@@beefaye6861 I have no idea! I recently had to had a conversation with my ex-husband letting him know that ‘we are not friends’. I can’t be his friend because I do not trust him. I can however communicate with him effectively concerning our young adult sons and that’s it It is extremely difficult to set non-negotiable boundaries with someone you spent most of your life with - we were married 25 years and dated for 7 prior to marriage I swallowed my pride and initiated the conversation with him because it my spirit was vexed and my boys were suffering as a result of our ongoing discord post divorce. Nobody but Jesus!
@@beefaye6861or family. Sorry, you're not getting my personal matters, can't drop your kids off to play, I'm probably not coming to the next holiday event.
Really???!!!!¡????? How do you know? I know he will often pay the guests' flights, hotel and other accommodations. I didn't know he had to pay then more as well. But that makes sense, especially since he got so much out of Chapman, from two 1 hour+ long interviews, a car interview, etc. @Missbusybee2010
@@Missbusybee2010 It's a big achievement to have him on Dear Future Wifey, regardless of whether he was paid or not. Gary Chapman does not go on just any podcast, especially given his age and profile. His team will not sign him up for just any opportunity, even if the producers are willing to pay top dollar. The fact that his team chose this show is a testament to the great and reputable work that Laterras has been doing so consistently for years now. Let's learn to commend and congratulate people when they do well.
Dear Future Wifey. I am a long time listener but this is my first response. ALL of your shows have been a BLESSING to my Life ❤ Dr. Chapman is a God sent to help us to acknowledge our significant other 😊 THANK YOU 🙏🏾
1.Expressing regret. Expressing regret by simply saying "I'm sorry." Follow that by acknowledging what you did wrong/why you're sorry. 2. Accepting responsibility. While it is easier to say 'You are right' than 'I am wrong,' the latter carries more weight and is best. Put your ego aside, take responsibly for your actions and admit that not only you were wrong, why you were wrong. 3. Make restitution. Ask the person how you can make it right. This is especially so when the infraction involves the lost of something- whether it be time or something else of monetary value. 4. Genuinely repenting. Make specific plans to change and make things better. 5. Requesting forgiveness. Just saying you're sorry and going through the above process doesn't mean that you're forgiven. You have to ask for it. Some people are better than others at just forgiving you without you having to ask for it. But some are not. Others still need you to ask for it in order for them to forgive. So, ask. Things to note here are that, both your timing and delivery needs to be on point. Avoid the word BUT in your entire apology. In fact, I'd go even further and say AVOID the word BUT in ALL manners of speech, except for when you're intentionally using it. Saying but after you've said something, negates your previous statement. These don't need to go in any kind of order. Unlike the 5 love languages, I personally believe you should do all 5 to make the person you're apologizing to, whole. For example: I'm sorry I forgot to pack the kids' lunch this morning. How about I order their lunch and have it delivered to their school today. From now on, I pack the lunches the night before so that I don't have to scramble in the mornings. Would that be OK or do you have a better suggestion for how I should proceed? Please forgive me. Follow through with making the lunches.
I will take this kind of Bible teaching all day over all these “prophetess and prophets with a word.” This is how you learn to really live as a Christian in your daily life. Beautiful and needed interview. ❤
I already miss the old intro! I loved singing the song and reciting everything everyone said…”When I made my vows, I told God…” Oh, that was just me?? Carry on….😂😂😂
That was not just you! I did the same thing too! LOL 😂 Some of us had mentioned that last week; and Laterras said that UA-cam kept giving him issues over the song being copyrighted even though he's the one who both wrote it and owns it. Hopefully that'll clear up soon and he can put it as the background to these new clips.
Love stimulates love. If you want your partner, friend, etc to love you better, first start by loving them and expressing love to them, in their love primary language(s).
I done all the things he was talking about. However, relationship don't work when someone tells you they don't love you and continues to step outside of marriage then refuses counseling. No abuse is acceptable. I learned through Jesus to forgive and move on. Years later I stand single, healed and whole.
You can't beat a dead horse. Sometimes the best thing you can do for both your mental health and for that relationship, is to let them go. I think Dr. Chapman touched on this in this episode. You shouldn't tolerate abuse, and if the person isn't where they need to be, sometimes you just have to release them to your higher power and let that be the resolution for you and your situation. @shannonwhite6591
After I finish reading the Bible in its entirety in December. I will read the Chapman series. I knew nothing about the 5 apology languages. This is awesome.
