Well, well, well, Pastor Anita, CONGRATULATIONS for your SELF-REDISCOVERY, for I can't blame you COMPLETELY, ESPECIALLY, when you use the phrase: "UNREASONABLE BEHAVIOR" For it is he who wears the shoe knows where it pinches him or her. Who am I to blame or criticize you for your CHOICE, to ease yourself/shoulders of the HEAVY BURDEN? But, if you ask me, I wouldn't want to agree COMPLETELY that you did GOD'S PERFECT WILL, but rather, I would say, it was HIS PERMISSIVE WILL for you to not just leaving him but divorcing him! If you ask me, I would say, I wouldn't DIVORCE MY WIFE for anything in the World, but if the PRESSURE is too much, I would give US a 'BREAK' for QUIET TIME and SOBER REFLECTION, where I would RETREAT and PRAY and SEEK to KNOW His PERFECT WILL for my MARRIAGE: "For the thoughts He has for us as HUSBAND & WIFE are the thoughts of GOOD & not of EVIL that my MARRIAGE may be PROSPEROUS HEALTHY even as my SOUL is prospering. Jeremiah 29:11, 3 John 2.
Dear pastor Anita. I hope you will one day read this message, please in the name that is above every other name i plead that you should please go back to your husband God loves you, don't look at what happened this is just what satan want but God has put him to shame in your marriage in Jesus Mighty name.
My sister you are making a good point. As a man of God let him set example so that other men can learn from him. let him go the wife and settle what ever difference they have and make peace. I bet you by so doing he will win more souls to God.
I write this epistle and I recommend that prayer should be taken into effect to ensure the peace and unity of this marriage. I pray the lord Jesus Christ the King of kings and lord of lords will restore this marriage back to the Glory of God in Jesus name: amen
This why I believe christians needs deliverance in different areas of their and whatever area/s are unenlightened, the devil will get greater advantage.
who told you people that the He cheated or He abused her just because they were busy doing the work of God and you people have turn it into an abuse and fornication.if you see pastor Chris how many country he travels in a year you will understand the gap they had.He was busy thats all.Dont put words in pastor Anita mouth she did not say he cheated on her please .Have respect to their family members .
Whatever any man or woman does in secret must be out in the light one day, God can never be mocked at all, My sincere prayers are that our loving God expose the pretenders one day, 1st Peter 4:17 says that judgement shall begin in the house of God amen, . My little advice to everyone is Take heart, focus and continue to trust in God and move on with your head up and up and depending on our awesome Creator who knows all things and who has all answers amen., Love and peace always
If any of you have never sinned please continue to insult this woman.......judgmental cows. Do you know what provoked her decision to leave her husband of over 20 years, that's not an easy decision to make. Pastor Chris and anita never divulged the the intricate details of the demise of their marriage who are you now to discuss it or even pray for them? Self righteous and all knowing.....leave them. They both pray and have a relationship with God, this is between the three of them. Lets stop forcing matters,leave it for God.
I continue to believe that what God has united can never be separated by any human being. Prayer is the solution to any challenge. would you separate from your son if he misbehaves? please this is not too late, come back to your husband.
Word of God is power though for flesh certain things seems impossible but for faith ,nothing no not one, in heaven or beneath is impossible Let believers be praying .Story will definitely change. pastor Sarah omoregie nee okojie
Please if I may ask, why is every one talking about Pst Anita going back to the husband. What will happen if the husband as a leader and a pastor go back to his wife , ask for forgiveness and reconcile with the wife. It is not always good to see women as second class citizen with low self esteem that should always initiate the peace move when she is the one alleged to have been hurt. In as much as I don't encourage divorce, neither do I support Pst Anita abandoning her marriage in search of happiness when she should be a role model to her church members who are also facing marital challenges, in all honesty I think the move for reconciliation should be made by her husband. No woman will see emotional felt remorse from her husband and remain adamant. Let Pastor Chris take the lead and revive his home. My humble view.
Pastor Chris never divorce the wife, the woman is trying to divorce him and u can still see the wearing the ring and the woman is the running not making herself to be reach.
What are you all babbling about? If her ex husband cheated and abused her how do you expect her to live in that? He needs to change. No human should live in abuse.
You don't have to talk like, She's a leader many people are looking unto her. My dear read the book of Galatians and see what God says about love God bless.
Absolutely "Purpose Driven". Adultery is adultery and abuse is abuse. Period. We are all the same under the sun. God has no favourites. Jesus himself allowed the possibility of divorce when a spouse was cheating or unfaithful. According to Torah, all adulterers and adulteresses got the chop - no chance of remarriage there! True, wives are called to submit (co-operate) with their husbands, but when a man is sinning and not submitting to God, should she cooperate with rebellion, cruelty and abuse? Husbands are supposed to love their wives. I am not fooled by someone's exterior "show"; the fruit of the Spirit of God is not signs and wonders but godly character. 1 John tells us that someone who persists in sin does not know God. - That's the bible!
