You are right. Because she is like underage right? And may be talking to people who are sickos. Parents are there to love and care for you to know right and wrong too. Making sure you are safe too because young teens still dont know everything about the world yet.
That’s her real friend . That’s a quality friend . She’s not a snitch . Id never blame my friends for distancing themselves if they think being around me will hurt them. It’s smart and I prefer smart friends that force me to act right.
@ hey ex homie was going down a bad path and her mom was the only one who could stop it . She didn’t part take and then snitch . She told her mom she needed to know what he daughter was up to. U a youngin because you don’t understand what snitching is .
Snitching is something people who don't want to be held accountable for shit they do made up 😂😅 Real men and women face up to what they do. They know and accept there is a consequence, and nobody owes them crap JUST because 💁🏾♀️ Ever wonder why snitching only applies to bad people?
Throwback to when my friend anonymously told my mom i was self harming, i was pissed when I found out but I got the help i needed and she still is a part of my life❤
Glad you got the help you needed from your parents. Unfortunately there’s a lot of people out there whose parents would have abused them had they found out something like that.
I unfortunately am one of those people, I decided it was time to get myself the help I need by myself My mom scolded me and told me if I wanted to die I should go right ahead...it's all in the past now and as scarred as I am by those words I forgave her and moved and I'm in a better place Thank you so much for your kind words
This happened to me too, except it wasn't my friend and my mom was abusive. School counselor told my mom and my parents screamed at me that I was just doing it for attention when I was deliberately hiding it. It's not always a good idea to tell the parents the child's secrets.
From what I remember the daughter and mom is terrible if I remember correctly the daughter isn't even the parents fault she's messed up since she was doing weird things even when she was a child I never really got into the show
Your comment also explains a lot of things about yourself. Always blaming those parents who do their best to raise their kids. As if society itself didn't have anything to do with making kids behave like that.
There was a period of time in my life where my friends went behind my back and told my parents about my drugs problem. I was very angry then, but now I cannot begin to love and thank them more. They saved my life.
@@jclyntoledo My very best friend who I was with every single day for years and even stayed the night at each other's houses on school night and got up went to the same high school together. Well she was dating a horrible guy who physically abused her and she started doing hard core drugs with him (Around 2010 they were called "danks" where they would mix crack or coke into their blunts with weed and smoke the ish) well I took up for her multiple times and this time he came after me and attacked my car and damaged it. I called my 6'5 big built brother and daddy and let's just say he ran off fast. I told my mom everything that was happening and she encourage me to call her parents and tell them everything, well her parents reaction was to blame me. They said the weekend before she had blamed me and my boyfriend for stealing a bottle of their medication when they were out of town. She had almost 2 dozen pple partying at her house that night yet she blamed me! I loved her parents like my own at the time so it was very shocking and heartbreaking to find out they didn't believe but also blamed me. Smh, my heart is still alil broken to this day but her parents found out eventually exactly how he was bc he kept beating and stealing from her and them but he got his karma he's been in prison for 10 yrs now for trafficking frickin meth across the counrty. 😂
That‘s why it’s really important to learn about good secrets and the bad ones. And to trust your instinct. If a secret does not feel good, you should not keep it.
This exactly 🤣 I had a friend's mom to tell her to stop hanging out with me but I was the one trying to help her but she just kept losing herself to underage drinking and drugs. The mom never saw it any other way and my friend just found me "boring".
Yeah, my Mum kept saying "why can't you be more like S?" If she only knew what S got up to, she would've been shocked. As it was, S's Mum banned me as a "bad influence" because I liked to wear black clothes. I wasn't even goth or anything, I just wore what I had. (Often my brother's hand me downs)
wow that happened to me, my best friend is the daughter of Catholic psychologists, and I am the daughter of new age hippies, of course for her homophobic mother I was a bad corrupting influence that was going to make her daughter lesbian, (btw im sis) and surprise surprise, of all her friends I was the least crazy, her daughter was a lesbian, and her girlfriend was the one they considered a "good influence". 🤣🤣🤣 by the way she talked to my mom to get me to stay away from her, but unlike her, my mother has excellent communication with me and she told me everything
I haven't seen this show, but based on the mom's reaction, it seems like mom never banned her from anything. I'm just basing my opinion off of her reaction. I repeat, I haven't seen the show or movie.
I had to tell a friend's mom that i was worried about her because she was hanging around with bad people who didn't look out for her after a particularly scary night she texted me from some random dudes house after her friend abandoned her there alone with 3 guys. It was so hard, and i didn't even tell her mom much, just that i was worried. Her mom went snooping, found drugs, and grounded her for like a year 😬 She was pissed for a while, but she realized eventually that even if it meant we couldn't be friends, I'd ALWAYS have her back and look out for her. That was a turning point in her life and we're still friends to this day while all the other people in that story are gone. I think we'll be friends for the rest of our lives. I'd go to the ends of the earth for her. 💜 True friends look out for each other always.
For y’all don’t know the blurred picture is her holding her moms gun FOR THE PEOPLE TRYIBG TO TELL ME ITS NOT, IT IS I WATCHED THE SHOW Also the show is called working moms
This happened to me. I thought that I knew my son until one of his teachers just told me, "Ma'am, please just be quiet and listen to me. " I was shocked by what I heard, but it really helped me to see past what I thought my son wouldn't do.
Good for you for listening and not making excuses! 99% of parents don’t understand teachers only share these things bc they’re concerned. I’m sure it was hard but think of what could have happened had you ignored what was happening. Good job mom ❤
Thank you for actually being quiet and listening. So many parents outright refuse to let people tell them the truth about their children, and insist that the lies they tell them are the truth, no matter how much evidence there is to the contrary. They will justify even absolutely terrible things shown to them on videos, pictures, posts in order to keep pretending that their kids are innocent angels. It hurts everyone around their kids, and ultimately hurts their kids too.
What I love most is that the mom tried to be a bad person and nasty to this young girl, and the girl in the most respectful way she could was like no your daughter is the problem, not me🎉
@@tashamrothlin3695hardly a snitch Kevin if it’s keeping them safe…did you not see the SHOT glasses and the open cleavage? I know it’s just a show, but it highlights REAL life…where often these kids allow ANYONE to follow them. Why do you think some kids go missing or get raped? Social media has a HUGE influence and is a big Safegaurding issue.
I was one of those kids who told on a friend. Hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. She was getting into drugs and luckily the intervention stopped it all. That was 30 years ago and that friend is still drug free.
Paragraph person I guess? 😂 This is from working moms. Great show by the way. The mother Anne, is a psychiatrist who thinks she has everything together. In this scene, the last picture that is blurred the daughter Alice, posted a picture of herself with a gun( a real one) in her mouth. The mother loses it (rightfully so) and goes full extreme tiger mom on her daughter. She moves her to an all girls catholic (I think) school. She schedules every minute of the daughter’s day (clubs, sports, volunteering, jobs). And makes it so the daughter has to earn back privileges. The mother ends up writing a book about it. It works, in that the daughter Alice gets her life back on track but she ends up smarter and more responsible than the mother. Then the mother kind of starts falling apart and ends up looking like a huge asshole. (That is a massive summary of several episodes!)
Except that, in real life, kids always find a way. My parents where both highly educated, yet I had them on my little finger. My trick, LIKE ALL KIDS´, was to let them "catch me" on minor stuff, done intentionally. I had my first girlfriend when I was 13, my "first time" when I was 15, with a girl who was 17, I escaped many times at night and came back before everyone woke up, and things I will not put in here. Now I am a father, and I use the very same trick on my kids. I know where they hide things, and I know many secrets they don´t know I do. I don´t confront them because, unlike less intelligent parents, I still remember my kid years and how useless my advice would be. What I do is getting documentaries about people doing the things they start to do, and how they end up.
