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  • @jamiesmiles8312
    @jamiesmiles8312 Рік тому +673

    I know this was filmed some time ago, but I am so sorry to hear of your losses, particularly your dad. I have just found you on UA-cam and hope you find your way back. As a woman, I can absolutely relate to your videos and I really love them and enjoy the many, many laughs they give me! I wish you well.

  • @selintuksal
    @selintuksal 3 роки тому +361

    "I'm absolutely ok as I can be, obviously I'm not ok, if it makes sense."
    It makes sense. Love you.

  • @GothicDominatrix
    @GothicDominatrix 6 місяців тому +138

    Just seeing this 2 years later. Just wanted to send strength your way. I lost my dad a year ago to dementia and then a week later moved into my new home with my husband. I'm still processing and dealing with my father's passing. I'm so glad you have a wonderful network of people to help you through this.

    • @elzaanjordaan2387
      @elzaanjordaan2387 3 місяці тому +5

      My dad was diagnosed with dementia last year June and in the last 6 months it has been such a shock to the system to see how quickly he deteriorated. Reading your messages is like looking into the future and as if the Lord is trying to prepare me for the inevitable end. Thank you for sharing your experience. It is making me feel better to know that I am not alone in this journey with my dad

    • @erichyney6287
      @erichyney6287 Місяць тому +1

      Sorry about your dad

  • @KDu400
    @KDu400 Рік тому +479

    This was filmed a year ago, but I want to tell you that I’m so very sorry for the loss of your dad ❤ you are probably one of my favorite people on UA-cam right now and I appreciate you sharing this with us.

  • @teenagewritergirl
    @teenagewritergirl 3 роки тому +602

    I’m so sorry to hear about your dad. I’m really grateful for your videos as my dad got diagnosed with dementia last year and I didn’t know anyone who’s parent had it. We are a similar age. Hearing you talk about it made me feel less alone.

    • @ali5699
      @ali5699 Рік тому +8

      Seconded -- in my case, my mom.

    • @samb1123
      @samb1123 Рік тому +12

      My Dad had dementia for the last 4 years of his life.It was hard dealing with him sometimes.

    • @donavonbain4332
      @donavonbain4332 Рік тому +5

      @@samb1123 feel that. They're trapped in there. With what ever it is they've unbecome. Mom has some sort of similar disorder, dementia/alzhiemers idk, she won't get diagnosed. Bot that medicine has any answers. But sometimes she becomes someone else. And sometimes she comes back. And she's aware she "went away". Which makes it worse! Bcuz then I know! Some part of her is aware! She's not her! Maybe similar thing with your parent! They're likely still in there watching all the nasty behavior and regretting it and unable to do anything. Remember who they were growing up! And Love them as that Person! Bcuz I'd bet! They're still in there! Even if you don't see it!

    • @donavonbain4332
      @donavonbain4332 Рік тому +4

      @@samb1123 Apologies! Just re-reading what you said. "Last", as in final? If so, 🤗! You'll see it again. Try to remember, sometimes the real person is locked behind the forgetful and the mean. My Mamaw was like that. So I'm doubly fd!

    • @samb1123
      @samb1123 Рік тому +3

      @@donavonbain4332 My Dad was aware enough that he knew he was cognitively slipping. It made him very unhappy. He basically willed himself to death. He quit eating and drinking. The only way we could have kept him alive would have been to restrain him, hydrate him with IVs and force feed him. We were not going to allow that.

  • @faithbrawley2285
    @faithbrawley2285 9 місяців тому +57

    I saw that this post was 2 years old, but still just wanted to offer my condolences. Additionally, I want to CELEBRATE your decision to seek out therapy and let your fans know that there is NO WRONG WAY to grieve. As a therapist, I agree 100%! Also, thank you for bringing me small moments of joy throughout the week. They are desperately needed, TOTALLY appreciated!! Keep your head up and please keep making your content! The world needs you!

  • @dharmagirl5889
    @dharmagirl5889 Рік тому +475

    I've only just discovered you within the last month. I realize this was a year ago now, but I'm so very sorry for your loss and grief. I hope getting through it has gotten easier.

    • @Zuzezno
      @Zuzezno Рік тому +4

      Same here

    • @TheNicoliyah
      @TheNicoliyah Рік тому +5

      Me too

    • @azigar
      @azigar Рік тому +7

      Me too. I feel like I opened the door at an awkward time.

