Remember what the Bible says , Honor your parents , What I learnt : -Parents approval is very important than anything else , - Never settle for less in the name of white man 😮 -Pray because none can fool you if you really pray in the spirit and truth . -Never choose a guy over your family , never . Thank U Bella for this afro cinema story
Dear Bella, I got soo emotional listening to Janet story! I pretty much relate with her story..am so happy that she made a wise descision. No woman should live in a toxic relationship....! All the best my sister Janet! Thanks Bella for sharing....! We are getting better and wiser...
Oh my goodness Janet really endured alot that I couldn't. Yoh I was so even exhausted for her coz yoh, no way it had to take that long for her to walk out. Hopefully she has learnt and such will never repeat. Wishing her all the best in everything she does
Who else enjoyed part 2 afro cinemas more than part 1?😉 😂😂 Eric had all characteristics of a narcissist, with my crazy head I can't tolerate such guys for even a single day, Janet was too patient 🤨 Thanks Bella for sharing🙏, lots of lessons learnt here 👍
The restaurant incident was the one that got me off😅.... that kind of embarrassment in public, him slapping the menu that he can't afford😅😂clearly he couldn't be able to take care of our dear sister. Am glad Janet finally spoke up and told the truth to Bella who advised her to get out of that toxic relationship.
Janet is such a kind and patient lady Eric was such a pain in the neck What a weird character Ladies we have suffered in such of finding love It has been a very educative story with alot of lessons to learn
I can't tolerate such things, and even we need to be real not to pretend coz you get hurt but choose to ignore, it can never be me thanks Bella❤for the advice love u 💋💋
What a narcissist!!! So sorry Janet. We bless the Lord that you never got to travel to Norway because I can imagine what could become of you dearest sister. All the same, it's never too late dear, may God grant you your heart's desire.
So sorry to Janet she kept pushing even when she was almost losing her life, that was a mubabaz 😒. We wish her the best she's still young good days are ahead of her ❤️. Thanks Bella.
Im speechless, i dont have that patience. But thank God she has her life as a prize. Thank God that she failed to travel to Norway may be she would have been no more.
My dear Bella after listening to Janet's story it drained all my energy, frankly speaking our sister was in hell with that toxic man, indeed our parents are our pillar they always protect us no matter what circumstances, i have learned a big lesson from this story, but anyways God is good one day Janet will find her perfect match who will love her for who she is, thanks dear Bella for always sharing with us different stories you indeed prove to us that we are always in your heart ❤, for that you deserve to be loved as well, you know what, team Bella loves you to the core, you are indeed a true sister, may the Almighty God bless you for us in the name of God, Amen 🙏
Can't wait to hear how the part2 gonna be,wow these are really things that happen to us women but we ignore them,unless they happen to us personally,alot to take in ND learn, Wow,,,,,,, being a woman is tough
It's always good to listen to your parents, she's so lucky to have a supportive Dad who is doing everything to make sure she's comfortable. Hope she learned her lessons and next time she wil be more wiser. This Njugu guys wah we love and pray to be with them but some mmhh only God knows. May He guide and give us wisdom in our search
Janet story yako it's fun some time it's sad lf was me that fast time in airport mimi ningerudi home mimi siwezi West my time kwa mtu kama huyo but ni story inafundisha girls wengi just be careful
This was tooooooooooooooooooo much for Janeth jamani😩 kweli nataka mzungu lkn kwa Eric kibokooooo🙌 tunajifunza na tunaendelea kupambana hadi kieleweke 😅 ni mwendo wa ngiri mkia juu. Tutatoboa tukiwa tuko hoi aisee 😂
Part two had a lot of afrocinnemas may be because it was where the full story was.thanks so much Bella for this very beautiful story though its a sad one
Lesson well learned and for Janet, hope you are doing fine. You are really a strong lady, that guy need a phyco like himself. Thank you so much dear Bella for sharing this story with us. God bless you. ❤❤❤❤
Eric is a manipulator and a naccistic at the same tym may Allah enable our ccta Janet to get the right guy u survived Janet u don't deserve that imbecile thx ccta Bella for always showing us the right path b blessed hun.❤
Seriously that guy had issues like personality issues very toxic ive gone trough wat Janet has gone through but u thank God that my spirit couldn't hold it in i had to leave before immediately
God give Janet many signs to leave that's guy through ignorance n being patient over a syco resist man ..may God help us is a painful touching story available learn a lot thank you for sharing
I'm so sorry for Janet but thank God she didn't go to Norway, maybe the worst thing would happen to her OMG! Eric is not an easy man at all 🤔 Anyway how are you Bella, thank you so much for updating us and I wanna thank everyone who shares her story with us who are still on the journey of finding the one. Double thumbs up to you all beautiful ladies may God bless you abundantly.
