never gonna understand..
Rahul babu had she used proper grammar, Maybe we could have understood something
Yes, Had she?
So just because she's on stage, we should automatically agree with everything she says? Nice logic bruh.
Vichu: She's not on just a 'stage'...but on TED...where anyone is free to share some fish-fry analogies and inspire the intellectual audience (victims).
Of course she is free to do that, just as the people listening are free to disagree and form opinions of their own. The fact that it's a TED stage doesn't really make a difference.
She is right... വെട്ടുകിളി ജൻമങ്ങൾക്ക് ജൻമനാ ബോധമില്ലാത്തതുകൊണ്ട് ഒന്നും തിരിയില്ല ... അതുകൊണ്ട് അറിയാവുന്ന പണി - തെറി വിളി നടത്തുന്നു ...
Powli
Satyam
u said things loud & clear..ppl who are stuck up with the "fish fry" will remain so..leave them..keep asking questions & inspiring ppl 😊👍
Valid points..one must act first to initiate a change, glad to know that someone is stepping up to face the opposition of the society and let's hope that you can bring a change.
അടുക്കളയിൽ നിന്ന് തുടങ്ങട്ടെ തുല്യതയുടെ ആദ്യ പാഠം
Men rule 💪💪 because we are dominated by birth😎
@@sherlyreji1273 women are not inducted in combat roles in Indian Army. Get educated before commenting
@@sherlyreji1273 who said women are not fighting for getting a place in the army......after a long debate, now women are included to become fighter pilots. So in coming years we could see women in battlefield too hopefully. And you would never build a house from the roof right? It should start from the foundation. In that way it is necessary that equality should begin from the kitchen. I have female friends who really want to join army and are ready to die for India and us Indians. I hope they'll get a chance to go for wars like men. And it's not about a particular job. We need to educate the society to provide equal opportunities for all. As we all look up at film stars rather than soldiers, we mostly sees the change or empowerment they are trying to bring in their industry. From this video the thing you should understand is that the gender inequality could be seen even in dividing a fish fry. Then just think about the inequality women are facing at their workplace. We are the generation which should bring a change. Co existence is beautiful, and economical too😊
@@dannydanny5714 onum nadakoola ..manasil vecho poodhi....
@@dannydanny5714 if a woman was not there you won't be born
The only reason this video is getting a lot of hate is because Rima's truth has created a scar in your previleges.
I have also heard the fish fry scene from my mother at her times, where my Dad's mom serves food for grandpa and all the elder sons, and after their meal only if some fish fry is left my mother and me gets😂
It's a very basic thing dude
. In olden days it was men who do the tougher jobs like krishi pani so they were expected to have more nutrition... And money was scarce so they distributed it using plain economics.... The one that needs more nutrition was given that.. Women were doing the easier work.. Pakshe innu ithilla.. Innu ellavarkum aavshyathinu food medikaan cash undu..
What she said is true. I have seen my mother. She never got to eat what she cooked. Only what was left after all we ate. No one cared and no one bothered. I won't let it happen to my wife. I support Reema.
That's patheyic.. But see that's the problem just because it was so in ur house.. Doesn't mean it's a societal issue... I have seen men sacrificing a lot in my life.... Right from caring about their sister s to marrying them off
A continuous discussion in public will gradually make a change in gender inequality. Each mother try to give equal attention to her girl and boy babies.
Swanthamayi oru glass vellam polum eduthu kudikkatha mahanmaaraya aanugal ulla veedanu entethu. Mathram alla undakki kodukkunna okke kazhichu lavalesham uluppillande kuttavum parayum. Ravile 8 manikku jolikku ponamenkil 4,4.30 kke eneet ellam undakki orukki kazhinju chilappo oru thulli vellam kudikkan neram ellandavum odunna. Kuttam parayan ariyunna aarum ksheenichu vannirikkumbo oru glass vellam polum eduthu thannitilla. Athengana pennalle..
Nammal anubhavikkatha okke namukku kettukathakala. Athonde choriyan kula purushanmaarkku thonum. Swabhavikam
Engane kashtapedarudu..know ur strength and fight for it..do meditation and find time for urself..u have already defeated them dear with ur sheer perseverance and fight for urself..always fight for the right and give them daily headache..don’t ever give up..this system , if giving more benefit to them, give them all d burden of ur insecurities, ur peace less fights and all..let u make noise and let them suffer
You are absolutely right in what you said..with you!
Any woman in any industry has the right to ask questions about inequality..and movies represent the mindset of the masses for whom movies made ; so your questions will resonate with public and will help change in mindset..brave people take up courage and responsibity of their stature, use the opportunity and platforms and sow the seeds of change..best wishes..
RESPECT ❤️🔥
Dont wait for a change Be the change 🔥
A strong man can handle a strong woman. A weak man will say she has an attitude.