I just listened to this for the first time I also went threw abuse very violent what beautiful words made me cry 😭 I've learnt a lot with your words thank you for sharing I feel I have so much self worth now.......thank you so much for sharing God bless you both.....
@@randydrums5306 "let us know."... Well, your eyes are either blind, or you're ignorant. Don't ask men who are unware this rubbish; carry the question of this issue to either Oyakhilome, or to Anita.
iHer divorce makes God real to me as a person, because all l know is my Pastor Chris is still Pastor Chris and more. God loves man more than we love him. lts OK.
Nancy Anan-Yorke what a brainwashed statement. You are not here on earth to worship pastor Chris. Do your bit and worship God. Nigerians to dey worship pastors and supporting them when you know this man did something wrong.
@teete were u there or u're her witness? Always remember dis to stand at d middle of 2 pipo who are fighting & u kno nothing about, not to take side & be a judge over d other, so dat u wil not be judged.Im not a member of their church but I just love dem especially past Chris cos some of his msges has inspired me.💕
I wonder what went wrong, even if he make the mistake as u said, nobody is perfect in this life, we have what Devil didn't not have, #1 forgiveness #2 mercy #3 peace #4 joy. please go back to your husband, ur break my heart when come & said dis things.
Nornubari Stella learn to mind your business. If you want to forgive your husbands cheating or scheming ways, good for you. You are you...you want to stay in your marriage by all costs. Not everyone is like you. Some have fought the fight and can only get peace by moving on. You are not to determine her happiness by what she should do. That is the solution to every Nigerian womens problem...go back to your husband. As if husband is your ticket meal to heaven. Pastor Chris is not a messiah. He did something terribly wrong and leave the wife alone. Only she knows what she has went through and what the church is hiding and covering up for pastor chris. Deceitful pentecostal churches...metchewww
Nornubari Stella My dear it's hard to feet in someone else is shoes is you different size same as our hearts are same shape but different when it consumed what you can take my can not it s not matter what kind of Christian you are
Divorce is not allowed among Christians because marriage is binding for life (Romans 7:3) and generally remarriage is not allowed as long as the other spouse is alive. Though this marriage has been terminated in the courts of men, it is standing before God and they will give account before God, that's certain. It is unfortunate that the marriage of a Minister of the Gospel crashes and ends in divorce which is reproachful to the image of Christ. However, I believe that the God before whom nothing is impossible can restore them. They are both pastors and what gospel are they preaching and teaching when they can't weather the storms in their marriage? Are they telling us that we should go ahead to divorce our spouses when differences arise? Is this the Gospel of love and forgiveness which Christ brought to us? Divorcees cannot spend eternity with Christ
Forgiveness is required no matter what took place, I don't know anything on this subject. I know the devil is a liar, go back to yr husband WOG Anita I love you
Yes@jules Amany i continue believing in God for them too because God word is true, is life and it penetrate through body and soul. pastor Anita the lord is your strength please for God sake forgive whatever your husband have did to you and let the issue be settle and move back to your husband i pray that holy spirit will speak to you and you will listing to his leading in jesus name. we love you and God love you the best, remember your calling is to win soul to God, can you imagine how many soul you will win back to God if you allow him to take control of your home and your marriage...i hope you will read this comment ... and i hope to here from you dear pastor Anita.
Hi all, an abusive marriage doesn't necessarily mean you should divorce. God is the answer to all our problems in life. You need to take it up with God. Don't take the law to your own hands. Love you pastor Anita
There is no divorce in God. God never participate in divorce but the devil does. People just think the bible is too uncivilized for them. Go and beg your husband and obey his instructions and be the woman of God you are. God did not give a condition to submission. It is high time we stop making mockery of the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ.
hauwa babatunde-allo You are a brainwashed robot. Go and read your bible very well. It is not compulsory for her to stay in a marriage that is already dead. It is not up to you to tell her what to do. Are you in the marriage? The pastor did wrong...accept it. The problem with you all is that you are programmed machines to worship your pastors like robots. You have no mind of your own. Nothing!
