How to Make Friends in School or College - The Ultimate Guide

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  • Опубліковано 17 сер 2022
  • Hi internet best friends💖 today's video is all about how to make friends easily in school or college. In this video, I will be telling you tips for making friends in high school and college. This video will also be perfect for you if you've just transferred to your school and you want to know how to make friends as a new kid. It honestly doesn't matter if you're in high school, middle school, or college, these tips work for all. If you want to know how to talk to people easily in high school, how to stop being a loner in high school, and how to even become popular in high school and have everyone know you this video is for you.
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  • @galaxygkm4696
    @galaxygkm4696 Рік тому +55

    I’m so desperate to make friends right now. I just started 10th grade and I feel like it’s going to end up being the same as freshman year where I was too scared to involve myself in anything and talk to people. Nobody talked to me first and I didn’t know how to start the conversation so I end up with no friends.

    • @luvhearts1
      @luvhearts1 Рік тому +8

      I can relate with you because I’m going into 10th grade at a new school and I only share one class with an old friend (study hall) and I’m very socially awkward and don’t know how to start conversations either-
      but maybe a tip that could work is complimenting someone, then asking how their summer was, then maybe asking them if they think this year is gonna be a good year 😭 hopefully this helps.

    • @galaxygkm4696
      @galaxygkm4696 Рік тому +2

      @@luvhearts1 yeah I’ve tried that plus joining in conversations but I know it usually takes more effort than small talk for someone to actually like you and I can’t do much more than small talk 😅

    • @chaiboix
      @chaiboix Рік тому +1

      SAME, I have so many fake friends .. and people used me a lot, I was too kind to people. Now I have trust issues.

    • @aldiwinkel
      @aldiwinkel Рік тому +1

      You'll make the real friends girl! Be approchable. Maybe those people are scared too so ur not alone! If there is another new kid, talk to them since u have a thing in common as angel says. Don't stress! Forget what happend in 7th grade xxx

    • @aldiwinkel
      @aldiwinkel Рік тому

      @@chaiboix I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you'll heal from it. I know it's difficult to say no but remind this: no=bonderies=>respect

  • @cantstealmyname
    @cantstealmyname Рік тому +31

    Mind reader much? I’m gonna start college in like 15 days so this was much needed! Thank you so much 💖

  • @abhishekghosh9525
    @abhishekghosh9525 Рік тому +8

    I cried many days cause i have no friends....my main problem is i am a oberthinker and i am insecure about my looks...
    I don't feel confident enough to talk to other people as if i say anything wrong then it may hurt other people
    So i maintain distance form others

  • @linneaplayz8785
    @linneaplayz8785 Рік тому +2

    Love ur videos! u helped me alot

  • @seanmichael3231
    @seanmichael3231 Рік тому +9

    Quick, Informative, and Entertaining. Get her the 30k subs she deserves!! Keep up the great edits aswell!

  • @adrianaaraluce1105
    @adrianaaraluce1105 Рік тому +7

    Thank you!!! Love the video, as always 💗

  • @politicsinpink
    @politicsinpink Рік тому +2

    great vid as always, thanks angel

    • @AngelGrey_
      @AngelGrey_  Рік тому

      💖💖💖 love ur profile pic

  • @addicttt
    @addicttt Рік тому +2

    I love ur led lights in the background

  • @zoethefrenchgirl2996
    @zoethefrenchgirl2996 Рік тому

    Wow I love your hair and I love watching your videos! ^-^

  • @xox0_mi4
    @xox0_mi4 Рік тому +3

    first! i’ve been wishing for this video omg!

  • @connect1876
    @connect1876 Рік тому +9

    My problem is a number of things when it comes to making friends but it all falls down into consistency. I moved into a new school 10th grade year and I barely have anyone I can truly call a “friend”. I believe I have the confidence to talk to people, but I feel like when I talk it’s just boring small talk conversations about school or an upcoming test. Cause my talk is so boring I overthink and I can’t come up with anything interesting which makes it really hard to stay consistent with people and causes me to loose possible friends or only turn into acquaintances. Some people even ignore me cause of that. I want to get to know people make friends and have people actually looking for me after class, but my consistency isn’t allowing me to create friendships. So Ig the big question is how do I stay confident & consistent with people I barely know about?

