MY FIRST TIME VISITING MY ONLINE BOYFRIEND TURNED INTO A NIGHTMARE

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  • @catherineboit7569
    @catherineboit7569 Місяць тому +20

    Bella i have to confess that I like watching unsuccessful love story more than successful once

    • @laetitiamathe5779
      @laetitiamathe5779 Місяць тому

      😢😢

    • @carolnal
      @carolnal Місяць тому +1

      Me too, because i feel like learning

    • @frauhard2851
      @frauhard2851 Місяць тому +2

      It’s because you are not happy and thrive on Negative things. Once you find true happiness and peace. You wouldn’t want to hear negative news. Please pray to God for happiness or you will be miserable everytime you hear Good news. Don’t be offended by my advise, it’s from a warm heart. I personally hate bad news because I have a happy home and life hence I don’t allow negativity in my life. All the best.

    • @NabasaggiHanifahHannah
      @NabasaggiHanifahHannah Місяць тому

      But successful love story will help you to keep moving dear it helped me so much

    • @YOUROLDFRIEND666
      @YOUROLDFRIEND666 Місяць тому

      @@frauhard2851 not exactly . it's also enlightenment.

  • @betsyakoko6810
    @betsyakoko6810 Місяць тому +17

    Bella many should know that God has kept you here with a purpose they should thank God for you

  • @Asia-ew9wx
    @Asia-ew9wx Місяць тому +5

    That word "QUALITY GUY" whenever Bella says it makes me feels that have already got him and start smiling like a mumu😊😊😊😊.Bella in you we trust❤❤

  • @BerthaMutale-y6p
    @BerthaMutale-y6p Місяць тому +11

    Never let the pain from your past punish your present and paralyze your future. Please dear come back home 😭😭

  • @Evangeline.Ozigbe
    @Evangeline.Ozigbe Місяць тому +12

    I don't want to sound like I see if I like hearing people's bad news or people's failure, but I love to watch this once more than the love stories that was happily ever after because they have a lot of lessons to learn

    • @esthertamale6133
      @esthertamale6133 Місяць тому +1

      Your not alone me too,I also rush into failed love stories than successful ones.

  • @memorybanda9277
    @memorybanda9277 Місяць тому +8

    Mmh 🙉 wonders shall never end, Anabel has suffered in the hands of this two faced guy, if there is one thing i hate in a relationship is lies, may the good Lord protect her, that guy is wahala 🙌🙌, thanks for sharing with us this story, every story you posted we learn alot, love you always ❤, God bless you 🙏

  • @QueenAma18
    @QueenAma18 Місяць тому +4

    Hello Bella, thank you so much for looking out for us. ( As for my country woman, my sister I’m so sorry for what you’ve going through. God will one day bless us all with the man we’re looking for. 🙏🏾

  • @judyatieno917
    @judyatieno917 Місяць тому +8

    With African bella you can never go wrong ,just keep on guiding and shining our eyes darling, personally i appreciate your efforts and I always thank God for coming across your channel ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @peshpeshgal3796
    @peshpeshgal3796 Місяць тому +1

    I’m so sorry for Anabel about what she has been going through. She’ll find her real rib when time is right. Thank you so much Bella for sharing this with us.

  • @VeraEkwa
    @VeraEkwa Місяць тому +2

    Omg this is another eye opening video and story from Bella. Ladies let’s shine our eyes ooo in Bella’s voice. This guy really deceived her sad for Annable she thought she has found the one 😢

  • @CHEKSLEA
    @CHEKSLEA Місяць тому +1

    So sorry for Annable , he deceived her, this is another good lesson to single ladies, please shine your eyes like Bella always say

  • @harrietkambua1399
    @harrietkambua1399 Місяць тому +7

    Today Bella you didn't tell us if they enjoyed the goodies 😅😊 anyway thank you Bella for sharing with us ❤❤yes my fellow single ladies let's open our eyes 👀 wildly

  • @LiLisLounge
    @LiLisLounge Місяць тому +3

    I'm so glad that she's going to end the relationship! Good thing that she took her time and these things came to light before marriage.

