how i got my life back together
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
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Actually I feel like you nowadays, I lost interest on things that I used to like a lot and I don't know. This video is really important for me because now I realize that there's more people that is feeling like me and that I'm not the only one, because feeling like this usually made me feel like I was worth nothing. Thank you Jem ♡
I agree with you completely
Same, I haven’t played any of my instruments in 4 months and haven’t finished a full drawing since October 2019
I had never had a passion. I just was trying all my life new things and never being consistent with any. I compared myself to my friends during 2 of my worst years, because I thought I was ugly, I did not have a good style, etc.
When people say this quarentine is the worst thing that could happen, I disagree.
Finally I have time to think about myself and re-evaluate my thoughts. I have now started to love myself and doing what I think I like.
And everyone should do it.
Don't stress about a bad day, there are 365 in a year. I am sure not every day will be that bad :,)
Love yourself because if you don't, anyone will repleace that type of love.
Do what you want, dance, sing, scream, run, just do it.
And fuck people who think you are worthless or talk bad about you.
wowowowo that was sentimental
It's actually crazy how much I can relate to this.. :O Everything you said in the first paragraph is what I have been struggling with for a good while now.
Unfortunately, I cannot resignate with the second part of your comment (yet) but this video and you have inspired me to try and get on a road that grows flowers instead of the boring paved one I'm on. (It would've been great if that metaphor was by me but I gotta give credits to Vincent van Gogh :P)
I love what you said about the 365 days a year and overall I found your comment very inspiring. I am glad you are discovering your road of flowers and I wish the best for you and the things you're currently doing, thank u for having taken the time to write this :)
(rereading my comment, this sounds awfully cheesy but hey, it's 3am and I'm freshly inspired soo..)
THIS , it's wonky and privileged of me to say this but i am actually weirdly anxious when things get back to normal and life begins moving like it used to again. I used to feel left out of the race but now i ave come into acceptance
I can relate :')
same here
at the same time, I think we should be aware and thankful that we have this privilege of saying that quarantine wasn't all that bad.
funny how I've cried all day today because I'm so, so exhausted with and tired of my life and depression, and UA-cam recommends this video to me. this is a sign. time to finally get happy, I guess.
I get this completely, being isolated/quarantined has caused me to be on my phone ALL THE TIME. I’ve lost multiple friends because of this aswell. I’ve lost interest in many things I was in love with and I had major depression last year. I want to go out, I want to hang with people. I don’t want I be on the internet,sleeping and eating all the time. It’s unhealthy and overwhelming.
I'm going the same thing right now and I'm literally just a teenager like why do I care about my future job, i LITERALLY have no dream, I don't wanna be a teacher, doctor, pilot, lawyer. nothing. I don't wanna exist in life, I don't know what to do anymore. I feel so helpless 😵
Just hang in there. Persevere. Things will get better. Be hopeful. Don't give up. It will get better. I give you my word.
Honestly I feel u. But I just keep saying to myself to just go with the flow and that time heals everything
*This was the most useful/insightful/enjoyable/inspiring 18mins i spent online.*
This level of self-actualisation is really beautiful to see. Thank you sm for sharing this with us Jasmine, you have no idea how much this helps me
28 year old here. Age is just a number when it comes to "having everything together". I had the same struggles and cycles during the quarantine and can't say that I got over them completely, but I am progressing. Quarantine is affecting a lot of people psychologically and thanks to people sharing experiences/solutions like you others feel helped to stand up. Your subscribers will be here to know what you are going through, cheers
I think everyone’s creativity and self worth is taking a hit during this time. And it sets you up to look much deeper within yourself, and it seems like you have done just that. I like your approach of how to handle those highs and lows of being creative. Just always remember there is always something good on the horizon. As my favorite UA-camr would say “Take Care”💕
I’ve been watching you for a couple years now, and you’ve been my biggest source of motivation and inspiration for a while. Seeing you speak up about your mental state, and opening up about how you’ve been in this cycle really shows that everyone is human with complex feelings. Thank you for sharing this w/ us, it’s really comforting and I’m glad you were able to reach out and get out of a difficult mental cycle.
I really needed this. Recently I have been feeling really bad and comparing myself to my sister. She is moving out for university soon and she’s been talking a lot about her plans and just overall things about her life. She has a boyfriend, I have never had a boyfriend, kissed a boy, or had a guy have a crush on me. She’s has an average of 97%, and I have been struggling with the stress of school work. She hangs out with her friends all the time and I haven’t seen my friends in almost a year now. I could lie and say that it’s because of covid, but my friend group and never really hung out before. I can’t even say I have a best friend. She has been talking about how she feels so happy and can’t wait to “start her new life” at uni and I feel like I have no idea what I’m doing. I realized I started making jokes about crying and being sad around my family as a cry for help and it’s become a reoccurring joke. For example “I only cried 4 times this week...hahaha”. I realized that the only person who can really be there for me all the time is myself. I need to work on my bad habit of comparing myself to my sister and others and start taking better care of myself. This video has helped inspire me and helped guide me in the right direction. I hope that anyone who sees this is able to develop healthy habits and take care of themselves.
hope you're feeling better jasmine!!i know it's actually so hard to face problems while quarantine.you can run away when u don't have time but when it's quaratine,you can't run.hope everyone that is feeling bad ab yourself is getting better.sending all love to y'all.
