The MBTI Golden Pair: INFJ & INTP | The Rarest Personality Type

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  • The MBTI Golden Pair: INFJ & INTP | The Rarest Personality Type | The INFJ strengths and weaknesses of the rarest personality type, and the INTP strengths and weaknesses are quite similar, yet different enough that these two introverted personality types are known to effectively balance each other out.
    With the INTP personality type being one of the best matches for the INFJ personality type, the INFJ & INTP relationship can easily understand each others motives while using their different characteristics to create logical yet emotion-filled life decisions. This MBTI golden pair encourage each other to advance in life while encouraging one another on their biggest accomplishments and life goals, without ever putting each other down for their unique thinking patterns and views on life, one of the best qualities of the INFJ & INTP couple.
    Both being amongst the rarest of the MBTI personality types, they are definitely a unique match that allows both people to feel properly understood in a world where they normally feel so left out.. So, are you an INFJ or an INTP, if so, you'll definitely want to learn these 5 reasons why the INFJ & INTP are the best match!
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  • @PSYCH-O
    @PSYCH-O  3 роки тому +37

    Hey PSYCH-Os!
    *So, are you an INTP or and INFJ, and if so, have you ever been in a relationship with the other type we talk about in today's video?*
    Comment down below 👇
    PS. Don't forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE with a friend!
    Thank you for all your support 🙏

    • @DamienCaineNZ
      @DamienCaineNZ 3 роки тому +14

      INTP - hadn't heard about golden pairing, met someone randomly on voice chat one day and wondered why we were immediately very deeply interesting to each other. Talked for hours for days after that. After discussing each other's type, found various articles about INTP-INFJ pairing and everything we read explained everything we'd experienced without knowing why. After that I find it hard to consider the value of the opinion of those who say MBTI is worthless.

    • @Hitman-zp5wi
      @Hitman-zp5wi 3 роки тому +10

      i agree with this my GF is an INFJ and i'm the INTP and i feel like me and her are 2 peas in a pod

    • @lydiasim8726
      @lydiasim8726 3 роки тому

      Oh

    • @goolash1000
      @goolash1000 3 роки тому +3

      INTP here, who avoided meeting INFJs like the plague. The idea of someone who can hack my brain via emotions and be inside my walls effortlessly does not sit well with me. I'm happily married for over a decade now to an istj.

    • @sheldonsawyer4782
      @sheldonsawyer4782 2 роки тому +6

      Intp man here currently dating an Infj woman 👋🏼.

  • @grimmmetals5290
    @grimmmetals5290 3 роки тому +410

    INTP guy here. Somehow by magic you INFJ's keep finding me 😅 I'm surrounded by a circle of the best INFJs ever but I'll take more. 🤓

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 роки тому +23

      Haha that's awesome, I wonder what that would be like 😂

    • @ejred3
      @ejred3 3 роки тому +39

      I wish there was only INFJs and INTPs on earth 😁

    • @alexandrabiela6134
      @alexandrabiela6134 3 роки тому +13

      @@ejred3 as ENTJ i can agree on that

    • @ejred3
      @ejred3 3 роки тому +1

      @@alexandrabiela6134 considered me surprised by the fact that an ENTJ would agreed. Refreshing nevertheless.

    • @alexandrabiela6134
      @alexandrabiela6134 3 роки тому +8

      @@ejred3 i like INFJ and INTP people, they boost my confidence so why not xD

  • @stubborndetermination6373
    @stubborndetermination6373 2 роки тому +99

    I’m an INFJ and my husband is an INTP. We clicked right away. We met on a Thursday. He called me the next day and we arranged a date for that Saturday a full two days after we met. We’ve been together ever since and that was 23 years ago.
    We have the best conversations together and talk about everything and anything. One time we talked for hours, yes literally hours, about what we thought would have happened in the present Americas if Europeans never “discovered” it. I can’t imagine discussing such a topic with anyone else I have ever known, but he was very happy to.

    • @genkiferal7178
      @genkiferal7178 10 місяців тому +1

      yeah, but what if the female is the INTP and the male the INFJ? The J...ok, but the male being an F worries me.

    • @celesteassi2721
      @celesteassi2721 10 місяців тому +2

      ​@@genkiferal7178 INFJ are both logical and emotional. Often, some people believe INFJ are emotionless because of this characteristic. The emotional part will allow to their partner to feel understood.

    • @genkiferal7178
      @genkiferal7178 9 місяців тому

      @@celesteassi2721 ? F stands for Feelings, so how can someone think they are emotionless?

    • @celesteassi2721
      @celesteassi2721 9 місяців тому +1

      @@genkiferal7178 Poker face. They don't show easily their feelings even if it's a storm in their head ans heart

    • @pandachrissan
      @pandachrissan 7 місяців тому +2

      That's how my boyfriend (INTP) and me (INFJ) got together too, never felt this connected to a person before. I'm normally very shy with strangers, but with him I was just myself completely. Our first date was 10h long, we completely forgot the time and my sis and my parents started writing me, because they thought I was kidnapped or sth 😂 And all this time we talked and even in the moments we weren't talking, I felt peaceful and comfortable around him. And for 3 months we saw eachother nearly everyday after that. I think that says everything. We're happy for 3 years now and still have hour long conversations and our views on life are so similar 🫶🏻 He's my soulmate I would say

  • @jacquezplc
    @jacquezplc 2 роки тому +158

    I'm an INTP and my girlfriend is and INFJ. We laughed the whole time watching this video because of the accuracy!! 😂 We've been together for about 5 years and always wondered why we got along so well.