I found out about the Apology language when I went to Dr. Chapman's website last week to retake the Love language test. This is very interesting, I don't think I have ever said at the end of an apology will you forgive me!!
We’ve been blessed with back to back episodes with this incredible man!?! Whew! 🤯 He’s truly a gem. Thank you for these AWESOME episodes. These were everything! 🔥
Fifteen minutes in and I realize this is one of the most powerful conversations that need to be heard by all. I can’t even express how powerful this really is. More powerful, in MY opinion, than the love languages. People will love and learn to love with more acceptance than apologizing and saying I’m sorry. There’s that block and even the best kindest people can find speaking the words so difficult. MAN THIS IS GOOD AND IM SHARING IT WITH EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!! 33:18
Laterras with the help of the Lord you just keep showing up. I have to be honest it was a pleasant surprise to see him back on again. Looking forward to this timely discussion. Maybe soon I can become a member of Patreon, so I can be a fly on the wall and hear y’all’s car conversation. It’s all good. 😂 Amen & Amen 🙏🏽
The 5 steps in the process of an apology, which is what I'd call how one apologizes instead of apology languages, is something we learn at a very young age as children in my family/culture; and in just about every class I've taken on leadership. One thing we were taught at a very young age, is to carry on in a way so that you don't ever have to apologize. Meaning, be mindful of how you're carrying on so that you don't have to do anything to people that would warrant you apologizing. That being said though, some of us have interpreted that saying as we shouldn't apologize even when we're not right and we know we're not right. These types of conversations will really help a lot of people.
Having listened to Mr. Chapman has helped to soften my heart and mind. I am moved to love differently and apologize with more intent. God is so wonderful for His everlasting love for us and we can only try to be as pure as the image He created us in. In all things, we must seek Him and the pieces will come together. Faith without works is dead, so we must remain vigilant and be faithful warriors for God. 💙😇
I heard about the apology languages years ago while I was going through a heartbreak season but forgot about it. In 2022, I enrolled in LIT 101 masterclass that Laterras created. I did the assessment and identiFound my apology language. The assessment taught me there were multiple ways to apologize which means each apology style is legitimate. Not knowing that six months afterward, God would divinely orchestrate a meeting with the man who was the subject of my heartbreak. He apologized and although he did not apologize the way i wanted him to it was a legitimate apology. A heavy load was lifted. It took ten years for this to happen because I was ready! Thanks LT and Dr. Chapman.
I think if someone really forgives, it's not that they won't remember, but it's how the person remembers, are you remembering with bitterness/anger....or is it a memory you can talk about neutrally, without becoming upset....
I really enjoyed this episode...so many things I did NOT KNOW about men being told real men don't apologize 😮. To know thar GOD has been in the midst of how I raised my children, mainly my son about apologizing. I would never tell my children to apologize and would tell the other party why I didn't tell them to apologize. They could ONLY APOLOGIZE if they were sincere. I chose to raise my Sunshinesdifferentlyt from what I saw. So this episode showed that,YUP GOD WAS RAISING THEM while I still was in my trauma. But thank God for this episode. I wish more men could hear this.❤
“There has to be a response to an apology. As Christians we have the response to forgive. Give them credit now that we know the 5 apology languages” - Dr. Chapman I choose to have healthy relationships. I choose to be whole and complete. I choose to forgive and extend the same grace to others that I need extended to me. With God ALL things are possible 🙌🏾
This was such a good interview. I learned a lot and will definitely be sharing this with family and friends. Thank you for having Dr. Chapman on Laterras. This is why I love your podcast. You are constantly helping us to evolve while stretching us in areas that we don’t realize that we need to be stretched in. What a blessing!
I love you Pastor Chapman, I love the five love language and apology is bigggg. I'm going to work on practicing them and teach my kids how to apologize the correct way. I need to invest in your books❤. Thanks so much for all the wisdoms u shared wit us. May God continue to bless you,your family and ministry 👏💯❤️🔥🙌👏
Wow!! What an amazing episode. Literally the reason I broke up with the love of my life because he refused to apologize after really hurting me. He was so shocked when I broke up with him. It was the hardest thing to do but I never took him back because for me that was a dealbreaker .
Dear Laterras! Shout out to you and your family from New Orleans, Louisiana!! Each time I listen to your podcast I always say that this is the best podcast ever! I’m so proud of your work and success. You and Dr. Chapman seemed like old friends sharing healing nuggets to us. Thanks again ❤🙏🏾
So if person that has offended me has already died, they will never confess their sin. What Gary said regarding releasing angry (negative feelings toward person) to God is STILL the definition of FORGIVENESS.
