The Real Reason Why Women Really Friendzone You!
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they friendzone you to put you on layaway so they have providers to pick from when they hit the wall.
💯 and no self-respecting man will stay in the position.
EDIT: And if women treat you like this, improve your value.
@@edheldude who are you talking to? a real man won't have to worry about "staying" in that position because he would never be in that position in the first place.
@@asdfdc1946 The majority of men who aren't high value men and who women will treat like crud.
Women can also switch up on you in a relationship and try acting like this.
The problem is that modernity institutionally provides women with a glut of provisioning and protection, so no wonder they act like spoiled trust fund children. Which is also why they’re entirely fixated on danger-seeking “alpha” (hybristophilia) behaviors as a form of entertainment/attraction. They feel anesthetized with excessive comfort/resources and starved for excitement/danger. Then they seek out men who display violent felon anti-social behaviors, and wonder why those men treat them like shit.
Most of the cases they guy ends the "friendship" with the girl when she marries.
Your presence doesn't provoke lust. You're in the most dreaded "friendzone" if you choose to linger and waste your time.
The realest words ever spoken, "Men have no seduction process"
Problem is that it is unpractical in literally any other cities than Las Vegas, Los Angeles or Miami
The strip of Las Vegas where Sartain resides. The rest of Vegas is normal.
Having to do this shows society is collapsing
Why do I have to be Superman just to meet a human being who cares about me?
being nice only matters if you check all the other boxes first. being nice in and of itself isn't enough.
in addition women think if your nice and your unattractive you have an agenda or are overcompensating
Yes it is
@@ongobongo8333 in terms of mate selection and the attributes women find attractive in men, being nice really doesn't matter unless you have other qualities women naturally desire. the nice part, might be the little cherry on top. but it won't be the entire dessert.
Why do I have to be Superman to get a woman?
They don’t wanna be with a dude who can’t save their lives lol
@@syz5649 I didn't mean that...muscular jacked dudes scare women. I'm talking about living this extrodanary lifestyle
@@JimmyHeight You don't actually have to live that lifestyle. You just have to seem like you do. Watch it again. Also, women might be scared of muscle but they'll seek it out when they want their backs blown out.
@@user-zv8md9xv8c I think you mean to say you don’t have to live that lifestyle fully…you do have to live that life atleast to a degree to get women. Even dudes who fake it til they make it have to show some semblance of results to sell their fakeness…and women aren’t afraid of muscles they’re afraid of cowards with muscles..as long as your not a bitch your muscles will only help your cause
@@user-zv8md9xv8c I'm 6'1 225 pounds. I squat 500. Dude, women are mostly scared of me. I get looks from some girls but when I actually go after them....they fear for their lives! Also, don't you notice majority of hot girls are dating these wimpy looking guys? They could do better but they don't seem to care what the guy looks like.
I admit I once, briefly, was not just a "nice guy", but also a clingy, desperate boyfriend. I found myself on my knees once, begging a girl to not break up with me, when I was 19. I cringe so hard in embarrassment when remembering that.
I'll write a long comment about myself here and I know that will probably not be interesting to anyone, but maybe there is someone who can profit from my personal experiences, because they relate a lot to the things Tree is talking about and are on-topic here.
So please no "TL;DR" comments. I get if this isn't for you, but it might be for someone else.
So that relationship was a tumultuous one and I learned a lot, really a lot.
I was a late bloomer, so to say. I only have had silly, superficial teenage "Will you go with me? Yes, No, Maybe?"-type of relationships before that one and I was very immature.
That relationship seemed like the first serious, somewhat adult one, which is part of why I handled it so poorly and why I learned so much from it.
She was a Chinese girl, not American-Asian, but actually Chinese-Chinese, born and raised in China and according to their culture, it didn't take long till she started talking of marriage.
I was a engineering student who spent a year in China for a internship and I naively thought I could either find a job in China after graduating, or bring her to where I was from. She wanted me to move to China. She was from a wealthy family and had no intention to emigrate.
