I do have to add here - all jokes aside I’m sure he genuinely believes this content is harmless, but recording women without their permission or knowledge shouldn’t be “content”. There is a possibility that anyone would be uncomfortable with this, being smiled at in such a way and being recorded isn’t “content”.
And he looks like a man. Man should want women, not girls. (Seriously, infantilisation of women is such a problem. Some people legitimately see/treat them as either objects, or children, not human adults. Calling women "girls" is a huge red flag, 90% of the time.)
It's concerning that he describes that as trying to meet someone "naturally". The closest thing in nature to a man walking around with a selfie stick and a look of hungry desperation is a rabid wild dog. I would react the same to both as well- get far away and warn other people in the area. But I would feel bad for the rabid dog... Might call Animal Control on this guy, too 💀
I thinkbhes getting off on it. You can see how uncomfortable the women are. Right now he is a liwl level nuisance but it could be the ground work for escalated behaviour and he could do with a chat from the police...just saying
He never said anything nice he does anyways. Just riding a bike with a pizza? That’s the best thing you do? Does he have hobbies besides complaining that he’s single?
@@thatsnotmyname1 My thought is that his actions, behaviors, and priorities describe him. He says he's trying to "Meet women without using an app," yet he is in fact using an app [TikTok] to attract female attention.
@@SelinaShaw I know exactly what that means but he’s doing all this already.. you can say I am a nice person, and then act like a nice person. That shouldn’t be a red flag per se.
He’s 100% the kind of person who brings home a pizza and then later in the night when you say you’re going to bed, you’re tired, he’s all ‘are we not having sex? I brought you pizza!’
One big red flag for me is when guys complain on the internet about how they deserve a girlfriend because they’re so great but can’t find one and it’s not fair hahaha
It's always because they're not tall enough and too nice. It's really sad to hear because it means they've given up. They're never going to figure out what they have to offer and how to do that because they hit a wall of their own creation.
Thats exactly what I was thinking bc, say you put the phone down one day & meet a ~nice~ girl not filming her, & she likes you and you're going out & then she sees your social media. And its this. Now shes like.. do i really want to be the most openly desparate man on the internet's girlfriend? 😬 like wow i am the one who would finally date him after every other lady hard passed, and everyone knows that 😶 Consider your digital footprint, guys 🙏🏻🙏🏻
He’s whining and blaming his height, something he can’t control, instead of anything he CAN control, like his poor personality and attitude. 😂 men who do that are just so pathetic, I have no sympathy for them.
Exactly. Like, oh wow, this person who makes the fact that they’re “unjustly” single their whole personality from everything we can see is having a hard time making genuine connections? They don’t know how to just be normal, and instead they come off like an overbearing, pushy creeper? How shocking and surprising and unbelievable. WOW.
I love it when people list of aspects of being a decent human being and then think that makes them a catch. Yay. You’re a functional member of society. And…?
@@MeHungeee That’s a life long journey for most of us ❤️ it’s ok to look for love we are community creatures but we must never love anyone else more than ourselves. 🥰
Creepy af. It's sad too. Bc he's not bad looking. But bc he acts so weird and can't believe that women are not flocking to him makes him cringe. Plus, filming yourself? TikTok is not the way to meet someone.
Dudes gonna attract some scam on some account soon ...that desperation is smelling. I am single. But even I can see his desperation coming thru my screen. That's when fake profiles find u
Good looks are nothing. There's plenty of pretty attractive incels out there and A LOT of much less attractive men with partners. It's pretty much never the looks, always the personality.
His desperation to find a woman, any woman is disturbing. His entire identity is revolving around his relationship status. Everything he does, everywhere he goes is for the pursuit of a relationship. He needs real hobbies. Guys like this are not fun to be in relationships with.
Every single man I have met in life who has had to openly state "I'm a nice guy" has NOT been a nice guy. Gross. I feel so much second hand embarrassment and an underlying feeling of unsettledness that makes me feel like I would rather take my chances with a bear in the woods.
How tragic. Exactly how many men that you've daily been around have ripped you apart and stored you for food? Do some research and stop painting the average man, your father, brother, grandpa, co-worker, butcher, car repairs etc as a predator.
