The Cure for Surface Clutter (Declutter WITH ME!)

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  • @TheMinimalMom
    @TheMinimalMom  2 роки тому +32

    Thanks Helix for sponsoring! Go to helixsleep.com/minimalmom to get up to $200 off your mattress, plus two free pillows! We hope that you have a great weekend!!! Dawn (You can find the registration for the 5 Days to an Organized Christmas workshop in the description -- it's free!)

    • @peacewG
      @peacewG 2 роки тому +1

      Do Helix matresses work with adjustable bases? The next bed I own will used in conjunction with a flexible base because that is the ticket! Please advise because I am considering a Helix mattress. thx

    • @Vivienne130
      @Vivienne130 2 роки тому +3

      Is there a “Helix-sister-company” in Germany?

    • @maribelquesada5651
      @maribelquesada5651 2 роки тому +8

      I listened to a Tedtalk about clutter, the speaker said clutter is unmade decisions

    • @juliab628
      @juliab628 2 роки тому +2

      Fun fact number one I've learned.. any mattress that you sleep on away from your home will not feel as good not just because your mattress is the best one ever but because you're spine automatically gets used to what it has been sleeping on and there's a period of so many months that it will take for your back to adjust to any new or different type of mattress. Fun fact number two that I have learned.. someone once said be lazy and put things right away immediately instead of setting them down on a hotspot in this way you can say I'm lazy I put it away the first time so I didn't have to do it a second time meaning that you would do it a second time if you just tossed it somewhere the first time. Fun fact number 3.. if you buy the peanuts at Costco the Kirkland brand, it is so worth it because they are so good you will snack on them everyday plus that is very healthy! I would like to say this is my opinion but I really think that it could almost be close to a fact that it is worth it to pay for a Costco membership because when you need something such as good towels for your bathroom or really good quality veggie burgers or good quality clothing, it is very much a good deal there as long as you avoid the impulse buys which are not that hard to avoid because since a lot of things are in bulk you don't need that much of something anyway. But I've done the math and it really is worth it to buy say the paper towels at $18 for a package of 20 rolls or more that's cheaper than the dollar store and there's such better quality paper towels. Just wanted to share these tips in case whoever reads this could be blessed by it!

    • @jmljasmine
      @jmljasmine 2 роки тому +2

      Anyone know how helix holds up with someone weighing 250? Mattresses we've tried so far don't last long with that.

  • @upnorth316
    @upnorth316 2 роки тому +262

    I've been watching you for years! You asked what we did today. Kids were in school, husband at work and I had the day off. Instead of doing mass-organizing, as I did in years past, I rode my horse for several hours. Guilt free. Less stuff means more time with the horse, which then makes me a more present wife and mother. THAT is why we do minimalism!

    • @CindyClough
      @CindyClough 2 роки тому +18

      I love your response to having some free time!!

    • @DJSkullTaco
      @DJSkullTaco 2 роки тому +9

      I’m so envious of your few hours riding … I haven’t been riding in years and it’s that ‘thing’ that just frees my soul. Good for you!!!

    • @Anamarie157
      @Anamarie157 2 роки тому +4

      What a great idea..
      I love horses..

    • @snowymountainmama
      @snowymountainmama Рік тому +1

      This comment right here! Yes! Thank you for sharing! I want more time to ride my horses as well and at first I thought it a bit of a “selfish” reason for me to declutter, until I realized I’m spending hours a day “cleaning” around all of this clutter and would much rather spend that time with my family and my horses.
      Glad I’m not alone!! It’s amazing how some horsey time makes me a more present and productive wife and mother❤

  • @joannafoster3423
    @joannafoster3423 2 роки тому +553

    Just buried my 90 year old grandma that raised me. She was a lovely woman, but a hoarder. Even her tiny assisted living apartment was stuffed. Going through it, trashing most of it, even sentimental, it all hits home. It's stuff! All stuff is headed to a landfill. Keeping her stuff doesn't keep her. She's in my heart and mind forever. Thank you! In the past I would've brought most of it home. Now I can separate the stuff from the person. Life is so much bigger than stuff, and with less stuff we can greater live life!

    • @bridgetwoodward8031
      @bridgetwoodward8031 2 роки тому +9

      Well said!

    • @ericfran80
      @ericfran80 2 роки тому +25

      "All stuff is headed to a landfill." Ugh, gosh, so true. It puts it in perspective.

    • @eversosophi9653
      @eversosophi9653 2 роки тому +6

      Absolutely!!!

    • @ericksonsails
      @ericksonsails 2 роки тому +16

      Hang on to those precious memories not the stuff. God Bless!

    • @dreamweaver3761
      @dreamweaver3761 2 роки тому +19

      Sorry for your loss!!

  • @andrearoose5919
    @andrearoose5919 2 роки тому +94

    I love that you call these visits and that you affirm folks who may be lonely with "I love you". This is more than a self-help channel, this is a ministry🤟💗

    • @gwenvann7279
      @gwenvann7279 2 роки тому +16

      I agree. It is obvious in every video that Dawn really cares about each and every one of us. She wants us all to experience the most peace and calm as possible. ❤️❤️ you Dawn!

  • @rebekahdane5382
    @rebekahdane5382 2 роки тому +187

    My husband loves when I watch your videos, they always inspire me to get something done. He prides himself in the fact that he moved back to MI with everything he owned in the back of his Ford Ranger. Ten years married, 3 kids, and owning our own home later, he gets stressed by all the stuff. When I started decluttering, he was giddy. Now that I've gotten to the point where my inventory is easily managed, I am too. I still have areas I know I can improve, but it's only been 6 months and I have learned to give myself grace in the process!

    • @anxylum
      @anxylum 2 роки тому +2

      Moving with everything you own in your vehicle is definitely something to be proud of! My son and I moved halfway across the country this year with almost everything (we did have some boxes shipped) we owned in my Honda Civic. Hopefully the next move will be even less! Love it! ❤

    • @jyes23.
      @jyes23. 2 роки тому

      Way to go

    • @juliestone2086
      @juliestone2086 2 роки тому +1

      You just described my husband!! Even the Ford ranger truck.

    • @Meinvt
      @Meinvt Рік тому

      I am so jealous. My husband loves stuff. Clutter makes him feel secure (he thinks). This morning I decluttered some shampoo I bought years ago to wash sweaters and he questioned getting rid of it, we might need it someday.

