Simplify Your Life! Stop Doing These Things to Live Simply

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  • Опубліковано 17 вер 2024

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  • @ConnieRiet
    @ConnieRiet  Рік тому +55

    My current mantra to simplify my life is, "I'm doing enough and I'm OK with that." What mantra do you need to adopt to live a simpler life?

    • @flj6472
      @flj6472 Рік тому +5

      "I do enough, I have enough, I am enough! "I love your vlogs! Thank you for what you do! Safe travels!

    • @sandhyatiwari7
      @sandhyatiwari7 Рік тому +4

      My current mantra is "Being in the present moment and not thinking about tomorrow"

    • @kimlittleton72
      @kimlittleton72 Рік тому +1

      Mantra that came to mind when I changed my identity (added to it actually) was and still is: I am healthy, I exercise, I eat foods that are nutritionally good for me and my body. Once I stated these words, I executed and it became so much easier; I “decided” that this is, really is who I am. Eat smart move more is a program that helped guide me that I joined after I made this decision about who I am. Love your content and congratulations to you for your life choices!

    • @abigailvomelmo1167
      @abigailvomelmo1167 Рік тому +1

      Hi 😊! At the present time, I don't feel ANY NEED or WANT to Simplify my Life. I am more than Happy & Content & I'm not Complacent. I feel my Life has been & gives me a Polished Vibe 🥰🥰. We don't know one day to the next & I understand things can happen in one day &/or change overnight 🌃🌉. For now, I can't complain 😊. Whatever one thinks is ENOUGH to have or to do, is EACH & Everyone's Personal Desire!! And that, MUST come first & be RESPECTED💞💞💞!!!

    • @Michelle_Emm
      @Michelle_Emm Рік тому +2

      My y mantra is "Let it go"

  • @peggygilbertsen9099
    @peggygilbertsen9099 Рік тому +45

    Thank you for this. The glorification of busy is a term I read once, and it really resonated with me. More is not better, it’s just more. We are all enough. We just forget that we are. Enjoy your life adventure . It looks beautiful there.

  • @tammy6452
    @tammy6452 Рік тому +6

    "The simpler, the better." Very true.

  • @glorianolan3118
    @glorianolan3118 4 місяці тому +1

    This episode was particularly meaningful to me today. At 80 years old, I finally am realizing it is okay to slow down. It is such a hard lesson to learn, obviously. I, too, was a single Mom. An abusive relationship, a sick child, and a second child who really needed me but for whom I had too much guilt to appreciate him ... all this sadness led me to work harder outside my home. Now, my surviving 45 year old son says "You were always working." Thanks for sharing your life insights.

  • @patricktobin7033
    @patricktobin7033 Рік тому +6

    Welcome to my world. There is no more. Once you have chosen your path you have won. If only more people realised that life can be that simple.🙏👌😎

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  Рік тому +2

      Well said, "once you have chosen your path you have won." Thank you for sharing this mantra

  • @louisetilbury3443
    @louisetilbury3443 Рік тому +9

    My mantra “ there is only 24 hours in a day, 1 of me and what doesn’t get done, has to wait”. I question myself on what would happen if I didn’t do it, usually nothing so I make sure I do what I need to do and the rest waits. I’m also prioritising rest over chores. Learning to ignore the guilt and go with the flow.

  • @danielarenner4102
    @danielarenner4102 Рік тому +27

    KISS. Keep it Simply Simple. Thank you Connie for this potent reminder. That nagging “to do more” is so destructive to my well being also. So admire your nomadic lifestyle, and love following your adventures. Please, Keep them coming. Thank you so much for your encouragement.

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  Рік тому +4

      KISS! I love this! Thank you for your input.

  • @chinchorrero
    @chinchorrero Рік тому +23

    I love how the video takes me for a calm relaxing mental walk!❤ (We definitely need to remember the important thinks in life)

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  Рік тому +3

      I'm so glad you enjoy the video!

