Out With The Old, In With The New: Ann Marie Adam v Rafael Rodriguez pt 1
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- Опубліковано 4 лют 2025
- Ann Marie says there are several red flags waving in her face and she’s unsure about her relationship with her fiancè, Rafael. She says he’s controlling, disrespectful and a cheater.
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I have no sympathies for a woman who moves in with a man after 3 days with two young daughters. I'm not saying he's a sex offender but the risk is awfully high when you have non bio man living with a single mother and cohabiting with them
Exactly!!!
Even some bio dads are evil and do awful things
@@chechechance5193 that is true but the sex abuse risk is much lower when it's a bio mom and bio dad living together. The risk goes up if the mom cohabits with a male that's a non relative.
her poor judgment is a danger to her children
Judge Lynn would have flipped. You dont move in with no guy and you dont take your kids to move in with a stranger
Would have handed her butt to her!! That’s so crazy
DO NOT MOVE IN WITH ANY GUY!!!HAVE YOUR OWN PLACE!!!!!
Exactly! Judge Lynn would have, and provided a copy of her book! Loneliness should never place her Daughters well being in jeopardy, she compromised their safety for ding-a-ling!!!!
She would of called him a Dude 😅
Nuff Said
She wasn't a successful cosmetologist if she left her business and clients behind for a man in 3 days. She was looking for a way out of something.
Exactly, other dude probably got tired of taking care of her
@@toniaellen5271And her children.
Trying to get away from that ex she mentioned!
As an adult you come to realze that "instantly hitting it off" with someone could be a very dangerous trap. That's how people end up in toxic relationships with narcissists.
Right! And especially a woman with children. If you’re childless and want to roll the dice, go for it. But never if you’re a mother.
That love bombing!!!
Not a narcissist necessarily, just not a good person.
And also how people end up dead
Euphoria is beginning attraction😅
I dont understand why she's mad at him. She moved in with a complete stranger.
He have to be a mess to let a woman with 2 children move into your home no man in his right mind would allow a baby mother off the street to do that he must just wanted a woman to lay next to you
Moving her girls into a strange man's house after 3 days!! What!!
After 3 days
After 3 days?!!!!!?????!!!!!??
She was homeless!!!
I bet she was about to get evicted and needed a place to stay asap.😂😂😂😂
I definitely think that when people are OVER protective and overbearing in a relationship, it's a RED FLAG! 🚩 it's one thing to care and another to be narcissistic and controlling!
True
I thought it was a red flag that he "just so happened" to go to club that she was at. After you thinking she is a liar because she didn't communicate about going to get drinks with friends. Now she communicates with you for you to just "pop up" by the way she should've never been acting like that with that girl
3 days, 2 daughters and 100 miles away! Absolutely reckless!!!
Yes
If my Kids mom moved my daughter in with a guy she knew 3 days, I would have a problem.
A dangerous red flag 🚩
Would you complain, or take custody?
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Rightfully so!
Yes sir
Ain’t no way I’m moving in with nobody in 3 days. Ion care how much we hit it off!! You got girls!! Smh
Watching her doing prom girls hair?? NO way!!!
That’s too much control!!! 🫣😫🏃🏾
sick
Girl, RUN, and I mean RUN fast because he is showing signs of DANGER and ABUSE
The judge missed the mark on this one. Darling...you should leave. Run. Literally breakup, delete and block this man.
He is completely controlling and the judge was not hard enough on that point. People like him usually end up killing their spouses...
Im genuinely fearful for her
Honestly this relationship sounds abusive and toxic!
Yep!! Too toxic!! But that’s what happens when you move into someone’s place in 3 days
We don't need a next time on this case. We good.
😂😂😂😂 I'm dead.
Both of them….. need to go their separate ways…. Period, point blank!!!
...3 days???? I don't even wanna hear what she has to say
THESE WOMEN ARE VERY CARELESS WITH THEIR CHILDREN AND NEW MAN
If she stays, she's going to end up dead. Leave NOW!
