@Stella-nancha In a period of 3months he should have a concrete plan on when you guys are meeting otherwise you will get to know each other even in 10years without meeting and he will either ghost you eventually or keep chatting to waste your time.
Oh dear Bella, i couldn't even concentrate on the video just kept looking at your beautiful face and your lovely dressing, i mean your giving this rich aunty vibes 🤗🤗🤗 God bless you for always helping us out.
Feeling so sad for what happened to our sister 😔 and Pamela she's just a strong woman because if it was me heeee my dear 😂, thank you so much Bella for always advising us ❤❤may God bless you 🙏🙏
Thanks Bella fro always been there for us we really appreciate so much darling Sorry for our sister but be strong darling God will bring your soulmate much love from Uganda 🇺🇬🥰
With those his bad habits that their can't take he is rejected here. Now he went to stress and play our sister wah. True Bella denial of visa always has reasons for sure. Poor Pamela went through alot. Ladies don't resign at your job until you are assured he is the one. Alot of lessons to learn from this. Looking forward to part 2
Hello Bella,today i was just thinking about you of you have stayed for long without giving as a video,all over sudden boom boom,i open my UA-cam then a video from your is the first one to Pop,we really missed you
Honestly Pamela had patience! After the first red flag,she could have left that guy. Can't wait for part 2 ! Thanks sis Bella for educating us🙏🙏one can never go wrong with your educative videos. God bless you.
Sorry for her ,she went through alot already,she was so patient with that guy,i wish she could h told him to meet in Tanzania and not quit the job so sad she had to walk the whole day waiting for him to answer the phone i felt bad he did this to her ,God bless you bella fir those stories they help many of us keep up❤
Our beautiful Bella, thank you for always watching out for us, you are indeed a blessing, I actually thought this was a continuation of part two of the story you brought us of a Kenyan lady who was also mistreated by her boyfriend, the airport drama, not telling the lady how things are done,I don't know if you remember that story 😂
Oh Pamela😢😢 She was in love and she couldn’t notice the red flags 🚩 I thank God for Bella she is always here to advice us tirelessly 😢 Thank you sister ❤ May almighty God keep blessing u for us ❤
Hello good evening Bella indeed there was red flags in this Relationship but our poor sister was blinded with love too bad but it's areally abig lesson to learn and thank you Bella for bringing such stories to shine our eyes may God bless you and your beautiful family dear and abig love always take care.
Omg I am so so speechless. Pamela a lot of red flags my sister keeps ignoring them. She let Jeff walked all over her with no respect at all. I am sad she went stranded in Mombasa 😢 waiting for part two
Bella I need your Advice, My long distance boyfriend wants to come to my country Ghana and meet me in person for the first time and when he come he will rent a nice apartment for us to live together in my country Ghana for 6months or 1years for us to know ourselves, He said he doesn't want to rush to Marriage so he wants to live with me in my country Ghana for 6months or 1year on our first meeting in person before he will go back to his country Europe. Please Is it a good idea to live together with my long distance boyfriend in my country for 6month or 1year on our first meeting in person because he wants us to know ourselves more better?
Wow what a waste of good 4 years!!! Sorry for what you went through and strength to you my sister Pamela 🙏🙏. Thank you Bella for sharing the story it is an eye opener to many to shine their eyes and take note of the 🚩🚩🚩
How can you go live with someone who you are not married to?most of the time, when someone comes and live with you,once he gos? you will never see him?he wants to come use you.please take great care of yourself.
Oh my God Pamela is a patient lady as for me everything would have ended at the first meeting and also dating a guy for four years, that was ridiculous, there were alot of red flags but our sister was blinded by love, chai🙉🙉 let me wait for part 2, this abandoning thing is becoming more and more serious among African sisters who are always allow these unserious white men to step on them, that's so sad 😮😮
Hi, not all guys who say their family background is unhealthy lie. We just need to be careful...sometimes we from Africa have come from unhealthy families. Let's just be cautious and pray
This Jeff is so disrespectful, so he can be ready to impregnate a lady he barely know, but he isn’t ready to marry her first. Oh! This men are so weird. As ladies, Always protect yourself with protection when doing the cookie with this online men, your womb is too valuable to let this men put their seed in you, then abandon you in your country without the security of a legal marriage and relocation to his country. Don’t be desperate and be very smart. I can’t wait for part2.
