My Labor and Delivery - Ep 6 Almost Ready

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  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
  • The past nine months has been more than I ever imagined. Pregnancy has been one of the most exciting, challenging and physically demanding things I've ever done. It's brought a new meaning to family and my partnership with Matte - I've watched my daughter develop and grow and now I'm READY to meet her!
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  • @nazaninghavami
    @nazaninghavami 5 років тому +7911

    Not many celebrities show their real life struggles and I’m happy that she was one of the few to document her pregnancy journey. She’s such a trooper! I’m glad both her and the baby are healthy.

    • @humankaleidoscope4989
      @humankaleidoscope4989 5 років тому +60

      I know I'm so genuinely thankful to be able to see this... She's a hero for showing women her journey as it really happened.

    • @ginatolomei3866
      @ginatolomei3866 5 років тому +5

      Same love that she did

    • @khadijajafrani
      @khadijajafrani 4 роки тому +6

      Even claire holt shares it ☺️

    • @torib9075
      @torib9075 4 роки тому

      I didn’t know she was a celebrity what do she do?

    • @rubyroberts5085
      @rubyroberts5085 4 роки тому +7

      Tori B she’s most known for her role as Emily in pretty little liars.

  • @nicz051
    @nicz051 5 років тому +1783

    at the end, when she said "i cant" then the baby started crying, and she said out of relief "oh my gad its crazy" why am i so emotional 😭

    • @jessicabobadilla2591
      @jessicabobadilla2591 5 років тому +12

      That exactly how I was, in the last moment I screamed "I cant! I cant!!" And I just remember my body just gave in the last push and my baby came out... so crazy how your body just does that.

    • @amairanybello843
      @amairanybello843 5 років тому +2

      I was the same !!! One last push and my son was born! Crazy how things happen! ❤️

    • @prawnaholic
      @prawnaholic 5 років тому +1

      @Nicole Penny ikr. Me too! feel relieved too

    • @jazzroma16
      @jazzroma16 5 років тому

      Nicole Penny I cried too ahhh so emotional

    • @shannonclapham3640
      @shannonclapham3640 5 років тому

      SAME! 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️

  • @nicollequintero981
    @nicollequintero981 5 років тому +4890

    It’s crazy that I watched her as Emily on pll as a baby and now she’s having a baby

  • @ericabaysinger1963
    @ericabaysinger1963 4 роки тому +2528

    I teared up when she started saying this is crazy this is crazy.

  • @AlianaGrande111
    @AlianaGrande111 5 років тому +3092

    the fact that she could talk during labor... this woman is TOUGH. congrats shay

    • @nigelacarpenter241
      @nigelacarpenter241 5 років тому +32

      ally those contractions took me down to my knees

    • @dogcakesuk9821
      @dogcakesuk9821 5 років тому +20

      She did have an epidural aswell though which takes away so much pain.

    • @mariac1984
      @mariac1984 5 років тому +14

      @@dogcakesuk9821 after like 23 hours

    • @sharkgirlloveschewba
      @sharkgirlloveschewba 4 роки тому +1

      You can up until about 5-7 cm

    • @KDu400
      @KDu400 4 роки тому +4

      She was in early labor the whole time. You can talk through those contractions

  • @VictoriaG02
    @VictoriaG02 5 років тому +4522

    The “natural” route isn’t for everyone and I don’t think anyone should feel guilty for getting medical help.

    • @AuthenticallyFonze
      @AuthenticallyFonze 5 років тому +121

      Absolutely..I agree. I recorded my birth and posted it on my channel and I got a lot of backlash, of course I had to delete most negative comments. But my baby girl came out healthy and fine.

    • @tati2thicc265
      @tati2thicc265 5 років тому +23

      The Diary Of Fonze I’m sure you daughter is beautiful ❤️

    • @AuthenticallyFonze
      @AuthenticallyFonze 5 років тому +7

      @@tati2thicc265 Awww thanks Pooh 💖💖

    • @MurysCreationss
      @MurysCreationss 5 років тому +11

      I had one natural and one epidural. Epidural for the first, natural for the second and I haven't wanted anymore til now, lol . My oldest 17 and youngest 15

    • @sydneyar3205
      @sydneyar3205 5 років тому +6

      Tbh it’s probably not for most people

  • @nathalyveneros6225
    @nathalyveneros6225 5 років тому +1398

    I cried when she cried, I can only imagine the joy she felt when she finally could hold her baby

  • @jocellyneeb
    @jocellyneeb 4 роки тому +3026

    I did 72 hours in labor. I almost died but I’m here with my baby🥰

  • @diyaverma4005
    @diyaverma4005 5 років тому +1936

    Tell me I wasn't the only one who actually felt the entire labor process with her. And I'm not even a mother yet.

    • @Damapr77
      @Damapr77 5 років тому +19

      I did as well! I don't even want any!

    • @subfornoreasonwillreturn6181
      @subfornoreasonwillreturn6181 5 років тому +10

      I felt it qnd I am a Male

    • @shaunyg_
      @shaunyg_ 5 років тому +8

      Yes definitely. I'm a mom and it took me right back to my birthing room experience

    • @briannapatterson8158
      @briannapatterson8158 5 років тому +4

      I’m pregnant with my second and it honestly scared me 😅. My first was super easy, I’m scared to death this one is gonna be a pain in the ass lol.

    • @melanieswan9714
      @melanieswan9714 5 років тому +8

      Ive done it twice and this is EXACTLY what it is like. First time I watch a labour and delivery video that shows you the true side of labour

  • @NicholasJamesEmmizzie
    @NicholasJamesEmmizzie 5 років тому +3768

    *water breaks* “wow this is such an attractive look right now”

    • @lala8.0
      @lala8.0 5 років тому +12

      actuallysougly we stan shay forverrrrrr

    • @alexisgraham3496
      @alexisgraham3496 5 років тому +15

      She’s truly iconic like that.

    • @callumkelly9155
      @callumkelly9155 5 років тому

      .

