HOW to be a GREAT HUSBAND!

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  • @mroeplz
    @mroeplz 8 місяців тому +56

    Crying silently wishing my ex was the type to watch this video. Thank you for being a good man and inspiring more men to be good. It’s healing to remember there are good men

    • @Majinmox
      @Majinmox 7 місяців тому

      Crying out loud because I’m scared I’ve waited to long to find this.

    • @Latviaitalia
      @Latviaitalia 6 місяців тому

      Coming from experience, and working through issues current- if he’s “not the type” to watch a video that you encourage, he’s no worth. It’s free & simple. You deserve better.

    • @JesusSavedMe34
      @JesusSavedMe34 6 місяців тому

      May God Bless you

  • @martarico186
    @martarico186 7 місяців тому +21

    I'm a single older woman and this was edifying to my life beyond words. Thank you brother!! Blessings to you and your wife and the ministry God has given you through his humbleness and wisdom

  • @noandno8707
    @noandno8707 3 місяці тому +5

    Man, I stayed from my faith the last couple years, and what he is say is exactly right. All of it. Now I’m 3 months in a divorce and I’ve been praying for a miracle to happen to keep my family together. What an excellent video. Everyone needs to hear this, married or not.

  • @RhyzelBarela
    @RhyzelBarela Рік тому +150

    Im 17, almot turning 18. i proposed almost a year ago and have to wait to get married when i turn 18. And i believe the Lord is talking to me to become a better Man. Everything that I know I must act on it, I give my all to Jesus. And will be the best Husband for Her. And have the Lord be the center of our marriage!

    • @Bot
      @Bot Рік тому +13

      Amen that’s great brother

    • @FlyboyAR15
      @FlyboyAR15 Рік тому +10

      Follow the instructions of the bible and you will be a great husband. First select a like-minded bible believing Godly woman. Bible says to not be unequally yoked. This is necessary for sucess.

    • @hamnarao5158
      @hamnarao5158 Рік тому +2

      almost*

    • @RhyzelBarela
      @RhyzelBarela Рік тому

      @@hamnarao5158 yeah I'm sorry

    • @Sementha.
      @Sementha. Рік тому +5

      I think you way to young. Wait abit more. The adult world isn't so simple

  • @Birds190
    @Birds190 Рік тому +71

    As a wife, I approve this message.

  • @stevencalandra9431
    @stevencalandra9431 Рік тому +10

    I'm working overtime tonight but can't wait to see this video at home afterwards. I'm marrying my fiancée in 12 days at our church.

  • @christopher8235
    @christopher8235 Рік тому +14

    Thank you so Much Daniel. This has been an eye opener. I thank God I have found you and your preaching!. May God bless you!

  • @JoeyPreston-kr2xd
    @JoeyPreston-kr2xd 8 місяців тому +24

    Thank you for this! I am the selfish one and I try to make her feel like it’s her fault and wonder why I don’t get any love or attention or respect definitely make me see that it’s me and not her!😥 I hope I can fix it

    • @FreeRiderFMX
      @FreeRiderFMX 4 місяці тому +2

      Everyone can become better

    • @rockkstah2550
      @rockkstah2550 3 місяці тому

      You can go before GOD JESUS and truly repent, work out your relationship with GOD JESUS and don’t worry bout her.
      You’re the only one that will stand before GOD JESUS when that time comes.

  • @bee2025
    @bee2025 6 місяців тому +13

    I didn't know this wholesome content existed. Blessed to find it. ❤❤❤

  • @ksl4688
    @ksl4688 Рік тому +57

    Being a good husband is simple but not easy...

  • @Ed-vi8lj
    @Ed-vi8lj 4 місяці тому +3

    This was excellent. I want to listen again every so often to remind me of where my priorities should be

  • @misty.2892
    @misty.2892 Рік тому +6

    Thank you Daniel. Your videos help me to put God first and are daily reminders I need and value. God Bless you and your family. I am so thankful God led me to your channel.

