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  • Опубліковано 3 гру 2024

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  • @Rene_21-d1y
    @Rene_21-d1y 3 роки тому +98

    When Kat said :"Lets rock, let's go, let's GROW"!!! I felt that 🤞🏽🔥❤️

  • @Mbaliyakhoyothando
    @Mbaliyakhoyothando 3 роки тому +39

    "I think jealousy is a normal emotion, I think the problem is when you project your Jealousy to people" 🙌

  • @4sossgirl
    @4sossgirl 3 роки тому +17

    “normally you’ll realise when you fight with your partner it’s really bad but when you make up..it’s amazing and you chase that feeling” yikes

  • @WandileKhoza
    @WandileKhoza 3 роки тому +66

    Gugu: “Where else can they take you, we’re at the bottom” 🤣🤣
    this took me tf out!
    BIG FACTS shared on this video 🥺
    Really enjoyed it guys😍

  • @ntokozoskosana5982
    @ntokozoskosana5982 3 роки тому +35

    Gugulethu is so beautiful 🥺😍❤️

  • @thandiwe4971
    @thandiwe4971 3 роки тому +30

    I was almost head first in a toxic relationship like boma last week, normalize leaving the relationship for your own good

  • @alicesakhilendlovu4862
    @alicesakhilendlovu4862 3 роки тому +55

    I relate with the jealousy chat! 💔I used to be in a friendship where everytime I'd share good news or just achievements/plans, and they'd always try change the conversation to being about themselves and what they are doing. It always felt like they were competing. It got to a point where i stopped sharing things with them.

    • @lady_sits
      @lady_sits 3 роки тому +1

      Same here 🙋🏽‍♀️

  • @lisalunika
    @lisalunika 3 роки тому +23

    Y’all said “it’s Sunday, I’m gonna preach to you “😭😭

  • @deliwemavis2200
    @deliwemavis2200 3 роки тому +34

    I have just left a toxic relationship and yooh its hard I wanna go back so much but the damage is too deep been crying every day and praying for healing

  • @4sossgirl
    @4sossgirl 3 роки тому +5

    “also you should vocalise something once and anyone that respects you will listen the first time” listennn

  • @zamuntukhoza1021
    @zamuntukhoza1021 3 роки тому +20

    Gugu will just rock up with a simple straight back hairstyle but look stunning AF! Umuhle Sisi

  • @KatlegoLebogang
    @KatlegoLebogang 3 роки тому +9

    Love you so much sis ❤️ Recording with you is really just one of my favourite things to do!!! ❤️❤️

  • @yolandasithebe3607
    @yolandasithebe3607 3 роки тому +23

    Love katleho her energy, her laugh 🤭🤭😍😍😍🔥

  • @theee_luyanda4546
    @theee_luyanda4546 3 роки тому +3

    Toxic relationships🙅‍♀️Never go back no matter how much you miss them coz it'll end in tears

  • @4sossgirl
    @4sossgirl 3 роки тому +3

    “let’s build. let’s rock, let’s go, let’s grow” 🤲🏽

  • @naledims9499
    @naledims9499 3 роки тому +32

    Katlego bathong ke mood😂😂ily guys❤❤❤

  • @annekutumela859
    @annekutumela859 3 роки тому +1

    Lmao that British "yehh" 😂😂😂

  • @JennyOyubu
    @JennyOyubu 3 роки тому +2

    When Kat said "Let's rock, let's go and let's grow plus "when you are in a relationship, your partner should protect your honor at all cost" Those words shaped hard, I was like PREACH SIS🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @mufaro68
    @mufaro68 3 роки тому +4

    katlego that jawline😩😍

  • @ThokoTwala
    @ThokoTwala 3 роки тому +2

    “Your friends wins should motivate you” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @kerlykamure5234
    @kerlykamure5234 3 роки тому +8

    Katlego is sooo Beautiful ,, Love her energyyy

  • @Mbaliyakhoyothando
    @Mbaliyakhoyothando 3 роки тому +14

    Friends who understand and respect what you're going through without feeling like you're dimming their lights or jealous of them are everything 🥺❤️