She can have an attitude, however bad. She is bringing feminism as an answer. That's pathetic group think.
s m awesome
Amen 😝
Brijesh Mu Do you even know what feminism is? There is a thin line between feminism and femi-nazism. She stands for the former..
Well said
👏👏👏👏 Very well daring talk Rima Kallinkal; A big hand for your broad and beautiful mind...
Ente amma paranjittund ammayude ammama oru 25 ladoo vedichal athile 5 ennam ammede brothernu kodukum ath kandittu amma chennu choicha oru ladoo nte half ammaykum ammede sisternum kodukum ethepole ayirunnu ammede kuttikalam athinusesham married ayi ipozhathe vtl vannapo ividuthe ammama fish curry panku vechal kashnam ellam appaykum chettanmarkum perakuttikalkum ivarku meencharum mangapoolum .ithrem njn paranjathu ippozhum ee speechil ninnu fish fry enna vakku manasilaki vechavarku vendiyanu
Rima,
Proud of you! You people together started a change of Revolution in Malayalam Cinema. Useless craps will bark like a mad street dog in Social Medias. However, In know that doesn't even touch your hair.
Change is Required and the Change is Now!! Go ahead.. >>
റീമ......
പൊരിച്ചമീൻ കിട്ടാതിരുന്ന ഒരമ്മയുടെ മകൾ ആണെങ്കിലും എന്റമ്മ എനിക്ക് പൊരിച്ചമീൻ തന്നിരുന്നു
അതുകൊണ്ട് തന്നെ എന്റെ പെൺകുട്ടികൾ ക്കും പൊരിച്ചമീൻ കിട്ടികൊണ്ടേയിരിക്കുന്നു......
നല്ല prasantation റീമ.....
നിങ്ങളുടെ പോരാട്ടങ്ങൾ നടക്കട്ടെ....... എല്ലാ ഭാവുകങ്ങളും....
shahina anzar
you are lucky
Gahana Clive തീർച്ചയായും
എല്ലാവര്ക്കും വയർ നിറച്ചു കഴിക്കാൻ ഉണ്ടെങ്കിൽ ആർക്കും പരാതി ഉണ്ടാവില്ല. എന്നാൽ അവസരങ്ങൾ/ റിസോഴ്സ്സ് കുറവാണെങ്കിൽ എങ്ങനെ വീതം വെക്കും. ? പെൺ ആണെന്ന കാരണത്താൽ നിഷേധിക്കപെടുകയാണെങ്കിൽ ചോദ്യം ചെയ്യാൻ തയ്യാർ ആകുന്ന റീമ മാർ ഇനിയും എല്ലാ മേഖലകളിലും ഉണ്ടാകട്ടെ
Chodyam cheyyunavale ahangari ennum, poricha meen kittiya brotherine paavam ennum amma thanne mudra kuthum.. 🤧
Chechi, ente Amma enikum aniyathikum orepole thanneya food thara, aake pinnem kurach Amma eniku kooduthal consideration thannitullath njhan hostelil ninnum vtl varumpozha.. e rima chechi parayunnapole onnum alla keralathile Ella sthreekaldem avastha.. pinne cinemele kaaryam ath vere sambava avde evergreen aayi nilkunnavare kooduthalum thilangullu.. epo nayanatarayude kaaryam edukku avaripozhum nalla importance ulla characters aanu cheyyunnath. Kazhivundel aalukalk cinema fieldil pidichu nilkam, manju chechi abhinayikunnille... Athonnum ivar kaanunnille?
Congrats Rima... wonderful presentation
The downvotes only confirm her plight. Talk about speaking the truth, she has clearly upset many people by coming forward.
Good job rima..I don't understand why people are speaking against your talk. You are making complete sense. The fish fry example shows how sexism starts at home. I have seen this in many houses and I am shocked by the depth of the issue.
The negative comments and social bullying shows that literacy rate doesn't matter. People should have common sense to understand what you are trying to convey
Anjitha Mariya I have question to you? You said, you see this discrimination in many houses, but what about yours?, you haven’t had any discrimination at your home at all?, just curious to know.
India hates women. They are treated as second class citizen, and routinely there are honor killings of daughters by their brothers and fathers
I was shocked to learn that girls are sold, like animals, in 1/3 of the world, and it is completely normal in 1/3 of the world.
And America yells about human trafficking, but does nothing except yells.
But they invade so many countries and take over, but don't stop human trafficking.
Every woman in these countries is in danger
Thank you so much Rima, enlightening talk.
