Never Be Energy Drained By People EVER AGAIN! | Sonia Choquette

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  • @renatedelvecchio8859
    @renatedelvecchio8859 Місяць тому +27

    What gives me energy is the place I'm living at - Alaska. Just living here and being out in nature every day makes me so happy and makes me feel good. This is the perfect place for me to live at. Also, being around my animals. I'm self employed and spend most of my day in my home office and around my dogs. Taking them for several walks daily gives me energy. When my husband comes home at night, my day is complete. I'm living my dream life.

    • @AngelicHarmony444
      @AngelicHarmony444 Місяць тому +6

      That’s really awesome. I’m pretty sure I could not live in AK but I love hearing that you are there and LOVE it!❤

    • @AndomedaShift
      @AndomedaShift Місяць тому +2

      I loved there for a couple of years and alpine glow while ridge hoping is divine

    • @sharongarrett4356
      @sharongarrett4356 Місяць тому +1

      Sounds perfect!

  • @AngelicHarmony444
    @AngelicHarmony444 Місяць тому +13

    “I hated that job so much the machine blew up!” lol😂 I love the way Spirit speaks to us… 🎉

  • @BATgirl57
    @BATgirl57 Місяць тому +35

    I had unknowingly been giving my energy away most of my adult life, until getting divorced after 30 years when all things buried came into focus. Now over a decade later-including pandemic quarantine year- I was happily a self proclaimed hermit! But now, just now, I’m venturing out into the peopled world and your advice is absolutely essential to making this work! Protecting my energy field and knowing how to respond to negative energy is KEY!!! Thank you as always Sonia!🙏💖🙏💖🙏💖

  • @flowergirl7260
    @flowergirl7260 Місяць тому +16

    Love your comment that, "You don't have to star in their movie."😃

  • @misspattifromcali.6955
    @misspattifromcali.6955 Місяць тому +8

    Meditation/prayer... My art work... Nature... My pets... Laughing... Service to others.... Cleaning house... Etc... So many things give me energy!!! 💫💫💫💫 I love you Sonia 💕

  • @alanefoug1025
    @alanefoug1025 Місяць тому +9

    Being alone , painting, nature, travel, cooking are 5 things that give me energy.
    Your videos too, thanks Sonia!

  • @dawnbyrnezarate5665
    @dawnbyrnezarate5665 Місяць тому +13

    Sonia, you are a such a beautiful soul. Thank you for teaching these valuable lessons. I have been using the breathing technique you mentioned in a video about connecting to Spirit … the breathing out muck and the sliding down into the place you can be centered. I am also familiar with breathing from feet thru crown and cascading down around me. It works sooo well. You gave me a piece of the puzzle I hadn’t realized I could do to contain my own energy. I love you!
    🕊💜🔯

  • @CountryVillalife
    @CountryVillalife Місяць тому +8

    riding bikes, being with and doing things with my grandaughter, being around my children and family, being outside, learning spiritual things, decorating a little, camping, nature, lakes, rivers, traveling .................gives me energy and happiness

  • @katararose8724
    @katararose8724 Місяць тому +11

    I always struggled with knowing how to get energy, now I know. I didn't know how to keep my energy from leaking out, now I know. You are so very helpful Sonia, thank you so much!❤

  • @PaigeSquared
    @PaigeSquared Місяць тому +12

    The heart's toroidal field; an electromagnetic field. The root word is *torus;* referring to the shape that looks similar to a donut or a sort of inner tube, the shape is created by rotating a circle around an axis in three-dimensional space. The heart's center would be the axis point for our specific toroidal field; most diagrams show the "tunnel" part centered on a human torso, with energy going up through the column/tunnel and then spilling down and around, like Sonia describes.

  • @sandra1761
    @sandra1761 Місяць тому +12

    I don’t mind it when people vent, as long as they are a good friend at the end of the day.

    • @PaigeSquared
      @PaigeSquared Місяць тому +3

      Yes, I'd rather know what's going on in their feelings and their worlds, than have them keep it in or expect me to guess. Can't be attuned to someone if we shut down/ignore every single negative expression they attempt. It's when they're overly focused on blaming or vengeance, that I get uncomfortable.

    • @Molitov15
      @Molitov15 Місяць тому +3

      Taking turns is great advice. Good friends will have a balance of that. It took me way too long to learn that I didn’t have to be a martyr for everyone.