Erick should be very careful on how he is treating people out there with his Anger issues. He will one day meet someone who has nothing to loose and he will regret it. As for Janet I hope you have learnt your lesson and since you are still young, listen to your parents you still have a long way to go.
I can only sum it up with your statement @Bellah with my bad head I can't take all that crap 🏃♀️🏃♀️thanks for the story my sister lots of lessons to learn and i hope that Janet is at peace and has learnt too 🙏 🙏
Ohh my god, alot of lessons there,ladies be steady in your search and one thing you should always realise that you cannot change person you don't know his / her background. Don't wait to see the waste,block please. God's time is the best
Omg I laughed so hard 😂😂😂Erik is a character damnnn😢. Janet really has patience Erik would have been history long time ago if I saw all these . True guys rushing making promises and professing love so quick are a massive red flags 🚩
Oh my goodness! Janet put up with alot of crap, it could never be me😢. This guy was not only a psychopath but also narcissist among other things. Glad she ended it. Good luck girl and thank you dear Bella for this. Learnt alot❤
Girls girls..,!, Janet is over patient girl❤and that mf was just taking absolute advantage of her ignorance..he's an absolute vampire and overtly narcissistic who is outright broke and bitter with his life, very lazy and he studied Janet very well..my advise to ladies NEVER EVER IGNORE REG FLAGS...embrace other cultures but shine your face well, don't be desperate for noby.. FOR erica let him straighten up and be a gentleman 😊
Parents are our second God, it's good to listen to them and follow your instinct, coz some of us were spiritual connected to what is happening or about to happen ,..on this jannet is the one to blame for me I will always be open to my granny who is my mom and everything cz I know when she disagree on my relationship matters I know something crazy is on that individual person.. let's learn to be loyal to our parents and our lives will be smooth and blessed always.
Janet had a chance to leave this guy Eric 😔 from the word go, there were so many red flags 😭. Dear sister I hope you get another man who loves you genuinely 💖
@@peshpeshgal3796 as we all know love is blind and when you find someone who loves you, you always hope they will change. What I can say she was blinded by sweet words
My world Janet story have similarities with mine this man is very unstanble i wear, i get goosebumps hearing this story… it is very confusing to let go on such man since he can be super good and sweet but at the same time very bad, one time he is generous and another time he so cheap😂Thank God he was not physically abusif to her. She really was very patient with him🙁
Typical Narcissist after hearing, the guy was never married, called his kid's mum a bitch, temper tantrums, this personality disorder gets worse as they get older. Wishing her all the best.
Yeah it's like you're talking about me ...I have gone through such embarrassing stressful situation and more worse with my long-term Denmark friend . They are called narcissist. You get embarrassed everywhere you go because he will pick fights with everybody including security guards, waiters, supermarket cashiers ...all using very dirty language.
Whoooo what a man he like to get angry for just a reminder of the amount I would just not bother and all the F.....k words he use is not on I would change my number 😂😂😂😂 I couldn't live with him long time nice story bella
No no that's sweet talk that man Is not good man Janet open your eyes and ears please please that man is not your man just continue your education dear young sister
I don't know why i feel like fighting 😞👊 but anyways ladies we should not ignore the Red Flags. sister Janet so sorry baby girl but but that so called Eric is 👿💀
Oh my God l fill sorry for Janet she such akind, strong, loving woman but the so called Eric is just sick in the head as you always say he is a loser and l thank God managed to protect our sis thanks for the video bella and Janet God bless you Janet dear keep on moving you gonna get a man that truly loves dear don't warry we are together in this thanks again bella love you dea❤
Just the fact he spoke poorly of his children's mother tells me everything. And his short fuse. I mean we all get angry from time to time. But homie needs to do a better job of picking his battles. Janet needs to get the hell out of that relationship. I have a bad gut feeling. I agree with her dad. Though he sold in a way I would not have. He's a guy. He probably knows what's happening. As guys we have a bit of intuition too. He likely know more than what he let on. Like her momma. And I agree with her momma for telling her dad. This dude has a crap ton of red flags. No bueno. Danger, Janet. Danger.