  • @TheMerFree
    @TheMerFree 6 місяців тому +2

    Daniel and Nikita’s marriage is so encouraging to me. Love God first, and love one another.

  • @RanmaPchan
    @RanmaPchan Рік тому +24

    Thanks so much DLM Men’s Lifestyle for this. I have been married for about 11 months. And we are about to be in our one year anniversary. I truly want my Lord to help me become the best husband like Daniel said. It’s truly a blessing. ❤

  • @RamonEspitia-vn4xn
    @RamonEspitia-vn4xn 5 місяців тому +6

    I am glad I saw your video, I don't know if it is too late to save my marriage, I have not been a good husband I think, because I have not loved and appreciated my wife the way God wants me to do so. We always argue, we always fight, nothing seems to work out for us, we are not growing in any way, we have not been able to have a child, we are currently separated and about to completely go different ways, even though we love each other. But I see clearly now, we have been away from God and nothing can be good if you don't have God in your life, marriage, family and relationships.

  • @dickersonart
    @dickersonart 5 місяців тому +5

    Thank you for this. All the time women hear how they need to serve and respect their husbands but no one addresses that men need to lead in those things. Expecting s woman to serve you hand and foot like a king simply because you are a man in the marriage is not love but control and selfish.

  • @Damiculture
    @Damiculture 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you, buddy 💎
    Longtime viewer. From today, Loyal supporter.

  • @ciscothekid1111
    @ciscothekid1111 8 місяців тому +6

    We as men have to make a choice. My wife or friends?
    Actions = reactions 🔥

  • @IgnoretheButter
    @IgnoretheButter 11 місяців тому +6

    I've been on autopilot for too long. Complacency is real. Everyone tells themselves that they'll never get complacent, but it's easy to do. So I'm trying to learn from it now

  • @dr.g.samuelsimpsy2336
    @dr.g.samuelsimpsy2336 Рік тому +3

    God spoke to me through in the right moment my friend. You are just amazing. Thank you keep rocking.

  • @geoffrey1967
    @geoffrey1967 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for making this video, I see now where I've been going wrong in my marriage and the way forward, God bless your ministry.

  • @LavenderBecky
    @LavenderBecky 9 місяців тому +1

    I love the teachings

  • @mik20241
    @mik20241 8 місяців тому +2

    You are soooo correct. It’s the same analogy as: You have to BE a friend to HAVE a friend.

  • @popdkem13
    @popdkem13 6 місяців тому +1

    Hey bro, I got so much respect for you. Thank you. You're going to save my marriage and help me to be a better husband and father. Thank you so much!

  • @markmurillo3687
    @markmurillo3687 Місяць тому

    This is the best I'm crying , I need to change before is to late.

  • @Lucas-jy7cv
    @Lucas-jy7cv Рік тому +28

    This comes at a time when I'm struggling to be that husband

    • @MrTonynator99
      @MrTonynator99 8 місяців тому +7

      Bro ur not alone. I'm to struggling to be the husband my wife needs. But with the lord we got this. 🙏 we can do this. God loves you no matter what he's here to help.

    • @Anthxniii
      @Anthxniii 4 місяці тому +1

      My wife left me. Idk if i have a purpose. like what’s the point in watching this now you know what I mean

    • @jonimzari1687
      @jonimzari1687 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@Anthxniii I pray for you brother, we wake up and can become better.

  • @alexfasce2524
    @alexfasce2524 5 днів тому

    The biggest thing I’ve realised by getting married young is i was still growing and changing, I didn’t know my true self and as well my wife was still changing so adapting to our new personalities is a challenge but if you want to make it work you must.

  • @johnpaul4597
    @johnpaul4597 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for this message. Yes, when you get married, you, your wife, and God are now one United very much like the 3 fold cord mentioned in scripture. A 3 fold cord is very hard to separate.

  • @jamierowse7810
    @jamierowse7810 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for this excellent content! I pray daily for my husband to have a male Christian friend and mentor in his life and I will also pray that my husband somehow finds this video!