  • @painoftheheart12
    @painoftheheart12 2 роки тому +92

    The relationship between my girlfriend and I was instant. This attraction that I never felt with anyone before, I immediately fell in love and I didn't think love was an actual thing people felt but a lie they told themselves to maintain a status quo. I just instantly knew I was going to marry this beautiful person. Turns out she's INFJ and I'm INTP

  • @louisemarklew9001
    @louisemarklew9001 3 роки тому +318

    I am an INTP marrying an INFJ.
    Our relationship is the epitome of the 'Golden Pair'.
    We completely agree with everything addressed in the video. We couldn't agree more.
    This video solidifies everything we already thought and felt.
    Thank you!

    • @yusraadil5920
      @yusraadil5920 2 роки тому +12

      😭😭😭😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️♥️
      Iam an INTP
      Hope I marry my INFJ too😫♥️

    • @ismaelmessaoudi2772
      @ismaelmessaoudi2772 2 роки тому

      @@yusraadil5920 لماذا بالضبط infj

    • @yusraadil5920
      @yusraadil5920 2 роки тому +6

      Because he understands me

    • @reese76man
      @reese76man Рік тому +7

      My INFJ is the greatest woman i've ever known.

    • @idnations
      @idnations Рік тому +2

      ​@@reese76manver esse amor todo pelos INFJs me dá um quentinho no ❤ e também me dá esperança de algum dia conhecer alguém que valha a pena sair da minha concha de solteirice de uma década 😊🥰

  • @shrimpmanwhit3621
    @shrimpmanwhit3621 3 роки тому +115

    INTP here. And while it is not a romantic relationship, my best friend is an INFJ. We've survived adolescence, college, and now adulthood together. And yes people have actually assumed we are a couple and/or have joked about how close we are.

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 роки тому +6

      Haha that's awesome! 🙏

    • @svmuscle7677
      @svmuscle7677 2 роки тому +2

      hows it looking 1 year later ?

    • @shrimpmanwhit3621
      @shrimpmanwhit3621 2 роки тому +13

      @@svmuscle7677 we are still super close best friends for life. Major update, my girlfriend of almost one year (next week is 11 months) is also an INFJ. So, yes, INFJs with INTPs are indeed the golden pair.

  • @carolineangelard4274
    @carolineangelard4274 3 роки тому +100

    I knew it! I am an INFJ and I am so attracted by INTP... I did not have a perfect relationships, unfortunately, with INTPs, but for sure we were always very connected... and well, maybe I will find another one :) They stimulate my intelect and I love it, they are deep and strong, and clever

    • @ejred3
      @ejred3 3 роки тому +3

      Thank you thank you. INFJs are amazing

    • @BartholomewHenryAllen
      @BartholomewHenryAllen 2 роки тому

      [Jan 16, 2022] I'm looking around for INFJs myself if you're interested in conversation. I speak English and Spanish incase of language barriers, though I don't actually know how to spell in Spanish.

    • @meiouita5302
      @meiouita5302 Рік тому +1

      Stop saying such sexy things.

  • @juniormynos9457
    @juniormynos9457 3 роки тому +133

    INTP and INFJ are so quiet and rare that this is the least amount of comments I've ever seen on a UA-cam video.

  • @cavalierchild
    @cavalierchild Рік тому +40

    INTP female here! Somehow most of my closest friends are INFJs 😂😂 we have a deep and precious understanding between us (awkward silences aren't very awkward but comfortable, our humour click) and they can somehow always sense and bring out the emotions in me (as a rather stoic and not very openly expressive person, I am quite surprised). Without them, I'd probably be feeling much lonelier, isolated, and having more 'camping in my room away from the rest of the world as though I'd never see the light of the day ever again' sessions. Truly grateful (and appreciative) of their presence every time

    • @irethfaelivryn7065
      @irethfaelivryn7065 11 місяців тому +1

      Same here, INTP woman with great INFJ friends. Everything feels natural and easy with them most of the time, I am grateful!

  • @sashasevenfold2862
    @sashasevenfold2862 3 роки тому +95

    This video is so spot on,I'm an IFNJ and,I've always wondered why l clicked so well with a certain guy in my life.Him and l never really understood our connection. We ended up calling each other soulmates until he took the MBTI test as well and l found out that he's an INTP and everything just made sense

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 роки тому +4

      Wow - the perfect love story! Haha thanks for sharing 💙

    • @ameejocelyne24
      @ameejocelyne24 3 роки тому +7

      🤭 I ended up calling my INTP my Soulmate and even declared it to him the first day I met him... Little did we both know, that we are in fact "The Golden Pair" or "Soulmates", wasn't until the next day that we found out each other's MBTI 🥰

    • @lwandie260
      @lwandie260 3 роки тому +8

      I'm an INFJ and recently had a stimulating conversation with someone I suspect to be an INTP. The way his mind works just captivated and entertained me so much and haven't stopped thinking about it. Those are the quality of interactions I need in order to feel alive.