I've never had a video hit home like this.. i took an year off and all the things in your routine reflect EXACTLY what ive been doing.. i need a change
i’ve been in a slump for what seems like the longest time... i decided to look on youtube again and saw this video! i remember i used to watch your videos all the time, and this one really helped me thank u
This is such an important video! Thank you for speaking about not feeling fine!
the beginning of this video truly made me cry for you and resonating with the questioning self-worth and my own abilities. but hopefully listening to this helps me make my way to getting my own life back together. and i think i'm speaking for all of us watching right now but you're amazing at what you do and we can really see you work so hard, but you're human :) good luck jem!!
Just wanna say already that this is so well edited. The audio while you do the routine in the beginning is very very good....
I can really tell how passionate u are about your videos and editing, I felt like watching a movie here, keep up the good work!! im currently re-watching all of ur vids btw hehe
when i say this is exactly how i’m feeling, gosh it’s literally like someone took how i was feeling and put it into exact and perfect words. woah
i completely understand how you feel. i was in a rut like that for the longest time. i didn't feel any joy from doing anything, everything felt the same. the days blended into eachother. nothing shined how it used to.
but ever since i started redoing my room, making it a brighter and happier place, things started to shine again. i started communicating with my friends again, i started trying to improve. again.
i am stuck in ruts like that from time to time, and sometimes i don't even know why. like right now. this morning i was going fine but now im not too sure. and i don't know why. but i know things will improve one day. it's all a matter of time.
Honestly, I think most of us fell into this sort of thing because we were grieving- everything changed so fast with very little warning. Grief takes a while to process.
You are the bravest girl I have ever seen. It’s ok to cry. It’s ok to have unproductive days. It’s ok to get sad. That is a phase. I am glad and super happy that you made effort to change this. You will get back on track. There is always light at the end of your path. Sweetheart, just to let you know, I am always here for you, to support you. Good Luck, stay safe and I love you! 💓😘
girl same! i really love this video and it made me realize that i am not alone.
The cinematography in this is * chefs kiss*
I needed this. Thank you. 🥺
i didnt know how much i needed this video. this was like looking in a mirror and having it speak to me and spell things out and verbalize my own thoughts and feelings and put it in a form that i would comprehend.
I’ve been not myself for a year now , i used to be so passionate about everything in my life even just using my phone i would do anything that comes on my mind , but now ... i can’t do anything!
It’s like i’m stuck in a place surrounded by a bunch of fun stuff but can’t move because i have no idea why i can’t!
I used to study every single day but ever since my last middle school year began i lost everything...
I really want to change now i really want to go back to where i was
I want my passion and my hardworking me to come back :(
this video made me feel less alone and alienated, thank you for making such a raw and unpretentious video xx
What I(she) did to get my(her) life back together
1.The happiness course (it’s free -link in bio)
2.Inspiration (surround yourself with different contents and creator)
3.other mediums (channel ur energy in a direction you enjoy with no pressure)
4.reconnect with your friends (or your journal old drawings, hobby)
5.original purpose ( revisit to what made you do what you’re doing)
To anyone who’s feeling lost,
You’ll get through this 💕
Don’t be too hard on yourself and remember progress over perfection ❤️
I really love and needed this video. I’m struggling with an anxiety disorder for almost 2 years now. But last week I got the idea to be more determined about my growth. I still don’t know how i’m gonna do it. I already have professional help, but they tell me that I’m done with their treatment. So yeah.. I don’t know what i need to do for myself to get better. But I know that things will change. Thank you for this video, it was a push for me in the right direction 💛
Sometimes u feel not good enough, not worth it and etc. Its okay, feel everything u felt cuz u are a normal human being. After that, wipe those tears, get up and be you. Get confident again, conquer the world. Life is short. So life to the fullest. You are amazing on your own ❤️
I love the story of this video . We here for you!!❤️❤️
I have been job searching during this recession and I feel this so hard. Hang on there!
i love your voice, your editing style and everything about this video. thank you for this gift and sending u love!
