What Narcissists WANT For You After The Discard

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  • Опубліковано 27 лис 2024

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  • @NarcSurvivor
    @NarcSurvivor  6 місяців тому +2

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  • @kashmirirose3733
    @kashmirirose3733 6 місяців тому +4

    If you move on, get up, get out, and get it; don't do it for their sake. Do it to live up to your potential 💯. But take your time; Do it right...

  • @marijkevandermeer2772
    @marijkevandermeer2772 6 місяців тому +3

    He always said in the last periods of our situationship: "you have everything"...yes, I said but that is no valuable reason to rob me from everything I have including my health, my finances, my house and my car and my stability and happiness...but of course I soon retrieved that..I now live very happy, single, with my animals my studies and my work...and - of course - I live in another house (with a garden) and I have another car...in an other part of my country...

  • @graceamos6048
    @graceamos6048 6 місяців тому +3

    Moving on is the best thing to do, don't dwell on bad experiences

  • @angelablaney4575
    @angelablaney4575 6 місяців тому +3

    Brother Chris, another great vid! 7 months since I left narc and I am getting nearer to good health. Hallelujah! Love to you Chris and all survivors here!🙏🙏🙏🙏♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @MissNancy
    @MissNancy 6 місяців тому +5

    My ex took me to Vegas for a business trip. I wanted to experience the Bellagio fountain show. I was engrossed in the beauty and grace of it. When it ended, I turned around feeling happy, to see the narcissist chatting with a stranger about something else. I felt angry. He didn't emotionally experience it at all.

  • @CathyOgletree
    @CathyOgletree 6 місяців тому +5

    He is coming at me now and has family members involved, it’s sad. God is blessing me moving on.

  • @onlybryan47_
    @onlybryan47_ 6 місяців тому +3

    Continue speaking that truth with boldness. salute soldier

  • @vickipacheco9787
    @vickipacheco9787 6 місяців тому +8

    Thank You Christopher for KEEPING IT REAL FOR REAL 🎉

  • @arani4774
    @arani4774 6 місяців тому +7

    The narcissists already know you have checked out emotionally,mentally,physically from wanting,these narcissists trying to corrupt you with their selfish desires.
    Thee is nothing these narcissists can do to you or use to hurt you from moving forward unapologetically on,without any resentment to be onthe rightous path being true to myself. Because you already know everything is a test of your loyalty,faith,belief in the Divine. 😇💖🙏👣⚖️
    This is what these narcissists can't understand or take it or handle the rejection,they have already destroyed everything in your life and shattered your dreams and these narcissists know you will never accept anything from these narcissists.
    And you're still living every day, having gratitude to the Divine that you've remained loyal to you're purpose. Because you're not entangled with these narcissists drama,and their corrupt influences,you are focused on healing yourself and progressing to live your life without any attachments or distractions from your purpose and goals that you're focused on. 😇💖🙏💎👣⚖️

  • @Robertbfender
    @Robertbfender 6 місяців тому +4

    If you remind them of everything you've done for them or bought for them, they will just say you did it to manipulate them into coerce and trick them. It's useless.

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 6 місяців тому +3

    ❤❤Life is lived right when people care about each other and are good to eachother.

  • @joannemacias2362
    @joannemacias2362 6 місяців тому +6

    Thank you coach Christopher! You are the one that has helped me get through this mess in my life! I look forward to your teachings all day long..I love my new narq survivor family, and most of all I love you
    ..thank you

  • @3RedHearts
    @3RedHearts 6 місяців тому +2

    SO TRUE, whenever we were out to eat, he was always so bored, ate fast and angry (I paid of course)...never could have fun doing anything

  • @marijkevandermeer2772
    @marijkevandermeer2772 6 місяців тому +3

    They fill their void with the devil...

  • @MotivayShay
    @MotivayShay 6 місяців тому +5

    This showed up right when I needed it.

  • @Robertbfender
    @Robertbfender 6 місяців тому +11

    The last weekend I was with her I took her to Daytona Beach dropped her off at the bathroom and said I'm gonna go park the car I'll come get you. She looked at me and said you're not gonna leave me here are you? I was like why would I do that? I've been with you five years don't you know me better than that? The following week she ran off with her boyfriend she was thinking about leaving me. It's what was on her mind. Usually a thief is always worried someone will steal from them and someone who will abandon you is always worried. You will abandon them a cheater always worries that you will cheat on themad nauseam

    • @aegisreflector1239
      @aegisreflector1239 6 місяців тому +3

      Yes similar to my female narc experience. She always would project and accuse me of what she was doing. These creatures are basically evil little clowns.

