The Case of Aliny Godinho
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- Опубліковано 27 тра 2024
- True Crime: Following a fake marriage with Ricardo Godinho, Aliny found herself trapped in the clutches of a vile and violent stalker. 🔴 Subscribe ➜ / @coffeehousecrime
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00:00 Intro
00:50 Brazil, Aliny Godinho
02:19 Meeting Ricardo Godinho, moving to London
04:33 Back and Forth
07:22 A growing family, with growing problems...
11:57 A life away from Ricardo?
13:26 Disturbing behaviour
14:55 February 8th, 2019
17:34 Aftermath, legal proceedings
20:14 Remembering Aliny Godinho
21:08 Outro
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Aliny Godinho (Mendes) was a lovely woman… I’m still in disbelief with Ricardo’s actions. This video is slightly shorter than usual today as next week is a special case that I wanted to invest extra time into! See you again real soon!
- Adrian
I'm curious where the children went. Hopefully they were kept together.
@@debijacobson8822 I am wondering the same thing, did they stay in London with her friends, or did they wind up back in Brazil with her family.
Shorter?
@@ibispaintfox1055 last time I read news about this case, they said the four kids were is custody of the British government and only maternal parents could welcome them a home. I read that one of Aliny’s brothers were going to the UK to explain to the kids what happened to their parents and to bring them back to Brazil to live here but it’s a complicated situation since two of the kids are brits and two are Brazilians but since Aliny’s family is here, they wanted to bring the kids here. (I’m Brazilian fyi)
Thank you so much Adrian, Stellar work yet again in your telling of this harrowing case. My prayers go out to Aliny's family mourning her loss to this cruel murder. Very much looking forward to your next piece (especially since you teased us regarding extra time needed in it's creation.) Jah Bless .
Not gonna lie, the subtle dig at Ricardo "...he couldn't count. His rage was as evident as his stupidity" was a nice touch.
Frfr 😂
Please lie
@@azazello1784 Ricardo...is that you? Are you allowed to use the internet in prison? Just do us a favour and shut up
I had to pause the video and like it right there and then lol 😂😂 that part was hilarious
The saddest question is: why do such loving women select such stupid men ?
Does anyone else think that there should be a charge for deliberately traumatizing small children by enacting abuse in front of them?
There is in the US in some places, at least. It ups the punishment you get for a domestic violence charge. You can even get your children removed if they witness a lot of domestic violence even if they are otherwise unharmed (because witnessing that is a form of abuse). This is of course dependent on local laws but I think it's fairly widespread (the removal of children in that kind of abusive situation).
@@moontoad6412 Same as in Australia, Victoria to be exact. Every single time you call up emergency services for any domestic violence they ask if any children are involved or witness to any violence that has been commited. If the legal guardian does not take them out of these situations they can lose their children to the Department of Human Services (similar to CPS in the states). I'm not a psychologist but I've seen behavioural changes in children that witness violence or even arguments on a daily basis. Children need to be protected cause we see too many of these same children growing up thinking it's normal and ok to emotionally and psychology abuse their partner just because 'their parents were like that'.
@@moontoad6412 I also think there are criminals who should not be given any opportunity for parole - just life in prison for the rest of their natural lives. This case would be one of those, in my opinion.
There is
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So this was the "ideal" scenario with her leaving him, police actually taking her seriously and her getting a spot in a safe House and he still managed to kill her. If anyone ever wondered why victims are (too) scared to leave: this is your answer.
A good idea is change up your routine...
@@smurfylee true, but since he was able to track her i don't think it would have helped much. And switching up ways/routines with public transport can be challenging
@@inkompetenzkompensationsko4188 Just in general, with anyone
I wish she hadn’t left her SIM card behind. I don’t think he would have found her. May she RIP
bc she made foolish actions not covering her tracks. not the polices fault.
That’s so bloody scary that he effectively had a clone of her phone and was looking over her shoulder constantly.
Sadly it was Aleni's own neglect that made that possible. Everyone remember, never leave a phone behind with a sim card in it!
@@truerosie you can’t even bother to spell her name right and are choosing to victim blame her. You’ve got some serious issues seek help.
Or get a new number after leaving
@@truerosie What i dont understand is how he was able to get the phone unlocked. Prolly she shared passwords and pin codes that are required to access the phone even with a sim card or she removed them, rendering the device and the number unprotected. That's why you never share account passwords, pin codes and other sensitive information that could be used to access your devices and accounts even with people that are very close to you and you never remove protective measures from devices. Although i am not 100% sure that this happened, but most smart phones nowadays have protections that even if you have the device you need to authenticate before being able to access the device
@@Zekrom569he used the SIM card on his own phone, there's no need to unlock anything.
I get so fucking tired of hearing about women dying because some men cant take no for an answer... makes my blood boil. Those poor kids, and i hope the little girl can live her life as well as she can knowing what she saw... i pray that shes too young to remember it.. RIP Aliny
It pisses me off to no return and they call women emotional
The "if I can't have you no one can" mindset is tied to alot of dangerous mental illnesses, but since we live in a misogynistic society they dont see it as a symptom, they see it as masculinity since they think women are entitled to men.
People really need to separate mental illness and masculinity.