@@teeteeme5752 If she wants to do whatever she likes then she should stop decieving the world that she is a Christian because God clearly stated his take about divorce. Malachi 2:16.
hauwa babatunde-allo Has Pastor Chris been faithful? Have you ever asked why she divorved on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour. Stop with the blame. Pastor Chris is just as bad. Leading a congregation and not practising what he preaches. You should also ask if he is a Christian...fake pastors
@@teeteeme5752 what you read in your bible did God gave a condition of faithfulness and who made you a judge over pastor Chris. It's a personal race and nobody determines genuiness only God himself. I don't go to pastor Chris church and I don't really like his looks but that doesn't mean I should not stick to biblical truth. Nobody that destroys marriage is right.
hauwa babatunde-allo Havong said that. You dont know what happened, so all this speculations. Anita has made her decision wether we all like it or not. Its her personal choice. Jesus has said it himself...the heart of man can be cruel. He didnt condemn broken marriages but he preached about good unity in the home making sure both parties are submissive and loyal to each other. You dont know what Anita went through so it doesnt give us any right to start saying she should return back to her marriage. Marriage is not the gateway to heaven.
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When a wife turns up to be the head of the husband, the entire family or marriage life goes MAD. She will beautifully defend herself here but she will regret it SERIOUSLY one day.
@@counseloradamskittsonkotsi1690 man of God sir learn to speak the wisdom of God your comment on pastor Anita's divorce doesn't depict that of a prophet or a man of God. So don't blame me.
@@alexanderdaniels.4507 my fellow brother, what I said, is it not true? Hmmm, African women know culture of Africans, compare to .... Many women of men of God do control their husbands and it's bleeding lot of divorces. And she is one of them
wow the spoken word exactly how i felt losing my job of 13 years ....felt like a death soon it will be time for me to start a new phase of life Thank You Anita
You don't know the truth but you judge from what this person is saying hear..who is fooling who. Devil is like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. John 15:If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also. If they obeyed my teaching, they will obey yours also. 21They will treat you this way because of my name, for they do not know the one who sent me.
Pastor Chris is not the issue. Neither the wife. Unfortunately its the devil that is to be blamed. The wife of Chris has proved to the whole world whose side she is at. God didnt sanction divorce. She was easily deceived by the devil to take such wrong decision against her husband. My question now is where is the love of God she vowed to keep at for better and for worse? When eve cheated in the garden Adam stood the ground with the wife in forgiveness taking the shame! No matter how wonderfull Anita feels now except if she is a seed of discripancy she is just managing . She cant fullfill that joy until she returns to her first love. What kind of gospel would she be preaching now when their is no forgiveness from the heart(70x70) even if its believed she is right. She is not even scripturally qualified to preach the gospel because her position as a minister is anti word of God. She may be into the real adultery now if she is meldling with another man. If not and she wishes to stay single let her remian same till death make her part. She is only wearing a corn plaster management. Let her repent and go back to Chris her husband. Let Chris vow to love her regardless and take her back. But if both have made decsions not to be together again let Chris remain as he is now. The old devil that caused this confusion will be exposed on the last day and we shall match on its ashes at that judgement. As a minister of the gospel I will keep both in prayers . Satan you lost the battle. Shame on the devil.
You where wrong by working out on your marriage, yes happiness matter that's why you could have ask God to restore happiness in your marriage, your husband being a man of God will be going through unforseen challenges... I hope that you understand.
Ma are you sure you are truly happy now for the decision u have made? And according to your testimony, if actually you are trying to help people rediscovered their self, is it through this shameful example? Divorce? You were once a role model. You have written a lot of epistles to inspire us. In fact many of us were already looking unto you because God have lifted you to be a figure. You left many of us following you confused!!! And this your testimony is bringing more confusion
If the man cheat on her and she fine out she can move on and married again same time for the man.Well he is a pastor but no one is perfect only god is but she what happiness I don't blame her who not want happiness
whatever happened between them it is not a good example to the church to divorce..to whom Much is given much is required..much is required of pastor Chris cos he has been given a lot by his God and he has an obligation to live up to that std
A woman is not complete with out a man God said it is not good for a man to be alone he created the woman for the man Woman is for the man and not man for the woman. How are you fulfilling the ministry that God gave to you in the marriage you walk away from.? What are you teaching your daughters? The word of God that you read told you that a woman is tied to the man till death.The woman should submit her self to her husband.for the man is the head of the family. I love you so much ,I have read some of your books Joy unspeakable,Don't pack your bags yet. Etc What happen? Pls my beloved sister the enemy has succeeded in making you a divorced woman .which is not good in the ears of God. They where jealous of you ,you never new it. God say let no man put asunder what he has joined together. You must forgive your husband and amend things to make the devil ashame. Wives are not expected to listen to gossips. If your husband offends you why not report him to his master(God). Take away pride and face reality. What example are you showing your children and we that loves you so much especially me. You are a royal child we do the right things. Pastor Chris is your husband for life go back to him. You did not attend your daughter' s wedding WHY.? Too bad .You should forgive your husband what ever you thought he has done to you. Un forgiveness is not of God. Those people following are laughing at you behind you . I stop here stay blessed still love you
You're still the one speaking how do we know she's the one ? It sounds funny yet foolish. Creating a UA-cam channel if you don't have what to UA-cam, you create what to say. That's it all.