    • @whyamialive3079
      @whyamialive3079 5 років тому +11

      Same energy as when colleen started to straighten her hair when her water broke 💀💀

  • @ruthjedio.1481
    @ruthjedio.1481 5 років тому +1520

    That black screen moment was like "im not crying, you are" we all were😣

  • @pleasanthamilton8209
    @pleasanthamilton8209 4 роки тому +1813

    Her daughter is gonna be drop dead gorgeous. Because she is herself

    • @melodiechartier5173
      @melodiechartier5173 4 роки тому +16

      she is gorgeous but two good looking parents dont always make good looking babies...the same way two ugly parents can have a very good looking kid...

    • @Noname-bl5hk
      @Noname-bl5hk 4 роки тому +34

      Melodie Chartier yeye, but fast forward to now that we’ve seen atlas, wooooowww, is she precious. So beautiful, bless her

    • @pamelayarull
      @pamelayarull 4 роки тому +12

      Melodie Chartier actually in my opinion everyone is wonderfully beautiful, I don’t like when people start saying “looking parents, ugly baby” like no, even though I’m ugly thanks to my dad HAHHAHAHAHAHHAHA ( jk ) but yeah.

  • @ispeakfangirl6857
    @ispeakfangirl6857 5 років тому +1645

    Imagine doing this before without all these medical advancement. Women are superheroes

    • @ginsulimani3075
      @ginsulimani3075 5 років тому +41

      My grandmother did this at home.... alone.... with 6 babies.

    • @shiloh8734
      @shiloh8734 5 років тому +6

      Not really. It’s within a woman’s anatomy to be able to conceive, carry, and birth children. It’s natural

    • @bee3467
      @bee3467 5 років тому +43

      @@shiloh8734 yeah well i would lose my mind from the pain.

    • @daisymarie7042
      @daisymarie7042 5 років тому

      My mom always does that

    • @dawnwr30
      @dawnwr30 5 років тому +3

      I did. No pain meds at all. Not even a Tylenol. It frigging sucked! Lol.

  • @denisciotoiu3551
    @denisciotoiu3551 5 років тому +841

    Even when her water is breaking she's a sarcasm queen😂😂😂

  • @k-yilin5179
    @k-yilin5179 5 років тому +2086

    “I’m 99 percent excited to meet her and 1 percent excited to eat.” Lmao

    • @suzettevalencia9387
      @suzettevalencia9387 5 років тому +3

      Stella Volgs that was me also I wanted food

    • @lilaca4444
      @lilaca4444 5 років тому

      Yes is true that happens and Plus it was 3 tornados around the area but i was more worry about meet the baby and super hungry 🤣

    • @TheWaywardMama
      @TheWaywardMama 5 років тому +1

      I was the same way. My brother-in-law brought Arby's, and I was so grateful. Lol.

    • @monaevasser1565
      @monaevasser1565 4 роки тому

      Meeeee

    • @monaevasser1565
      @monaevasser1565 4 роки тому +1

      I was both

  • @ellabarbour7487
    @ellabarbour7487 4 роки тому +6284

    “Thank god I’m wearing these diapers” that’s a mood😂

    • @brandidolfo6791
      @brandidolfo6791 4 роки тому +11

      Hahaha 😂 😂 lol

    • @1987YNAFFIT
      @1987YNAFFIT 4 роки тому +7

      Ella Barbour 😂😂 Right I’m like what!?! Did she just say she was wearing a diaper. 💜💜

    • @maliablossom7340
      @maliablossom7340 4 роки тому +1

      Ella Barbour how is that a mood though? 😂

    • @xxmemequeenxx2385
      @xxmemequeenxx2385 4 роки тому +13

      Malia Blossom sometimes during pregnancy you end up peeing out of nowhere from the baby being on bladder or leaking from the water breaking and it’s more easier to use the bathroom and wash up too

    • @01BadAzzGoddess
      @01BadAzzGoddess 4 роки тому +5

      I'm in early labor which usually takes me two weeks and I'm thinking that's a great idea right now lol.

  • @joshifereverlark8605
    @joshifereverlark8605 5 років тому +804

    Oh god Shay's raw emotion and disbelief when she hears the baby crying is so beautiful, it's such a pure moment. I teared up ❤️

  • @mariettacara
    @mariettacara 5 років тому +3159

    *“no ovaries no opinion”*
    honestly, i love that

    • @hillz4358
      @hillz4358 5 років тому +19

      marietta Rachel from Friends 🙌🏻

    • @giogarza22
      @giogarza22 5 років тому +4

      Well hello there fellow Lovatic 😆🖤

    • @shaniatiffany7008
      @shaniatiffany7008 5 років тому +5

      rain coco no unterus no opinion

    • @LauraCortes96
      @LauraCortes96 5 років тому

      Yes

    • @Anairamrp1
      @Anairamrp1 5 років тому +6

      I really liked that shirt. Yet Matte had a lot of opinions when it came down to Shay's pregnancy.

  • @wackmarisa3474
    @wackmarisa3474 4 роки тому +9973

    okay but why does she look like that actress from jane the virgin in the beginning

    • @sarajayy1724
      @sarajayy1724 4 роки тому +266

      wack marisa you mean gina Rodriguez. I was gunna say the same though lol

    • @rizzabellef
      @rizzabellef 4 роки тому +86

      I thought so too 😂

    • @tylalynn9726
      @tylalynn9726 4 роки тому +74

      wack marisa Her face is bloated from the pregnancy I’m in the same boat LOL

    • @xoesuejung3572
      @xoesuejung3572 4 роки тому +73

      I literally didn’t recognize her.

    • @sunnyibi2696
      @sunnyibi2696 4 роки тому +8

      Yasss

  • @victoriahypey8641
    @victoriahypey8641 5 років тому +1241

    I literally started crying when she said “it’s so crazy”

  • @mortalcombatgirl144
    @mortalcombatgirl144 5 років тому +1192

    I knew The baby had to come because she didn’t post in a while. (Thnks for all the likes)

    • @gabsdelilah
      @gabsdelilah 5 років тому +1

      Same

    • @lilymcgarvey8449
      @lilymcgarvey8449 5 років тому +1

      Same! Totally!