I'm a live streamer and i talk to different guys on there but there is this German guy that talked to me about how he dated a Kenyan lady and how he felt like she cheated on him when they have a kid so what he did was revenge on her and started sleeping with her niece who was 18 and mimd you this guy was like 50 or 40 yrs of age and told me that the you girl was sweeter than the old Aunty who is his ex .something told me that he mjght have cheated on her before and blamed it on the lady because who sleeps with an 18yr old especially your family member and i told him , you wouldn't do that nosense to a Ugandan coz you would regret for that 😂 and he said that bes going to be doing x with young girls in Kenya he sent me the photos of them and that girl when they were making out.This guy is really sick omg .so please Kenyans if your here be aware that you have some predators roaming around .
Unfortunately guys will not except getting scammed as much as me. So alot of time men find a fiancé then have about 5-15 girl friends to have back up plan after vackup plan if there fiance fails them. It may be gd actually git married to his fiance then there was no more need for his backup girls. It's sad but guys have to be careful. 😢
I found out that the American women who scanned were not even from USA. Any woman who gets her hair "made" "slept off" and needs to buy "food stuffs" isn't really from USA. But scam artists. Probably Nigerian or Ghana. From my experience. It does no good to report there profile. Face book doesn't care. Be careful. Everyone is out to get you. Hope for the best. I hope my now fiance is as real as I need her to be.
If you get to the point your going to visit and get married have one more back up plan. Maybe have side girl friends or no the local of red light district in the city. It should be easy to rescue a woman from that situation. If you marry her then adopt her kid(s) she won't decline you. Help her make it to us or Europe. Then you both win. Happily ever after.
You'll never be happy with American women. So I say take the best wife. African wives when honest are everything. ❤ I will never look outside of Africa ever. ❤
@@africanbellatherealtalk you're right Bella but refusing to be picked up from the airport without any reasonable answer was already a huge red flag for me anyway lemme wait patiently for part 2
I met my boyfriend online but he is from Morocco and he's a Muslim I am a Christian but he's still studying I am 20 years old also he is 20 when he go back to school Bella oh my goodness you are the one who have to send a message I'm so worried but he loves me
Oh God African ladies please be wise . At age 20 for heaven sake why do you any to rush into a relationship instead of focusing on your studies and life . Y what does light have to do with darkness ? Please ask yourself lot of question before making this type of drastically decisions .
No Darling . There's a story that Bella did a while back of a Lady who paid for her ticket to Italy and got stranded there. Just Don't. Currently dating a man and he's sent money for visa, ticket and everything that will be required for the 1st travel. I didn't even ask for it
@divine5582 I remember Samantha's story that's why I told this man that I will not manage to pay for myself and he was mad at me then he told me that he will find another woman I said it's okay we stopped the communication.
Unfortunately some men are "mama's boys"; ie, they are strongly controlled by their mothers. It is best to avoid them because they will be more concerned with pleasing their mamas than tending to your needs.
Eeeeeeeee chatting for almost four years without meeting😮😮😮😮.not accepting her to pick him at the airport was the first red flag💔💔.such stories make me to ruuuuun away from dating apps😂😂😂But then I hear Bella's voice telling me to not😂😂😂😂😂😂
What scares the most I am not working, the job I'm doing is not better because I'm working at the house made at home but I really love this Morocco I know after sometimes back I'll be better I'll always be with you Bella I love you so much you are advised everything to me without you I was not going to know about online I just wish mine goes on well I'll come back here to give my
Don't date anyone for more than 3months 😢if he is not making any good move live him find someone else😢
Exactly dear
Yes I said it in my video. Don't let them waste your time. This is 2023/2024 shine your eyes
@@africanbellatherealtalk🏆🏆🏆
Lol! So, how does it work? I think there should always be room for getting to know each other. I don't agree with this
@Stella-nancha In a period of 3months he should have a concrete plan on when you guys are meeting otherwise you will get to know each other even in 10years without meeting and he will either ghost you eventually or keep chatting to waste your time.