  • @starfishstarfish5162
    @starfishstarfish5162 3 роки тому

    Yall made me realise that I'm not weird , same principles leant through bad experiences

  • @unathibutsaka
    @unathibutsaka 3 роки тому +2

    this video is so informative , not only have I learnt how to identify toxic relationships I have also learned how to be a better friend

  • @allthingsbeautywithsego.622
    @allthingsbeautywithsego.622 3 роки тому +4

    The way I sobbed through the entire video ?! 🥺😭😭😭 I related to every single thing y’all said !!! Y’all beautiful ladies were spitting hard raw FACTS!!!!! 🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭 yooooh I needed to hear this 🥺🥺💔

  • @sukoluhlesibanda7812
    @sukoluhlesibanda7812 3 роки тому +2

    Ladies,you are so gorgeous🥺😻😻😻

  • @mphobubbly
    @mphobubbly 3 роки тому +3

    Shuuuu girlies!!! That friendship part was HIIITTTTIIING!!! also... when you said god MOVES when you ask him to remove??? FELT!! Hey... youll see things/people moving funny faster than you ever have! Aggghhh always love the content! A little triggered but we must pray and keep it moving!

  • @fortunatesurprise6081
    @fortunatesurprise6081 2 роки тому

    This video deserves a second round I'm not happy 😭😭😭😭😭😭❤❤❤the end part for me

  • @motselisisekonyela8587
    @motselisisekonyela8587 3 роки тому +2

    Kat has a channel? 😭😭 God answers prayers fr! I'm happier than happy 🍾🥂💃💃💃💃

  • @4sossgirl
    @4sossgirl 3 роки тому +3

    “privacy and hiding..two different things” facts

  • @reahilemoumakoe
    @reahilemoumakoe 3 роки тому +2

    Please do a part 2?.💞💞💞💞

  • @thokozilengcakani2123
    @thokozilengcakani2123 3 роки тому +6

    60K around the corner 🥂🥂
    Well done sisGU

  • @sithabilehlela
    @sithabilehlela 3 роки тому +2

    Kat is in the house 🥺💃💃💃❤️

  • @hlonzntoni4344
    @hlonzntoni4344 3 роки тому +3

    Sho Notification geeeeeeeenge

  • @lesegogededzha6717
    @lesegogededzha6717 3 роки тому +6

    Whatssssss gooodddd genge😍🤘

  • @rethabile4127
    @rethabile4127 3 роки тому +3

    The timing of this video😭🥺🤩my friend needed it❤

  • @MsMondey
    @MsMondey 3 роки тому +6

    The petty comments that your friend gives when they jealous ,like its a switch

  • @freckleflame
    @freckleflame 3 роки тому +5

    no ways! i was dong my hair while listening. I just stopped everything to properly sit down and watch and LISTEN because wow. Beautiful and true! Great video Gugu! Congratulations Kat on your channel!

  • @apheqwane
    @apheqwane 3 роки тому +9

    Notification gang lets goooo ! 💥

  • @pheonix6347
    @pheonix6347 3 роки тому +6

    🕺🏿🕺🏿🕺🏿Finally Gugu.
    I have been waiting.

  • @anam.m_
    @anam.m_ 3 роки тому +9

    I haven't watched the whole video but thixo facts on facts📌

  • @indiphilemanxiwa
    @indiphilemanxiwa 3 роки тому +3

    Gugu is so pretty yho😭😍😍

  • @lisalunika
    @lisalunika 3 роки тому +1

    Y’all were just preaching 😭

  • @pheonix6347
    @pheonix6347 3 роки тому +8

    I really enjoyed this video.
    I learned so much and Gugu and her friends stay speaking fact

  • @LethaboDladla00
    @LethaboDladla00 3 роки тому

    "It is subtle,you see it in the little things"😭💀🙌the accuracy

  • @lethabomarleym
    @lethabomarleym 3 роки тому +6

    Genge 🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️

  • @lihlithembamkhize1273
    @lihlithembamkhize1273 3 роки тому +5

    LOL, I LOVE YOU AND YOUR FRIENDS, that's just all I'm going to say.