    • @sandyhoney243
      @sandyhoney243 5 років тому +3

      She posted a photo on instagram yesterday too 😊

    • @valenciajones7740
      @valenciajones7740 5 років тому +5

      She posted on her story’s yesterday but there was no bump and was like awwww shhhh!!!! The baby here! 😩☺️

  • @IceCold_Ivy
    @IceCold_Ivy 5 років тому +402

    The moment Shay started to feel her daughter come out and her saying “This is so crazy” then hearing the baby cry..hit me hard emotionally. That moment must be so powerful. Congratulations Shay & Matte 🍼

    • @Ronnaaybaby
      @Ronnaaybaby 5 років тому

      April Rose SAME ! 😭 it was so beautiful!!!

    • @chelseaozanic92
      @chelseaozanic92 5 років тому +1

      April Rose It is the CRAZIEST thing I have EVER experienced. I did it 3 times and every single time was so awesome and overwhelming. So many emotions all at once. It’s just amazing.

  • @victoriahendrix2797
    @victoriahendrix2797 4 роки тому +352

    I bawled my eyes out when I heard the baby crying and Shay saying “its so crazy”. Man, so emotional

  • @bri.xo4
    @bri.xo4 5 років тому +2593

    “idk how people do this for like 36 hours”
    *does 33*

    • @CAITLINCILLIER
      @CAITLINCILLIER 5 років тому +14

      Bri A hahaha if only they had a choice

    • @lemenmarin8556
      @lemenmarin8556 5 років тому +1

      No yo no tengo nada que ver con migo y con migo en el recuerdo del otro lado del mundo y pidiendo un montón de cosas que tanto me gusta de comer

    • @ashbean10
      @ashbean10 5 років тому +17

      As an ldr nurse I can say, No ones active labour is 36 hours. Active labour being 4-5cm having strong contractions approx 1-2 min apart causing uterine change. The doctor even said at one point “ you’re not in active labour”, thus they augmented with oxytocin. Her active labour would have been much less than that. None of its easy though! That’s for sure.

    • @asdf-up8ff
      @asdf-up8ff 5 років тому +5

      I give birth to my doughter for 26 minutes like wtf 😂😂

    • @leagrimes8656
      @leagrimes8656 5 років тому +2

      Emmanuela Lamaj I guess someone really wanted to get out of there 😂

  • @naydeline9251
    @naydeline9251 5 років тому +723

    I wanted to cry when she said “oh my god thats crazy”

    • @melondiemarie1020
      @melondiemarie1020 5 років тому +11

      Naydeline I did cry a little. Lol

    • @missliz85
      @missliz85 5 років тому

      Me too! Lol

    • @sharimoore9210
      @sharimoore9210 5 років тому +8

      I cried a lil. It was such an emotional and beautiful video. Thanks Shay for sharing this amazing experience with us

    • @lucr3808
      @lucr3808 5 років тому +1

      Me 2!

    • @divagrl6949
      @divagrl6949 5 років тому +1

      Naydeline I did cry 😭 😭 😭

  • @peggypatch1233
    @peggypatch1233 5 років тому +586

    This is how many ppl think that shay will be an amazing mom 👇

  • @zuzannaskowronska170
    @zuzannaskowronska170 4 роки тому +309

    Can we just appreciate how supportive the nurse ( or the lady helping Shay) was? They way she was like "She DID tough it out" and honestly I want a nurse like that someday 👏

  • @Lovelyseniaa
    @Lovelyseniaa 5 років тому +539

    Omg I teared up when I heard the baby crying and hearing her say “this is crazy “ . That’s exactly what I felt when I had my son 2 years ago. That first cry of your baby is the most precious moment and so unforgettable. But Man seeing this brought back so many memories. My water broke on June 17 at 5am and I delivered my son that same day at 35 weeks 5 days in the afternoon. But let me tell you how painful the contractions were especially with having to get pitocin 😩 And the epidural had no affect on me and still felt the contractions . Worse pain ever , but it went away after I push my son out in 3 pushes . And honestly I would do it all over again . And can’t wait to be a mommy to a 2nd child in the future ❤️

  • @katieparnaby
    @katieparnaby 5 років тому +338

    “99% excited to meet her and 1% excited to eat” it’s definitely love for shay to say that. amazing girl, we’ll done and congratulations she’s a dream 💖

  • @sylindacampos554
    @sylindacampos554 5 років тому +469

    When you were sayin "oh my god is so crazy" "I cant look" had me crying. I have had 2 miscarriages and I honestly cant wait until I am able to experience this and this has touched my soul. Thank you so much for letting us being able to experience this beautiful moment with you. Congratulations Shay on your beautiful baby healthy baby girl.💗

    • @Ohsvm
      @Ohsvm 5 років тому +7

      I believe having faith everything will come when the time is right💞. Keep being strong hun, cause eventually, in Jesus name you will be able to be a beautiful mother one day as well.

    • @sylindacampos554
      @sylindacampos554 5 років тому

      @@Abby-uk7rv thank you so much! I know shay had one earlier last year I believe I think that's why I resonated with her so much. Thank you for your kind words.💝

    • @taniaalasaniaa2144
      @taniaalasaniaa2144 5 років тому +1

      Awh I’m so sorry for your loss girl! I’ve had one myself at 5mnths it was so hard for me but here I am pregnant again!! 🤣💜 have hope, your time will come!

    • @sylindacampos554
      @sylindacampos554 5 років тому

      @@Ohsvm thank you 😭💝 I'm trying to stay strong. What keeps me going is I know one day I will be doing what shay is doing here 🤞💓

    • @sylindacampos554
      @sylindacampos554 5 років тому

      @Minimalist Mom In Progress the first was a blighted ovum on dec. 31st needed to have a d&c and second I'm not sure what happened but it was on April 15th only was pregnant for a week. Then I had miscarriage symptoms and pain and went to the er and it was all passed. I was checked out and I am perfectly fine..But thank you I am trying to keep strong and my husband helps me through. Right now I'm just trying to enjoy our time together. 💓

  • @khadzar8585
    @khadzar8585 5 років тому +722

    When she said she's only 1% excited to eat something and 99% to meet her daughter, SO TRUE! After labor I didnt want to sleep i was so excited to hold my daughter too.

