“I don’t want to date someone until I’m complete and do the work on myself, I don’t really know myself yet” can be translated to “I’m in my prime and don’t want to settle with a downgrade yet, I’m not done with the bad boys yet and need to be passed around like a hot potato and develop a few more regrets a little more first”.
Also when all other girlfriends get married. They want a safe bet to take care of their security until they all get divorced and go back to partying in their 30’s again
She missed her window. These women all had opportunities given to them and they never took them. They needed their parents to tell her to lock a good man when she’s young, much like how it used to be common in the West to get women to be married at a young age. Sometimes they’ll run to a guy they rejected years ago in the realisation that he was a good provider, but those guys usually wise up and realise she’s not worth it.
This " I don't know myself "excuse is all cap..... what the hell you mean you don't know yourself....? Everyone knows who they are... you know if you are kind, you like drugs, you like chaos, you're a hard worker.... and etc..... you may not know what you want to do but you know who you are.... that is a bogus excuse..
What most of them don't understand is that the type of nam they date in their twenties will be the the only type of nam they'll be able to marry on their thirties.
Regrets don't necessarily reflect a Better Reality... and may just be a complete waste of time because there's no way to prove that things would have worked out better.
It's beauty and the beast. Turning a dangerous (exciting), selfishly motivated man into a productive member of society with the power and inspiration of your love (and virtue). It's both the "bad boy" and the provider in the same man. Rare man and rare woman who live up to the legend. But it does explain the excitement chasing in youth followed by the "nice" guy later. They substitute the difficult "heroes" journey for momentary thrills.
what she means by "i need to go out and work on myself" is i need to get ran through by as many men as possible and this is my womanese for saying so because im too gutless to speak the truth
I would say that "fining yourself" is an evil fool's errand distraction. Life is a journey, not a destination. These women think they are going to "find" that destination of "finding themselves" only to eventually realize too late that the point of life was never about "finding oneself". Actually that lifetime that they squandered was the point, not the destination seeking to "find oneself". Rather than living life in the moment BUILDING oneself, they squandered the life they were given on the fool's errand of "finding themselves".
Especially when "finding themselves" means getting laid. I have a penis myself, pretty sure I've never seen answers to the mysteries of the universe come out of it.
What's more sad about women wanting the nice guy back to is that nice guy is already taken and have a nice family with a nice good wife. This always happens to good man who were refused by the hotties in he's youth days.
Women think it’s great that culture doesn’t push them to get married in their youth like it was decades ago, but truth is that it’s bad. That get married young culture did more to help women than it did to help men. It forced them to go looking for a man, and commit to him when they were at their peak value. By waiting to layer in life women lose all or most of their value in the relationship. It makes it harder for them to get the guy they want
Hell freezes over before I go for a used up 30+ year old when her former student who is now 20 is there with the same nyash but less history in cheating and drama. She can still be saved from the CC. If it were legal, I'd marry two, no, more. 😂
She giving even a fraction of the sexual energy, attraction, interest in the nice guy especially once she gets him? No, didn't think so. This isn't just having less energy in general. She just wants that lifestyle upgrade along with that early retirement package. The degree of Machiavellianism ingrained in women can be a shock to the young inexperienced guy.
it's annoying but its just the truth and this is why man say we are the prize not women. When women realize her youth is going away now she wants security and protection. What sucks now is nice guys are being more tougher than ever before and not giving a damn about women waiting for years till they are like 45 and older to find the nice guy. If you didn't want him back than why want him now. A nice example of this is men who are older are being attracted to younger women and no ladies i'm not saying school age i meant actual adults meaning 20 and older. As i'm not saying older man are chasing younger women cause its the younger women chasing the older man. In all my years i never heard a older man said i found her nope its always she found him.
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“I don’t want to date someone until I’m complete and do the work on myself, I don’t really know myself yet” can be translated to “I’m in my prime and don’t want to settle with a downgrade yet, I’m not done with the bad boys yet and need to be passed around like a hot potato and develop a few more regrets a little more first”.
"Older women want a nice guy" is like a rich man who want monogamy marriage/relationship when he bankrupt.
That's a great analogy.
Facts!
They want a safe bet when nobody wants them.
Also when all other girlfriends get married. They want a safe bet to take care of their security until they all get divorced and go back to partying in their 30’s again
😮
Incredible how they didnt know "I had my fun". was a huge red flag
They may have had more than their share of fun, doesn't matter now if you didn't and are still looking for some.
I work with a bunch of young guys in STEM. They are all saying that their mothers have been telling them not to get married.
Smart woman
Smart moms!
We don't want them after they're ran through and used up by all the gangsters Sorry, we're not here to fix your trauma.
They THINK they want a good man but they are flaky and will dump him the minute their burnt out dopamine circuits gets bored with Mr. Nice Guy.
Now that I'm a older guy I want a younger girl
yes always its gonna be like that
eternal truth
If a dude is still signing marriage licenses in this day and age to a being that is a slave to her emotions, he is a dufus.
It's just that when she got older the guys she was seeing don't want her anymore. Replaced by a younger girl.