The fact that mother acts all high & mighty about the girl “skipping” out on the science fair when her daughter is NOT her perfect angel makes me wanna laugh 😂
this is usually how it is. my old friends mom was like this. would whine about how i was allowed to curse (damn, crap, sometimes shit) but didnt know her daughter was vaping.
She's not even skipping the science fair. Her daughter lied to her about when it was. Probably to get the time to go do something else her mom wouldn't approve of.
If there are any kids reading this & you in a somewhat similar situation; you should indeed be showing the parents this, the guilt of something terrible happening & you knew is something that will stick with you forever 😢
This! Every mom wants to think their kid is an angel but you can’t let you guard down completely! My (Mormon) friends mom thought I was pressuring her into trying alcohol and having sex but she tried all of that on her own and even kept it a secret from me for a bit! Her mom didn’t treat me badly because of it but when my friend got caught, I was her closest friend, so her mom assumed I was doing this stuff with her. My friend would even defend me and say I didn’t at all but she didn’t believe her. It was so frustrating but I’m glad we moved past all that high school crap.
@@PungeonMon They meant "talk to" as in "mind" or "parent," because the mother here is punishing her daughter's friend for "being a bad influence" instead of being a good enough parent to not make decisions like that without fully looking into whats going on.
Okay, but it's the way she spoke nasty to this child. Sounding like she would be happy to tell on her. Ego trippin until she gets the truth about her own child. 😮😮😮
@@freezone7526exactly! That mom was hyping on telling on this girl for skipping science fair but got humbled real quick and she still has the gall to tell the other girl "watch your mouth" Respect your elders my ass with this kind of adults.
I had a friend who started stealing. Everyone else laughed about it but I confronted them and reported it. Everyone else was mad at me until that friend stood up in class and thanked me for being the only one who cared. He had so much potential and didn’t need to go down that road.
Parents please pay to your child ( ren). Show some quality time with love, hugs, talking,and patience. Two to five minutes or more if possible. Kids are more vulnerable than we was growing up. ❤
Growing up my two best friend’s moms disliked me and used me as an example as someone who was a bad influence only bc I was always with my bf. I was never really home bc my home wasn’t safe and I had a bad upbringing so I’d stay away as much as possible. Both moms knew my situation but didn’t care and thought I didn’t have direction or something and would swore that I was doing drugs. Funny thing is my 2 besties used to hook up with different guys, would smoke weed and drink. While I had one long term bf and never smoked or drank 😂. Well my two Bffs both became teen moms while I always used protection with my long term bf. That was years ago and we’re all in our late 20s. We’re still bffs. They’re married now and one of them is a stay at home mom and has 4 kids with 2diff baby daddies and the other is a medical assistant and has 3kids with the same man. As for myself, I am an RN and I married my then bf and we have a cat, a dog and no kids😂. Funny enough, my bffs use our teenage years as examples for their now teen kids of what to do and what not to do, referring to me as the “good one” who always stayed out of trouble, tried to talk them out of things and never gave in to peer pressure😂. Their moms, however, for some reason still don’t like me😂. My bffs and I just laugh at this point😂😂
The reason their mom's still don't like you is because you were supposed to be the loser. They are jealous. I'm happy for your success and for keeping your friends in your life.
You proved them wrong, became accomplished and their daughters didnt make it as far as you did. I think😮😮😮😮😮They dont like you because they see you as a reminder of their extremely biased judgement which only led their daughters...well you already explained it😅😅😅😅They must have too much pride in them to accept their mistake.
This happened to me but much worse. My bestie called the cops about my depression and suicidal attempts. The cops called my dad and me, my mom and dad had a talked that same day. I felt so much better getting most of the things off of my chest and learned a few things as well. I am doing much better now thanks to my bestie. 💙
That's why as a parent.Keep your focus on your own kids😢. And don't judge other people's kids unless it directly affects your kids their reputation yesterday and life.
and also this is why as a parent you lock up your guns if you have them in the house.. someone else in the comments said it was moms gun i didn’t think parents were dumb enough to keep loaded guns outside of a safe..
@daddy-lz5om What do you mean by "you didn't know"? Every year several kids in the US get killed playing with their parents' gun. There's always at least one in the news every year. Then you have the kids that take their parents' gun to school.
i remember hearing a quote a while ago, “it’s better for your friend to be angry at you and alive and well than for them to be happy with you and dead or hurt”. sometimes the friendship has to be a sacrifice in order to keep your friend safe. maybe one day they’ll realize that and forgive you, but even if they don’t if it saves them from hurting themselves or worse that’s always a better outcome
Hey, at least she was very honest of what she said. She knew her friend was bad, and couldn’t stop her. Didn’t fight her mom, but only showed the truth and evidence of what was happening.
This is why parents need to open their eyes when it comes to their kids. Most parents spend very LITTLE time with them. Think about it. School 8 hrs, after school programs/activities 2 to 4 hours. Weekends activities or friends maybe the other parents' house. In reality, parents are the ones to spend the LEAST amount of time with their kids.
Yep! And according to someone else’s comments, she responded by moving the girl’s school and loading her up with extracurricular activities. Was that really easier than being home to cook with her once a week? Staying up to watch a show together? Learning her friends’ names and laugh along with the gossip a little? Go to a church or other institution and discuss spirituality? Ask her her opinions about stuff? That’s so hard?
@@LumosnightChildren are too selfish to understand capitalism? 😂 if parents are really that stressed out and need to outsource their parenting to provide for their kids, maybe don’t have them? I speak as a parent as a toddler.
@@mollygrace3068see but to parents the point usually isn’t to actually care or make things better or easier for their kids. It’s about control and punishment. Oh you did something bad? Ok try having time to do anything bad when I force you to do all this other stuff. Now I still don’t have to spend time with you, I “win” the situation, have control and my kid does the “good” things I want her to do.
@ you are a parent and a toddler? 🤣 Sweetie, not everyone can be a rich housewife who can spend time with her children while her maids maintain the household. For the majority of women, we are too busy with work and housework to spend every second of the day with the kids. That is how it has been since the dawn of humanity. Kids know how to entertain themselves.
That's when you know who your "Real True Friends Are." They stand by you when things get tough and tell you you're hurting yourself and the people who love you. Even if it means bringing your self distructing behavior to those who can help you. I know, I experienced it through my friends, relatives who were destroying themselves on a very fast pace. Unfortunately, I lost a dear family member who I miss every day. He was my nephew and my son's "older brother" in every sense of the word. Please continue to be his older brother from heaven.
I love Anne and the fact that she’s a psychologist but seems to have a narcissistic tendencies and believes she could do no wrong since she’s so intelligent and such a helicopter parent she couldn’t comprehend how Alice got the best of her. Let’s remember that strict parents raise sneaky children.
TLDR: Overly strict parents suck!! As the ‘child’ (I’m 57) of strict and overbearing parents I can 100% say from experience that if parents are overly strict, children will lie. My parents wouldn’t let me watch TV on a school night, I couldn’t have friends over, I couldn’t go out with friends, not allowed to have boyfriends, not allowed to have a job. Singular focus on school bc my mom wanted me to be a doctor. By age 12 I had learned not to ask for anything bc the answer would always be “No”. I was recruited to play basketball in middle school but I told the coach(who also was my HR teacher) my parents won’t let me without even asking. My coach brought it up at parents night - and I got in trouble on the way home for ‘using’ the teacher/coach to “get my way”. I wasn’t allowed to give my telephone number out - the one time I did at age 16 to a boy I really liked, my parents changed the number the very next day! All that to say my parents don’t know me at all. I once cut contact for a year after my mother told me - in my 30s - that she was ashamed of me. I’m an only child, and so still feel obligated to look out for them, esp now since they are 88. I love them bc they are my parents - though honestly after a lifetime of failed relationships I don’t actually believe I know what real love is… and I don’t mean that to say no one has tried to love me, its just I suck as a human being.