    • @EMichaelBall
      @EMichaelBall 2 роки тому +3

      @ LWANDIE Maybe being in a relationship with a close friend isn’t so bad. If you can agree on kids, spending, in laws, life goals, etc., then you can more comfortably get physical and use Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds and the Life Uncontained couple as examples of incredible “friends first” relationships.

  • @cathyv51
    @cathyv51 3 роки тому +88

    INFJ here, married 31 years to an INTP. Could not be happier.

    • @Maharashtra895
      @Maharashtra895 Рік тому

      What ?? Something wrong with u

    • @bloodeagle2445
      @bloodeagle2445 Рік тому

      Could not be happier ? Or could not be happy 😂 both are opposite sentences

  • @OGBabygurl
    @OGBabygurl 2 роки тому +26

    INFJ woman here now engaged to my INTP fiancé. We've clicked since date 1, moved in by week 2 and have been together for 5 years now. Living together is easier than ever. Golden pair confirmed 😊

    • @thegreatarkanum3037
      @thegreatarkanum3037 2 роки тому +1

      OGBabygurl : Glad to see a happy story , blessings to you guys . Am an INFJ guy here wish I found an INTP lady one day , lol ...

    • @BananaTPie
      @BananaTPie Рік тому

      Is he messy? Considerate?

  • @shawnantunes
    @shawnantunes 3 роки тому +74

    I am an INFJ and my daughter is an INTP. This video is absolutely spot on!

  • @laurenneloms7953
    @laurenneloms7953 3 роки тому +52

    I find I get along so easily with INTPs and it is always so easy to be around them and feel seen, heard and understood. It feels surreal but it is totally real.

    • @BartholomewHenryAllen
      @BartholomewHenryAllen 2 роки тому +8

      As an INTP, people usually seem to believe were fake or lying about the way we feel. So knowing you understand we really do mean what we say and how we feel actually makes me feel happy. It's like finding a lotus flower in a rose bush.
      You wouldn't happen to be an INFJ as well would you?

    • @laurenneloms7953
      @laurenneloms7953 2 роки тому +7

      @@BartholomewHenryAllen yes that's correct! INFJ😊

  • @morgancongedo4107
    @morgancongedo4107 3 роки тому +96

    INFJ male here, my girlfriend is an INTP and we get along so much in 5 years together we had discussions only a handful of times and even then we resolve quickly, we love each other so much ♥️

    • @stevedavenport1202
      @stevedavenport1202 2 роки тому +6

      Do you mean "argument"? Discussions are wonderful things to have, in English. 😀

    • @morgancongedo4107
      @morgancongedo4107 2 роки тому +6

      @@stevedavenport1202 yeah I meant that! My native language isn't English, I mixed the words up😅

    • @stevedavenport1202
      @stevedavenport1202 2 роки тому +5

      @@morgancongedo4107 It's OK. I speak Spanish, so I know what you meant. English and Spanish have several false cognates.

    • @genkiferal7178
      @genkiferal7178 10 місяців тому +2

      that is great news.

  • @nullfi7148
    @nullfi7148 3 роки тому +67

    I am a very obvious INTP and my oldest/best friend is an INFJ - we've "clicked" immediately upon our first meeting (which, as someone who despises small talk, this is a very rare occurrence for me). Something I found quite entertaining was that when we both decided to take the MBTI test some years back we decided not to tell each other the results until we both guessed each others type - We both guessed the others type, her response to me when I asked her rationale for guessing INTP she just replied with "It's the only one that fits you, if your result says anything else then you need to retake the test.".

    • @leviticuscornwall9631
      @leviticuscornwall9631 Рік тому +1

      I’m and INTP too, and I know the exact “click” you’re talking about. I’ve only experienced it once, when I was younger. But unfortunately I was very immature back then and couldn’t properly uphold my end of the relationship. I haven’t felt that way for anyone ever again and I’m afraid I never will

    • @celiacresswell6909
      @celiacresswell6909 Рік тому

      @@leviticuscornwall9631yup me too: you don’t get many chances to fk that up. Luckily you found red dead instead😮

  • @ejred3
    @ejred3 3 роки тому +32

    INTP here. Absolutely in love with my INFJ . Of course I can't make up my mind if she's into me or not. We give ourselves space, but when we're done with our introversion times we call each other 1st. I feel so free and true with her. It's funny cause I'm actually the more extroverted of the 2. Ok rambling now lol. Great vid.

    • @stevedavenport1202
      @stevedavenport1202 2 роки тому +3

      Hmm, better too find out soon. You deserve a real relationship.

