"Why protect other women when they have done nothing to protect you" or whatever mentality is so flawed. You do it because it's the right thing to do. Honestly I would have accepted "it's expensive" or the answer she gave after "it's time consuming and exhausting". Like give a real answer instead of some bullshit "what have you done for meeeeeeeee??". It's like being a parent and expecting your kid to serve you breakfast in bed every morning otherwise you're not gonna be a decent human being.
I had to pause when she said "This man is 40" and just take a moment. I thought.... she was talking about an immature 20 something year old that hadn't quite grown out of his teen years.
Story aside, I'm gonna block this channel cuz I'm so so so addicted (i've been binge watching since mornin on and off and it's 8PM now) and I've got midterms next week. Anyway, take this as a compliment lol
Ladies. This is why we need to have more self respect and support each other so we can protect each other from situations like this. No one should be taking pictures of you without consent clothed or not. You are not a maid to clean up after another person. If they won’t wear protection then don’t let them near you. If you are embarrassed or ashamed then something is wrong and needs to change. Find a partner who puts in as much effort as you do. My man surprised me with beef stew after work when I surprised him with donuts 😊
It sounds like you're in a really tough spot, and it's important to set clear boundaries in any relationship. Everyone deserves to feel respected and heard. If your boyfriend isn't acknowledging your boundaries, it may be helpful to have a calm, honest conversation about how you feel. A healthy relationship should be built on mutual respect and understanding. If he continues to disregard your feelings, it might be worth considering whether this relationship is truly supporting your well-being. Always remember, your boundaries are valid, and it's okay to stand firm on them. You deserve someone who respects you fully.
OP should have pressed charges- if not to stop him from doing it to someone else which Op actually seems to be hoping for: that he'll move on to his next victim and just harass her. but Op also doesn't know what pictures of her he has or what he is doing with them- he could be posting them on some creep site for all she knows. i also think OP is a moron for exposing herself while he was at work-- doesn't matter if she thinks he's alone or not while at work. while he's at work he should be focused on work, she had no reason to be flashing him while he was at work. if he was at home then fine, but work is a no.
I understand the mindset of "she should just leave", but she does mention that he intentionaly injures her during intercourse. She also says "I was afraid he'd do something terrible" when she mentions breaking up with him-- both of these things are explicitly abusive. She's a victim of manipulation and abuse. Leaving an abuser is hard.
"why protect other women when they have done nothing to protect you" is dumb as shit because, quite literally, she was even able to report him to the police because of the women who were previously victims to those crimes. not to be that guy but op's trash and she her and ex belonged together. that's my hill to die on.
2:52 woah, woah, woah, wtf OP, you aren't just a doormat you literally get treated like a rug in a dumpster used for dogs to shit on. Wtf are you doing in that relationship?
"Why protect other women when they have done nothing to protect you" or whatever mentality is so flawed. You do it because it's the right thing to do. Honestly I would have accepted "it's expensive" or the answer she gave after "it's time consuming and exhausting". Like give a real answer instead of some bullshit "what have you done for meeeeeeeee??". It's like being a parent and expecting your kid to serve you breakfast in bed every morning otherwise you're not gonna be a decent human being.
Literally it being time consuming and the discovery process being invasive is enough. Not “what have other women ever done for me”
of cource cops are the ones who give that kind of mentality
yeah cool so the guy just walks away, nice
and ''the other guy has a family''?
then why tf was he messaging you?
nah this sucks
Not pressing charges is crazy like wtf
"No other woman did anything to protect you"
I hate how rampant selfish individualism is, this is fucking crazy
Amen, fam. Amen
"I was gonna do the right thing but the cops asked why i would do that, so i guess fuck y'all got mine!"
OP has brain damage staying with this guy for longer than a month.
Amen that’s what I said
The other man has a family? What’s that gotta do with her? Id tell his wife
OP is so spineless omfg💀
Abuse does that sometimes 🤷
I had to pause when she said "This man is 40" and just take a moment. I thought.... she was talking about an immature 20 something year old that hadn't quite grown out of his teen years.
The fact that the police gaslight the op not to press charges is crazy, and op being brain dead enough as to not press charges is the craziest 🤦
Story aside, I'm gonna block this channel cuz I'm so so so addicted (i've been binge watching since mornin on and off and it's 8PM now) and I've got midterms next week. Anyway, take this as a compliment lol
good luck with your exams!!
You know you can't block channels right
“i didn’t press charges” now what
Ladies. This is why we need to have more self respect and support each other so we can protect each other from situations like this. No one should be taking pictures of you without consent clothed or not. You are not a maid to clean up after another person. If they won’t wear protection then don’t let them near you. If you are embarrassed or ashamed then something is wrong and needs to change. Find a partner who puts in as much effort as you do. My man surprised me with beef stew after work when I surprised him with donuts 😊
Naaaah f that, press all the charges 😭
I wouldn't have been allowed to act like this as a child, let alone as a fully grown adult.
I would have asked the police, "Why did you become a police officer then?" Such a BS response.
This woman needs to go to therapy that way she can figure out why she keeps choosing terrible people to be her boyfriend's
It sounds like you're in a really tough spot, and it's important to set clear boundaries in any relationship. Everyone deserves to feel respected and heard. If your boyfriend isn't acknowledging your boundaries, it may be helpful to have a calm, honest conversation about how you feel. A healthy relationship should be built on mutual respect and understanding. If he continues to disregard your feelings, it might be worth considering whether this relationship is truly supporting your well-being. Always remember, your boundaries are valid, and it's okay to stand firm on them. You deserve someone who respects you fully.
OP should have pressed charges- if not to stop him from doing it to someone else which Op actually seems to be hoping for: that he'll move on to his next victim and just harass her. but Op also doesn't know what pictures of her he has or what he is doing with them- he could be posting them on some creep site for all she knows.
i also think OP is a moron for exposing herself while he was at work-- doesn't matter if she thinks he's alone or not while at work.
while he's at work he should be focused on work, she had no reason to be flashing him while he was at work. if he was at home then fine, but work is a no.
what a dumb inconsiderate person.. not pressing charges is crazy
How the hell do guys like this get / keep girlfriends? 2:50 ...oh
Well, thx OP for absolutely nothing
Op is so spineless wth?!💀
I understand the mindset of "she should just leave", but she does mention that he intentionaly injures her during intercourse. She also says "I was afraid he'd do something terrible" when she mentions breaking up with him-- both of these things are explicitly abusive. She's a victim of manipulation and abuse. Leaving an abuser is hard.
OMFG red flag highway and such a flake of an OP.
"why protect other women when they have done nothing to protect you" is dumb as shit because, quite literally, she was even able to report him to the police because of the women who were previously victims to those crimes. not to be that guy but op's trash and she her and ex belonged together. that's my hill to die on.
What did OP do? I mean she wanted to press charges but it seems like the police gaslighted her.
That is a predator.
If this is real, then op herself isn't all well up there. She hopes he gets a new victim soon, seriously? Yeah, nah. She deserves this dude
2:52 woah, woah, woah, wtf
OP, you aren't just a doormat you literally get treated like a rug in a dumpster used for dogs to shit on. Wtf are you doing in that relationship?
This is a 40 year old man......
Men never grow up
Dump him yesterday.
DOORMAT
😑😑😑😑😑😑😑
This story is pathetic crap
🥐🥐🥐
croissant?
Real