I wanna just take this time to apologize to all the women that men have dont wrong... I feel like no women should be treated like nothing less than a queen! so on behalf of the male gender I'm sorry my beautiful queens! be blessed
Thanks for that! I was in a relationship for 2yrs. And at the end of it all he ended up. Digging me out, and it hurt like hell but a lot of prayer. I prayed a lot!!!!! It wasn't easy but I made it through. And got someone NEW😍😍😍😍😍
I saw the interview with her and the sista that wrote this song. Every line in this song describes a pain only someone that has experienced it could know...deep.
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Me bumping this after my bd got his wings. And thats when this song had so much meaning.... 4ever missing that yella boy known as "yella" Our daughter conceived is one of my greatest gifts & will always be grateful for 🙏 until we meet again my love... nicole-jori-joseph the perfect combo & one of God's greatest creations..... To God be all the glory even in the pain & rain
@@Kenziiiiiie777 A UA-camr I watch was singing HER OWN RENDITION of the song and had me singing it all that week, so I had to come run it back a few times!🤣🔥
Been playing this song on repeat for the past week, trying to process the pain and hurt. But one thing we need to realize as women, no matter how much you love that man. He won't change. Leave.
"I gotta be out of my mind. To think it is going to work this time, a part of me wants to leave, but the other side still believes” #RealLove Her voice is beautiful!
Her vocals are flawless and even though I don't particularly support the dependant undertones the part of the song that rings true for almost anybody whether their spouse is cheating, emotionally unavailable, etc is when she says, "I got to be out of mind to think it's going to work this time. Part of me want to leave but the other side still believes." Whether you're going to go or not when love is present there is always a glimer of hope left in you. That part is the truth and the whole truth!
“i gotta be out of my mind to think it’s gonna work this time, a part of me wants to leave, but the other side still believes” most relatable thing I’ve ever heard.
sherbert ice cream, bathrobe, darkness, this song is everything right now. I look a hit mess with tears in my ice cream screaming out the lyrics to this song....I'll get over it though...not today but perhaps tomorrow. 🍨🍦🍧😥😢😭
I think I can finally walk away now it still hurts but I can't keep doing this I have a great guy who wants to love me but he can't if I can't let this go and he deserves all of me not just part of my but I am trying it's getting easier
Six years later and this is still my song but now it serves a different purpose. I used to listen to this song and cry my heart out, now I just sing along.
never had a song relate to what I'm going through so much.... 37 weeks pregnant and he's going out to bars pretty much every weekend, hides his phone, messages girls on Tinder asking to hangout and all... Don't even know what to do. How can you have a relationship with no trust?
Erin Turpin ...he won't change until he ready my husband the same way I have no kids but like the song says I want to have his babies I really love him and want to have a baby but he goes out every weekend doesn't answer me I cook for him i go to work and still in not the only girl he wants and I'm his wife he has four baby mama and if he didn't change for them I don't see him changing any time soon sometimes the best thing to do is walk out I'm so ready I'm just waiting for the right time so I can get all my things out..
Erin Turpin I'm going thru this same situation its crazy smh i left my husband thinking he would get himself together bit instead he went and found another woman to be with now he acts like he wants be back because she cut his ass off i still love him but i doubt its going to work out this thing that ppl call love it hurts and genuine love is not supposed to hurt
Its 2022. Ladies God gave u ur intuition for a reason. Its hard to let go someone u deeply love but once u gotta chick its time to go. The person who will treat u like a queen is out there probably in ur phone but ur busy tryna change someone into who want him to be. Let go n let God bless u
So this song just randomly pop in my head today and I had to come play it! I remember singing this so loud in my room and my mom telling me to shut up 😂 teenage years 😂 16 going on grown like I knew what she was talking about in my soul.
It was almost a year I gave you and to find out you have a whole other family CRUSHED my because after 5 years of being myself I was ready for a relationship/companionship and I gave myself to you with no limitations! I fell in love with you because first and foremost we were friends before anything! It kills me to see you around the block and to know you lied and played me. I hope you are happy because your loss with definitely be someone else's gain! She's used to you cheating on her and you know it and all you have to do is say something nice and she'll take you back, but I'm sorry I'm not that woman! I have a backbone and I deserve so much more! But what will kill you is seeing me do better and seeing me doing for someone else what I was trying so hard to do for you!
Used to scream the lyrics to this song as a kid and I'm just now understanding how deep this song is
OMG me too
me too
Natasha
same to all the old songs im listening to now lol
Natasha righttttttttt
"I know you're messing around, but who the hell else is gonna hold me down?" 😣😔 -Realest line ever
CryBaby Styles the realist line ever that shit cut me deep asf cause thats me😢
😭😭😭
Oh boy
I teared up on that line!!