  • @deidrekelly2338
    @deidrekelly2338 Рік тому +12

    Thank you so much Connie. I too was in a serious rear end collision in 2019 ( I'm 61 now). Post Concussion Syndrome and PTSD etc. My life has changed dramatically since then. I also had to let go of my anger against the young man that hit me, changing my life forever . Been a long hard road, doing lot's of yoga , your mindfulness tips and lot's of outdoor time have helped me accept the new person I am now.

  • @mariit522
    @mariit522 Рік тому +5

    … when my life becomes complicated I do watch your videos over and over ..and meditation is becoming of my life.
    Thank you Connie…🙏

  • @lizzi437
    @lizzi437 Рік тому

    Oh, that lavender looks like is smells so lovely!

  • @margarettownsley9500
    @margarettownsley9500 Рік тому +5

    Thank you connie I feel like I’ve had a rude awakening today well before watching this video it was like I’m done with 90% of this world I’m stepping away from it I can see that the busy busy busy is no good to me I’m really going to work on a slower life as some days my heart is pounding to fast from the business of this world thank you so much for your video

    • @Michelle_Emm
      @Michelle_Emm Рік тому

      I wish you well in your journey towards simplicity. 🕉️

  • @deborahcoyne1894
    @deborahcoyne1894 Рік тому +15

    Beautiful message, thank you. I think we were taught/internalized that being busy = being productive with the assumption that this brings a sense of contribution to our families, our work, our lives. In reality, keeping busy does not equate with being productive and can interfere with being present and finding calmness, beauty and peacefulness in the moment. Giving up control is an important message. It brings such freedom and happiness. Absolutely loved this video. Ty.

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  Рік тому +3

      Giving up the illusion that I am in control has been incredibly freeing.

    • @abigailvomelmo1167
      @abigailvomelmo1167 Рік тому

      Hi 😊! Taking care of your family & SELF is NUMBER ONE 🥰!!
      I believe, doing LESS is NOT more; it is SELF Definition of PITY 😩😩😖😖; w/all due Respect -- those that are MEDICALLY challenged/infringed upon 😔😔. All WILL be EMPTY NESTERS @ one time or another; do ALL that you can; while you can - & enjoy it...... We ALL, WILL be; MINIMALISTS when we EXPIRE 🥰!

  • @catherineterry9110
    @catherineterry9110 Рік тому +3

    oh gosh your decision ideas hep as I am so uncomfortable making them.
    Simplifying my life gives me joy. Thank you for your gentle sharing.

  • @kindred1113
    @kindred1113 Рік тому +2

    So nice to live by the ocean. I love it......when I need peace I like to walk in the woods and check for rare plants and flowers.....MINDY

  • @user-iu4xl6du6y
    @user-iu4xl6du6y 8 місяців тому

    From you, I am learming minimal life and English!!!

  • @heidixxx2454
    @heidixxx2454 Рік тому +3

    That silent inner urge to do more--I wonder if that is just part of the ego, which we all have (an ego) for I have that voice too, that I, especially I, don't do enough. So I get to learn to live with the ego, like a child constantly asking questions, for which I run out of answers, and so have to let be, the constant prattle, and regard it all as only part of myself, and focus instead on another inner voice, that chooses to self-soothe. I love seeing scenes of Spain!

  • @jeffj318
    @jeffj318 Рік тому +6

    Thank you, Connie, for every beautiful and thought-provoking video you make.
    You take us along with you in your journey and peacefulness. ❤

  • @kodeywhitewolf6408
    @kodeywhitewolf6408 Рік тому +7

    Always love your videos
    Yep us humans are good at overdoing and over thinking
    This is when I step back and breathe and let go saying " It IS okay All will work out"

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your mantra with us! I love it!

  • @jenniferlee7167
    @jenniferlee7167 Рік тому +21

    Connie, I have started to slow down as well. I am amazed at the anxiety I can create just thinking about a situation even if it is a month away before I need to deal with it. I also have had Atrial Fibrillation since I had Covid-19 when I was working in the medical field. It comes and goes and has forced me to cut back on things and take each day to appreciate what I have. I am a new sub and I really enjoy your channel, Thank you!