  • @LisaGray1000
    @LisaGray1000 2 роки тому +501

    Been watching you for years before your channel got big but was pleased to learn something new on a recent video which I've been thinking about alot since then. It was to do with our limited time...we dont have time to wear all the clothes, sort all the photos etc. Its helping me get rid of another layer of things and not start new things / hobbies etc 😊

    • @TheMinimalMom
      @TheMinimalMom  2 роки тому +48

      I’m so glad to hear this Lisa!!! Thank you for being around since the beginning, it means more than you know!!! ❤️

    • @ivanajukicgloban6627
      @ivanajukicgloban6627 2 роки тому +10

      So true!

    • @rover790
      @rover790 2 роки тому +42

      That video really resonated with me too. I am retired, but am always busy and I have now decided to not take on any more projects / interests. I have really started to par down my inventory to make life simpler. I don't need any more "stuff". Thank you Dawn for your great videos and encouragement.

    • @flynn1a
      @flynn1a 2 роки тому +28

      But remember that as we age, studies show that the way to keep our memory strong is to be constantly taking on new mentally challenging activities, like new art skills or a new language or birdwatching (or maybe pickle ball?).

    • @DD-xf1yd
      @DD-xf1yd 2 роки тому +5

      🎯

  • @nancyhurt7145
    @nancyhurt7145 2 роки тому +171

    Celebrating 50 years of marriage today and wish I had kept house back then like I do now. Your videos have done so much for me over the years. Life is so peaceful and easy! No clutter and crap everywhere. It’s so worth it people. Just don’t wait!

    • @karenneiman856
      @karenneiman856 2 роки тому +9

      Happy Anniversary! 😀

    • @floridanativelh568
      @floridanativelh568 2 роки тому +7

      Happy happy anniversary Nancy ❤ such a wonderful milestone! Congratulations and thanks for the encouragement by posting!

    • @rhondakanayurak4936
      @rhondakanayurak4936 2 роки тому +6

      Happy Anniversary! 🤩💖

    • @amygrobelny7031
      @amygrobelny7031 2 роки тому +4

      Congratulations ❤ !

    • @chloeruegg2352
      @chloeruegg2352 2 роки тому +10

      Hi Nancy! We celebrated 50 years two months ago. Boy, do I wish we had Dawn back then. Would have saved so much time that was wasted on shopping, decorating, buying, worrying, etc. Now I have a houseful of ‘stuff’ that needs re-homing. But I started decluttering a year ago and with Dawn, Joshua Becker, and a few others, I’m actually feeling comfortable that I’ll get to my goals. Congrats on your 50th, also. 🎉

  • @courtneyclay8134
    @courtneyclay8134 2 роки тому +169

    Thanks for cleaning with me! I'm in a season of life where I don't have any friends, so I feel like you are a friend keeping me company! Thanks for keeping me on track!

    • @Deb_Creamer
      @Deb_Creamer 2 роки тому +30

      Those seasons are hard but so much inner growth!!! Enjoy the quiet

    • @ANADVENTUREWITHJESUS
      @ANADVENTUREWITHJESUS 2 роки тому +13

      🙏❤️

    • @denisea3465
      @denisea3465 2 роки тому +9

      I feel the same way, Courtney! Her blog is called "I think we could be friends" and it just gets me every time because it is exactly how I feel. 🌹

    • @christi3411
      @christi3411 2 роки тому +14

      I went through a long season of no close friends. Found an unexpected one only a mile a way. I am so thankful and even though she wouldn't judge, I keep my house cleaner knowing that she could drop by at any time.

    • @ionegrimm1203
      @ionegrimm1203 2 роки тому +9

      ❤❤

  • @courtnez
    @courtnez 2 роки тому +15

    I agree 100% that the longer I'm a minimalist, the more confident I am making decisions. I work in hospice care and see death regularly. It's a constant reminder that we need to be intentional about our time and priorities.

  • @angelacross2216
    @angelacross2216 2 роки тому +88

    Dawn, not only do you make the best videos, you have the best commenters. What a lovely group of, mostly, women, both grateful and generous with their complements and ideas.

    • @TheMinimalMom
      @TheMinimalMom  2 роки тому +11

      Seriously the best crew on the internet! Couldn’t agree more!!!! (And thank you, that means more than you know 🥰)

    • @jyes23.
      @jyes23. 2 роки тому +6

      Hey. That is a great one of a kind original comment. TY

  • @seemakhanlifevlogs4646
    @seemakhanlifevlogs4646 2 роки тому +29

    Hi Dawn, From London! I just love watching you and can relate to you so much. I’ve been watching you for a couple of years, was constantly decluttering but it always came back , just like weight! I always used to look at your minimal kitchen and think. Never impossible for me! Only recently in the last two months my life has changed and I’ve decluttered about 60% of my stuff. Freedom at last! I cannot believe how simple the concept was until:
    1) i went on holiday to new york with hand luggage only and my stress and bp was so low!
    2) i came across your videos about having less inventory! Duh how could i not have realised this sooner!!!
    3) the silent to do list. It was this video that clinched the deal
    I just love you and Diana and your spiritual approach. I am Muslim and can totally relate.
    Your family is so cute and amazing, you really are an amazing friend to all the thousands of people who watch you.
    I now am stress free, feel i can focus on my health and enjoy the game of ‘ lets see if can get rid of anything else’ and not miss it.
    Amazing. Just amazing. Thank you so much when you help us all to forgive our mistakes and give us permission to move on. Your honesty and humbleness is your greatest asset.
    Much love
    Seema from London xxx

    • @bellaluce7088
      @bellaluce7088 Рік тому +2

      @Seemakhanlifevlogs Aww, this lovely comment brought tears to my eyes! We are all connected.❤Thank you for sharing that reducing Inventory was key to stopping the clutter returning cycle for you. I need all the inspiration reinforcement I can get! ; - D Good wishes from Northern California! ❤

  • @cindyedmonds8878
    @cindyedmonds8878 2 роки тому +30

    I watched your videos long before I started to declutter my home. To tell you the truth it took a lot of watching for my mind to finally say "you need to do this!". My husband was all excited because if he had his way he'd give/trash everything we have! We've almost finished our enclosed garage, which is my office, all my crafts and over flow like your basement. That was a car load! We had a leak last week that had totally soaked ½ of my dining room carpet (it was leaking for a while as we just don't go in there often) which forced us to move furniture. Had to empty my entire hutch and doll curio. While the contents were all over the table and in other rooms I boxed up so much nice glass vases, etc that I really haven't used in 32 yrs of marriage. I did keep my china and antique plates that were in my family forever but ended up with another car load! My hubs pulled out of the driveway so fast afraid I'd go get something back out to keep! Now onto another area.