    • @NicholasJamesEmmizzie
      @NicholasJamesEmmizzie 5 років тому +5

      khadz Ar you know it’s true love if you pick someone over food 😂

    • @khadzar8585
      @khadzar8585 5 років тому

      @@NicholasJamesEmmizzie exactly! Love makes ur stomach full 🤣

    • @jordantoomey9525
      @jordantoomey9525 5 років тому

      Lol I was the complete opposite. The whole time i was in labor all I could think about was what I was going to eat after it was over lol

  • @sierra2123
    @sierra2123 5 років тому +1054

    Love the “no ovaries no opinion” shirt. Shay is one the few real big UA-cam. Loved every bit of this video. Congrats on the new baby.

    • @shiloh8734
      @shiloh8734 5 років тому +7

      Sierra 2021 that’s stupid. You need a male to make a baby just as much as you need ovaries and eggs. A man should be able to have an opinion on a baby as well. He’s 50% of the reason it’s coming

    • @ajthesimmer6698
      @ajthesimmer6698 5 років тому +17

      @@shiloh8734 i pretty sure its because women are the one's that have to endure the pain and are also the ones that push the baby out. Men don't do that part

    • @lifeofnanaa
      @lifeofnanaa 5 років тому +9

      @@shiloh8734 but not about whether the pain is too much for her and she wants an epidural, hat's the decision of the one who has the ovaries!

    • @shiloh8734
      @shiloh8734 5 років тому +1

      AJTheSimmer sure but who’s fault is that? A male is still needed to make the baby and is also a parent. The baby is just as much as theirs as it is the mother’s. They should have an opinion on certain things when it comes to children.

    • @shiloh8734
      @shiloh8734 5 років тому

      Nana Rappler what if her husband told her not to get the epidural and she did anyway and complications arose. Epidurals are actually quite dangerous if handled the wrong way. She could have been paralyzed, have severe back pain, it could have made pushing harder, or caused tears. Why would a husband want to see his wife suffer more than she has to? So many things could go wrong

  • @rosemarysotelo261
    @rosemarysotelo261 5 років тому +562

    seeing her in so much pain is personally birth control for me 😭😭 i cant imagine being in that much pain ! wooow props to every mom out there 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @ginsulimani3075
      @ginsulimani3075 5 років тому +8

      It's all natural and you'll forget all.that pain.
      It's a pain that will come to a end and you'll immediatly forget every.single minute of it.

    • @Taikyaa
      @Taikyaa 5 років тому +15

      Blue Girl definitely won’t forget any minute of it lmao (I had three natural unmediated labors)

    • @marwaamara2527
      @marwaamara2527 5 років тому

      I had a c section at 18 I'm 22 now and after one I was like never again the pain lol good for people who forget 😂🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

    • @user-si2wi4sk2u
      @user-si2wi4sk2u 5 років тому +2

      Blue Girl well my mom still haven’t forgotten about it 17 years later

    • @pabriny
      @pabriny 5 років тому +3

      Labor is horrible. A million things can go wrong. plus your body will be like a deflated balloon forever and ever. No one tells that stuff though.

  • @melindalee7112
    @melindalee7112 4 роки тому +469

    👏To the birth mothers out there...you’re stronger than me.

    • @jennyferboyer690
      @jennyferboyer690 4 роки тому

      PIOMYETR uomumo
      Kisses UOMUM
      PUMOMUR
      Punishable missty beats buonum
      Uomurss
      PUMOMUR
      PUMOKUE variety BUONUM
      Fred's car
      Uomjm

    • @minniepeyton3525
      @minniepeyton3525 4 роки тому +4

      Aw thanks. I'm due in January.. 4th baby

    • @shalainahawes3987
      @shalainahawes3987 3 роки тому +4

      @@minniepeyton3525 have you had the baby yet? if so, i hope everything went well!

  • @KrystalMont
    @KrystalMont 5 років тому +969

    NEVER CLICKED SO FAST

    • @yeohye9454
      @yeohye9454 5 років тому +1

      Sameee I nearly dropped my phone

    • @litzymartinez2097
      @litzymartinez2097 5 років тому +2

      Ik my brother looked at me like a weirdo bc I lost my breath for a bit

    • @lilymcgarvey8449
      @lilymcgarvey8449 5 років тому +1

      Same! I just knew it, I was like clicking onto UA-cam, and my shay- sense was tingling!!!

    • @Antonia.222
      @Antonia.222 5 років тому +1

      Me too😂🥰

    • @KrystalMont
      @KrystalMont 5 років тому

      Sarah Tinker Didn’t think we’d have the video as quickly as this!

  • @stephensfamily2790
    @stephensfamily2790 5 років тому +107

    I'm so excited to see Matte wearing this shirt considering how many opinions he had in previous videos and Shay stuck her ground! Congratulations Mama!

  • @antheatan6653
    @antheatan6653 5 років тому +329

    Is it just be or everyone just started crying when they started counting from one to ten 😭 Congrats Shay! I look up to you so much ❤️

    • @haintsorakouth1751
      @haintsorakouth1751 5 років тому +1

      Girl, I cried hard. Then when I heard her cry and then her baby started crying I cried even more... Congrats Shay!!!

    • @CBD78
      @CBD78 5 років тому

      Anthea Tan i cried too 😪😭 reminded me when i gave birth to my daughter
      CONGRATS SHAY!

  • @seidenschnabelfederflugel5441
    @seidenschnabelfederflugel5441 2 роки тому +25

    "No ovaries No opinion". YES YES! PREACH. 😊😊♥️
    Also the nurse said:" She didnt complain". Even if she was, she has every right to complain! We are allowed to complain. Life is hard and giving birth is hard. And complaining is not a sign of weakness!
    But, thanks for sharing this video with us. ♥️

  • @julayned.1374
    @julayned.1374 5 років тому +570

    I don’t know why but my eyes were tearing up when she said “it’s so crazy”, i’m still crying, that was a beautiful moment.

