Victim Mentality / Law of Projection by Hans Wilhelm
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
- How to overcome victim mentality and take charge of your life!
Hans Wilhelm is a mystic, author and illustrator of 200 books for all ages with total sales of over 40 million copies in 30 languages. As a mystic he inspires audiences around the world with his life-affirming concepts to connect with their own inner wisdom. His popular UA-cam videos have become an important source of inspiration and help for his over 18 million viewers.
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LITERALLY journaled about this ONE MINUTE AGO! The U-N-I-Verse is truly an amazing mirror of our growth and progress. It is a PERFECT system of the Divine. Amazing. ❤
Hi. What are you meaning by U-N-I verse?
Thanks Hans. This might be the single-most important concept in gaining sanity I have ever learned from your videos. Instead of thinking "revenge," I now think in terms of "I have something to address in me." Please continue making these videos. They are literally lifesaving and get critical messages out to the masses. The books by Gabriele Publishing House are fantastic in expounding upon these topics.
While I may accept this idea of projection for personal interactions, but as for the horrendous acts of others like murder and pedophilia etc, i can’t accept that it lies in me as well.
thats your problem bro
Of course the problem is always in me - when someone does something wrong, they don't care. Others have to suffer for it. So yes, I have a problem. ;)
I agree the law of projection comes into play more than we realize, but we must be very careful NOT to generalize on every circumstance. I was a bookkeeper for a church and one of the board of trustees was stealing from the church. I brought this to the attention of the other trustees. They thanked me, but also fired me. Ultimately, the church eventually sued the former trustee at a very dear cost to the church's reputation and finances. The fact that I saw this guy as a thief does NOT negate the fact that is what was fact. Yes, anyone has the potential to steal, but I can not agree with 100% of the time, what one sees in others is in fact what one IS. Yes, in potential, but not ALWAYS in reality. It is the same idea with child abuse. If one witnesses child abuse, we do not really need to go back to past lives to say the child deserves it OR that one is self-projecting oneself as a child abuser. We need to be careful with our thoughts and intentions. We must practice KNOW thy self and be open to the idea of projection BUT too to be cognizant of moral right action.
::: Maybe he means interpersonal relationships, as opposed to public ones?
@@dallimamma I do not think so. He did not add any disclaimer, ie, NOT always, but most of the time, if someone pushes your buttons.... I was more than pissed what that church trustee was doing and voiced my concern. I hope my concern is not me projecting my own guilt. I do not believe I could swallow that pill,
@@tonykool5347 ::: Perhaps “pushing one’s buttons” isn’t the same as knowing right from wrong, and acting accordingly?
@@dallimamma Well stated. However, I do not think this was made clear in the video. It's simply an observation, nothing more. I love Han's videos.
@@tonykool5347 ::: Ha! No matter, the bare bones truth is that button can be used AND abused!
Bullying is be but as to not be, that is....
Discernment and kindness is to be.
Just that someone had a bad day and is pushing your buttons to have it's lost power back and projecting their own hurt, be careful what you preach. Thank you.
This is a half truth... I agree with Protection to a large extent, but if there is something outside that I despise, it does not necessarily mean that it exists Within Me every time. For instance, there is such a thing called righteous indignation. Now if there is something/someone/some action I hate... It's the Pedos. Infact I think people who mess with kids may be the only irredeemable group there is. Now, with that said, my disgust in said group or actions has nothing to do with something that exists in me. Not in this life, not in any past lives, nor in any future lives I may or may not have, would i feel that type of way towards children that those sickos do. So, as I said, I think this is a half truth, and clearly does not apply in every situation. Not everything that "Pushes my buttons" is a projection of some unhealed aspect of my psyche from within. And if those thing's DON'T Push your buttons... There is something broken inside of you.
I completely agree 100% with this! And even if he is talking about the people closest to you like family, friends, and coworkers, there are things I've seen and dealt with that I have never and would never ever consider doing to another individual.
love it...lets to clear up first with myself
❤ Aloha from Germany. Thank you so much Hans. 😍🙏
This video was so spot on. I was feeling this today and then this video pops up. Like a reminder to clean upmy own energy. Always my own inner state, Externalised. Thats the learning curve for me lately. It takes practice!!
Thank you, Hans. Love you.
Super grateful for these reminders
Helps to get back to alignment 🙏🏻
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Really enjoyed this video and the great quote, thank you! Nothing I haven’t heard, but you put it clearly so it helped me solidify the concept further… 😊🙏🏽
Thank you for another FINE video ❤
"It is your hate--- own it."