    • @Ethreally_Pretty
      @Ethreally_Pretty Рік тому +3

      I think you should talk about things THEY like or talk about THEM . Ask them about themselves. Make the other person feel good and comfortable with you .
      I hope this will help 💜

  • @bettermekatee
    @bettermekatee Рік тому +2

    i'm going to new class so i wanna make friends,I have gone though a lot with friendships ,that's why I changed classes.even thought school didn't start yet ,I'm already worried about friends,I feel like if they say they wanna be friends ,they're just making fun of me or they're being pushed to be my friend,I'm very scared ,even thought I'm the person who can be friends with stranger

    • @Peachesloveslife
      @Peachesloveslife Рік тому

      I hope it‘s going to be good for you :) Don‘t be too scarred like they probably are excited to meet you

  • @cragbrah
    @cragbrah Рік тому +3

    If you don’t mind me asking, what’s the name of the background music? It sounds soothing 😂 love your videos 💖💖

    • @Aikoxtic
      @Aikoxtic Рік тому

      its "lost in the moment"

  • @byebyehunny_
    @byebyehunny_ Рік тому +1

    Your makeup,your hair your Killin it gurl that's the first thin I noticed about you

  • @butterfly-fz1fi
    @butterfly-fz1fi Рік тому +6

    tbh I think u deserve way more subscribers like ur so good- love ur aesthetic 🌹"

    • @AngelGrey_
      @AngelGrey_  Рік тому +1

      Thank u love 💖

    • @OliviaMu-525
      @OliviaMu-525 День тому

      How can I make friends with someone who has other friends in all their classes and extracirriculars/sports?

  • @tocaWRLD-2011
    @tocaWRLD-2011 Рік тому

    Haha i just realised my comment was at 0:39 love uuu 💖💖

  • @Vennelaa
    @Vennelaa Рік тому +1

    Hii can anyone pls tell me the name of this movie - 6:54

  • @ninikomitichashvili9035
    @ninikomitichashvili9035 Рік тому +1

    First👀 🥳💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @Kets3ki
    @Kets3ki Рік тому

    Could you give me some tips I wanna be popular but since I have a history of liking anime so people still think I like it but I’ve hinted that I don’t like it anymore because they don’t like to hangout with them since they think they are weird. ANYWAYS how do I tell them I’m not “emo” or like anime. Also do I just hangout with them uninvited?

  • @zoe-leighadelman300
    @zoe-leighadelman300 Рік тому +3

    omg when the future called ur room looked so much like mine lol

  • @lavndvrrart
    @lavndvrrart Місяць тому

    7:14 omg I know someone just like this! It’s kinda weird honestly cause she always compliments the most random things every time we talk and I don’t have that many compliments I know without getting repetitive so it’s super awkward 😭😭😭

