I can’t afford being a single mom | school hunting | Starting Over PT 2

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  • Опубліковано 22 гру 2024

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  • @TheeMrsKhofla
    @TheeMrsKhofla Місяць тому +4

    “My comparison steals away the opportunity to fully be present in the journey that I’m in” Felt that.
    “Venting in the wrong places.” felt that too.
    The Lord is surely with you, holding your hand. You hold on to that promise!

  • @ZaneleNtungwa
    @ZaneleNtungwa Місяць тому +15

    I have just started a Single Mothers Foundation. The Launch is Saturday 16th of November. The aim is to get experts to help us navigate being a single mom. The vision came from me feeling “being a single mom of two is hard”

    • @phutiphooko7555
      @phutiphooko7555 Місяць тому +3

      How do we join

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  Місяць тому +1

      Tell us more sis

    • @ZaneleNtungwa
      @ZaneleNtungwa Місяць тому +3

      @@Tiisetso_Kgomo hey sis. The Launch is on the 16th of November. We have different speakers. 1. A single mom and daughter who have walked this journey. Mom is now a PHD Graduate, kids are now old and independent. So we will be hearing from both sides on how the journey was and hopefully learn. We have a Lady who will be guiding us through healing, resilince and Hope restoration. A Lawyer who will talk to us about co-parenting plans, and estate planning. We will get the word of God as well. Tickets are R500 a person at Casalinga Restaurant for the people in Joburg. That includes a three course meal.

    • @Viperplayz9123
      @Viperplayz9123 Місяць тому

      @@ZaneleNtungwahey Sis, do we pay at the venue and what time does it start?

    • @kebam_
      @kebam_ Місяць тому

      Hi @ZaneleNtungwa is there a contact number or WhatsApp for us to get more info ❤

  • @Ownnarrativepodcast
    @Ownnarrativepodcast Місяць тому +2

    I will always feel heartbroken for you when it comes to the kids💔 its hard for me to even say you will be okay because i know the load that is the kids🫂❤️ May God see you through this journey. Above all, i am proud if your resilience ❤

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  Місяць тому

      Mokgotse ❤️❤️ you know! I know God has this one on priority

  • @Me20243
    @Me20243 Місяць тому +2

    Is the soothing voice,the calm deeminar nd the ever so present covering of the Lord.. my kind of ASMR ❤❤

  • @neopearl8886
    @neopearl8886 Місяць тому +2

    The minute you thought of starting this journey of moving in with the kids, God was and is already at the point of your needs. You will manage sis and you will be reminded of God's grace, the uncommon favor that has always been upon you. Look back and now, I still say he will never leave nor forsakes.
    By the way your vlogs are always inspiring. U look beautiful and younger all the time😊. Proud of you 🤞

  • @nompumelelomaseko9719
    @nompumelelomaseko9719 Місяць тому +1

    Yoohh first of all I just want to say, Lord re kgopela chelete 😭 all the best in finding a school/schools for the kiddos. God has got your back, front and sides. This is a "Spirit lead me where my trust is without borders" kind of moment, and we trust that He will lead. Thank you so much Tiisetso for sharing these hard moments with us, it's transparent and vulnerable and I'm loving it ❤

  • @Chuma_Pakade
    @Chuma_Pakade Місяць тому

    Just discovered this channel…. Oh how i love you Tisetso… May God give you strength and may he show up and show off in your life so you can continue healing other people through your story and your journey.

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  Місяць тому +1

      Aww welcome to the family ❤️❤️🥹 thank you so much sissy! Amen

  • @mpumimg6000
    @mpumimg6000 Місяць тому +4

    This msg was for me ❤ This journey of looking for schools. I committed to a private school, and now God must show off 😂 oh and mind you I already have 1 child at another private school (she's almost done) and a son at day care. Kuningi 😊

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  Місяць тому

      🥶🥶🥶sistah?! Ei These are His kids, He must make a plan

  • @sunflawa
    @sunflawa Місяць тому +7

    I love the help in the comments

  • @kearam2012
    @kearam2012 Місяць тому +1

    Gherl, I'm in that boat of doing this parenting mainly alone with not enough assistance of the dad (the best part about fatherhood is that for majority of men they choose how far they want where parenting is involved). This journey is heavy. I still wonder how mommies with more than 1 child cracks it. May God carry us mommies🙏🏼🙌🏼

  • @JoyBee012
    @JoyBee012 Місяць тому +1

    Sending hug and love to you. God's got you. He will work it out❤.

  • @MrsL
    @MrsL Місяць тому +1

    I relate to this so much. But in a different kind of way. I am weighing my options and have had a taste of single motherhood. All the best. You’re teaching me to lean in and trust God.

  • @ndilekamomoza4538
    @ndilekamomoza4538 Місяць тому +5

    Being a single-mother is not easy ladies we need a retreat to just cry and hug each other

  • @sibongilenkwana8835
    @sibongilenkwana8835 Місяць тому +4

    Nna I hear you babes. I am a single mom of 1. Daddy decided he is going to check out of everything ...medical aid, fees, clothes, hair, transport ...is all on me. I can't even approach court for maintenance cause he is not formally employed, so its hard to prove he has income. I am so afraid of having more babies because what if I am left with 2nd baby alone again. In between all this, you get calls from school to attend this, that, there...its money, time, energy... Exhausting