    • @jasonflanagan2757
      @jasonflanagan2757 Рік тому +3

      Same here!

    • @fatgrandmafinds
      @fatgrandmafinds Рік тому +10

      I've seen a few videos on Facebook but just subscribed to the youtube channel recently so I'm catching up as well. I understand the pain of losing your dad and while it never really goes away it does get easier to manage and do normal life things♥

  • @davidcompton741
    @davidcompton741 Рік тому +88

    Dementia is a double loss as you can lose people twice. To anyone suffering including Hayley (thank you for your humour). Small steps and a journey can have steps back and forward. It is ok to not be ok. Love to all x

  • @rossferguson6504
    @rossferguson6504 6 місяців тому +23

    I'm 69 and I have mild dementia.
    I have good days and bad days.
    But, im dealing with it.
    But, it's all good,
    I think, i will be around, for a while.
    Is it scary?
    Yes.
    I'm terrified of totally losing my memory.
    But, lets all be positive, about this disease and make the best of it.

    • @justcurioushuman
      @justcurioushuman Місяць тому +1

      I've heard a lot of good things about bacopa monari and lions mane for brain... Actually my personal experience with lions mane wasn't as described... But many people swear by it. I see big difference since I started taking astaxanthin. You should research other nootropics because many of them have also other health benefits.

    • @Hooperjz78
      @Hooperjz78 6 днів тому

      Best of luck and love to you ❤ my dad was diagnosed a year ago..... you sound like you're doing quite good given circumstances. Stay well ❤❤❤

  • @mattendspiel9341
    @mattendspiel9341 Рік тому +111

    Dear Hayley. I wanted you to know that I’m seeing this video for the first time a year later. It was top of my recommendations and this cannot have come at a more appropriate time.
    In August, we learned that my father has terminal cancer and not given long to live. He is currently in hospital, looking forward to coming home for his final weeks.
    My mother has dementia as well. She is in hospital after having elective surgery on her knee. The tragedy is that she has forgotten that my dad is terminally ill.
    I wanted to give you my condolences and to tell you that I am going to use your idea of expressing gratitude.
    Bless you Hayley. Thank you for making this video and I am grateful it came to me at this time.
    🙏

    • @Tori-ko7wz
      @Tori-ko7wz Рік тому +12

      I can’t believe it. That’s so sad. My favourite person died in august, just weeks after my nan’s birthday, and despite being I’ll, he still got her a card for the window sill, even after she died. I guess we all have extreme heartache

  • @kelliesaunders4905
    @kelliesaunders4905 Рік тому +4

    Ms. Hayley, my mother passed away suffering from Pick’s dementia. What a very hard journey.
    One of the stories I still tell of her is the time I had to leave her unsupervised (early on, before I was able to get help) so I could go to work. I came home and the apartment was filled with smoke. In the oven were these little black hockey pucks. I had to go back to work the next day, so turned the circuit breaker off to the oven for her safety. When I came back home four hours later, she had started the oven up again with nothing in it this time.
    I just looked at her and wondered how this woman who could not remember her way from the bathroom to the living room still had the gumption to know how to problem solve a non-working oven and then find the correct circuit breaker to turn it back on!! Thankfully nothing horrible happened and I was able to get my sister to help with mother after that. I’m always filled with relief when I think of how tragically this story could have ended, however it also reminds me of what a struggle it was to care for a mother (still in her fifties) who needed 24hr supervision. There is no help out there. I was alone trying to support her and also keep her safe. Picks was fast moving. She passed away after only about 8-9 years with the last 2 yrs being with her in a group home.
    Not trying to make Ms. Hayley’s problem about me, just trying to share in solidarity.

  • @thedawnsearlylight970
    @thedawnsearlylight970 Рік тому +15

    Nov 2022. Just now seeing this. I’m so sorry for the loss of your Dad. Thanks for sharing your pain with us. We love you. I love you.

  • @canadiandee6342
    @canadiandee6342 Рік тому +90

    I just discovered you recently, but I love your channel. I am so sorry to learn about your father.

  • @lauriew8433
    @lauriew8433 Рік тому +22

    I know at least a year has passed since you lost your dad, but I've just recently found your lovely channel. My heart deeply aches for you, dear girl.