Like if a woman did this she's seen as crazy, if a man did this its seen as masculine man and that it's the woman's fault that she didn't submit to her husband, and that's"men's nature"
@Brîndusa D I have a family member with the same old story. Kept having kids with an idiot who SA her. Five kids to be exact. And has multiple ways out but stays with the swine.
A Gun levels the playing field,Stay Strapped
@@ll1vingdollyyy Nah if a man did this he’d still be seen as crazy and most men would condemn this. I don’t know why you’re saying we live in a “misogynistic” society and painting mental illness as masculinity because it isn’t. There’s no need to paint masculinity as misogynistic. It’s far from it.
Thank you for telling this story. Anyone who ever says "why didn't she just leave"needs to see this because it happens all too often
Absolutely
They never let you just leave. I didn’t even actually have a relationship the guy who stalked me for two and a half years. Crazy enough we were just dating for a while. During that time he demonstrated abusive behaviors and when I said I didn’t want to go any further he would take no for an answer. I can’t imagine what it would be like to have had his kids or something. Anyways my thoughts are with all those affected by something like this.
Women are most at risk when ending a relationship... Anybody who is this obsessed will not want to let you get away easily
well we should be asking so it stops happening so often. she needed better support, self-esteem...something!
I'm not really sure what your getting at. Are you saying that women in abusive relationships should just stay because they may still be stalked and killed after "just leaving"? She seemed to do everything right.....it just ended unfortunately.
I had an ex stalk me and threaten me years ago. Flattened all my tires twice. Cops would do nothing! I bought a gun and trained at the range. When he showed up at my house, trying to see in the window, I pointed the gun at him through the window. Never heard from him again. He got another girlfriend who went through hell too. Get away the instant you see they're troubled.
_"I pointed the gun at him through the window. Never heard from him again."_
As proponent of gun rights who happens to be living in one of the most disarmed countries of Europe, I love this story, you're my spirit animal lol.
Hope life gave you better people afterwards.
~Best of Wishes from Poland
@@Magepure6749 come to the US. There's a gun shop on every corner, you'd love it.
@@xxwhispersxx2856 Unfortunately even Poland is a safer place than the US ^^
Everyone should have the right to bear arms!!
@@tracyd693 That would make imprisoning people almost impossible. They would have to live in a concrete tube with absolutely no way they would ever be able to shoot someone. So prison would be worse than hell. Also there would be no mental health treatment any more because nobody would take the risk to work there. Also the amount of parents getting shot by a toddler would skyrocket. But I still think you are a smart person that should carry a gun.
Poor Aliny and her children. What an absolute monster this man is. Her little baby daughter seeing everything is beyond heartbreaking. This is so sad.
"Mommy's not coming back." For a 3 year old to see what happened and say that is so heartbreaking. 😟
@@xavierharding8938 straight up! what 3 year old knows what death is and that stabbing causes death. Weird comment to add.
The child had already seen so much 😢
Horror!!
Yes it is traumatic. I saw my late parents fight when I was 5 and it traumatized me for life.
That made me tear up when he mentioned it, I somehow wish I was there to stop him before he did his awful act, stories like this makes me wish I had a teleportation and time control super powers.
What's especially screwed up is that this man killed her in broad daylight, in public, with witnesses, and IN FRONT OF HIS OWN DAUGHTER!
It takes a special kind of anger and rage to do something this horrifying.
In front of other people as well. Absolutely frightening
He is a very evil pos
@@josmclove4426 To say this guy is “evil” is far too simplistic; it’s certainly not addressing the fact that he, like most people who commit these types of crimes, obviously have some kind of mental illness because ‘normal’, (whatever ‘normal’ means?!) well balanced people just don’t kill their partners. There are “evil” (bad) people who have evil (bad) thoughts and even actions, but ‘normal’, well balanced people know how to control those thoughts and don’t act on those urges. Mentally ill people, on the other hand, who are not medicated with appropriate psychotropic medications and who aren’t closely monitored are unable to control themselves and the result is what we’ve seen in this video.
There is well documented evidence that genetics play a big part in criminal behavior. After his arrest, this guy must’ve been evaluated by a psychiatrist and although it wouldn’t satisfy our dramatic, sexy lust for ‘revenge’ I’m pretty sure the results of that evaluation would show that he suffers with mental illness/illnesses/personality disorders and at the time was probably not medicated with the appropriate psychotropic medications that he very obviously needed.
The whole “evil” concept is an easy way for us to label things we don’t understand and it satisfies our curiosity about the whys and wherefores of why people kill/torture/punish/hurt other beings, including animals, but it’s really far too simplistic and it also has a weird religious connotation to it (good versus evil, darkness versus the light, etc) which really has nothing to do with it, certainly nothing to do with this particular case.
Really, the best, most accurate way of describing him would be to say that he’s a fucking lunatic because while sounding flippant it’s actually true! The medical community might have a problem with that ‘diagnosis’, probably because it doesn’t sound professional, but whatever way you slice it and dress it up, this guy IS a fucking lunatic. Literally.
@@Tuffetti what a baloney! He was a psychopath. He tracked her down with her SIM card the poor woman forgot. He was an evil S.O.B
@@JuanMartinez-fs6gu I agree with you, he was a psychopath, but psychopaths are recognized as mentally ill, so you’ve just made my point for me while trying to refute it.
One of the things I love about you is you don't repeat yourself over and over just to make your videos longer. Thank you for doing such an amazing job in all the cases you cover.
