POV: Double Standards (girl version) part 3...
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Or when you dress up and your mom suddenly goes "who are you trying to impress?" Like... I'm trying to impress MYSELF and wear more types of clothes. 😭
For real! I get criticized for never dressing "like a lady," but the second I put on a dress or skirt, it's like I've said I'm gonna go be a stripper or something. Like...this is the reason why besties.
I don’t like dresses,as all boy clothes are comfortable as heck and girl clothes are see through and itchy.
@@Orca.11 fr
@@Orca.11not all the time.
@@Orca.11
Jeans exist you know
ok but if i pushed that baby out it’s having my last name 💀
LOL fr
FRRR LMAOO
LMAO BAHAHAHA YOUR SO REAL 😭
Fr
EXACTLY THO 💀
Guys don't usually shave their legs, but women often do because someone says, "Why are your legs so hairy? It looks disgusting." These ridiculous double standards.
Thisss
Because males looks more "masculine" with body and facial hair
@@Happy_Fox143Sometimes their leg hairs remind me of those shit flys, you know, the ones with long, messy leg hairs that eat poop?
@@2DeathComesSlowly1 🤣
Personally sometimes I don't like the hairs in my legs (mostly the ones near the feet) cuz they can be so dark but I love the ones on my arms. Fluffy
Boys when emotional: “men don’t cry, suck it up.” Girls when emotional: “you’re so dramatic, get over it”
this right here. doesnt even matter on the gender just matters on the person 😢
Nah, girls will have every girl friend they know and plushie they have tell them it’s ok.
@@TheDuckMVP thats what i hope happens but not for me lol. im a girl but jar up my feelings
ooo.. i really wish thats what it was like@@TheDuckMVP
@@TheDuckMVPwell, it would be nice if it would be like this, but unfortunately it's not, at least for me
Women have to suffer 9 months (and more after!) just to be told it’s selfish and wrong to want their baby to have their last name. That’s disgusting
Fr.
I have both my parents' last names. My dad's last name is my middle name, and my mom's last name is my last name. My brother has the opposite. I love it sm
I personally only have my mother’s last name
in brazil it's common to have BOTH last names
@@waffleaffle231that’s actually really smart tbh
This is so true, my teacher asked the whole class what is their hobby in entertainment, i said gaming and Playing games like gta V, she laughed and scolded me and told me, "r u a boy???, if ur a girl behave like one alr?" I was REALLY sad 😭🥲
Edit: Y'all TYSM for all the replies, u r really supportive, wish my teacher was like u, btw I'm still in school
What the hell is wrong with her? Nothing is wrong with a woman or girl liking those games if the girl is old enough for gta lol)
tf? thats so wrong she cant force you to not like something and what you like or do isnt even her business
I’m so sorry about that. It pisses me off that that is actually how people see the world. Please don’t let her get you down, like what you like and love what you love. No one should be trying to stop you, including yourself, so just have fun because this is the one life we have.
Teacher asked us what we want to do in future and then draw it. I said some typical men profession, i dont remember exactly what it was and she scolded me and forced me to draw myself as a cashier and said it is the only dream job i would be able to do... btw. I almost have a phd degree now in men dominated field.
Wow, and here I am, I appreciate women who game wholeheartedly. That teacher was an asshole.
"Are you sure you wanna do that?"
Yes it came out of ME
ITS MY CHILD? WHY YOU ASKING ME?
Yess!
Chopper pfp!!!
frr
Exactly.
“I wanna joint the last name”
“why? It’s gonna be too long”
“…”
“fine then it’s going to have my last name”
“….”
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I love how she understands both genders though!
Edit: Guys I said both because in her double standards shorts she only does female and male it doesn't mean there are only 2 genders
every*
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@@vidaa11 every* x
@@Alex-pt6puit’s only two genders
@@Alex-pt6pucorrect, it's every, there are more than two. Should be "both sexes".