    • @kynewicker3256
      @kynewicker3256 5 років тому +10

      Pretty sure it's because you hear the little one let out a little cry right before, which definitely engages the maternal instinct! The beauty of new life! Man, I didn't know it could rain inside a house, because I've got all these droplets on my phone's screen. :'-)

    • @julayned.1374
      @julayned.1374 5 років тому +4

      Kyne Wicker these were all happy tears😭 and i don’t know if you’ve ever watched pll but while watching this, i just couldn’t believe that she’s so mature and ready for a new chapter in her life now, bc i really know her as emily, the shy teen😂So to hear the “it’s so crazy” that just touched a whole other part of my soul😢

  • @mswilson1531
    @mswilson1531 5 років тому +260

    Did everyone else cry when she was born? 😢😍

  • @CozyGamer92
    @CozyGamer92 5 років тому +373

    Whew gosh....crying as the baby comes out and hearing Shay start crying for her baby Ughhh the tears!

    • @graceq444
      @graceq444 5 років тому +1

      Love the profile pic!⚡️

    • @CozyGamer92
      @CozyGamer92 5 років тому

      Yes, girl 😊 Team Flash til the end ⚡

    • @turtlepetal
      @turtlepetal 5 років тому

      I started crying too. I was so worried for her I'm happy everything went smoothly.

  • @justuraverageswiftie22
    @justuraverageswiftie22 4 роки тому +84

    I love that the doctor walked in and knew Shay hadn’t felt the baby move and was worried and asked the nurse if she was hooked up and then was assertive about getting her on the monitor ASAP. So many doctors don’t really seem to listen to their patient and their concerns, especially in child birth. I’ve heard so many horror stories, so I love to see a doctor who is present and listening to the mother’s concerns and questions.

    • @shagunlalwani5715
      @shagunlalwani5715 3 роки тому +3

      my mom was screaming in labour and the doctor told her " why are you screaming that bad ? havent you been preg before?" i wish my mum had a good doc and a nurse too and i am beyong glad shay had that for her

  • @ruidile
    @ruidile 5 років тому +297

    I'm not even kidding when I say this was so emotional and beautiful to watch. Shay's raw reaction at the end really brought me to tears. Props to the team who got this video together it was amazing and also congrats to shay and matte on their baby girl. I can't wait till we find out her name.

    • @xojoclene
      @xojoclene 5 років тому +1

      I think she let people know when she posted her swollen ankles and asked if it was her shoelaces or Atlas causing the swelling.

  • @destinee5556
    @destinee5556 5 років тому +279

    I love how real an open she is!! She doesn’t hide anything❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @MilaSmith
    @MilaSmith 5 років тому +110

    This was so raw and beautiful. The fact that Shay is willing to share this wish us is a privilege. I am so happy for her and Matte ❤️

  • @dodoalsaleh4820
    @dodoalsaleh4820 5 років тому +614

    When she started saying “it’s so crazy”, MAN THAT MADE ME CRY.

  • @borabora3114
    @borabora3114 5 років тому +365

    If this doesn’t end up on trending im gonna be mad af

  • @DraBrooke
    @DraBrooke 5 років тому +141

    I could hear the fear in the doula’s voice when they said they were going to start the pitocin. 😭 i am currently training as a doula and i really appreciated seeing how she interacted with you during your birthing process. You did awesome Shay! I cried. You are a warrior 🙌🏼

  • @nonashay
    @nonashay 4 роки тому +30

    Everybody was so sweet, supportive, and understanding. This is exactly how I want my Labor Day/birth to go. I’ve witnessed some doctors and families being completely rude to patients in labor and I wouldn’t want that.

  • @meylimaldonado1174
    @meylimaldonado1174 5 років тому +347

    ugh i cried so much when i heard her baby cry because i remembered meee pushing my guts out and then finally hearing my baby cry and realizing he was hereee 😩😩🥺🥺😢

    • @shafaqshaikh5521
      @shafaqshaikh5521 5 років тому

      How painfull was Labour?I want to know more about it

    • @PhyllisAlexis
      @PhyllisAlexis 5 років тому +4

      @@shafaqshaikh5521 it really cant be described... Sitting here pregnant with baby3. Eventually you "forget" the pain but.... I remember always describing iy like :, someone putting your whole spine in a grinder and mooshing it into a giant ball that is trying to press through your a-hole.... Literally.... The back/spine pain is not from this planet

    • @shafaqshaikh5521
      @shafaqshaikh5521 5 років тому +2

      @@PhyllisAlexis omg!!when you put it that way it scares me😥and yeah I also heard when you see your baby the pain vanishes 😁

    • @teesjourney972
      @teesjourney972 5 років тому +3

      @ZeeAlexis haha great way of describing it! I told my gfs I’ll capture a moment for them when I’m in active labour to describe how I’m feeling and all that came out of my mouth was “ I feel like I am dying” it’s so true though the moment you see your bubba it literally disappears I’ve heard until the next time your in labour it all comes back to you 😐😐 ps the shaking is actually horrible. Did you shake?

    • @sugarspice3797
      @sugarspice3797 5 років тому +2

      I'm crying because I remember how bad it was. It's an unforgettable experience. I had it without epidural and when they give you pitocin, the pain gets to 100! I don't mean to scare anyone but trust me it goes as soon as the baby is out

  • @karly_ongrowth
    @karly_ongrowth 5 років тому +209

    Shay had me in tears when she started reacting to her daughter coming into the world. 😭 my heart ❤❤❤

  • @leahmcelhaney2
    @leahmcelhaney2 4 роки тому +106

    the epidurals are no joke y'all, best feeling in the woooorlddddd. 🥺

  • @mirismear2658
    @mirismear2658 4 роки тому +32

    Her reaction when pushing, and when the baby finally came out, was so genuine I love it

  • @k.l.1868
    @k.l.1868 5 років тому +305

    Hearing her cry and you saying "this is crazy" had me in tears! I love how beautiful this was made. It showed how freaking hard it is but it was still so tasteful and beautiful! Thank you for letting us experience this miracle with you, Shay!