@@Cynthiabecker24 What's actually tragic is young girls and women who are assaulted, r*ped and murdered have been done so by not only men, but men they've also trusted, not by bears. I am an avid outdoors backpacker, camper, hiker and I've come across my fair share of bears. Not one of them have assaulted me. I have however been assaulted my men, even as a child. If you're gonna spew hate and misinformation, find another space to do it. Your negativity is not welcomed here.
He comes off as negative and needy. 5’8” isn’t an obstacle. I’ve met great guys who are that height. It’s more about being an intelligent, self-confident, happy person with a good sense of humour.
My boyfriend is 5'8" and I'm a woman of 4'9". We are both 32. I think it's cute. But there are some women who really want a man that is taller than 6 foot. I'm not with the hype but I have heard of it
I'm 5'5" and love dating people around my height! My current man companion is about 5'7", he isn't insecure about it, and I love that we can look one another in the eye without any issue. In my experience, the height itself is never the problem -- it's the men's complexes about their height. They don't seem to understand that someone who would reject them based on their height is not someone they would be compatible with anyway.
My problem with these 'nice' guys is that they always seem to feel entitled to a relationship. Plus, when they talk about women they almost always use a broad brush. They never talk about women as interesting independent entities with their own personalities. It's creepy, like we're all interchangable. These are the types of guys I've had really scary experiences with. Because they don't see you as much more than an object to suit their desires if they 'do the right thing' and take you to dinner / buy you flowers. Sociopathic.
"This isn't Bridgerton" "You're not born alone, you literally come out of someone and there are loads of people in the room"🤣 He is creepy, If he actually does manage to meet someone, he may never let them go.
Agree with others who have noted how "incel" flavoured some of his ideas are. He has no instant rights to a "girl". His little giggle at the end sounds so tense and not a relaxed chuckle. Barely contained rage that sets people's radar off on an instinctive level. He's not bad looking but his anger is too close to the surface. I'd have a cold spot at the back of my neck and have to run away
Well, I can already tell you the incel behaviour of complaining about not being able to get a girlfriend and being such a "nice guy" would send us to the bears. Edit: Bros filming himself talking to stangers.... In London!? I do pretty much everything on my own so if a man approached me with a camera I would take a fighting stance. I don't know about others but from past experiences and from what I've seen be careful who you go up to. As a feminine presenting person it's scary when strange men come up to you.
He surely has standards which is why he'll reject any similar woman who might reach out and not his taste. So if you have standards wait don't complain. Nobody gets their type easily unless lucky nowadays. Idk just what I see
Regarding your edit: Yes. I wish more men understood this and had the self-awareness to know when they're doing something that is potentially going to trigger a woman's self-defense mode.
I thought British people don’t really do the American thing of “approach strangers out of the blue (especially women)” so what is he trying to accomplish?
FOR REAL! His idea of trying to meet someone naturally is to simply stand around in public spaces?? Actual good ways to naturally meet people is either through mutual friends or mutual interests. Don't just stand in the middle of a store, go somewhere a bit more specific and try talking to people there - you already have a starting point of conversation since you're there because of a shared interest!
That’s 100% creepy. If some guy filming with his phone came up to me and randomly tried to talk to me, I’d be creeped out. And idk, a man claiming to be a “nice guy” makes me think he isn’t one.
he's just filming so he has evidence that he tries sooo hard but boohoohoo he still can't get a girl despite how nice he is! :( if he was genuine he wouldn't be filming. he's just entitled! he thinks he deserves to have a partner so he can be validated & glorified as a macho man nice guy, not because he genuinely likes an individual woman that also likes him too. he has to work on himself too, we all do, a relationship is taking time & doing things on purpose to show love in a personal way to meet that person's unique needs.
The woman who caught him filming seemed somewhat interested when he approached her because he’s a decent looking guy but he shot himself in the foot because of him recording.
@@loumeep when I say interested, I don’t mean she immediately would date him, I mean she’s not put off by him. It doesn’t hurt to at least try to flirt and she to me gave the impression she wasn’t put off by him at first encounter. The smile didn’t come off as someone who was intimidated and trying to calm any potential threat. The problem is that he shoots himself in the foot by relying social media and also expecting the other person to put in the work to socialize with him.
If your whole personality is, "nice guy who deserves a girlfriend," baby you might be the problem. It's a major turnoff because it feels like you just want any attractive woman who will have you vs. you wanting to be with someone because you have a genuine interest in who they are as a person. It's an ick.