Most psychologists and therapists are narcissistic.. ? that's normal, they're supposed to abuse their kids so their kids can cause more people to require therapy.
She did the right thing. People think teenagers don't need a parent at home but teenagers need their parents MORE now than when they were six. Before high-school, kids live in a bubble of school and daycare. That ends in the 9th grade. I worked part-time when my son was growing up. I could not leave him to the high-school environment and not be here when he got home because two of his FRIENDS got into drugs. One has two assault charges on his MOTHER and the other moved out west and became homeless and addicted at 16.
Snitching, or tattling, is telling on someone when the situation is safe and does not require an adult to be involved. Telling, or reporting, is telling an adult when someone or something is being hurt or is in danger, or when someone is deliberately being destructive or hurtful.
I tell my nine year old this all the time. If another kid is doing something you don’t think they should, but it’s not a danger to themselves or anyone else, MIND YOUR BUSINESS.
The lesson is not that you should keep your kids away from everything potentially harmful. This method hasn't worked since the Stone Age and it never will. I went with my father's method: when your kids seem responsible, intelligent and mature enough, let loose. Tell them that they can now make their own decisions and why. Condition: at the slightest sign of trouble, fear, insecurity or regret over their decisions, come to us. We will always help or step in if needed. It worked with me, it worked with my sons. No lying needed, no blaming or shaming. Needs heaps of trust and love.
"Watch your mouth"? The mother should watch her mouth. She is rude to this girl all the way, even when the Kids It's giving her information about her daughter. This mother own this girl an apology and a thank you
I was the kid in blue once, told my friend's mom that her daughters was spiraling and needed help because she wasn't doing drugs and meeting up with much older guys. She blamed me and started telling her daughter where cops were so she wouldn't get arrested.
I really disliked these parents on high horse. I saw in those accounts everything that their kids used to do. And my kid brought a can of beer to school on a dare. Of course she got caught and got in a load of trouble. And three such moms literally started a campaign against my daughter and me. I got so sick of their “high moral ground”, I just printed out all the pictures from their daughters “secret” instagram account, brought to the school principal. And also asked him to ask those moms who my daughter brought that beer can for. It was a nasty scandal. Plus a bunch more things came out that we didn’t even imagine were possible in middle school. So many parents are totally naive and ignorant. Well, and also it finally made sense why my daughter went out to just one party and called me from there asking to pick her up asap. She didn’t want to “snitch”, but was seriously uncomfortable being around what the middle schoolers had there. Their parents found out once the principal called police and they untangled that ball of lies, one thread after another.
Thank God for this friend!! Parents, stop being so NAIVE. Be PRESENT in your kids' lives. Get involved, and be nosy! I'd rather "offend" my child's pretend honor than have them snatched from me by the evils in this world.
Proof positive that being strict doesn’t do anything positive for kids. She knew that her daughter was having issues for years, but instead of getting her in therapy, she just became controlling and started aggressively monitoring her.
I love this!!! Some many parents ate willfully stupid when it comes to their kids. There’s no better feeling on this planet than seeing a parent realize who there kid really is.
I find it terrible when people try to call others "snitches" (Although it FULLY depends on WHY they say something to sometime else, and who they talk to first) If say, for instance, you do something unsavory, or questionable, your friend tells you, "Hey, we really shouldn't be doing this, we should stop." Then you do not stop said thing, and they say something to someone else I can completely understand that, they spoke to you, tried to get you to stop and you didn't (more so on the friends side if it's a dangerous thing, or it negatively affects others, much less so if it's "illegal but didn't impact anyone") If say instead, same situation but the friend doesn't say anything to you, and just goes behind your back to someone else, that's totally not ok The whole "snitches get stitches" should only apply in the second case, going behind your back (or even the "illegal but doesn't negatively impact anyone") Anyone who disagrees, I feel they just want people who will enable their unsavory behaviors that harm others
If my friends snitch on me (for whatever reason) they are no longer my friends, it ends here and now! I dont care who it will save or help, i dont care if its "illegal" they are my FRIENDS and should respect my decisions or no be my friends easy
@naser_si real friends care about your wellbeing, treat each other with the respect they deserve, and hold each other accountable If you mess up, sometimes you need someone there to tell you just that If my friend turned out to be a murderer, it would put me into a tough spot, because on one hand, they are all friend And I don't want to give them up to authorities, but it also puts me in a precarious situation with the law Does that mean that I have to go down with them? Are they really my friend if they don't care about what happens to me? Do they just want someone to share the blame with? Do they care that this could ruin my life as well? Did they consider that when committing the crime? I could go on It doesn't seem like something a friend would do to another to force them into a situation like that If I was in that situation, I would hope they were justified in what they were doing, and tell them that I won't go to the authorities, but if they come to me asking questions, I can't lie to them I'll only give them the information I have to, because I don't want to see them go to jail, but I don't want to ruin my life If they were not justified, then they should go to jail, that's what laws were made for It would pain me for that to happen, but they made the decision
I had the opposite experience when I was a teenager. I had a friend who's parents always wanted me around to try to reign in their daughter... It didn't do any good, but then the whole family was beyond dysfunctional. Less than a year after my 16 year old friend found out her 22 year old boyfriend cheated on her with her MOM, she stole her dad's truck and took off for the South. Her dad got a divorce and died about 10 years later from cancer.
Had to do this to my best friend, she had a drinking problem real bad. She was pissed at me for hella long, but we’re still best friends 24 years later. 🥰
I watched this series to the end. The daughter had it more together than the mom. Zero accountability and the kicker is shes a therapist in the show. Horrible mother. Horrible friend. But in the world of yhe tv show she everything works out in the end and she never faces the consequences of her bad decisions.
One of the shittiest people I have ever known was a therapist. She judged people all the time. Her son was dealing drugs from her house. Some of the sickest people you will ever meet are in the helping professions.
@Wants2knowitall my ex best friend from all of high school has a masters in psychology and a was a social worker and lead investigator for cps in the county. She married a guy who isn't allowed within x-many feet of schools and parks, they had 3 special needs kids who she severely neglects. To top it off she believes in alien abduction, totem animals, spirit guides etc and most government conspiracy theories.
Sometimes an innocent encounter with a mere aquaintance is really a message from an angel unawares. We learned our son was driving a car without a license when we were congratulated on him getting his driving permit, WHICH HE DID _NOT_ HAVE. BUSTED!
The daughters character managed to infuriate me. She was so rude and entitled. I thought her rebellious stage would end in a year or so but she became worse and worse.
Good mom to actually listen and look. I was out with a friend when she got caught stealing from Target. (She did it frequently) Cops came, it was a huge deal. They called her mom, told them that I was there and that I would help walk her home. Privately the cops asked me to stay with her for moral support cause she was shaken up. They were not going to press charges and were sending her home with a stern warning and a ban from that Target. I get her home and her mom comes out raging.. AT ME. Tells me I was always a bad influence on her, and that I was no longer allowed to be around her.. I wasnt the one stealing.. And friend was constantly pressuring me to steal with her so she wasnt alone in her crime spree. I always told her not to do it. She had other friends who would steal with her, and they would show me their hauls. I would guess somewhere in the hundreds of dollars of makeup. (I dont even use makeup) So, after her mom broke our friendship she went off the deep end.. Juvie, starting fights at school, the works. I have no idea what happened to her after middle school.
I agree kids shouldn’t have access to social media but…. I grew up before the internet (GenX) I was a wild child. Thankfully we didn’t have social media, I probably would have went viral for some stupid stuff. 😂😂😂😂 For perspective, we could legally drink at 18. Clubbing in the 80’s was a blast! Many of us started before 18 because checking ID was not as strict. Bad stuff happened of course because of our foolishness. I lost 4 friends/classmates before graduation. A lot of us experienced addiction very early in life. Crappy parents are crappy parents no matter the generation. Ours didn’t care as long as we were out of the house. Kids today being on social media too much, as long as they aren’t bothering mom and dad.