  • @thememesamurai7519
    @thememesamurai7519 Рік тому +1

    As soon as she took the phone call from the future an ad came on 😂😂💀

  • @Siphosamixo
    @Siphosamixo Рік тому +3

    I don’t have friends like proper friends who always include me 😢

  • @swifties1825
    @swifties1825 Рік тому +2

    Yee

  • @Eduacted_.bache4
    @Eduacted_.bache4 Рік тому +1

    First comment 😃😃

  • @martinamenescal2710
    @martinamenescal2710 Рік тому +1

    I'm in desperate need of help, can someone please help me out with this situation:
    So, I started 9th grade this week (art high school in Italy), so no one new each other, it's been 5 days of school and honestly I'm miserable. Middle school school years were hell so I wanted to have a fresh start in high school, but I guess it's not working and I'm already crying again. The first and second day of school were ok but then the third day of school I sat alone in class and it's like people already started to make groups and the people I talked to the first day are now in other groups and don't talk to me. And it's like suddenly everyone started to ignore me for no reason whatsoever bc we don't even know each other. For example, i heard this girl ask another girl if they were supposed to bring the drawing material and the girl answered her with some laughs and all, a few minutes later I ask the same thing to them and they just looked at me for one second and continued talking. There were like 10 situations just like this in 2 days. And now I'm too scared to start any conversation bc I constantly think they're just gonna ignore me, which made everything worse bc I was too scared to start a conversation even before this started to happen. And it's like they made groups even without knowing each other but they just simply chose that I wasn't part of it, and I honestly don't think I would fit in any of the groups in my class. I'm always that one person that's just there, not knowing what to say, like literally, how do they never run out of things to say????
    And there's this girl in my class who I think her style is sooo cool and I'm really curious about her. But I think she's too cool for me. She has a black curly mullet, very white skin, unusual face (kind of like a white avatar), piercings, her eyebrows are cut in half and she wears lots of jewelry, black tops with no sleeves, black cargo pants and platforms, hard rock cafe hoodie with zipper. You get it. Although, I think her head is shaved off bc sometimes she wears african twists, and so I think she wears wigs and extensions. I really really wanted to be friends with her but it's so difficult. She failed so she is a year older than me and she only talks to this guy who failed with her (also in my class) and with her older class, so I think she's out of reach for me bc she always walks away to her old class on breaks, she does those cool handshakes only cool people do and she sits on the street in front of the school talking to a bunch of people. I barely know her so I don't know how she would react if I talked to her, and if I did I wouldn't know what to say. And it's actually impossible to find a time where she's not with her old class. How do I become friends with her?????

    • @AngelGrey_
      @AngelGrey_  Рік тому +1

      Hey I read your whole comment 💖 it must be really hard to be in that situation I had the same thing so many times because I always end up everywhere in the middle of the semester 🤣🤣 like I started high school 3 weeks later bc I transferred and everyone already had friends. Same for university I was a semester late bc i couldn’t get the visa on time and this year I missed orientation because I was moving soo everyone made friends w eachother and I was again like well f*ck🤣🤣 but in school I had the same thing as u at first I wanted to be friends w this alternative girl who was in one of my classes I also felt too shy and insecure to talk to her tho so I never did BUT right now looking back there is no such thing as “someone’s out of ur league” because all of that is just what we define in our heads and if u just get the confidence in yourself to talk to the person like you’re equals without putting them on a pedestal the “league” no longer exists. I’ve seen so many ppl do it, at the end of the day confidence is the defining factor and if u talk to someone without thinking ur inferior you’ll get the scoring reaction, so don’t think ure less then and try Ull never know maybe u guys can end up being really good friends (also don’t go on too hard at first tho because friendship is a gradual thing and it takes time to develop) there’s also a chance that u won’t like her once u talk to her or that u guys won’t click which is totally okay it’s just compatibility and it says nothing about your value as a person (it’s like choosing a jacket in the mall u don’t get upset that u don’t really like the pockets of the jacket and be like why doesn’t the jacket want to be worn by me 🤣 u just go and look in a different store for the one that’s a better match for u) so there might be someone else that’s a better match for u back in high school I’d never think I’d be best friends w the girl who later became my best friend, so also try to give a chance to ppl u might not have considered. Go to events too if u have time that’s liegit how I made friends in university and talk to people yourself it won’t always work out but who cares if it doesn’t it’s not a fit and move on to the next person

    • @martinamenescal2710
      @martinamenescal2710 Рік тому

      @@AngelGrey_ omg, thank you so much ❤️ I didn't think someone would actually read the whole comment cause it's huge af hahaha, but this actually really helped me change my point of view, and well it's only been 5 days of school anyways, so maybe I'm overreacting, but thank you!

  • @Eduacted_.bache4
    @Eduacted_.bache4 Рік тому +2

    Please make a video how to do school makeup

    • @AngelGrey_
      @AngelGrey_  Рік тому +1

      ok thanks for the great idea

  • @Lily-ow5wm
    @Lily-ow5wm Рік тому +1

    Did it take anyone a while to make friends?
    I’m two days into being at school where I don’t know anybody and I feel like I’m going to have a hard time making friends.