  • @grumpyschnauzer
    @grumpyschnauzer Рік тому +9

    I'm an INFJ female and my partner aN INTP male. I knew I had a special relationship with my partner when we could do 20 hour drives back and forth between our hometown and where we lived talking almost the whole time, laughing, and enjoying deep conversation. Since Day 1 we have been around each other everyday, working and living together. Our differences surface when needing to make decisions based on Fi (which we both lack). We also experience friction between Si and Se (this comes out when shopping for real estate). But otherwise anything intuitive, abstract, or differing everyday mundaneness we flourish. We also hit snags when dealing with emotionally charged situations. Otherwise we have a lot of fun together and I love to squeeze my INTP on any given day! We've been together for 8 years now.

  • @PreciousBY309
    @PreciousBY309 2 роки тому +24

    I am an INFJ and I just recently, like few days ago, discovered that my long time boyfriend is an INTP when he took the test. I now understand how can we be so perfect for each other 🥺

  • @kosanict
    @kosanict 3 роки тому +26

    as an intp who has a crush on a infj, love this

  • @strangelola
    @strangelola Рік тому +5

    I'm and INTP and my boyfriend is INFJ. We've been together for almost 13 as a couple and we've been best friends for 20.
    We always knew we had something going on that most people don't have.
    I could get never bored with him and viceversa.
    He understands me even more than I understand myself and it's the same for me with him xD.
    So golden pair, huh? Does makes sense.

  • @blancheb3533
    @blancheb3533 2 роки тому +12

    I'm an INFJ woman and my boyfriend is INTP! Everything in this video is spot-on

  • @randomguy1557
    @randomguy1557 3 роки тому +44

    I’m an INTP and my girlfriend is an INFJ. We’ve only been dating sense basically The beginning of February this year. Yet, when we started talking almost at the beginning of the year, I told her “I feel like I have known you my entire life.” And she’s the same way. After taking the test, it made sense and watching this video, it made sense why we both felt like that in the beginning.

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 роки тому +8

      Yes that is exactly what it feels like, and it can be difficult to find someone who compares once you find this type of connection! 🤗

  • @kkech1
    @kkech1 14 днів тому +2

    INTP with INFJ wife, here.
    It's funny how we talked about the need for space really early on, but we still haven't cashed in on that yet, lol.

  • @angelszeto4001
    @angelszeto4001 10 місяців тому +3

    Infj here! Boyfriend is Intp and I have to say it’s been a great match so far in the past few years :)

  • @AnshumaanGoel
    @AnshumaanGoel Рік тому +3

    As an INFJ guy, I really need to meet more INTP girls out there. Probably that will get me into a long term relationship. 😊
    Thanks for this video!

  • @kaiserfranz_1973
    @kaiserfranz_1973 2 роки тому +11

    i am intp boy, and my little sister is infj. Many of my friends doesnt get along too much with their bros-sist relationships. While us, have a deep relationship with each other, even my sister doesn't hesitate me to touch her as i want. That means our bonds is just too close, and it additionally proven by other people seeing us too close, while having an opposite gender. And makes them feel jealous when see us. Idk but, our connection is just flowing with time, and unconciously makes us as an unseperated cousin. That's my experiences, thank you for hearing my story.

  • @Genuinelyfried
    @Genuinelyfried 2 роки тому +4

    THIS IS AN INFJ TYPING ME AND MY BEST FRIEND WATCHED THIS TOGETHER AND ITE SO FREAKING ACCURATE. We do balance each other out and I’m so grateful to have her in my life she is one of the best friends I could ever ask for. Love u rachelllll.

  • @synnbloodsuccubus7673
    @synnbloodsuccubus7673 4 місяці тому +1

    I just recently started dating someone who's an INTP. Me being an INFJ it all makes sense now why it has been so easy to open up and feel so happy and connected with them! ❤❤❤

  • @nasayaacuna6815
    @nasayaacuna6815 3 роки тому +17

    Absolutely true. I’m an INFJ and get along perfectly with INTPs!

  • @emptycanvas79
    @emptycanvas79 Рік тому +8

    Infj, my daughter is also an infj dating an intp:)
    Glad to learn that these two can grow stronger with one another

  • @amereneee
    @amereneee 2 місяці тому +1

    INFJ girly here and my hubby is and INTP :) he definitely helped me become more laid back haha

  • @roseandred
    @roseandred 3 роки тому +11

    I am a person who shares INFJ-A and ISFJ-T, balanced in both but some days one more than the other, but, video made me understand so many things I was missing, as well as that never ending question of what it is with INTPs that is so attractive in both platonic and romantic :)

  • @Funkyjude
    @Funkyjude 2 роки тому +10

    Infj here dating almost 6 years (the next month) with an INTP since 2016. We're the golden pair confirmed 🥰💗❤

  • @DatDude0925
    @DatDude0925 2 роки тому +8

    Okay. INTP here. Very happy to see how many folks agree with the findings in this video.
    So, INFJs, who wants to help me test these claims?

  • @yoyoicecube1144
    @yoyoicecube1144 Рік тому +15

    INTP girl here, having a crush on INFJ guy 😅

    • @yrnchu
      @yrnchu Рік тому +1

      Oh, so its not just me

  • @melanie6771
    @melanie6771 2 роки тому +7

    INTP Married to an INFJ. We can definitely understand each other's need for alone time. It is difficult at times because he can be irrational.