    • @j.m.7056
      @j.m.7056 2 роки тому +5

      Glad you have his help and support.

    • @beccismith4454
      @beccismith4454 Рік тому +2

      Congratulations and well done! How is it feeling now?

    • @cindyedmonds8878
      @cindyedmonds8878 Рік тому +2

      @Becki Smith good! I've slowed down a bit bc I was getting burned out with it bc this is hard for me. We took a long vacay last month and I'm telling myself to get back to it! I am doing the 5 minute straightening each morning so that's a good thing.

    • @cindyedmonds8878
      @cindyedmonds8878 Рік тому +1

      @Becki Smith better. Still, my mind hasn't caught up yet. Having a yard sale Saturday so that has pushed me to say "is this going to better my life?".I have my closet almost empty and 1 huge closet. I look at all the stuff that is ready to be sold and can't believer I am letting go of that much!

  • @maggievanfossan792
    @maggievanfossan792 2 роки тому +5

    I really appreciate that your videos are quick and fast. I follow some others that spend 10 minutes saying hello, adjusting their mics, drinking water, asking how everyone is doing, etc. I want to get going, that’s why I’m here.I know how to waste time, I’ve been doing that. I’m here for action. Well done! Also, I don’t how you manage everything and homeschool too!

  • @familierietrae487
    @familierietrae487 2 роки тому +30

    Hoop dat het goed vertaald word. Ik ben 30 jaar heb 4 kinderen 2 zoons en 2 dochters tussen de 8 en 2 jaar oud. Ik was echt totaal overweldigd door het huishouden en alles regelen, maar je heb me echt er doorheen gesleept. Heel dankbaar voor je inzet en inspiratie. Groetjes uit Nederland

    • @rdb4996
      @rdb4996 2 роки тому +6

      Hey, een Nederlands comment 😊
      Hebben we al een Dawn fan club in Nederland? Haha

  • @chalktalkwithshari4173
    @chalktalkwithshari4173 2 роки тому +140

    I worked on washing my dishes and clearing off the dining table while watching this. I’m a 1st grade teacher, and I have started the habit (this year) of finishing my lesson plans before I leave school on Friday. I even make any copies we will need the next week. I come home with such a feeling of accomplishment and peace of mind. Even if I don’t get home until 6:30, I know I have the whole weekend to do whatever I want. This new habit has encouraged me to use those random 15-30 minutes of “free time” to get something done for the upcoming week. Sometimes I’m out of there by 5:00 on Friday, and that’s doable.

    • @rg-mi5hh
      @rg-mi5hh 2 роки тому +8

      There's no sense in working all weekend long. You need time to get away from it and rest. They don't own you. Set boundaries and it is ok. You are prepared, and gave it your best all week for the kids. Forget it for a few hours.

    • @bethkroa1125
      @bethkroa1125 2 роки тому +15

      I was just having this conversation with another educator still here on a Friday. I like to walk away on Friday knowing there is not chaos on my desk. Similarly, by Sunday, I love to know my home (laundry, meal planning/prep) is in order as I head back into work for the week.

    • @tgayer1
      @tgayer1 2 роки тому +17

      I was A fourth grade teacher for 16 years. I actually did not mind staying late on Fridays sometimes because it was usually so quiet at school. And sometimes I even got my classroom items organized during that time, and it always felt so good to leave a clean classroom on Fridays.

    • @misa5941
      @misa5941 2 роки тому +1

      Amazing 🤩

    • @cherylwebb8340
      @cherylwebb8340 2 роки тому +5

      @@rg-mi5hh I was a first grade teacher and single mom once. You are right. That work wears heavy over the weekend.

  • @patriciarudolph2178
    @patriciarudolph2178 2 роки тому +11

    My darling lovely granddaughter brought over a dress that needed altering. So while I sewed I had her help me pick up my sewing room and sort projects out and get rid of some extra stuff so I could even sit in my chair and sew. I always have more umph when she is here to help out. She is my double. And she is learning from me about reducing inventory and now keeps her room cleaner than her siblings. And everybody is right. It feels so much like a visit.

  • @k3wy5
    @k3wy5 Рік тому +4

    “Clear the crap off the surfaces…” 🤣 I love you Dawn. I needed that right now as I’m putting my hair up to clean. 💕

  • @thebeachhousebasel
    @thebeachhousebasel Рік тому +2

    Just put out 1 magazine, 2 jars, 5 books, an egg slice cutter, a blanket, 1 towel, 1 face cloth, chocolate on a shelf in front of our house. It usually takes minutes or a few hours and all will be gone, taken by people who will enjoy the items and i created less clutter. Sohappy i found your channel❤

  • @llamasugar5478
    @llamasugar5478 2 роки тому +18

    I’m a recovering “acquirer” in a family of acquirers. This channel has been such a help; it’s a good thing you upload regularly, because I need the help/encouragement regularly!

  • @briannataylor9673
    @briannataylor9673 2 роки тому +7

    I am so thankful for you!! Back in April this year, my husband and I uprooted our family (3 cats, 2 kids) and made a huge change in our lives. We sold our large house and bought raw land and moved into a *tiny* travel trailer. We did this quickly. We saw a narrow door open for our family and because I had already been following your show and minimizing our stuff for months, I had the confidence that I could get rid of almost everything and go the extra mile to minimalism. We did keep a few large furniture items in a tiny storage unit but most everything from our 5 bed 3 bath house is gone. We live in 180 square feet now with plans of building something very, you guessed it, minimal! We got creative with space. We are constantly reevaluating the things that take up the small space we have. We spend so much time outside. We have more time as a family because cleaning and organizing doesn't take up all of our mental space. We are living our absolute best life!!!! This would not have been possible without your channel and all of the tips and knowledge you have shared. Sooooo very thankful to you!!! ❤️

  • @lynnneinast5716
    @lynnneinast5716 2 роки тому +49

    We’re moving into a brand new home so I’m decluttering and packing but with very clear intentions of only taking what I know we use regularly. You, Cas, and Dana’s voices are in my head as I go through everything and you’ve helped me so much to keep from feeling overwhelmed and making good decisions. Thank you!!! It’s our first move in 33 years so it’s a huge job.