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  Рік тому +4

      Welcome, Jennifer! I'm so glad you are here. Sometimes life forces us to slow down and enjoy the moment. Sending you health and happiness

    • @MarySmith-gd7bj
      @MarySmith-gd7bj Рік тому

      What country are u in?

  • @claudiabecker4673
    @claudiabecker4673 Рік тому

    Today I read the sentence " You are a human being, not a human doing". I really like that:)

  • @drobbins678
    @drobbins678 Рік тому +3

    I watch your videos as a form of meditation, thank you! Enjoy your journey on the road.

  • @robertross8565
    @robertross8565 Рік тому

    There is something about you that is magical.

  • @VeganSuz
    @VeganSuz Рік тому +15

    Thank you, Connie! Your videos are truly like a meditation for me, and I needed it this morning as I'm about to leave for a CT (chest) scan appt. Anxiety is bubbling up still, but I so appreciate you and your gentle reminders. 💕 💕

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  Рік тому +1

      Oh Suzanna! I'm sending you thoughts of health and peace today my friend.

    • @VeganSuz
      @VeganSuz Рік тому +1

      @@ConnieRiet thank you! 💕 The tech told me that concerning results will often show up in the online portal within a few hours (but told me to reach out to my doc before opening, if they do). Otherwise, they will take about 24 hrs. I'm holding onto the old saying, "no news is good news" right now. It's been 4 1/2 hours since I finished the scan.

  • @christineskeen7252
    @christineskeen7252 Рік тому +1

    Such a great video Connie, thank you. I can understand how you may feel about your body/life after your accident. I had an accident that has changed my physical abilities and even now, 12 years later, I sometimes still mourn the lost of my old body. I'm grateful I can walk and take care of my myself, but some days are harder than others. My mantra is "I'm enough just as I am." I now listen to my body and what it needs from me. If it's a painful day I stop and rest, even though I just want to keep going....... It's a different life for me now, but I do have lots to be grateful for. Healing prayers to you! 💜

  • @EarthMan1932
    @EarthMan1932 Рік тому +1

    Even a spiritual teacher or psychologist will not be able to put things this simple and explain. ☺ thank you

  • @wolftress2503
    @wolftress2503 Рік тому +2

    Boy oh boy did I need to hear these reminders today 😊🙏🏼

  • @tinalongman842
    @tinalongman842 Рік тому +8

    I feel like I have known you in another lifetime, Connie, your words of wisdom is beyond words.. thank you for caring enough to share this wonderful way of mindset. I’m working on it.. I’m very thankful.. especially for people like you. ❤

  • @catherinerouse1319
    @catherinerouse1319 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Connie! Simplifying our lives is so much better!❤

  • @havechopstickswilltravel2990
    @havechopstickswilltravel2990 Рік тому +5

    What a great message to remind us all to slow down. That is a beautiful spot. I was just imagining a place like that during my morning meditation. Is this northern Spain?

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  Рік тому +2

      Yes, it is a small walled village about one hour north of Barcelona. Tossa De Mar. It is lovely here.

  • @marlooostmeyer2778
    @marlooostmeyer2778 Рік тому +8

    Thank you Connie, this was a great reminder to me, especially the reminder to show myself and others grace and compassionate. Your words always uplift and inspire.

  • @Alaskaventureswithbrodie
    @Alaskaventureswithbrodie Рік тому +3

    Mantra -You are not resposible for everyone’s feelings ❤

  • @catherineterry9110
    @catherineterry9110 Рік тому +2

    i watched this video twice and some spots over again. i needed your words to absorb into my brain.

  • @sumanunes4562
    @sumanunes4562 Рік тому +3

    I do the same ❤ always making myself living simple life and feeling in tune with myself.