She sounds just like every other hurt woman who lost her self in the home, marriage, in the world. She's babbling cause she make no definite statement that would speak volumes about facing difficulties. Why, how, these are the questions what was going on between you two that ends the marriage a God covenant are you both fake 🤔🤔😯😕😔
C'est triste! Le seigneur à dit vous êtes à Christ, vous êtes de Christ, pour Christ et en Christ. N'ayez point une haute opinion de vous même, considérez les besoins des autres. Soyez Un comme vous devez être un avec Christ. Aimez vous ardemment comme christ à aimer l'église. Il s'est livré lui même pour elle. Ne séparez point ce que Dieu a uni. Pardonnez vous réciproquement comme Christ vous a pardonner. Donnez vous vous même à Dieu comme un sacrifice vivant, ue odeur agréable à Christ. Soyez mes modèles en esprit, en vérité avec force et courage. Soumettez vous les uns aux autres. Vous ne vous appartenez plus, vous appartenez à Christ. Vous êtes de nouvelle créature vivant et marchant par l'esprit n'accomplissant pas les oeuvres de la chair. Christ est pour nous qui sera contre nous ? Demeurez ferme dans la foi ayant en vous une pleine espérance que rien ici bas quelques soit son nom sur la terre comme dans les cieux ne pourra nous séparez de l'amour de Dieu en Jésus Christ. Mr et Mme Christ, de la foi, de l'espérance et de l'amour seul l'amour demeurera au nom de Jésus Christ le ressuscité en qui j'ai mis toute mon espérance. Revenez à la promesse que vous vous êtes fait à Dieu. Je vous aime de l'amour de Jésus Christ et nous sommes des millions à vous aimez. Nous prions que la gloire de Dieu soit votre priorité. Amen !!
i don t mean divorce is right and infact i hate it. but saying that might rob her of enternal life i have a very big querry, the only term and condition to have enternal life is accepting Jesus as your personal saviour. putting your faith competely in him. no man or woman can stop someone to have enternal life. thats why the bible says if your right hand is causing you to sin cut it off for it is better to enter heaven with one hand that loosing it coz of it. i repeat, i hate divorce and i am not supporting it but the reasonning is not convincing. one can force him or herself to stay into something that can lead him or her to hell by sinning and keep cursing God cos of the situation. i hope i did not offend anyone here? shalom.
I judge not, just as JESUS himself said judgement is the father s not his even, who am i to? of course we are to test the spirits but judgement is not ours at all. NB! all sin are punishable and again i repeat all sins are punishable. It is our faith that saves us not our work and of course we can not misinterpret or misuse the term GRACE. We children of God are to pray for one another and not to criticize and mock or break each others down. The devil is at work and we can only win him when we stand together for one another otherwise we are also gonna be in hell because even FAILING TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT IS A SIN.
Well, well, well, Pastor Anita, CONGRATULATIONS for your SELF-REDISCOVERY, for I can't blame you COMPLETELY, ESPECIALLY, when you use the phrase: "UNREASONABLE BEHAVIOR" For it is he who wears the shoe knows where it pinches him or her. Who am I to blame or criticize you for your CHOICE, to ease yourself/shoulders of the HEAVY BURDEN? But, if you ask me, I wouldn't want to agree COMPLETELY that you did GOD'S PERFECT WILL, but rather, I would say, it was HIS PERMISSIVE WILL for you to not just leaving him but divorcing him! If you ask me, I would say, I wouldn't DIVORCE MY WIFE for anything in the World, but if the PRESSURE is too much, I would give US a 'BREAK' for QUIET TIME and SOBER REFLECTION, where I would RETREAT and PRAY and SEEK to KNOW His PERFECT WILL for my MARRIAGE: "For the thoughts He has for us as HUSBAND & WIFE are the thoughts of GOOD & not of EVIL that my MARRIAGE may be PROSPEROUS HEALTHY even as my SOUL is prospering. Jeremiah 29:11, 3 John 2.
Wise words
Dear pastor Anita. I hope you will one day read this message, please in the name that is above every other name i plead that you should please go back to your husband God loves you, don't look at what happened this is just what satan want but God has put him to shame in your marriage in Jesus Mighty name.
