I had a friend I used to be cool with. I was trying to help the friend get on his feet.( thinking that he was working on getting his own place. Trying to be stable.) when I would ask him what are you trying to do. He told me he wasn’t thinking about it. Like the more time I spent with him the more I noticed he wasn’t trying to get his own place. When he went out of town and he took his ps5 and clothes. I stopped answering the phone
I literally just experienced this. And when the guy realized that I was not going he disappeared. I'm not about to take care of nobody else's son. Or give them a free place to lay up in my body and my home. I have 5 kids, no room for that.😂😂😂😂
Don’t forget there are different types of hobosexuals. For instance the hopper hobosexual. This type has a list of family members, baby mamas or baby mama, girlfriend (more likely girlfriends) to bed hop from so they won’t quickly wear out their welcome. Can never keep a job anywhere and will use you to buy things for their kids if they cant get anything directly from you. It’s a mess out there. Will remain single for life ☺️🥰
Let's not forget the one that already raised his kids. He's a nightmare I thought in the beginning he might be different too i was also approaches by a kind of cute short hobosexual with a mental problem yesterday i have to get out of here because they might be gang stalking me they also ask for things like cigarettes or lighters because it's there only way to strike up conversation with you. Don't give them anything sometimes the gas station attended guy has to kick them off his property.
I met a guy on a dating app that lives with his mother and wants me to help him get him drivers license. This man is almost 40yrs old…. NO! I have my own place, my own paid off car. He literally needs my help being a grown up. This is a 🚩 and I hope no other women give these men “grace”. I talked with him more just to get more intel and it was crazy. He wants to make me a baby mama now, and a wife in 5yrs or so (not my words, his). Men don’t want a solid commitment, they want a backup plan to their pathetic lives. It’s scary out here 😮💨
I remember years ago when I worked in the public school system, there was a 40 something year old teacher who was being harassed by administration. This man actually brought his parents into a meeting with the principal to complain about the treatment he was receiving!
Yes! With how the laws of tenancy is these days she can definitely do that. However if that man really hates her he can move another woman into the marital home and even cut off her supplies..food, clothing etc…it would be a very toxic environment and it’s worse if children are involved.
Often women LIE saying they're in a relationship and happy😂 the reality is the guy is a bum that lies. Many guys will lie about their jobs then one day "got fired" then his "lease is up" . Meanwhile lovebombing.
@@JodiTheIslandGirl I've been taking care of my sister who has long term health issues & she watches the True Crime Channels, its really made me more hyper aware of people out there. It's a dangerous world! Actually for both genders!
Id NEVER do this at My age!! But, I do get many young women still have alotta Trust in guys/ men and want to Trust what theyre saying. Even older women whove Never been through men trying to use them, lying and gaslighting them!! There are many reasons why both men and women could fall Victim to these scumbags!!
I've got a doozy for you. I own a duplex. One side is currently empty. The tenant on the other side has a 26-year-old hobosexual son. She finally had enough of his broke ways so she put him out. Well, she has a junk car on the property that he has started living in. (I discovered this because I set up cameras since the other unit is empty) He even finds raggedy girls to spend the night in the car with him sometimes. I'm sure he's hoping to find a woman with her own place so he can move in with her. In the meantime, I've got a surprise for him. Next week I'm having the junk car towed off my property. He'd better take his homeless ways somewhere else!!
Rather it’s a romantic partner or family member they all suffer from the audacity. Let my homeless sister stay and I would wake up sweating to death because she liked the heat up high. Yet she had no money to help with my bills😩
Hobo-sister, hobo-brother, hobo-friends. My bother wanted to stay in my vacant rental property rent free while I had a mortgage to pay. I was like, hell no!!!!🪳
I was searching for a relatable comment, lol. My younger sister tried to move to a different city to avoid CPS, the person she was staying with didn't work out, now she's begging me to let her come and nest in my house...with no job and all the drama. Absolutely not!
I still do not understand how so many women end up with literal homeless men and then be like "I was blindsided" when it goes south.... There are signs and they are glaring. And even if they weren't literal hobos--every time these stories are punctuated with red flags until there are just red flags everywhere.
