'AITA For Telling My Wife To Get Over Her Infertility?' Reddit Stories

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  • Опубліковано 9 січ 2022
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  • @kirstencolwell1671
    @kirstencolwell1671 2 роки тому +5

    Love this style video! My husband was listening while I watched and he started talking about his perspective too.

  • @mariacisterna5330
    @mariacisterna5330 2 роки тому +3

    Hair and look on point! Please keep sharing as it's helping us be better people - thanks!

  • @janellenaim109
    @janellenaim109 2 роки тому

    I listened to this ep on your pod. So bloody good! Pls do another x

  • @leeninini
    @leeninini 8 місяців тому

    The husband didnt realize Taylor was honna be there

  • @hollid_makeupandreviews
    @hollid_makeupandreviews 2 роки тому +1

    This was awesome Emily! Much love girl!

  • @padmab1688
    @padmab1688 2 роки тому +1

    Dr friends,I am also having endometriosis please take fever nut,turmeric water,aswhaghanda, breathing exercises,sun bath, pomegranate juice for 48 days with accupuncture

  • @Alexis_Rose_
    @Alexis_Rose_ 2 роки тому +1

    Loved this video!

  • @in.a.rollercoaster9240
    @in.a.rollercoaster9240 2 роки тому +1

    Great video Emily! From the husband's perspective, I can say that taking care of your mental health (both of yourself, and your partner) is one of the most crucial things to survive this journey well. Let it be by practicing a mindful lifestyle, any kind of internal or external therapy, or even just talking with each other very open - do whatever you feel good it, but do it. That could make a big difference in how you experience this ride.

  • @beccabryant4199
    @beccabryant4199 Рік тому

    This is a great video! You are very detailed with your thoughts and are so sweet! You make a very good point in the beginning of the video! When you stated how you saw both sides of the one situation and you make a good point! I agree that people should have compassion for those struggling with fertility however there comes a point where having compassion can turn into walking on eggshells really quickly. It’s not realistic or fair for anyone no matter if they struggle with fertility or not to have to watch whatever they say or do. I know it sounds cold and harsh but the truth is our misfortunes although are not always our fault (not referring to infertility because infertility is never anyone’s fault) I’m saying in general; other people should not have to hide their joy just because other people are feeling justifiable pain. Yea, people should be more sensitive but being a little more sensitive doesn’t mean walking on eggshells. I would be very understandably hurt if I had to watch everything i did or said. If I myself was dealing with fertility issues I know it would sting to watch everyone around me become pregnant but I would never use my misfortune to make those around me silence their joy. That is not right either

  • @dawnmarieandjeff
    @dawnmarieandjeff 2 роки тому

    Hey! Always good to see you on UA-cam. Would you mind sharing what type of camera you're using?

  • @laurenm1369
    @laurenm1369 2 роки тому

    Ah I agree. Dealing with infertility myself- the ability to support others who are pregnant or have kids comes and goes in waves. Boundaries are key! But I couldn’t imagine invalidating someone else’s experience as a new mom or pregnancy just because I can’t 🤦🏻‍♀️ it’s not their fault that I can’t and they’re going through something of their own. It’s hard but finding boundaries and ways to deal when you’re the one going through infertility is so important. Also surrounding yourself with people who are supportive and aware is so helpful. Some of these asses who are mean about infertility, I can’t even imagine hearing or saying it! Woah just goes to show we need to raise more awareness 💕 my aunt told me to stop waiting to have kids- there’s never going to be a perfect time.

  • @MariaRamos-io2yk
    @MariaRamos-io2yk 2 роки тому

    I had 3 miscarriages we suffered from infertility and in the middle of us trying for our rainbow baby mi cousin who was pregnant loss her baby at 32 weeks. We found out in May 2019 we were pregnant and my cousin lost her baby in September. Do to the miscarriages we had we didn't tell no one till we were 16 weeks by then she had lost her baby. I was so afraid to post or tell them do to their lost. So I kept it to our self and didn't celebrate it like others do. My aunt and cousin were mad at me for not celebrating it and screaming it to the word because that was the best blessing in the world. I just couldn't as someone who suffered infertility and loss it was hard. But I didn't understand this till I was a part of that community. Wish we could all have the children we pray for. 🙏 and get to be mommies

  • @TexasbyStorm
    @TexasbyStorm 2 роки тому

    The husband who thinks his wife needs to get over her infertility. I really think this is way more multifaceted. She had an issue with Taylor long before she was pregnant, she clearly had more issues than just fertility. Very possible jealous of this younger girl with the tiny body... the husband's references toward his wife's infertility makes him an asshole. Because he makes her alone, sets her apart and suffering alone. That said, he was probably scared to bring up Taylor ahead of time, because she reacted negatively to Taylor for a long time. Honestly he probably should have just avoided going to this event. Because whether he told her ahead of time or she found out at the event, his wife was not going to handle it well. It's very hard to live with someone who's strong emotions about anything makes you walk on eggshells. Bottom line, both need counseling, together and her alone as well. He can learn to understand how to support her feelings better and she can learn to cope with these overwhelming emotions.
    The two sisters. The sister unable to have children clearly does not have a safe space to express herself or find comfort. My advice would be to find and surround yourself with people who love you, family or not, family can be relegated to the yearly Christmas card, if you feel like it. Make it a picture one, you can still fill your life with beautiful people, even children (adoption, partner with children...)if you want and they can watch this beautiful growth from afar. They can see that your worth and happiness doesn't depend on a relationship with them!

  • @biancarodriguez280
    @biancarodriguez280 2 роки тому +1

    Hi emily I just have to say that I admire you for everything together you are a very strong woman.. but i know that your time will come for you to be a mother soon… also I have a question different topic love your haircut can I know what is it called exactly the style?

    • @EmilyOrlandoMakeup
      @EmilyOrlandoMakeup  2 роки тому

      You’re so kind, thank you! When I get my hair cut, I usually asked for blunt cut ends (straight across, no point cutting) Currently I’ve been growing my natural hair out and haven’t had a real cut in months, but when I do go I’ll have her trim the ends straight across!

    • @biancarodriguez280
      @biancarodriguez280 2 роки тому

      Oh ok so you do you have layers?

    • @EmilyOrlandoMakeup
      @EmilyOrlandoMakeup  2 роки тому

      @@biancarodriguez280 none that are intentional 😂 just breakage from years of bleaching. I had her chop it off at chin length almost a year ago completely blunt cut and I’ve just been growing it out since

  • @revedere6917
    @revedere6917 2 роки тому +4

    Yea no personally I’m wit my op on the first story ppls issues aren’t everybody else’s problems and op was asked how she felt. If the friend felt uncomfortable she should’ve left from the beginning. It’s annoying having to tiptoe around ppl just cuz they’re sensitive. My advice grow up & deal with your issues.