  • @l_esed_i
    @l_esed_i 3 роки тому

    GUGU YOU SPEAK NOTHING BUT FACTS!! I wish i started watching your videos long ago ESEPCIALLY THIS VIDEO because i would gave avoided SO MUCH hurt and pain and mental health issues. But i know now! you are a gem! an honest God sent. we love you chile !!

  • @thokozileomuhle
    @thokozileomuhle 3 роки тому +3

    "constant fighting is not normal" i felt that.. Powerful conversations

  • @sinovuyoKalako
    @sinovuyoKalako 3 роки тому +2

    Sila📍yess Kat😍

  • @phomelloraltadi7636
    @phomelloraltadi7636 3 роки тому +8

    Sho genge we've got the vibe again today🔥❤🌻

  • @everythinglee9614
    @everythinglee9614 3 роки тому +13

    NEW HAIR WHOOO DISSSS 😍😍😍😍😍

  • @yaneliswaphambaniso7248
    @yaneliswaphambaniso7248 3 роки тому +1

    I can listen you speak all day ladies❤❤.

  • @vuyiswantuli1733
    @vuyiswantuli1733 3 роки тому +2

    Sho genge! ♥️

  • @Amanda-1999
    @Amanda-1999 3 роки тому +5

    i only realised after 3 minutes, that you guys have matching tops ❤❤❤
    love the content.

  • @indiphilemanxiwa
    @indiphilemanxiwa 3 роки тому +3

    Kat is pretty too😭

  • @Mayiwe
    @Mayiwe 3 роки тому

    iyoooooo I HAVE NEVER FELT SO PERSONALLY ATTACKED. i am literally screaming

  • @oof.itsKozo
    @oof.itsKozo 3 роки тому +2

    City Girls Mhlaba Wonke🥺❤

  • @lusandatsilana8890
    @lusandatsilana8890 3 роки тому

    Kat is gorgeous. Whaaat?!!🔥😩

  • @hercrown1318
    @hercrown1318 3 роки тому +4

    I just realised yall are matching

  • @tamarabacela2362
    @tamarabacela2362 3 роки тому +2

    Nibahle maan😍😍

  • @yonelanobakada2394
    @yonelanobakada2394 3 роки тому +1

    I'm in a situation similar to the one mentioned here (toxic friendship) and I really didn't know what to do 'cause I kinda still love her as a friend but this video helped me❤ I didn't know I needed it

  • @randommatim
    @randommatim 3 роки тому +1

    You don’t know what you didn’t need? PREACH👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

  • @bonolomarumo7505
    @bonolomarumo7505 3 роки тому +5

    Thank you guys for this. Although I might be a little younger than you guys I can absolutely relate to what you guys said about looking for grounding relationships. I'm genuinely, from the bottom of my heart cannot deal with romantic relationships that aren't for the long run.

  • @lisalunika
    @lisalunika 3 роки тому +7

    Y’all said “it’s Sunday am I’m gonna preach to you “😭😭

  • @NkosazanaNk
    @NkosazanaNk 3 роки тому +4

    ❤❤ commenting on how good this vid is before i even watch it . bc wowza , sis gu never disappoints

  • @tshepi4justice875
    @tshepi4justice875 3 роки тому

    Wow one perfect take 🎬🎬🎬🎬? I’m inspired 🔥🔥🔥🔥 no cuts or edits! Amazing 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @everythinglee9614
    @everythinglee9614 3 роки тому +4

    so happy to see my favourite faces 😍

  • @vuyomvundle
    @vuyomvundle 3 роки тому +2

    Man like Kat!!!!😂🔥🔥🔥👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @miamuuaza8313
    @miamuuaza8313 3 роки тому

    Not a lot of people do talk about toxic friendships, thank you for this :)

  • @undjivangausurua5593
    @undjivangausurua5593 3 роки тому +1

    Words can’t express how much this video was sooooo powerful and full of wisdom !! ❤️❤️

  • @londiweskosana4814
    @londiweskosana4814 3 роки тому +1

    Why didn't we have this conversation sooner!!