Let me just start off by saying CONGRATULATIONS! Your interviews and interviewees are on another level, from an entirely different dimension. 👏🏾Exceptional! Do you hear me? Dr. Gary Chapman, man of God, every word that proceeds from your mouth is golden. Valuable. Like our Heavenly Father’s, it will not return void. I pray many are blessed by your teachings. You exude confidence, strength, and the very knowledge you requested in prayer. No lack, no shortage, no shortcomings, and certainly nothing wasted. May you see the manifestation of all your prayers. Thank you for introducing the website and encouraging viewers to take the quiz. I’m excited for my first attempt. I might need more. (lol) The biblical analogy of the parable in Luke 15, specifically verses 11-32 about the Prodigal Son, illustrates the nature of God's forgiveness and the joy found in repentance and reconciliation. Genius! I love when information, data, or facts are backed with biblical teachings and not necessarily used outside its original context. #scripture I was going to write out all five as I certainly took notes, but it just so happens @alicethegreet beat me to the punch, and what an EXCELLENT job she did. If you're seeking, the website is fivelovelanguages.com. Now, some of my favorite, possibly paraphrased phrases: forgiveness does not remove the consequence(s), we are NEVER better for doing wrong, forgiveness does not restore trust, and don’t make that decision by yourself. I can’t wait to get my hands on the book, "Things I Wish I Knew Before I Got Married." Hmmm..🤔 Laterras, if I’m being completely honest, I’m not simply fan-crushing, although, I know, I lay the compliments on thick, but, in short, your life’s mission blows my mind. I can’t wait to see the full evolution of Kingdom Royale. Definitely going to the website to check out the continual development of that. May God bless your hands so that everything you find yourself to do, you do it well. To your future wife, I hope she is as prepared as you are. Yolanda Adams' "I'm Gonna Be Ready," since you have visibly done the groundwork, laid the foundation, and the framework for the house is going up. #integralstructure May she get in, where she fits in, and make it HOME. What table? God has given you a buffet, smorgasbord, and so much more. #feast 🙏🏾Blessings BIG BIG L💞VE - 🌺InspirationByB, a branch and affiliate of ⚜️HairByB (Facebook Profiles: Brenda Brown-Rodrigues and Hair By B)
Aren't you sweet! I'd copied and pasted it from last week's comments section. Someone had mentioned it and then I went and did some research; and I really feel like it brought some much needed closure to my life. I'd shared that experience then and so won't share it here again. For a very long time before last week, memories of that situation would pop up and I've always wondered what happened and now I know. I thought I'd help the next person who read that comment and put them out so that the next person can just see it and not have to search for it, and can spend that time on something else instead. Next time I'm in IG, I'll be sure to check out your pageand support you as much as I can. I'm looking forward to an update on Kingdom Royale too! 🙂
This was another inspiring episode with Dr. Chapman. I didn't know about his book on the Apology Language & I will be incorporating this in my life. I too had to learn to ask God to release the person who has cause me so much pain without an apology for their actions towards me. Forgiveness doesn't mean you forget and that's OK. Forgive and release the pain and release that person to GOD. As a mom to our son I teach him the importance of apologizing. I say son it's not about being right or wrong, it's about being accountable for your actions and recognizing how your actions have impacted someone else. Thank you Laterras. I love this episode and this season is going to be AMAZING! God bless you!
I always enjoy Dr. Chapman when I hear him speak and his books, just ordered more for my reading collection. I grew up hearing him on Focus on the Family as a guest. Another great similar Christian Psychologist is Dr. Gary Smalley. They are very similar and he too would appear on Focus on the Family.
Loved the 5 love languages episode. Purchased the book and have learned so much. Using it to understand how to love people better and one day my husband 💜
Dr Gary Chapman such a general in the Kingdom.. Laterras you are so intentional with every season.. Another amazing episode.. We must truly repent to receive God’s forgiveness.. Trust is rebuilt overtime with changed behavior..Learning I will take the apology language quiz.. 🙏🏾👏🏾💚
Thank God for Gary Chapman!! This is a game changer! I’ve already shared this with several married couples I know who is needed exactly this in their marriage. Thank you Laterras for having him!! 💃🏽💃🏽🔥🔥
LRW,I was set free from others opinions, with this. Forgiveness does not rebuild trust. I’ve had to explain this to numerous people when they have said “ you said you forgive him” Yes, yes I did but that does NOT MEAN I trust him. Being trustworthy rebuilds trust!! Oh my gosh!!! Praise God. Thank you Jesus. I’m crying. 40:21
After listen to this message I order my book. Thank you for back to back Gray Chapman. Can't wait to read and share with family and friends. Getting it today
This interview was 🔥 and it is good to know that I am in good standing with apologizing to others that I wrong. I always try to make it right before I leave the person just in case I never get a second chance to do so again!!!!! ❤
Great Topic. Thank you for Touching on everything where Christian Men/WOMEN are hurting and stuck in PAIN. I ENJOYED IT. KEEP LEADING BROKEN PEOPLE TO HEAL.