I grew up watching you, and I still look up to you. I'm proud of you.
i LOVE this short film editing you did and i couldn't be more happy for you. i know this was a whole journey for you and thank you for sharing it with us in such beautiful shots:)
Thanks to you for be so brave for share something so important and in my opinion personal with us. Hope you feel better :)
Thank You So much Jem! I'm really glad that you are back! I hope for all the good things in your life! And I hope you keep doing what you love because this makes it best! Thank You so much! 💜💜💜💜💜💜
this was filmed + edited really well! i loved watching your journey and everything!
We are always here for you Jem
I’ve never related more to anything. Thank you for putting these thoughts into words. ❤️
This is literally how I feel right now, sometimes I just sleep the entire day. I'm graduating this 2020. I just feel lost.
1:35 is a frickin MOOD.
sorry for being out of context but your nose is so pretty! it suits your face so well
thank you so much for this video 🤍
Я задумываюсь об этом каждый день. Посмотрев это видео я поняла для себя насколько же это хорошо уметь анализировать то, что с тобой происходит, озвучивать эти мысли в слух. Одна твоя фраза ".. I realised I started coasting...it is different when actually coming in terms ... your thoughts become real"
заставила очень сильно меня задуматься
WOW....wow I'm so speechless rn.. Idk how YT algorithm dragged me to your channel, but thank you for this incredibly inspiring video, Jasmine. You did a great work on this video and please just keep up with more videos 💕You deserve more views and subscribers on your channel! tysm for this video u made my day today 🙏
1:12 damn it is really too much time, this quarantine is very isolating. Whenever I'm having a bad day I would just go somewhere else and distract myself. But now all I can do inside my house is cry.
the editing is top tier, wow ;;
This has been my life for the past year and half and I don't know what to do . It has been so long that when I try to get back on track I get tired and my anxiety gets really bad because I'm afraid that I can't get back or that I will fail again and fall in the same hole again and lose hope that I might be stable
i relate to the first few minutes soooooo much
This is the most beautiful and helpful get my life together video I've ever seen!
wow, I never related to something on a deep level you got a new subscriber also this editing wow and sound effects !!!great
Lmao I've had big magic on my shelf for like two years but I've never picked it up (found it thrifting) and I guess this video was my sign to finally get started with it
I don’t feel as alone after seeing this. Thank you Jem.
I clicked as fast as I could. Love you♡
love you take care!
my routine has literally been the same thing, and my parents are stressing me out and everything just , i feel like crap and do the bare minimum productivity.t
this video is so just? nice and beautiful and well made dhdjjd, the comment section too just🥺💕
Who are those people who dislike a video ? it takes so much of effort to make a video, edit and an entire truck load of courage to upload a video and share the content with the audience . Have some decency and cut people some slack .
And Jem sending you good vibes and love all along . ♥️
Much love 🍀
Rushita.
Edit : This is so beautifully showcased , I mean...... thank you .♥️
Hey I rly don't comment on videos, but just wanted to say a big THANK YOU. Currently I am reading the book, almost done :) this video helped me a lot, again thank you and keep on posting!
im really glad its helped u!! thank u so much for watching
I want to give you a hug
we love you Jem!!!
Omg this is the most amazing thing
You probably won't see this but I really enjoy your videos and hope you the greatest happiness.
Its 11:11 here! Make a wish!
Ahwww thank you sooo much for this 🥺😍❤
This is my life. I think I’m going to start crying
Ily 💕 new video ✨✨✨ yay!!!
*_me(in a crazy long rut): procrastinates , watches 4 mins of the vid and saves the remaining for later_*
*_also me: cries she cant get her life together_*
When quarantine started, i always feel so empty. Before i always say staying at home is much better than staying inschool, i guess i was wrong.
These are literally my days still T_T
non-related but which microphone do you use?
holy crap, looks exactly like my schedule tbh
Jem in the description: * just forgive me *
Me: WHAT ?!! HELLA NOOO JEM YOU ARE A LITTE BABY THAT'S JUST NEW A BREAK I HOPE THAT YOU WILL BE GOOD SOON 💓🥺
this is a total bruh moment for me cuz i am realizing I aint doin shit besides schoolwork
AM
same
This video appeared I think it’s a sign for me
Yaaay! 47 seconds ago! Never so early here! 😂😂❤❤
you have such a nice voice
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the intro... i am currently going through everything you mentioned. :(
I don't think I've ever related to any video this much in my life. Thanks SO much for being so honest and sharing this! Much love!
every year i always say, “i wont let me be like that” “im gonna change my ways” “im not about that anymore” but i end up having to repeat these things and its like a loop, i keep gravitating to these really bad black holes and i end up being so deep into these bad things i even start shoving people who are dear to me. I become toxic and its crazy bc i didnt think i would be. The power of ur thoughts and emotions are greater than anything, with no sense of reflection, it keeps spiraling and thats me lol
it sucks when not everyone is privilege to heal themselves first :(
omg me too, I push people who are close to me away
I hope you're doing better!! I recommend a book called, "A Philosopher's Notes."