💜 AMEN! I STOPPED WATCHING ONE GUY BECAUSE HE WAS SO REDUNDANT. IT WAS JUST SO SICKENING. AFTER HE REPEATED THE SAME SENTENCE 3-4 TIMES. I WAS DONE! I LOVE ADRIAN 😊💜
That poor baby seeing her mum get murdered by her own dad, absolutely heartbreaking 💔
This is so sad, that poor child witnessing her mother's murder. Rest in peace Aliny.
She is don't worry. That's what dead people do.
Can you start doing videos on "near misses" where someone ALMOST became victim to a savage but managed to survive or escape and subsequently they were captured? I'd love some light on the dark that I see on a daily basis.
Read the comment section if you want reddit style stories of "almost" becoming a victim.
You can find them pretty easily, they usually start with "I.."
There is the series called "I survived" and they are usually 3 different stories, even of accidents or getting lost in very bad conditions, and they are fascinating :)
@@nunceccemortiferiscultu7826 I nearly stubbed my toe. Can't look at a table without literally shaking now.
Did anyone else notice that he nearly caused an accident when he pulled out into the road behind the bus? I find that so eery, because I would imagine that he was so focused on what he was about to do that the world around him disappeared and for a moment he forgot that he was on a public road! Calculated and evil!
I saw that and thought the same thing. Absolute laser focus on what he was about to do.
My daughter just turned three; the evil in this man to kill the mother of his angel IN FRONT OF HER is tearing me up. What an absolute piece of garbage.
I also want to echo what a lot of people are saying; the way you present these is incredible. You bring so much honour to the victims and bring their light and joy to life while degrading and reducing the criminals who hurt them. Too much our society glorifies evil and bad behaviour.
We need more people like you, Adrian, and far far far fewer than this human refuse Ricardo.
Take care, stay well and be good to yourself.
I love how you name your episodes after the victims, and put the spotlight where it deserves to be, on them rather than their murderers!!
I wholeheartedly agree with you! Those monsters deserve to be buried in oblivion only known by their victim's names.
I agree 110% …..never understood why they always highlight the MURDERERS name instead of the VICTIMS NAMES!!!!!!!
I’ll never understand how anyone could possibly believe it’s possible to keep a partner in relationship by dominating, blackmailing and abusing them. Sick bastard
He knew his power lied in manipulation, its a form of mind control in these relationships and the reason why many of these women stay.
Unfortunately, it works, at least for some time until the victim can find a way out (if they do at all).
That’s because abusers don’t see their partners as individuals with their own emotions. They are simply their narcissistic supply and abuser’s think they own their partners. They will go to any length to retain their ownership. They don’t love their partners, they love their control over them.
This is a mindset that is widespread in third-world countries [as mine]. For example, being a toxic gf/wife is a joke, a meme, in Mexico.
You see an abusive partner doing whatever is on their hands to keep the victim tied to an unhealthy relationship. It will not be a surprise that he was making her have kids since that will make her less interested in running away. In the end, the poor kids were just a tool to justify his abusive behavior.
@@shivalishankersharma1562 Well Said!
To the mothers who are staying with an abusive partner, "for the children" what you're actually doing is teaching your kids that abuse in a relationship is acceptable. If you're in an abusive situation with children, leave! It's the best thing for children.
and for fathers in the same situation, it happens to men more than you would believe, as men typically bottle things up and remain silent through their suffering. speaking from personal experience.
Not always that easy to leave, I ad to get the cops involved to be able to leave
This is quickly becoming one of my favourite true crime channels
Not one of my favourite's as there are others I like better.
@@Catherine3296 which ones?
Thank you, Adrian, for portraying a case involving people from my home country with so much respect and care. And thank you for the shout out given to Brazil 🇧🇷 my respects to my fellow Brazilians that personally knew Aliny and, of course, to her family.
If you are interested, here are some super famous and intriguing cases from Brazil as vid material recommendations: Francisco de Assis Pereira (Maníaco do Parque) case; Eliza Samudio case and the Von Richthofen case (even has a Netflix show about it).
And FYI for those wondering, Rio is not Brazil’s capital, just a famous city lol out capital is Brasilia.
And Adrian, hit me up if you need help translating documents from Portuguese for future cases ^^ I will be glad to help.
Eu deixo quieto sobre o assunto da capital hehehe, é tanta gente que confunde que nem ligo 😆
Antes Rio que confundirem com Buenos Aires
Very kind of you, Sunako!
@Erin Stelly Thank you for the beautiful words, Erin ☺️ bless you for your kind heart. I agree with what you said, we all should embrace more our differences because that’s what’s make us unique and interesting.
@@phzitos_ KKKKKK pelo menos isso né.
@@luisgugustavo ty, dear 🥰
Anytime you're dating someone, and see a red flag, don't chalk it up to you having trust issues, or being paranoid, nip it in the bud and move on, don't hang around thinking it's an isolated incident, nobody should have a second try or chance, it's better being alone...
AMEN 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Alone...with children?
Jesus that's awful pessimistic. People make mistakes you would end any relationship over a single red flag ? Well good luck with being single for the rest of your life lol...