You’ve hit the top tier in the relationship arena, Laterras!! Congrats on getting this guest. And thank you for taking the time to explore both love languages and apologies. So many gems!!
Forgiveness is such a hurdle 🙌🙌I haven't forgiven this other neighbor of mine and till now am the one who suffocates whenever am moving past through them.
Can you imagine showing up to premarital counseling and THE Dr. Chapman is your counselor?! What?! Dr Chapman doing jail marital counseling & what he advised the man on how to forgive himself was powerful! 🔥for real for real, if the fav pie, 2 yr reconciliation couple are still alive, please bring them in! I would love to hear their testimony! I’m still shook…
@@Birthat40 me too!! What did the gf say?! What else did God tell the wife to do?! 😳🤔 what a testimony of redemption, restoration & reconciliation..sounds like a Hallmark/Lifetime/Fireproof movie to me & I would watch!
“Forgiveness doesn’t rebuild trust” - Dr. Chapman.
This !!!! Why don’t Exes understand this 😂
@@beefaye6861 I have no idea! I recently had to had a conversation with my ex-husband letting him know that ‘we are not friends’. I can’t be his friend because I do not trust him. I can however communicate with him effectively concerning our young adult sons and that’s it
It is extremely difficult to set non-negotiable boundaries with someone you spent most of your life with - we were married 25 years and dated for 7 prior to marriage
I swallowed my pride and initiated the conversation with him because it my spirit was vexed and my boys were suffering as a result of our ongoing discord post divorce. Nobody but Jesus!
Oh that’s good
@@beefaye6861or family. Sorry, you're not getting my personal matters, can't drop your kids off to play, I'm probably not coming to the next holiday event.
Can I just say, your guests are really cool but this one?! Wow! You’ve made it big time with Gary Chapman! That’s amazing!!!
God will give the increase...keep walking 🚶🏾♀️
TWICE!! 👏🏽🙌🏽
He has to pay this guest..champman is not there for free…🙄
Really???!!!!¡????? How do you know? I know he will often pay the guests' flights, hotel and other accommodations. I didn't know he had to pay then more as well. But that makes sense, especially since he got so much out of Chapman, from two 1 hour+ long interviews, a car interview, etc.
@Missbusybee2010
@@Missbusybee2010 It's a big achievement to have him on Dear Future Wifey, regardless of whether he was paid or not. Gary Chapman does not go on just any podcast, especially given his age and profile. His team will not sign him up for just any opportunity, even if the producers are willing to pay top dollar. The fact that his team chose this show is a testament to the great and reputable work that Laterras has been doing so consistently for years now. Let's learn to commend and congratulate people when they do well.
BACK-TO-BACK-TO-BACK GARY CHAPMAN!!! 💎🙌🏾🙏🏾
😂😂😂” The holy spirit put him on the floor” 😂😂😂😂
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😂😂😂😂 right….
Dear Future Wifey. I am a long time listener but this is my first response. ALL of your shows have been a BLESSING to my Life ❤ Dr. Chapman is a God sent to help us to acknowledge our significant other 😊 THANK YOU 🙏🏾
Thanks for listening
That Part!!!!🥰
1.Expressing regret. Expressing regret by simply saying "I'm sorry." Follow that by acknowledging what you did wrong/why you're sorry.
2. Accepting responsibility. While it is easier to say 'You are right' than 'I am wrong,' the latter carries more weight and is best. Put your ego aside, take responsibly for your actions and admit that not only you were wrong, why you were wrong.
3. Make restitution. Ask the person how you can make it right. This is especially so when the infraction involves the lost of something- whether it be time or something else of monetary value.
4. Genuinely repenting. Make specific plans to change and make things better.
5. Requesting forgiveness. Just saying you're sorry and going through the above process doesn't mean that you're forgiven. You have to ask for it. Some people are better than others at just forgiving you without you having to ask for it. But some are not. Others still need you to ask for it in order for them to forgive. So, ask.