Oh dear Bella, i couldn't even concentrate on the video just kept looking at your beautiful face and your lovely dressing, i mean your giving this rich aunty vibes 🤗🤗🤗 God bless you for always helping us out.
Eh , really sad for Pam. Thanks dear for enlightening us always.we love you ❤
Chaii this stories of abandoning ladies even make me focus more on my goals 😊😊😊😊😊
It's sad
@africanbellatherealtalk very Sad indeed
Same here 😊
@@araz829 OMG
Feeling so sad for what happened to our sister 😔 and Pamela she's just a strong woman because if it was me heeee my dear 😂, thank you so much Bella for always advising us ❤❤may God bless you 🙏🙏
Feeling sad for what happened to our sis Pamela. But also learning something. Thanks Bella for adding more alerts on online dating search.
Thanks Bella fro always been there for us we really appreciate so much darling
Sorry for our sister but be strong darling God will bring your soulmate much love from Uganda 🇺🇬🥰
Much love to you too🥰
Bella i love your videos am learning here
Some guys can be really super manipulative 😄😡. Bella I need tutorial of that eye shadow 😊 you look so cute 😍. waiting for part 2
Thank you hun 😘 ❤
With those his bad habits that their can't take he is rejected here. Now he went to stress and play our sister wah. True Bella denial of visa always has reasons for sure. Poor Pamela went through alot. Ladies don't resign at your job until you are assured he is the one. Alot of lessons to learn from this. Looking forward to part 2
Asante sana Mrembo❤❤❤❤
Oh my goodness.. I can't wait for part 2..
Soon
Hello Bella,today i was just thinking about you of you have stayed for long without giving as a video,all over sudden boom boom,i open my UA-cam then a video from your is the first one to Pop,we really missed you
Awww missed you too been really busy lately. Thank you dear ❤️
Honestly Pamela had patience! After the first red flag,she could have left that guy. Can't wait for part 2 !
Thanks sis Bella for educating us🙏🙏one can never go wrong with your educative videos.
God bless you.
Sorry for her ,she went through alot already,she was so patient with that guy,i wish she could h told him to meet in Tanzania and not quit the job so sad she had to walk the whole day waiting for him to answer the phone i felt bad he did this to her ,God bless you bella fir those stories they help many of us keep up❤
Thank you dear ❤️
Next part please.... This story is full of afro cinema
Soon hun
Thanks Bella waiting for part2
Welcome dear 😘
Our beautiful Bella, thank you for always watching out for us, you are indeed a blessing,
I actually thought this was a continuation of part two of the story you brought us of a Kenyan lady who was also mistreated by her boyfriend, the airport drama, not telling the lady how things are done,I don't know if you remember that story 😂
That one I did already it's part two dear.Yes I remember
Oh Pamela😢😢
She was in love and she couldn’t notice the red flags 🚩 I thank God for Bella she is always here to advice us tirelessly 😢 Thank you sister ❤
May almighty God keep blessing u for us ❤
Can't wait for part 2. Naivety at it's best
Hello good evening Bella indeed there was red flags in this Relationship but our poor sister was blinded with love too bad but it's areally abig lesson to learn and thank you Bella for bringing such stories to shine our eyes may God bless you and your beautiful family dear and abig love always take care.