  • @ninajohnson6578
    @ninajohnson6578 Рік тому

    Mental stamina is such a helpful concept. I’ve been working with a TBI for 50 years and I’ve always thought of it as a weakness. Instead I will reframe as the amount of mental stamina I have that day.

  • @mastandstars5869
    @mastandstars5869 Рік тому +4

    This just might be my favorite video on your channel! The 3 second rule…. Yes! What a great idea!
    Whats for dinner, whatever I think of in 3 seconds without hemming and hawing alone will be so helpful for me.
    Once you & your family move on, would you please share the location (Spain?) it’s so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

  • @andeebee2530
    @andeebee2530 Рік тому +2

    The view out over the ocean, wow! Thank you for sharing these beautiful places with us along with your incredible messages.
    You are so right about keeping things simple, it is too easy for me to become overwhelmed.

  • @marciahess8262
    @marciahess8262 Рік тому

    Beautiful message ❤

  • @creatiffy
    @creatiffy Рік тому +3

    Love your videos they are so relaxing just what I need .Your voice is so calming I do believe it has lowered my blood pressure just by listening and and watching Keep up this amazing work Take care

  • @AyaSmith-rb2hp
    @AyaSmith-rb2hp Рік тому +1

    Just love you and appreciate your wisdoms!!!!
    Thanks for making my morning.❤

  • @theloveyourfacegal2773
    @theloveyourfacegal2773 Рік тому

    I used to feel like that when my kids were younger than school age I had to keep telling myself the $ I would be making working outside the home would all go to the price of daycare anyway & I wouldn't trade those days for anything especially sense so much of their personality is being molded in those years. Your videos are art 🎨 they are beautiful as are you & I know they benefit many. ❤

  • @sherylunion4469
    @sherylunion4469 Рік тому

    I recently discovered you and have been enjoying what you share. Thank you.

  • @murdiesel
    @murdiesel Рік тому

    You go to Quality over Quantity! Less is more. Great video young lady!

  • @taligrossman9942
    @taligrossman9942 Рік тому

    Every time I watch your videos, I will say 2 myself “SO TRUE “, thanks 🙏 for sharing your life story.❤️

  • @robertashaffer3950
    @robertashaffer3950 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this beautiful video Connie. I am trying to slow down my brain. Way too much going on. Nature is perfect to breathe & release.
    I appreciate your message very much 🙏

  • @THFrenchteacher
    @THFrenchteacher Рік тому +2

    I’m having to retire after 30 years of teaching due to lupus. I just get overwhelmed. I’m looking forward to retiring, but also scared. Doing less needs to be my mantra. But after 30 years of going non stop, can I do it? Thank you for this! I needed to hear this. I’ve saved it so I can hear it a few more times. 🙏💜🙏

  • @virginiagarcia3102
    @virginiagarcia3102 Рік тому

    Thank you!! I’m really try.

  • @kennethbailey9853
    @kennethbailey9853 Рік тому +1

    Always Spot on !🙂

  • @philwyatt2176
    @philwyatt2176 Рік тому

    Wonderful wisdoms Connie, Thanks 😊

  • @ענתכהן-פ7ז
    @ענתכהן-פ7ז Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much for this video.
    I identify with everything.
    It seems as if you made this video for me, about me.
    I love your mantra and going to adopt it.
    Great messages in beautiful scenery. Thank you.
    I always strive for simplicity.
    I believe that simplicity is the core of meaningful life.
    There are a lot of layers to peel on the way.. lots of understandings.. lots of letting go... lots of self love.
    The most important inner work in life. The most beautiful one.
    Thank you.

  • @Lydia_l
    @Lydia_l Рік тому

    HI Connie first Thank you for all that you do you speak my soul language and for curiosity the places on this video are in Greece! ❤

  • @janjentz1053
    @janjentz1053 Рік тому

    My favorite saying is in Italian. Il dolce far niente. I do think our mindset that we must keep going and do more; is cultural. In the US any kind of sitting down, resting, saying no to more; is viewed as lazy. It has taken me until my 60's to stop the rat race and over doing. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

  • @kodeywhitewolf6408
    @kodeywhitewolf6408 Рік тому

    Great video. Thanks for this

  • @kristieshoemake7343
    @kristieshoemake7343 Рік тому +1

    I just subscribed and love your beautiful clips!