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From reading the comments section, I think a lot of people are misinterpreting what is being said in this video. It is not so specific and literal; it does not mean that if you feel anger from witnessing somebody physically attack somebody that you have the same exact ability to physically attack within you. It means that if you feel a negative emotional reaction, or feel resentment, contempt or feel vengeful, that you need to look inward, and perhaps ask "What in my past - and therefore psychological makeup - is triggering the emotional reaction to this present situation?".
Hans's examples are less about general situations and more somewhat specific to interpersonal relations & interactions directly involving you yourself: A seemingly rude social interaction, a seemingly disrespectful behaviour, a seemingly hostile email - and the emotional reaction from within you. I don't believe it is intended to mean that if you feel annoyed by a seemingly rude remark that you have the same rudeness within you. If it does intend that, I don't agree.
In a more broad sense, for example, if you witness somebody committing an immoral act and you feel anger and a strong sense of wanting justice, and will only feel satisfaction when you perceive that justice has been served, that it may be that you yourself (likely in childhood) were on the receiving end of mistreatment and never felt a sense of justice, and that this is locked away unconsciously, ready to be triggered. But that sense of being vengeful is itself very negative, which would be somewhat of a match for the actual act committed. That does not mean that a perpetrator should not face the consequences, but it's just that the emotional force of the observers should not be there. Hence the famous myth of witch-burning.
At the exact moment I needed this, I received an email to watch this. I believe this is one of my last hurdles in my healing process. Thankyou 🧘🏻♀️💜🙏🏽
Thank you, brother, and I have subscribed 🙏 You describe the mechanism at play very well. I am an awakened soul, which means I no longer consider myself or others as people. We are all souls having the experience of being a person. We don't control what happens, so letting go of what happens makes perfect sense. If this is not making sense to you (the reader), then I highly recommend reading a book called making sense of nonsense by Raymond Moody. I hope this message is received in the manner intended. With much love and wisdom to you all. RW ❤️ 🙏
You are such a blessing. Wise and kind.
I've been thinking a lot about this topic recently. Very good depiction Hans!
Hans, I am 74 and have been following and understanding what you talk about for over 40 years. I walked away from religion many years ago. I believe religion is a barrier to spiritual truth. I pass on what I have learned on TikTok. I passed on your name on TikTok, as I can't upload your vids on my account? Over the years I have understood much of what you talk about.
Nah, it's not about stuffing emotions, it's about learning the laws of justice and morality and learning to be just IN the world, protect others, set boundaries. It's not about the typical stuffing of emotions and then shaming others when they are upset. You ease and accept people when they are upset and in doing so learn higher conduct.
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❤❤❤ (His Soul Is Amazing) Mr.Hans Thankyou so much Reflection!!!
Thank you Hans ❤
I was speaking about this same issue with a client of mine very recently. It certainly is a fascinating law. And one I am constantly being reminded of. And yes, we would have a completely different society if we all to understand the law of correspondence. We are all beings that need healing, and this law helps you find what needs healing inside of you. Thanks for sharing. Another beautiful video from a beautiful soul, :)
Perfect to help me explain something to my friend!
Thank you Hans for another great video 🙏❤️
Serious question. If I watch a trial and become upset at the accused for doing horrific things, that means I am as guiltyas well, because I also want to do those things!? That's insane! I must be missing something here!
We don't condone those behaviors. And yes, it is very easy to let our emotions get the best of us in a situation like that - which is why it requires further spiritual practice & growth to innerstand these events from a divine perspective where no hatred or anger is involved. Easier said than done tho
@@DylanWheeler92 I understand your response, but it has nothing to do with projection. It's more on the line of forgiveness which I am more than capable of doing. My question is, as I understand this video, does that mean I am angry at than accused because I am projecting my desires to do the same horrific things? Again, I cannot agree with the concept of this.
@@iffyangel3380 I think I get it now & that is a good question. We are responsible for the way we respond to our emotions. Being upset at someone for doing a terrible thing does not imply that we want to do that same terrible thing. But we do need to recognize that anger & requalify that lower energy into a higher energy of peace, love & forgiveness. I hope that is making sense!