Welcome dear 😘
😢 sorry sister Pamela,woooi so sorry sis
Thank you dear ❤️
Nice one dear African bella thanks for sharing 😘😘👍
It was very bad to her and to us we need to learn something from this video
Thank you so much Bella God bless you and your family ❤❤❤❤
Welcome dear 😘
Yo very interesting to learn ❤
Thank you ❤️
Omg so sorry for our sis Pam, you have a sweet sis,
Looking good bella 🥰
Beautiful Bella. Great lessons and advice to learn from ❤❤❤❤
Thank you dear ❤️
Great lessons from the story. Welldone Bella
Thank you dear ❤️
Omg I am so so speechless. Pamela a lot of red flags my sister keeps ignoring them. She let Jeff walked all over her with no respect at all. I am sad she went stranded in Mombasa 😢 waiting for part two
You look very beautiful thank you for the advice
Thank you dear ❤️
Great Advice ❤❤❤
God has a reason for all the denial visa chances, the guy was a red flag
Whoooo i cant wait for part 2 yiu make me 😂😂😂about the juicy 😂😂😂 so true bella ask questions
Thanks a lot my beautiful sister Bella for your advice
Thanks Bella God bless you! ❤❤❤
Amen 🙏
Having bella God sent will help many ladies to avoid mistakes
Cause of being blind in love
Thank you dear ❤️
Great advice,thanks for sharing ❤
Been through this stuff,it really hurts 💔
Bella I need your Advice, My long distance boyfriend wants to come to my country Ghana and meet me in person for the first time and when he come he will rent a nice apartment for us to live together in my country Ghana for 6months or 1years for us to know ourselves, He said he doesn't want to rush to Marriage so he wants to live with me in my country Ghana for 6months or 1year on our first meeting in person before he will go back to his country Europe. Please Is it a good idea to live together with my long distance boyfriend in my country for 6month or 1year on our first meeting in person because he wants us to know ourselves more better?
No
Sorry for her I saw one lady to left with pregnancy and Hiv from a German man as well so sad
So sad 😞
Jesus Crist whaaat🙄🙄🙄🙄Bella ur looking mmwaaahhh🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰chaiii this struggle 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅now after Namibia 🇳🇦 it's now Kenya 🇰🇪 😳 ug🇺🇬 next😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
waaaaah you have predicted already
😂😂😂😂😂😂absolutely
We cancel that in Jesus's name it's won't happen to any from Ugandan amen
Yes it's real dear
🤣🤣🤣
Wow what a waste of good 4 years!!! Sorry for what you went through and strength to you my sister Pamela 🙏🙏. Thank you Bella for sharing the story it is an eye opener to many to shine their eyes and take note of the 🚩🚩🚩
It's been 6 months after watching this sad story n will watch all the parts I hope Pamela will have her happy ending with the right man❤
How can you go live with someone who you are not married to?most of the time, when someone comes and live with you,once he gos? you will never see him?he wants to come use you.please take great care of yourself.
I have seen you my love I will come back after work much love from the pearl of Africa Uganda 🇺🇬🇺🇬 y
Ok dear
Hi my lovely sis Bella 💗 hope you are fine darling 😘
Iam fine love ❤️
I couldn't be patient like that sister.
Can imagine
Oh my God Pamela is a patient lady as for me everything would have ended at the first meeting and also dating a guy for four years, that was ridiculous, there were alot of red flags but our sister was blinded by love, chai🙉🙉 let me wait for part 2, this abandoning thing is becoming more and more serious among African sisters who are always allow these unserious white men to step on them, that's so sad 😮😮
Really sad.
So sad for our sister Pamela for the bad experience she had 😢😢😢
Yes really sad
Hi, not all guys who say their family background is unhealthy lie. We just need to be careful...sometimes we from Africa have come from unhealthy families. Let's just be cautious and pray
She did the worst to resign from work😢😢oh my Goodness
Sorry pam, good Advice
Thank you ❤️
You are right bella we pass through hell just becouse of love😢
Please can u help me, do u think someone can get married to someone whom he /she just meet online
This Jeff is so disrespectful, so he can be ready to impregnate a lady he barely know, but he isn’t ready to marry her first. Oh! This men are so weird.