വസ്തു നിഷ്ഠമായ തുറന്നു പറച്ചിൽ. ഇത്രയും കാര്യങ്ങൾ എണ്ണി പറഞ്ഞു കേൾവിക്കാരെ അറിയിക്കുക എന്നത് ഇന്നിൻറെ ആവശ്യം ആണ്.. Proud of you Rima and congrats to Infosys for giving her the platform and an understanding hearing. As for those who don't understand what she is saying, ignore them and keep on marching ahead !👍👍👍
In fact there shouldn't be a girl captain and a boy captain. There should be just one captain and that could be a girl, boy or LGBT, whoever wins the election. Keralites should start seeing people as individuals and a person shouldn't be reminded of gender all the time. Rima's and WCC's voices will be heard more prominently as days go by. We can't stop them. Best wishes Rima!!
Don't try to judge people Kerala just hearing this worst speech it is just her OPINION.
It's the reality. Kerala is still regressive like the rest of the India. Whether the equality has attained or not, that's a question that needs to be asked to the victims of the inequality. Not the previliaged.
Not even as regressive as north indian villages,or even parts of TN,......
There being worse cases shouldn't be a reason for us to lay back. As a supposedly highly educated society, we are lagging behind in terms of protecting basic human rights. For 100% literacy, we lack ethics and logic to consider criticism. Sometimes, we are too damn stubborn for our own good.
Sasha, I guess the people in Kerala are intelligent enough not to give away the privileges of being treated special. Their stubbornness seems to be a careful strategy. Several men get what they want - tasty dishes, clean clothes, child care, old age care and what not, free of cost. Why would they give away the privilege? Similarly several women enjoy the luxury of being taken care, financially, lest they have to face the tough job market. Yes, it comes with a cost of slavery for women, yet atleast a good number of them secretly enjoy getting married at a young age and settle without facing the real challenges of outside world. The sufferers are those who sincerely wish to live and work shoulder to shoulder. Our education is not training us to reason logically. People don't pursue happiness; rather they settle for convenience.
Gender inequality is a world wide concern over many decades. I have experienced and many of you have experienced inequality based on gender this includes all the genders. Rima is speaking up against the gender inequality in her industry which is a huge influencer in our society. Ignorance is the best way to deny or not acknowledge issues, acceptance is the only way to change it. A kerlalite discussing a world wide concern in a TEDx platform is great 👍.
@@sherlyreji1273 see mallu analyst video...the title is purushanmare neridunna preshnam...
@@sherlyreji1273 becoz of men's dominance over women....😂😂.. don't talk rubbish....he is a dr....he has done a lot of research....so stop Bullshiting about evolutionary science....girls and boys should be equal...nothing more than that....ok...👍
@@sherlyreji1273 even though it hurts...they want it....👍....who likes to loose power on something...no one....
@@sherlyreji1273 get lost I have nothing to talk to you..fool...u go on with ur beliefs...
@@sherlyreji1273 Spoke my mind dude..Look at her last comment.When you provide them with concrete evidence,they run away.Patriarchy is the most delusional system that I have ever heard about.
It is a true fact that differences between men and women exist and should be respected.But these buffoons argue that there is no such difference and blame everything on the Patriarchy
Rima ji, valid points cogent arguement, neatly presented. You have now a fan in me..
Carry on the good work!!
സത്യം തുറന്നു പറയുന്നവർക്കാണ് സമൂഹത്തിൽ എന്നും കുറ്റപ്പെടുത്തൽ ഏറ്റുവാങ്ങേണ്ടി വന്നിട്ടുള്ളത്. If you have haters, it means you're doing something right lady. Hats off to you and strong women like you who are not afraid to question the existing system of injustice.
Hey! She is just so much resemblance to Priyanka Chopra even her voice Nd gesture of hands
The change maker💕💕💕
Thanku soo much Reema Kallingal for vocalising these concerns, A change is inevitable
well said! Full respect for the speech, Miss Kallingal!
Fish fry oru simple analogy anenn manasilakan ulla vivarom polum fans theetangalk illand poyallo. 😂
Paavada comments incoming in 3 2 1..
3 varshangalk sesm nkilm thankal maariyoo?
She looks at lot like Priyanka Chopra :)
Even I felt the same ;)
കൃത്യമായി അടയാളപ്പെടുത്തി.... ഇത്തരം ചർച്ചകൾ ഉണ്ടാവട്ടെ.. ലോകം കുറച്ചുകൂടി മെച്ചപ്പെട്ട ഒരിടമാകട്ടെ....
Happy to see u in this stage.
I also had the same experience and many things related to this is still continuing!!!
Rima you did a wonderful job, i really appreciate you. don't listen other people you do what is right and what you feel good. God bless you
Gender discrimination is taking place in most households in kerala, right from doing the dishes, eating privileges, doing the laundry and the list goes on and on. The sad fact is that most women, like her mother are not able to recognize the discrimination and just think it's normal. The mother and father in the family may be working, and the father comes back from work and take rest, while the mother cooks for the family and do other random chores in the household. This happens in at least 70 percent of the houses in kerala. And everyone consider this as normal🤷♀️.