    • @4Peace.
      @4Peace. Рік тому

      I hope you're enjoying your new clutter-free home!

  • @angielfrank1878
    @angielfrank1878 2 роки тому +37

    Paper clutter is the worst! Thank you for showing your cluttered table. It makes me feel better about my own dining room table! 😉

  • @jeanetteburt379
    @jeanetteburt379 2 роки тому +60

    You’ve inspired me so much, and even though I’ve gleaned great things for years from Flylady and Joshua Becker and others, so much has clicked into place this year from “hanging out” with you since I discovered you this past summer. I’ve dug deep the last few months and can’t believe how much brain room I’ve found since decluttering my spaces. I suddenly have the bandwidth to tackle the really hard things- six dusty memory boxes from the last 23 years of marriage and five kids, my recipes which were scattered in several different places, photos, homeschooling books from 15 years ago… it felt impossible 3 months ago and now I’m joyfully going through it all an hour at a time. When I sit on the sidelines of my son’s sport practices, I take a tote bag full of recipes or memory box letters or photos, a pair of scissors, and a roll of scotch tape. It’s incredible how much I’ve been able to get done in those 60-90 min sections of time. The garage is the next project… oh boy. Pray for me! But I feel ready and equipped to handle it! I just want to say thanks to you and your whole gang for empowering us to be in control of our homes, time, and lives instead of feeling helplessly controlled by them. Blessings to you!

    • @maevelavender6303
      @maevelavender6303 2 роки тому +3

      Hear, hear!

    • @AmythefirstA
      @AmythefirstA 2 роки тому +5

      Brilliant of you to bring decluttering work along to soccer practice!

    • @beccismith4454
      @beccismith4454 Рік тому +1

      I love it!
      And, how was your garage? :-)

    • @bellaluce7088
      @bellaluce7088 Рік тому

      @@AmythefirstA I totally agree! Thank you for this great tip, Jeanette Burt!
      "When I sit on the sidelines of my son’s sport practices, I take a tote bag full of recipes or memory box letters or photos, a pair of scissors, and a roll of scotch tape. It’s incredible how much I’ve been able to get done in those 60-90 min sections of time."

  • @susan5661
    @susan5661 2 роки тому +43

    Your guidance has been so helpful. My home inventory is decreasing, and my habits are getting better. Love you Dawn!

  • @reneepark6711
    @reneepark6711 6 місяців тому +1

    I li listen to you while I’m decluttering myself. I love your voice. I love your laugh. It is like listening to a friend when I’m talking to her on the telephone decluttering thank you for putting out great videos. You are so appreciated. Keep up the good work.

  • @pjreads5014
    @pjreads5014 Рік тому +1

    I have been tackling a hoarder basement we've acquired over the last 4 decades and the deaths of three parents and one great-aunt. It includes lots of family heirlooms as well as tons of junk. I have used your videos to help me through it. We are actually making lots of progress and I'm feeling hopeful that we will actually have a usable space again for family and friends. We celebrate every square foot of space freed! Thank you for your inspiring videos!

  • @christined2495
    @christined2495 2 роки тому +59

    I love to declutter, and all is neat and decluttered in my home yet I’m here for you Dawn, love to watch your videos it keeps me motivated

  • @victoriaelisapeta
    @victoriaelisapeta 2 роки тому +46

    As soon as you posted this, I got up to do the decluttering I’ve been putting off all week!😌

  • @laurahancock6802
    @laurahancock6802 2 роки тому +10

    Yes please make a homeschooling video! Even just a day in the life or discussion of how your family makes it work for you! You're such a light with minimalism and have been so helpful in my start to decluttering our house; I know you'd do the same for homeschooling. We're contemplating starting that journey with our kids. Your videos are so motivational and I have them playing in the background when I'm cleaning up or decluttering. Even my husband says your videos are great to listen to and enjoys the positivity you bring!

  • @SpeakTruthBeKind
    @SpeakTruthBeKind 2 роки тому +6

    “These things get built up in our head to be scarier than they actually are.” You nailed it with that comment and setting a timer! 👍🏻Thank you for taking the time to encourage others. You and your family are a delight❣️ Enjoying your channel. God bless you all. 💞

  • @shelleyreynolds5810
    @shelleyreynolds5810 2 роки тому +20

    You're very inspiring! I just went thru my downstairs and grabbed a ton of stuff to donate, took it to Goodwill, and I can't even remember what I took! And the room is so nice now!! Thank you so much!

  • @honeybacon2874
    @honeybacon2874 2 роки тому +3

    Military spouse here. Just wanted to say that I came across your channel a couple of years ago and we just moved all the way across the country. It was a lot easier to move because we had minimalized our home a lot! Now I'm enjoying a bigger house but I'm comfortable with empty spaces and less things. Thanks for all you do!

  • @maureenmiller5349
    @maureenmiller5349 2 роки тому +6

    Love you too Dawn. You are so so right! I am looking at clutter entirely different than I used to, it is easier to identify trash, let go of clothing that I don’t wear and sort through messes that collect on flat surfaces. When I leave a room I look around to see if there is something that needs to be put in it’s home. I love love love that there are empty spaces in drawers and lots of room in the closet because I realize that I basically wear a variation of the same thing almost every day.
    Thank you for taking us on your declutter journey as it has changed how I feel about my home and it’s so easy to clean.

  • @melaniehancock2210
    @melaniehancock2210 2 роки тому +2

    I love the phrase “has a home” when we think about the things around my house. I talk about it with my kids all the time when we are cleaning and they just get it! “Put it away” doesn’t hit the same way as “put this in its home” or “hey kids this isn’t where this thing lives!” :) so thanks for that!