  • @nalajayme
    @nalajayme 4 роки тому +714

    Was anyone else in straight TEARS watching this ?!? I feel like we went through this with Shay, and to see her deliver and hear baby girls first cries... my goodness !!!!

  • @dildarabdu
    @dildarabdu 5 років тому +282

    The end just made me cry so much even when I’m nothing remotely close to a mom, but I felt that when she said at the end in shock “it’s so crazy.” Yeah, it sure is🖤this is so raw and beautiful!!

    • @ImSalome
      @ImSalome 5 років тому +1

      same, im sooobbbing

    • @dildarabdu
      @dildarabdu 5 років тому

      I'm Salome something so profound about creating a new life and bring it to the world♥️

  • @ChristinaJosue
    @ChristinaJosue 5 років тому +540

    We just had our BABY GIRL after two miscarriages 💕

  • @isabellahepp7173
    @isabellahepp7173 5 років тому +50

    The way shay reacted when her baby came out was the most beautiful and honest reaction ever, literally made me cry because you could feel the emotions by her reaction 😭🙏🏼❤️ May god bless you and your new little family, so happy for you !!!

  • @marciaholder3437
    @marciaholder3437 4 роки тому +43

    She has changed so much from when she was on pretty little liars

  • @j6nrod
    @j6nrod 5 років тому +396

    I almost teared up just hearing the audio of Shay giving birth.

  • @youknowwhatimsaying9228
    @youknowwhatimsaying9228 5 років тому +264

    I hope shay and Troian daughters have little playdates❤️👭

  • @marahmorris1991
    @marahmorris1991 4 роки тому +29

    When I was in middle school and I found out labor could be like 12 hours my mind could not comprehend that but then when I found out it could be days in labor I lost my mind.

  • @andreamora254
    @andreamora254 4 роки тому +2454

    Matte’s shirt is everything LMFAOOO 😂 “No ovaries No opinion”

    • @andreamora254
      @andreamora254 4 роки тому +148

      Destiny Marie Alvarez and sadly it seems as if your mom had that same mindset if you’re here. smh 🤧

    • @wiebkee.4703
      @wiebkee.4703 4 роки тому +24

      Andrea Mora HAHAHAHA omg Love that

    • @Tattleta1e
      @Tattleta1e 4 роки тому +13

      No ovaries no opinion is stupid. Men can have an opinion and should not be judged for having one

    • @Tattleta1e
      @Tattleta1e 4 роки тому +8

      @Destiny Marie Swallow It isn't an opinion! It's a horrible act. I'm happy for Shay having her baby 🤱🏽

    • @Tattleta1e
      @Tattleta1e 4 роки тому +10

      @@andreamora254 I proud of every women who kept their baby. Especially happy to have Destiny around ❤️❤️

  • @arianamariax6428
    @arianamariax6428 5 років тому +424

    That was one of the sweetest things i’ve ever seen, when Shay said “i can’t” and then the baby started to cry i was tearing up. What a lovely birth wish you the best of luck, congrats Shay💗 X
    I loved you since PLL and will continue to and your baby will grow up looking up to you as an amazing mum❤️
    can i also just comment on how she still looked amazing during birth, like how? and also Mattes shirt🤣

    • @iamsolia
      @iamsolia 5 років тому +1

      Ariana Pignatiello EXACTLY when I got teary eyed! Because I can only imagine going through 33+ hours of labor and being so exhausted and putting all that energy into pushing and then you want to give up but then the baby cries and then you cry 😭😭😭💖💖

  • @carinahahn4276
    @carinahahn4276 4 роки тому +7

    You have done a great job! I literally cried when I've seen this. My son ist 2 years old now but I can remember how painful it was. It takes 36 hours from water broke to the birth of my son. They told me there were no contracts but there was. It was so painful but also worthy when I was holding him in my arms 😍
    Thank you for taking us with you at such a special day! It was so good to repeat it from an other perspective. ☺️

  • @tayylor026
    @tayylor026 5 років тому +476

    “No ovaries, no opinion” -Matt

    • @LauraCortes96
      @LauraCortes96 5 років тому +1

      Love the shirt, I need one for my bf

    • @cheyennegoldtooth7145
      @cheyennegoldtooth7145 5 років тому

      Love the shirt!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @prtybrneyez18
      @prtybrneyez18 5 років тому

      It's not his quote though lol I bought a mug years ago with that quote on it

  • @indiatuff8012
    @indiatuff8012 5 років тому +157

    I cried when they said she was out. Congratulations Shay and Matte

  • @elyssamorrow8690
    @elyssamorrow8690 5 років тому +583

    I didn’t want a baby until the last 3 minutes of the video

  • @rosedeli7821
    @rosedeli7821 4 роки тому +17

    I love how real you are Shay! You showed us how it really is and I really appreciate that.

  • @samanthaw8618
    @samanthaw8618 5 років тому +44

    Can we just talk about how AMAZING her doula is?! 🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @jj9533
    @jj9533 5 років тому +497

    Watching this while pregnant hits different 😭

    • @gabrielam7741
      @gabrielam7741 5 років тому +5

      Same 😭 I’m due in 20 days

    • @lilly_purr8150
      @lilly_purr8150 5 років тому +2

      Am i just very emotional or should I get a test?❤️😁congrats 🎈

    • @JakeTDandFinnTH
      @JakeTDandFinnTH 5 років тому +1

      Omg amen to this comment

    • @jasminewatson7190
      @jasminewatson7190 5 років тому +1

      Lol I stayed away from delivery videos while pregnant, so I wouldn’t scare myself.

    • @justmycomments5604
      @justmycomments5604 5 років тому +3

      j j I know I’m pregnant and I cried like it was my baby I heard crying

  • @harruuu9110
    @harruuu9110 5 років тому +783

    Not even close to giving birth but seriously considering hiring a doula. That lady was so sweet and helpful.