Things to note here are that, both your timing and delivery needs to be on point. Avoid the word BUT in your entire apology. In fact, I'd go even further and say AVOID the word BUT in ALL manners of speech, except for when you're intentionally using it. Saying but after you've said something, negates your previous statement.
These don't need to go in any kind of order.
Unlike the 5 love languages, I personally believe you should do all 5 to make the person you're apologizing to, whole.
For example: I'm sorry I forgot to pack the kids' lunch this morning. How about I order their lunch and have it delivered to their school today. From now on, I pack the lunches the night before so that I don't have to scramble in the mornings. Would that be OK or do you have a better suggestion for how I should proceed? Please forgive me. Follow through with making the lunches.
Thank you!
LOVE THIS❤❤❤
So needed!!❤
Yes, love this! Thank you ❤
LOVE THIS!!! ❤
I will take this kind of Bible teaching all day over all these “prophetess and prophets with a word.” This is how you learn to really live as a Christian in your daily life. Beautiful and needed interview. ❤
Forgiveness doesn't equate trust. You can forgive someone and still not trust them. Trust needs to be earned again.
🔥 That !!!!
Real Talk
Dr Chapman is correct there.
@brendarodrigues3046 and @@beefaye6861
Forgiveness doesn’t mean I have to trust you at that moment, trust will have to be restored through reassurance
Dr. Chapman definitely dropped some gems here. I’ll have to rewatch this with my notebook and pen at hand.
FACTS!!! Your life won’t be the same. 💎😊🥰
I already miss the old intro! I loved singing the song and reciting everything everyone said…”When I made my vows, I told God…” Oh, that was just me?? Carry on….😂😂😂
That was not just you! I did the same thing too! LOL 😂 Some of us had mentioned that last week; and Laterras said that UA-cam kept giving him issues over the song being copyrighted even though he's the one who both wrote it and owns it.
Hopefully that'll clear up soon and he can put it as the background to these new clips.
Wow! "Forgiveness is a choice not a feeling" forgiving ourselves is HARD!... but indeed we do need to FORGIVE OURSELVES 🎉🙏🏽 LORD help us.
Love stimulates love. If you want your partner, friend, etc to love you better, first start by loving them and expressing love to them, in their love primary language(s).
I done all the things he was talking about. However, relationship don't work when someone tells you they don't love you and continues to step outside of marriage then refuses counseling. No abuse is acceptable. I learned through Jesus to forgive and move on. Years later I stand single, healed and whole.
You can't beat a dead horse. Sometimes the best thing you can do for both your mental health and for that relationship, is to let them go.
I think Dr. Chapman touched on this in this episode. You shouldn't tolerate abuse, and if the person isn't where they need to be, sometimes you just have to release them to your higher power and let that be the resolution for you and your situation.
@shannonwhite6591
@@shannonwhite6591real talk
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Only 18 minutes in and I think I might need to watch this 3 times a week for the next week and take notes. Very valuable info!
After I finish reading the Bible in its entirety in December. I will read the Chapman series. I knew nothing about the 5 apology languages. This is awesome.
His book on Anger has helped me tremendously, and the five love languages was a great read as well. I love Gary Chapman
I knew about the 5 love language but I didn’t know that there were 5 apology languages.
I found out about the Apology language when I went to Dr. Chapman's website last week to retake the Love language test. This is very interesting, I don't think I have ever said at the end of an apology will you forgive me!!
We’ve been blessed with back to back episodes with this incredible man!?! Whew! 🤯 He’s truly a gem. Thank you for these AWESOME episodes. These were everything! 🔥
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥EVERYTHING!!
Fifteen minutes in and I realize this is one of the most powerful conversations that need to be heard by all. I can’t even express how powerful this really is. More powerful, in MY opinion, than the love languages. People will love and learn to love with more acceptance than apologizing and saying I’m sorry. There’s that block and even the best kindest people can find speaking the words so difficult. MAN THIS IS GOOD AND IM SHARING IT WITH EVERYONE!!!!!!!!!! 33:18
Laterras you and Uncle Garry again!! Lord I love this!
Your podcast is not for the shallow! I love it here.
👏🏾ME, too!!!!!
Laterras with the help of the Lord you just keep showing up. I have to be honest it was a pleasant surprise to see him back on again. Looking forward to this timely discussion. Maybe soon I can become a member of Patreon, so I can be a fly on the wall and hear y’all’s car conversation. It’s all good. 😂 Amen & Amen 🙏🏽
I think this episode has definitely changed the narrative of the relationship between my daughters and me. Blessings Dr. Gary Chapman🙏🏽
I have Dr. Chapman's book, but to HEAR him on this podcast, really blessed me.