Damn it same here, this thing has been going on for years
I can relate too much... And everytime I fell into a rut, it feels like it's getting harder and harder to get back up and I'm getting farther and farther to the people who cares about me.
the cinematography in this is brilliant
I’ve been dealing with depression for about a year now and it’s already pretty hard but it’s also making it hard for me to control my ED thoughts, even if I’m weight restored. University has been and is hell on earth for me and Covid19 didn’t make it any better.
I clicked so fast when I saw the notification because seeing someone who I’ve followed and grown with and inspired by for the past 4 years saying how she feels vulnerable too made me see how not alone I am in this.
Thank you for this, seriously 💜
She is amazing right? I also have depression and her videos is inspiring. This video and your comment just reforces the idea that I am not alone, we are not alone. Depression mixed with covid is horrible, it seems like the certain things that we knew about the future is erased away.... Well, if you need someone to talk, I am here :) obviously I am not her, but you are being listened, you are not alone.
Letícia yumi you’re the sweetest 🥺💜 I hope you’re doing alright and safe. Let’s keep fighting this ! 💜💜
I am also dealing with depression and anxiety for around two years and I am going to stop taking meds in two weeks. I feel that I am getting better as I change my view of things and that kind of works. I was too stress all the time as I was controlled by my super-ego (like what my parent taught me when I was little which may or may not be correct ). The way of recovering is super hard as I live in Hong Kong and there are too many things to care about apart from the Wuhan coronavirus. The virus is scary but it can be not as scary when we stay home ( and stay calm), wear a mask when we are out and constantly wash our hands ( or wear gloves).
ungii you too💞
Sodium I also feel like the things that my parents taught or didn’t taught me when I was little, affects a lot of who I am today.... but in the same way, we can’t change the past right?? So how is going in Hong Kong??
I can relate so much, I've been in a slump for the longest time every since quarantine, it really does give you so much time to think. It's like an everlasting seasonal depression. Things will just never be the same and we just have to accept and deal with what's going on and power through. Although things may not change around us, we can change our selves by powering through. It takes time, and eventually, we will get back on track and hope for the best. Thanks for helping us or at least me be more motivated and back up again. Those countless nights where I don't sleep could have been used for something else and not crying my eyes out to sad music. Stay safe and healthy, Jem!
(Also ty for listening to my TedTalk)
Are we soulmates??? Lmao. But this is EXACTLY the feelings i have been feeling! But i just couldn't put them into words. Ty!
@@user-pl6bc4pr8k HAHAH i think we might as well be, but corona please be over!
Thank you for this video
i hope you're doing okay my love
i can't omg this editing is actual goals
oh my :( my routine is;
-> wake up
-> eat if i feel like it
-> lay in bed
-> sleep
aand repeat
i really relate to that routine... and the sad thing is i've been doing it for MONTHS and haven't been able to break out of it and i feel like i can't since people around me restrict it (i can't wake up early since i'll wake up the whole house), nor can i be really productive cuz its so darn noisy all the time and people around me do different things at different times and AAAARGHHHH my heads going to explode
You see, I want to do something to get my life back together, but I am so scared and I keep doubting myself and my thoughts of "you'll do it tomorrow" just keep winning over what my body needs and what my heart wants and I've been hiding it for SO long. That wanting is overshadowed by the thoughts and later I end up watching these productive videos because my brain thinks that while watching someone else be productive, I am satisfying that wanting even though I am not the one taking action.
To those who feel the same, we'll somehow get through this. I believe in us so let's not give up, the both of us.
This is gonna help me so much bc I’m going thru a pretty tough time right now . Thank you for helping me jem🙂
This is my life but I’m almost 30 😭 hang in there girl u got this
you got this too 💗
I can relate to this so much. It’s been really hard to find myself inspired again since I’ve been dealing with a lot of feelings that I have suppressed for a lot of time. Especially now during quarantine that I have too much time to think, more like overthink. This inspired me to try again and get up. All I’ve been doing is watching UA-cam, Netflix and do some homework. I used to post videos on UA-cam but I got too lazy and felt they weren’t good enough but I feel inspired to try again. I feel inspired to try again in my everyday routine. I’ll definitely read the book you recommended. Thank you for this 🧡
ooh, finally early! but seriously though I cried my eyes out today because I felt I wasn't good enough... at anything.
6:35 “I just feel like everything is falling apart”
never been so relatable to something
this is me... this is literally me except for the part that 'I got myself back'...
the fact that this resonates with my image scares me. I also took a year gap and since my exams are postponed I literally have lost interest which I legit cannot afford to!
I need to get myself and my priorities back on track...
I really hope you did, don't let yourself down. I wish you the best. I'm currently struggling too unfortunately