    • @MindaDonaldo
      @MindaDonaldo 5 років тому +5

      I 100% am!

    • @sharkgirlloveschewba
      @sharkgirlloveschewba 4 роки тому +8

      They're awesome! But find one that is better than what she had. Her doula wasn't a very good example.

    • @danidynamite2
      @danidynamite2 4 роки тому +10

      @@sharkgirlloveschewba I know absolutely nothing about what makes a doula good or not so I was wondering why this one wasn't a good example and what a good example of a doula would be.

    • @sharkgirlloveschewba
      @sharkgirlloveschewba 4 роки тому +11

      @@danidynamite2 doulas translate what the doctor/ midwife is telling the mom. She then explains pros, cons, evidence etc. She reminds mom that there's always a choice and mom gives final say and INFORMED consent, not just consent. Then she supports mom as best she can.
      This doula was saying scary things to mom and had her in the WRONG position to engage baby.

    • @chloetilmouth6254
      @chloetilmouth6254 4 роки тому +7

      Charls Jane my advice is choose someone that is going to help you stay in the right mind set by staying positive, telling you some options and supporting your decision. Also someone who is going to help you through the breathing techniques. The techniques and positive thoughts (“you’re strong” “you can do this”) helped me tough out the pain I was 8cm dilated when I got to the hospital 😂

  • @kay_kay14
    @kay_kay14 5 років тому +87

    I started crying when I heard the baby start crying and then I cried even more when shay started crying 😭

  • @chrissyknowsitall5170
    @chrissyknowsitall5170 5 років тому +181

    It's so hard watching her going through such hard and long labor. From my water breaking to delivery was 45 mins. Thank god I didnt go hrs and hrs. But watching this hurts me for this lady.

    • @hp89p35
      @hp89p35 5 років тому +6

      Wow that was lucky. Mine was 32 hours total after waters broke, 18 hours without epidural

    • @nguyenlinhtrang1703
      @nguyenlinhtrang1703 5 років тому

      You r very lucky!

    • @NG-fu3lu
      @NG-fu3lu 5 років тому +2

      Wow! I was in labor for 12 hrs. Wasn’t bad at all until they gave me the pitocin then i had to ask for the epidural. I had her out within 12 min

    • @hp89p35
      @hp89p35 5 років тому +2

      @@NG-fu3lu the pitocin speeds things up but definitely makes it more painful. Crazy what we go through to have our babies

    • @angelicaclaudio-cortes6952
      @angelicaclaudio-cortes6952 5 років тому

      Wow! Mine was 12 hours with my first, after they gave me pitocin she arrived within 4 hours. It was like 6 1/2 hours with my second, no pitocin. No epidural with either.

  • @georgiahulme
    @georgiahulme 5 років тому +6711

    She looked like Jane the virgin at the start

    • @radlyn7234
      @radlyn7234 5 років тому +64

      Georgia H yeah I thought the same !!!

    • @Jasmillmelisa
      @Jasmillmelisa 5 років тому +91

      Georgia H for real. i thought it was gina for a sec

    • @lucasw2456
      @lucasw2456 5 років тому +20

      I don't mind admitting I cried a bit when I heard the baby crying

    • @countchocula5379
      @countchocula5379 5 років тому +20

      She didn’t look like THAT much a virgin all things considered...

    • @subfornoreasonwillreturn6181
      @subfornoreasonwillreturn6181 5 років тому +10

      Georgia H niggas give me hibbie jibbies

  • @rennyvargas4065
    @rennyvargas4065 5 років тому +1678

    No ovaries, no opinion. Every guy needs this shirt specially while their wifes are giving birth

    • @user-mt3uf1mc2e
      @user-mt3uf1mc2e 5 років тому +5

      men do have an opinion because they get to vote on abortion issues

    • @klaraleblochova
      @klaraleblochova 5 років тому +37

      @@user-mt3uf1mc2e That's so not what she was talking about.

    • @user-mt3uf1mc2e
      @user-mt3uf1mc2e 5 років тому +1

      @@klaraleblochova what does she mean?

    • @klaraleblochova
      @klaraleblochova 5 років тому +17

      @@user-mt3uf1mc2e She said WHILE they're in labor, not anything else.

    • @user-mt3uf1mc2e
      @user-mt3uf1mc2e 5 років тому +5

      @@klaraleblochova so what opinion should the guy not have during birth? im genuinely confused thanks for the answer though

  • @eriqeashwaq692
    @eriqeashwaq692 5 років тому +1291

    I'm watching a woman having a baby, while I still have my period .

  • @juliamihajlovich
    @juliamihajlovich 3 роки тому +4

    I was 36 hours. But it was not intense the whole time. My doula was my rock. Absolutely life changing to have her with me. My hubby was nervous the whole time.

  • @allisonelias2065
    @allisonelias2065 5 років тому +109

    When moms hear their newborn baby for the first time is such a precious thing. I can’t help but get emotional 💖💙

  • @mayaonyango5902
    @mayaonyango5902 4 роки тому +6

    I absolutely loved this vlog. It was so authentic.
    I literally cried when watching your birth journey and it made me appreciate my mum & women in general. We are SUPERWOMEN!
    This was amazing! Thank you

  • @imacatgorl
    @imacatgorl 5 років тому +326

    Everyone says no epidural until them real contractions hit lol

  • @camiladiazfernandez1357
    @camiladiazfernandez1357 4 роки тому +4

    OMG as soon as she started crying, I started crying and now I'm freaking sobbing. Shay Mitchell, you are incredible ❤

  • @conspiracyreading3642
    @conspiracyreading3642 5 років тому +68

    I literally balled my eyes out. This truly is everything and more. I’ve had a miscarriage and I’ve been scared ever since to become pregnant, but this here, gave me faith and scares and made me want it even more! I’m so happy for matte and shay!