    • @marijkevandermeer2772
      @marijkevandermeer2772 6 місяців тому +2

      Exactly! ❤😢

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 6 місяців тому +3

    Last narc said i am sick but i am the only one who cares. I was the family clown, i wanted to see others happy.so if they are object, they are dangerous, he said he drowns people in to swamps.

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 6 місяців тому +3

    He grabbed me by my hair for not saying to others he is the best thing.

  • @GG-ch3vz
    @GG-ch3vz 6 місяців тому +1

    Hi again:) always good to see and hear you…your hair looks nice:)

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 6 місяців тому +1

    ❤I had that exact experience like you described, lived at my expence and my family and others and now made a firm, company.i felt i am chosen when i was a child, but narc parents, i have directly saved others from suicides. But not all, some did it.

  • @steadypace1262
    @steadypace1262 6 місяців тому +1

    They want you to be utterly miserable and alone just like you were when you had them in your life.

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 6 місяців тому +1

    Exactly, everything is accurate, everything.

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 6 місяців тому +2

    You look absolutely great.

  • @J528hz
    @J528hz 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for the valuable insight of info that I have gained. I do hope the best for the narsiss in my past , which were a few and I'm still thriving because they didn't take my joy.😊❤

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 6 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤We love you because we feel the same. Narc said there is nothing to learn from me and i do not have life experience. I really plan to move away. Money is tight right now.

  • @angelmiranda253
    @angelmiranda253 6 місяців тому +2

    Very. True ✊🏻✊🏻✊🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻✊🏻✊🏻✊🏻

  • @jackiel7726
    @jackiel7726 6 місяців тому +1

    THANK YOU! 👍💯❤️‍🩹 Love your Hair.

  • @angelinaelder5474
    @angelinaelder5474 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for your Teaching/ Handsome Royal Warrior King 👑

    • @NarcSurvivor
      @NarcSurvivor  2 місяці тому

      You are very welcome. If you need more support, you can book a call with me here - www.narcsurvivor.co.uk/book-online
      Donations are greatly appreciated, no matter how small - paypal.me/narcsurvivor
      Thank you!

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 5 місяців тому

    The fact that you have researched it so long, our lives has been been very ruined by these "people" they ate not real people, they are demons.

  • @Robertbfender
    @Robertbfender 6 місяців тому

    I used to be her FLYING FLUNKY and I flew into a lot of dangerous territory for an illusion. I fell for it trying to recover now and doing a good job my first experience I've always known women who are loving and giving they all lied bad liars, but they were not narcissists

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 6 місяців тому

    We lost life experiences and growth with them.

  • @annakonadu1337
    @annakonadu1337 5 місяців тому

    They are very ungrateful, no matter what you do for them they never appreciate it. My narc even stole my house and car and said it belongs to him.

  • @Prudence1733
    @Prudence1733 5 місяців тому

    I needed this. ❤

  • @lissyaviles4316
    @lissyaviles4316 5 місяців тому

    He would leave me in the home for 4 yrs … while he went out and was constantly outdoors

  • @marijkevandermeer2772
    @marijkevandermeer2772 6 місяців тому

    We built a second home in a foreign country and I introduced a European car to that home and he is now living with his new supply up there in holidays...the epitome of evil...unbelievable ...I unplugged my emotions but the first years it really hurt my heart...I mourned my Self that gave to him without any love from his side...and his sadism...and in the end he said to me 'you did not do anything for me'...he left me in order to marry a 18 years old girl in order to have children...i am a very experienced and proficient lawyer

  • @lissyaviles4316
    @lissyaviles4316 5 місяців тому

    My ex narc used to rush me to eat he’d want me to gulp it up in 2 minutes he would yell constantly and say hurry up hurry up eat and don’t talk he would mortify and torture me

  • @Wisdomseeker5
    @Wisdomseeker5 3 місяці тому

    I can't see my narcissistic people on social media"doing well with their new supply/is😂😂 I blocked all of them.
    I think that are BORED to h...💯💯

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 6 місяців тому

    I know i have a real life, i love help elderly and buy children candy and ice cream😀. I know what i like and what i do not. I know that immediately. Desire, Paul Hardcastle, i love that song also. I feel peace, joy, desire about one man 15 years ago😀i found him very attractive. He said that me too😀yes, life is beautiful. My favourite countries are Spain and England what to visit, already in childhood. I went to Spain, have not went to England yet. I am happy he went a way, i felt bad 3 years. I was getting abuse daily.

  • @Kersti-p8u
    @Kersti-p8u 4 місяці тому

    I discovered that your videos have changed.

  • @kerstitekko2257
    @kerstitekko2257 5 місяців тому

    You recommended moving to another country. I think i have to move.

  • @mozes_muzic
    @mozes_muzic 6 місяців тому +1

    Good one.