  • @eyeofthetiger7596
    @eyeofthetiger7596 Рік тому +4

    Me&My wife To Be Are One bcs we always Put Yeshua First.

  • @lifexplorer7
    @lifexplorer7 Рік тому +21

    Great video! 😇😇😇
    Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, 26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish.a 28 In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. 😇

  • @noahbrewster8263
    @noahbrewster8263 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you! This was articulated in a way I’ve never heard before.

  • @KansmelterElectrical
    @KansmelterElectrical 3 місяці тому

    I need to watch this at least once a week just so it can sink in me and just as a way to keep myself accountable. Legend says REPEATITION is the mother of RETENTION. Zambia Approves this message, YAH Bless you Brother

  • @antonioschatzakis4376
    @antonioschatzakis4376 11 місяців тому +1

    Amazing words to live by as a hubby, thank you Daniel.

    • @Ed-vi8lj
      @Ed-vi8lj 10 місяців тому

      Pride, selfishness, sacrifice three things I need to work on. Thank you

  • @Sphereal
    @Sphereal Рік тому +7

    It'd be awesome if Daniel made a video on how to find a good wife in the current day and age.

    • @usagitsukihiro
      @usagitsukihiro 9 місяців тому +2

      You can get it by praying about it. And when you find one, pray and ask God. Don't let the flesh and your own eyes answer you. Ask God, and he will answer you.

    • @jehoshualewis2525
      @jehoshualewis2525 7 місяців тому

      He can't do that because pandering only works with one gender

  • @innocentwilliamopio6848
    @innocentwilliamopio6848 Рік тому +1

    Got a lot of task ahead of me. thank you for the message.

  • @Hope9944.
    @Hope9944. Рік тому +2

    Thank you Daniel. ..Its a great advice for us who planning for a family in future. ..🙏

  • @davidegiaquinto9213
    @davidegiaquinto9213 5 місяців тому +1

    What a great video. Thank your Brother . :)

  • @laughinghawk8522
    @laughinghawk8522 Рік тому +3

    Certain social media platforms have allowed for the lovers of self to thrive and grow.

  • @christiaan4music
    @christiaan4music Місяць тому

    There are a lot of great people out there that will reciprocate behavior like you said. Believing all people will do that is naive at best, damaging at worst.
    There are plenty of people in the world who will treat you badly no matter how you treat them, including marriage partners.

  • @Renegen1
    @Renegen1 5 днів тому

    Agape Love may just be basic love that we all need to practice.

  • @arokiappajames5128
    @arokiappajames5128 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for opening my eyes tks again

  • @mrsterlinj8789
    @mrsterlinj8789 3 місяці тому

    I needed to hear this so I can be a better husband to my wife.

  • @woodzgang_1k759
    @woodzgang_1k759 4 місяці тому +1

    Here trying to get it together

  • @TreeswithFlowers323
    @TreeswithFlowers323 5 місяців тому +1

    This is a beautiful blessing ❤

  • @andrehaave
    @andrehaave Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much man! You are a great inspiration! I will remember what you said and always put God first and follow his advices. 😊

  • @joseantoniocoimbra7920
    @joseantoniocoimbra7920 Рік тому

    Thank you so much!!! God bless you and your family, Daniel!!!

  • @YeshuaSaves726
    @YeshuaSaves726 Рік тому +3

    So in short,love her as you love yourself but put God first and all you need will be added to you.

  • @rudyrudolf81
    @rudyrudolf81 2 місяці тому

    Thanks you Jesus and Thank you Daniel for creating this video. This has been an eye opener for me personally. I can't thank God and you enough. I will put to action the things you suggested to produce good fruit. God bless you and your family abundantly. ❤

  • @AJE-im6rr
    @AJE-im6rr Рік тому

    Thank you for this video Daniel from Liverpool, England.

  • @fasiledesguzara8506
    @fasiledesguzara8506 3 місяці тому

    God bless you my heavenly brother. Amen.