Am sorry to comment, but Janet was kinder desperate coz really her family cd afford her, with the scholarships,that really proved that her family was there for her evidencd with the bills being paid by the daddy, and to me all I know never lower your values, rules and standards for any man that's not worthy period. Please search with no pressure, lower down your expectations and always never ignore even the slightest red flags in any relationship 😅am beginning to think Eric had Biopolar😝
No need to be sorry because it's evident she's desperate for a white man and not only that she lives in Disney land where prince charming just rides in from a horse and living happily ever after. Its obvious from the engagement ring hullabaloo, she wanted the social media proposal she sees online.
I just hope he doesn't come back to Kenya to make here life aliving hell just because of a ring .....and I think Janet should even shift from places he knows he would find her.... Those guys r physcopath they can be dangerous.....what patient lady...
Remember what the Bible says , Honor your parents ,
What I learnt :
-Parents approval is very important than anything else ,
- Never settle for less in the name of white man 😮
-Pray because none can fool you if you really pray in the spirit and truth .
-Never choose a guy over your family , never .
Thank U Bella for this afro cinema story
Dear Bella, I got soo emotional listening to Janet story! I pretty much relate with her story..am so happy that she made a wise descision. No woman should live in a toxic relationship....! All the best my sister Janet! Thanks Bella for sharing....! We are getting better and wiser...
Oh my goodness Janet really endured alot that I couldn't. Yoh I was so even exhausted for her coz yoh, no way it had to take that long for her to walk out. Hopefully she has learnt and such will never repeat. Wishing her all the best in everything she does
This is a lot!!!!
Who else enjoyed part 2 afro cinemas more than part 1?😉 😂😂
Eric had all characteristics of a narcissist, with my crazy head I can't tolerate such guys for even a single day, Janet was too patient 🤨
Thanks Bella for sharing🙏, lots of lessons learnt here 👍
You said it right dear, True characteristics of a Narcist!!
The restaurant incident was the one that got me off😅.... that kind of embarrassment in public, him slapping the menu that he can't afford😅😂clearly he couldn't be able to take care of our dear sister. Am glad Janet finally spoke up and told the truth to Bella who advised her to get out of that toxic relationship.
@@belovedk2865 😂😂😂and then comes the last incident when he asked for the 💍 back 😅😅some guys joke a lot 😒 not with me...
@@riamhills11❤❤
@@riamhills11😂😂😂
She is very calm
Not me, I for show am Edo girl craze
U look beautiful maaashaalh sister thanks for part two
😢😢😂😂😂😂 dada ni mvumilivu huyu mimi huyu siwezi aki ninge mwacha bila taarifa Mungu ampe mtu sahihi Amen 🙏🙏🙏
Janet is such a kind and patient lady
Eric was such a pain in the neck
What a weird character
Ladies we have suffered in such of finding love
It has been a very educative story with alot of lessons to learn
That was too much for Janet but I know she will come out stronger and better, all the best sis we love you ❤❤
I can't tolerate such things, and even we need to be real not to pretend coz you get hurt but choose to ignore, it can never be me thanks Bella❤for the advice love u 💋💋
What a narcissist!!! So sorry Janet. We bless the Lord that you never got to travel to Norway because I can imagine what could become of you dearest sister. All the same, it's never too late dear, may God grant you your heart's desire.
Bella, I lack words to say after listening to this story but let me wish Janet well in her search.