Bro today my mom was telling my lil bro that a hat wasn't "girly" so he would wear it and i told her that her son being raised to be sexist was bad and she says to me
"Go clean like a good daughter"
I am now on strike
Lmao now don’t touch a single cleaning product if you don’t have to, she can learn not to be sexist the hard way
I would be out of that house idc if I’m homeless hell naw
dont listen, you dont have to.
Though I had been dealing with that my entire life by my mother, I hope you can have a good finance stability and leave when you can and as soon as you can. My mother is the same...
Why are these types of moms are so sexist... Like ain't you a women too? What happened to "girls support girls"?
I can relate to the first one but with video games and anime. Whenever I wanted to talk about my interests with my male classmates, they would either run away from me, ignore me, or whisper mean stuff about me to each other. I remember one of them saying "Guys, ignore her, she's just pretending to like anime and video games because she wants to be different from the rest of the girls who like make-up and clothes"
They are brain washed by their parents
Just play video games and watch anime when is the break and if they ask about it just tell them about the game then they might change their perspectiv and if not just do what you love
Same here, my bestie thinks that I like anime just cause others do, but I actually do enjoy it. (She’s very nice tho)
Exactly. I go to an only girls school, and one of my teachers likes RvB, halo, and many other things I like. But some of my classmates say that I only say I like those things because I want to impress him, though I’ve enjoyed those things before we even met. And they keep acting like what I like is childish. One time I was watching RvB with my friend, and two of them walked over. One said “side eye. What are you watching?” I replied “Red vs Blue” and the other said “My three year old brother watches that.” And I said “A show… with swearing and dark humour… barely known by anyone.” And they replied “if it’s barely known, then why are you watching it? I mean, it doesn’t look like a show for girls.” And I completely ignored them after that, watching it with my friend. It’s so annoying…
A 3 YEAR OLD WATCHING RED VS BLUE!?
THE KID IS 3 HE SOULD BE WATCHING BABY SHARK NOT RED VS BLUE
“Why? The last name will be too long”
*Mexicans with unlimited last names*
The people with only three letters:
👁️👄👁️
Marc Marquez adrellina (that's one of the shorter ones)
I hate the fact that women need to change their last names when they get married, what’s the point?
Tradition
They don’t need to times have changed
It’s tradition because women were basically given away from their dad to another man 🙄 but it’s not required anymore. I didn’t do it when I got married mainly because it’s not some streamlined automatic process and I don’t want to spend hours and hundreds of dollars on changing my last name lol
They aren’t legally required to in the United States. It’s just a standard, but plenty of women choose to keep their last names.
@@thehollyannrose I thought it was an automatic process, woah. Here in Mexico is not needed to change your last names (we have two) when get married
Schools when boys wear shorts: "This is fine."
Schools when girls wear shorts: *"Those are too short, you're distracting the boys, go home and put something more appropriate on."*
fr
exactly. if they're so easily distracted that they can't control themselves around the sight of--gasp--shoulders and knees, then why are they allowed to do things like drive cars? because after all they are so easily distracted right?
@@user-xp3pn6hj7e fr. It’s so dumb. I’m happy I live in Europe and schools don’t have these bullshit rules
@@user-xp3pn6hj7eright I could never be attracted to shoulders in school or ankles I don’t get it is it really because I’m a female what are the males seeing that I’m not how u get turned on over some knees💀😂💀
Ummm I’m pretty sure that the cause is not about the gender but just the bullying or Asian Pro Max Parents. If what you say was true, nobody will be wearing shorts……
About the last part
My male teacher in physics and chemistry
Had suddenly his name changed and everyone was confused and then he told us that he got married and took his wife’s name cause he was being bullied for his last name when he was little wich is sad but I think it’s cool that he went with the name of his wife 🥰
She gets hate for being flat and other stuff, but look at her. She's such a star!
Boys: if they try something new that girls like (like earrings or growing out your hair) they’re considered gay.
Girls: people find everything to say about them and end up being rude
Both: can never be enough for the people they are around, they learn to be bendy so they can bend to what other people think is good
I personally love long haired dudes! I like all!