  • @KactusKM
    @KactusKM Місяць тому +6

    What gives me energy is taking the priority to take care of myself instead of being nice in the face of abuse or having to prioritize toxic family needs. It’s really too bad that family does not give me energy but part of my healing process is recognizing I never took care of myself because as a child my mother required me to take care of her.

  • @marianaspecian
    @marianaspecian Місяць тому +6

    I knew that I get vulnerable for bad energies to access me when I feel deminored in a toxic interaction. I open that door when I insist in treat fairly people who are not fair at ALL. We must be able to treat bad people with the limit they need.

  • @RosemaryCreations
    @RosemaryCreations Місяць тому +9

    I love the blouse you are wearing and the good advice!

  • @samanthawilliams114
    @samanthawilliams114 Місяць тому +4

    I need good people round me and a good environment change my job because of negative people 😊❤

  • @dorisdaylight8415
    @dorisdaylight8415 Місяць тому +6

    How do I thank you for these strategies, as I know my spirit has been trying to find these answers all of my life and I've struggled so hard to find them. You have put exactly what I was seeking into words that I couldn't. After losing my husband, I reflect and see he took my energy and how the years drained me so much, now I want to claim that energy back and your guidance is so helpful moving forward. So many blessing to you Sonia, you can't believe how grateful I am to hear what you said in this video. Have a wonderful new year, all my love and thanks.

    • @falinedconnelly653
      @falinedconnelly653 Місяць тому +1

      Send a donation! Thats a basic yet affirmative show of gratitude!

  • @mashabrown5121
    @mashabrown5121 Місяць тому +1

    gives energy: nature, going slow, eating good food, gardening, creating, reading, art.
    T

  • @ItsmeColie22
    @ItsmeColie22 Місяць тому +4

    I don't like being told what to do either. My cousin said when we were little I'd carry some a notebook and tell her what to do and say when we'd play 🤪

  • @queenblackjellybean6806
    @queenblackjellybean6806 Місяць тому +5

    I let go of people who don’t choose themselves.

  • @gailaltschwager7377
    @gailaltschwager7377 Місяць тому +3

    Thank you, Sonia!

  • @HealyTheresa
    @HealyTheresa Місяць тому +4

    Thank you Sonia I never really looked at it like that.....I always thought that I needed to help people using my energy but I certainly can't be dealing with all the over exaggerated drama that people like to swim in nowadays .....🤪

  • @kimberlymccurry402
    @kimberlymccurry402 27 днів тому

    Hi Sonia 🤍🌼🌟 This was an amazing video. It was like an entire class epiphany after epiphany. What gives me energy 1) Creating a Beautiful Life with my Husband 2) Our Children & Dogs 3) Living In The Beautiful Mountains of Colorado/Nature 4) Spending Time with my Spirit Guides/Angels & Reading Tarot 5) Self Care & Spa Days. I also realized after this I am a terrible employee 😭 lol and I need to work for myself. I am a creative and magical Spirit 💖🦄🌸 Thank you very much 🙏

  • @jofloyd9094
    @jofloyd9094 Місяць тому +8

    You are a TREASURE!!!! Thank you so much for this gift of wisdom! My soul needed to hear this.

  • @lisakiel9695
    @lisakiel9695 Місяць тому +1

    Thankyou for this timely reminder i need to teach my grandaughter these skills so helpful love and light for all you do for us all🥰😇💯💫💫💫

  • @kariannecrysler640
    @kariannecrysler640 Місяць тому +4

    I did betray myself & I’m having to put it back together. I look forward to mapping out myself through your suggestions Sonia. Thanks 💗🎄

  • @staceyrutt8360
    @staceyrutt8360 Місяць тому +2

    Nature, water, my granddaughter, trees, rocks, music:)

  • @cindywilliams2324
    @cindywilliams2324 Місяць тому +5

    Hi Sonia what gives me energy is reading Tarot for myself and others. Ready books like yours and other spiritual books. My brother he's always talking about the election its over and over. I'm rising above it, the negative energy, so I try to block him out. To protect my energy. Thank you for your teachings❤ Happy Christmas

    • @falinedconnelly653
      @falinedconnelly653 Місяць тому

      My mother does the same! We go for a walk in the park and shes obsessed with international news and actually takes sides and it is not relaxing. I keep telling her to focus on the here and now! I dont want to hear about whose right who's wrong, bla bla bla....!
      The same thing she has accused me of doing but she cant take her own advice! 😮😢😅

  • @BATgirl57
    @BATgirl57 Місяць тому +4

    So much helpful advice here!!🙏🙏🙏 “Tell me something good!” I gotta try that one!☝🏻 Also-What a gorgeous blouse!!💖

    • @falinedconnelly653
      @falinedconnelly653 Місяць тому +1

      Like the song!
      Tell me somethin good!!🎶🎵♾️

  • @sylviesas2992
    @sylviesas2992 10 днів тому

    I really appreciate the no more drama ... I have been asking the wrong question and getting drama... I love the tell me something good... I love the 3 min dump agreement lol...