WHAT?! 😭
He does sounds nuts
He 👎🏽👇🏼🤡🤢
I enjoy Judge Star, but I do not believe that you have to tell a man every step that you make.....The Judge gave him leverage to believe that he was right.
He is insecure and sounds dangerous...
You cannot love a person more than you love yourself.
I don't like the fact that she is talking about her daughters when SHE is the one who subjected her daughters to a perfect stranger.
Red flags to the maximum degree.
But when you have a family together, it is a little more important to know each other’s whereabouts.
Man or woman... its called space
They don't have a family together
Another bad mother. These women should not be responsible for children when they make such irrational life choices themselves.
Just selfish ‼️
Putt and her needs B4 the safety of her little girls.
She's already calling them his 'step-daughters ... for crying out loud‼️
She is a dumpster fire
@mlm1916 You say "needs", I say selfish desire to have someone put a bandaid on her low self-esteem rather than fix herself.
That's a chicken who feels like she can't be alone.
Tell her Judge Star she is showing her daughter's that this is how you are supposed to allow a man to treat you, STOP THE CYCLE BEFORE MARRYING THAT MESS OF A MAN , SMH 😡 💯
I’m just going to be honest here she is toxic as well she has 2 kids no Father or husband around any man marry her he marrying aa mess as well
This judge is too soft.
I bet judge Toller would put they both in theirs slides.
Don't marry him
Judge Star was missing the mark here. If he doesn't like how she dances, leave the relationship. If he can't trust her to go to work, he should leave her. They clearly didn't set expectations on how they would operate within their relationship so going full hulk on a grown woman b/c she doesn't act how you think she should is not okay, at all. Her moving in after 3 days and staying on the phone with him while at work is crazy... They seem to enjoy their toxic relationship.
Honestly, I didn't see anything wrong with her dancing with a girl. Girls dance together all the time, and it's purely innocent. I agree that she has some growing up to do and she does need to leave him, but the way she went in about her dancing with another girl threw me off a little bit. Lol
If she had the ability to shut up and listen, she might be able to hear her own words and how diametrically opposed she is to a successful life. She is her own worst enemy!! EXHAUSTING!
100% agree! First sentence talking about her divorce, how she’s gonna get herself together, with her girls and first thing she does is move in with a strange man after 3 days🙄
He's escalating, RUN. There's no way Im sitting on facètime and risking my business for anybody. So if we have to break up, BYE.
You better leave that fool Alone!!!!
Red flags are blowing a Warning to you!!!
So embarrassing!!
It irritates me that judge Star keeps diminishing his actions. His actions are not acceptable. When you're grown you're responsible for your own actions.
Am I reaching thinking it’s child abuse to move your kids in with a man you only knew for 3 days ?
Not reaching at all. It is a big sign of neglect.
Yup
It is wrong
Nope.
Nah. The judge didn’t cuss him out enough for smacking that drink out her hand and pulling her out the club for me.
He might be her worst nightmare in life. She better RUN
Bet he cheating or has been cheated on micro managing her like that. Also she dumb running off within a man to live with him in a week, especially when she has two vulnerable girls.
She doesn’t realize that, when you point a finger at somebody, there are three pointing at you. She kept accusing him for this and for that, but she instigated her own shit towards him. Also, having three children and moving in with a guy after only three days of dating, is everything but carefully planning. How could she know she was moving with a pedophile, or a violent man, or a thief, or whatever, if she moved her kids and herself with a man she didn’t even know his existence three days before they met?!?
Facts !!
She instigated all this drama 🎭
@@AriusBLK OH YEAH!! BIG TIME!! If you watch the part ll, it is VERY clear especially towards the end when the judge gives her conclusion with her bailiff.
Oh the judge was way out of line! He is beyond controlling! You maybe in a relationship but you dont own her!
Judge Lynn would have gave her the business for moving in with a stranger with her young daughters in tow
The best judge!
Judge was wrong on this one. He was completely out of line and she should not have to update him on her whereabouts every minute of the day. Also what kind of mother just moves her and her kids in with some stranger after 3 days…?