I agree ☝️
I’m a trans dude, and I want to get my ears pierced, and personally.. I’m gay. Will date a guy, 100% (still single).
I love having my hair long, despite people saying short hair looks better. I also got multiple ear piercings just because I wanted them, so far I only had one person call me gay for my earrings, when he himself also had earrings, ik that means i was lucky, but at the same time, even if i was called it by more people, it's a case of it's something I wanted, not you.
@@ItsThatOneGamblerAgain congrats! Uhm… ty for sharing? I’m not saying I did it’s just if I offended you then I’m sorry,
"what does your wife think?" "she doesn't have a choice that's just how it is" and growing up without a person like that as a father is also how it is
Fr what do u mean “ she doesn’t have a choice” fuck that
I personally don’t have daddy issues (my dad is an angel 💯) but this is something my mom would say, can confirm this is the truth.
@@armyblink7928if I’m married to that type of man I’m leaving instantly 💀
@@IloveleoAKAmycat right I’ll become happily divorced because there’s no way anyone has a right to say I don’t have a choice this is my body tf
like yea bitch what the fuck do you mena i have no choice?! if i have no choice then youre gonna have a divorce paper, and you know what? im pretty sure i can be really happy by myself
This is so relatable. My friend(girl) said she had a toy car collection and a teacher(boy) came in and he said laughing girls aren't into cars dummy. Its like there are girls stuff and boy stuff. Ugh i feel sorry for them
As a girl with a joint last name, what you said is so true. The amount of teachers and kids my age telling me it was too long was huge. Kids would ask why I wasn't 'just normal' by taking my father's like them, and other adults would judge my parents decisions. That being said, I will be doing the same for my child if I have one.
Honestly, joint last names are really cool. When I think about it, I realize I never met anyone with a joint last name
Imagine each and every one of them decides that their child gets a joint last name and you start a chain reaction:
Anna suncherrypianocatdogsomethingidkwhattoputherethereisaspiderinmyhouse are you here?
@@LovelyLylla you actually scared me bc my name is anna help 😭
Fun fact about joint surnames: The so called "Marie Curie" is actually named Maria Skłodowska-Curie, but for some "unknown reasons" (*cough* sexism patriarchy and misoginy+ polish culture erasure in history*cough*) people call her only by her husband's surename and make her name sound like she was french just like him. Her surname isn't even that hard you just say "Squo-dov-ska(h)" but ohh how dare a woman decide to keep her surname she grew up with
Edit: guys please ignore the person who responded first they're a troll and Clara's hater, don't give them attention please
Who cares
@@JesusOrDestructionIt looks to me that your here for destruction
@@JesusOrDestruction if you don't then scroll genius
@@JesusOrDestruction I care. And many others too.
@@JesusOrDestructionthat's what your mom said when you were born
and then the boys say it's easier to be a girl😢
(it isn't they are equal)
Cuz it is. Stop complaining 😂
And u stfu and stop blabbering about shit u don't know off how bout that huh wanna be chad or some other mf idk man suit yourself @@JesusOrDestruction
@JesusOrDestruction well since yt keeps deleting replies I would say it again do not butt in to women's business and looking at your comments I can say that u are probably a 10 yr old wanna be Chad another toxic little boy who thinks putting women down is cool forgetting that he came out of one
@@JesusOrDestructionlooks like someone hasn’t been learning many lessons
@@JesusOrDestruction ooh found the insecure sexist middle schooler
The first one is SO TRUE
Happens all the time to me
She’s serving Bloom from Winx Club and I’m here for it
This is so true , 24/7 in skl the teachers keep on saying “ u R gOoD aNd rEsPeCtfUl gIrLs yOu nEEd to Be cLeAn anD oRgAnIzEd aNd qUiTe “ soooooo annoying , like they think we girls are nothing but w piece of paper .