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  Місяць тому +1

      This is so scary 😭😭😭😭 I’m now convinced this was not God’s original plan

  • @mementoafrica22
    @mementoafrica22 Місяць тому +3

    Your feelings are valid. May the heavy load on your shoulders become lighter..❤

  • @millicentmusuwo
    @millicentmusuwo Місяць тому +1

    Friend, you got this because God has your back! ❤❤

  • @molepom7451
    @molepom7451 Місяць тому +1

    Everything will workout in your favor. This hair-cut suits you so so much ❤

  • @neegee3755
    @neegee3755 Місяць тому +2

    One thing about God , He is Jireh . I am still in awe as to How did I even get to buy a house? How did I even qualify? Like how? God doesn’t play with our hearts desires . Stay seeking His face mama He will take care of you and your children. My daughter has a father in heaven who makes sure we are taken care of while her biological father (ex husband)lives his great life impressing the streets and balling hard at every famous club in Sandton.
    God does not play with his children. He always provides and it makes no sense . 🙏🏼 😭

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  Місяць тому

      Oh Hallelujah!!! Tapping into this grace forsure!!! Thanks you sharing & encouraging me with your testimony

  • @palesarakei5724
    @palesarakei5724 Місяць тому +1

    The father doesn't help my boy is now 6, and it's tough. I need to move my son to come stay with me in Gauteng and i am stressing how am i going to cope with a 7 year old with no car 😢. I pray God sees me through all of this and strength to you, Mommy ❤❤❤

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  Місяць тому +1

      All things work out for the good🥹❤️

    • @palesarakei5724
      @palesarakei5724 Місяць тому

      @Tiisetso_Kgomo I receive 🙌. Thank you 💕💕💕

  • @centy-lee
    @centy-lee Місяць тому +2

    Shame you look so tired and stressed out mommy.Hold on & keep praying,our Lord Jesus always has a way of working things out for our good ,it will work out somehow ,you are not alone pray about everything, Holy spirit will help you make the right decisions,pray for what you want for them ,God will provide ❤. I think most mom's are burnt out at this time of year I've also been feeling like this but talking to God has really been giving me that peace and He will do it for you too❤,thank you for Isaiah 41:13

  • @palesarakei5724
    @palesarakei5724 Місяць тому

    May God give you strength ❤❤

  • @openmindedfairy9691
    @openmindedfairy9691 Місяць тому +1

    If the child is still in primary, consider Spark schools, I have worked there and the environment was good and it's affordable

  • @transcripttranscript3039
    @transcripttranscript3039 Місяць тому +6

    add more Ads so the community can assist with a few rands

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  Місяць тому +2

      🥺🥺🤍 So kind & thoughtful! Thank you for this. 🙏🏼

  • @OnthaRam
    @OnthaRam Місяць тому +2

    Lol. Did the video drop at midnight?

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  Місяць тому

      😭😭😂 it dropped on Friday for those in my YT membership and I didn’t know it was set to go live at midnight for the public 😭😭😂😂 but also you watched so I guess it worked 💀💀

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Місяць тому

    It’s the ‘ndim umama tyini’ for me 😂

  • @MissCombs1511
    @MissCombs1511 Місяць тому +1

    I love your short hair! Something about starting over and cutting hair, isn't there?

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  Місяць тому

      Coco Chanel said it better!! Haha thank you honey ❤️

  • @blessedmolomo5852
    @blessedmolomo5852 Місяць тому +5

    Hi Tiisetso, please also go to the department of education to help. I did that with mine when the public school I wanted didn't take my son. I explained my financial situation and they gave me a letter to take to that school and he was accepted.
    By the way, you look so beautiful and hot 🔥

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  Місяць тому +2

      I didn’t know I could do this. Thank you so much. I will definitely do that 🥺

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  Місяць тому

      Awww thank you mama

    • @blessedmolomo5852
      @blessedmolomo5852 Місяць тому +4

      I must say that it wasn't easy ne, I had to wait for 2 hours before I could see someone to help me. It is possible, though, and when I changed my son's school, it was mid year, moving him from a private to a public school. Wear comfortable shoes and nenhliziyo ende 😉

  • @bygraceandmercy
    @bygraceandmercy Місяць тому +2

    This is why God says that He is the father of the fatherless. Fatherlessness can also be where an earthly father abandons his duties as a father.
    Lovely ladies, God's ways are not our ways and His thoughts are not our thoughts. They are higher just as the heavens are higher than the earth. Nothing is too difficult for Him.
    Write your vision down. Don't just think about it. Write the vision down. Lay down exactly what you would like for your self and your children. Ask God to lead you in the path of abundance to fulfill your heart desires. He loves you and your children much more than you could ever. Write a vision that seems ridiculously good. Something that could make you seem a bit delusional. Yes! Because you are dealing with a God who saw it fit to shed the precious blood of his son, Jesus.He has plans to prosper you and not to harm you. Plans to give you a hope and a future. You will be shocked how you will tick everything on the list one by one.
    Without faith it is impossible to please God. Faith is the evidence of things NOT SEEN. Trust and obey Him. God sees what you are not seeing. He has already lined up everything for you so long you put your faith in Him. Don't limit God. The earth is the Lord's and everything in it. Surely He has a valuable portion for you in his abundant supply.
    He loves you with an everlasting love❤💕
    You will prosper, you will not fail! 🙏

  • @Her_Self..
    @Her_Self.. Місяць тому

    Shame l feel for you. I am mqrried with a supportive husband, but the emotional toll pf jist being a mum is a lot. And rejection from some of these private schools l went thru it.
    So l can only just imagine wht you going through

    • @Tiisetso_Kgomo
      @Tiisetso_Kgomo  Місяць тому

      😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨 it’s a lot