As ladies, Always protect yourself with protection when doing the cookie with this online men, your womb is too valuable to let this men put their seed in you, then abandon you in your country without the security of a legal marriage and relocation to his country.
Don’t be desperate and be very smart.
I can’t wait for part2.
You are so right my dear ❤️
I'm a live streamer and i talk to different guys on there but there is this German guy that talked to me about how he dated a Kenyan lady and how he felt like she cheated on him when they have a kid so what he did was revenge on her and started sleeping with her niece who was 18 and mimd you this guy was like 50 or 40 yrs of age and told me that the you girl was sweeter than the old Aunty who is his ex .something told me that he mjght have cheated on her before and blamed it on the lady because who sleeps with an 18yr old especially your family member and i told him , you wouldn't do that nosense to a Ugandan coz you would regret for that 😂 and he said that bes going to be doing x with young girls in Kenya he sent me the photos of them and that girl when they were making out.This guy is really sick omg .so please Kenyans if your here be aware that you have some predators roaming around .
Why is it Pamela not seeing the red flags
I wouldn’t leave my job.
Waaaah Bella this is alot to take
hello Bella!
allow me not say nor comment😮
THE END will tell it all.
thx for your effort in this❤🎉
Sweden
Hi hun.Thank you so much 💗
am upset 😫 , sorry my love sister
Beware of a guy who drops tears 😢😢
You are correct
Unfortunately guys will not except getting scammed as much as me. So alot of time men find a fiancé then have about 5-15 girl friends to have back up plan after vackup plan if there fiance fails them. It may be gd actually git married to his fiance then there was no more need for his backup girls. It's sad but guys have to be careful. 😢
I found out that the American women who scanned were not even from USA. Any woman who gets her hair "made" "slept off" and needs to buy "food stuffs" isn't really from USA. But scam artists. Probably Nigerian or Ghana. From my experience. It does no good to report there profile. Face book doesn't care. Be careful. Everyone is out to get you. Hope for the best. I hope my now fiance is as real as I need her to be.
If you get to the point your going to visit and get married have one more back up plan. Maybe have side girl friends or no the local of red light district in the city. It should be easy to rescue a woman from that situation. If you marry her then adopt her kid(s) she won't decline you. Help her make it to us or Europe. Then you both win. Happily ever after.
You'll never be happy with American women. So I say take the best wife. African wives when honest are everything. ❤ I will never look outside of Africa ever. ❤
Hi Bella looking good
Thank you dear ❤️
Miss Bella the Lady in Red😘 missed you 😊
Missed you too dear ❤️
Ho my goodness, this is really Afro- cinema 😢😢🙆
Yes yes🤣
I'm already upset 🤬
Me too 🙄
I know love but it's good we are learning 🥰
@@africanbellatherealtalk true. I’m waiting patiently for part two
@Interracial_lovebirdz soon
@@africanbellatherealtalk you're right Bella but refusing to be picked up from the airport without any reasonable answer was already a huge red flag for me anyway lemme wait patiently for part 2
Guys let's realize the red flag before we get in good relationship and I would to tell you guys please don't share u goodies
Better
Today you are very very beautiful my sis❤
Thank you dear ❤️
Some German men are red flags to me 😢 more so Dutch men when everything is so well,i will share my story
😂😂😂.
I would rather deal with German men but not Spanish men 😂😂😂
Even Shakira cried.
Stop dating German men under 35 most of them are still mamas boys and still living with there parents besides that they take long to understand 😂😂😂😂😂
Girl's be careful
Pamale my sieter are you doing fine all this drama from Jeff?
He is childish how can you run a way without telling your partner?
He was not a man enough
Mwisho kuogea na hao mbwa ni miezi 6 tu zaidi ya hapo siwezi. 😊
😮😮mbwa tena ok
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 umeua
That was a sign that she should stay where she was.