  • @juniormynos9457
    @juniormynos9457 3 роки тому +37

    I'm an INTP who had the most exciting yet devastating relationship with an INFJ. Our experience together were extremes. When things were good with us we were extremely happy but when things got bad between us it was equally extremely devastating. There were no mid range. We would break up and make up regularly until one day I ended it and locked her out my life completely. Its been over a year without contact and even though l never stop missing her I prefer to remain single and relatively happy than being in a relationship with a cycle of extreme excitement and depression.

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 роки тому +8

      Wow, thank you for sharing your experience. Unfortunately sometimes any relationship can get to that point and it's never easy making a decision.

    • @alydesf5875
      @alydesf5875 3 роки тому +15

      Same experience here. I am INFJ, he is INTP. I think he had issues with intimacy and took everything like criticism, but I am very empathy prone and solution oriented... he made things feel like business transactions to me...

    • @bradg.3306
      @bradg.3306 3 роки тому +12

      @@alydesf5875 as an intp male 40 years old i feel like that could have been me at 20 but now im less judgmental, and i value being less rigid. logic by itself is a dead end, honestly i think i would be mature enough to invest in life with an infj... i believe they need to be healthy also... honestly ive seen the bottom half of intp males seem to be barely functioning stuck in fear loops. maybe a more balanced intp is better for you? 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @alexandrabiela6134
      @alexandrabiela6134 3 роки тому +8

      @@alydesf5875 dont forget there are lot of factors, maybe you were compatible as MBTI types but not compatible in zodiac signs, it s not only about MBTI

    • @rchl9152
      @rchl9152 2 роки тому +5

      @@alexandrabiela6134 lmaoooooo

  • @Jornanfuentes
    @Jornanfuentes Рік тому +2

    An INFJ (male teen) and my girlfriend it's an INTP and... there's so much I could say about how much I love her.

  • @tushartilwani9540
    @tushartilwani9540 2 роки тому +11

    Somebody needs to create an MBTI dating app.

    • @genkiferal7178
      @genkiferal7178 10 місяців тому

      yeah, but the introverts rarely use it or, when they do, they too often try to read only or answer in 2 or 3 words. aggravating

    • @niezborny2258
      @niezborny2258 10 місяців тому

      It already exists, the name of app is "Boo"

    • @nostalgiken
      @nostalgiken 8 місяців тому

      There's Boo, it's also a social media, that doesn't have to be used only for dating but for making friends as well at the same time or one at the time

    • @genkiferal7178
      @genkiferal7178 8 місяців тому

      @@nostalgiken thanks

  • @pete4527
    @pete4527 3 роки тому +13

    I'm an INTP (although the N/S is close, so IxTP? ): Have been happily married to a beautiful INFJ for over 35 years. I've definitely become more 'stretched' (balanced) over the years, both due to my marriage relationship and other life circumstances.

  • @rumeysatosun9677
    @rumeysatosun9677 Рік тому +2

    I am an Intp female. I was at my last year in my high school so I decided to go a course for my university exam. And there I met someone who made me feel safe. She is an Infj. We loved talking to each other about different topics, life and felt like we found our twin in this world. I still talk to that girl, she make me feel comfortable, lovable.. She is so precious to me. I think that "golden pair" thing is true♡

  • @gregoryritchie7852
    @gregoryritchie7852 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks for your CLARITY by giving SPECIFIC examples.

  • @davidgonzalezsantiago6717
    @davidgonzalezsantiago6717 2 роки тому +5

    1:45 Hay siiii, me está pasando, llevo como 4 meses conociendo a un INTP, soy INFJ, y la verdad es maravilloso, os lo juro, es como vivir en las películas de Disney, pero en todos los sentidos, no sé como explicarlo lo más exhaustivamente posible, pero de verdad, es maravilloso, no quiero separarme nunca de él ❤❤😍😍

  • @501Labsmusic
    @501Labsmusic 3 роки тому +7

    I often get in conflict with my INFJ friend for being "too rigid", as she quite often asserts and we go back and forth with me trying to explain to her that she's being too emotional and it's inefficient while her trying to tell me that efficiency doesn't matter as much as how I'm making other people feel ( a point I'd argue lolol) ... but ultimately we can't seem to just call our friendship quits ... its not unhealthy, but we would definitely argue less with some other person ... but we're continously and forever drawn to each other. It's super weird and I think it goes beyond the MBTI ... I believe there is an innate aspect of human beings that we cannot conceptualize that makes us drawn to certain people and while the MBTI provides groundwork for that concept ... I dont believe it's fully understood in this day and age as yet. ✌🕉😁

  • @istandforfreedom1111
    @istandforfreedom1111 2 роки тому +7

    Reading comments seems like someone needs to come up with a date site to bring more golden 💑 couples together on earth.....

  • @ChristinaWhite-b5h
    @ChristinaWhite-b5h Рік тому +2

    No, but I did feel a connection with an actor I saw on a TV series, and it turns out he is an INTP, and I am an INFJ. It was kind of interesting...