After a while she became very dominating, turned into kind of a house dragon. She commanded me around and was constantly talking about her expectations for a husband and that I would have to give her "a good life" as she put it.
In part because I was a stranger in a strange land and was dependent on her to find my way around China, I let it happen and slid into a somewhat submissive role, not sexually, but in every other way. We weren't married yet, but I was already the quiet "hubby" dude who followed his woman around and wore the clothes she wanted me to wear and so on.
I didn't like that, but I liked her and I was fascinated with the idea of living in China, which was still a pretty free and wild place back then, in the early 2000s, before the current dictator took over, so I didn't fight it.
She also became very jealous and controlling, was constantly calling me and wanted to know where I am and who I was with and so on.
Her jealousy was at the same time justified, because I as a foreigner was very popular with the Chinese girls. Other dudes would even use me to pick up girls. They would ask the girls whether they wanted to meet a foreigner and then stand in front of my dormitory door in the middle of the night, with a gaggle of chicks who wanted to party with the foreigner.
On the other hand, her jealousy was not justified, because I actually never cheated on her.
Eventually I met another girl though and while we didn't have sex, we just hung out together and I enjoyed her company. She was much nicer and sweeter than my angry dragon girlfriend/fiancee.
The girlfriend found out I had been hanging out with another girl and made a huge scene and broke up with me.
That is when I debased myself and begged her on my knees to give me another chance.
I don't even really know why I did it. I wasn't really happy with the relationship and I had another potential girlfriend lined up already.
Still, just out of habit and fear of change, I didn't want the relationship to end at that point, so I begged her and eventually she caved and gave me another chance.
But hardly surprising, the power dynamic had shifted even worse in her favor after that and she became even more domineering and controlling, until a few weeks later, I had enough.
But like the immature little coward I was, I didn't want to break up with her so shortly after I had begged her to not break up with me, so I hatched a plan to make her break up with me again instead, like a character in a silly sitcom show.
I decided to just go full "macho" on her, turn around the whole thing and start dominating her.
I was sure she would hate that and break up with me, but the plan totally backfired.
She loved it.
The more I became the silver-back gorilla, the more she turned from the angry tigress into a purring little kitten.
It was remarkable.
Instead of asking her if she would meet me for a date, I told her when to be where and didn't ask whether she wanted to or not.
We both enjoyed the relationship more after that. In the end it didn't work out for logistical and outside reasons, because I wasn't able to move to China when both my parents fell ill.
Apparently I might have dodged a bullet. Later, after eventually breaking up with her, I learned that she was kind of a mafia princess.
A common friend told me that there are 5 families controlling the city where I had lived for that year and her uncle was the boss of one of those families.
I had been wondering why all her superiors in the company where we both worked treated her with so much respect and reference for a young woman, hehehe.
However, that relationship and the way she reacted to my behavior, taught me a lot about relationships and about women, which was confirmed over and over again in later relationships I had.
Another thing I learned during that relationship was how sad "orbiters" are.
She had a male buddy who was in love with her, but she treated him like a servant. He had been doing her bidding for years, trying to get into her pants without success.
When I came along and fancied her, I knew I wouldn't have much time to waste, only being in China for a year, so after only knowing her for 2 weeks or so, I asked her out and because of the cultural and language barrier (she spoke English very well, but she didn't get every nuance and every reference) I didn't beaut around the bush. I basically told her I sense a thing between us and if she feels that way too, we should hook up, to which she said yes immediately.
She later told me she had liked my directness and assertiveness.
I guess that was a first hint to the big plot twist later, but I didn't really pick it up at the time.
The point is just that it must have sucked for that poor orbiter guy to have been kissing her ass for years and then some random foreigner shows up and swoops her up immediately.
The lesson being to not try to weasel your way in through the friend zone.