Dr.Gary Chapman Library on your website !! Each one teach one! Bravo gentlemen!!
These interviews are bringing VALUE into our life!!! KEEP UPPING THE ANTY 🔥🔥
The 5 steps in the process of an apology, which is what I'd call how one apologizes instead of apology languages, is something we learn at a very young age as children in my family/culture; and in just about every class I've taken on leadership.
One thing we were taught at a very young age, is to carry on in a way so that you don't ever have to apologize. Meaning, be mindful of how you're carrying on so that you don't have to do anything to people that would warrant you apologizing. That being said though, some of us have interpreted that saying as we shouldn't apologize even when we're not right and we know we're not right.
These types of conversations will really help a lot of people.
Yes, They Truly Do.
Sure helped me.
@@brendarodrigues3046
Dr. Chapman, thank you for your time. Too many people in the churches, in the western world are getting divorce after 40 years. etc.
Love these topics! Apology and Love Languages are HUGE
Having listened to Mr. Chapman has helped to soften my heart and mind. I am moved to love differently and apologize with more intent. God is so wonderful for His everlasting love for us and we can only try to be as pure as the image He created us in. In all things, we must seek Him and the pieces will come together. Faith without works is dead, so we must remain vigilant and be faithful warriors for God. 💙😇
Coming back to this later! Last week's episode was excellent! Respect for him & this podcast.
I heard about the apology languages years ago while I was going through a heartbreak season but forgot about it. In 2022, I enrolled in LIT 101 masterclass that Laterras created. I did the assessment and identiFound my apology language. The assessment taught me there were multiple ways to apologize which means each apology style is legitimate. Not knowing that six months afterward, God would divinely orchestrate a meeting with the man who was the subject of my heartbreak. He apologized and although he did not apologize the way i wanted him to it was a legitimate apology. A heavy load was lifted. It took ten years for this to happen because I was ready! Thanks LT and Dr. Chapman.
I remember you sharing this. Such a powerful testimony.
Forgiveness is a Choice. Not a Feeling
Thank you for such masterful sharing and teaching. Dr. Gary Chapman is in a league by himself.
Blessed me, indeed. Thank you both. 🌬🙏🏽
The master class you gave us on both of these! God bless you sir!!
I think if someone really forgives, it's not that they won't remember, but it's how the person remembers, are you remembering with bitterness/anger....or is it a memory you can talk about neutrally, without becoming upset....
I really enjoyed this episode...so many things I did NOT KNOW about men being told real men don't apologize 😮. To know thar GOD has been in the midst of how I raised my children, mainly my son about apologizing. I would never tell my children to apologize and would tell the other party why I didn't tell them to apologize. They could ONLY APOLOGIZE if they were sincere. I chose to raise my Sunshinesdifferentlyt from what I saw. So this episode showed that,YUP GOD WAS RAISING THEM while I still was in my trauma. But thank God for this episode. I wish more men could hear this.❤
I hope you'll heal from your trauma soon.
Ma homie, "Dr Gary Chapman!" 😂😂
Love it Laterras!
Thank you Laterras for bringing back Dr. Gary Chapman 😊
PHEW !!!This was EXCELLENT. So much I didn't know.
“There has to be a response to an apology. As Christians we have the response to forgive. Give them credit now that we know the 5 apology languages” - Dr. Chapman
I choose to have healthy relationships. I choose to be whole and complete. I choose to forgive and extend the same grace to others that I need extended to me. With God ALL things are possible 🙌🏾
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
You truly understood the assignment.
✅That they are!!!!!👏🏾
I must say that not only have the 2 visits with Dr. Chapman been very enlightening, but I love his laugh. ❤❤
This was such a good interview. I learned a lot and will definitely be sharing this with family and friends. Thank you for having Dr. Chapman on Laterras. This is why I love your podcast. You are constantly helping us to evolve while stretching us in areas that we don’t realize that we need to be stretched in. What a blessing!
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Releasing those that sinned against you to God so you can be free!
What a Word!
Wow!
Thanks
Ok, I'm digging the Dr. Chapman yellow love seat sessions!
Amazing. I have followed Dr. Chapman for years. He taught me how to raise children and a husband. Keep up the great work L.
+A Husband 😂🤣😂
After watching 5 love languages, this is very awesome. I've never heard of them.