@@DylanWheeler92 That makes perfect sense and ty, but that is not what is being said in this video as I understand it. It seems that how we see other people is a reflection of how we see ourselves and that is a scary message to be putting out. It removes our free will and ability to think we don't want those same things. Am I wrong?
immediate reactions are important and shouldn't be ignored. Ignoring these reactions buries them deeper and weighs the soul down ultimately. However the degree and the speed at which we get angry should be addressed and is the reflective aspect more so than atrocities that we know we ourselves would not commit.
Purely a coincidence to see your video.
Law of Correspondence. Reminds me of Paul Shockley who taught us about the mirrors. LawsOfXistence
Good book on how to 'clear up' is Letting Go by David Hawkins
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Why is it I don’t have any desire to push peoples buttons? I only want to be loving and kind so I am!!! I don’t entirely think your idea is truth.
That's what I said!
How do you handle a narcissist?
Lol… U must b new 2 this planet. Since the birth of social media, everyone is a self absorbed narcissist;-)!
When you heal, you will recognize another aspect to reality thst your collective oriented indoctrination failed to mention: miracles; synchronistic mathematics; anomolies.
Looking for the book you referenced… God want the best for you and I’m not finding it. Is it an actual book?
Yes, it is in the description.
I disagree with the "you spot it you got it" law....
I can see it when someone intenionally gaslights me, but that doesn't mean I intentionally gaslighr others. I just have become very aware of it due to lots of experience with it.
Common but not entirely correct (it means not correct) new age thought. It is like blaming bad tires as cause of all car accidents. Wicked one use tactic to blame others in what they do themselves. This law of projections is used as part of this tactic.
Are there exceptions in your law? Or do you believe it to be absolute?
Spot on . I was wondering why am I reacting like this ... thanq. Still confused though..
Well i am upset i didn’t get paid the money i made .
How do you deal with yhat ?
Yeah i have bills to pay
I love you Hans
I do not want to push your buttons but if someone want to argue with you and you do not respond with anger to him what enrage him more and he start shooting on you from gun is he a reflection of you and you must stay and not hide to face yourself? :D I like your explanations and videos to learn something new or think, but i think not all things which are presented are good for a person, but it is only my opinion.
As Jesus the ultimate power of existence and love said: I must be in you, and you must be in me. I understand that he meant that we got to think about what he said and always try to act like him,,I mean, trying to think like him walk like him, act like him. And he will help us to achieve that aim in this world, until we completely abide in him ,and we became like him, alike God.
Sons and douthers of God.
Love you all.
Hi sir , i am a big fan of your videos , very interesting please can you make a video on suicide ?or is there any link to such video in your playlist ? If yes please i need the link ,thank you so much for your work
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is the mirrored consciousness toy for sale? me want 1.
Thank you for your videos 🙏❤ do dey com also in other languages?
No, but the books he referenced (those by Gabriele) were translated in various languages...
Wow. Ive been trying to fig this out with my views on the state of things now and it came to me. of course i see a power struggle cuz i have def got internal power struggle going on. Dont know why i had to hear this knowledge in this way for it to come to me FINNALY! so thank u so much
U beautiful
My husband milks sickness, sit around feeling sorry for himself, when I am sick I still work, clean, walk the dogs, etc.. I just ignore him, so annoying.. hate weakness, I guess that’s my issue? It is so frustrating.. I could Becky g and he would be useless
Hm, you judge him as "useless" when not doing work while sick. It's not about your husband. It's about you, why you "hate weakness" and "uselessness". what you hate in others is what you hate in yourself, and that means you hate a part of yourself. could it be that you are projecting that hatred for the weakness in yourself onto him? Perhaps thats the reason you choose to work despite being sick? because you do not want to be "weak and useless"? perhaps your lesson is to give yourself kindness and compassion when you are sick and see that you deserve some genuine care when sick ? perhaps you need to listen to the pain in you when you are sick, instead of numbing it away?
The people that need to absorb these concepts are too self-absorbed to seek ego containment.
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Thank you, this video to me is simply your best! All of a sudden it all makes sense ❤
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So say I do notice something in somebody else and I know it's inside of me and I work hard to be mindful of it myself and improve it do I stop noticing it and other people? I don't think you can go back to a lesser awareness if you have worked out the problem with it ourselves but still see another's
To me, the issue being described is not "noticing". Noticing is fine, and is actually often a strengthened conscious awareness, if done without a strong unconscious interpretation. I believe Hans is talking about emotional reaction; anger, resentment, contempt, being vengeful, etc.
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I needed to hear this tonight