Yeah, not every woman will react as positively and as quickly to being dominated as that ex of mine, but my attitude now is that I rather scare one away that way than by being a "nice guy" and making her bored and disgusted.
As I said, I still cringe and feel embarrassed when I remember that low point. I feel absolutely no shame or other bad feelings about those times where I was too domineering or too much of an asshole.
Are you mental???? Long post.
@@GUITARTIME2024 So? I don't get people like you who come to UA-cam to watch people talk about a subject for 10 minutes to hours, but then get super annoyed when someone writes a comment talking about the same subject, which would take 2 minutes to read.
Nobody forces you to read it.
What you are doing is the same thing as walking past a shop, stopping, going in and shouting at the clerk behind the desk: "Hey! I don't want to buy what you are selling! Just thought you should know that!" and then walk out again.
Thanks for sharing man.
I do have similar memories with being dominant, I used to be rude, cocky and dominant with girls, most of them loved it, a couple of them thought I was a rude bastard.
Long story short I started going to therapy stopped being rude and dominant with girls and now they want nothing to do with me.
I might come back to my old ways.
play or sing well enough to get into a band. Get skilled enough to do really well in races or other competitions, especially karate or shooting. If you do those things, you'll get women., especially if you TEACH those things.
"You can do anything, but not everything." ---Motivation
They put you in the friend zone so they could have a roster of guy's for every occasion.
Great info.
I say this with zero negativity and derision: Michael here is hovering around 20-23% body fat. If Michael took his own advice and got below 14% he would have a much more chiseled jaw and look much healthier and more attractive on camera. Almost everyone I've ever trained thinks they are at least 3-10% lower in body fat than they really are. I've seen countless bodies and even if no one's eye is as accurate as a DEXA scan (which still has a margin of error), going by an experienced eye really is what counts the most at the end of the day.
Believe me, I know it feels awesome to fill out your shirt sleeves when at 20% or higher...but sadly it doesn't fool anyone, certainly not on camera which adds even more weight to the face. Men at 20% body fat also start to show measurable health issues in their blood markers so this is not merely about aesthetics- try to stay below 20%, you will look and feel better. If you want to fill out your sleeves, work your triceps primarily, not your biceps. Triceps make up 2/3rd of your arm size and the meaty long head of the triceps make up 2/3rd of it. Overhead extensions are your best bet for targeting this long head.
15% body fat is a great target for most natural (non-steroid users) guys, since it is not too difficult to reach and, though your abs are not very crisp, you will fill out your shirt better since how often are we really shirtless? 12% is about the lowest sweet spot that can be maintained year-round by most guys where you can finally see your abs well when shirtless (if you work out obviously) but still feel great. Any lower than 10% is just not maintainable for most guys since your mood will start to be affected and your T will surely drop below 8%. The guys you see on stage at competitions who temporarily for the show are at a staggering 6% are without exaggeration all miserable, tired, irritable, and desperately hungry. Very unhealthy but that's the "sport."
All these bodyfat numbers above are for guys since women's numbers are very different and much higher. I wish someone told me all this when I was younger! Michael gives so much free value so this is the least I can reciprocate with. I wish you all the best.
Sartain says he has had women ditch him *more than 50 times* for other dudes just because these dudes have *cocaine*?? Bro, you need to seriously question your own judgment regarding the type of chicks you're going after!
He also said he was young when those women were ditching him for the guys having the cocaine. He didn't know any better.
Why would anyone care about girls stupid enough to go after coke instead? Shows how easily they can be bought
It's not worth it!!!
There's no way Michael Sartain is 10% body fat. 😂🤣
No he's 10% of his body fat 😂😂
This guy is crazy, basically saying just become famous or mma fighter and you will get the women. Guys don't go to such extremities for women, it's not worth it really. Live your life peacefully
why r ur videos in 360p
I hate to sound like a downer but lets be real if you aint rich your getting no where. Make the most of what you got but forget women.