My sister you are making a good point. As a man of God let him set example so that other men can learn from him. let him go the wife and settle what ever difference they have and make peace. I bet you by so doing he will win more souls to God.
hello pastor Anita.my name is evangelist Aaron.i ask u in the name of Jesus Christ to forget the past and go back to your husband.forgive your husband
Amen
Pastor Anita, please try to forgive, abuse is not good, but nobody is perfect, only God is perfect, so forgive your husband ok. God bless you all.
Please mum for God sake go back to your husband
I write this epistle and I recommend that prayer should be taken into effect to ensure the peace and unity of this marriage. I pray the lord Jesus Christ the King of kings and lord of lords will restore this marriage back to the Glory of God in Jesus name: amen
AMEN.Now that is the voice of a true believer
This why I believe christians needs deliverance in different areas of their and whatever area/s are unenlightened, the devil will get greater advantage.
who told you people that the He cheated or He abused her just because they were busy doing the work of God and you people have turn it into an abuse and fornication.if you see pastor Chris how many country he travels in a year you will understand the gap they had.He was busy thats all.Dont put words in pastor Anita mouth she did not say he cheated on her please .Have respect to their family members .
Tammy Makwele most pastors travel all the time with their spouses that's not an excuse. Making himself busy and ignoring his wife.
Tammy Makwele true it's just a way of giving explanation, no evidence about all that, I pray for them to live stronger and continue to serve the Lord
Whatever any man or woman does in secret must be out in the light one day,
God can never be mocked at all,
My sincere prayers are that our loving God expose the pretenders one day,
1st Peter 4:17 says that judgement shall begin in the house of God amen,
. My little advice to everyone is
Take heart, focus and continue to trust in God and move on with your head up and up and depending on our awesome Creator who knows all things and who has all answers amen.,
Love and peace always
If any of you have never sinned please continue to insult this woman.......judgmental cows. Do you know what provoked her decision to leave her husband of over 20 years, that's not an easy decision to make. Pastor Chris and anita never divulged the the intricate details of the demise of their marriage who are you now to discuss it or even pray for them? Self righteous and all knowing.....leave them. They both pray and have a relationship with God, this is between the three of them. Lets stop forcing matters,leave it for God.
I continue to believe that what God has united can never be separated by any human being. Prayer is the solution to any challenge. would you separate from your son if he misbehaves? please this is not too late, come back to your husband.
you're so right 😢
Word of God is power though for flesh certain things seems impossible but for faith ,nothing no not one, in heaven or beneath is impossible Let believers be praying .Story will definitely change.
pastor Sarah omoregie nee okojie
Jules Amany Kipp
Please if I may ask, why is every one talking about Pst Anita going back to the husband. What will happen if the husband as a leader and a pastor go back to his wife , ask for forgiveness and reconcile with the wife.
It is not always good to see women as second class citizen with low self esteem that should always initiate the peace move when she is the one alleged to have been hurt.
In as much as I don't encourage divorce, neither do I support Pst Anita abandoning her marriage in search of happiness when she should be a role model to her church members who are also facing marital challenges, in all honesty I think the move for reconciliation should be made by her husband.
No woman will see emotional felt remorse from her husband and remain adamant.
Let Pastor Chris take the lead and revive his home. My humble view.
Are you for real
That will be Lovely if he can take the lead no matter what has happened.
Pastor Chris never divorce the wife, the woman is trying to divorce him and u can still see the wearing the ring and the woman is the running not making herself to be reach.
What are you all babbling about? If her ex husband cheated and abused her how do you expect her to live in that? He needs to change. No human should live in abuse.
You don't have to talk like, She's a leader many people are looking unto her. My dear read the book of Galatians and see what God says about love God bless.
Absolutely "Purpose Driven". Adultery is adultery and abuse is abuse. Period. We are all the same under the sun. God has no favourites. Jesus himself allowed the possibility of divorce when a spouse was cheating or unfaithful. According to Torah, all adulterers and adulteresses got the chop - no chance of remarriage there! True, wives are called to submit (co-operate) with their husbands, but when a man is sinning and not submitting to God, should she cooperate with rebellion, cruelty and abuse? Husbands are supposed to love their wives. I am not fooled by someone's exterior "show"; the fruit of the Spirit of God is not signs and wonders but godly character. 1 John tells us that someone who persists in sin does not know God. - That's the bible!
i am really speehless and shock of thier divorce.....its sad and shame
I just listened to this for the first time I also went threw abuse very violent what beautiful words made me cry 😭 I've learnt a lot with your words thank you for sharing I feel I have so much self worth now.......thank you so much for sharing God bless you both.....
I write for peace,i write for love ,i write for joy ,i write for the Holy one of Israel,my heart is awaken in the presence of your union.