  • @kathleenmorgen2028
    @kathleenmorgen2028 Рік тому

    Dawn- I just wanted to say how much you have inspired me to rethink about the stuff in my house!! I really like the idea of thinking of my stuff as inventory-when I worked as a preschool director I thought of everything in the school as inventory. The snack food, the art supplies, the cleaning supplies, all that stuff. I would regularly go through the items and ask the same questions that you talked about on the video. Applying those same principles to my home is really making a difference and I find my inventory going down rapidly. It’s taken a couple of months, but my house just feels better with less stuff in it!! I’ve been declutteribg my house for years, but it keeps finding its way back in!! I m much more watchful and find more things are going out than coming in!! I have a ways to go but having your videos as inspiration I’m getting more and more done each day!! Thanks again!! Kathleen

  • @leighduncan
    @leighduncan Рік тому +1

    I just watched this video and love that you addressed HOW to assign something a home. Thinking through that is the point where I most often get stuck and surface clutter starts to build up. I know that to many people this step doesn’t require explanation - it is a self-contained, single step. But for me it is a mysterious process. It’s not always so simple as, “Milk goes in the refrigerator.”

  • @NdnUrbanCat
    @NdnUrbanCat 2 роки тому +14

    Silly Girl. I'm all caught up, but I still watch you. You're so encouraging!

  • @patrecereed6963
    @patrecereed6963 2 роки тому +6

    A good friend recommended this video of yours to me. I have to say, I just love how positive and upbeat you are! I personally have some cluttered flat surfaces that have gotten way out of control and I keep dreading having to tidy them back up. This video actually does help me feel like it can be accomplished more easily than I have been thinking it could be. Now, if I can just get myself in the habit of keeping up with it once I do get it done. For me, it is the receipts, paperwork, mail, and such that tends to collect the most. I'm going to do my best to follow your lead. Thank you for this encouraging video!

  • @kayleenwest
    @kayleenwest Рік тому +1

    I’ve certainly found your videos helpful. Allowing viewers to get into your head while sorting your own clutter and organising is contagious. I just did the 5 minute challenge (over and over 😂) and cleaned out my jewellery and makeup drawers. I have about a third of what was there now and surprisingly got rid of a lot of what little valuable things I had. It felt great! It was an area done not that long ago but I “re-set” the areas and glad I did.

  • @angierichardson8231
    @angierichardson8231 2 роки тому +3

    Hi Dawn. As a veteran/retired homeschool mom of three (all three from kindergarten to graduation) - I didn’t feel qualified to speak on homeschooling until I had one child that graduated and successfully got into college. Every child is so different and their learning styles are too - there just isn’t a “one size fits all” curriculum or schedule to follow each year. Flexibility is the key to successful homeschooling in my opinion 😊
    Also homeschooling was more about relationships and character building than academics for me. With adult children I am so thankful for every second we were able to spend together- what they learned academically now pales in comparison to the closeness we share ❤

  • @lindyclark24
    @lindyclark24 2 роки тому +27

    Habit V’s inventory levels has been a huge sticking point for me! I kept focusing on the clutter and would be endlessly frustrated by the mess… but it didn’t take long to tidy, so I know it’s not an inventory issue but a habit. Thank you for the encouragement!

  • @327lwalton
    @327lwalton 2 роки тому +7

    I learned in one of your videos about putting items, like returns, in my car as a reminder to actually get it done. I also put things like library books that I’ve finished in my car as well. It’s been working really well!

  • @barbkandel777
    @barbkandel777 2 роки тому +6

    In June 2021 you did a video about getting rid of Flat Surfaces. I was so moved by this idea that we got rid of a dresser, desk, bookcase, end table, and hutch. Flat Surfaces really do Collect Clutter!!! It is so much less cleaning for me now and our home is so tidy! It all gets easier, the more we do it! Great video, Dawn!

    • @marty9011
      @marty9011 2 роки тому +2

      I have one particular flat surface which I decided has to stay empty. And it is. I won't put anything on it & it is so easy to dust. Clear surfaces are so calming.

    • @CindyClough
      @CindyClough 2 роки тому

      AMEN!!

  • @sandravanvliet8478
    @sandravanvliet8478 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you, Dawn. I stumbled upon your videos about 3-4 weeks ago. You, Dana K White, and Cas from ClutterBug… but mostly you (and Diana) have been playing through my headset since. I have probably heard 30 hours worth of video (or maybe more! Lol!) during this time while you all have motivated me to begin tackling stuff and projects. I had no idea of my problem all these years… I’m soon too be 61, married 42 years to my best friend, my problem has been too much stuff!
    I’ve been doing happy dances in my spirit when I’ve actually recognized that some of your tips had come to me by simply living in trial and error in the past, but so much has been simplified in my head as to how much, much more can be simplified and how much relief I can offer my overburdened proverbial shoulders if I keep on keeping on in this journey!
    I’ve come to a time of transitioning in this stage of my life. The chaos of the world being so out of line with Gods best for us has taken a toll on so many in my own personal world…so obviously replicated through the whole world for the first time ever in history. I believe God led me to you all… I believe I’ll be able to be way more effective for my family and community in the not too distant future if I keep plugging away at this. We are here for “such a time as this” … not by accident, but by Gods design. And I pray I can be that “cup of cool water” for a neighbor in more ways than I previously had been. I regret lost opportunities because of my ignorance of what my stuff has been robbing me of, but I’m sooo grateful to not be too old to learn! I thank God for all of you who now encourage me in this … for now, you are that cup of cool water to me. Thank you.
    I pray God continues to “bless your socks off”! (Something I tend to pray for and say to my dearest friends.) Hugs from another virtual friend! 🤗💖

  • @johannacollins4721
    @johannacollins4721 2 роки тому +5

    I deckuttered my linen closet today. So many unused candles I just donated and blankets. So many kid blankets! Lol. Thank you for all of your tips in your videos!!! Your positively is so great and love your energy!!! 😊

  • @marystrenke3050
    @marystrenke3050 2 роки тому +1

    I needed this! My best friend lives next door and has chronic pain- full-time RN.I am disabled but live minimally and love to help her as allowed. I brought hangers yesterday, next time I can hang up her laundry. She's not ready to go through the clothes but hanging them up will clean u one area. Clearing off kitchen table is another day. Small steps🥰

  • @jenareedy7517
    @jenareedy7517 2 роки тому +5

    I worked on my always covered kitchen counter while you talked. Actually made some progress. Thanks!