@@malgorzatawojtys9846 it does not work for men either, both men and women can be monsters to people who don't want anything to do with them, it's the mindset of no one can have you but me which is the problem, but I'll admit it does sadly mostly apply women bc men for some reason(society and upbringing are not excuses for actions) they are too emotional and narcissistic to take no for an answer
I apoligize for the long comment
Some stalkers were never in a relationship with a person but still harm them
Adrian, I’ve been a subscriber of yours for a while. I enjoy your content very much. This may be one of the most important cases you’ve ever covered as I imagine many people would not think too much of leaving an old SIM card. Thank you for not only being a voice for victims but also spreading information that could save the life of someone in the future. Much love from Huntsville, Alabama, USA.
This happened on my birthday down the road from my family's house. Impossible to forget you Aliny
What really broke me is her daughter saying "mommy's not coming back, is she?"
Well, that was only common sense.
@@azazello1784 LOOOOL😭
@@azazello1784 you are heartless 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This very case is a stark reminder that you never EVER underestimate an abusive partner and the evil they may inflict. After I left my spoise I luckily realized my ex was accessing my text messages and voicemails. Change EVERYTHING when you leave and I do mean everything
Good advice, I suppose. Nowadays I have very good relations with all the people I'm gonna talk about, so in the end it all worked out pretty well.
Having that said, when I was a teen and I got dumped by my 1st real gf, I still had her FB password, and I went there every couple months to just lurk and reminisce _(sad brokenhearted emo teen vibes, but let those who don't cringe at their teenage years be the first ones to cast the stone)_ and did nothing else.
We didn't really talk IRL despite leaving on friendly terms, for me it was too painful and she probably saw it and didn't force herself around my vicinity, for which I am in hindsight very grateful.
Time went on, took me like half a year to finally get over it, I got a new girlfriend - but after another half a year I realized this wasn't gonna work out. So I told her we need to part ways. Some time after that, I got a bit nostalgic one evening and just randomly decided to see what's up with my 1st ex.
Bad luck had it that somehow she and my 2nd ex connected, and in that moment, in real time, as I saw messages coming back and forth, they were talking sh!t about me in chat XD
So, offended at this affront _(because I thought "we were friends" with 1st ex and I've done nothing to infringe on her space, didn't bother her to beg for another chance, didn't try to put obstacles in her life, none of that BS etc. - we just basically ghosted each other while technically remaining on "friendly" and only exchanging a "hi" if neccessary),_
I proceeded to join the conversation from her account and tell them that I was watching and that it's nice to find out all these things about me now.
Can't really remember what exactly I said, it was 10+ years ago, but knowing myself, I probably whinebragged about
_"at least dumping [2nd ex, name redacted] in person WITH _*_STYLE, UNLIKE SOME PEOPLE_*_ IN THIS CONVERSATION WHO COULD ONLY SEND A TEXT"_ XDD
then tossed some further shade and went _"peace out, better change your password [1st ex name]"_ lmao
On one hand, it was probably pretty invasive... On the other _(and to the main point of why your comment made me remember this story)_ after years of watching True Crime by now, I'm so glad she learned the _"change your passwords"_ lesson from a cuddly bubbly pompous b!tch _"better than thou, too proud to be mad"_ edgelord-with-a-purpose like my teenage self, because she could've have found out in circumstances SOOO MUCH worse...
Eventually, it was her new boyfriend a year later who led to our friendship reunion, but that's a story for another time :P
They're no longer together either, but just last month we all three met after years and went out for karaoke.
Awesome time, I love them all like family
@@Magepure6749 so not relevant but i gotta say, you are freaking witty. love it lols
@decimusvitae Maybe your attitude and mentality is why you doubt in people's forgiveness? :^) If you reduce my story to some accusatory _"grills dunt furgive STOLKARZ, NOW can I speak to you about my lord and damnator INTERPERSONAL PARANOIA?!"_ then no wonder that people in your life have been seeking excuses to prosecute you _(and/or exile you)_ instead of forgiving you -
- thus, leaving you prone to such assumptions, IMHO.
By any means, feel free to enlighten me if I'm wrong ^_^
Forgive others instead of holding grudges.
See more than just mere materialist manifestations of the grand laws of existence.
Transcend your mortal coil, master the fear it bestows upon your soul and use it as an engine against entropic decay - the flesh prison is but our duty and burden, but still you should carry yours with dignity - for even in this hell we call reality there is hope and there are dreams - for even in depths of abyssal hellfire and the frigid vastness of the cosmic void, love can still prevail -
- despite all odds... and doubts
@@nicieykachidza2486 Glad I could be of entertainment - and thanks for the positive counterbalance to the other commenter's _(@decimusvitae)_ rather gloom outlook on life :V
Have a great day!
I think it’s very nice how you always have a section dedicated to honoring the victims and not reducing who they were to the worst and last moment of their lives. A lot of true crime channels see the topics they discuss as “tea” and don’t respect the victims at all.
Always remember. When someone shows you who they really are. You better believe them!!! Doesn’t matter how much you love them or if you have kids with them just leave.
And short of leaving them, AT LEAST don't make any more babies with them. He had already been an abusive monster when they had the fourth, but likely even before the 2nd and 3rd kids.
@@arganiaspinosa9122 exactly. They didn't have jobs but had another child wtf
It seems like Aliny was a brilliant, hardworking woman, and an amazing mother. This "excuse of a man" never deserved her. RIP Aliny, and I hope the kids find peace.