  • @karenkoronkowski2880
    @karenkoronkowski2880 Місяць тому +4

    Love you, Sonia! Thank you!!! I had a visualization of one of those fiber optic lamps from the ‘70’s with your protection of my energetic field exercise ;)

  • @luzleerodriguez3993
    @luzleerodriguez3993 Місяць тому +3

    Great day ❤

  • @Happymonkey123-y5m
    @Happymonkey123-y5m 14 днів тому

    My spirit definitely brought me to you 😂😂😂and your amazing, thankyou. 😘

  • @elisabethhughes6005
    @elisabethhughes6005 Місяць тому +6

    Man, isn’t Sonia’s no-nonsense, uplifting help with other people’s dysfunctional chaos JUST what so many of us need right now? Thank you so gratefully Sonia. 🩷

  • @ktbiwk
    @ktbiwk Місяць тому +4

    Wonderful, wise, and practical advice. Thank you ❤

  • @mashabrown5121
    @mashabrown5121 Місяць тому

    “people have their own movie life is tough but you don’t have to star in it”❤❤❤
    “If you don’t have your goals and priorities straight it’s easier to come along like a pied piper with someone else and their drama and trauma”
    Excellent video so very helpful!!

  • @juliewatts3741
    @juliewatts3741 Місяць тому +3

    Such Wisdom❤

  • @kittyj1926
    @kittyj1926 Місяць тому +3

    Thank you Sonia. So helpful. x

  • @indigo7273
    @indigo7273 Місяць тому +4

    🙏

  • @PrashanthGandhiraj
    @PrashanthGandhiraj Місяць тому +3

    Thank you! 🌟🙏

  • @oddanneout
    @oddanneout Місяць тому +3

    ❤❤❤

  • @geethaprasad2465
    @geethaprasad2465 Місяць тому +3

    Tq sonia..❤❤

  • @AurisTarot
    @AurisTarot Місяць тому

    Thank you Sonia ❤

  • @michelledeehorticultrist
    @michelledeehorticultrist Місяць тому +2

    My husband isn't a good employee either. He quit his job earlier this year because the way a manager treated him.

  • @Tinyteacher1111
    @Tinyteacher1111 Місяць тому +2

    I LOVE the taking turns with dumping on each other!

  • @ConciousConnection369
    @ConciousConnection369 Місяць тому +1

    I get it lol I hate being told what to do or having my neck breathed down❤❤❤

  • @paulafachado1566
    @paulafachado1566 Місяць тому +2

    Thank you very much ! A hug. 😊

  • @sylviesas2992
    @sylviesas2992 10 днів тому

    love your little mouse ornament... I have seen them here in Quebec and they make me smile. Listening to you this morning gave me energy! along with my morning coffee and my snowshoeing I will be doing today -27 in the mountains.

  • @creativecook100
    @creativecook100 Місяць тому +3

    Fantastic and really needed now that it's the holiday season.

  • @genxg1rl
    @genxg1rl Місяць тому +2

    Been listening to Your audible version of latest book 🥰 thank you for sharing your gifts and insights

  • @thorkeen1641
    @thorkeen1641 Місяць тому +1

    I've been following you since. My awakening . I have been getting attacked . today lt could have been my last. But I saw it comeing I see now I was not listening. . But I will not low my light again. . I will overcome this with . The love and light I know ivstill have deep within. . . Bless you but being part of my journey ❤❤

  • @dianemolt
    @dianemolt Місяць тому +3

    Great lesson thank you

  • @dianedorney5147
    @dianedorney5147 Місяць тому +1

    First off your blouse is very lovely....second I needed this today I decided to stay away from my very adult son because he is always hurting my feelings....so it's Christmas and he texts wanting to know when IAM going to give it up ... What bull ....