This online Guys they're wired most of them ladies as always Bella advice shine your eyes girls
Yes dear
Hello Bella you look very beautiful
Thank you dear
I met my boyfriend online but he is from Morocco and he's a Muslim I am a Christian but he's still studying I am 20 years old also he is 20 when he go back to school Bella oh my goodness you are the one who have to send a message I'm so worried but he loves me
Open your eyes young girl
A 20yrs guy and a student where do you expect him to get money to come visit you, open your eyes or you end up waiting for him forever
@@epitomeoffacts6235thank you for your advice
Oh God African ladies please be wise . At age 20 for heaven sake why do you any to rush into a relationship instead of focusing on your studies and life . Y what does light have to do with darkness ? Please ask yourself lot of question before making this type of drastically decisions .
Hmmm... Comment reserve till the story ends. 😢😢
Chatting for 4 yrs without meeting 😭😭I don't have that kind of patience
Same here.....i Don't have that kind of patience of chatting with a guy 4yrs without meeting..I will even get tired along the way
We need to keep shining our eyes
@@africanbellatherealtalk we are so glad you're here for us always ❣️
@hildajoel5 ❤❤
Hello bella
Hi love ❤️
Hey sweetie Bella, is it okay for a man that you meet online to insists that i should pay for my ticket to him in his country?
NO NO NO DEAR
@@africanbellatherealtalk thanks darling 😘 💕 ❤️ 💖
No Darling . There's a story that Bella did a while back of a Lady who paid for her ticket to Italy and got stranded there. Just Don't.
Currently dating a man and he's sent money for visa, ticket and everything that will be required for the 1st travel.
I didn't even ask for it
@divine5582 I remember Samantha's story that's why I told this man that I will not manage to pay for myself and he was mad at me then he told me that he will find another woman I said it's okay we stopped the communication.
@@hildaug7177it's unfortunate but it's good that you made a wise decision. Yes yes, it's Samantha. A good man will come come your way.
Ok, i can say she was annoyingly patient with this man.
I know
Unfortunately some men are "mama's boys"; ie, they are strongly controlled by their mothers. It is best to avoid them because they will be more concerned with pleasing their mamas than tending to your needs.
So true @william
Sorry 😢
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤ Sophie oyeeeee 💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
🤣🤣🤣🤣
You are very pretty
Thank you dear ❤️
Eeeeeeeee chatting for almost four years without meeting😮😮😮😮.not accepting her to pick him at the airport was the first red flag💔💔.such stories make me to ruuuuun away from dating apps😂😂😂But then I hear Bella's voice telling me to not😂😂😂😂😂😂
Haha Asia the mumu woman😂 how a u darling😊
@@Suzyfabulous AM alive and kicking🤸♂️🤸♂️🤸♂️🤸♂️🤸♂️🤸♂️🤸♂️ huun
@@Asia-ew9wxgreat to hear that.ohhh finally our Miss Bella showed up from punku😂
@@Suzyfabulous we missed her alot
@@Asia-ew9wx Yah
But ladies we have to pay attention to the holy spirit three times rejected hehe
We need to keep shining our eyes
Am not hey made me 😂 so much
Never that is too long time
They do it.many
Sorry for Pamela the Jeff gay was so weaked and bad person
Very bad bad guy
You look good
Thank you dear ❤️
Pam was more blinded with the Jeff gay
Yes my dear
MEN MEN MEN 😭
Sad
What scares the most I am not working, the job I'm doing is not better because I'm working at the house made at home but I really love this Morocco I know after sometimes back I'll be better I'll always be with you Bella I love you so much you are advised everything to me without you I was not going to know about online I just wish mine goes on well I'll come back here to give my
Morocco men are married in there countries before careful 😢
@@realestdoll7070 ok
Pamela is insecure thats tooo much if it was me i run immediately i qiess she even set him the money hotel refunded to her
Pamela hope she isn't my high school teacher 😂
No🤣🤣
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Hi dear
Hello dear
Me if you ghost me I'll do the same it's not a do or die