You're so right about the unhealthily narrow focus on just finding A Girlfriend, any girlfriend, no other preferences just one (1) female lady woman please. If he had friends, hobbies, a community - perhaps he could get some feedback and support. If he's pinning everything on this one connection it's no wonder he's so pressed!
Exactly this. Put your phone down and have real human interactions. If I see someone filming themselves, they get a wide berth. Just walking up to random women on the street/store is weird. (especially while filming) My guess is finding a girlfriend is his whole personality.
@@kelqueen9998he's what we're talking about when we say someone needs to touch grass. He's been in his little self pity circle jerk for so long he's forgotten what being a person actually looks like. He needs to really focus on himself, go to therapy (he isn't in the US, he can afford it), and work on the way he views people (especially women). Otherwise he's going to end up in a news article, and it won't be for his "prestigious social media career".
“Friendly” usually means they bother random women in the most inconvenient times. The amount of men (who are too old for me anyway, I’m 24) who will waste my time at WORK. Like bro, I have a limited amount of time to do a whole lotta things, and entertaining you isn’t one of them. But yeah dating is horrible right now, I’ve never been in a real relationship because I haven’t found anyone who was more interested in *me* than my boobs. And it’s a lot of dudes like 30-60 who end up hitting on me…
I thought I was crazy because I clearly heard him say that he was South African and then Robert said that he was from London 😂.... South African men are really manly👌
In my experience men who call themselves "nice" have a sense of unconscious entitlement about them, like they think they are owed something from women for being nice. Being "nice" (a word which connotes a senses of people pleasing and inauthenticity) isn't even that great of a quality; kindness, compassion, authenticity, confidence, self-awareness, creativity, and playfulness are all are much better qualities. Also, he said he's "saving the planet" - I hope he did not mean that seriously 😅
Dude needs to ditch the phone. If he wants to use a phone he needs to ask people permission first before he does. It’s creepy and disrespectful to film people without their consent unless they’re doing something illegal or something.
"You're born alone and you die alone" has always been such a red flag to me. Like how bleak is your outlook on life that you forget that when you're born, you're literally coming out of another person? Being born is by definition at LEAST a two person job.
no actually i have social anxiety and if i see a grown man with his camera out i will, as female presenting, assume he’s a pervert or just annoying in the best case 💀
Ohmygosh, I'm just watching this at 10:30 PM (it's a hour later over here) and this afternoon today when I went grocery shopping I had this same kind of guy creeping me out. He came close to me, was judgemental and nosy about the things I lay down at the cashier, I didn't answered, he said the same thing: "I'm a nice guy, that girl just don't understand me." Excuse me?!?!! CREEP ALERT🚨🚨🚨
Honestly I wish people would stop filming in public. Whenever guys come up to me now, I’m always paranoid that I’m going to end up on some dating UA-cam channel, and torn to shreds by a ton of strangers for simply going about my day. And with the ease of access people have to Ai I legitimately think the legality of posting videos/pictures of people on the internet without their consent should be called into question. Other countries like Germany already have laws prohibiting this. It’s not enough to not post pictures of yourself on social media - the only guaranteed way that you can protect your image is by not stepping outside which is just entirely infeasible. The moment that your image is on the internet any random stranger can use Ai to manipulate it at their will, and while I know that there’s a greater likelihood of someone you know being the perpetrator behind this sort of thing, with the rise in hatred in highly polarised groups on the internet I think we’re on the precipice of Ai being used in highly malicious ways to manipulate contentious narratives on social media, and it’s going to result in serious fallout for the victims.
Omg, it gets worse the longer you watch. KID, I have dated 5’8 dudes, no problem. Your problem is that you’re damn OBSESSED with being in a relationship! You know what desperate to be in a relationship people do? They manipulate to get into a relationship. Cool, you ride a bike … but you ride one because “saving the environment” is supposed to get you laid, not because you believe in it.
Same. I've always said I'd rather be on my own and perhaps a bit lonely at times rather than be trapped (legally, financially, etc.) in a hellish, loveless relationship simply for the sake of not being alone. Spinsters FTW!
I'm 24 and I've already decided that dating just ain't for me, lol. I'm a dude, but I'm all the way down for joining the "love dodging spinster" club. I'll bring a good Pinot and a brie bake, we can have a nice little snack!