Your self 🤣🤣 basically she saying she depending on a nigga
Who still bumping it in 2019? Like 👍
Me that's who!!🎶🎶🎶🎶
Da radio
One of my favs!!
Listening now lol
Me
When I first heard this song I was 10 learned every word to it and sang my heart out , now years later here I am crying my ass off 💔🙄
I feel you
Meeee toooo
Tania Mederos facts
its okay love will find you
Your funny 😂
I wanna just take this time to apologize to all the women that men have dont wrong... I feel like no women should be treated like nothing less than a queen! so on behalf of the male gender I'm sorry my beautiful queens! be blessed
Be blessed King!!
Thanks for that! I was in a relationship for 2yrs. And at the end of it all he ended up. Digging me out, and it hurt like hell but a lot of prayer. I prayed a lot!!!!! It wasn't easy but I made it through. And got someone NEW😍😍😍😍😍
Dogging me out!!!!!
Appreciate that. Thank you
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
I saw the interview with her and the sista that wrote this song. Every line in this song describes a pain only someone that has experienced it could know...deep.
Mz White Liv love u bby
big fucking facts!!!
I loveeeee this song. It felt like at the time this song came out for me and what I was go in through..💞💞💞💞
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The writer of the song, Andrea Martin, passed away yesterday. R.I.P. I came right here to hear this. This is one of my favorite songs she wrote.
This song has so much soul and emotion put into it, that's why this will always be my fav
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Me bumping this after my bd got his wings. And thats when this song had so much meaning.... 4ever missing that yella boy known as "yella" Our daughter conceived is one of my greatest gifts & will always be grateful for 🙏 until we meet again my love... nicole-jori-joseph the perfect combo & one of God's greatest creations..... To God be all the glory even in the pain & rain
😔😔 Melanie girl.....Thank u for putting the women's struggle in a beautiful song. I wish I was still clueless to what you mean 😭😭😭
Grew up to my momma bumping this throughout the whole house while cleaning on weekend mornings 😂💯💯❤️❤️
"A part of me wants to leave but the other side still believes" #relatable
Wekeu
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Princess Delusional gdgrbs
Sucks too smh💩...😢💔💔💔🤔💍💑👨👩👧👨👩👧👨👩👧👑👎👎😩
Princess Delusional as a wife I can still relate
Princess Delusional udj,mfkf
Guys just don't understand... The pain runs deep.
NAh, we do. Pain and loss are no respecters of person.
true that they jus don't understand how much pain we go through
+bambi aj u see they always say that if I sorry u should have not done it in the first I mean I am about to be 13 and I kinda got to deal with it
Arinicole ford I'm 13 and I'm dealing with it....
right they don't understand how we feel
Yes girl... Such powerful vocals and instrumental. Just perfect sing it girl..
2019 && this still my jam 💙 broken-hearted and all
Ashley Rice right 💙🚮
💔😩🤦🏾♀️
It's 2021!💙
Whos listening in 2021??👍🏽
Me
💪🏾🔥🔥
Me
me
Me👍👌
Her Vocals Just Put It Over The Top 😪😢😢😢❤️💔
right 😭
Tatiana smith
Thank God I was raised listening to music that my parents loved. I used to sing this as a child now I actually understand this song.
Still love this song, we as women love so deeply it's crazy :(
Michea Cherae Yesss!!😑😑
Y'all love the wrong niggaz FOH
Michea Cherae me
Yes we do
Who’s listening in 2024
❤❤❤meeeee
🙌🏼
Meeee
@@Kenziiiiiie777 A UA-camr I watch was singing HER OWN RENDITION of the song and had me singing it all that week, so I had to come run it back a few times!🤣🔥
Meeeee but not the problems😊
This song never gets old! Everytime I hear it I get chills, Melanie Fiona has an awesome voice!!!😃💕🎵🎤🎶🎙
WHEN YOUR IN LOVE THIS SONG NEVER GETS OLD.
Been playing this song on repeat for the past week, trying to process the pain and hurt. But one thing we need to realize as women, no matter how much you love that man. He won't change. Leave.
"I gotta be out of my mind. To think it is going to work this time, a part of me wants to leave, but the other side still believes” #RealLove Her voice is beautiful!
I was looking for this song for so long I gave up and I just found it by accident. I’m so happy. What a gem
This song is so deep.... "ive gotta b out my mind to think its gonna work this time" crazy
Felt that shii in my soul bro
I thank you God that I am witnessing your Devine connection in your Devine timing. I am so grateful to be experiencing this type of Soul connection.