@@lyyliv4368 I honestly believe that often people do stupid things because they don't think about, let alone understand the repercussions of what they do. Not just kids.
@@Spaceystace I am also Gen X, and every generation does stupid things, I was taught certain things to avoid and the repercussions and that kept me away from the worst stupid ideas I would have had.
As my kid gets closer to middle school, I am trying to teach him to be like this girl. If his friends send concerning text messages or are doing things that are dangerous. He can tell us so that we can help him navigate the situation and help his friends.
Wish people knew how scary common and relatable this is to a LOT of mothers (& fathers) who think their kids are angels 😂 it’s like they forget how much headaches they were or their friends were when they were younger, it’s even worse now with the internet and social media
That girl is a true friend. The mother is rude and her daughter is a real problem. That poor girl got ambushed by a mother who doesn’t know what her kid is doing smh.
That mom doesn't even look approachable and i can guess why her daughter snuck around and didn't tell her. This is the of the reasons i raised my kids to know they can talk to me about anything and everything. Don't regret it even now that my daughter tells me things I'd rather not know but glad I do. It's helped us stay close. My other two are boys so they are a little more reserved talking about certain things (dad deceased so I'm both parents) but I still end up hearing it sooner than later. They just gotta know you won't blow up at them and you'll support them. My kids know I'll give my opinion and try to guide them but I'm not overbearing. I love it when someone tries to tell me something about them trying to get them in trouble and I already know. My daughter would show me every guy that tried to hit on her and ask my opinion or vent about them. I love our relationship.
I’m on board. I remember being 16 and talking to creepy men because “theyre so mature” (btw they aren’t.) kind of wish I didn’t have social media until later, would’ve been upset then but at least it would’ve saved me from weirdos. Now as a mom, even if I don’t buy my kids a phone, I know they’ll still find some kind of loop hole. Need to protect our kids, least we can do is make it difficult for them to have access on their own. Easy to go to the library and make an account. Been lying about our ages since the internet became a thing.
In my country you can get an id when you are a baby 😭 what's the point then... also risking your ID private data for a social media to only register is mmm questionable at least
I kinda feel bad this kid, this mum was talking her with attitude lol 😂 then this kid gave her some facts on her own daughter. I’m glad this kid checked this women, maybe talk a little nicer to other people’s kids
I was 16 and ran away back in the late 70s. 2 weeks later I asked my friend if he wanted to go to the movies and he declined. When I came out of the movies my Dad was there waiting for me. I knew he told my parents where I would be. I wasn’t pissed at him. Thanks Duane and RIP bro.
That's a good kid that actually cares. That mom and her daughter owe a lot to this girl.
What show?
You are right. Because she is like underage right? And may be talking to people who are sickos. Parents are there to love and care for you to know right and wrong too. Making sure you are safe too because young teens still dont know everything about the world yet.
@deeadair-reece1813 it's working moms. It's good ❤
Double standards at its finest 😂
True and maybe she even wanted her to get into a bit of trouble too when she made her friends feel uncomfortable
That’s her real friend . That’s a quality friend . She’s not a snitch . Id never blame my friends for distancing themselves if they think being around me will hurt them. It’s smart and I prefer smart friends that force me to act right.
If she didn’t feel comfortable then distancing herself was the right move but she’s still a snitch for revealing her ex homies finsta lmaoo
@ hey ex homie was going down a bad path and her mom was the only one who could stop it . She didn’t part take and then snitch . She told her mom she needed to know what he daughter was up to. U a youngin because you don’t understand what snitching is .
Snitching is something people who don't want to be held accountable for shit they do made up 😂😅
Real men and women face up to what they do. They know and accept there is a consequence, and nobody owes them crap JUST because 💁🏾♀️
Ever wonder why snitching only applies to bad people?
I wish my friend thought the same
@@johnlocke7393lol calling out minors distributing minor soft pòrñ is snitching?
Not a good act by a former friend.
Questionable morals, man.
THATS a real friend. Caring about the young girls safety over how she views her. “She may not be my friend anymore but at least she’s safer”
If she breaks a friendship over this, then the young lady at fault didn't deserve that friend at the time.
That happened to me the other day
Those exact words “i may not be her friend anymore but at least shes safer.”
She only told because the mom checked her . Other than that, nobody cared .
Throwback to when my friend anonymously told my mom i was self harming, i was pissed when I found out but I got the help i needed and she still is a part of my life❤
Glad you got the help you needed from your parents. Unfortunately there’s a lot of people out there whose parents would have abused them had they found out something like that.
I unfortunately am one of those people, I decided it was time to get myself the help I need by myself
My mom scolded me and told me if I wanted to die I should go right ahead...it's all in the past now and as scarred as I am by those words I forgave her and moved and I'm in a better place
Thank you so much for your kind words
There was a reason she told you and maybe others about the self harm. She wanted someone to notice and do something.
This happened to me too, except it wasn't my friend and my mom was abusive. School counselor told my mom and my parents screamed at me that I was just doing it for attention when I was deliberately hiding it. It's not always a good idea to tell the parents the child's secrets.
Awesome!! ❤
Moms attitude explains a lot as to why her daughter is behaving the way she is
THIS
From what I remember the daughter and mom is terrible if I remember correctly the daughter isn't even the parents fault she's messed up since she was doing weird things even when she was a child I never really got into the show
Your comment also explains a lot of things about yourself. Always blaming those parents who do their best to raise their kids. As if society itself didn't have anything to do with making kids behave like that.
@@plouifasol it's more about her high horse bossing around and scolding someone else's kid
@ The irony is lost on you with this comment, but I digress
There was a period of time in my life where my friends went behind my back and told my parents about my drugs problem. I was very angry then, but now I cannot begin to love and thank them more. They saved my life.
@@acidalex420 I hope u keep in contact with them . Quality friends are so important.
Exactly! Sometimes you have to say something especially if you care. I'm glad your friends tried to help before it got worse
@@jclyntoledo My very best friend who I was with every single day for years and even stayed the night at each other's houses on school night and got up went to the same high school together. Well she was dating a horrible guy who physically abused her and she started doing hard core drugs with him (Around 2010 they were called "danks" where they would mix crack or coke into their blunts with weed and smoke the ish) well I took up for her multiple times and this time he came after me and attacked my car and damaged it. I called my 6'5 big built brother and daddy and let's just say he ran off fast. I told my mom everything that was happening and she encourage me to call her parents and tell them everything, well her parents reaction was to blame me. They said the weekend before she had blamed me and my boyfriend for stealing a bottle of their medication when they were out of town. She had almost 2 dozen pple partying at her house that night yet she blamed me! I loved her parents like my own at the time so it was very shocking and heartbreaking to find out they didn't believe but also blamed me. Smh, my heart is still alil broken to this day but her parents found out eventually exactly how he was bc he kept beating and stealing from her and them but he got his karma he's been in prison for 10 yrs now for trafficking frickin meth across the counrty. 😂
They likely did it because they cared and worried about you. Those are the friends you try your best to keep.
That‘s why it’s really important to learn about good secrets and the bad ones. And to trust your instinct. If a secret does not feel good, you should not keep it.
This girl is a real friend, it takes a lot of courage to tell on your friend
It really doesn’t, unless you’re scared of your “friend”?
@@Tetrabibloyeah it's does because you could risk losing the friendship
@@NotLakayahItsFrNotMe not a friendship worth fighting for
@@Tetrabiblosometimes good kids do dumb things. I’m sorry you never saw the value in the people around you that disappointed you.