  • @cynthiamorua1624
    @cynthiamorua1624 Рік тому +31

    I know it's been almost 2 years since this video, but I recently found your content. I lost my Mother at 19. It's been over 20 years, but it still hurts. You're not alone. You make so many people laugh...hope it continues! ❤

  • @gysmokates
    @gysmokates 19 днів тому +3

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Healing energies to you and your family.

  • @PoizonIvy1221
    @PoizonIvy1221 Рік тому +54

    I’m a new viewer and I’m so sorry for your loss. I know this was filmed last year but after losing my mom I know time really doesn’t “heal all wounds”. So I wish you peace on the days when it’s really hard in the years to come. Thank you for all the joy and laughs you give me when I am struggling. ❤

  • @Pur9leRain
    @Pur9leRain Рік тому +43

    Your dad sounds like he was a brilliant father. What a legend. You’re so fortunate to have someone like him. I hope your healing from the loss. Gone but never forgotten

  • @jasonfitzpatrick
    @jasonfitzpatrick Рік тому +10

    I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I cannot imagine the struggle you went through. As a father, my daughter is only 3, your comments and sharing of emotions for your dad makes me want to be a better father to my daughter. My wife and I lover your comedy. Thank you and I wish you peace.

  • @mikerb2473
    @mikerb2473 Рік тому +23

    Sorry to hear the loss of your father. Sharing it the way you did shows a lot of courage. The pain never goes away, you just learn to live with it. You have our condolences and thoughts of peace.

  • @stephanieellis5399
    @stephanieellis5399 Рік тому +17

    I'm sorry to hear about your dad. As someone who lost her daddy 26 years ago and did bottle it up and did minimal processing, I am so glad to hear you are not doing the same. Now, my mum has Alzheimer's and, well, she's gone even while she still lives. It's an odd thing as I'm sure you know.
    I should follow your example and make a conscious effort to journal and seek some grief counselling because, you're right, bottling it all up isn't good.

  • @gozin
    @gozin Рік тому +34

    Hi Hayley, myself and my wife recently discovered your channel and we love it. I lost my mum to FTD/picks disease November 2020. My heart aches for you and your family; it is truly a horrendous illness and robs you of your loved one over a tortuously long time period.
    Not sure if you'll read this as you posted this a while back but one piece of advice is try your best to compartmentalise the time your Dad was ill and not let it taint the good memories you have of him. This is something I have struggled with since my Mum passed away and I hope you can do better than me :)

  • @TenaciousTMidwest
    @TenaciousTMidwest 9 місяців тому +12

    My wife discovered your content a couple of weeks ago. I just started going through your channel tonight. Everything that we have seen of yours is laugh out loud funny!
    Then I saw this video, and broke down weeping. Anna's mom passed away three years ago this past June. She had vascular dementia, along with COVID. Because travel & being in hospitals was severely restricted, at the time, none of her daughters or grandchildren could be with her during her last days.
    So, when you told your story, I could see & feel how much you love & miss your dad. I could feel your pain during that video.
    Thank you for your humor, your wit, and your way of being genuine with people.
    Looking forward to seeing more of your stuff!
    Love From South Dakota!

  • @youeyeball
    @youeyeball Рік тому +25

    Very sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. God bless you and yours during your grief 🙏.
    Thank you for always sharing your light and humor. Wish we could do for you, as you do for us. Our sincerest condolences 🙏.

  • @alexandraparfitt2961
    @alexandraparfitt2961 3 роки тому +15

    Thank you for sharing this with us Hayley. I’m grateful for the support you have. I hope it helps you to heal.

  • @FarscapeFanDCT
    @FarscapeFanDCT 2 роки тому +8

    Hi @Hayley Morris, you probably don’t remember me posting to you, but I too had a father who was diagnosed with Picks Disease (FTD). I found your page because I related so much in what your going through. Grieving a love one who is taken over by illness. I loved my father dearly like you loved yours and I too lost him this year.
    I’m crying as I write this as I’m still in the grieving process, but have to learned to function with the pain. He died at 57 years old on April 21, 2021. You may not read this comment, but if you do, know I’m praying for you and your family and your not in this alone.
    God Bless

  • @calicogreyroot9238
    @calicogreyroot9238 Рік тому +9

    Just watched this video in January 2023... It's been one year since I lost my mom to dementia too. My father and husband and I cared for her at home until the end and her passing has left a gaping hole in our lives. Honestly, I've lost my sense of purpose. It's been so hard... I'm really glad you're taking steps to keep yourself healthy during this painful time and that your family members are supporting each other. You are such a talented person and you give me hope that my life might get better someday too. Much love and healing.