  • @deannastands5141
    @deannastands5141 Рік тому +1

    perhaps my newly found confidante is an intp. we share so much, we don't hesitate to say what we mean, we don't hold back on new ideas and discuss for hours many topics in detail. he's urged me to take time for myself, to not always be so dependable to others, to quit rescuing others. i had increasingly done that for others and was getting tired, so hearing him say that just opened up another side of him that i love. he phones/texts/see me and me to him also, no questions on why we do that. from a grateful infj

  • @parallelend
    @parallelend 8 місяців тому +2

    I was tested infj 3-4 years ago and now Intp 🙂 i guess there are a lot of similarities!

  • @deannahiggs8083
    @deannahiggs8083 3 роки тому +20

    INFJ. My relationships never last.

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 роки тому +13

      Well, we're picky for a reason.. INFJ intuition always knows whats best. Just be sure you aren't holding a fairytale expectation to your romances! 😝 💙

    • @deannahiggs8083
      @deannahiggs8083 3 роки тому +2

      @@PSYCH-O Guy ended up being a prick 🙄 anyway.

    • @savvageorge
      @savvageorge 2 роки тому +2

      INFJs and INTPs both have relationship problems but for opposite reasons. INTPs have underdeveloped social skills, INFJs have underdeveloped analytical skills which gives them trust issues. I think this is why they can make a good pair if they're both honest and patient with each-other.

    • @deannahiggs8083
      @deannahiggs8083 2 роки тому +2

      @@savvageorge You are right. My relationship now is that way and it is great.

    • @kyurei4478
      @kyurei4478 2 роки тому +1

      @@PSYCH-O You're correct. INFJs' relationship problems come from their underdeveloped Se causing them a potential disconnection with reality and the present situation. This can create unrealistic expectations for a perfect relationship. I spent so much time idealizing my perfect relationship but nothing never corresponded perfectly to it, so I was always depressed. Now that I stopped and just let it be to accept little imperfections, my relationships are way healthier!

  • @subhadramahanta452
    @subhadramahanta452 Рік тому +1

    My all time bestie's an INFJ and imma an INTP, the best relation I've had yet!

  • @AnnaSedih
    @AnnaSedih 3 роки тому +11

    I’am an INTP and my mom is INFJ🎉❤️ We a perfect couple of friends and relatives:)

    • @AmanYadav-ij7iq
      @AmanYadav-ij7iq 3 роки тому

      Intps are kinda attractive 。◕‿◕。

  • @CaptainJeanLucPicard
    @CaptainJeanLucPicard Рік тому +2

    INTP s make great friends! Very compatible people. INFJ here.

  • @pizza8725
    @pizza8725 11 місяців тому +1

    I am an INTP and i haven't met an INFJ(maybe bc i am not going outside that often) and i am not into dating yet and i won't judge a person based on their MBTI so only time will tell if my gf would be an INFJ or not

  • @markandoyo2204
    @markandoyo2204 3 роки тому +8

    These relationships are no burden to each others,
    Hence;
    I have difficulty to navigate the perfect one but I must having persistent even to I had found out the imperfect ones to learn a perfect examples on reality over the fancy expectations, and there is nothing bad to prove than to assumes what is bad to turn onto good.
    😁✌️🇵🇭☺️💝💗💖💐🌺🌷🌼🌸❤️🌹

  • @aiuchiha111
    @aiuchiha111 Рік тому +1

    This is the only "golden pair" that realistically makes sense, not just in theory.

  • @killma6865
    @killma6865 3 роки тому +3

    I'm INTP male and the video was spot on my best friend is INFJ and we can relate to because everything we want too from childhood
    But anyway loved your video and it was accurate with me and my friend who I know him for 8 years

  • @LR-kr9sz
    @LR-kr9sz 6 місяців тому +1

    She (infj) agreed to go on a date with me (intp). I'm kinda nervous. i don't want to mess this up. she's amazing.

  • @arisemylove
    @arisemylove 3 роки тому +16

    Christian INFJ here.👋🏼

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 роки тому +3

      Welcome!! 💙👏

  • @timkeng134
    @timkeng134 2 роки тому +2

    I'm an INFJ and I have a close friend that I get along so well with... found out she's INTP and this video explains the rest.

  • @DTheHAge
    @DTheHAge 2 роки тому +2

    I thought it's ENFP. But my experience can confirm. The INTP I had the honor to date/relationship was a very good match for me.