Sometimes they live borderline lives. They are “self employed” doing handyman work here and there earning enough to pay for their clothes, get hand me downs by the rich friends or extended family they surround themselves with. Drive luxury cars that are 13 years old so no car payment. They romance the pants off you and learn to be good in bed and treat you really nicely. But then you find out they’re not paying their mortgage or rent and are about to get evicted or foreclosed or they live with their parents or something. Anyone can fall on hard times but the difference is these men are comfortable living this way. They’re okay with it. Their lifestyle includes going to bars hanging out with other bar fly friends, pool rooms, bowling alleys, sort of cheap easy hobbies. They’re not like starving living on the street, it’s basically a broke man. They may not even ask you to let them move in they just make you fall in love with their kindness and sex so that YOU want to progress the relationship and find yourself wanting them to move in. It’s not always so clear or obvious. They’re not always terrible, they’re just lazy and have low standards and sometimes the woman is just too good for him and deserves more than he can give her
You just can't let en in AT ALL. It's gotta go back to old times when the landlady wouldn't allow a man in a woman's apartment. These conventions are there for a reason! I let a man in and now, 35 years later, I STILL have PTSD! What he put me thru was horrible, and I lost all my privacy. That's just the beginning of the HELL he put me thru
The first lady is absolutely right 🙌🏾 but…why is she talking and acting like a racist stereotype of an African American black woman portrayed by some American white person who wants us to appear in a certain light. The headmovements enhances this experience 🫣😅
It’s sad but some state law says anyone that lives in your home over 30 days or receives mail at that address is a tenant. You have to file an eviction to get them out, can you imagine?! 😣
@@JodiTheIslandGirl it’s the men that bring it, physically and emotionally they are what women crave and end up getting impregnated by before they realize these guys aren’t long term material nor do they bring anything to the table but sex and drama
You must be gay. That’s the weirdest comment to make when she’s literally talking about homeless men- you homeless dudes are the ones out here struggling to find somewhere to go…
Seems like the men are struggling, having to roam home to home and always at risk of living on the streets. Literally depending on someone else, just to eat and have a place to sleep seems like the bigger struggle.
If only that was true..... Statistically speaking and specifically black women are the most evicted and foreclosed on in the United States so get your facts right love
I had a friend I used to be cool with. I was trying to help the friend get on his feet.( thinking that he was working on getting his own place. Trying to be stable.) when I would ask him what are you trying to do. He told me he wasn’t thinking about it. Like the more time I spent with him the more I noticed he wasn’t trying to get his own place. When he went out of town and he took his ps5 and clothes. I stopped answering the phone
Good 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I had one, but he had two jobs but was homeless. And took good care of himself. Some people can't afford housing especially now.
I literally just experienced this. And when the guy realized that I was not going he disappeared. I'm not about to take care of nobody else's son. Or give them a free place to lay up in my body and my home. I have 5 kids, no room for that.😂😂😂😂
You out smarted him before he hooked you.
Young sis glad you peeped the dust bucket!
Where's the kids father? You suppose to have a husband with them five kids
She might have gotten a divorce. You never know what someone has experienced. @@OnlyIMatter
They always feel because you have children you are desperate for a man. Smh
Don’t forget there are different types of hobosexuals. For instance the hopper hobosexual. This type has a list of family members, baby mamas or baby mama, girlfriend (more likely girlfriends) to bed hop from so they won’t quickly wear out their welcome. Can never keep a job anywhere and will use you to buy things for their kids if they cant get anything directly from you. It’s a mess out there. Will remain single for life ☺️🥰
Oh dear….can’t believe there’s more 😣
@@JodiTheIslandGirl Believe it 👀
Let's not forget the one that already raised his kids. He's a nightmare I thought in the beginning he might be different too i was also approaches by a kind of cute short hobosexual with a mental problem yesterday i have to get out of here because they might be gang stalking me they also ask for things like cigarettes or lighters because it's there only way to strike up conversation with you. Don't give them anything sometimes the gas station attended guy has to kick them off his property.
I met a guy on a dating app that lives with his mother and wants me to help him get him drivers license. This man is almost 40yrs old…. NO! I have my own place, my own paid off car. He literally needs my help being a grown up. This is a 🚩 and I hope no other women give these men “grace”.