Thank you rima for speaking up.
It's high time that we should sow the seeds against gender inequality and start speaking up for ourselves.
It's happens in all India
It's most probably because the father earns more and it's because of the father's income the family is sustained. The mother, in most households, works for an auxiliary income and predominantly for her and the children's petty expenses. There are studies which invariably prove that fathers who are heads of their families spend lion's share of their income for their wives and children whereas mothers who are heads of their families spend way more on themselves than for their family.
In other words, the mothers' job is most probably disposable whereas the same isn't the case for the fathers.
Thank you; we are with you to fight off the bullies.
Well said!!! 👍
Such an amazing talk❤️
well said Rima ! High time people should realize what they pratice is WRONG , may this open atleast few of them's eyes!!!
I never experienced an inequality in my house..but i am very much aware of the consequences and how it feels..because i came across the same from social..so the harassment is unbearable ..then how hard it will be if we face it from our own house..
Well said 👍
well said ..
Yes men always had and is having upper voice over women in everyhouse. And girls are taught from childhood to behave in that way. Most of the internet trolls here abusing rima have this idea deeply embedded into core of their mind as if its their right and are simply unwilling to accept the fact. I believe idea of feminism means moving towards that hypothetical family where man and woman washes and iron their own clothes, both of them earn for family, has equal role in kitchen and equal power in decision making with regard to family. Well said RIMA
Well said
@Arjun Jay These people doesn't understand the implication of such liberal ideas is almost impossible..
@Sakhi Kuttan Swayam ang padicho
well said.
Wow..Rima 👍👍 highly inspiring n sensitising the needs of changes in gender discrimination ❤️❤️
Well said..
Yes, It really starts from the households. For me the life changed after my marriage. As a person who wish to drive, my in laws (and even husband who is abroad) don't allow me to drive the car nor make me to sit in front seat. How many of you have noticed that the front seats are reserved for the males (if there are) and female can only sit there if there is no male travellers?
Men are in power 😂😂😂 family, society, politics everywhere
thank you seriously we needed this
Wow! You have spoken not just for the film industry, but for all women. May your dream of an equal society in terms of gender and hopefully equality in all areas as well become true!
A lady with strong thoughts and truely inspirational words..
You are an amazing personality Rima...
Blessed are your family and near ones to have such a wonderful person with them...
You are right, the hardships you are taking now will saw seeds for the upcoming generation.. Wish if it could benefit the ones who are standing for that as well...
Sincere wishes for all your efforts...
Excellent voice,thaughts are very fine
എന്ത് മൈര് കാച്ചി എന്ന്? നിൻ്റെ പൂറ്റിൽ ആണോ ഇത്?
Excellent Rima. Proud of you.
GREAT INSPIRING SPEECH......KEEP IT UP
I literally got goosebumps! It's amazing what you're doing with your platform!
Rima I can understand support👏
Riveting speech and cuts right through the topic. Stunned silence of the audience is proof enough.
*Applause*
She reminded me of Priyanka Chopra. 😀👍🏻
Vinu R yeaaaa
Swara bhaskar
Mee too
Me 2
Yes
PROUD OF YOU RIMA CHECHI 👏👏 GOD BLESS YOU
Now thats a women who doesn't understand how business in film industry work....
Lets take a new gen star in Kerala like Antony Pepe who has stared in 7-8 movies and Lets take Reema compared to Antony she has done more than 25 movies ....
Now I am planning on producing 2 movies with these 2 stars as lead roles Pepe in 1 movie and Reema in another.....
Stories of both movies are brilliant so who will bring me more money..... Reema or Pepe 100 percent it would be Pepe why because he has more fan base and he would be able to pull in more crowd......Star value of an actor and an actress are very important...
Lets take Nayantara if I cast Nayantara Obviously she will be paid more why because she can bring me more money with her fan base......
Comments are so intresting😍
For Rima, njangalk parayan pattathath paranjathin😊❤️👏🏼👏🏼
Really vry happy to see here. Bcoz u crossed the limitations and reached here.. its Great... Now many people recognizing U... some of them simply sitting and put the mark also to degrading themselves...Leave it...
Keep Going with full spirit... lam really a fan of U and ur Husband...
excellent Rima.. keep going..
This things are reverse in my house. my parents has been giving priority to my sister only
Amazing speech and every word is true. If you see a malayali female celebrity's social media page or video you get to know the culture of mallu men
Brilliant one Rima
,Good presentation informative go ahead👍
Good talk
Thank you Rima Kallingal! We all must reflect how women are treated in the society as the future world hinges on that basis. The key to progressive society is beyond the barriers of sexism, casetism, ageism and stereotypical roles/professions meted out for women that denies progress, prosperity and freedom of women.
you spoke well