The earring is KILLING ME!!! In the words of KRS 1...sort of, strike, 1, 2, 3, 4 and 5!!! Bye. They are not compatible. Plus she moved in in 3 days? What kind of Root he put on her? Smh.
Killing me too. RED FLAG.
Probably some D-I-C-K-root😂😂😂
Yeah Kieffer Sutherland called.... they are remaking The Lost Boys.... they are gonna need that earring back.
She's a fool to remain with him on any level. I feel he could be dangerous to her physically.
I know we shouldnt compare judges but cases like this one. I can just hear Judge Toler fussing ar her foe moving in with him and telling her to run and giving her a copy of her book. Judge Star fussed at her more than she did him like she caused his behavior, smh
My granny always said this, “you don’t poop where you eat!!!!
I really think its child endangerment to be move your kids in with a stranger.
Agreed
Judge Star was off on this one & definitely had an attitude... this couple needs to separate
I thank my mom for her example
Left a 10 year "toxic" relationship, only to jump into another one after three days! With two DAUGHTERS!!! As parents, we don't have the right to be reckless and irresponsible with our children's safety and wellbeing. Ever! ...I can't with this case...🙄
Star is full of it in this one, accusing her of grinding on woman! He’s controlling !!! She’s letting him off the hook!!
I thought I could finish this, but the wife talks a good game but she's still out here making chickenhead moves.
He is a straight control freak.
Her advice is horrible! This man is controlling, and the lady should be careful. I hope this lady listens to her heart
They never leave guys like this, but if you're too nice they will leave you in a heartbeat I don't get it.
Man!!!
Judge Lynn you should have called in on this BS.!! Judge Star Nope!, you are basically agreeing with this Foolishness!!
Girl get your daughters and get Gone!!
😂😂😂 I'm giggling at the idea of Judge Lynn watching these new episodes & her husband telling her she can't call the show to complain.
SHE DONT CARE ABOUT HER DAUGHTERS
Cateribg to him and paying attention to him??? Oh dear, such a huge jump into a relationship.
Right!? He picked her bc he recognized an easy mark for control.
Nope!
He’s outta control!
You’ll have to sleep with one eye open!
Yeah she needs to leave him ASAP
They are not good together. Diminishing red flag behaviors, her acting inappropriately, him being too controlling. Neither see the error of their ways either. Split up.
HE SOUNDS PARANOID. HE FOLLOWED HER THERE.
Judge Star is just wrong today!
Can't stand when someone said he's controlling bc he wants to know where you at if you gonna be in a relationship with someone you gotta communicate basic communication folk
But The other way, once she tells him he simply show up like in The client house.
I understand her, my firts boyfriend was like this.
In The end he persue me and I have to move away and delete all social media.
He show up on my salon and all The staff say he was acting strange, because he dont see me washing my hair on the back door.
Exactly...my wife's job don't allow spouses to attend their annual Christmas parties, she's worked for the same company for nearly 20 years and I've never been to one
🤔
This was actually scary to watch.
I’m willing to bet $ that there is physical abuse in this terrible relationship.
“Controlling” code word = ABUSIVE. Smh.
Trendy words. I love that part
The plantif is all about herself. She isn't thinking about her daughters. Normally office parties are only for employees unless a bigger event. He didn't want the plantif at the party. He is embarrassed by the plantif.
WHO ELSE WAS HE WATCHING CREEPY
The key words he said here are “ I’m stuck in my ways”. So she either has to accept his “controlling "behavior or move on🤷🏾♀️, cause he ain’t changing, because he sees NOTHING wrong with his actions.
Sometimes when we meet someone and see red flags, we need to watch out. We need to nip it in the bud.
He too possessive. She needs to run!!!
He's a cheater, cheaters believe you're cheating also.
I don't even want to watch part 2 I am finished with this BS!😂😂
He has NO right to put his hands on her.... she also needs to be more respectful of the relationship with her actions!
I don’t trust her storytelling enough to say he physically put his hands on her! On her drink? Absolutely.