She missed her window. These women all had opportunities given to them and they never took them. They needed their parents to tell her to lock a good man when she’s young, much like how it used to be common in the West to get women to be married at a young age. Sometimes they’ll run to a guy they rejected years ago in the realisation that he was a good provider, but those guys usually wise up and realise she’s not worth it.
This " I don't know myself "excuse is all cap..... what the hell you mean you don't know yourself....? Everyone knows who they are... you know if you are kind, you like drugs, you like chaos, you're a hard worker.... and etc..... you may not know what you want to do but you know who you are.... that is a bogus excuse..
What most of them don't understand is that the type of nam they date in their twenties will be the the only type of nam they'll be able to marry on their thirties.
Because are like an old Italian car , not top looking and high maintenance cost . If you have the money you buy something more new
Regrets don't necessarily reflect a Better Reality...
and may just be a complete waste of time because there's no way to prove that things would have worked out better.
It's beauty and the beast. Turning a dangerous (exciting), selfishly motivated man into a productive member of society with the power and inspiration of your love (and virtue). It's both the "bad boy" and the provider in the same man. Rare man and rare woman who live up to the legend. But it does explain the excitement chasing in youth followed by the "nice" guy later. They substitute the difficult "heroes" journey for momentary thrills.
what she means by "i need to go out and work on myself" is i need to get ran through by as many men as possible and this is my womanese for saying so because im too gutless to speak the truth
And that’s you…
7:21 Danger Zone! 🤣
I would say that "fining yourself" is an evil fool's errand distraction. Life is a journey, not a destination. These women think they are going to "find" that destination of "finding themselves" only to eventually realize too late that the point of life was never about "finding oneself". Actually that lifetime that they squandered was the point, not the destination seeking to "find oneself". Rather than living life in the moment BUILDING oneself, they squandered the life they were given on the fool's errand of "finding themselves".
yes
Especially when "finding themselves" means getting laid. I have a penis myself, pretty sure I've never seen answers to the mysteries of the universe come out of it.
Work on myself, find myself, grow as a person, etc, etc…it all equals : I WANT MORE EGGPLANT UNTIL I NOTICE THE ATTENTION DRYING UP. Get lost! 🤢
the Black Pill feels so good :)
Woman at 6:50
Half her vocabulary be "like".
I'm teasing...
She like...said absolutely nothing..like. 🤪🤡 😂
Women need to stop listening to bitter single women and understand that your value decreases while men’s typically increase with time.
Never fully trust a woman’s words…
Saying goes: “Be a MAN of your WORD”
For a reason.
What's more sad about women wanting the nice guy back to is that nice guy is already taken and have a nice family with a nice good wife. This always happens to good man who were refused by the hotties in he's youth days.
Women think it’s great that culture doesn’t push them to get married in their youth like it was decades ago, but truth is that it’s bad. That get married young culture did more to help women than it did to help men. It forced them to go looking for a man, and commit to him when they were at their peak value. By waiting to layer in life women lose all or most of their value in the relationship. It makes it harder for them to get the guy they want
Now that she's older, just let her get even older + single with 8 cats.
I have a new hate for the word “Like”
Well, you can't always get what you want.
Hell freezes over before I go for a used up 30+ year old when her former student who is now 20 is there with the same nyash but less history in cheating and drama. She can still be saved from the CC. If it were legal, I'd marry two, no, more. 😂
She giving even a fraction of the sexual energy, attraction, interest in the nice guy especially once she gets him? No, didn't think so. This isn't just having less energy in general. She just wants that lifestyle upgrade along with that early retirement package. The degree of Machiavellianism ingrained in women can be a shock to the young inexperienced guy.
This is exactly the reason , as an european man, I dont see a woman under 30 as desirable. Lack of maturity is not sexy
Hello from Europe. Please take the over 30 year old women and leave the 20 year old women to me. 😂
@@tomstarwalker you can have the kids
@@etopsch369 I'm into adults, not kids. I'm looking for a sexual relationship, not to adopt children.
@@etopsch369 I'm interested in adults, but maidens, not in those deep in the mother territory.
@@etopsch369 oh I believe that you're the only one getting the Kids, my kids.
These girls look 10 years past what they report
it's annoying but its just the truth and this is why man say we are the prize not women. When women realize her youth is going away now she wants security and protection. What sucks now is nice guys are being more tougher than ever before and not giving a damn about women waiting for years till they are like 45 and older to find the nice guy. If you didn't want him back than why want him now. A nice example of this is men who are older are being attracted to younger women and no ladies i'm not saying school age i meant actual adults meaning 20 and older. As i'm not saying older man are chasing younger women cause its the younger women chasing the older man. In all my years i never heard a older man said i found her nope its always she found him.
People change every 5 years, likes/dislikes- shifts are always happening. No such thing as being "complete"
profound f no
Older 304 want a nice guy
Lol dating is dead...
Apparently no one is dating anymore but everybody still f**kin 😂😂😂😂😂 this world is a joke
lol correction: only a small group of men is having sex. Most men aren’t getting anything
Nope only the top 20% of men are getting action
Why do these girls look like this? 😂
And like and like and like and like
losers