  • @prashanttayshetye9068
    @prashanttayshetye9068 Рік тому

    Wow you inspired me to do excarly what i want to do.

  • @outdoorsdon
    @outdoorsdon Рік тому +1

    My mantra - enjoy life and disregard what other people think or what you to do.

  • @c.muller673
    @c.muller673 Рік тому

    I really enjoy all your videos. I am from Germany and I love the way you express yourself. You are so articulate and your advices are very wise. I always calm down when I listen to you and see all the beautiful landscapes. I totally agree with you when it comes to what you have said in this video. Greetings from Germany, Conny

  • @DaisyDebs
    @DaisyDebs Рік тому

    You have a beautiful day too x

  • @anniecochrane3359
    @anniecochrane3359 Рік тому +1

    Thank you! Very helpful information, and very pertinent to my life.

  • @joer9856
    @joer9856 Рік тому

    Thank you for this video. I struggle with all of the points you discussed. And it helps to hear you talk about them and how you work with them. Your videos are always so insightful, and beautifully filmed.

  • @sideman7117
    @sideman7117 Рік тому +1

    Good advice. Thx

  • @FL34108
    @FL34108 Рік тому

    The place looks amazing. It reminds me of the trails between Menton and Monaco, all the way to St Tropez. Beautiful and peaceful.

  • @gloriayouchisonbrown7734
    @gloriayouchisonbrown7734 Рік тому +1

    I needed to hear this today, thank you Connie your words resonate with me🌹

  • @junehawks4666
    @junehawks4666 Рік тому

    You are in some beautiful place to live simple for sure.

  • @robertholland7558
    @robertholland7558 Рік тому +1

    Be resilient, learn to agree to disagree and do not try to convince others or allow others to convince you, of what you disagree about.

  • @moonchild7456
    @moonchild7456 Рік тому

    Thanks for your lovely video in an amazing environment! You are living the life! Some tangible examples of how you simplify and reduce overthinking would be great.

  • @Limitedia258
    @Limitedia258 Рік тому

    Hi Connie, I love your videos! Have you got any plans to do some videos about the beautiful places you are visiting? I’d love to know more about your travels too. That old ruin in the video looked so interesting and the gorgeous coastline! Is there a way you can mix some of your travels into your videos? Lots of love from Brisbane, Australia ❤

  • @marissaclaridge7627
    @marissaclaridge7627 Рік тому

    Lovely video Connie...always thank You!!!xxxx

  • @meadowlane637
    @meadowlane637 Рік тому +3

    Good morning and thank you for this video. Analysis paralysis is something I struggle with far too often. It's great to finally have a name for it. Our landlord had to make some changes in the basement, so I'm forced to get my act together and purge my things. It's a great incentive to get me moving. What were the purple flowers you were smelling? The scenery is beautiful❤

    • @tammyr...9209
      @tammyr...9209 Рік тому +1

      It looks like lavender.

    • @ConnieRiet
      @ConnieRiet  Рік тому +2

      The purple flowers are wild lavender. They dot the ground everywhere and smell wonderful.

  • @zuzanapcolova2347
    @zuzanapcolova2347 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @maryglover8283
    @maryglover8283 Рік тому

    ❤I loved this. I needed this!! Thank you. Blessings to you!✨

  • @amychen2504
    @amychen2504 Рік тому +1

    Can you talk about how you healed from your TBI and how it affects you?

  • @tanyajohnston8262
    @tanyajohnston8262 Рік тому

    Such a beautiful place

  • @libbyannstew8775
    @libbyannstew8775 Рік тому +1

    Wonderful video Connie. I think it’s difficult to slow down if we live in frenzied urban environments. The landscape in your video is breathtaking. If you’re comfortable sharing, is it Costa Rica? If so, what region? Thanks and I look forward to your next video. Be well.