  • @BartholomewHenryAllen
    @BartholomewHenryAllen 2 роки тому +2

    I originally planned to not care about getting into a relationship before getting completely settled in to a good and stable life... Than an ESFJ ruined my plans. The was the most beautiful woman I ever meat with the most attractive personality. But unfortunately, we worked in the same store, which would actually ruin the complete stability I've been working on achieving. Especially after she moved to the same department. Then I ended up finding out she had health problems that would complicate things even more, which made me feel uncomfortable, knowing I still couldn't stop thinking about her. Especially with how often we ended up working together. Especially with every other familiar quiting. Then she became my bosses Boss as an undercover AM. I thought when she told me she was getting married to a friend from over-nights it would give me enough reason to stop liking her, but it still didn't seem to matter. And after working with her even more closely just to get overtime, I ended up freaking out and asking to be moved to over-nights because of how I felt. I especially didn't like her calm demeanor, especially when I was trying to test how uncomfortable I could make her with the facts alone. I was actually most disappointed with how much she just keeped thinking out loud the way she started connecting coincidences. She ended up becoming my best friend after helping me deal with my past about a week later. But unfortunately, she seems to think I don't believe how much she loves her husband and doesn't doesn't stop trying to explain why she does whenever I'm just being honest with certain situations. And after this last time going camping, she seems to have changed her demeanor around me for the 4th time and it's been causing me anxiety. And now that I've finally figured out how to properly understand why I actually ended up falling in love with her, I've realized how emotionally driven I ended up becoming, which ended up turning my anxiety into panic attacks.
    Now I'm trying to figure out how to resolve my new problem so that I can stop making impulsive decisions that ruin my plans for a stable future. And it really doesn't help being afraid that I'm pushing everyone away trying to ask everyone for help. Especially with my boss seemingly ignoring me most. And this is the 5th time she's drastically changed her demeanor around me and it scares me. Especially after she ended up denying telling me stuff and changing what actually happened. And now I'm afraid of not trusting her. Especially knowing her husband fired the last associate she sent to work over-nights. So now I've been looking to move to any other daytime department to move to so I can get that 4 year experience on my first job finally put down on my resume without the complications of the friends I've made making my anxiety worse.
    Meanwhile, I've been researching MBTI, which also seems to creep people out whenever I accidentally know more about them than they tell people. So yeah... There are a lot of people causing me anxiety and I can only do my best to stay away from everyone to try and restabilize myself in a more consistent and understandable investment with little to no changes ruining my general perception of understanding.

  • @ankaralion
    @ankaralion 4 місяці тому +1

    Now, I need to find a INFJ girl as an INTP guy.

  • @ks506soton
    @ks506soton 2 роки тому +2

    I am a INTP, and I am surrounded by the wrong people! I am looking to change this! In the hopes I find a INFJ!

  • @l.l.r.1743
    @l.l.r.1743 Рік тому +1

    I’m an INFJ … I have been in relationships with two INTPs … both extremely selfish and arrogant. Glad to be with an empathetic and considerate ISFJ

  • @silence-is-bliss
    @silence-is-bliss 2 роки тому +4

    Looking forward to someday meeting my INFJ

  • @GermanTaffer
    @GermanTaffer Рік тому

    I (INTP) agree on this points of the video.
    Maybe a ENFJ may be a better choice for an INFJ, but for me as an INTP it is more complicated.
    The usual suggestions are an ESFJ or an ENTJ , but I can see several obstacles , that will raise strongly in the case of conflicts.
    The mix of both , the ESTJ for me is even the most prooblematic type.

  • @nacl2858
    @nacl2858 3 роки тому +9

    intp crushing on an infj rn

  • @shengyi1701
    @shengyi1701 3 роки тому +4

    Watching as an INFJ-T. Fascinating

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 роки тому +1

      Amazing - thank you for watching!

  • @orozukoarts3351
    @orozukoarts3351 2 роки тому +3

    I'm a INTP that's in a relationship with a INFJ, our relationship is more friendship type, I think that make us don't feel weird(?

  • @flowerpower4944
    @flowerpower4944 3 роки тому +4

    Always love your videos👍👍👍👍👍

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 роки тому +1

      We appreciate your kind words - thank you so much!! 💙

  • @kalsaphixyasamon1507
    @kalsaphixyasamon1507 2 роки тому +3

    Infj male here. Hearing a intp is also extremely rare was not what i wanted to hear

  • @flowerpower4944
    @flowerpower4944 3 роки тому +11

    Yea there was I looking at different birth signs for years to see who would be compatible, L.O.L..wish I'd known all this years ago could have had a beautiful match,❤️❤️🤔

    • @Emil_Schaffhausen
      @Emil_Schaffhausen 3 роки тому +1

      haha!

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 роки тому +1

      Hahah, INFJs actually pair with a few different types! But it sure is helpful to know your personality type for finding a match! 😜

    • @EMichaelBall
      @EMichaelBall 2 роки тому

      Star positions have no bearing on personality. People of all 16 types are born on the same proportion everyday.

  • @Kitabpedia
    @Kitabpedia 3 роки тому +5

    Congratulations on 1k subs.

  • @AudioRevelation144Hz
    @AudioRevelation144Hz 3 роки тому +8

    Unicorns simply put 🦄

  • @svmuscle7677
    @svmuscle7677 2 роки тому +4

    if only it was a normal question to ask a girl lol "are you an INFJ?"

  • @tammy6452
    @tammy6452 3 роки тому +1

    Had to watch this when I saw the lead in sentence. I am an infj and never realized why I clicked with so few people until i got older. Not sure if I think any intp knowing me today would quite agree with the golden pair statement on many days.

  • @BLACKHOL5
    @BLACKHOL5 Рік тому +1

    I'm INTP and my little sister is INTP too. I've never friends be INFJ or I don't know around have them.