  • @liannekool8508
    @liannekool8508 2 роки тому +1

    Hi, I am watching you for a few weeks now. And I am decluttering for a month now. I feel so much beter now I begun. Thank you so much for your info. I live in Holland and our house is very very small comparring to yours. And it’s very cluttered.
    I have a long way to go. But I am so happy that people like you are doing this. THANK YOU!! ❤

  • @heathersmeather
    @heathersmeather 2 роки тому +9

    🍂🍁This seems like our first fall-like, fall weekend here in Utah. It’s church conference weekend and we can do it virtually. So, it’s nice to just stay home with the family, make some soup or chili, bake a little…and finally declutter my hall closet. Ugh. I’ve been avoiding this for awhile. It’s a mess of appliances, extra baking supplies, paper/gift bag, crockpots…who knows what all is in there. 😆

  • @tanyapinnock2347
    @tanyapinnock2347 2 роки тому +1

    Our home was flooded recently and due to a reduced inventory and a tidy house what we lost was minimal compared to what it could have been. It was also easy for the kids to pack and for us to find important t documents before we left. Now I am in repair mode and reducing inventory even more!

  • @rebeccasuraci7666
    @rebeccasuraci7666 2 роки тому +1

    Crotons are lovely plants so vibrant and happy

  • @deannadickerson9505
    @deannadickerson9505 2 роки тому +1

    1982. Wow I graduated high school that year so that makes me 58. Very true time goes by fast. Love your videos.

  • @Nina.177
    @Nina.177 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you for sharing the realizations you have made after living this out for years now. We are so grateful.

  • @kimberlycary657
    @kimberlycary657 2 роки тому +1

    Watching your videos has become almost a daily thing for me. I am so grateful for your channel. We have drastically reduced the inventory for our dishes in our kitchen. The other day I was at my end and I went to grab a bowl and we didn't have any left because the sink had piled up with me feeling so behind. In that moment I felt RELIEF. It was such a strange feeling like, it's over. The kitchen cannot get any worse and it's still not that bad. That gave me the motivation I needed to load the dishwasher and pull myself up to keep moving for the day. As a mom of two under two this was a gamechanger for our family.

  • @glendaw5221
    @glendaw5221 2 роки тому +5

    What a great visit with you! I’ve so greatly reduced my inventory that even a flat surface full of crap doesn’t intimidate me any more. Everything has a home and I’m nearly at my threshold. Just a bit more decluttering and then one in one out. The pumpkin looks so cute.

  • @arlenekeith6235
    @arlenekeith6235 2 роки тому +9

    While listening to you I was able to clean off my kitchen counter. It wasn't overwhelming because I have learned a lot of skills watching you for a couple of years now. I'm dreading winter also but ours in MO isn't anything like MN ! 😘

  • @sarahspilburg2340
    @sarahspilburg2340 2 роки тому +14

    I was just about to tackle this in my home! This video came out at the perfect time!Thank you for continuing to putting out amazing content. You are a helping so many people!!!❤

  • @ruthbarmore5211
    @ruthbarmore5211 4 місяці тому

    Dawn, thanks for sharing and all you do! I have been decluttering for about a month now and what a difference it has made! I no longer keep excess "just in case." And less clutter has made cleaning so much easier and quicker. I have a lot more to do but I'm getting there. Please keep making these videos. They are such a source of inspiration. Thank you!

  • @jessicabrown6943
    @jessicabrown6943 2 роки тому +2

    When I first started decluttering everything seemed like “hard stuff” because so many things didn’t have a place, or I had so many multiples that it wouldn’t fit in its place. Now that I have decluttered to the point everything has a place and I have the container concept in order, most everything is “easy” things to put away. I LOVE IT! So easy to tidy. Now I do a nightly tidy every night and it makes it so much easier.

  • @katiesoderling3596
    @katiesoderling3596 2 роки тому +5

    This reminds me of something Dawn said recently (I think she was quoting someone else. She said something like, motivation isn’t something that we just have or comes to us. We have to create it. Some people have just learned to create it and others haven’t. We have to do small things to create motivation to do the big things. Or sometimes we need a “body double” with us. Someone to just hang out with us while we tackle a job or project. Has to be someone supportive and positive 😊

    • @editprofile5211
      @editprofile5211 2 роки тому

      This is a video from Dawn the minimal mom.. lol

    • @katiesoderling3596
      @katiesoderling3596 2 роки тому

      @@editprofile5211 Oh wow… mom brain. I swear I was replying to another channel when I wrote this! 🤪🤣 Ok I edited it to make sense.

    • @editprofile5211
      @editprofile5211 2 роки тому +1

      We've all been there...lol. Have a great day!

  • @Sparkles6681
    @Sparkles6681 2 роки тому +4

    Haha! There was a time I would have stopped at the plant and peanuts, delivered to my mom and spent the rest of the day hanging out with her - still not a bad plan but with Dawns techniques I stay on track now and can still have the time to spend with my mom. Thanks Dawn and Happy Birthday! Now go fill out that Twin Survey! 😊

  • @williesmith4720
    @williesmith4720 2 роки тому +2

    No matter what you address, I love your smile, chuckles and your spirit. You always make my day! God bless!

  • @leanneford6836
    @leanneford6836 2 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the reminder about the time will tell tray.

  • @alanad2339
    @alanad2339 2 роки тому

    This weekend we went to a pumpkin patch to get decorative pumpkins, took a whole VAN load to donate to the bibles for missions store and bought a couple new hallowe’en inflatables because I haven’t bought any ever! I have only ever inherited it and have decluttered so much out that now I know how much I can keep and where the gaps are. I have never really loved decorating in the past but now that things feel more manageable and my kids are 3 and 1 I feel like I want to start new traditions with them as they grow but also I feel like my brain has the space to do that because I’m not worried I’m duplicating something or that I won’t have room to store it.
    Seriously thank you Dawn. I found you through Natalie Bennett and between the two of you I feel so much more confident and comfortable in my home ❤

  • @mable90shaynne
    @mable90shaynne Рік тому

    You probably aren't even doing this intentionally but your channel is very adhd friendly and I have to thank you for that!❤

  • @pamelabrown4941
    @pamelabrown4941 2 роки тому +13

    Never to early to start planning for Christmas. I am super excited about the workshop. Love to listen to both of you.