You people don't know the full facts of what took place between them There are two sides to what went wrong in the marriage
Well let us know
@@randydrums5306 "let us know."...
Well, your eyes are either blind, or you're ignorant. Don't ask men who are unware this rubbish; carry the question of this issue to either Oyakhilome, or to Anita.
iHer divorce makes God real to me as a person, because all l know is my Pastor Chris is still Pastor Chris and more.
God loves man more than we love him.
lts OK.
Nancy Anan-Yorke what a brainwashed statement. You are not here on earth to worship pastor Chris. Do your bit and worship God. Nigerians to dey worship pastors and supporting them when you know this man did something wrong.
@teete were u there or u're her witness? Always remember dis to stand at d middle of 2 pipo who are fighting & u kno nothing about, not to take side & be a judge over d other, so dat u wil not be judged.Im not a member of their church but I just love dem especially past Chris cos some of his msges has inspired me.💕
I wonder what went wrong, even if he make the mistake as u said, nobody is perfect in this life, we have what Devil didn't not have, #1 forgiveness #2 mercy #3 peace #4 joy. please go back to your husband, ur break my heart when come & said dis things.
Nornubari Stella learn to mind your business. If you want to forgive your husbands cheating or scheming ways, good for you. You are you...you want to stay in your marriage by all costs. Not everyone is like you. Some have fought the fight and can only get peace by moving on. You are not to determine her happiness by what she should do. That is the solution to every Nigerian womens problem...go back to your husband. As if husband is your ticket meal to heaven. Pastor Chris is not a messiah. He did something terribly wrong and leave the wife alone. Only she knows what she has went through and what the church is hiding and covering up for pastor chris. Deceitful pentecostal churches...metchewww
@@teeteeme5752
Thank you. This is my view too.
Nornubari Stella My dear it's hard to feet in someone else is shoes is you different size same as our hearts are same shape but different when it consumed what you can take my can not it s not matter what kind of Christian you are
Divorce is not allowed among Christians because marriage is binding for life (Romans 7:3) and generally remarriage is not allowed as long as the other spouse is alive. Though this marriage has been terminated in the courts of men, it is standing before God and they will give account before God, that's certain. It is unfortunate that the marriage of a Minister of the Gospel crashes and ends in divorce which is reproachful to the image of Christ. However, I believe that the God before whom nothing is impossible can restore them. They are both pastors and what gospel are they preaching and teaching when they can't weather the storms in their marriage? Are they telling us that we should go ahead to divorce our spouses when differences arise? Is this the Gospel of love and forgiveness which Christ brought to us? Divorcees cannot spend eternity with Christ
Forgiveness is required no matter what took place, I don't know anything on this subject. I know the devil is a liar, go back to yr husband WOG Anita I love you
Yes@jules Amany i continue believing in God for them too because God word is true, is life and it penetrate through body and soul. pastor Anita the lord is your strength please for God sake forgive whatever your husband have did to you and let the issue be settle and move back to your husband i pray that holy spirit will speak to you and you will listing to his leading in jesus name. we love you and God love you the best, remember your calling is to win soul to God, can you imagine how many soul you will win back to God if you allow him to take control of your home and your marriage...i hope you will read this comment ... and i hope to here from you dear pastor Anita.
Hi all, an abusive marriage doesn't necessarily mean you should divorce. God is the answer to all our problems in life. You need to take it up with God. Don't take the law to your own hands. Love you pastor Anita
Do you know what she went through? Why are Africans so over spiritual
There is no divorce in God. God never participate in divorce but the devil does. People just think the bible is too uncivilized for them. Go and beg your husband and obey his instructions and be the woman of God you are. God did not give a condition to submission. It is high time we stop making mockery of the gospel of our Lord Jesus Christ.
hauwa babatunde-allo You are a brainwashed robot. Go and read your bible very well. It is not compulsory for her to stay in a marriage that is already dead. It is not up to you to tell her what to do. Are you in the marriage? The pastor did wrong...accept it. The problem with you all is that you are programmed machines to worship your pastors like robots. You have no mind of your own. Nothing!