@@TetrabibloYou clearly have no good friends, and it shows
Imagine banning your kid from being friends with someone you think is a bad influence only to realise it’s your kid that’s rotten. 🤣
This exactly 🤣 I had a friend's mom to tell her to stop hanging out with me but I was the one trying to help her but she just kept losing herself to underage drinking and drugs. The mom never saw it any other way and my friend just found me "boring".
Yeah, my Mum kept saying "why can't you be more like S?" If she only knew what S got up to, she would've been shocked. As it was, S's Mum banned me as a "bad influence" because I liked to wear black clothes. I wasn't even goth or anything, I just wore what I had. (Often my brother's hand me downs)
wow that happened to me, my best friend is the daughter of Catholic psychologists, and I am the daughter of new age hippies, of course for her homophobic mother I was a bad corrupting influence that was going to make her daughter lesbian, (btw im sis) and surprise surprise, of all her friends I was the least crazy, her daughter was a lesbian, and her girlfriend was the one they considered a "good influence".
🤣🤣🤣 by the way she talked to my mom to get me to stay away from her, but unlike her, my mother has excellent communication with me and she told me everything
I haven't seen this show, but based on the mom's reaction, it seems like mom never banned her from anything. I'm just basing my opinion off of her reaction. I repeat, I haven't seen the show or movie.
Yup! So true!!
That's a true friend. Probably saved her life.
I had to tell a friend's mom that i was worried about her because she was hanging around with bad people who didn't look out for her after a particularly scary night she texted me from some random dudes house after her friend abandoned her there alone with 3 guys. It was so hard, and i didn't even tell her mom much, just that i was worried. Her mom went snooping, found drugs, and grounded her for like a year 😬 She was pissed for a while, but she realized eventually that even if it meant we couldn't be friends, I'd ALWAYS have her back and look out for her. That was a turning point in her life and we're still friends to this day while all the other people in that story are gone. I think we'll be friends for the rest of our lives. I'd go to the ends of the earth for her. 💜 True friends look out for each other always.
For y’all don’t know the blurred picture is her holding her moms gun
FOR THE PEOPLE TRYIBG TO TELL ME ITS NOT, IT IS I WATCHED THE SHOW
Also the show is called working moms
I thought it was B B C
@Skividi_toylet Same
Thanks
I was curious wtf it was
Ok, thanks. For a second I was like "... whatever this show is, they goin hard for drama... no hard like that... never mind."
This happened to me. I thought that I knew my son until one of his teachers just told me, "Ma'am, please just be quiet and listen to me. " I was shocked by what I heard, but it really helped me to see past what I thought my son wouldn't do.
Thank you for listening. We can't understand until we listen.
Good for you for listening and not making excuses! 99% of parents don’t understand teachers only share these things bc they’re concerned. I’m sure it was hard but think of what could have happened had you ignored what was happening. Good job mom ❤
Yeah, totally not asian. We think the worst of our kids
Thank you for actually being quiet and listening. So many parents outright refuse to let people tell them the truth about their children, and insist that the lies they tell them are the truth, no matter how much evidence there is to the contrary. They will justify even absolutely terrible things shown to them on videos, pictures, posts in order to keep pretending that their kids are innocent angels.
It hurts everyone around their kids, and ultimately hurts their kids too.
@@dyanaforest7174that’s sad
What I love most is that the mom tried to be a bad person and nasty to this young girl, and the girl in the most respectful way she could was like no your daughter is the problem, not me🎉
Happens a lot more than people realize. Your angel is a shoe thief.
What was the picture showing?
The mom is mean and the kid is a snitch... or they were both two people being harsh in order to protect. Depends on your perspective.
Was she being nasty? Ot did she see a young girl who she thought was supposed to be at school and address it?
@@tashamrothlin3695hardly a snitch Kevin if it’s keeping them safe…did you not see the SHOT glasses and the open cleavage? I know it’s just a show, but it highlights REAL life…where often these kids allow ANYONE to follow them. Why do you think some kids go missing or get raped? Social media has a HUGE influence and is a big Safegaurding issue.
The people mad she snitched are the ones who are trouble, I hope whoever is mad gets the help they deserve ❤
I was one of those kids who told on a friend. Hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. She was getting into drugs and luckily the intervention stopped it all. That was 30 years ago and that friend is still drug free.
Good on ya mate
Well I guess doing the right thing isn’t always easy then.. and kudos 🫡
That's what you think, all you did was push them deeper underground
Are you still friends now ? How did ur friend react when he/she or knew it was you ?
@@AnotherAustin-z7b I think she probably knows them better than you bud
Paragraph person I guess? 😂 This is from working moms. Great show by the way. The mother Anne, is a psychiatrist who thinks she has everything together. In this scene, the last picture that is blurred the daughter Alice, posted a picture of herself with a gun( a real one) in her mouth. The mother loses it (rightfully so) and goes full extreme tiger mom on her daughter. She moves her to an all girls catholic (I think) school. She schedules every minute of the daughter’s day (clubs, sports, volunteering, jobs). And makes it so the daughter has to earn back privileges. The mother ends up writing a book about it. It works, in that the daughter Alice gets her life back on track but she ends up smarter and more responsible than the mother. Then the mother kind of starts falling apart and ends up looking like a huge asshole. (That is a massive summary of several episodes!)
Thanks for the info! You're doing important work here.
Thank you!
Thank you for taking the time to explain 🎉😊
Thanks
Except that, in real life, kids always find a way.
My parents where both highly educated, yet I had them on my little finger. My trick, LIKE ALL KIDS´, was to let them "catch me" on minor stuff, done intentionally. I had my first girlfriend when I was 13, my "first time" when I was 15, with a girl who was 17, I escaped many times at night and came back before everyone woke up, and things I will not put in here.
Now I am a father, and I use the very same trick on my kids. I know where they hide things, and I know many secrets they don´t know I do. I don´t confront them because, unlike less intelligent parents, I still remember my kid years and how useless my advice would be. What I do is getting documentaries about people doing the things they start to do, and how they end up.
The fact that mother acts all high & mighty about the girl “skipping” out on the science fair when her daughter is NOT her perfect angel makes me wanna laugh 😂
Watching this and that's ur comment just comes off as vindictive
this is usually how it is. my old friends mom was like this. would whine about how i was allowed to curse (damn, crap, sometimes shit) but didnt know her daughter was vaping.
Not funny though. Mom's working jobs gives too much freedom to naive and children that have no guidance... Bad scene.
@@valerieadams3944mom’s working jobs? careful how you word this type of phrase and what you’re alluding to.
She's not even skipping the science fair. Her daughter lied to her about when it was. Probably to get the time to go do something else her mom wouldn't approve of.
If there are any kids reading this & you in a somewhat similar situation; you should indeed be showing the parents this, the guilt of something terrible happening & you knew is something that will stick with you forever 😢
Good for Brenna! ❤
That’s a great friend
Classic example of talk to your own spawn before you judge someone else's kid
This! Every mom wants to think their kid is an angel but you can’t let you guard down completely! My (Mormon) friends mom thought I was pressuring her into trying alcohol and having sex but she tried all of that on her own and even kept it a secret from me for a bit! Her mom didn’t treat me badly because of it but when my friend got caught, I was her closest friend, so her mom assumed I was doing this stuff with her. My friend would even defend me and say I didn’t at all but she didn’t believe her. It was so frustrating but I’m glad we moved past all that high school crap.
@@sierrab5010i hope that girl is no longer mormon. Its a cult
Yeah but the spawn lies and if it doesn't work they cry to get what they want
@@PungeonMon They meant "talk to" as in "mind" or "parent," because the mother here is punishing her daughter's friend for "being a bad influence" instead of being a good enough parent to not make decisions like that without fully looking into whats going on.
Going through this atm. My kid is the one being judged.
Not her telling that girl to watch her mouth when she has no business telling her anything when she has no idea what her daughters doing.
The entire show is that character being a terrible person, therapist and mother and not having an ounce of self awareness about it.