This song still bumps in 2017
Yup 😂
Hell yeah
Liaa Shantell yep
Yes
duck yea
Her vocals are flawless and even though I don't particularly support the dependant undertones the part of the song that rings true for almost anybody whether their spouse is cheating, emotionally unavailable, etc is when she says, "I got to be out of mind to think it's going to work this time. Part of me want to leave but the other side still believes." Whether you're going to go or not when love is present there is always a glimer of hope left in you. That part is the truth and the whole truth!
“i gotta be out of my mind to think it’s gonna work this time, a part of me wants to leave, but the other side still believes” most relatable thing I’ve ever heard.
literally singin my life rn
got me in tears !!!! 😟 hit me when she says "I gotta be out my mind to think its gonna work this time"
I hate when people hearts be broken by somebody they really love I don't wish that on nobody
if only men knew the pain.
exactly
So true
yess
for real . going three some shit noww.
sigh
sherbert ice cream, bathrobe, darkness, this song is everything right now. I look a hit mess with tears in my ice cream screaming out the lyrics to this song....I'll get over it though...not today but perhaps tomorrow. 🍨🍦🍧😥😢😭
+Patrick Gregory You aren't lying. At this point I'm over it. Thank you for the encouraging words. 😊
same!!
+Patrick Gregory That's a damn shame.
+Patrick Gregory Smdh... These girls today....
+Patrick Gregory you'll be fine though. promise things will get better
So glad I ran into this again while listening to Fantasia 😭😭 the memoriesssss man!! 2020 anyone??
Yes😩😭😭😭
It's 2021!!😭😭
Who listen to this song in 2018
hell yea ^-^
I do
People with taste
Listening to the song in 2019
@@phuthumilenkuna2306 right in April
R.I.P. to the great Andrea Martin who penned this classic. Rest in Power Queen!
the last 30 seconds of this song is so powerful...luv luv it
These lyrics are just 😫 if only I could just walk away but I really do love him 😔 more than I probably should 💔
I think I can finally walk away now it still hurts but I can't keep doing this I have a great guy who wants to love me but he can't if I can't let this go and he deserves all of me not just part of my but I am trying it's getting easier
I always felt like this song could be a scene to any drama movie, but this shiiz be real life, so powerful, Melanie Fiona slayed this song.
This is a good song and she not lying some people don't know what u going through
Arrissa Pugh your very right
i freaking love this song!!!! thanks for putting it up
i love this song
Six years later and this is still my song but now it serves a different purpose. I used to listen to this song and cry my heart out, now I just sing along.
“Should I be a lady?, ooh maybe, cause I wanna have his babies”...Damn I felt that💔
it’s 2019 and this still hit me hard to this day
It's 2021!
Her voice just makes you feel it all
This song brings me to tears every time listen to it and I'm only a teenager
This song got me in my feelings...
Got them chills
Clear ! Jnch are w. XA
So gone
anybody still listening in 2019🥴🙋🏾♀️
I am 39 yrs young and I'm still bumping thissssss. Not only do I feel and relate..she has a beautiful voice.. love this!!
In 2021!!
2019 ?!?! Ima be bumpin this all my life !
It's 2021!!!!
“I gotta be out my mind, to think it’s going to work this time” felt that way
forreal Man have no idea. how much pain that put on a women when they cant be loyal
never had a song relate to what I'm going through so much.... 37 weeks pregnant and he's going out to bars pretty much every weekend, hides his phone, messages girls on Tinder asking to hangout and all... Don't even know what to do. How can you have a relationship with no trust?
Erin Turpin Leave him girl. Trust me it will be better. Its gonna be hard but you can do it.
Erin Turpin ...he won't change until he ready my husband the same way I have no kids but like the song says I want to have his babies I really love him and want to have a baby but he goes out every weekend doesn't answer me I cook for him i go to work and still in not the only girl he wants and I'm his wife he has four baby mama and if he didn't change for them I don't see him changing any time soon sometimes the best thing to do is walk out I'm so ready I'm just waiting for the right time so I can get all my things out..
Erin Turpin you need a new man
Erin Turpin I'm going thru this same situation its crazy smh i left my husband thinking he would get himself together bit instead he went and found another woman to be with now he acts like he wants be back because she cut his ass off i still love him but i doubt its going to work out this thing that ppl call love it hurts and genuine love is not supposed to hurt
DID YOU HAVE THE BABY IS IT A BOY OR GIRL?!😍💯
Who still listens to this song in April of 2016 ?
Ofc stg I love this song so much
im actually listening to it right now singing along to the lyrics,how about that
me
dymond schell December 29, 2016
dymond schell still listen to the song 2017
This song is always needed 😩💕 no matter what year it is
Who listening in 2017 !!