How do you become better at conversation 🙃
I am a 68 year old woman with a low libido who has never in love. I friendzone all men. Until recently I didn't realize that being friends with men was considered a bad thing. I guess that I am just innocent but I have had friendships with men that have lasted for decades. I bond with her
You’re not getting it. Maybe it wasn’t explained well. “Friendship” and “friend zone” aren’t the same thing. Friend zone is a one way resource flow from the man who thinks he has a shot to become more than just friends, to the woman who knows he has no shot and is allowing him to think he does. A friend zone means the man is providing entertainment, support, money, etc. in exchange for existing in her circle hoping he will become her boyfriend. She knows she can string him along and keep him as an orbiter for her benefit. A friendship is where both are giving and receiving and both know that neither are trying to date the other.
But that’s rare. Below age 45 it’s very very rare for a single guy and a single girl to be friends and actually spend time alone together without one of them having other ideas for where it’s going.
Thanks for the explanation.
My best platonic relationships began when I was in my teens and twenties. Unlike what you said, I find it to be difficult to develop platonic relationships with men as I have gotten older. Now that I am a senior citizen, men assume that I have hit a wall and that I am desperate for sex. The opposite is true. My low libido has become even lower and I only want platonic relationships with men.
@@MouseAPowers-ql3nv I can just speak for my own experience and most Millennials and Gen Zers. A whole hell of a lot of women keep a “roster” of men in their phone. I can tell you this was the case for all five of the women I dated, and all three of the women I tried to date unsuccessfully.
Some of the roster men are in the friend zone, and the woman is stringing them along because she gets dinner, movies, trips, money, etc. from those guys. She’s already crossed them completely off her dating list.
Then you have the guys she’s using for “monkey-branching”. She will have 3-5 guys who are on the roster of men she is possibly interested in. She’s holding onto a few of them and as one guy rises above the rest, she lets go of the bottom guy. So she’s always holding onto a few guys to wait for one to rise above the others. She’s possibly dating and/or sleeping with all three.
Three of the girls I was trying unsuccessfully to date had me in their roster, and were toying with me until one of the other guys rose above me. I got dumped for other guys in those cases. Got totally friend-zone one time and was used for rides to events.
One woman I was sleeping with was actually dating another guy, but was making him wait to have sex. She was making him wait and work for it, but was giving it away to me for nothing. I didn’t know that until later. Another girl I dated had a roster. She was getting new clothes from me, marijuana from a second guy, and entertainment from a third guy. She was having sex with me, blowing the drug guy, and denying sex to the third guy.
The last woman I dated before I met my wife had a list of fuck buddies that she maintained contact with while we were dating. After we broke up she called them right up.
Lastly, my wife, who only had a body count of one prior to me, still had at least two ex-boyfriends’ numbers in her phone while we were dating. She even texted one of them one time while we were out and I saw it. I nipped that right in the bud immediately, and 15 years later, we are married and happy.
Glad to be out of that train wreck of dating culture. Seems it’s a nightmare no matter what age.
@@americandissident9062 It's worthless to have a woman friend. Just have a guy friend or a dog.
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once a woman is beyond the age of 22 or so, she has to WORK for her beauty. if she's fit, hair and makeup done properly, that's discipine, time, money and EFFORT, guys. So you're fos about not acknowledging that work on her part. She KNOWS that her looks are a big part of why she gets noticed, so she naturally focuses on maximizing that aspect of her presentation to the world. Go ahead, ignore her looks, while I compliment her on them, and we'll SEE who scores more often.
22? No dude. I know we are all about being realistic but let’s not get stupid about this. 23 year women haven’t hit a wall where they’re getting wrinkled and saggy tits and all that. I say that number is closer to 28-30. It takes very little effort for a 23-25 year old girl to look good if she’s hasn’t gotten fat.
Michael your chick uses you and is just biding her time until a younger badboy shows up. Keep that in the back of your mind always.
Sleep tight. 😉