  • @jillgott6567
    @jillgott6567 2 роки тому +3

    What sticks out to me from your videos is value. What do I Value ? I ask myself that now more than ever at 63 and yes am slowly decuttering / not replacing every item as it breaks, wears out. My toaster died months ago and I have not replaced it. I find I do not miss toasted items as much as I thought I would.

  • @gw22
    @gw22 2 роки тому

    I'm and only child and I always wanted siblings. I've met so many people who have no real relationship with their brothers and sisters. Your relationship with Diana is exactly what I imagined I missed. God Bless you both....

  • @SauerPatchGardening
    @SauerPatchGardening 2 роки тому +3

    You are so realistic. You say what you mean, and mean what you say. Really like your videos and look forward to all of them. .

  • @lizzabbott
    @lizzabbott 2 роки тому +4

    Time sure does speed up ! Where did September go ? Yepp ! In my early 60s here ! Happy Birthday again to you & Diana ! So glad you are with s here on Earth ! You make a huuuge difference ! Love, Liz

  • @lisarenemiller
    @lisarenemiller 2 роки тому

    This video had perfect timing! I love that you’re always talking to us like you’re talking to a friend also 🥰

  • @CatLady16
    @CatLady16 Рік тому

    I've been watching your videos and am getting excited about decluttering! I just returned from 12 days with my folks so it's time to clean the house and work on decluttering the dining room table (flat surface!!!) and organizing 3 closets! Thank you for being you, being relatable and for inspiring me to become a minimalist! 🥰💗💞

  • @nanzilla3000
    @nanzilla3000 2 роки тому +1

    Hey Miss Dawn, I’m new here! I’ve been checking out your “getting started” videos. Your descriptions of how life was before you started simplifying and how as moms we are constantly managing objects, I swear I said to my husband not long ago “I just don’t want to spend all my time moving objects around.” Lol! Everything I have seen on your channel so far is resonating DEEPLY. I started getting rid of stuff about 6 months ago but in the last few days I came across your videos and I feel absolutely excited to dive in even deeper and see what I can do. I hope I can get my wonderful husband on board, but at least with Christmas sales starting this week I’ve asked him if we can not do a big giant toy blowout this year because the kiddos don’t even have enough time to play with everything they already have. Actually I asked if we could spend that money instead on experiences so we’ll see how that goes! Thank you so much for your videos, you are so pleasant and down-to-earth, and I am grateful to be reinspired in this decluttering project and to have practical steps I can take as a busy mom with little kids. Thank you so much!

  • @tammyi363
    @tammyi363 2 роки тому

    We bought a Helix for our rental Cottage and it’s worked out well. Everyone who has stayed there has had good things to say about it. We could not find the receipt (to use on taxes) and I contacted them and they were so helpful and responded quickly. Great company and customer service.

  • @jodiej321
    @jodiej321 2 роки тому

    "I don't wanna have to manage any that stuff." This. Through the time I've been watching your videos and decluttering, this has helped a bunch. A lot of my family that I am close to like free stuff and cheap stuff, and they like to give away stuff too. It was really hard at first to tell them no, but now I rarely even question myself. I don't want to manage extra stuff. I want my house to "stay clean" (or be easier to clean.) I don't even mind when they get annoyed with me, "You don't ever take anything from me." I have all I need, and most of my wants are met. Life is good. Thanks for another great video. I was able to get my desk cleared off, while watching and taking a "break." I'm am just cleaning up this weekend and hanging out at home. Possibly planting some garlic!! :D

  • @cynthiafed
    @cynthiafed 2 роки тому +4

    Your thought process regarding this is so me. I needed to see and hear this. Thank you so very much!

  • @hellomariagrasya
    @hellomariagrasya 2 роки тому

    My house is super full of surface cluttering! Most of those stuff are my mom's. She told me that it's easier to get those stuff where you can see them easily. This video really help!

  • @maryellendillon4469
    @maryellendillon4469 2 роки тому +4

    This weekend is time to declutter, clean the apartment and unpack from vacation. I’m definitely thankful for fall temperatures getting to New England. Thanks as always for everything.

  • @joycemitchell2092
    @joycemitchell2092 2 роки тому +5

    I loved this “catch up” video. And all the tips you give. Great reminders to me about flat surfaces. Thanks Dawn!

  • @mnmooselover
    @mnmooselover 2 роки тому

    We spent Friday and today outside clearing more woods and scrub trees....perfect weather in MN to get things ready for winter....I pulled out my Fall totes...yes, 2! I LOVE fall so much and want to shop from what I have, then the stuff I don't pull out or use, get's given away. I have a large home and love to sprinkle each season a bit around...It makes my heart so happy....

  • @ledraslavik7868
    @ledraslavik7868 2 роки тому +4

    You are SUCH an inspiration that I got up and started decluttering and missed the last 15 minutes of your video. (I went back and watched it again! LOL). And I got a lot done!

    • @j.m.7056
      @j.m.7056 2 роки тому

      I did that too!!!

  • @katherinerichardson1767
    @katherinerichardson1767 2 роки тому +1

    Good point! Sometimes I have a mental block about a task because I think it will take FOREVER, but when I get down to it, it is just a few minutes of my time.

  • @Paula-nk7py
    @Paula-nk7py 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you for being such an encourager! I feel inspired anytime I watch your videos. You have a beautiful gift of teaching & spurring women on to make their homes calm places for their families to hang their hats. 👒 Blessings!

  • @anaschulz8084
    @anaschulz8084 2 роки тому

    Hi Dawn and belated happy birthday for you both. My strategy to declutter is to do it while watching your videos, whether they are decluttering ones or not. This morning as I watched this one, I decluttered and cleaned the surfaces in my bedroom. By the time you were done, I was done! The timer is key, especially for people like me who struggle with health issues that limit what you can do or how long you can do it. We all know your sense time is relative to what task you are doing. If you are having fun, it passes by fast and the opposite is true for the mundane, difficult tasks. Setting a timer keeps me from overdoing too much at one time but gives the satisfaction of completing something, no matter how small. Add to that watching a video of yours which always comes with something inspirational makes the time fly and not feel overwhelming. Thank you for all you do for your YT family. Many blessings from Florida ❤

  • @CindyClough
    @CindyClough 2 роки тому +6

    Our kitchen table is the first surface right inside our garage door - and it's too easy to just lay things on it for "just a minute".... Thank you for the encouragement to just set a timer & put like with like. I really just don't want to bring anything else in the house!! Or maybe I'll get rid of the table! 🤪😂🤣

  • @hanado1335
    @hanado1335 2 роки тому +6

    This was exactly what’s I needed! I’ve had so much improvement on decluttering as I’ve been watching your channel. Thank you Dawn!