This poor woman, what a sad story. Now her children are without both parents. Thanks for another very well done video Adrian. Your true crime videos are by far the best on UA-cam. What makes you stand out is how we don’t just sit and watch you talk about the story, like most true crime videos, instead you take us on a journey and we get to see beautiful pictures of where it took place, pictures of the people involved, videos when needed, surveillance footage and even light appropriate background music. Love it! Keep them coming please 😁
The first part about her kids growing up parentless is exactly why I don't get why a parent would resort to killing the other. First off you both lose your kids and your never gonna see em again and even if ya do they are gonna despise who ever killed who and be tormented mentally for the rest of their lives just knowing or seeing Inthis case. If anyone in a relationship no matter how hard it gets kills the other they cannot for one second be caring about their kids!
@@war32mec right! Such a terrible choice!
Where are the goods guys ask a women but continue to choose the bad ones
Poor woman??? She should've taken her kids away from that dude years ago. At least for the children's sake if not her own. I have zero sympathy for her. She also took advantage of their friends' kind gesture of staying there. And they were in the country illegally to top it off. Trash ass people... the BOTH of them!!!
@Sunshine Baby He's right tho, soooo
Edit: and that's coming from a woman
I am originally from Brazil and I can sadly say that crimes like that are actually not uncommon.
It's amazing how life experience works.... I went from an edgy teen who loved serial killers and cases like these to finding them extremely pathetic people. Still very interested in learning how their psyche works but in a totally different way now. Thank you for injecting the much needed humanity in these cases, a lot of crime-tubers are way too sterile for that!
I don't find them pathetic at all. In fact, I find them curious!
@@desensitizedanalyser5624 they are pathetic curiosities
It's definitely not cliché to say that she was lovely...you can just see that in her face. Thanks for another great case, Adrian.
Saddly this is just one several examples of this type of situation. Controlling, jealous, and honestly psychopathic people who just can't seem to actually see their partners as people, be it for whatever reason and at the end of it all, decide they can't live, if not with them/for them. It's honestly dismaying to think about such cases, and their notable increase during the pandemic/lockdown period. All my hope and love, to any person unfortunately stuck in such terrible moments and suffering.
And to imagine they have a say when someone can or can’t leave you when your nothing but absolute arsehole to them but no one intervened
And he also traumatized his own child!
sweet of you to say. i hope people soon see how women are just as evil as men, and so many men suffer in silence…
NARCISSISTS all over...it's a real Serious Pandemic!!!
You spoke such beautiful words about Aliny in your outro. You did justice to her story. She deserves to be remembered.
R.I.P. Aliny.❤️
890,000 subscribers!!😍 Dude!!🙆🏼♀️❤️
That's amazing! You consistently offer great content, beautifully written and spoken narrative, and I also love that you share information about where the story takes place. Proud to be a subscriber!☺️
Just wanted to say that Adrian(spelled correctly?) your videos are TRULY WONDERFUL!! YOU'RE ONE that stands out from the REST!!!! Unlike other " true crime" videos, anyone who has interest in this genre, can see within five minutes you are NOT ANYTHING like the rest!!! The time and research that you put into each one of your videos, is just amazing! YOU'RE A BREATH OF FRESH AIR, PLEASE KEEP UP YOUR TRULY ONE OF A KIND, and AMAZINGLY ENTERTAINING, INFORMATIVE & LOVELY WORK!!!!!
I've read and heard about many domestic abuse cases, but this one has me crying at work. As someone who witnessed domestic violence as a kid, this triggered me. I remember what it felt like wishing my mom had support the way Aliny did. I also remember imagining if my step dad was going to attack my mom in public. Or if the next time would be the last time. Rest in Peace, Aliny.
I'm going to tell your boss that you are watching UA-cam at work Alexis!!!
I pray for your mental recovery from both the events witnessed and the memories stirred up.🙏🏽
@@LeonardRoberts thank you.
@@dontwannabeurdaddy6038 darn it. I'm caught.
I experienced a similar childhood. Abuse habits(?) and alcoholism passed from grandfather to my own father. Sending virtual hugs if you want them.
She was such an amazing person who endured and persevered so much in life. She didn’t deserve to go like that. Rest In Peace beautiful sweet angel. The kids know their mother’s love and I hope they never acknowledge that sorry excuse of a “father”.
these people only think about themselves and never truly about their kids. They'll kill their partner for their own reasons and take away the mom/dad of their kids. And with them (hopefully) in prison, their kids have lost both parents. These situations remind me of people loosing their shit due to being bullied at school/work etc and don't look to the future. This guy hated Aliny so much in that moment, that he fucked up his family with him not "getting over" his situation.
He shouldn't be allowed to breathe our precious air. Piece of vile shit
Aw, don't be so hard on him. Didn't you hear the part where he only did it because he was stressed? I wish someone who worked to have the death penalty banned in the UK would tell me one good reason why this POS deserves to live!
She was also popping kids like a rabbit. Not feeling sorry for her.
No doubt this scumbag of a father will spend many hours in prison writing letters, trying to cajole his children into having a relationship with him .
Let's pray they're strong enough to resist his deviant intimidation but it will be difficult for them because he's a master manipulator with all the time in the world on his hands, along with the blood of their beautiful mother .
❤🕊 Fly High Aliny 🕊❤
Something about this case was extra heartbreaking… I hope the children are coping with all of it and feel safe now.