  • @mpendaamani2251
    @mpendaamani2251 Місяць тому +3

    I would listen to this babe over and over again.... Good storytelling skills. Love it for you❤

  • @annmungai4753
    @annmungai4753 Місяць тому +5

    Oh what a sad story.. Wen dating online one has to be very carefu.. Don't ignore thw red flags ladies

  • @usertopista6633
    @usertopista6633 Місяць тому

    Praying for Annabel to return home safe and sound 🙏🏻 ❤️

  • @BarbraNyashega
    @BarbraNyashega Місяць тому +10

    Asking her to borrow money was a red flag

  • @tessowu22
    @tessowu22 Місяць тому +3

    That is very sad story, how can a man behave like that and sometimes I wonder why this men go to online dating apps and site to behave like that... Jeeeezzz it so much.. Tnk you dear for the story. ❤❤❤

  • @SA-nl7wn
    @SA-nl7wn Місяць тому

    You insisting on is getting quality guys keeps us on alert mode. Thank you dear Bella.

  • @Mercy-b8z
    @Mercy-b8z Місяць тому +3

    I really thank God for coming across your channel bella , you have really opened my eyes 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @mutave.kivanguli
    @mutave.kivanguli Місяць тому +1

    So sorry for Annabel😢...all shall be well..Bella with these unsuccessful stories we get to learn a lot about the online dating world.Bella you are graced with discernment may God bless you🙏.This is an eye opener!!

  • @nakimerajoyce9234
    @nakimerajoyce9234 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much our for share this story to us oh God may God give you strength and protect you dear in situation you're going through.
    It's good not to miss any video African Bella uploaded every video there is something new to learn God bless you sister Bella

  • @NamwakaHadassahTambatamba
    @NamwakaHadassahTambatamba Місяць тому +12

    This is why i stay awY from men from certain countries like india, albania, lebanon and turkey......but i understand why the guy did that....we as women are very materialistic nowadays.

    • @maryannobandoochinji7422
      @maryannobandoochinji7422 Місяць тому

      Very true....men from those countries issa big NO...i remember, in the recent past we had a horrific story of a kenyan lady who worked in Albania and was attacked by Albanian man which led to her being in a comma and eventually dying.....Turkish, Albanian, Indians...keep away from them

  • @margaretgabriel8123
    @margaretgabriel8123 Місяць тому +4

    Hi Bella sorry about this lady story’s but one thing we ladies need to do if you’re visiting someone for the first time you better have some money with you in case something happens

  • @SA-nl7wn
    @SA-nl7wn Місяць тому

    Bella, what you are doing is very good. You give both good and bad and we learn a lot from the bad ones. You give us insights on situations we had no clue at all. You are the best. Thank you for the good work. Girls lets be alert.

  • @moonlightgwendolin
    @moonlightgwendolin Місяць тому +2

    Ooh poor Annabel...im just glad that you didn't marry this guy,hevput you through a lot and you didn't deserve any of his lies and manipulation.í thank god you are okay dear,thank you for sharing your heartbreaks with us,we or i personally learned a lot from your story.stay blessed my darling,the one made dor you is coming.dont loose hope in love❤

  • @NalubegaMariam-tl2li
    @NalubegaMariam-tl2li Місяць тому +1

    Thanks for everything, my lovely sis 💕 😘

  • @wanjirajackfred4686
    @wanjirajackfred4686 Місяць тому +1

    So sorry for Annabel,may God guide us in these apps...thanks Bella❤

  • @betsyakoko6810
    @betsyakoko6810 Місяць тому +2

    I appreciate your teachings Bella they are informative and may God bless and keep you strong stay safe and be blessed

  • @VickyGist7477
    @VickyGist7477 Місяць тому

    Nice one dear African Bella, is better people should go for what they want.😘👍

  • @BernaTitus
    @BernaTitus Місяць тому +1

    We love you Bella. May God bless you and your family. Your videos always helping us to open our eyes. Thank Bella. I learn a lot from this video.

  • @estherphiri-l3p
    @estherphiri-l3p Місяць тому

    Thank you my love Bella for the vidioe.Praying to God to give Anabella strength and comfort.

  • @getrudendlovu4509
    @getrudendlovu4509 Місяць тому

    Thankyou sis Bella for this story though its a sad one 😢,,we are really learning,,may God heal and restore our sister Anabel

  • @meedalina
    @meedalina Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for this honest truth and reality

  • @simplyJunah
    @simplyJunah Місяць тому +2

    First here❤🎉😊much love for Bella , let me watch

  • @BarbraNyashega
    @BarbraNyashega Місяць тому +9

    I tell people never show your family like your mom and dad your boyfriend, better show your sisters or brothers

  • @ruthnalumansi719
    @ruthnalumansi719 Місяць тому +1

    Well noted thank you for sharing dear Bella

  • @naomichesang145
    @naomichesang145 Місяць тому

    Wuuueh wacha nikule githeri juu wuuueh 😢😢

  • @CHEKSLEA
    @CHEKSLEA Місяць тому

    Thank you for the story Bella

  • @nureenrahmaumat7151
    @nureenrahmaumat7151 Місяць тому

    Bella Bella what will we pay you back in this world coz you are God sent

  • @namagandajackie4859
    @namagandajackie4859 Місяць тому +5

    Let me also get a cup of tea 🍵 so that I can watch my story.