  • @OsberthUrapo
    @OsberthUrapo Рік тому

    Thankyou DLM lifestyle Im blessed with this message

  • @yoyoflair
    @yoyoflair 6 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for this message, God bless you.

  • @Ed-vi8lj
    @Ed-vi8lj 10 місяців тому

    Great video. Point 3 is so meaningful to me

  • @jonathanhetrick1686
    @jonathanhetrick1686 11 місяців тому

    I've been married for 18 years and I still got a lot to learn

  • @ekaj559
    @ekaj559 2 місяці тому

    Honestly probably the best thing I have heard in a while! 100% on point , I’ve been married for 18 years now as it’s gotten so hard to the point I don’t want to be here! I do so much and I am mentally and physically exhausted and I still have to keep on going! As a man it’s hard because we only know what we are taught and most of the time it’s trial and error but after hearing this 😊 time for change and putting God first will definitely make it better 😊 thanks and God bless

    • @DLMMensLifestyle
      @DLMMensLifestyle  2 місяці тому

      God bless you brother!
      Put Him first and walk in the Spirit

  • @dermusyazama8927
    @dermusyazama8927 11 місяців тому

    I thank God for this message. I was almost giving up.

  • @cheslinscheepers2547
    @cheslinscheepers2547 6 місяців тому +1

    Thanks this is excellent advice.

  • @Hankey2024
    @Hankey2024 2 місяці тому

    Oooooooooh on point !!! Thank you !!!

  • @antoniuscatur7782
    @antoniuscatur7782 3 місяці тому

    Thank you very much for the message...i need it...and i will try..

  • @lindaflores4398
    @lindaflores4398 2 місяці тому +1

    My husband is a complete opposite! Thats why i hate my life being in this situation.

  • @fridgetestimonies3004
    @fridgetestimonies3004 Рік тому +1

    Amen thank you Holy Spirit, Thank you Daniel

  • @maxim7395
    @maxim7395 9 місяців тому

    So good. Thank you for reminding us all.

  • @NocheineStunde
    @NocheineStunde Рік тому +20

    I pray for that husband because I want to be that wife. I'm so alone, the Lord is my hope. It's not good for man to be alone, and I feel it....

  • @machariajoseph1197
    @machariajoseph1197 Рік тому +4

    Daniel, how do you have peace of mind in all situations?

    • @josueetcom
      @josueetcom Рік тому +1

      The peace you're referring to surpasses understanding. But Philippians 4:6-7 tells us how to get it: "do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

  • @Billion-D80
    @Billion-D80 8 місяців тому +2

    By God's grace I am married to the best man in the world 🌎 hes desires for God is more than his desires for me , he loves me and yes we have dew ups and downs However God comes first so we seek God at our worst and it works out perfectly well ♥️ may God bless my darling husband. May God be with us always 🙏

  • @mirandaoverton7834
    @mirandaoverton7834 9 місяців тому +1

    i am a wife i approve this message too

  • @RayUnravels
    @RayUnravels 4 місяці тому

    I really needed this!

  • @johnsierra4249
    @johnsierra4249 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this information. But how do we disciple our children ? I know you said with love but how exactly is this done ?

  • @raquelaraneta-g8f
    @raquelaraneta-g8f Рік тому

    thank you for advice being a good husband is not easy......

  • @arakelmikaelian2542
    @arakelmikaelian2542 4 місяці тому +3

    Wow this kicked me in the teeth. I have work to do.

  • @joshpemberton8128
    @joshpemberton8128 3 місяці тому

    I haven't been a great husband of late and haven't realised that i am actively losing her and destroying our marriage. I feel i never had a male role model until i was 18 and i always crawl in my head.....and I've not been what i once was.
    I'm not religious per say but this video is helpful

  • @mrs.marshmallow2160
    @mrs.marshmallow2160 Рік тому +2

    Could Nikita do a video on how to be a better wife?