The ones with kids involved always make me cry 😔
She was stunning. I hope her children are well taken care of and loved , together.
Thank goodness that stalking is starting to be taken seriously! “Peeping Toms”, “flashers” & stalkers are incredibly dangerous people but we have treated them like petty crimes. Name the most horrendous & terrifying serial killer & he probably peeped, flashed & stalked!!
So many innocent lives could have been saved if our courts had punished these frightening, abusive crimes!!
We aren't that dangerous !
@@desensitizedanalyser5624 Inappropriate, but then you already knew that didn't you. You will learn when you are affected so don't poke the bear perhaps.
Indeed
Desparate creeps getting off on invading boundaries and scaring womem. Not taken seriously bc of our nasty society full of creepy men that don't care either. Sad all around
This case shattered me; he's such a vile being.. How can he feel so threatened at the thought of losing access to his children then traumatize them for life? Especially the daughter.. Poor thing, I hope she got extensive counseling cause no child should ever have to witness that, especially involving their parents ):
This is really heartbreaking! Such a selfish and evil person. He didn't even care about his kids who were left without parents as a result of his actions. I hope they are in good care.
Rip. It's so horrible the deadly misfortune these souls get tripped in...God help us and condolence to families.
If god cared then this wouldn't t happen in the first place
@@17thknight God Bless you.
Misfortune!!! That’s not misfortune and it doesn’t work as a misfortune it’s devastation, they work hard to destroy and to shatter to control
@@louloubelle1330 the result is devastation but the chance that they run into each others life is unfortunate.
@@17thknight there are plenty of caring dentists in the world who have everything you could possibly need to have healthy dental hygiene.
By your logic, they're uncaring bc there are many people on earth who don't take care of their teeth
I just got addicted to these videos. Between this and "That Chapter", I'm hooked.
I so love That Chapter too!
Check out: Well, I never. If you like these you'll like that channel
@@DeepThought420 I'll check that one out today
You can also check out, "This is Monsters"
Adrian and Mike ftw!!
what an upsetting story, such a beautiful and caring woman.
I'm proud to say that I am a Latinamerican woman and that the support we give eachother is absolute and beautiful. Sadly there's people like this. I truly hope that he does rot in prison and that Aliny's children can push thru this tragedy.
I love your content and how respectful you are. I have a case I would like for you to consider doing. It's a chilean case and the murderer is Hugo Bustamante.
Thanks for your content, keep up with the amazing work!
Thank you, there really needs to be some anti-stalking laws with teeth in them. This catch and release the stalker does nothing.
So sorry that he found where her safe house was. This one really breaks my heart.
This case really broke my heart.may she rest in peace
This is infuriating and heartbreaking.
I grew up with a stepdad who beat the crap out of my mom and almost killed her a couple times. She didn't have anyone to turn to or anywhere to go and unfortunately so many women and men are in the same position. Society has come a long way over the past few decades with abuse and domestic violence but we still have so much further to go. Laws need to be changed to hold the abuser truly accountable and programs need to be put in place to truly help people out of these dire situations. It's not just a shelter that they can take themselves and their kids to. They need tangible, real life help. 2 weeks in a homeless shelter is not gonna help anyone get on their feet. People say they care about this but when it comes down to it they don't. Look at all the money we spend on BS wars but mention we need to be helping a struggling person and heads explode. If you're in this situation, please know it's not your fault and you do not deserve to be treated like that. You deserve to be loved and treated with respect. You deserve to have a partner that won't hurt you. You deserve better. You. Deserve. Better.
i hope your mother's doing alright now
"his rage was as evident as his stupidity" major burn delivered hella casually
Your humanising focus on the victims in all cases, and general measuredness for all involved, is a breath of fresh air. The true crime genre is saturated, sensationalised and full of the old 'TV filler' vibe. Kudos, Adrian.
Rest in Peace, Aliny. May your children grow up strong and kind in your memory and their own aspirations.
I wish I could've met Aliny. That smile warms my heart.
As a person who survived domestic violence so far I know her horror, 12 years of non stop abuse and violence. I know it will never end as he is free I only hope I make it to old age, some people need to remain in jail... bless this beautiful woman and I hope her children grow up to be strong independent humans
I hope that the abuse will end for you. I hope that you have taken all steps necessary for your safety (restraining orders, police reports, some form of weaponry for protection, having a supportive circle of friends and family, etc). I pray that you will have the peace of mind that you are free from the fear of your abuser. Wishing you light and love.
Such a tragic story. To all women that happens to be in a abusive relationship, even if you’re not ready to leave just yet, please don’t make any more children with a abuser. A child won’t fix any relationship. Stay safe everyone.
Why can women just seal with their abusers anyway?
@@desensitizedanalyser5624 crazy but it happens
" Unfortunately his rage was as evident as his stupidity"
Jeez. Even I felt insulted xD
Oh this one hurts, even with the police taking things seriously, the safe house, the support group, all the measures, she was still doomed. Heartbreaking case.
I've lived in Belo Horizonte, Brazil, for most of my adult life. Watching one of your videos from this perspective makes me appreciate even more your care and consciousness when describing each country/location of the cases. Thanks for the fantastic content.
I can't understand someone being sentenced to life in prison yet have a possibility for parole. Given the manner he took Aliny's life in front of witnesses including his own daughter, there should be NO possibility of parole.