  • @gsolinger2441
    @gsolinger2441 2 роки тому

    LOOOOOOOOOOOONG over due THANK YOU!!! so.... a couple of years ago I realized it was taking me SO long to clean (and keep it clean) because we had TOO much stuff... I knew this and knew I needed someone to light a fire under me to get rid of stuff (every time I came close I would make excuses to keep stuff :/ - while revamping the kitchen and mudroom (5 day job - ugh) I went to YT for organizational vids to help inspire me and found YOU sister!! Anywho, we (lol I binged on your vids that 5 days and your comment (paraphrasing) "if you haven't used it, know you aren't gonna use it, doesn't matter who gave it to you or where it came from, or how much it cost - DONATE it so someone else can use it!!" YES THIS!!! Completely revamped my kitchen (I am back in love with my cabinets and counter space and NEVER missed anything I donated - on cleaning days, I put you on and we "hang out" lol and clean and keep things clutter free :) You helped me the other day (you were unaware lol) purge some items from my closet and reorganize as it is now time to find a home for all the fall and winter stuff we need for the upcoming season - well due to THIS vid right here, I owe you ANOTHER THANK YOU sis... Hubs and I purchased a mattress 2 years ago but were really unhappy about 6 months in :( we wake up sore in the mornings (which is not cool or fun since we wake up at 4:30am to hit the gym together.. we go to bed sore from working out, we wake up a whole other sore from the mattress) I honesty had never remembered you talking about the mattress before this vid... BUT... this day my ears perked up... shared the link with hubs and we have taken the quiz and getting a new mattress!!! WOOP WOOP - clutter free and organized house - feel like I am cleaning with a friend and NOW a good nights sleep is on the way :) :) :) THANK YOU for all you do :)

  • @sadiedom
    @sadiedom 10 місяців тому

    It's amazing how much you can do in 5 minutes. I'm so using the black trash bag idea 💡. Already took many bags to the thrift store and a couple in the trash.

  • @curlykiki8
    @curlykiki8 2 роки тому

    my best friends of over 25 years are twins. we lost one of them very unexpectedly after they turned 39. such a blessing for you two to celebrate forty. praise God.

  • @pamelamann7933
    @pamelamann7933 2 роки тому

    I work from home a few days a week as I was listening to you I realize how I had let my desk become a catch all. So while you talked I 🧼 cleaned. Thank you.

  • @maria_w311
    @maria_w311 2 роки тому +2

    Hi Dawn 👋
    I will be cleaning up the garden and preparing new beds for next year. I don't want to think about winter either! But I am excited to think about next year's garden. 🤓

  • @jessicasommerfeld9038
    @jessicasommerfeld9038 2 роки тому +3

    This weekend is going to be done hurricane cleanup and finishing unpacking our home! We moved to FL 1 week ago and your videos were crucial in helping us purge like crazy before we moved!

  • @eydiehostetler9123
    @eydiehostetler9123 2 роки тому +1

    Dawn, can you Dana or Cas Please, please, please address the topic of creating homes for things that don’t have a home?This is the most difficult part of decluttering, finding space in an organized manner.

  • @hp-cs7mx
    @hp-cs7mx 2 роки тому +1

    When we had a business and children, if I did not get Christmas sorted by Thanksgiving, all was lost. I get a lot of Christmas organised in my brain in early January !!! Now I’m retired, October is prep time for Christmas and I do cards, some baking, and gifts. Habit!

  • @Sentimentalist0923
    @Sentimentalist0923 2 роки тому +1

    Getting started is the hardest part for me with decluttering any area. But afterwards, I feel so relieved!! Thank you for motivating us:)

  • @BudgetingbyJenn
    @BudgetingbyJenn 2 роки тому +2

    I have always wanted to live in our house with just the things we use. I took all of September and decluttered, scanned, tossed, organized our photos. I went from 5 sentimental bins to 2. I am glad it's almost done, since it was hidden clutter. My Christmas shopping is almost done. I usually finish by Mid October. I then order Christmas card and mail then out Dec 1st. I mail gifts out on that day too. By Dec 1st, I'm relaxed and just planning out the baking to do for gifts. I dont stress over the holidays any more. Not worth the migraines i would get.

  • @eusuntanca
    @eusuntanca Рік тому

    I watch you from uk for a good while. And I just adore your videos❤. I cannot watch another minimalist contents apart from you and the clutter bug. ❤love us both🎉

  • @LorreneRomanic
    @LorreneRomanic 2 роки тому +1

    It's so true that if we just leave out paperwork to "remember" isn't enough! I have to add it to my to-do list and/or put a reminder in my phone, or I will forget to do it!

  • @teriseeley6286
    @teriseeley6286 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Dawn for all your advice in tackling household projects as well as problem areas. I am retired and in my seventies and am trying to reorganize things and downsize. This last video about surface clutter was helpful. The idea of reducing flat surfaces or "extra" chairs never would have occurred to me mostly because they are places to put "things" for the "interim". Now I am revisiting those areas! Also, I have started new habits with certain things like recycling catalogs when I receive them instead of always saving them. The "time will tell basket" is a good idea too! Thanks for all your creative ideas and positive, cheerful outlook! I'm looking forward to your Christmas preparation workshop too! ☺️ 🎄

  • @hilaryyoung1485
    @hilaryyoung1485 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much Dawn. I’m a single mom of 2. I grew up with “clean” hoarders. Clutter bugs for sure. I grew up with chaos, but swore not to raise my daughters with the clutter. I’m so blessed to have found your UA-cam channel. Our life is so peaceful now. I’ve started a new addiction of reading the Bible. I couldn’t have done that with all of the “clutter” in my life. Our family thanks you.
    Side note…you and Tom are adorable. You guys crack me up.