  • @AnishaAfrica
    @AnishaAfrica Місяць тому +1

    May God makes good way to her our sister one day she will gets the best one ❤️ 🙏

  • @tumuheireagnes526
    @tumuheireagnes526 Місяць тому +3

    I wouldn't recommend publishing the story before she left the toxic man, in case he gets to know?. Research shows that most relationships turn violent once the toxic party gets to know that you are leaving them, so it's much safer to disclose after reaching a secure environment. But all in all, blessings to our sister 🙏

  • @ryker8392
    @ryker8392 Місяць тому

    This was indeed a story time 🤔 cheeeiii.... 🙆🤦‍♀️ Wahala!!!!! May God guide us all who are searching for love. Amen 🙏

  • @Paula-if3id
    @Paula-if3id Місяць тому +1

    Tour where?😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    That one finished me 😂😂😂
    There’s even nothing to scam there 😢

  • @zuwenashabani7100
    @zuwenashabani7100 Місяць тому +2

    😢😢😢this man is like the one we broke up with

  • @vailetheanyambilile9749
    @vailetheanyambilile9749 Місяць тому

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🥹🥹wiki nzima Mungu wangu 😂😂khaaaaa

  • @gracetimona4198
    @gracetimona4198 Місяць тому +1

    Hi Bella,😊 have a nice weekend

  • @mickeyraymond8007
    @mickeyraymond8007 Місяць тому +1

    Love you Bella❤❤❤

  • @JosephineSluis
    @JosephineSluis Місяць тому

    Tick, he is a clean guy 😅😅😅 let's not talk about the past to a gut we just met. The money borrowing part is a sign of red flags. Online dating wahala 😅! Anabel saw a lot 😢! Don't rush to marry a guy girls 😅. God will send Anabel a good man. African Bella is the best.

  • @Jeraldine-t4i
    @Jeraldine-t4i Місяць тому

    Hello dear Bella ❤❤❤

  • @shaminahnanyanzi8851
    @shaminahnanyanzi8851 Місяць тому +3

    I scared with guys of German coze my sister is always crying 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

    • @peshpeshgal3796
      @peshpeshgal3796 Місяць тому +1

      Advise your sister to divorce that guy if that marriage isn’t working. I better be single forever than being a marriage where my feelings are always being hurt by a man 😢

  • @AnishaAfrica
    @AnishaAfrica Місяць тому +1

    Eeeeeeeeee 😢
    that's the most full challenging we found on line dating hoooo God help us though we trying to find love eee my heart is broken 💔 😢 sorry our sister 😢 💔 😞 😔

  • @shaminahnanyanzi8851
    @shaminahnanyanzi8851 Місяць тому +1

    Sorry 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @Ireneatieno-p5r
    @Ireneatieno-p5r Місяць тому

    Oh my goodness... so interesting story but so heartbreaking at the same time.. that guy is very mentally immature, incompetent, disorganized contradicting words and complicating things... what the hell.. Ladies pray alot and learn to be on your spiritual attendance.

  • @shaminahnanyanzi8851
    @shaminahnanyanzi8851 Місяць тому +1

    Iam very sorry about that story.

  • @emmakhanyango2606
    @emmakhanyango2606 Місяць тому +2

    Nimetulia tu hapa na githeri kwa sahani chatting with this Albanian man I've known for two days halafu Anabel boom! May God drive the right man her way haki.

    • @mickeyraymond8007
      @mickeyraymond8007 Місяць тому

      I understand you dear, just pray and watch the red flags

    • @norahkosgei6385
      @norahkosgei6385 Місяць тому

      If you are Kenyan there were two Albanian brothers years back ...Mafia...they scare me😊

    • @mickeyraymond8007
      @mickeyraymond8007 Місяць тому

      @@norahkosgei6385 I'm your neighbour from Tz

    • @missfavour3366
      @missfavour3366 Місяць тому

      artur brothers😖😖😖😖

    • @emmakhanyango2606
      @emmakhanyango2606 Місяць тому

      @missfavour3366 The Sargasian and Margarian right?