@@Bazookatone1 spot on.
Right talking about watch you mouth you don’t know where your child is ma’am focus
@@Bazookatone1What's the name of the show?
Lol you got no kids obviously
I think the mom was told by her daughter that she was at the science fair, which is why the mom thought the other girl was skipping it
Exactly
Okay, but it's the way she spoke nasty to this child. Sounding like she would be happy to tell on her. Ego trippin until she gets the truth about her own child. 😮😮😮
@@freezone7526exactly! That mom was hyping on telling on this girl for skipping science fair but got humbled real quick and she still has the gall to tell the other girl "watch your mouth"
Respect your elders my ass with this kind of adults.
yeah duh?
Ya, lol. I didn't get that part until like 3 minutes later. Then I was like ohhh ya duh! Lol
I had a friend who started stealing. Everyone else laughed about it but I confronted them and reported it. Everyone else was mad at me until that friend stood up in class and thanked me for being the only one who cared. He had so much potential and didn’t need to go down that road.
Well we know your future will be testify in court against friends. Would you like some cheese sir?
Fake and written poorly
@@tmlawson751sour and uncalled for
@ Interesting response when you don’t know me and also can’t be bothered to write a complete sentence or use punctuation.
You sound like an amazing friend. I'm glad that this person had you in his life. Stay blessed friend.
Parents please pay to your child ( ren). Show some quality time with love, hugs, talking,and patience. Two to five minutes or more if possible. Kids are more vulnerable than we was growing up. ❤
Ignorance is not bliss
it is , that’s the problem 😢
It's dangerous
It's dangerous I been telling my kids this for years ignorance is dangerous
No it is not. Ignorance kills
I mean tech she did feel good when she didn't know soo
Growing up my two best friend’s moms disliked me and used me as an example as someone who was a bad influence only bc I was always with my bf. I was never really home bc my home wasn’t safe and I had a bad upbringing so I’d stay away as much as possible. Both moms knew my situation but didn’t care and thought I didn’t have direction or something and would swore that I was doing drugs. Funny thing is my 2 besties used to hook up with different guys, would smoke weed and drink. While I had one long term bf and never smoked or drank 😂. Well my two Bffs both became teen moms while I always used protection with my long term bf.
That was years ago and we’re all in our late 20s. We’re still bffs. They’re married now and one of them is a stay at home mom and has 4 kids with 2diff baby daddies and the other is a medical assistant and has 3kids with the same man. As for myself, I am an RN and I married my then bf and we have a cat, a dog and no kids😂. Funny enough, my bffs use our teenage years as examples for their now teen kids of what to do and what not to do, referring to me as the “good one” who always stayed out of trouble, tried to talk them out of things and never gave in to peer pressure😂. Their moms, however, for some reason still don’t like me😂. My bffs and I just laugh at this point😂😂
The reason their mom's still don't like you is because you were supposed to be the loser. They are jealous. I'm happy for your success and for keeping your friends in your life.
@ thank you 🥹
You proved them wrong, became accomplished and their daughters didnt make it as far as you did. I think😮😮😮😮😮They dont like you because they see you as a reminder of their extremely biased judgement which only led their daughters...well you already explained it😅😅😅😅They must have too much pride in them to accept their mistake.
Cuz their moms don’t wanna admit they fucked things up for their kids.
Those moms might also be too embarrassed to admit their mistake.
Show name
Workin' moms (2017)
Best show
What season and episode
I think not naming the show or movie is to get engagement in the comments.
Paragraph please😊
Thank you
This happened to me but much worse. My bestie called the cops about my depression and suicidal attempts. The cops called my dad and me, my mom and dad had a talked that same day. I felt so much better getting most of the things off of my chest and learned a few things as well. I am doing much better now thanks to my bestie. 💙
So glad you have that someone
I'm so glad you're in a much better place now. All the best in your future endeavors
Great Canadian show about mothers! ❤loved it
That's why as a parent.Keep your focus on your own kids😢. And don't judge other people's kids unless it directly affects your kids their reputation yesterday and life.
and also this is why as a parent you lock up your guns if you have them in the house.. someone else in the comments said it was moms gun i didn’t think parents were dumb enough to keep loaded guns outside of a safe..
@@daddy-lz5omIt’s astounding how many people are that dumb.
@daddy-lz5om What do you mean by "you didn't know"? Every year several kids in the US get killed playing with their parents' gun. There's always at least one in the news every year. Then you have the kids that take their parents' gun to school.
That friend just saved that girl’s life.
i remember hearing a quote a while ago, “it’s better for your friend to be angry at you and alive and well than for them to be happy with you and dead or hurt”. sometimes the friendship has to be a sacrifice in order to keep your friend safe. maybe one day they’ll realize that and forgive you, but even if they don’t if it saves them from hurting themselves or worse that’s always a better outcome
thank God she is a good friend to say it like it is......
She’s a good kid and knows when someone isn’t good for her.
Hey, at least she was very honest of what she said. She knew her friend was bad, and couldn’t stop her. Didn’t fight her mom, but only showed the truth and evidence of what was happening.
This is a very good friend of that girl. It takes a community to raise kids ❤❤❤
She's a real friend.
That girl made the right decision of letting that girl's mom know what she's been doing...
That girl did the right thing. We need friends like that
This is why parents need to open their eyes when it comes to their kids. Most parents spend very LITTLE time with them. Think about it. School 8 hrs, after school programs/activities 2 to 4 hours. Weekends activities or friends maybe the other parents' house. In reality, parents are the ones to spend the LEAST amount of time with their kids.
Yep! And according to someone else’s comments, she responded by moving the girl’s school and loading her up with extracurricular activities. Was that really easier than being home to cook with her once a week? Staying up to watch a show together? Learning her friends’ names and laugh along with the gossip a little? Go to a church or other institution and discuss spirituality? Ask her her opinions about stuff? That’s so hard?
Because parents need to earn money to put food on the table. Unfortunately kids are too selfish to recognize this
@@LumosnightChildren are too selfish to understand capitalism? 😂 if parents are really that stressed out and need to outsource their parenting to provide for their kids, maybe don’t have them? I speak as a parent as a toddler.
@@mollygrace3068see but to parents the point usually isn’t to actually care or make things better or easier for their kids. It’s about control and punishment. Oh you did something bad? Ok try having time to do anything bad when I force you to do all this other stuff. Now I still don’t have to spend time with you, I “win” the situation, have control and my kid does the “good” things I want her to do.
@ you are a parent and a toddler? 🤣
Sweetie, not everyone can be a rich housewife who can spend time with her children while her maids maintain the household. For the majority of women, we are too busy with work and housework to spend every second of the day with the kids. That is how it has been since the dawn of humanity. Kids know how to entertain themselves.
Perfect demonstration of "Worry bout your own damn kids!" 😂😂😂
Fr 😂 the mom thinks she's soo smart 😂
That's when you know who your "Real True Friends Are." They stand by you when things get tough and tell you you're hurting yourself and the people who love you. Even if it means bringing your self distructing behavior to those who can help you. I know, I experienced it through my friends, relatives who were destroying themselves on a very fast pace. Unfortunately, I lost a dear family member who I miss every day. He was my nephew and my son's "older brother" in every sense of the word. Please continue to be his older brother from heaven.
She didn't just snitch she gave a statement.😂😂
She starting the talk like she is the mom of the year judging the other one's parents.😂😂
I love Anne and the fact that she’s a psychologist but seems to have a narcissistic tendencies and believes she could do no wrong since she’s so intelligent and such a helicopter parent she couldn’t comprehend how Alice got the best of her. Let’s remember that strict parents raise sneaky children.
What show is this
@@granolamomie"working moms" - I think it was on Netflix but I might be wrong.
Right! Anne acts as if she's so put together but can't handle her own family. She runs to Kate for literally everything.