What's sad is that they were probably raised with the same aspects and probably were their mothers since history repeats itself. 😞
Stop complaining
@@WiltedWindsgood
@@JesusOrDestruction shut up please
@@JesusOrDestruction shut tf up u sexist. You’re probably trying to be an ‘alpha male’ or smth. Let me guess, you look up to Andrew tate?
Am a boy,but this person is helping me regain my self esteem
THIS SONG>>>>>
Its so annoying when people call girls 'pick mes' because they dont wear makeup 24/7
i can relate🥺being facing this double standards
Suck it up
Same
That make-up thing I faced it with women more than men! Starting from my mother, she always tells me to put on concealer at least cause I look pale or my friends... which makes me more conscious and find it hard to go out with a bare face
Your beautifull the way you are so don't listen to others that thing you need makeup on and tell you that you are not beautifull if you don't wear makeup
Pale skin is beautiful. Don’t let *ANYONE* tell you otherwise, especially your mom. Jesus, what’s wrong with that woman? I want to pay her a visit and give her a personal knuckle sandwich.
my parents tell me never to wear makeup
Same thing. All men that i know don't even see the difference. I have to be honest, i got more bad comments from other women then from men. But your face is your face, always be kind kind to it. :)
trust me, it can never be too long. my parents, whom which are lesbians to clarify. decided to do a joint name on me and my sister, one of my moms name is 9 letters, meanwhile the other is 10. i figured out how to spell it at a very young age. ladies, if you want to joint names, go right ahead, nothing is stopping you.
Tyy for understanding that both gender have their problems. All these girls r making boys look like they don’t go through any trouble and that all boys are the same and the worst. Tysm you changed my whole perspective of how I look w ur vids😭😭😭
People who thinks she is pretty and shes brave for being herself ❤❤
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Instead of focusing on the topic of the video. The only thing y’all have to say is how pretty she is? Lol, this channel is just a delusional zone.
sorry im just trying to be nice to hur
meee!
Not me
@@JesusOrDestructionhey buddy if you dont have anything nice to say then keep your mouth shut
Our society is so problematic sometimes
Sometimes?
@armyblink7928 fr, it's actually always
@@MaxParkerLIFE right
I wanted to put it more nicely, but you guys are right tbh
The worst part is when you KNOW you sound like a pick me when you say you enjoy being with boys platonically.
That isn't what a pick me is a pick me is when a female Puts down other females for Male attention
I hate to think that the only reason I have a double barrelled last name is because my moms last name is rare and my dads isn’t so my dad wanted me and my brother to be ‘unique’ or some shit
The first one is so true for me I love cars and people always say I’m a pick me because of that 🙄
The cars one is so relatable
Literally! I love F1 and have been an avid fan since before I could speak and ppl still ask can you even name 3 drivers?😂
I understand the cars part so much ❤
showing double standards for both genders is what makes you my fav person who does stuff like this. both go through so much 💖
She is Bloom from "The Winx".
Yesss
Frrr, my Teacher taught us about gender stereotypes and How we shouldn’t stereotype people based on gender!! 🥹
The top from the girl character looks really cool!
Can you do a tutorial of your eye makeup?
She is pretty and also makes relatable videos anyone who relates to this
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I Relate to this so much
I’m a car and plane lover ever since I’m a kid. I’m also a photographer and take photos of both cars and planes. A lot of people assume that since I’m a girl I do that for attention but really that’s just my hobbies and it’s okay.
Honestly im scared to talk about videogames with new people because im scared theyd think Im a pick me...
Come in France . Girls aren't ashamed because they're gamers.
I love joint/ mixed last names it so cute
my parents chose to go down the joined last name route with me and my brother, sure its long but its really nice to have😊
this is kinda off topic but I’m impatiently waiting for this years f1 season to start 😭
I understand completely tho, i like studying history, geography and politics, i do wrestling and got first in a state tournament and like hunting so i can relate.
The first one really hits hard, in class (free time) I used to watch football/soccer highlights but some of the boys in my classes would say things like "your just watching that bc of me" same with F1 racing but when I would watch volleyball they wouldn't say anything.