  • @Phiona-rs5nj
    @Phiona-rs5nj Місяць тому +1

    Am the second , how are you Bella 🎉

  • @KarenRyanne
    @KarenRyanne Місяць тому

    Oh wow I’m glad Annabel was your baby and she didn’t marry the guy 😢, wow online dating isn’t for the weak . This is real sad Annabel had to go through this and this guy never even fulfilled any of his promises, he was aliar he’s even bad , why did he had to lie about everything 😭

  • @ArwaKamaleldeen
    @ArwaKamaleldeen Місяць тому +1

    Hi dear bella i missed you.. hope everything is good

  • @charlottequeen2079
    @charlottequeen2079 Місяць тому

    If I'm Anabel I can block the guy even when I'm even still on the plane to Ghana, and my advice to her is to just stop telling him his wrongdoings because he may end up hurting her physically, let her only pray so that the day to Ghana can reach so that she comes home, and for the parents I'm sure they will understand

  • @yaakwatemaa5038
    @yaakwatemaa5038 Місяць тому

    Bella i am giving up on online dating really sad scaryly

  • @BarbraNyashega
    @BarbraNyashega Місяць тому +18

    I remember one guy from Sweden 😂said he doesn't shower every day because it makes his skin dry😂i laughed my lungs out then the following week h said to me you are too smart I cannot keep talking to you😂I was so happy.good riddance

    • @myonlinetherapysessions9668
      @myonlinetherapysessions9668 Місяць тому

      Weuhhh God saved you because it's God who made that guy reveal such information otherwise you would have gone to find out about it in the house married to him

    • @marthag2885
      @marthag2885 Місяць тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @norahkosgei6385
      @norahkosgei6385 Місяць тому

      I don't know why being smart scares most of them. The 1st statement they make is, you are smart...then they disappear at some point 😊😊

    • @BarbraNyashega
      @BarbraNyashega Місяць тому

      @norahkosgei6385 if the Bible says cleanliness is nearest to godliness, i wonder what is wrong with being smart, me I can't handle a dirty person

  • @nalubegawinnie3963
    @nalubegawinnie3963 Місяць тому

    Sorry my dia but trust God you will get the right one

  • @Sky-xs7bh
    @Sky-xs7bh Місяць тому +1

    Hi Bella ❤

  • @Kke686
    @Kke686 Місяць тому

    Not showering in some places is very normal.
    Those who know they know
    And accommodation depends on your pocket

  • @Soso-uy3wp
    @Soso-uy3wp Місяць тому +4

    Thank you soo much Bella
    So sorry for Annabelle
    Please ladies please there is no harm in dating a guy for a while so that both of you can study one another more
    White people when they date they date for years without even engagement and also time as fincees
    There is a lot to learn about one another
    And with time you get to know and understand each other better
    Time is the best medicine to learn and know someone
    That’s why when they propose after time they get nervous because the woman knows everything about him it’s a yes or no
    So please ladies enjoy dating ,travelling back and forth building life together yet in long distance till you are sure about everything
    Remember it’s not all that glitters is gold
    Thank you Bella

    • @Sandie628
      @Sandie628 Місяць тому

      Exactly my thought
      I pray she sees this comment

  • @marthakunda-nn9jc
    @marthakunda-nn9jc Місяць тому +1

    A guy is so stupid and is a snake😢😢
    God bless you my follow African lady God is be with you in Jesus name 🙏🙏

  • @mollyatm2326
    @mollyatm2326 Місяць тому

    May God have mercy on me

  • @nureenrahmaumat7151
    @nureenrahmaumat7151 Місяць тому

    Am online but they are some countries that i ignore Albania inclusive.🙌

  • @marthag2885
    @marthag2885 Місяць тому +3

    One day I asked the guy I was chatting with to show me his dog..I wanted to see his house.

  • @shaminahnanyanzi8851
    @shaminahnanyanzi8851 Місяць тому +2

    Even my sister told me about her husband and told me that they don't shower babies there.😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @edmaureendixon3535
    @edmaureendixon3535 Місяць тому +2

    Sad! Glad she was smart and not marry him

  • @shaminahnanyanzi8851
    @shaminahnanyanzi8851 Місяць тому

    Your right,I told her now she's Florin house

  • @BarbraNyashega
    @BarbraNyashega Місяць тому +2

    Some if these men sometimes lie in the name of different cultures.