@@teeteeme5752 If she wants to do whatever she likes then she should stop decieving the world that she is a Christian because God clearly stated his take about divorce. Malachi 2:16.
hauwa babatunde-allo Has Pastor Chris been faithful? Have you ever asked why she divorved on the grounds of unreasonable behaviour. Stop with the blame. Pastor Chris is just as bad. Leading a congregation and not practising what he preaches. You should also ask if he is a Christian...fake pastors
@@teeteeme5752 what you read in your bible did God gave a condition of faithfulness and who made you a judge over pastor Chris. It's a personal race and nobody determines genuiness only God himself. I don't go to pastor Chris church and I don't really like his looks but that doesn't mean I should not stick to biblical truth. Nobody that destroys marriage is right.
hauwa babatunde-allo Havong said that. You dont know what happened, so all this speculations. Anita has made her decision wether we all like it or not. Its her personal choice. Jesus has said it himself...the heart of man can be cruel. He didnt condemn broken marriages but he preached about good unity in the home making sure both parties are submissive and loyal to each other. You dont know what Anita went through so it doesnt give us any right to start saying she should return back to her marriage. Marriage is not the gateway to heaven.
I have a story too to tell about my life..thank you pastor for this words of encouragement
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God is always there.Self is from devil.What is God"s opinion in marriage.God should be listened
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When a wife turns up to be the head of the husband, the entire family or marriage life goes MAD.
She will beautifully defend herself here but she will regret it SERIOUSLY one day.
You're a big fool do you know what Anita went through? Go read on her blogg
@@alexanderdaniels.4507 I am surprisingly surprise calling me a fool ooh.
Anyway, you are BLESSED for insulting a prophet.
@@counseloradamskittsonkotsi1690 man of God sir learn to speak the wisdom of God your comment on pastor Anita's divorce doesn't depict that of a prophet or a man of God. So don't blame me.
@@alexanderdaniels.4507 my fellow brother, what I said, is it not true?
Hmmm, African women know culture of Africans, compare to ....
Many women of men of God do control their husbands and it's bleeding lot of divorces.
And she is one of them
@@counseloradamskittsonkotsi1690 no thats not what happened sir. The issue is so deep
I don't know what happened but i was expecting that she will be the one talking straight on the video
Can't blame her.... no point in staying in an abusive marriage with a narcissistic man🙏🏿🙏🏿
Madam Anita, thank you for sharing.
wow the spoken word exactly how i felt losing my job of 13 years ....felt like a death soon it will be time for me to start a new phase of life Thank You Anita
Pastor Chris did some emotional blackmail and damage to his now estranged wife.
So pathetic.
Unreasonable behaviour..
You don't know the truth but you judge from what this person is saying hear..who is fooling who. Devil is like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.
John 15:If they persecuted me, they will persecute you also. If they obeyed my teaching, they will obey yours also.
21They will treat you this way because of my name, for they do not know the one who sent me.
When making a decision let Christ and the holy spirit be our guide that is when we can vividly saying we have made the right decisions
Lord please forgive us for our testimonies gone wrong
Pastor Chris is not the issue. Neither the wife. Unfortunately its the devil that is to be blamed. The wife of Chris has proved to the whole world whose side she is at. God didnt sanction divorce. She was easily deceived by the devil to take such wrong decision against her husband. My question now is where is the love of God she vowed to keep at for better and for worse? When eve cheated in the garden Adam stood the ground with the wife in forgiveness taking the shame! No matter how wonderfull Anita feels now except if she is a seed of discripancy she is just managing . She cant fullfill that joy until she returns to her first love. What kind of gospel would she be preaching now when their is no forgiveness from the heart(70x70) even if its believed she is right. She is not even scripturally qualified to preach the gospel because her position as a minister is anti word of God. She may be into the real adultery now if she is meldling with another man. If not and she wishes to stay single let her remian same till death make her part. She is only wearing a corn plaster management. Let her repent and go back to Chris her husband. Let Chris vow to love her regardless and take her back. But if both have made decsions not to be together again let Chris remain as he is now. The old devil that caused this confusion will be exposed on the last day and we shall match on its ashes at that judgement. As a minister of the gospel I will keep both in prayers . Satan you lost the battle. Shame on the devil.
I do not think he did all they said, those that are envying the woman might have misled her.
let her rethink.
You where wrong by working out on your marriage, yes happiness matter that's why you could have ask God to restore happiness in your marriage, your husband being a man of God will be going through unforseen challenges... I hope that you understand.
You are very right my dear
Just piss off. Are you married to give this advice about what she could have done?
Rapture date...March 27th...be ready and be blessed
Ma are you sure you are truly happy now for the decision u have made?
And according to your testimony, if actually you are trying to help people rediscovered their self, is it through this shameful example? Divorce?
You were once a role model. You have written a lot of epistles to inspire us. In fact many of us were already looking unto you because God have lifted you to be a figure.
You left many of us following you confused!!! And this your testimony is bringing more confusion
If the man cheat on her and she fine out she can move on and married again same time for the man.Well he is a pastor but no one is perfect only god is but she what happiness I don't blame her who not want happiness
whatever happened between them it is not a good example to the church to divorce..to whom Much is given much is required..much is required of pastor Chris cos he has been given a lot by his God and he has an obligation to live up to that std
A woman is not complete with out a man
God said it is not good for a man to be alone he created the woman for the man
Woman is for the man and not man for the woman.