I talked with him more just to get more intel and it was crazy. He wants to make me a baby mama now, and a wife in 5yrs or so (not my words, his). Men don’t want a solid commitment, they want a backup plan to their pathetic lives. It’s scary out here 😮💨
I remember years ago when I worked in the public school system, there was a 40 something year old teacher who was being harassed by administration. This man actually brought his parents into a meeting with the principal to complain about the treatment he was receiving!
Maybe the trad wives need to use this when their husbands try to kick them out. Tell the police that they're a tenant and he can't evict them.
Yes! With how the laws of tenancy is these days she can definitely do that. However if that man really hates her he can move another woman into the marital home and even cut off her supplies..food, clothing etc…it would be a very toxic environment and it’s worse if children are involved.
I don't understand why they don't. I would be quick to call the police
You're joking, right? Nobody should stay at a place where they're not welcome.
@@symonelewis1690first off it's a wife. I wish I would let some man kick me out of my house
Everyday you learn something new..lol…never knew this was really a thing but it totally makes sense
Ikr 😅
Often women LIE saying they're in a relationship and happy😂 the reality is the guy is a bum that lies. Many guys will lie about their jobs then one day "got fired" then his "lease is up" . Meanwhile lovebombing.
Listen to Princella the Queen maker
The man in the red shirt is telling the truth, words of wisdom.
Yes! We need to be careful 👏🏾👏🏾
@@JodiTheIslandGirl I've been taking care of my sister who has long term health issues & she watches the True Crime Channels, its really made me more hyper aware of people out there. It's a dangerous world! Actually for both genders!
Ladies please stop getting on the dating apps
Right
6:39 - Not only a financial discussion, but a credit check won't hurt.
Id NEVER do this at My age!! But, I do get many young women still have alotta Trust in guys/ men and want to Trust what theyre saying. Even older women whove Never been through men trying to use them, lying and gaslighting them!! There are many reasons why both men and women could fall Victim to these scumbags!!
God bless a child who has his own!!
I know for a fact Pastor RC Blakes is amazed at the word has been accepted into vernacular English! He's the one who coined the term and definition!
For real?! I didn’t know he created the word…I listen to him from time to time 😊
My mother talking @ 3:05!😅
I've got a doozy for you. I own a duplex. One side is currently empty. The tenant on the other side has a 26-year-old hobosexual son. She finally had enough of his broke ways so she put him out. Well, she has a junk car on the property that he has started living in. (I discovered this because I set up cameras since the other unit is empty) He even finds raggedy girls to spend the night in the car with him sometimes. I'm sure he's hoping to find a woman with her own place so he can move in with her. In the meantime, I've got a surprise for him. Next week I'm having the junk car towed off my property. He'd better take his homeless ways somewhere else!!
😂😂😂😂 i love it!
Oh my god! Not living in a junk car.🤣🤣
Rather it’s a romantic partner or family member they all suffer from the audacity. Let my homeless sister stay and I would wake up sweating to death because she liked the heat up high. Yet she had no money to help with my bills😩
Absolutely! And they’re the hardest to get out of your home.
Hobo-sister, hobo-brother, hobo-friends. My bother wanted to stay in my vacant rental property rent free while I had a mortgage to pay. I was like, hell no!!!!🪳
I was searching for a relatable comment, lol.
My younger sister tried to move to a different city to avoid CPS, the person she was staying with didn't work out, now she's begging me to let her come and nest in my house...with no job and all the drama. Absolutely not!
I still do not understand how so many women end up with literal homeless men and then be like "I was blindsided" when it goes south....
There are signs and they are glaring. And even if they weren't literal hobos--every time these stories are punctuated with red flags until there are just red flags everywhere.
Sometimes they live borderline lives. They are “self employed” doing handyman work here and there earning enough to pay for their clothes, get hand me downs by the rich friends or extended family they surround themselves with. Drive luxury cars that are 13 years old so no car payment. They romance the pants off you and learn to be good in bed and treat you really nicely. But then you find out they’re not paying their mortgage or rent and are about to get evicted or foreclosed or they live with their parents or something.
Anyone can fall on hard times but the difference is these men are comfortable living this way. They’re okay with it.