I'm so disappointed she moved in with a man she only knew for three days WITH HER DAUGHTERS!!! Don't know if he's a child molester, don't know if he'd rape her daughters, don't know nothin about this man! ... SMH!!!
Star’s advice is dangerous to women. I miss Judge Lynn, ugh…
Saaaaaame... judge Lynn would've told her to RUN asap..
Star is a clown but it's entertaining so 🤡🤡🤡🤡
How so? Just curious about your thoughts.
I feel like Judge Starr made too many excuses for him! She didn't tell him she went out after work because she wanted to have a moment where he didn't bug the crap out of her!
yes and what irritates me about her is she always brings up her husband and her relationship like we care like lady you give that man too much credit he maybe cheating on you lol🤣
Im so disappointed in Judge Star on this case. I watch too much true crime, i can see them ending up in a muder-sucide situation
She sounds desperate. It's gross. She put herself and her children in a very dangerous situation.
I am curious to know if Judge Lynn is watching Judge Star episodes?
And shaking her head.
I don't think she'd be able to stomach it ..
The judge is way off on this one.
She's way off frequently, I really dont like her.
If stuck on stupid was a person. If zippy head Fred was front and center. Ain’t no fixing him. He is who is.
She had every right to dance and have fun! He’s not her dad!
She is a whole grown woman, she shouldn't have to report to him every step. she makes. This man has issues. If I'm with a man he better trust me enough to know that if I make a decision for myself, he doesn't have to worry if I'm doing the wrong thing or not! If I call him, it is a courtesy call and not an obligation!
She could not be bothered to pick up the phone and text that she is going to a bar after work, but can have him watching her baud teenage girls' hair? I am not excusing his behavior at all but she is silly. From moving in with him immediately with her kids and putting up with the stalking and controlling behavior.
Upload more judge Mablean episodes please
Judge Star is missing the control issue. Girls do go out and have fun dancing together. His reaction is over the Top!
Miss, YOU need to RUN!❤🙏🏼☝🏿🙌🏼
Leave Him. Ain’t No Way
Judge Star really missed the target this time!
I miss Judge Lynn Toler. She was the best for the job.
I totally agree. IDK what Star was doing here.
3 Days 🤦🏽♀️
Her first mistake was, moving in with him in 3 days. Now anything can happen. Being in a committed relationship is not only about you. Her girls are taking their lead from her.
He's a narcissist
That's what you get for moving in with an internet stranger after just 3 days. smh
I feel the same way about my stylist! I hate seeing hair stylist with busted ass hair! Rubs me the wrong way 😂
Judge Star you’re wrong on this one! She doesn’t have to report to him her every move!
No you're wrong true enough she don't have to report to him but she's in a relationship with her.
She don't have to ask his permission but she can't say I'm going to go get a drink with my friends I will be an hour
That’s absolutely disgusting she moved her two daughters in with this man 100 miles away from their home after seeing him the first time 3 days prior…How selfish
Desperate women end up with controlling, over bearing men. He’s too much I would feel suffocated and LEAVE. But then again she got with him after 1-2-3!!! 3! 3! DAAAYYSS!!
talking about all types of emotional intelligence and maturity but moving in with someone 3 days after meeting them is INSANE lmao
3:29 immediate NO
6:10 & another one. That break-up would’ve been fine by me because why would anyone want to continue their life that way
Oooohhh a 2 part it's going to be gooood
Girl run the other way!!!!
I'm a mobile notary. I am in more homes than the average person. I am meeting up with new people with each appointment. My husband knows I would never compromise our relationship and honestly I hate humans. If my husband checked in on me like this.....he would have to deal with my wrath for bothering me while I'm conducting business.
She bogus for feeling like she didn’t feel the need to let him know where she went after work. She would’ve been mad as hell if he did that.
Star is advising a woman to stay in an abusive and controlling relationship. This isn't the first time.
I feel bad for her 2 daughters, and she should have NEVER put her girls in this living situation because I just know that they have seen this male abuse their Mom.