Clara and Melanie are my comfort people
Yeah but Melanie Martinez r*ped/SA’d two people so :/
I have to last names this is normal if you were born in Spain.
I'm brazillian and I have 5 last names
how do you even get 5 last names????@@Itz_Zagha
@@JustSomeoneHi Idk, it's normal here. My nephew have 6 last names lol
it is pretty cool lol@@Itz_Zagha
the being into sports is so real.anytime I tell a boy I’m into watching basketball their responses is “name top 5 players of all time” like shut up‼️
or if i wear like a slipknot shirt they go "name 5 songs!!!!" name 5 women who feel safe around u 🙏😭
@@itzzsfx OMG FR 😭☠️
Yea and wearing a band shirt or a skater skirt would go like : NAME 5 SONGS or OOOO DO YOU EVEN SKATE. (I’m a guy but that’s how it would usually go)
As a kid with a joint last name, my mom got bashed for doing that despite my dad not wanting me to have both last names, but she had already filled the thing out. So, when she had three other kids, she kept there last names as my dad's making me the only member of my family to still hold my mom's surname 👍
As a guy who has a very basic skin care routine, I can tell you most men laugh when I tell them I use face masks. Never had one of the bros tell me I look fresh
What matters is how you feel about, during and after your skincare routine. Making efforts for your skin is good. Make sure you are using safe, healthy and natural products though. I feel most conscious when it comes to skincare.
My “friends” called me a zombie because i had a sleeping problem.They didnt care
For the last part, that's why i'm glad here in Mexico put the last name of the father and the mom :) (ofc you can choose to just put the mom/dad, but it normally be with both last names and the cases that just have one last name is due to parents divorced or single ones)
It’s just stupid how people act this way
I'm so glad you exist, your videos give me confidence that it's not wrong to treat my body the way I do.
I find it absurd how there are people who consider facial care products an absolute necessity, when it's simply a choice and you're just as healthy and if you use them or not, it's just a matter of aesthetics and comfort (my opinion). For me, health comes first, as long as what you do does not negatively affect your health, I see no problem in doing it.
I know that many products increase the self-confidence of the people who use them, but really? It seems to me that the very fact that only when the person uses those products does have confidence in themself, it makes them lose confidence in their own true self because they are so attached to the material side. Plus it doesn't seem fair to me that we need some material products and aspects to trust our immaterial person, soul, personality.
I hope my message is understood correctly because I am tired of being misunderstood. Everyone has the right to make their own choices and I respect that, I just find it sad and unfair that some people think we have to be dependent on material things in order to see value in ourselves.
We are all human and we are beautiful and valuable without doing anything but just being human and nothing can change that. ❤️🩹
Being into cars/sports is SO REAL, i have an older brother who basically raised me, ofc I'll hav same interests as him 😭
The worst part is that it is other girls that just prejudice them for liking or doing what is typically male or masculine things😢
SHES THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL LOVE U CLARA PEOPLE WHO LOVE HER
I love your butterfly shirt!
I especially relate to the first one, I absolutely love Formula 1 and cars, but I get judged by the same way .
i wish there was a world where double standards dont exist
She looks so good as a man.
How is that backhanded?
I have a joint last name and no one’s taking that away from me.
HI!!
@@Mxrizza hello XD
The last one about joint last name is very interesting from my PoV, in my country it really is not an option so I never questioned it 😮
As an Avid Football fan, this hits hard
I love how she’s so confident and pretty and understanding both genders
I’m lucky I come from a culture where it’s normal for babies to have both last names.
That first one was a little bit too relatable😭😭
I saw this on Instagram and the comments section is completely different 😢
Aku juga lebih suka nonton drama/film thriller, bertema kriminal drpd yg komedi ato romantis. Bukan utk meniru, tapi lebih buat belajar agar semakin waspada. Juga suka mempelajari sisi psikologis dari seorang kriminal
I have joint last names and I LOVE IT ITS NOT TOO LONG
No but why do you actually look like bloom from winx at the beginning… I love your fit and you’re so pretty!!