  • @jeffpiper4208
    @jeffpiper4208 Рік тому +47

    He was so lucky to have a daughter who loved him so much. He will live in your heart forever. I’m so sorry for both of your losses

  • @lolaw6871
    @lolaw6871 3 роки тому +21

    You're such an inspiration! Whenever I feel sad, you're there to cheer me up. I wish I could do the same for you.. Sending you lots of love!

  • @lilelly16
    @lilelly16 Рік тому +7

    I am a big fan of your channel

  • @chelseaconey4015
    @chelseaconey4015 Рік тому +2

    It's January 2023 now. I am so sorry you lost your Father! That's so sad. I can't imagine losing him or my Mom.

  • @firstlady161
    @firstlady161 10 місяців тому +25

    Oh sweet girl, I’ve only just seen this, you give us so much joy and it’s so sad to see you so distressed. I wish I could hug you as I’m sure many of your viewers would. Many of us completely understand what you are going through having been through something similar ourselves. But it doesn’t stop it being so painful. I hope you can cling to the good memories and the crying will diminish but the pain of their loss is something we can’t help you with much as we would love to. It will become less painful over time but your memories will always be there. Good luck. 5:50

  • @nmyhre78
    @nmyhre78 2 роки тому +29

    You are such a light, I’m so sorry for your loss, I’m happy you found the strength to keep going and not let these losses defeat you. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for lifting so many spirits with your exceptional comedy. Love you girl xoxo

  • @rachelclemons5276
    @rachelclemons5276 3 роки тому +8

    Thank you for being vulnerable with us, such a brave thing to do!

  • @mistersniffers5922
    @mistersniffers5922 Рік тому +5

    You were immensely blessed to have such an amazing father! This was a huge gap in my life & my mother died last year -but we were never close. Your comedy is wonderful, and I'm happy to learn that your father gave you that gift. I hope you continue to share it with us in the future. Hug your friends!

  • @dolfingirl2000
    @dolfingirl2000 Рік тому +3

    OMG! I just discovered you and I adore your videos and subscribed right away. I'm so sorry for your hurt and the loss of your beloved Dad...I know it was over a year ago, but I'm still going to send you my condolences and I hope that you're filled with peace. You are an amazing talent and I'm grateful that I found you.

  • @sarahwest1983
    @sarahwest1983 3 роки тому +7

    I lost my Dad in February so I am so feeling your pain, it’s heartbreaking. Your processing of it is amazing, I have tried to do the same to make sure I don’t hold it in. Sending love to you from just over the water in Bournemouth xx

  • @archanamani2898
    @archanamani2898 3 роки тому +5

    I totally feel your pain as I’ve been going through something very similar - just know that making it through each day, is an achievement in itself 💖

  • @Jennifer-on2qn
    @Jennifer-on2qn Рік тому +3

    It's been a while since you've posted this. I just came across some of your shorts last night, while trying to ignore my grief. My mother just passed less than a month ago. It's incredibly hard. I am sorry you lost your father. I wanted to say thank you for all your videos and shorts. They made me laugh and smile during a time I thought I couldn't. Many blessings to you.

  • @mamazalama
    @mamazalama 7 місяців тому +3

    Sweet woman-child, everything has been said, but I just had to add my love and support. I pray you are feeling better, you deserve it as you give so much of yourself to the world and we adore you for your way of sharing. My dad was a huge part of my life and still is although he passed several years ago. We are so fortunate to have had fathers like ours. Just wanted to say I'm with you, love you and look forward to whatever you want to share. God has blessed you in so many ways. You are never alone, the YOU within is with you always and forever, guiding and giving you strength and assurance. Please never doubt even for a second the Source of your blessings, which is God's Love. Shanti Om, dearest Sister.