    • @Tayskiiest91
      @Tayskiiest91 5 років тому +7

      Sending you love and positive vibes for whenever you decide to have your rainbow baby 💜💜💜

    • @lustury5656
      @lustury5656 5 років тому +2

      Hey just want to let you know my mom had 7 miscarriages then had me it was a long process. She had my brother first and in between she tried getting pregnant but something was wrong and kept having miscarriages then after 7 years of trying i came. Its crazy to know that i also might have had baby twins or i might've been one of those twins it's a devastating story but my mom fought through it she had me and a year later had my sister im now 18 and i was born in 2000.❤❤❤ if you want to be a mother don't ever give up yes im a male but i might not be able to have kids in the future because of issues with my semen sorry to much information. But just know you got this and hope all works out for the best

  • @AshleeRose
    @AshleeRose 5 років тому +76

    I started to cry when the screen went black and you could hear Shay say “omg this is crazy.” And the baby crying 😭😭 congrats Shay!!!

  • @danafinlay7618
    @danafinlay7618 5 років тому +176

    My hair during labour - rats nest
    Shays - perfect in every way
    @danajayy

    • @ginsulimani3075
      @ginsulimani3075 5 років тому +2

      Rats nest made me laugh soo much lol
      I looked like the crazy lady who owns 30 cats in the Simpsons lol

  • @vidariaperez4247
    @vidariaperez4247 5 років тому +44

    Omg omg when she said " this is crazy" I lost it. Such a beautiful moment so glad that you allowed us to be apart of it! Congratulations 🎉❣️

  • @cleo4783
    @cleo4783 5 років тому +703

    I remember back when we didn’t even know she had a boyfriend

  • @vrose1112
    @vrose1112 4 роки тому +6

    Seeing how strong you were and how patient you were having to go through 33 hours of labor is honestly amazing. She is absolutely gorgeous like her mama. Congratulations Shay! ❤️

  • @lilymcgarvey8449
    @lilymcgarvey8449 5 років тому +29

    The way she was crying at the end!!! I can’t!!!

  • @MarsBars-j7y
    @MarsBars-j7y 5 років тому +188

    Am I the only person who imagined myself going through labor 😂

  • @laurengarcia3686
    @laurengarcia3686 4 роки тому +2

    I've watched this video like 5 times and I still cry when she said "Oh its so crazy." Such a beautiful moment.

  • @logankinner541
    @logankinner541 5 років тому +526

    Lol 😰 so sweet and I can’t stop crying
    I’m 15 weeks pregnant
    Who else is preggers watching this

  • @chele2313
    @chele2313 5 років тому +196

    When i heard shay's baby crying, i started to cry

  • @alyssanicole81
    @alyssanicole81 4 роки тому +83

    It’s crazy to see you change from baby Shay as “Emily” on PLL to a grown adult having you own child. Congratulations mama, excited to watch your family grow!💖

  • @cookiesntea9798
    @cookiesntea9798 5 років тому +466

    Anyone else looking at all the comments and seeing people talking about “it’s so crazy” and just wondering how she says it because I know it’s coming

    • @etamang
      @etamang 5 років тому +2

      Cookies n Tea OMG literally 🤣🤣

  • @aizaa8428
    @aizaa8428 5 років тому +40

    Was it just me but i literally cried when her baby’s coming out. Uh, the feeling of being a mom- so wonderful. Congrats, Shay! ❤️

  • @aznaznazn
    @aznaznazn 5 років тому +47

    She is soooooo calm, like how even???? I'll be screaming my head off, you can bet on that. 15 weeks to go till I deliver. Praying for the best.

    • @olivia-brooke6039
      @olivia-brooke6039 5 років тому +1

      Honestly, I kinda feel like she's freaking out a lotttt more then she shows. But still calm asffff

    • @tatiana3403
      @tatiana3403 5 років тому

      Praying for you! Good luck and don't worry! ❤️

    • @Laura10867
      @Laura10867 5 років тому

      Azian Ziana i was screaming like crazy and it was the only helpful thing!!

  • @dielara6517
    @dielara6517 4 роки тому +3

    10:42 I started crying and shaking but it was such a beautiful moment. I‘m so excited to grow up and become a mother myself.

  • @shanb5416
    @shanb5416 5 років тому +383

    This makes me never want to get pregnant. I'm petrified of giving birth, I don't have a pain tolerance at all

    • @Simplelivingslowliving
      @Simplelivingslowliving 5 років тому +44

      Thats ok too
      But u would be surprised how much your body can withstand in labor . It was made for it.

    • @shanb5416
      @shanb5416 5 років тому +4

      @@Simplelivingslowliving I hope so.

    • @tatianaharbuck2647
      @tatianaharbuck2647 5 років тому +35

      I think all mommas start off terrified but trust me that 9 months is long enough to prepare you. By that time your just ready to meet your baby and you’d go through anything to get them out lol! It can be painful yes but nothing you can’t handle. There is always an epidural as well and plenty of people willing to help.

    • @lolalolita3537
      @lolalolita3537 5 років тому +18

      Thats why adopt. Much better and more selfless

    • @karissagustafson8229
      @karissagustafson8229 5 років тому +25

      Also it’s not a “cop out” to get an epidural, you’re still going to feel and experience labour, but like shay said. Being in pain for 24+ hours is exhausting. And you need energy to push out a baby!

  • @poppyab9746
    @poppyab9746 5 років тому +559

    No Ovaries, No Opinion. That’s the motto!!! 😂

    • @sverkauu
      @sverkauu 5 років тому +3

      Poppy AB lol ikr

    • @kariiiinaxoxo
      @kariiiinaxoxo 5 років тому +3

      Seriously lol

    • @NightshadeGoddess
      @NightshadeGoddess 5 років тому +4

      took him a while to figure that out though lol 😂

    • @HomosapienNo94628
      @HomosapienNo94628 5 років тому +3

      I need to buy my boyfriend this shirt because i want to adopt instead of having my own child, but he keeps on persisting otherwise

    • @kassy.v5640
      @kassy.v5640 5 років тому +1

      Originally, it was a Rachel Green line in Friends: No Uterus, No Opinion. But I love Matte for wearing that T-shirt. 😂