Thanks so dia, so sry to Janet bt keep praying God z here he will bring good man to u my dia sis
So sorry to Janet she kept pushing even when she was almost losing her life, that was a mubabaz 😒. We wish her the best she's still young good days are ahead of her ❤️. Thanks Bella.
Im speechless, i dont have that patience. But thank God she has her life as a prize. Thank God that she failed to travel to Norway may be she would have been no more.
Bella I also want to share my story with you. I'm sure it will be an interesting and will help our ladies here
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Check me out on insta @African bella
My dear Bella after listening to Janet's story it drained all my energy, frankly speaking our sister was in hell with that toxic man, indeed our parents are our pillar they always protect us no matter what circumstances, i have learned a big lesson from this story, but anyways God is good one day Janet will find her perfect match who will love her for who she is, thanks dear Bella for always sharing with us different stories you indeed prove to us that we are always in your heart ❤, for that you deserve to be loved as well, you know what, team Bella loves you to the core, you are indeed a true sister, may the Almighty God bless you for us in the name of God, Amen 🙏
I do not think i can be patient upto that extent.😮
Janet is soo lucky to have asupportive father
Can't wait to hear how the part2 gonna be,wow these are really things that happen to us women but we ignore them,unless they happen to us personally,alot to take in ND learn,
Wow,,,,,,, being a woman is tough
It's always good to listen to your parents, she's so lucky to have a supportive Dad who is doing everything to make sure she's comfortable. Hope she learned her lessons and next time she wil be more wiser. This Njugu guys wah we love and pray to be with them but some mmhh only God knows. May He guide and give us wisdom in our search
Janet story yako it's fun some time it's sad lf was me that fast time in airport mimi ningerudi home mimi siwezi West my time kwa mtu kama huyo but ni story inafundisha girls wengi just be careful
Asante mamii
Webale kuwereza bella but surely janet was so patient me i cant kuba hmmm de man waa so annoying
Thankyou Bella for that informative story we will never be the same again may almighty God bless you ❤
BELLA YOU LOOK GROWING
EEEEE OH MY GOOD MOTHER😢😢😢the way part 2 is checking my heart so sorry dear sister
OMG, many red flags. Hopefully Janet is well. I have learned a lot. May God 🙏 guide us all on our love journey.
Thanks a lot Bella for opening our eyes 🙏🙏🙏
Thanks for sharing dear African bella 🥰🥰👍
Always greatful Bella for these stories where we get to learn alot ❤❤❤ lots of love
Bella Honestly this story really is so emotional 😭 😢 eeehhh let me work for my finacises Lord give me the strength 💪 🙏🏼
This was tooooooooooooooooooo much for Janeth jamani😩 kweli nataka mzungu lkn kwa Eric kibokooooo🙌 tunajifunza na tunaendelea kupambana hadi kieleweke 😅 ni mwendo wa ngiri mkia juu. Tutatoboa tukiwa tuko hoi aisee 😂
Hilda you made me laugh hard
I've been waiting for the last part
Part two had a lot of afrocinnemas may be because it was where the full story was.thanks so much Bella for this very beautiful story though its a sad one
They took our kindness for weakness but never give up, let's wait God's time inshaallah
Definitely
Aamiin
Thanks Bella
Veeery true I just left 7yrs marriage that I found online and am back in Ireland to start afresh German boys God will deal with you 😂
Lesson well learned and for Janet, hope you are doing fine. You are really a strong lady, that guy need a phyco like himself. Thank you so much dear Bella for sharing this story with us. God bless you. ❤❤❤❤
I love your content so much because it gives me hope not to give Up.
Eric is a manipulator and a naccistic at the same tym may Allah enable our ccta Janet to get the right guy u survived Janet u don't deserve that imbecile thx ccta Bella for always showing us the right path b blessed hun.❤
For me I can't thank you enough, cz from listening to your advices have learnt a lot
Many lessons learned. Thanks for sharing Bella ❤
Seriously that guy had issues like personality issues very toxic ive gone trough wat Janet has gone through but u thank God that my spirit couldn't hold it in i had to leave before immediately
God give Janet many signs to leave that's guy through ignorance n being patient over a syco resist man ..may God help us is a painful touching story available learn a lot thank you for sharing
Mayoooooo Bella 😭😭 left alone in water
Am patiently waiting 🎉
What a 🌰 of a man I can’t do it Janet you must be very patient
I'm so sorry for Janet but thank God she didn't go to Norway, maybe the worst thing would happen to her OMG! Eric is not an easy man at all 🤔
Anyway how are you Bella, thank you so much for updating us and I wanna thank everyone who shares her story with us who are still on the journey of finding the one. Double thumbs up to you all beautiful ladies may God bless you abundantly.