    • @AngelGrey_
      @AngelGrey_  Рік тому

      It takes time honestly, you need to be around someone a lot for you to become friends

    • @evie-mae8923
      @evie-mae8923 Рік тому

      I met my bestfriend 4 months into college. First 4 months I sat alone feeling lonely and miserable but then she came along and boom, besties. It takes time so don't get yourself down over not making new friends because it will happen eventually

    • @Lily-ow5wm
      @Lily-ow5wm Рік тому

      @@evie-mae8923 thanks! I’ve talked to a few people briefly but still have no friends and sit alone at lunch. Luckily, next semester is coming up and I’ll be in new classes with different people.

    • @evie-mae8923
      @evie-mae8923 Рік тому

      @@Lily-ow5wm that's how it started for me too. Then January came round and a new searing plan pit me next to my now friend. We both turned put to like the same music a nd that was it ig

    • @Lily-ow5wm
      @Lily-ow5wm Рік тому

      @@evie-mae8923 that’s really good to hear…I’m starting to have hope. Did you have friends before going to college?

  • @girlygirl336
    @girlygirl336 Рік тому +3

    okay so I'm so depsreate to be friends with this girl but I'm not able to except saying for like 5 or 6 words and the irl convo is very dry..idk what to say in the convo and everything. she is popular and like there was this girl who she met like today and they connected ig and acted like bsfs
    I dont even know what they are talking about or what she did to get so close in a span of just some hours and here I am not being able to...
    what do I talk about? I dont wanna talk about movies amd music cuz the convo gets very dry and all and boring. I think I might seem closed off..what do i do?? I also might appears as like the good girl who doesnt cuss or say "bad thing" like boys and stuff and they do... so maybe that's why
    maybe its because I'm really nice to her and treat her as above me and other people treat her like an equal and say things like shut up or push her and she likes it and gets closer while I am overly nice idkkkkk
    I really really wanna be friends with her
    please help me
    how do I get her to suddenly be super close with me and make her tell me things like secrets???
    edit : we arent in the same class and see each other like few times
    also we had a match today and she also became friends really fast like all the popular girls (her friends and they were on the team too) became the opp teams friends IN UNDER AN HOUR AND ALL LIKE HOWW
    WHAT DO THEY EVEN TALK ABOUT AND WHAT DID SHE DO TO GET SO CLOSE
    also we cant walk togtehrr in school and I can only see her in the washroom and she is with her very intimidating friends usually and we camt hang out outside
    I am trying to be in the same sport she is
    she has her own friends and why will she leave her friends who she is close with to come talk to me when she can just be with them
    she talked with me once but never when she is with her friends
    I also wear a mask all the time because I am heavily insecure but she has a bsf who also is insecure and wears a mask
    maybe I seem boring and unfunny and closed off what do I do

    • @Candywalli
      @Candywalli Рік тому

      Why are you trying to be friends with her

    • @girlygirl336
      @girlygirl336 Рік тому +1

      @@Candywalli why not? I just am.
      she is so cool amd the type of person I wanna be friends with

    • @stupididiothuman
      @stupididiothuman Рік тому +3

      well to me extraverted people tend to easily bounce off other extraverts,which is why they tend to gravitate towards one another. i think she doesn’t approach you because she prefers to hang with her closer friends? like everyone would rather hang around with their good friends than a stranger. she also doesn’t know that you want to befriend her.my best advice here is to approach her and ask her if she wants to be your friend.most people aren’t evil and would be more than happy to help.

    • @girlygirl336
      @girlygirl336 Рік тому

      @@stupididiothuman soo just go upto her and be like "wanna be friends?" and then what? what do I do after that?>>>isn't it gonna be weird... we have talked few time and waved thrice and like ive known her and she has known me since April. isn't it weird ill ask her that rigjt now?

    • @chaiboix
      @chaiboix Рік тому +3

      move on. you’ll find other people. keep searching for those who keep the same energy.

  • @galaxystar7106
    @galaxystar7106 Рік тому +1

    hiii

  • @sunshine-iu1ys
    @sunshine-iu1ys Рік тому

    No hate, but the concealer under your eyes look too white and a bit weird
    Anyways, loved your video as usual ❤

    • @AngelGrey_
      @AngelGrey_  Рік тому +1

      Hahaha I know that’s the darkest shade they had in prague sooooo