  • @cancerwithasmile
    @cancerwithasmile 3 роки тому +55

    Sending love, losing a parent at such a young age is incredibly difficult but I promise it does get easier and hurts a little less xx

  • @samuelleleveau3895
    @samuelleleveau3895 2 роки тому +4

    Loving your videos. You sound so authentic, nice and funny; human really. Just started following you about a month ago actually and it’s a personal joy for me to watch your videos when they come out.
    I am really sorry for your loss.
    Grief is very personal but I think what you feel, everyone who lost a parent can relate. You seem to be doing all the right things for yourself. You are learning to live with the grief. Your dad lives through you now.

  • @malcolmmunroe1257
    @malcolmmunroe1257 Рік тому +10

    I feel your pain of loss regarding your father. I am 12 years since my father’s death, it is still there. Your video was enlightening.

  • @jonismith7897
    @jonismith7897 Рік тому +13

    This was filmed 2 years ago, but wow, such raw emotions. I’m so very sorry for your loss. That’s a lot to have to deal with, just know that you’re in my prayers. I hope that time has helped you deal with everything as you’ve needed to.

  • @shev6213
    @shev6213 Рік тому +39

    Seeing this on my recommended videos over a year after you posted. I just wanted to tell you I’m so sorry about your dad. I understand your grief I lost mine in September 2020. It’s still hard. Be kind to yourself as you work through your grief ❤

  • @PhillipLemmon
    @PhillipLemmon Рік тому +34

    Seeing this AFTER your I million shirt update....
    I'm so sorry to hear about your dad.
    I almost turned the video off for fear of wetting up my phone with tears.
    But I didn't.
    Just want to say I love you and whenever you post again we will be watching and laughing.
    (mental health note:
    please take your time and deal with your heart and mind during this tough time I wish you and your family well)

  • @preslllley
    @preslllley 9 місяців тому +2

    I am so, so sorry for your loss. I hope time heals your wound.

  • @rocknrollcraftstar1081
    @rocknrollcraftstar1081 Рік тому +3

    I am so sorry for your loss. My father had dementia and passed in 2020. Like you and your family we weren’t ready to lose him and to your point, you grieve the diagnosis of dementia and then the loss of a parent. It’s awful…but therapy helps and knowing that grief isn’t a straight road. Hold on to the good memories, treasure the parts of your father that continue to live on in you. ❤

  • @sarahlaurent16
    @sarahlaurent16 Рік тому +3

    Just seeing this September 2022, but praying for your continued self healing. You make great content that is sooo relatable!

  • @swissmiss116
    @swissmiss116 Рік тому +41

    My father passed away after a short and sudden battle with COVID. That was Jan 22’
    Just found this creator/channel and LOVE HER! My pops would get a huge kick outta her.
    Love and thanks for the 😂 and distractions

    • @natalieeubank4533
      @natalieeubank4533 Рік тому

      So sorry for your loss, I lost my aunt to Covid then my uncle (aunts brother) to Covid two months later

    • @NavyGunnersMateMan
      @NavyGunnersMateMan Рік тому

      @@natalieeubank4533 Well your aunt was weak wasn't she? She clearly couldn't handle something so small

    • @NavyGunnersMateMan
      @NavyGunnersMateMan Рік тому

      Well he was probably weak wasn't he? He clearly didn't deserve to live if something small could end his life. Good thing the deaths have stopped since covid just...gave up

  • @evpack
    @evpack Рік тому +2

    Awwww. I've seen a few of your (very funny) comedy videos and then I see this, which is heart-wrenching and heart-warming. You've made us all a little bit more human. Thx.

  • @matthewmurphy8981
    @matthewmurphy8981 9 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for sharing your journey, vulnerability, example, and leadership as a great human. Warm support.