  • @grillbesteck6319
    @grillbesteck6319 4 місяці тому +1

    I am an INTP and my soulmate is an INFJ 😊

  • @infj-tguy6275
    @infj-tguy6275 3 роки тому +5

    I'm lookin forward to meetin an intp in my day to day life

  • @linah.5369
    @linah.5369 3 роки тому +6

    the first time I took the test I got INTP and the last time I got INFJ.. interesting

    • @PSYCH-O
      @PSYCH-O  3 роки тому +2

      Very interesting.. they are similar in certain ways!

  • @33Jenesis
    @33Jenesis Рік тому +1

    I haven’t fallen for an infj male. Perhaps I met a couple of them but if there’s no mutual attraction, no go.

  • @giorgiaaoli
    @giorgiaaoli 2 роки тому +1

    true! I fell in love with an INTP and I am an INFJ

  • @felipejoseochoagonzalez7661
    @felipejoseochoagonzalez7661 2 роки тому

    INFJ and just started talking with someone INTP we had great deep conversations which is super rare for me to happen and by watching this I realized why 😂

  • @shinoyashino7995
    @shinoyashino7995 3 роки тому +5

    I want Intp bf 😝 after my Isfj ex , I am fed up lol . I need introverted logical intuitive types , anyway, I’m lucky to already have an Intp friend . 😎

  • @brianhales1416
    @brianhales1416 2 роки тому

    I'm an INFJ and have not crossed paths with neither INFJ nor INTP. No, most people I've run into, I end up moving on disheartened. I was married to a narcissist for 16 years, we have a son and as much as I wanted to leave I couldn't cause my father had left me when I was 2. Head over heels in love
    and the idea of having family
    was something I grew up without

  • @livie398
    @livie398 2 роки тому +1

    I have never met anyone yet who understands me. as an INFJ i thought there won't be anyone who understand us and planned to live a lonely life. but seems like I have a little hope to find someone 😆

  • @chazstone6744
    @chazstone6744 Рік тому +1

    @2:05 it says "both the INFJ and INFP"
    I think my INTP-ness is showing... (don't read that aloud)

    • @hidden_ki394
      @hidden_ki394 Рік тому

      Be silent you intp! You know demn well what they meant...

  • @FreezaNoWaza
    @FreezaNoWaza 3 роки тому +7

    INTP here :)
    Are you INFJ?

  • @TAKEULTIMATETOTHEFACE
    @TAKEULTIMATETOTHEFACE 3 роки тому +1

    I have a few INFJ friends and I even have an INFJ sibling. But I don't think I'm close to any of them in particular........still, I agree that whenever we come either. We make a great team.

  • @josho8539
    @josho8539 Рік тому +1

    INTP+INFJ: great pair, understand each other well
    INTP+ENFJ: primal fear, avoid at all costs

    • @snowbum121
      @snowbum121 Рік тому

      😂 spot on
      ex wife: enfj
      girlfriend: infj
      Wish I seen this sooner

  • @thegreatarkanum3037
    @thegreatarkanum3037 2 роки тому +1

    INFJ EMPATH Guy here , where is my INTP other half ??? that would be sweet if I found one ....

    • @hidden_ki394
      @hidden_ki394 Рік тому

      Prolly I her room she never leaves, watching animals or doing some other activity

  • @joytiston9769
    @joytiston9769 2 роки тому

    Nice to know that an INTP is a well balance partner for an INFJ personality type. Haha... I like that idea but let's try. INFJ here 😊

    • @Normal_user_coniven
      @Normal_user_coniven 2 роки тому

      I am INTP, and have no friends, because I didn't find a human to trust. But, trying to contact with INFJs wasn't in my mind, but maybe I should try talking to INFJ, who knows...

  • @chitragyabyshekharghosh
    @chitragyabyshekharghosh 2 роки тому +1

    I am an INTP... I really want an INFJ in my life... Another INTP will do but that might make the life boring I guess.

  • @soufftae6122
    @soufftae6122 2 роки тому +3

    I'm an INFJ, now I know why I am attracted to Jungkook of BTS..

    • @naturelover-kc8di
      @naturelover-kc8di 2 роки тому +1

      jungkook is an isfj, jin & suga is an intp! im intp too but my crush is jk, bias is j-hope, bias wrecker suga and all members are my favorite ot7

    • @soufftae6122
      @soufftae6122 2 роки тому +1

      @@naturelover-kc8di based on jk’s ig post last dec (if i remember it correctly) he took a new mbti test two times and the result was ISFP-T and INTP-T 😊

    • @naturelover-kc8di
      @naturelover-kc8di 2 роки тому +1

      @@soufftae6122 ohh i see well thanks baddie i didn't know about it :)😊

  • @abbskebabs6288
    @abbskebabs6288 2 роки тому +1

    I'm an intp female amd my ex boyfriend is an infj (I think) our relationship started out great but it quickly became toxic. He cheated on me and ignored me and I got too clingy because I felt like he didn't care about me.

  • @muhammadanjum5235
    @muhammadanjum5235 2 роки тому +2

    I m an intp and i have a friend who is infj and they are good

  • @cabbage_cat
    @cabbage_cat Рік тому

    Somehow I've always gravitated towards INFJs. As an INTP I wonder if there's a pattern behind this.

  • @slothsinabucket7856
    @slothsinabucket7856 2 роки тому +1

    Infj here and really likes a intp.