  • @AkelloMiriam-o6h
    @AkelloMiriam-o6h Місяць тому +2

    Hello bella is it my phone cause am not seeing your face anyways much love

  • @BarbraNyashega
    @BarbraNyashega Місяць тому +1

    Annabelle went through the most, and the landlord was very bad what kind of rules are these,i can't shower once a week

  • @shaminahnanyanzi8851
    @shaminahnanyanzi8851 Місяць тому +1

    Let her come back home

  • @ItsLinaofficial_
    @ItsLinaofficial_ Місяць тому +2

    I believe all that flashy lifestyle he was promising her can only happen in Ghana because few euro is a lot of money when you change it into Ghana cedis 😂

  • @Gloria-nv8dq
    @Gloria-nv8dq Місяць тому

    It was so bad for him not to tell her the truth about his real life

  • @Bernadatte-19
    @Bernadatte-19 Місяць тому

    That's really terrible but some men in uganda we say olemwa oh. We pray for God's protection upon our sister so that she's safe till she returns back home, infact let her play it cool till she leaves then show him fire after landing 😂😂.

    • @ryker8392
      @ryker8392 Місяць тому

      😂😂 Show him left, right and center 🤣 chaii... 🙆

  • @NakalemaGertrude
    @NakalemaGertrude Місяць тому +2

    Sad strory, im so disappointed

  • @jacklinenjambi4450
    @jacklinenjambi4450 Місяць тому +1

    Hi Bella,ope you are doing fine?

  • @rosemarymuchisa1497
    @rosemarymuchisa1497 Місяць тому +3

    Sometimes i love my african guys

  • @stellanthenya7259
    @stellanthenya7259 Місяць тому

    Annabel went through alot so guys are very bad😢

  • @gillianwilliam5688
    @gillianwilliam5688 Місяць тому

    Quiting a job is not good idea .... Don't depends on someone

  • @Pretti-Kandi
    @Pretti-Kandi Місяць тому +1

    Hi Bella

  • @matsidisojulia
    @matsidisojulia Місяць тому +2

    I think I should say is better that always you must have a transport money return. For me I should return back home quickly.secondly Annabel should refuse to go Albania country. Because she was already to see disappointment. Thirdly Annabelle should tell the truth to his family as long as she doesn't have any child from that guy . She can still go for fishing. They're planty of fish nice Hake fish. Because yellow fish are dangerous be careful of yellow fish.and sharks. For me one week was enough to come back home. Let's stop thinking that person will change ladies. I remember that Bella warm us about certain countries.lets go check them. Thanks so much Bella for guiding us.

    • @Pretti-Kandi
      @Pretti-Kandi Місяць тому

      Her flight ticket suppose to come with return ticket

    • @Pretti-Kandi
      @Pretti-Kandi Місяць тому

      She should not continue with that kind of relationship

  • @betsyakoko6810
    @betsyakoko6810 Місяць тому +1

    Hi Bella looking good am doing good

  • @rosetabekum313
    @rosetabekum313 Місяць тому +1

    Why can’t she just go back to Ghana. I won’t advise my dear sister to continue with the wedding. She should contact her family and secretly run away because it seems if she tells the guy she doesn’t want it anymore. He might do something to her

  • @lrene1918
    @lrene1918 Місяць тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @LaviniaTangy-p3g
    @LaviniaTangy-p3g Місяць тому +1

    Story time

  • @mariamissa4529
    @mariamissa4529 Місяць тому

    Bella you didn’t talk about the goodies

  • @BarbraNyashega
    @BarbraNyashega Місяць тому +1

    Mortuary really

  • @mickeyraymond8007
    @mickeyraymond8007 Місяць тому

    Nyumba za Buza kumbe zipo had ulaya😂😂😂 emagine guys landlord anakuhesabia ukienda toilet

  • @FavourBlossom-et6xz
    @FavourBlossom-et6xz Місяць тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @natukundadebbie100
    @natukundadebbie100 Місяць тому +2

    Nakuramutsya omwishiki weitu Bella
    Love you from moon en back
    Let me now watch the video

  • @maximr6576
    @maximr6576 Місяць тому +2

    Albania is a red flag literally

  • @Giftyakyede3Akyede3
    @Giftyakyede3Akyede3 Місяць тому +1

    Hmmm

  • @AnishaAfrica
    @AnishaAfrica Місяць тому +1

    😢😢😢😢😮😢