Erick should be very careful on how he is treating people out there with his Anger issues. He will one day meet someone who has nothing to loose and he will regret it. As for Janet I hope you have learnt your lesson and since you are still young, listen to your parents you still have a long way to go.
1:31:36
Thanks sis Bella for advices may God bless you
Thank you bella appreciated
I can only sum it up with your statement @Bellah with my bad head I can't take all that crap 🏃♀️🏃♀️thanks for the story my sister lots of lessons to learn and i hope that Janet is at peace and has learnt too 🙏 🙏
Ohh my god, alot of lessons there,ladies be steady in your search and one thing you should always realise that you cannot change person you don't know his / her background. Don't wait to see the waste,block please.
God's time is the best
Omg I laughed so hard 😂😂😂Erik is a character damnnn😢. Janet really has patience Erik would have been history long time ago if I saw all these . True guys rushing making promises and professing love so quick are a massive red flags 🚩
Oh my goodness! Janet put up with alot of crap, it could never be me😢. This guy was not only a psychopath but also narcissist among other things. Glad she ended it. Good luck girl and thank you dear Bella for this. Learnt alot❤
Thanks sis 😘 💓
I didn't want to laugh but this kind of drama is making me laugh 😂😂😂😂😂
She really got that patience, why am I crying, every stage of this story is drama😢
Girls girls..,!, Janet is over patient girl❤and that mf was just taking absolute advantage of her ignorance..he's an absolute vampire and overtly narcissistic who is outright broke and bitter with his life, very lazy and he studied Janet very well..my advise to ladies NEVER EVER IGNORE REG FLAGS...embrace other cultures but shine your face well, don't be desperate for noby..
FOR erica let him straighten up and be a gentleman 😊
God bless you sweetie you are in our hearts too
Sorry for Janet ,my God bless her again
Parents are our second God, it's good to listen to them and follow your instinct, coz some of us were spiritual connected to what is happening or about to happen ,..on this jannet is the one to blame for me I will always be open to my granny who is my mom and everything cz I know when she disagree on my relationship matters I know something crazy is on that individual person.. let's learn to be loyal to our parents and our lives will be smooth and blessed always.
Janet had a chance to leave this guy Eric 😔 from the word go, there were so many red flags 😭. Dear sister I hope you get another man who loves you genuinely 💖
I'm wondering why she had to continue with this man after seeing all red flags in the first video
@@peshpeshgal3796 as we all know love is blind and when you find someone who loves you, you always hope they will change. What I can say she was blinded by sweet words
@@peshpeshgal3796the simple answer is obvious lol his white, and European 🙄
Erik was a big problem sha 😳😳. People say that if you want to know someone's heart see how they treat and talk about strangers.😧 wow
Yes my dear
Bella nimekasirika yangu yotee😢, oh my goodness 😮
Waiting ❤
My world Janet story have similarities with mine this man is very unstanble i wear, i get goosebumps hearing this story… it is very confusing to let go on such man since he can be super good and sweet but at the same time very bad, one time he is generous and another time he so cheap😂Thank God he was not physically abusif to her. She really was very patient with him🙁
When the time is right she will get her perfect man. May God see her through
Oh jenat😢😢😢😢
Oh no! But Bella you are making laugh tho 😅
They think we are too desparate and can't do whatever they want especially when you are kind and considerate lol
Ha...nowadays...tunasema kitakuramba!!!!!
35:47 eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Sometimes we have to hearing our parents 😮😢
I even thought you forgot about part 2 😂😂
Hi Bella how are guys from Tunisia, Algeria and Turkey? I'm just wondering coz alot of them are inboxing me...