  • @tasiofilósofo
    @tasiofilósofo 5 місяців тому

    Thanks for this video very inspiring it helps me

  • @ciprianobersamina3641
    @ciprianobersamina3641 7 місяців тому

    thank you for this good advice brother in Christ

  • @OfficialMilz619
    @OfficialMilz619 Рік тому

    I ask prayer for my marriage. Thank you! 🙏

  • @generationjc2438
    @generationjc2438 10 місяців тому +3

    Love ur content man ❤✊

  • @therebuiltbeast2919
    @therebuiltbeast2919 2 місяці тому

    Ok so there are some really good points, such as acting first, but find out what her love langue’s are (there are 5 love languages). This way you can serve her needs in a manner that she will notice as love.
    Then you can communicate to her what your love languages are and she can serve you how you want to be treated.
    For instance, she might like acts of service whereas you might like quality time. This way you both will have your needs met in a very fulfilling manner.
    Lead by example men, a good man will always find a good woman. Because you attract what you are.

  • @FranceFrancisco-rb7sf
    @FranceFrancisco-rb7sf 7 місяців тому

    Amen amen and amen thank you my brother now im a changed partner to my soulmate ❤️❤️

  • @yunwesilasnshanji2046
    @yunwesilasnshanji2046 Місяць тому

    Amazing content... Biblical 💯

  • @samyin6915
    @samyin6915 Рік тому

    Shalom God bless u.from Madagaskara.

  • @Jasmine-qv9gq
    @Jasmine-qv9gq 26 днів тому

    This is so true ❤

  • @moneyne22
    @moneyne22 3 місяці тому

    Amen, My brother.

  • @LittleKing769
    @LittleKing769 Рік тому

    God blessed you brother

  • @noahbrewster8263
    @noahbrewster8263 4 місяці тому +2

    Thank you!!

  • @khollahmauwe7319
    @khollahmauwe7319 Рік тому

    I want more of this share of God's direction... concerning children 💔. Thanks. That's true. Marriage problem is the source and course of children growing up to be violent in life 💔💔😭

  • @keliray9028
    @keliray9028 Рік тому

    U right 👍 God bless you always

  • @traviss2850
    @traviss2850 2 місяці тому +1

    Pray for my wife, she's being tempted by Satan through a friend and doesnt see it. Friend has only been around for 3 months and convinced her to divorce.

  • @danzbeard
    @danzbeard Рік тому

    Awesome beard, awesome husband.

  • @antoniordasilva3177
    @antoniordasilva3177 Рік тому

    How do you know about marriage if you don't have children??

  • @robertcarter6887
    @robertcarter6887 7 місяців тому

    I did at one time but i prefer piece over crazy

  • @ms_blessing_17
    @ms_blessing_17 Рік тому

    Hi Daniel
    Please do bible study videos

  • @stevebonar8496
    @stevebonar8496 Рік тому

    Absolute 💯 TRUTH

  • @JamesBrodski
    @JamesBrodski 4 місяці тому

    Thank you sir!

  • @D_DubzUnraveled
    @D_DubzUnraveled Рік тому +1

    Thank you 🙏

  • @BADDMIXX
    @BADDMIXX Рік тому

    Amen Brother Daniel

  • @Isaiah68Actual
    @Isaiah68Actual Рік тому

    So good brogher!

  • @toddparry6568
    @toddparry6568 5 днів тому

    HOW do i do this consistently?

  • @freeborn7
    @freeborn7 Рік тому

    Great video!

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 Рік тому

    Father God, thank you for loving us first in order we can love you, thank you for setting the example how to love! I therefore bind myself and my god-ordained spouse to live in good understanding towards one another while binding to hell every lack.of good understanding between me and my god-ordained spouse, binding to hell every unequal yoke and common share with anyone with whom I do not and can not live in good understanding with, in accordance with this word and 1 peter 3:7, john 13:12-17, mark 10:7-9, philippians 2:3-4, romans 8:28, matthew 6:31-32, matthew 6:33, proverbs 3:5-6, ephesians 5:25, john 14:27, colossians 3:19, ephesians 5:22, ephesians 4:32, galatians 5:22-23, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah, glory to God ❤!