  • @spudfingers_united8663
    @spudfingers_united8663 Рік тому +7

    Thank you for being brave enough to post this. I've only just found your hilarious content then saw this video today. We lost dad in july 2022 and like your dad; he was taken from us quicker than expected. With moving and other things going on in your life at the same time it must've been unbelievably difficult. We hope you are ok. You probably dont realise you've given people a reason to smile in their darkest moments. Your dad would be so immensely proud of you. Thank you

  • @kimdenny2738
    @kimdenny2738 Рік тому +6

    The depth and beauty of your sharing this deep life changing heartbreak is reflected in many beautiful and respectful comments. Through humor and Artful visualization you have touched so many of our fears and joys. We are grateful for the person you are. And share in this very human transition. Your father must have been quite a man. We all celebrate him

  • @ciroccomoody1242
    @ciroccomoody1242 Рік тому +3

    I’m so sorry, but thank you so much for your strength in sharing this with so many of us who otherwise might have felt totally alone. Sending love❤️

  • @scottaussem1771
    @scottaussem1771 Рік тому +1

    Im sorry for your loss your dad sounds like my dad he was a great dad taught me everything i needed to get thru life. Your an amazing woman. I hope you find a greater love in your life keep your sense of humor

  • @tomburgin
    @tomburgin Рік тому +8

    My father was in his 60s when he died 4 years ago from Pick's disease. It's an appalling disease to suffer from and to deal with from a family and care perspective. You're so right about grieving before they are gone, that's exactly how I felt. I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope the time that's passed since your father died has helped to smooth the waters a little and made it hurt a little less.

  • @bremenschmidt2437
    @bremenschmidt2437 Рік тому +4

    I've been watching your videos and Instagram for a couple months now and you crack me up everyday and I want to thank you very much for this laughter, you're awesome. And I'm so sorry to hear about your dad, I just lost my dad last May and I'm still in shock and can't believe that he is gone so I feel your pain. My condolences. I am so glad you are part of my life! :-)

  • @shayrichards9538
    @shayrichards9538 Рік тому +2

    I'm a new viewer and it's 2023. I'm rooting for you. Good and bad. I'm rooting for you.

  • @richwallach1129
    @richwallach1129 Рік тому +1

    So glad that you're getting so much support here. You deserve it for all the laughter you bring to these uncertain times. Love and Strength always.

  • @tracyscooking4656
    @tracyscooking4656 Рік тому +10

    I'm so sorry to hear this. I lost my dad back in 1996 when I was 17. If you ever need to talk , let me know. Sending love and support ❤️

  • @24_7_Truth
    @24_7_Truth Рік тому +5

    Awe babe... I am so sorry you're going thru a hard time. I know any forms of Dementia is difficult to deal with. My heart breaks for people that have to deal with a loved one with the terrible disease.
    You are such a beautiful person inside & out. Much love from Tennessee, USA💜

  • @preetumuleypandey7330
    @preetumuleypandey7330 Рік тому +1

    Your videos have been so relatable qnd funny, you've made my day every single day and I'm sure your dad is very proud. Alll strength to you!

  • @CaptainRambunctious
    @CaptainRambunctious Рік тому

    So sorry to hear this. If anything, thank you for talking about this and grief and how you’re getting counselling as this will help others in a similar position. Thank you and you’re being very brave.
    Take care.

  • @simonevernon106
    @simonevernon106 Рік тому +4

    I lost my dad when I was only 10, he was my world and it all fell apart. My mum never liked me and always chose my older sister over me. After 40 years I still miss him but I do try to think of the good times and would never change anything about the short time I had with him. Thinking of you xxx

  • @euanmacleod3738
    @euanmacleod3738 Рік тому +3

    So sorry for your loss. Greif like this is beyond words. It sounds like you had a beautiful, precious relationship with your dad, and I'm sure he cherished every second of it like you did and was tremendously proud of the person you became. As a father myself I can say his moments with you likely made his life perfect, and your moments with him are always with you in the person you are - meaning in a real sense he is always going to be with you. I wish you all the best and hope you're getting on okay.

  • @davidpuzycki7278
    @davidpuzycki7278 Рік тому +4

    So sorry for your loss . I'm 71 and never even knew my dad .I lost my mom over 20 years ago . The pain does subside but keep your dad in your heart which I know you will do . The joyful memories will keep you going .God bless you .

  • @maximumentropy1863
    @maximumentropy1863 Рік тому +8

    So your Dad has been a great influence on your life and you have brought us all this funny comedy. So maybe we all know your Dad a little through you. Your Dad was fortunate to have such a great daughter and you were lucky to have such wonderful Dad.
    Thanks for all your funny and thought provoking comedy. Hope to see more of your work.