  • @suzstanci9128
    @suzstanci9128 Рік тому

    Very beautiful video Connie !😘

  • @catherinerouse1319
    @catherinerouse1319 Рік тому

    Cathy

  • @helenmak5663
    @helenmak5663 Рік тому

    Where is this gorgeous place that you hiked in this video? The scenery is breathtaking and pressure lifting.

  • @RobinZipporah
    @RobinZipporah Рік тому

    Thoughtful❤

  • @Sandra-il7jz
    @Sandra-il7jz 4 місяці тому

    Let go, let God

  • @cyrillllll
    @cyrillllll Рік тому +1

    "Complexity is of the ego"

  • @juliem.3936
    @juliem.3936 Рік тому

    Where is this that you were walking? If I had that serene scene available to me, I would feel less stress as well.

  • @klarapetelei702
    @klarapetelei702 Рік тому

    🤗

  • @midlife_minimalist
    @midlife_minimalist Рік тому

    Chief Over thinker here 🙋🏼‍♀️

  • @SilentTrip
    @SilentTrip Рік тому

    Where was this filmed at? Such beautiful places

  • @efuucdgbjiddvhi
    @efuucdgbjiddvhi Рік тому

    Where are you it's beautiful and you are too. I love this msg however I don't know how this would ever apply to a mother with children with disabilities no family and no friends.

  • @WoodrowJustice-vq9jd
    @WoodrowJustice-vq9jd Рік тому

    Love your message, but too many commercials break up the flow of your message. It disrupts the wonderful feeling your create.

  • @kristieshoemake7343
    @kristieshoemake7343 Рік тому

    Did you have to give up your job or retire after your head injury?

  • @letsmakeamesstoday
    @letsmakeamesstoday Рік тому

    Xoxo

  • @joansanfeliu2888
    @joansanfeliu2888 Рік тому

    Tossa de Mar

  • @abigailvomelmo1167
    @abigailvomelmo1167 Рік тому +3

    Hi..Hi..Hi 🥰. Anything that one feels is beyond their control, MUST be placed in the hands of GOD! If your Brain Injury took you to the place (Mentally) that you are at, that is WONDERFUL! If 3 things per day is your Motto for a Productive day, that's GREAT - if it's only ONE - that WILL suffice 😉. Remember, LESS is NOT MORE for all of us. May ALL NJOY what they have, luv, like & share; we'all will NOT be taking it w/us when we depart this BEAUTIFUL WORLD & all that is within. Minimalism is only for those that can NOT handle MORE than LESS. Again, we'all WILL be MINIMALISTS when we EXPIRE.

  • @abigailvomelmo1167
    @abigailvomelmo1167 Рік тому

    P.S. Do you always walk/venture out ALONE? Or just on camera 🤔?

  • @sophie3588
    @sophie3588 Рік тому

    🥹

  • @Crystalquartz964
    @Crystalquartz964 Рік тому

    Wait a minute ... if you're living a simple life, who is filming all this?

  • @anoopkc4034
    @anoopkc4034 Рік тому +1

    SIMPLY SIMPLICITY
    SIMPLY BECAUSE SIMPLICITY THY NAME IS BEAUTIFUL !!!
    TOUCH OF A ROSEBUDS
    TOUCH OF A MOUNTAIN
    TOUCH OF A ROCK
    TOUCH OF A BIG JUNGLE TREE
    JUST TRUE FEELINGS
    JUST EMOTIONAL TOUCH
    ALLOWING ME TO SIT DOWN WITH EASE FOR LIVING IN PLEASANT AND DIFFERENT RYTHEMS OF LIFE
    NO PRINCIPLES
    NO HUSH HUSH
    JUST RELAXATION
    anoop kumar arora

  • @pam3744
    @pam3744 Рік тому +1

    Great messages here, Connie - thank you