What about people who get a plea deal or just 30 years to be released after only a few...why? How? Ugh! It sucks!
Here in the US the life sentences actually mean LIFE I don't understand why the UK doesn't seem to give life sentences
Uhm, people in the US still get possible parole with life, unless that's changed like everything else in this country. I've seen a bunch of murder sentencing here that upset me, cold blood killers with no remorse in court to get a plea deal. One guy shot another in the back of the head, the victims mother in tears, the killer gets on the mic and is a total a-hole with absolutely NO remorse in front of the mother so the judge says no plea deal and he'll be locked up for life. The guy himself didn't apologize but he did have his lawyer get up and say he's sorry and begged for the plea deal, the judge stupidly gives him that plea deal.
@@lakishasmith7380 - we do have "whole-life orders" which are a life sentence. To my knowledge there are about 70 people currently serving them. The UK has historically had to adhere to the laws of the European Court of Human Rights though, and they won't let half of what happens in the USA slide.
Here in Australia child ra/pists have gotten a measly 6yrs, some murderers only get 12yrs, I have no idea why we can’t just lock some people away forever when they deserve it. The one thing I absolutely respect about the American justice system is that people actually do get put away for the rest of their lives. It doesn’t matter if you can “rehabilitate” some, they need to suffer punishment for the life they’ve taken.
Thank you for your content! I would like to ask one thing of you: please refer to these cases as what they are: femicides. Femicides are when a woman is murdered because of the perp, usually a man's, usually a partner or ex-partner, misogynistic feelings about her, be that sexual objectification, sense of ownership, possessiveness, obsession, or simply hatred of women. It IS a hate crime and we need to acknowledge femicide.
“His rage was as was as evident as his stupidity.” That is a great comment.
I cant imagine the overwhelming feeling of dread as she saw the car pull up next to her.
Just seeing Aliny and her Daughter walking down the street seconds before is heartbreaking. they look so innocent.
I love how you handle all these cases. You truly have a gift for this. I just hope that going through these cases isn't having a negative effect on you mentally. I only say this because this video you seem like it might be taking a toll on you. (I notice little things like that) I hope I'm wrong and you're doing ok. Either way. Love, Peace from Lawton, Oklahoma, USA.
I hope he is ok as well. I can image these type of videos can have a psychological effect on someone.
I am thankful for your eye-opening and compassionate insight. I agree with you. I hope that Adrian is always strong-minded and taking rests.
I appreciate that thank you! Honestly I'm doing fine, I just had a lot to tackle in the week I was recording this video. Aliny's case was also very frustrating to cover, Ricardo is a real piece of work. This week is already easier, you should see a spring in my step in the next video! Thank you for looking out for me
@@CoffeehouseCrime Glad to hear that. Take care and keep the coffee flowing.
@@CoffeehouseCrime Thank you for telling Alinys story. As we all know.. this story (and many others) is extremely disheartening. That being said, you do a fantastic job at celebrating the life of the victims in a way so we can all remember them and they can live on through your videos! Very happy to hear that you are doing great Adrian! And please keep up the amazing work I can’t wait for next weeks video!
Love from Everglade City, Florida.
Oh those children, losing their loving mother, broke my heart. May she find peace.
Just gotta give you another reminder that you're a really cool guy and I appreciate the emotion and effort you put into these cases. You're videos bring me a lot of different emotions and honestly help me through the day as weird as that may sound.
Poor lady. Poor kids that lost their mother. The murderer...don't feel sorry for him nor his sorry excuses...BOTH his wife and his new GF said he was abusive, and he has the nerve to say he's not guilty bc he didn't know what he was doing? Geez. Incredible. Another beautiful soul (Aliny) taken from this Earth before they were suppose to. R.I.P. Aliny Godinho. Such a shame.
A lot of people try to say they don't remember doing it or didn't know what they were doing. Excuses, excuses. Sigh!
Narcissists are amazing at mental gymnastics, rationalising their behaviour and blaming their victims. I can imagine he even believes that he wasn't abusive. Those people can be absolutely delusional.
Geez these domestic violence stories are difficult to watch when you expect to know how it's going to end. RIP Aliny.
Thanks for your content Adrian.
How you talked about her at the end broke my heart to pieces
Thank you so much for telling her story!!
Oh my, when the part of him finding her SIM card came up I felt chills down my spine 😥
I'm still grateful to your channel Adrian. My channel is growing because your amazing community. Thank you all🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Keep at it man! 🙌☕️
@@CoffeehouseCrime That means a lot to me Adrian. Thank you🙏🏾
I had never heard of this before. Very touching and heartbreaking. It's amazing to me how even the tiniest child can understand what death is. Thank you for taking the time to film this story.
What beautiful smile she had. I hope shes resting peacefully and her kids are doing as best as they can. RIP
Thank you for covering this case. Those poor kids, and of course, Aliny. Those who don't understand domestic abuse should watch this.
What a MONSTER! Jail isn’t enough for him to suffer. His kids will learn to hate him not see him as a father. This is so sad :/
I doubt they're gonna see him as a father being that he's going to be in prison for a very long time.
That poor woman 😢. Abusers never make “fresh starts”, but one can’t blame their partner for hoping that they will. And it’s very difficult for a woman to leave when she has children. A very sad story.