TLDR: Overly strict parents suck!!
As the ‘child’ (I’m 57) of strict and overbearing parents I can 100% say from experience that if parents are overly strict, children will lie. My parents wouldn’t let me watch TV on a school night, I couldn’t have friends over, I couldn’t go out with friends, not allowed to have boyfriends, not allowed to have a job. Singular focus on school bc my mom wanted me to be a doctor. By age 12 I had learned not to ask for anything bc the answer would always be “No”. I was recruited to play basketball in middle school but I told the coach(who also was my HR teacher) my parents won’t let me without even asking. My coach brought it up at parents night - and I got in trouble on the way home for ‘using’ the teacher/coach to “get my way”. I wasn’t allowed to give my telephone number out - the one time I did at age 16 to a boy I really liked, my parents changed the number the very next day! All that to say my parents don’t know me at all. I once cut contact for a year after my mother told me - in my 30s - that she was ashamed of me. I’m an only child, and so still feel obligated to look out for them, esp now since they are 88. I love them bc they are my parents - though honestly after a lifetime of failed relationships I don’t actually believe I know what real love is… and I don’t mean that to say no one has tried to love me, its just I suck as a human being.
Most psychologists and therapists are narcissistic.. ? that's normal, they're supposed to abuse their kids so their kids can cause more people to require therapy.
Mom didn't discover anything. A gift of truth was bestowed upon her.
Nah that ain’t snitching that’s saving.
She did the right thing. People think teenagers don't need a parent at home but teenagers need their parents MORE now than when they were six. Before high-school, kids live in a bubble of school and daycare. That ends in the 9th grade. I worked part-time when my son was growing up. I could not leave him to the high-school environment and not be here when he got home because two of his FRIENDS got into drugs. One has two assault charges on his MOTHER and the other moved out west and became homeless and addicted at 16.
The teen played that UNO reverse card to perfection.
The mother of a bad kid is always oblivious to it. This girl is just a good kid.
Snitching, or tattling, is telling on someone when the situation is safe and does not require an adult to be involved. Telling, or reporting, is telling an adult when someone or something is being hurt or is in danger, or when someone is deliberately being destructive or hurtful.
I tell my nine year old this all the time. If another kid is doing something you don’t think they should, but it’s not a danger to themselves or anyone else, MIND YOUR BUSINESS.
The lesson is not that you should keep your kids away from everything potentially harmful. This method hasn't worked since the Stone Age and it never will.
I went with my father's method: when your kids seem responsible, intelligent and mature enough, let loose. Tell them that they can now make their own decisions and why. Condition: at the slightest sign of trouble, fear, insecurity or regret over their decisions, come to us. We will always help or step in if needed.
It worked with me, it worked with my sons. No lying needed, no blaming or shaming. Needs heaps of trust and love.
Agree. We all make mistakes -- we are supposed to -- but don't double-down on them. Learn from them and course correct.
It's always overprotective moms. I think their angels are so perfect but they are wildest ones 😂
"Watch your mouth"? The mother should watch her mouth.
She is rude to this girl all the way, even when the Kids It's giving her information about her daughter. This mother own this girl an apology and a thank you
Exactly 💯
Yeah, her ego was that big untill it drown her to the bottom.
I was the kid in blue once, told my friend's mom that her daughters was spiraling and needed help because she wasn't doing drugs and meeting up with much older guys. She blamed me and started telling her daughter where cops were so she wouldn't get arrested.
Wow.😮
I really disliked these parents on high horse. I saw in those accounts everything that their kids used to do. And my kid brought a can of beer to school on a dare. Of course she got caught and got in a load of trouble. And three such moms literally started a campaign against my daughter and me. I got so sick of their “high moral ground”, I just printed out all the pictures from their daughters “secret” instagram account, brought to the school principal. And also asked him to ask those moms who my daughter brought that beer can for. It was a nasty scandal. Plus a bunch more things came out that we didn’t even imagine were possible in middle school. So many parents are totally naive and ignorant. Well, and also it finally made sense why my daughter went out to just one party and called me from there asking to pick her up asap. She didn’t want to “snitch”, but was seriously uncomfortable being around what the middle schoolers had there. Their parents found out once the principal called police and they untangled that ball of lies, one thread after another.
Its scarry that tweens are watching porn and doing adult acts on each other at a young age!
Thank God for this friend!! Parents, stop being so NAIVE. Be PRESENT in your kids' lives. Get involved, and be nosy! I'd rather "offend" my child's pretend honor than have them snatched from me by the evils in this world.
You know what makes it harder to be caught? Not posting it all online. It catches a surprising amount of criminals 😂
Proof positive that being strict doesn’t do anything positive for kids. She knew that her daughter was having issues for years, but instead of getting her in therapy, she just became controlling and started aggressively monitoring her.
Which is ironic considering she works in that field
I have to disagree about the strictness, but yes, you can push it too far.
I love this!!! Some many parents ate willfully stupid when it comes to their kids. There’s no better feeling on this planet than seeing a parent realize who there kid really is.
I find it terrible when people try to call others "snitches"
(Although it FULLY depends on WHY they say something to sometime else, and who they talk to first)
If say, for instance, you do something unsavory, or questionable, your friend tells you, "Hey, we really shouldn't be doing this, we should stop." Then you do not stop said thing, and they say something to someone else
I can completely understand that, they spoke to you, tried to get you to stop and you didn't (more so on the friends side if it's a dangerous thing, or it negatively affects others, much less so if it's "illegal but didn't impact anyone")
If say instead, same situation but the friend doesn't say anything to you, and just goes behind your back to someone else, that's totally not ok
The whole "snitches get stitches" should only apply in the second case, going behind your back (or even the "illegal but doesn't negatively impact anyone")
Anyone who disagrees, I feel they just want people who will enable their unsavory behaviors that harm others
If my friends snitch on me (for whatever reason) they are no longer my friends, it ends here and now! I dont care who it will save or help, i dont care if its "illegal" they are my FRIENDS and should respect my decisions or no be my friends easy
@naser_si real friends care about your wellbeing, treat each other with the respect they deserve, and hold each other accountable
If you mess up, sometimes you need someone there to tell you just that
If my friend turned out to be a murderer, it would put me into a tough spot, because on one hand, they are all friend
And I don't want to give them up to authorities, but it also puts me in a precarious situation with the law
Does that mean that I have to go down with them? Are they really my friend if they don't care about what happens to me? Do they just want someone to share the blame with? Do they care that this could ruin my life as well? Did they consider that when committing the crime?
I could go on
It doesn't seem like something a friend would do to another to force them into a situation like that
If I was in that situation, I would hope they were justified in what they were doing, and tell them that I won't go to the authorities, but if they come to me asking questions, I can't lie to them
I'll only give them the information I have to, because I don't want to see them go to jail, but I don't want to ruin my life
If they were not justified, then they should go to jail, that's what laws were made for
It would pain me for that to happen, but they made the decision
Such a great mom./s
It's interesting how that Mom thought that Renna wasn't good enough to hang out with her Daughter. Serves Mom right to get shocked
I had the opposite experience when I was a teenager. I had a friend who's parents always wanted me around to try to reign in their daughter... It didn't do any good, but then the whole family was beyond dysfunctional. Less than a year after my 16 year old friend found out her 22 year old boyfriend cheated on her with her MOM, she stole her dad's truck and took off for the South. Her dad got a divorce and died about 10 years later from cancer.
God bless her and him
Had to do this to my best friend, she had a drinking problem real bad. She was pissed at me for hella long, but we’re still best friends 24 years later. 🥰
I watched this series to the end. The daughter had it more together than the mom. Zero accountability and the kicker is shes a therapist in the show. Horrible mother. Horrible friend. But in the world of yhe tv show she everything works out in the end and she never faces the consequences of her bad decisions.