When I say ur one of the best ppl in the world, I mean it. Uk all of those other ppl talking abt this stuff, they all come from one side and don’t to to much or no research at all. U ovi respect both side and show both sides. U allow ppl to feel included and heard. Keep going, ❤
i just wash my face ngl 😂
our queen clara has posted again ❤❤❤❤❤❤
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Facts if you like sports u doin it 4 the boys and I love football and wrestling and weight lifting and I love your vids they help me a lot especially when I m feeling insecure abt my body u teach me that we are all imperfect and that’s why we are all special no matter how big or how small how creative how masculine how feminine we are people who should be treated the same everyone to the same standers 💕
EXACTLY!!! im a girl and i am really into football, but i am scared to mention it in school because i worry people might call me a pick - me. I genuinly enjoy football and its not for anyones attention.
Honestly, it's hard for both genders. If a guy wants to take care of his skin or has a routine he will get called gay or if a guy stands up to a girl he will be called a sissy. If a female stands up to a guy she will be classed as sassy and for some reason that's a good thing or they will be seen as problematic. If someone argues back or holds a grudge because a sorry isn't enough they will be seen as a petty person.
It's not just genders but also colours. I watch Beta Squad and Sidemen a lot and I noticed in the “Guess the black person” video, KSI said “I think they're all white” but if a white person said that about a group of black people the opposite way then it would be classed as racist and they would get cancelled.
(sorryig you had to read that paragraph)
Omg the outfit is gorgeous! ❤❤
dude this is so real- my parents always assume im trying to get with a boy when i put on any cute clothes because i wanna be like other girls, she thinks its odd because where i live people dont care for style as much.
I relate to the cars one so much- I have a group of friends that I play video games with, and like seven boys called me a pick me until I finally needed to explain that THEY LITERALLY INVITED ME TO THE SERVER.
i hate how true this is + man , that last name thing is so stupid 😭😭
i have 3 last names , 1 - my mom's + 1 - my dad's + erm i'd rather not say
i dont rlly understand the ppl who get mad over a kid( who isnt even theirs )'s last names like WHAT 😨😨‼️
There’s another with dressing up. If you dress up nice as a girl it’s “who are you trying to impress” or “cover yourself up” or any of those rude names like sl*t but if you’re dressing “comfortable” it’s also a problem. In conclusion, no one can win, not even guys.
We have to stop victimizing ourselves 😭
THANK YOU! Back in 3rd grade I wanted to be a paleontologist, (still do) which is a job for “boys” aka, what one of my classmates told me. So to everyone out there who think that boys should like dinosaurs and girls should like princesses, it’s normal, but some of us don’t turn out like that ❤
I have a joint last name and gosh I feel awful for my mother.
They literally cut out her last name for my school stuff and in legal documents they make assumptions and cut it out there too. I’m Indian, so it’s like ten times worse here than in America or some place of the sorts.
I UNDERSTAND THE CARS ONE SO MUCH
I’m a lot into F1, and when I told a male friend of mine he said “And who’s your favourite driver, Leclerc? I bet you don’t know what DRS is”
I could tell him not only the meaning but the exact function and the way it works, thanks a lot to my autism to make me obsess over this things so that man shut up ✨
Okay hear me out, I have a joint last name, and the amount of complications (school emails, people thinking that one is your middle name, never having enough room to sign your name, never knowing which first letter its going to be under etc). I totally think that it stemmed from a good idea... But it was really hard.
fun fact : My bsf’s parents went w/ her mom’s name, the dad didn’t get a choice.
(BEFORE I GET HATE COMMENTS- HE HAD A CHOICE BUT HE SAID THAT HE WANTED HER TO CHOSE)
And for girls being into cars/sports, people consider it as a “pick me”
As a woman who wears masculine things and is into hockey (ask me about Wayne Gretsky mfs) I can totally relate to this
As a 30 years old single girl, this hits home.
As someone with a joint last name, I appreciate you mentioning it ❤️❤️