How are you fulfilling the ministry that God gave to you in the marriage you walk away from.?
What are you teaching your daughters?
The word of God that you read told you that a woman is tied to the man till death.The woman should submit her self to her husband.for the man is the head of the family.
I love you so much ,I have read some of your books Joy unspeakable,Don't pack your bags yet. Etc
What happen? Pls my beloved sister the enemy has succeeded in making you a divorced woman .which is not good in the ears of God.
They where jealous of you ,you never new it. God say let no man put asunder what he has joined together.
You must forgive your husband and amend things to make the devil ashame. Wives are not expected to listen to gossips.
If your husband offends you why not report him to his master(God). Take away pride and face reality.
What example are you showing your children and we that loves you so much especially me.
You are a royal child we do the right things.
Pastor Chris is your husband for life go back to him.
You did not attend your daughter' s wedding WHY.? Too bad .You should forgive your husband what ever you thought he has done to you.
Un forgiveness is not of God.
Those people following are laughing at you behind you .
I stop here stay blessed still love you
Please for the sake of eternity sake re think your action and think of your relation with God
You're still the one speaking how do we know she's the one ? It sounds funny yet foolish. Creating a UA-cam channel if you don't have what to UA-cam, you create what to say. That's it all.
just follow your heart and live right that's it
If two ov them can't forgive each other so wht a they preaching
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She sounds just like every other hurt woman who lost her self in the home, marriage, in the world. She's babbling cause she make no definite statement that would speak volumes about facing difficulties. Why, how, these are the questions what was going on between you two that ends the marriage a God covenant are you both fake 🤔🤔😯😕😔
Love each other
Love you Mama Sharon Praying for you💖
C'est triste! Le seigneur à dit vous êtes à Christ, vous êtes de Christ, pour Christ et en Christ. N'ayez point une haute opinion de vous même, considérez les besoins des autres. Soyez Un comme vous devez être un avec Christ. Aimez vous ardemment comme christ à aimer l'église. Il s'est livré lui même pour elle. Ne séparez point ce que Dieu a uni. Pardonnez vous réciproquement comme Christ vous a pardonner. Donnez vous vous même à Dieu comme un sacrifice vivant, ue odeur agréable à Christ. Soyez mes modèles en esprit, en vérité avec force et courage. Soumettez vous les uns aux autres. Vous ne vous appartenez plus, vous appartenez à Christ. Vous êtes de nouvelle créature vivant et marchant par l'esprit n'accomplissant pas les oeuvres de la chair. Christ est pour nous qui sera contre nous ? Demeurez ferme dans la foi ayant en vous une pleine espérance que rien ici bas quelques soit son nom sur la terre comme dans les cieux ne pourra nous séparez de l'amour de Dieu en Jésus Christ. Mr et Mme Christ, de la foi, de l'espérance et de l'amour seul l'amour demeurera au nom de Jésus Christ le ressuscité en qui j'ai mis toute mon espérance. Revenez à la promesse que vous vous êtes fait à Dieu. Je vous aime de l'amour de Jésus Christ et nous sommes des millions à vous aimez. Nous prions que la gloire de Dieu soit votre priorité. Amen !!
her separation with Chris might rob her of eternal life!!!..things that will take people to hell are such things as this.
Umfulongashi Phindrix
Really?
i don t mean divorce is right and infact i hate it. but saying that might rob her of enternal life i have a very big querry, the only term and condition to have enternal life is accepting Jesus as your personal saviour. putting your faith competely in him. no man or woman can stop someone to have enternal life. thats why the bible says if your right hand is causing you to sin cut it off for it is better to enter heaven with one hand that loosing it coz of it. i repeat, i hate divorce and i am not supporting it but the reasonning is not convincing. one can force him or herself to stay into something that can lead him or her to hell by sinning and keep cursing God cos of the situation. i hope i did not offend anyone here? shalom.
Yes, you are right. No divorcee goes to heaven but hell
I judge not, just as JESUS himself said judgement is the father s not his even, who am i to? of course we are to test the spirits but judgement is not ours at all. NB! all sin are punishable and again i repeat all sins are punishable. It is our faith that saves us not our work and of course we can not misinterpret or misuse the term GRACE. We children of God are to pray for one another and not to criticize and mock or break each others down. The devil is at work and we can only win him when we stand together for one another otherwise we are also gonna be in hell because even FAILING TO DO WHAT IS RIGHT IS A SIN.
lol
Nonsense
Amen