  • @maggysday
    @maggysday Рік тому +7

    It makes sense. I used to cry every time I would speak about my dads passing 2 years after it happened... so sorry for your loss. We love you

  • @meme-jc5ks
    @meme-jc5ks 3 роки тому +19

    I am so, so, so very sorry for your loss. May he Rest In Peace. Sending so much love to you and your family. X

  • @ScottishBraveheart1983
    @ScottishBraveheart1983 Рік тому +2

    I've just recently found your lovely channel. So sorry for your loss. If it helps, grief is the loss of love. We are not ever taught or shown about how to cope with grief which is not ok as we'll all have to process it. My dear Mother passed 17yrs ago and many family and friends since then. You're so very right, there is no right or wrong way to process it but I had to let you know how brave you are for this video and you're a beautiful soul 💗 love & light from Scotland xxx

  • @AffectionatelyNae
    @AffectionatelyNae Місяць тому

    Praying that your healing journey has gotten easier! Sending hugs your way

  • @stephenreese5921
    @stephenreese5921 6 місяців тому +8

    I’m sorry to hear of your breakup and loss of your dad. Both are extremely stressful and I hope that you seek out professional help. When I lost the love of my life and my father, I had no one to talk to. It took me many years to deal with it and have come to accept it even if it still hurts some 30 years later. Watching your previous videos gave me joy.

  • @CelebrityWotNot
    @CelebrityWotNot Рік тому +3

    Sending you love. Sorry for your loss.

  • @craigsisco1894
    @craigsisco1894 Рік тому

    I just saw this after enjoying your comedy videos. Thank you for your bravery to share. Your dad lives on through you and your amazing talent.

  • @pamshifra
    @pamshifra Рік тому

    Thank you for all the joy you bring us with your videos. I wish you and your family peace during this very difficult time. ❤

  • @elessar60
    @elessar60 Рік тому +3

    I just saw this video and I'm so sorry for all that went on back then. You never get over the loss of a loved one, but you do learn to cope. Sending you lots of positive thoughts and sympathy even though it's much later.

  • @joekavanagh7171
    @joekavanagh7171 10 місяців тому +3

    I'm so sorry to hear this Hayley. Your dad sounds like a great guy. I hope that since then time has helped to heal your pain, and that the beautiful memories you have of him will outweigh the grief. He is waiting for you in a far better world x

  • @tristessa1975
    @tristessa1975 Рік тому

    I’ve only just stumbled across you and I think you’re completely fabulous. What an unexpected and delightful discovery! Your humour is 100% my cup of tea.
    I too know something of the road you’ve travelled. My Dad had younger onset Alzheimer’s and passed away in 2013, when I was in my early 30s. The complexity of grief you spoke of is something not many people can relate to. I hope you are doing ok and that you’ve still felt the love and support of those close to you. There’s no time limit on grief, nor is there a rule book. ❤️

  • @paulinefaber997
    @paulinefaber997 Рік тому

    I have only found your channel recently. I am very sorry for your loss. I really appreciate the lightness you bring to my day.

  • @judithpack6124
    @judithpack6124 Рік тому +4

    My heart ached for you watching this. I am a new fan so this just popped up. I am a physical therapist in long term care and have been for over 30 years. Loss of a parent under any circumstance is difficult but dementia is a particularly hard pill to swallow. I know you have come a long way with this over the past year but I am still sending you hugs and warm thoughts. You certainly bring light to my world as well as countless others!

  • @philly2kuk1985
    @philly2kuk1985 Рік тому +4

    Only just come across this, but I lost my mum six years ago in my early thirties. Nothing prepares you for it and you never really get over it as you assume your parents are there forever. Hope you’re letting your grief out and getting better.

  • @BYGTraining
    @BYGTraining Рік тому +2

    I'm so very sorry about your dad. I'm close with my dad, too, and I dread the day I'll have to live without him. I wish you all the strength in the world. You're amazing for everything you do on your channel, including sharing something so personal that many of us can relate to.

  • @SFBayAreaLiving
    @SFBayAreaLiving Рік тому

    I just discovered you about a month ago and just stumbled across this video from last year. Condolences on the passing of your father. My mother has early onset dementia and I'm just starting that journey. I appreciate the smiles/laughter your videos provide me! Thank you!