Its 2022. Ladies God gave u ur intuition for a reason. Its hard to let go someone u deeply love but once u gotta chick its time to go. The person who will treat u like a queen is out there probably in ur phone but ur busy tryna change someone into who want him to be. Let go n let God bless u
Who’s still listening in 2024?
Meee
🥺🥺😻ommmgggg love old songsss babyyy those were da best era
2019 THIS SONGGGG IS EVERYTHING
2021
2021 ???? This song will forever be . perfect heart broken song 💖💖
Just me!!!
So this song just randomly pop in my head today and I had to come play it! I remember singing this so loud in my room and my mom telling me to shut up 😂 teenage years 😂 16 going on grown like I knew what she was talking about in my soul.
Bumpin this in 2019 😎😍🎙️🎶🎵🎧🎼💽👩🏾🎤
Listening to it now❤💣
That's 2021!!!!!!!!!!
This used to to be my favorite song as kid & now that I’m older I felt everything sis said! 🥺
Jesus is coming soon, get ready 🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️
Definitely a favorite...👍🏿👍🏿
Her voice gives me the chills
This song always hit me up ❤️💯
2019 where you at❤️🙈
Love it. She came out like a beast. IAMQ
I gotta stop doing women wrong
I respect you for saying that.
Mr50stacks wish mines would admit to that
This song right here make you wanna stop doing women wrong, I'm on that same boat as you bruh
god knows i wish my niqqa would act right - im on the verge of leaving!! Looking for a new #boo
+Mr50stacks this makes you wanna stop doing women wrong ? 😂
2019 anyone??? This song still rocks! 💃💃💃🎵🎵🎵
📢 AND IT KILLS ME! ...
this was my song since i was a kid
+Tiana Higgins ikr
yesssssss honnnnnnnneyyyyy
Tiana Higgins 56
Tiana Higgins 😀 lol
what cheyenne mccall
Yrs later this song still touches my soul...
i will always listen to this❤️
GAWHHHHHHDDAMMMNNNN SIS CAN SING I DAMN WHEW I HAD TO COME BACK TO THIS SONG DDDZAAMMMM😍😍😍😍😍
This song is just amazing. You can love hard but sometimes love isn't enough. Smh lol Well what can you do.
From 315 to the ending of the song I use to scream that but now I understand it and screaming even louder !!! 💙💯
2022 still here...whos with me??
I feel everything in these lyrics besides the "who else gone hold me down" who else gone hold YOU down 🅿️💯 recognize when you got a real one.
This song hits differently when you going through something 🥺
this song is the life i was 5 years old when it came out now I'm In 6 grade this song makes me want to get grades for some reason
Love this still in 2018
2021
2025 and we still bumping this!
who still listening 2017 & 2018
Us Good Men are still out here ❤️🤞🏾 I’ve never cheated ever in my relationships so if you want Kobe come to me 💕 MY QUEENS DESERVE REAL LOVE
I feel every word but walking away won’t kill you, it’ll hurt but you won’t die. 🖤🤞🏾
Exactly
She didn’t literally mean kill -
'i gotta be out my mind to think its gonna work this time' damn i felt that
(im 13 and my first heart brake)
It was almost a year I gave you and to find out you have a whole other family CRUSHED my because after 5 years of being myself I was ready for a relationship/companionship and I gave myself to you with no limitations! I fell in love with you because first and foremost we were friends before anything! It kills me to see you around the block and to know you lied and played me. I hope you are happy because your loss with definitely be someone else's gain! She's used to you cheating on her and you know it and all you have to do is say something nice and she'll take you back, but I'm sorry I'm not that woman! I have a backbone and I deserve so much more! But what will kill you is seeing me do better and seeing me doing for someone else what I was trying so hard to do for you!
Realest thing I've seen today 🤦🏽♀️
Amen yes my sista 💯💯💯💯
"but i love this man.....but some things i just can't stand!"🥺 that hit
my mom a strong single mother who raised two boys on her own
TheKamakafari 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
TheKamakafari same but she raised a girl and a boy
My mom raising five on her own❤✊🏽
I really really really LOVE this song!!! #Throwback kid #2001
When she said should i pay him back to see how he'll react to see if he'll react to my love I felt that 💔
Who still listening Dec 13, 2024 🔥❤️🔥❤️
This song describes me now 💔😢😭
just replayed about five times!
BROO WHO ELSE STILL HERE IN 2018 IMMA ALWAYS LOVE THIS SONG DOGG!!
Man.... This pain is beyond emotional... Is literally physical....
My mom always played these type of songs and I feel like she was lowkey simping🤭
im sorry but this like contemporary r&b at its finest ♥️