SO...we should just kill all abusers, since "they never change"
I love the fact you diss or make the perpetrators seem stupid and show massive respect to the victims, it's pretty refreshing
Love listening to these stories, your doing a great job 👍
I’m from Brazil and crimes like this are unfortunately part of everyday life. Great job though!
unfortunately, crimes like this are everywhere everyday, and confinements have made it worse... RIP to all those ladies
yeah.... this happens everywhere ): and anyone who thinks it DOESN'T happen in their country are blind to reality.... Still, sad about them all
I grew up right by where this happened and still live in the area. Thankfully for us things like this are exceptionally rare and cause us massive upset and outrage. They are far from normal or regular here.
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stop spreading bullshit. I am from Brazil too and I rarely see any cases like this around here. You are watching too much TV.
Aliny had the smile of an angel. She deserved only the best in life and she’s suffered so much while she was alive, I just hope she’s resting in paradise. I hope her children are okay and remember their beautiful mother as a strong and brave warrior.
Always great coverage and awareness of tragic cases, thank you!
You are in my top 3 crime posters. Your cases are always well thought out, with the right amount of sympathy for the victims. Bravo!
Cooking while watching one of my favourite true crime channels. Hey True Crime Community, you're the BEST!
Hello 👋🏼 enjoy your food 😋
No, you! What did you cook?
@@obscureogre4547 I cooked chicken thigh curry with white rice😊
@@LaLuna82 OH, I did. Thank you😊🤗
@@clantis damn that sounds good. Share next time. I make killer brownies. We can swap
This is so sad. I've done a lot of research on domestic abuse cases and it's so unfortunate as I've learned that these incidents can happen to honestly anyone... I'm glad she had a good support group but I'm also heartbroken that it wasn't enough. Rest in peace, Aliny.
A story so close to home and I didn't even know about it. Thank you for sharing this!
I had to comment with WTAF on this because I've watched so many of these types of stories, but this might be one of the worse of abuse I've heard. Shredding his kids passports!? Ugh, gross. I feel for the family who had to deal with a man like this.. What a beautiful soul Aliny was
Aliny truly seemed doomed- i figured she was stuck when she started having all those kids. she seemed absolutely unable to really get away...& who think being with kids will protect them ?!
I don’t understand continuing to have children in a toxic relationship. It was likely his way to keep her stuck with him.
@Oligoden common tactic among abusers
@Deborah Day 100%! i am wondering what in her personality up-bringing..etc made her go along. sad story for all.
@Brîndusa D band aid babies
@Brîndusa D I think sometimes, women in particular, think having another baby will help the marriage become closer, but it never seems to work out that way most of the time. Some do it because they know it will be harder for the other person to leave the relationship. Messed up all the way around. Using children as pawns.
What a tragic case! Thanks for another great video Adrian.
Thank you for your work.
I have never looked forward to Mondays in my 57 years until now. I told my bf this morning It's Coffeehouse Crime Day!!! Love your portrayal of the innocent lives taken way to soon, love your portrayal of these monsters too! Keep up the Good work Adrian.. and making my Mondays !!! Much love and respect from NC/ USA 🇺🇸
I feel like I'm becoming a regular visitor at this coffee shop. It's a nice place with a pleasant owner who can tell the most chilling stories with a calm and soothing voice.
Thank you for bringing a story form my home country, Adrian!
Cheers from Brazil! 🇧🇷
Your content gets me through my work week, keep up all the great work! 👍
"Ricardo couldn't count." This apparently is a more common problem than I had thought it might be. I listened to two people reacting to a song just last night and one of them mentioned that the song they were reacting to was released in 1970. He said, "Just think, that's 20 something years ago." and the other person agreed with him. So, I guess from 1970 to 2022 is 20 years! I actually like that way of counting because it makes me a few decades younger than I thought I was. 😁
Hey 70s were just yesterday! We're still young 😉
@@A_Ducky Yeah 60 is the new 40 LOL
I was born in the 80s and still think it's 2000 lol
I was born in '76
Being 45 would be awesome if I hadn't lost 30s to illness. I really don't mind aging. Everything is a lesson, or a memory. It's worth experiencing it, even in my super sucky reality. I've seen war, so....
To put into perspective how incredibly stupid most people are I’ll take you back to when Michael Bloomberg ran for president. There was a segment on CNN where two anchors or show hosts were commenting on a tweet made by some dope on how Bloomberg, at that point had spent 300 million dollars on a failed presidential bid. The tweet stated something about how rich people don’t care and waste money and could’ve used that 300 million to give every American 1 million dollars which is immediately incorrect considering there are a little over 313 million legal American Citizens... if you do the math and there were 300 million Americans that would be around $1300 give or take because I don’t feel like doing the math right now! To compound the stupidity the two hosts completely agreed and began to run the entire segment off of that egregious error... I would say around 65% of Americans surprise me when they are able to breath and tie their shoes at the same time!
I'm glad the court saw through his lame excuses. I wish Aliny would have seen it sooner, and been better prepared to protect herself. Such a senseless loss of a beautiful person.
So if she wasn't beautiful, it wouldn't be a loss ?
@@justadreamerforgood69 I wasn't referring to outer beauty. Not sure why you are.
@@okeydokey3120
Fair enough
I love the way you share the stories
Keep up the good work!
I literally cried this one really hit a nerve