  • @sanaa.3216
    @sanaa.3216 Місяць тому +1

    Drinking calming teas helps me

  • @MKDonalee
    @MKDonalee Місяць тому +2

    Love you! Thank you Sonya❣️🥰🎄🎁🎄🎁

  • @TheMysticAgent
    @TheMysticAgent Місяць тому

    Sonia this is clear, simple, everything one would need. Great work. One of the energy movements of the body is an energy field referred to as the toroidal field 🎉

  • @Healfromtheheart333
    @Healfromtheheart333 Місяць тому +1

    I really needed this. I’m on trip with my little family and in-laws, in another country. Being an empath and feeling all of their stuff and family drama and patterns has been a lot. Thank you so much for an instructive video. 💕✨🌈

  • @uniquelybeyou
    @uniquelybeyou Місяць тому +2

    Thank you so much Sonia this is so helpful 🙏in creating a beautiful light bubble 💗 lately I have been listening to a lot... wasn't sure what to say w/o being rude...when people are sharing cares.
    Loved the phrases for a new language in my new way of relating to people.
    Being in nature
    Watching funny cartoons
    Creating new food recipes
    Dancing
    Going to events
    Blowing bubbles 🫧
    Visiting new places

  • @meganheartfield222
    @meganheartfield222 17 днів тому

    This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear! Thank you so much! WOW life changing!!!! ❤ Love it!

  • @Chrislove848
    @Chrislove848 Місяць тому +2

    What gives me energy is writing poetry , time to myself , crystals and reading. And yes no drama

  • @karilp3767
    @karilp3767 Місяць тому

    Blessed 🤍✨🤍

  • @agnetastrindinger
    @agnetastrindinger Місяць тому

    Thank you beautiful Soul for all that you Are and Do 🙏❤️🌞 I wish you a magical 2025 💖

  • @sgranados92
    @sgranados92 8 днів тому

    I just found your channel and you are saving me on so many levels! ❤

  • @Angelonia333
    @Angelonia333 Місяць тому +1

    Love this ! Thank you!!!❤❤❤

  • @thecreativetickle9957
    @thecreativetickle9957 14 днів тому

    This information is gold, thank you! I will definitely use the techniques Sonia discusses at the end of the video-no more free energy transfer!

  • @elfinfire76
    @elfinfire76 Місяць тому

    I 💖 her so much! I love that she shares her well discerned truths with such genuineness. There is definitely a link between autism and being hyper aware & sensitive of injustice/seeing behind the curtain.

  • @lovemeanyou
    @lovemeanyou 28 днів тому

    Love this episode thanks Sonia ❤peace and love

  • @nataleoshaughnessy503
    @nataleoshaughnessy503 Місяць тому

    Fantastic video, thank you Sonia. I think I needed this about 100 years ago, but this student is ready now.😂 I love the exercises. Happy New Year!🎉❤👌👏🙏😇🍾

  • @ElizabethScott-f2o
    @ElizabethScott-f2o Місяць тому

    Thank you! ❤️

  • @janh4203
    @janh4203 3 дні тому

    That's beautiful and so helpful. Thank you very much :-)

  • @AmberCouchot
    @AmberCouchot 4 дні тому

    Thank you so much for your advice. Your videos have helped me tremendously. ❤

  • @edinaalic4500
    @edinaalic4500 Місяць тому

    Thank you 🙏

  • @falinedconnelly653
    @falinedconnelly653 Місяць тому

    I forgot to say Happy Channuka!! Happy all Holidays! My vision of complete unity while retaining individualism is coming TRUE!! Luv luv luv YOU on this journey!!!

  • @cathyevans2755
    @cathyevans2755 Місяць тому

    Love this; thanks so much Sonya! Happy Holidays!🎄❤️

  • @naznow
    @naznow Місяць тому

    I’m only halfway through and there is so much helpful info and tips. The last several years have proven to be very much a time of reflection and the beginning of hopefully lots of healthy changes in my life, including relationships. What makes me feel good? Being alone. My dog. Nature. Thrifting. Learning. Reading. Researching. I have not been putting myself first. It’s time. I realize I am part of the problem. I still have strides to make but as long as I’m being true to myself and keeping healthy boundaries then I’m hoping I will attract more balance and joy! Merry Christmas and happy new year!

  • @mcdanygirl
    @mcdanygirl Місяць тому

    Thank you Sonia, I loved this video. ❤

  • @attunedtolove
    @attunedtolove Місяць тому

    Thank you.

  • @falinedconnelly653
    @falinedconnelly653 Місяць тому

    Speaking of Drama...
    I was accused of bringing drama to a club that was stealing my personal Data for illicit use! I was protecting my Identity and the head of this cycling club kicked me out when I confronted him about my personal information!
    His reaction was so acute I realized I had just uncovered the tip of the Iceberg!
    He was dealing Illegal drugs using his "Volunteer" position to due his dark deeds!
    Can you believe it?
    I am not a drama queen!
    I am practical
    To the point
    And Congenial!
    So there.