One of the shittiest people I have ever known was a therapist. She judged people all the time. Her son was dealing drugs from her house.
Some of the sickest people you will ever meet are in the helping professions.
What’s the name of this series?
@@poojabhalsing8652Working Moms, I hated this show. They were all bad moms and bad people. I don't understand why so many people like this series
@Wants2knowitall my ex best friend from all of high school has a masters in psychology and a was a social worker and lead investigator for cps in the county. She married a guy who isn't allowed within x-many feet of schools and parks, they had 3 special needs kids who she severely neglects. To top it off she believes in alien abduction, totem animals, spirit guides etc and most government conspiracy theories.
@@elheffernan relatability
She is a good girl
When worrying about someone elses business goes wrong.😂😂😂😂😂
She was really entitled trying to scold that tween but she was the one who got put in her place instead 😅😅😅
Agree!!!
Sometimes an innocent encounter with a mere aquaintance is really a message from an angel unawares. We learned our son was driving a car without a license when we were congratulated on him getting his driving permit, WHICH HE DID _NOT_ HAVE.
BUSTED!
That was a good show😊
Movie name please ????
Working moms 2017
What a rude woman, do we think the daughter is kicking against her lovely mother?
No, we think it's a TV show
@@master-oppressor do you not know how fiction works? You’re supposed to think about the plot. And the character motivations.
@FritzMonorail She's an actress. She's acting. She's not a rude woman. She's a good actress.
The daughters character managed to infuriate me. She was so rude and entitled. I thought her rebellious stage would end in a year or so but she became worse and worse.
@@danan1313well yeah after her mom started to overload her she just got quest which was to be expected.
This mom was wacked and out of line, talking to her and asking about having to be at home. She was being judgy, and got a taste of her own medicine.
Alice was a menace!!!
Good mom to actually listen and look. I was out with a friend when she got caught stealing from Target. (She did it frequently) Cops came, it was a huge deal. They called her mom, told them that I was there and that I would help walk her home. Privately the cops asked me to stay with her for moral support cause she was shaken up. They were not going to press charges and were sending her home with a stern warning and a ban from that Target.
I get her home and her mom comes out raging.. AT ME. Tells me I was always a bad influence on her, and that I was no longer allowed to be around her.. I wasnt the one stealing.. And friend was constantly pressuring me to steal with her so she wasnt alone in her crime spree. I always told her not to do it. She had other friends who would steal with her, and they would show me their hauls. I would guess somewhere in the hundreds of dollars of makeup. (I dont even use makeup)
So, after her mom broke our friendship she went off the deep end.. Juvie, starting fights at school, the works.
I have no idea what happened to her after middle school.
Kids shouldn't have access to social media, they should be taught the dangers, and the pitfalls of hiding things from trusted adults.
Do you honestly believe that the reason kids do stupid or bad things is because nobody taught them not to?
I agree kids shouldn’t have access to social media but….
I grew up before the internet (GenX) I was a wild child. Thankfully we didn’t have social media, I probably would have went viral for some stupid stuff. 😂😂😂😂
For perspective, we could legally drink at 18. Clubbing in the 80’s was a blast! Many of us started before 18 because checking ID was not as strict. Bad stuff happened of course because of our foolishness. I lost 4 friends/classmates before graduation. A lot of us experienced addiction very early in life. Crappy parents are crappy parents no matter the generation. Ours didn’t care as long as we were out of the house. Kids today being on social media too much, as long as they aren’t bothering mom and dad.
I agree but i dont think the issue in this clip is social media, she would be doing all that without social media too
@@lyyliv4368 I honestly believe that often people do stupid things because they don't think about, let alone understand the repercussions of what they do.
Not just kids.
@@Spaceystace I am also Gen X, and every generation does stupid things, I was taught certain things to avoid and the repercussions and that kept me away from the worst stupid ideas I would have had.
As my kid gets closer to middle school, I am trying to teach him to be like this girl. If his friends send concerning text messages or are doing things that are dangerous. He can tell us so that we can help him navigate the situation and help his friends.
I am glad you realize you have to be a friend to your kid as well as being a parent.
that mom was READY to jump on this girl and get judgy, smh...so focused on other ppls kids has her completey blind to her own daughter.
Mothers raising future homewreckers is my favorite trope lol😂😂😂😂😂
As if she actually cares what her daughter posts online. She just doesn’t want to be publicly embarrassed.
That woman was SO disrespectful to the young girl. I HATE when adults treat children this way. Children are human beings and worthy of respect. 💙💙
Wish people knew how scary common and relatable this is to a LOT of mothers (& fathers) who think their kids are angels 😂 it’s like they forget how much headaches they were or their friends were when they were younger, it’s even worse now with the internet and social media
That is one unlikable woman.
Good thing it doesn't matter if you like someone or not.
Mom vibe like Karen but get humbled by a kid. Yikes.
@@Dinglehoppers779lol fair
Yeah. She was so judgemental and strict with the girl she was talking to but, her daughter was an absolute mess.
Right? Scolding that girl when her own daughter is partying behind her back. She's real smug for about 30 seconds lol
That girl is a true friend. The mother is rude and her daughter is a real problem. That poor girl got ambushed by a mother who doesn’t know what her kid is doing smh.
That mom doesn't even look approachable and i can guess why her daughter snuck around and didn't tell her. This is the of the reasons i raised my kids to know they can talk to me about anything and everything. Don't regret it even now that my daughter tells me things I'd rather not know but glad I do. It's helped us stay close. My other two are boys so they are a little more reserved talking about certain things (dad deceased so I'm both parents) but I still end up hearing it sooner than later. They just gotta know you won't blow up at them and you'll support them. My kids know I'll give my opinion and try to guide them but I'm not overbearing. I love it when someone tries to tell me something about them trying to get them in trouble and I already know. My daughter would show me every guy that tried to hit on her and ask my opinion or vent about them. I love our relationship.
Can anyone explain what that last blurred photo is suppose to mean? I can't understand at all
Obviously a gun, the caption said “pew pew pew”
@@vickys.love00 it coukd have been church seats. Bwahahahaha
@@vickys.love00 no it didn't no offense
this is the perfect example of before scolding of judging someone child check your own🤔🙄 or better yet focus more on your kid
For those who don't know, the name of the series is.. 'Working Moms'
what show or movie is this?
This is why i agree with people saying social media needing i.d. before they'll allow you to have an account
I’m on board. I remember being 16 and talking to creepy men because “theyre so mature” (btw they aren’t.) kind of wish I didn’t have social media until later, would’ve been upset then but at least it would’ve saved me from weirdos. Now as a mom, even if I don’t buy my kids a phone, I know they’ll still find some kind of loop hole. Need to protect our kids, least we can do is make it difficult for them to have access on their own. Easy to go to the library and make an account. Been lying about our ages since the internet became a thing.
In my country you can get an id when you are a baby 😭 what's the point then... also risking your ID private data for a social media to only register is mmm questionable at least
And trust these websites that get compromised all the time and are in the buisness of selling your info to be responsible with your ID? F no.
I kinda feel bad this kid, this mum was talking her with attitude lol 😂 then this kid gave her some facts on her own daughter. I’m glad this kid checked this women, maybe talk a little nicer to other people’s kids
Name of movie or series?
Working Moms
Correction: Workin' Moms
Good kid, someone taught her right.
That mom had it coming
I was 16 and ran away back in the late 70s. 2 weeks later I asked my friend if he wanted to go to the movies and he declined. When I came out of the movies my Dad was there waiting for me. I knew he told my parents where I would be. I wasn’t pissed at him. Thanks Duane and RIP bro.
Parenting someone else’s child while yours is doing some crazy shit you have no clue about 😮😮great parent
What show is this?
workin moms
She said chek yourself. Do you know what your daughter is doing. 😂
The lil girl 😂clocked her !