@@Nasheepoosame I bailed out of a 2 year relationship with my ex for this v reason. I had a huge crush on this guy who seemed the most smiliest helpful guy and when we got together it took no more than a year for his suspicious controlling and at times, mean side to come out. I took the massive decision to break up with him knowing I would now be lonely for lord knows how long as I have no family/little friends network and work mainly from home. I still made that call though especially when he started pushing me into selling both our homes so we could live together and refused to compromise and at least rent together first to see how we got along. I just felt he wanted to sort of lock me in under his control 24/7. He even got mad if I had to go overnight on work trips! Anyway I’m glad I broke free even though I may never love again it’s better to be alone and happy at least some of the time than with the wrong partner who will likely ensure you never genuinely smile ever again 🫤
Back in the myspace days, I had a girl friend who was dating this guy and she later found out he had a second myspace profile where he would complain about being single and how he was such a "nice guy". I think of that dude everytime I see posts and videos like this
Rule 1, if someone has to tell you they are a 'nice guy' they arent and if they blame the reason they are single on their hight is probably a monster. Im 4ft 9 and hight has never meant anything to me, nor has money. Personality, humor, how they treat others and animals and are self reflective and supportive are the only things that are important. He seems very desperate and if you went on one date, you didnt hit it off, he would stalk you for a year....... just the vibes. I would decline, any interaction with him, plus hes filming, no thanks. I have been single 8 years because online is a fucking mess and i work too much to meet folk in the real world, i am very happy being me and my dog if this is the best the world has to offer. ❤
As a single woman, where he misses the boat is he doesn't say anything related to feelings. He doesn't say what he brings to the table as far as love goes. You're correct though, he is desperate too.
I was just saying this to my friend last night, that if I ever became single, I would die alone before I get on a dating app and deal with the men on those things. The lack of self-awareness and entitlement is overwhelming. 5'8" has NOTHING to do with it. My bf is 5'8" and SHORTER than me; height is not why they're single, they just use it as an excuse for being rejected for their terrible personality. Everything you said is on point. People, if you're having trouble finding a partner, work on yourself and focus on your life goals instead of finding a partner; don't blame other people. And don't film people in public!
This desperation alone is quite alarming to start with. I had an encounter with one of those "nice" guys and nice they are not. We had been friends for years, countless times I saw him trying cringy pick up lines on waitresses or being all thirsty for younger girls when he suddenly decided I was the end game. Then he started to tell me where I was and who I met without me informing anyone, prying for personal information despite being repeatedly said to respect my privacy, telling me who I shouldn't date, acting like a victim for me not cancelling my programme to meet him, creeping in to my work after dark uninvited all the while commenting how I do not look glad to see him etc etc. Later I found out several other girls had similar experience with the dude. Same energy to this guy - a weird mix of cowardly and spiteful, somehow entitled to OWN a girlfriend just because. Worse yet - mutual friends stopped inviting me to socialize and a few of them barely greet me - for them he's just very unfortunate poor guy and girls are mean to him, because yo, he is SO NICE. Do not give this kind of men your time or attention, I'm serious.
@@jelatinosa oh, I sort of know, unfortunately. Months later he wanted to go for a coffee, I said absolutely not, he said he had a right to explain, I said I've had enough information already so naturally I received pages and pages of "explanation". Basically he's a knight in shining armor Who was taking care of me and I didn't appreciate it but instead"kicked him when he couldn't defend himself." And boy, would it save me so much trouble if I actually did 😄
100% creep. Just be chill, ffs. Being nice and being smart is like being of legal age: you aren't unless you can prove it, and if you keep having to say it, you probably aren't. I've also never met a woman who ACTUALLY cares about a man being 6' tall, except for my ex's mother who was 6'1" herself.
This guy enumerating his qualities is also kind of a red flag. I'm all for self love and self awareness but the way he does is it just sounds like he has a big ego which is not good. Those types of people always feel entitled. They think they are owed life's finest be it things or access to people/relationship.