  • @simphiwengwenya4337
    @simphiwengwenya4337 3 роки тому

    you guys are so sharp and here u are sharpening the rest of us , much love #TeamGenge

  • @asandaprecious6709
    @asandaprecious6709 3 роки тому

    This was very powerful 🙌🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯

  • @thulizinhle3846
    @thulizinhle3846 2 роки тому

    May we please have another one🥺Loved this❤️😻

  • @lithe-thabango132
    @lithe-thabango132 3 роки тому

    Just burnt bridges with my step-sister because of this !!!!!! Can't be draining myself with her lies

  • @naledi.motsepe
    @naledi.motsepe 3 роки тому

    I’m rewatching this, this video is so important. thank you guys.❤️

  • @TheLadyInAcademia
    @TheLadyInAcademia 3 роки тому +1

    I enjoyed watching this ❤️😍💯

  • @prestacliff
    @prestacliff 3 роки тому +1

    It’s the road to 60k for me 😭🤩🤩🤩🤩

  • @athyqinela
    @athyqinela 3 роки тому

    Kat finally has tshanel guysssssss ❤️❤️❤️💃

  • @Yeyethunyoka
    @Yeyethunyoka 3 роки тому

    All I am saying is I NEEDED TO WATCH THIS VIDEO! Most of the things that are being spoken about here I am currently going through especially in friendships.

  • @phomelloraltadi7636
    @phomelloraltadi7636 3 роки тому +2

    Let's rock let's grow let's go oakes❤🔥🌻

  • @TheWinningNadz
    @TheWinningNadz 3 роки тому

    Jealousy and envy are very common feelings. But I think people must catch themselves when it comes to that and then work on it. There have been days when I had to catch myself and tell myself that I'm acting up chile and I need to deal with my own insecurities. This has often allowed me to show up better for my friends.

  • @bamekepu2063
    @bamekepu2063 3 роки тому +3

    Love to see a consistent Quueeeennn❤

  • @theghel1296
    @theghel1296 3 роки тому +2

    This could potentially be a sign👀

  • @buhlesoga
    @buhlesoga Рік тому

    Thank you so much❤️❤️

  • @sihle_khums
    @sihle_khums 3 роки тому +3

    Love this🥺❤🔥 preach ninani !

  • @thecazatwins
    @thecazatwins 3 роки тому +3

    Loved this 🤍

  • @justsips14
    @justsips14 3 роки тому +2

    Beautiful video❤

  • @nombongooo
    @nombongooo 3 роки тому

    LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS VIDEO

  • @langazwane
    @langazwane 3 роки тому +1

    I really learn a lot from you Sis gugu 🙏🏾🤍

  • @thabiletinyiko6450
    @thabiletinyiko6450 3 роки тому

    Wuuuuu! The gems! The facts!!!! Ni ya shisa girls!

  • @katlehoabigail5392
    @katlehoabigail5392 3 роки тому

    Absolutely loved this!

  • @leratomokone5960
    @leratomokone5960 3 роки тому +1

    Yasss definitely need a 2nd video this is soo good 😭😭😭😭

  • @the_mixed_priincess9812
    @the_mixed_priincess9812 3 роки тому

    I appreciate this was more emphasising friendships than romantic relationships 😭✨

  • @noluthandozungu8007
    @noluthandozungu8007 3 роки тому

    Ngiyanizwa mina
    Thank you for that especially for mentioning the part of letting God know and to fast... ♥️🥰thank you

  • @lulamamogorosi5726
    @lulamamogorosi5726 3 роки тому

    These sit-down talks you have are actually so nice... Thank you Gugu. I love these

  • @zamuntukhoza1021
    @zamuntukhoza1021 3 роки тому +1

    Enjoying the video huns!

  • @itsmumba
    @itsmumba 3 роки тому +2

    they said what they said and i agree with everything

  • @fearless0122
    @fearless0122 3 роки тому +1

    Timely video 🙌🏾✨
    Loved all you had to share, it carries so much weight! “Trust your Gut and PRAY” ya neh so true 💯
    Love the content Gugu, stunning ladies 😍
    ❤️❤️🇳🇦