  • @jerrilove6167
    @jerrilove6167 Місяць тому

    Thank you very much for sharing this valuable information 🖤

  • @carolplato9969
    @carolplato9969 Місяць тому

    So good, thank you!!

  • @raimonda6653
    @raimonda6653 Місяць тому

    Thank you so much Sonia ❤🎉 this is so opportune today 👏🥳🕊️🫶Sending you Much Love and a BIG HUG . So happy for your family a new grandchild on the way 🦄👏😘

  • @kimkerr917
    @kimkerr917 Місяць тому

    This helped so much! ❤

  • @MsVintage61
    @MsVintage61 Місяць тому

    I sure needed this

  • @patriciatimoteo718
    @patriciatimoteo718 Місяць тому

    muito Obrigada pela ajuda preciosa

  • @michelesminis
    @michelesminis Місяць тому

    I have MCAS from narc abuse. Literally allergic to this environment- they stalk and harass so I’m looking for ways to protect myself psychically and my emotional body.

  • @taliajournee212
    @taliajournee212 Місяць тому

    My mother, she is so gross. Toxic, immature and a covert narc on top of it all. She is now in her 70s - you would think she would have stopped to review her actions/behavior at some point in time but no. I will be bringing in others to help care for her since my siblings don't want to deal with her either (not even the golden child). Living in the same home is draining, I'm seeking a new address in the new year - send prayers for me please.

    • @shaunam4913
      @shaunam4913 Місяць тому

      I relate. Sad. Stay strong. ❤

  • @PaulaWilson444
    @PaulaWilson444 Місяць тому

    17:44 18:27 Thank you, Sonia.🙏💖🌟

  • @Siobahn99
    @Siobahn99 Місяць тому

    Just popped into my feed when I need thistle most..thank you beautiful love your energy!!

  • @dsp1403
    @dsp1403 Місяць тому

    Oh my perfect timing✨
    Thank you💕

  • @raimonda6653
    @raimonda6653 Місяць тому

    🎁🎁🎁🎁🎁🎉🎊🥳😘SO MUCH GRATITUDE FOR GIFTING THIS GREAT SO WELCOMED VIDEO NOW ! 👏👏👏👏

  • @MargaretZajceva
    @MargaretZajceva Місяць тому

    Thank you! I subscribed to your channel today and started reading two books at once! this is something incredible!

  • @pixiedixie7317
    @pixiedixie7317 Місяць тому +1

    What about while talking over phone? Do we do the same motion on solar plexus?

    • @falinedconnelly653
      @falinedconnelly653 Місяць тому

      I bet that still works because everything is energy anyway. My proof is that you can still be hypnotized by a certified hypnotherapist through the video! Doesnt even need to be LIVE! So cool!🎉😅😊

  • @elsewhere1976
    @elsewhere1976 Місяць тому

    Hello Sonia, Thank you so much for this and all your videos 💖

  • @user-ib2cz4xd9v
    @user-ib2cz4xd9v 25 днів тому

    🙏🏻

  • @Hmmm86647
    @Hmmm86647 Місяць тому

    I love you Sonia 😂❤ I’m not a good follower either!

  • @sunshineheals6522
    @sunshineheals6522 Місяць тому

    ❤❤

  • @LeonardoP11
    @LeonardoP11 12 днів тому

    ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @falinedconnelly653
    @falinedconnelly653 Місяць тому

    Exercise
    Music
    Great Movies
    Receptive People
    BBQ!

  • @sylhomeo6351
    @sylhomeo6351 Місяць тому

    In other words, be super self-absorbed.

    • @SoniaChoquette
      @SoniaChoquette  Місяць тому

      Not at all. Be super self loving with good boundaries and a grounded open heart. All my love

  • @positivevibes33333
    @positivevibes33333 Місяць тому

    🙌❤️🙌

  • @falinedconnelly653
    @falinedconnelly653 Місяць тому

    I sent your link to my mothet but she just loves to naysay the very thing that could benefit her. It is quite sad and very ironic since she was the one who taught me similar principles or at least to have an open mind to new or unfamiliar concepts. But for her its more important from WHOM the info is coming from. That has been her gravest mistake. I have always been able to listen even to the "Village Idiot" and take away some sort of lesson esp. from my enemies.