I did a video in here on countries to be careful with check the video it will help you so much
Nice information, I'm trying to join membership but the mpesa link not going through
Check me on insta I direct you
@African bella
But sister Janet ur very strange my dear may God bless you with lovely guy 🤲🏻🥰💕
I am glad she got out of the life of that narcissistic man.
Wow that guy was a really dushbag and uncouth. Am glad sis survived that.
Yaani sisi wanawake sjui ni huruma iliyochanganyika na ujinga
Huyo ni mgonjwa wa akili and she couldn't realize maskini 😧😁
Typical Narcissist after hearing, the guy was never married, called his kid's mum a bitch, temper tantrums, this personality disorder gets worse as they get older. Wishing her all the best.
Yeah it's like you're talking about me ...I have gone through such embarrassing stressful situation and more worse with my long-term Denmark friend . They are called narcissist. You get embarrassed everywhere you go because he will pick fights with everybody including security guards, waiters, supermarket cashiers ...all using very dirty language.
Oh my this guy had so many red FLAGS!
I could not help but laugh at the drama. Janet dodged a bullet 😩
Jesus Crist Eric was so crazy & toxic Man 😢😢😢😢😢😢That's why I call you our savour ❤❤❤❤❤❤love you darling
Because of our weakness we look like an idiot lol, but never give up on our dreams ❤
Janet's father is like my father 😅
Whoooo what a man he like to get angry for just a reminder of the amount I would just not bother and all the F.....k words he use is not on I would change my number 😂😂😂😂 I couldn't live with him long time nice story bella
No no that's sweet talk that man
Is not good man Janet open your eyes and ears please please that man is not your man just continue your education dear young sister
Family comes first boyfriend second
I don't know why i feel like fighting 😞👊 but anyways ladies we should not ignore the Red Flags. sister Janet so sorry baby girl but but that so called Eric is 👿💀
Just wow!
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55:47 but that guy Eric eeeeeeee😢
What a story 🙌🙌🙌, That Man is mentally unstable and abusive 💔💔
God is always there to help us but we don't notice it sometimes may God forgive us but we will find the right partner in Jesus name Amen 🙏
Hello Bella
Oh my God l fill sorry for Janet she such akind, strong, loving woman but the so called Eric is just sick in the head as you always say he is a loser and l thank God managed to protect our sis thanks for the video bella and Janet God bless you Janet dear keep on moving you gonna get a man that truly loves dear don't warry we are together in this thanks again bella love you dea❤
Just the fact he spoke poorly of his children's mother tells me everything. And his short fuse. I mean we all get angry from time to time. But homie needs to do a better job of picking his battles. Janet needs to get the hell out of that relationship. I have a bad gut feeling. I agree with her dad. Though he sold in a way I would not have. He's a guy. He probably knows what's happening. As guys we have a bit of intuition too. He likely know more than what he let on. Like her momma. And I agree with her momma for telling her dad. This dude has a crap ton of red flags. No bueno. Danger, Janet. Danger.
Am sorry to comment, but Janet was kinder desperate coz really her family cd afford her, with the scholarships,that really proved that her family was there for her evidencd with the bills being paid by the daddy, and to me all I know never lower your values, rules and standards for any man that's not worthy period. Please search with no pressure, lower down your expectations and always never ignore even the slightest red flags in any relationship 😅am beginning to think Eric had Biopolar😝
No need to be sorry because it's evident she's desperate for a white man and not only that she lives in Disney land where prince charming just rides in from a horse and living happily ever after. Its obvious from the engagement ring hullabaloo, she wanted the social media proposal she sees online.
This story is such an eye-opener 😮 My God what is this? He’s such a disgusting man and will get his karma.
😭 I Couldn't Bear Erick 's Foolaries even for a week
I just hope he doesn't come back to Kenya to make here life aliving hell just because of a ring .....and I think Janet should even shift from places he knows he would find her.... Those guys r physcopath they can be dangerous.....what patient lady...
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Hoooo God bless me with loving guy and very kind, ad respectful to me the guy who can love's me unconditionally 🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻😮🤔🥰