Their lifestyle includes going to bars hanging out with other bar fly friends, pool rooms, bowling alleys, sort of cheap easy hobbies.
They’re not like starving living on the street, it’s basically a broke man.
They may not even ask you to let them move in they just make you fall in love with their kindness and sex so that YOU want to progress the relationship and find yourself wanting them to move in.
It’s not always so clear or obvious. They’re not always terrible, they’re just lazy and have low standards and sometimes the woman is just too good for him and deserves more than he can give her
Don't forget tax season
Very interesting and such a let down to see how able bodied men using women. The days of men being the providers are no longer? ! 😣
Seems long gone….
Boys are not providers... Men are. Know the difference.
50/50 time now
They were never providers, they were just forced to work as women were kept out of having jobs of their own
@@Ourown311in the ninety's most men heavily depend on women AND uncle Sam
You just can't let en in AT ALL. It's gotta go back to old times when the landlady wouldn't allow a man in a woman's apartment. These conventions are there for a reason! I let a man in and now, 35 years later, I STILL have PTSD! What he put me thru was horrible, and I lost all my privacy. That's just the beginning of the HELL he put me thru
The middle I heard your accent, the quickest of follow! Hey yardie! 🇯🇲🇯🇲
Yessss! Thank you so much 🇯🇲🇯🇲
Great upload as usual Jodi…I love your channel 😊
Thanks so much! 😊
Yeah that's why I don't let nobody come over at all
Nope its starting earlier now. Ive been hit on more in one week than all summer. Now They are starting in mid august
Dang…I guess the summer is too hot..looking a place to cool off
@@JodiTheIslandGirl no they need a place for the cooler weather.
Not Arizona 115-118 summers the winters are cold but no snow ❄️ here
The first lady is absolutely right 🙌🏾 but…why is she talking and acting like a racist stereotype of an African American black woman portrayed by some American white person who wants us to appear in a certain light. The headmovements enhances this experience 🫣😅
Lol….she wanted to get her point across, attitude and all 😅🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂 she made her point though😂😂😂😂😂I'm sure she turns into Susan between the hours of 9-5😂
Right!!!! I was so embarrassed and it wasn't funny
@@DanataDAt all. I had to fast forward.
@@DanataDthank you. I couldn’t watch her I had to skip through. It was exaggerated for no reason.
These stories are interesting 🤔 😊
They are!
It happens a lot! It’s the new scam! Well not new but they know how to pray on single woman!
😅😂 yes. SOo many hobos out there. Dont open your home or bedroom space neither.
How can someone claim legal tenancy if their namr is not on the lease?
It’s sad but some state law says anyone that lives in your home over 30 days or receives mail at that address is a tenant. You have to file an eviction to get them out, can you imagine?! 😣
Squatters have rights. Once residency is established like getting mail you can’t just put them out. Be careful
I've heard that in illinois if they're in your home for two weeks they live there and you have to go to court to get them out.
Here in NYC it's thirty days! This OG lives with her cat 🐈! Damn a man!
@@sunmont1461Depends the state of residency! All states have different resident laws!
Homegirl said tartar teeth. Stoppppp 😩😩
😂🤣
Women tend to find these men irresistible and very attractive
Some women definitely finds struggle love attractive
@@JodiTheIslandGirl it’s the men that bring it, physically and emotionally they are what women crave and end up getting impregnated by before they realize these guys aren’t long term material nor do they bring anything to the table but sex and drama
Omg the teeth
Plz keep making these video's I love watching women STRUGGLE 😂😂😂😂😂
You must be gay. That’s the weirdest comment to make when she’s literally talking about homeless men- you homeless dudes are the ones out here struggling to find somewhere to go…
Not nice lol 😆
Seems like the men are struggling, having to roam home to home and always at risk of living on the streets. Literally depending on someone else, just to eat and have a place to sleep seems like the bigger struggle.
If only that was true..... Statistically speaking and specifically black women are the most evicted and foreclosed on in the United States so get your facts right love
Do your research boo boo women specifically black women have the highest rate of evictions..😂😂😂
The cheapest man in the world
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Oh man my 23 yr old self really needed to hear this! :( 8 yrs too late. 😂😢
Have a blessed day everyone!
Oh dear!
Ya … in our 30s we have very little room for error