I love you Pastor Chapman, I love the five love language and apology is bigggg. I'm going to work on practicing them and teach my kids how to apologize the correct way. I need to invest in your books❤. Thanks so much for all the wisdoms u shared wit us. May God continue to bless you,your family and ministry 👏💯❤️🔥🙌👏
This was a much needed interview. 😊
I am anticipating an enlightening discussion. So glad Dr. Chapman is back.
Thank you . This is just what I needed today after not acting the best to my husband.
Wow!! What an amazing episode. Literally the reason I broke up with the love of my life because he refused to apologize after really hurting me. He was so shocked when I broke up with him. It was the hardest thing to do but I never took him back because for me that was a dealbreaker .
Dear Laterras! Shout out to you and your family from New Orleans, Louisiana!! Each time I listen to your podcast I always say that this is the best podcast ever! I’m so proud of your work and success. You and Dr. Chapman seemed like old friends sharing healing nuggets to us. Thanks again ❤🙏🏾
26:50 Amen !! ❤️💯
What a blessing these episodes were.Thank God for your gift & the fact that you share it with us all.❤
I'm currently on this book💃💃💃❤. Last episode was 🔥🔥I look forward to this💃
So if person that has offended me has already died, they will never confess their sin. What Gary said regarding releasing angry (negative feelings toward person) to God is STILL the definition of FORGIVENESS.
The episodes are treasures for us, filled with practical wisdom. God bless you both.
Let me just start off by saying CONGRATULATIONS! Your interviews and interviewees are on another level, from an entirely different dimension. 👏🏾Exceptional! Do you hear me? Dr. Gary Chapman, man of God, every word that proceeds from your mouth is golden. Valuable. Like our Heavenly Father’s, it will not return void. I pray many are blessed by your teachings. You exude confidence, strength, and the very knowledge you requested in prayer. No lack, no shortage, no shortcomings, and certainly nothing wasted. May you see the manifestation of all your prayers.
Thank you for introducing the website and encouraging viewers to take the quiz. I’m excited for my first attempt. I might need more. (lol) The biblical analogy of the parable in Luke 15, specifically verses 11-32 about the Prodigal Son, illustrates the nature of God's forgiveness and the joy found in repentance and reconciliation. Genius! I love when information, data, or facts are backed with biblical teachings and not necessarily used outside its original context. #scripture I was going to write out all five as I certainly took notes, but it just so happens @alicethegreet beat me to the punch, and what an EXCELLENT job she did.
If you're seeking, the website is fivelovelanguages.com.
Now, some of my favorite, possibly paraphrased phrases: forgiveness does not remove the consequence(s), we are NEVER better for doing wrong, forgiveness does not restore trust, and don’t make that decision by yourself. I can’t wait to get my hands on the book, "Things I Wish I Knew Before I Got Married." Hmmm..🤔
Laterras, if I’m being completely honest, I’m not simply fan-crushing, although, I know, I lay the compliments on thick, but, in short, your life’s mission blows my mind. I can’t wait to see the full evolution of Kingdom Royale. Definitely going to the website to check out the continual development of that. May God bless your hands so that everything you find yourself to do, you do it well. To your future wife, I hope she is as prepared as you are. Yolanda Adams' "I'm Gonna Be Ready," since you have visibly done the groundwork, laid the foundation, and the framework for the house is going up. #integralstructure May she get in, where she fits in, and make it HOME. What table? God has given you a buffet, smorgasbord, and so much more. #feast
🙏🏾Blessings
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Aren't you sweet! I'd copied and pasted it from last week's comments section. Someone had mentioned it and then I went and did some research; and I really feel like it brought some much needed closure to my life. I'd shared that experience then and so won't share it here again. For a very long time before last week, memories of that situation would pop up and I've always wondered what happened and now I know. I thought I'd help the next person who read that comment and put them out so that the next person can just see it and not have to search for it, and can spend that time on something else instead.
Next time I'm in IG, I'll be sure to check out your pageand support you as much as I can.
I'm looking forward to an update on Kingdom Royale too! 🙂
Outstanding interview!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So much wisdom! God bless this message and those who gave it 🙏
Must say........ Gary Chapman has been your best guest/interview so far.
❤❤❤Dr. Chapman. I thought I watched this but Nope it is about apologizing.
This is gonna be GOOD!!!! So happy that Dr Chapman is back!!
Thank God for using you both! 🙏🏾 ❤
Great lessons ❤
This is the best lesson and couple wanting a serious relationship needs to learn! This is life changing!
Excellent Message! Thank you.