  • @AndreaLB
    @AndreaLB Рік тому +4

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my beautiful Mom three years ago. She was both my father and mother since she was my only parent. For two years I couldn’t handle breathing and living without her. I still am not able to celebrate Mother’s Day. I completely understand your loss. I pray for you mental health during the mourning period. Keep God with you and He will see you through this loss. Much 💕

  • @NabeeCAK
    @NabeeCAK Рік тому +3

    I totally understand that it doesn’t get any better saying it because I lost my dad too when I was five he fell from a high place but now I’m feeling better and he will always be in my heart ❤️ 😢

  • @Sarahqiu
    @Sarahqiu Рік тому +2

    I’m so sorry about your dad. He’d be very proud of you. I hope you and your family can heal eventually, and connect with each other and hold each other deeply through this difficult time. Time heals ❤

  • @juneledell6983
    @juneledell6983 Рік тому +1

    geez so sorry -totally understand. Lost both my parents and my baby sister. The lose is heartbreaking. My sympathies. Sending virtual hugs and appreciation for your candor.

  • @nashwas5761
    @nashwas5761 3 роки тому +7

    Take your time to heal, Hayley. We’ll be here for you. Keep your strength ♥️

  • @anemone6204
    @anemone6204 Рік тому +3

    I feel you, my father and I are extremely close since my mother and I have always had a turbolent relationship. I send you a huge huge hug from Italy ❤️

  • @ddog5858
    @ddog5858 Рік тому

    I am so sorry for your loss, what a wonderful dad. God bless you.

  • @thorhammer6040
    @thorhammer6040 Рік тому

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers to you and your family.

  • @nathalieavery7892
    @nathalieavery7892 Рік тому +5

    Lost my daddy too. Going to my second year without him. Almost his birthday... and I'm again in disarray. I feel you, I love you and trust me when i say that you are making him extremely proud every day 💙

  • @themassive2436
    @themassive2436 Рік тому +6

    I’ve also been following your channel for a bit but only now saw this video. Ironically I am flying home this weekend to help my family address my father’s progressing dementia and get him proper care. If your sense of comedy is rooted in your father’s influence….then the best ongoing tribute to your father is continuing to share your comedy with the world and making the rest of us laugh when we’re going through similarly difficult times. You make us laugh and your Dad lives on. Thank you for sharing with the world. Laughter is immortality.

    • @barbaras676
      @barbaras676 Рік тому

      I’m sorry to hear about your dad. I lost mine to frontal lobe dementia last year. He was ambulatory up until the last 2 weeks, and had regressed to a 2 year old mentally. When he was no longer able to get up and around he was gone in 2 weeks. I pray your dad does not suffer❤mine didn’t.

  • @tanyabruce1019
    @tanyabruce1019 6 місяців тому +2

    I'm so so so very sorry about your losses I also lost both parents and only sister so I know how hard it is please make sure you look after you

  • @rachelmadson
    @rachelmadson 7 місяців тому

    You bring so much joy to many people's lives. It's hard to see you hurting, but inspiring how strong you are. Thank you for sharing all of your beautiful self with us.🥰 We love you❣️

  • @melissabiri2947
    @melissabiri2947 Рік тому +3

    No matter how long we get with a loved one, it is never enough.. I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I'm sure he'll be watching over you to smile & laugh with you on the good times and be a comforting presence for you during hard times. *healing hugs*

  • @noreenthermos283
    @noreenthermos283 Рік тому +8

    Hi Hayley, I realize this was posted a year ago, but I just discovered you today. I'm so sorry for your loss. Two in a short time is not easy, and my heart aches for you. I hope you have been feeling better. I know the loss of a dad. I lost mine in 2018 to Alzheimer's. We'll always miss them. But, I just have to tell you how much I am enjoying all your videos. You are very talented and make me laugh. I'm sharing you with a few of my friends. I hope you will continue all your funny and clever work.

  • @reikiangel5410
    @reikiangel5410 8 місяців тому +1

    I'm sorry for your loss. Sending prayers 🙏

  • @7andearth76
    @7andearth76 Рік тому +1

    I’ve watched your hilarious shorts and thank you for the laughter. This just popped up and of course I had to check in. I don’t have parents but I have children and grandchildren and just the thought of them being ill or leaving this earth Brings pain to my soul. I hope you’re doing at least a bit better by now. Lots of 💕