Absolutely loved the love languages episode. To find this one now just makes my heart full and love this channel even more ❤
This is amazing! I never knew there were apology languages. Learning these absolutely improved my relationships
This guest has truly shared exceptional & beneficial information. A lot of gems given... "food for thought". Thanks for having them on.
WOW! God forgives those that repent of their sins.
Yayyyy!! He's back! Let me get my notebook and pen. ❤
This was another inspiring episode with Dr. Chapman. I didn't know about his book on the Apology Language & I will be incorporating this in my life. I too had to learn to ask God to release the person who has cause me so much pain without an apology for their actions towards me. Forgiveness doesn't mean you forget and that's OK. Forgive and release the pain and release that person to GOD. As a mom to our son I teach him the importance of apologizing. I say son it's not about being right or wrong, it's about being accountable for your actions and recognizing how your actions have impacted someone else. Thank you Laterras. I love this episode and this season is going to be AMAZING! God bless you!
I need part 1! I’m coming back to rewatch when I can focus and take notes 📝
Great interview! Dr. Chapman gave a lot of insight on forgiveness
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A Lot! And it did not fall on deaf ears.🥰
I always enjoy Dr. Chapman when I hear him speak and his books, just ordered more for my reading collection. I grew up hearing him on Focus on the Family as a guest. Another great similar Christian Psychologist is Dr. Gary Smalley. They are very similar and he too would appear on Focus on the Family.
I didn’t want it to end. Awesome ❤❤
Loved the 5 love languages episode. Purchased the book and have learned so much. Using it to understand how to love people better and one day my husband 💜
Amazing!! ❤❤❤Thank you for this interview.
Oh Mr. Gary back?! 🤗
Dr Gary Chapman such a general in the Kingdom.. Laterras you are so intentional with every season.. Another amazing episode.. We must truly repent to receive God’s forgiveness.. Trust is rebuilt overtime with changed behavior..Learning I will take the apology language quiz.. 🙏🏾👏🏾💚
Amazing interview that ministered to me in so many ways. ❤
We definitely need lots of counseling in our community!
Love this book. Just told friend yesterday. Look at God. All ears. Ready for note taking
🤩Cant wait 🙌🏾
Thank God for Gary Chapman!! This is a game changer! I’ve already shared this with several married couples I know who is needed exactly this in their marriage. Thank you Laterras for having him!! 💃🏽💃🏽🔥🔥
LRW,I was set free from others opinions, with this. Forgiveness does not rebuild trust. I’ve had to explain this to numerous people when they have said “ you said you forgive him” Yes, yes I did but that does NOT MEAN I trust him. Being trustworthy rebuilds trust!! Oh my gosh!!! Praise God. Thank you Jesus. I’m crying. 40:21
After listen to this message I order my book. Thank you for back to back Gray Chapman. Can't wait to read and share with family and friends. Getting it today
This is RIGHT ON TIME.❤❤❤
Absolutely Awesome 👏🏾
AWESOME!!!!!
This interview was 🔥 and it is good to know that I am in good standing with apologizing to others that I wrong. I always try to make it right before I leave the person just in case I never get a second chance to do so again!!!!! ❤
Great Topic.
Thank you for Touching on everything where Christian Men/WOMEN are hurting and stuck in PAIN.
I ENJOYED IT.
KEEP LEADING BROKEN PEOPLE TO HEAL.
You’ve hit the top tier in the relationship arena, Laterras!! Congrats on getting this guest. And thank you for taking the time to explore both love languages and apologies. So many gems!!
Forgiveness is such a hurdle 🙌🙌I haven't forgiven this other neighbor of mine and till now am the one who suffocates whenever am moving past through them.
Another amazing episode! Thank you for bringing on Dr. Chapman… very much needed!
A wealth of information to help us to be better not just for ourselves but also for others. I enjoyed this interview. ❤
Yes, I’m releasing to the Lord!
Can you imagine showing up to premarital counseling and THE Dr. Chapman is your counselor?! What?! Dr Chapman doing jail marital counseling & what he advised the man on how to forgive himself was powerful! 🔥for real for real, if the fav pie, 2 yr reconciliation couple are still alive, please bring them in! I would love to hear their testimony! I’m still shook…
Omg! I was thinking the samething.. I want to know so bad did he eat that pie. 😳😂🥰
@@Birthat40 me too!! What did the gf say?! What else did God tell the wife to do?! 😳🤔 what a testimony of redemption, restoration & reconciliation..sounds like a Hallmark/Lifetime/Fireproof movie to me & I would watch!
@@carlamosby8337 yes🥰