I get the idea this guy would also have cameras hidden around the house….y’know? Like the bathroom. 🤨 even female ‘friends’ should be cautious about using anything in his house. 🤮
The issue with these men is that they want “a girl,” he wants to feel like a provider but the actual person is immaterial to him. Edit: I’m aroace. A relationship won’t fix or complete you. You’re still gonna have issues with bills and walking home with pizza in the snow, and I bet eventually he’ll stop giving up on wanting to do things for her and get resentful of bringing home that pizza. That’s what happens when you think a person can fill a gap in your life as if they’re an object. It’s better to be alone until you find someone whose company you actually like. And hey why not bring pizza for your bros? Your friends? I’m sure they’d appreciate it! Just chill and wait, it’ll happen
I'm not aro / ace and can still say with confidence that a relationship will not complete someone or bring them happiness if they're relying on the relationship for their feelings of happiness.
I'm not sure he has friends tbh. If he did they'd tell him that he's being crazy, or at least try to introduce him to people if they know he wants to date. This creepy invasive behaviour isn't something any friend would let another one do.
I once met a guy that kept telling me how nice of a guy he is. He was unhinged, jealous, insecure, controlling, and that’s just in the first couple of days of us hanging out. Completely ignored my boundaries when I told him I can only see him as a platonic friend. I ran away from him and blocked
Its funny because my husband and I have openly joked so many times how crazy the dating world is now, and how should anything happen, neither of us wants to hop back into that game...I will happily be an old cat lady spinster, reading, and colouring, occasionally go to the movies so I can have popcorn
if someone was doing that with their camera, I'd literally think it was some sort of prank video and be out of there so fast. Like this guy is nice looking (and like it or not, that goes a long way in this world), so the amount of creep/desperation he must be exuding to chase off people must be astonishing. Also, fair or not, lots of women aren't interested in dating someone without a car (at least in North America, I know he's English and maybe expectations are different there)
He’s South African but lives in London and from my experience living in London… no one really has a car 😂😂😂 well obviously some do but a lot of time people just use the tube!
Yet to watch the video of course but what a stunning bed! Edit: Yeahhhhhh this guy. I think if he needs to meet anyone it's a mental health professional
Yeah this is TERRIBLE 😂 he definitely gives creepy and the whole “nice guy” thing and the whole being desperate thing definitely gives me the vibe that if things don’t work out, he would harm me or him- so NOPE 🤮
He's the type to befriend a woman after she says she's not interested in anything beyond platonic, then whining about the friend zone. "Wahhhh, I'm only 5'8"!" So am I and only short men care. People who don't know how to be single are a red flag. People whining about being single are going to stay that way because that's a HUGE red flag.
I mean good on him for taking steps forward and putting himself out there. Unfortunately he sounds like any other guy posted about in r/niceguys. Being a good human is the bare minimum. People who are nice don't need to say they are nice. Their actions show it. No amount of good looks, money, or door holding will matter if your not a good person. Not saying hes necessarily a bad person. He just seems to be mostly focusing on the looks, money, and Manners.
This genuinely feels like the opening scenes to a found-footage horror film. Seriously, this reminded me of a film called "Creep" that has a very similar premise.
Just caught the from South Africa part and wow this makes so much more sense now, there are a 'type' of guy in South Africa that is exactly like this if you dont fall madly in love with them they get grouchy and start moaning and whining about 'how nice of a guy they are' and how any woman would be lucky to be with them. It's really creepy and there are so many of them 😅 sending much love to anyone who has to deal with these men
He's coming off waaaaaay to desperate to me and needs to chill out a bit. The constant filming is definitely creepy. There's no way I'd ever date someone who was recording himself all the time.
From this single womans pov.. single life sucks and the dating scene feels like a nightmare. Having to dodge all the guys with wrong intentions and trying to figure out whether someone who says they want something serious is speaking the truth or lying.. it's really hard. I wish I was in a stable loving relationship instead of having to deal with all this.
Hang in there!! You just have to sift through a lot of garbage to find the gem. Take lots of breaks and remember that you are worth more than those skeezy dudes will give you credit for. ❤❤❤ There are some genuine people out there looking for a real connection, it just takes time to find them.
Oh, I have seen the videos of him "going to places alone, etc". The way he's staring at those women and getting them on video, I would not be happy if I was one of them.
For some reason straight men seem to think the only things they need to find the “girl of their dreams” is a job, a car, an apartment, and maybe abs. They go through life not realizing that they need to actually have a good personality, be interesting, and care about being a good partner. You know who else brings me pizza? Pizza Hut, and it’s already cooked and everything. 😂
“I’m a nice guy” you mean the thing that is expected of everyone that exists in a society? That absolute bare minimum that often separates you from jail? Oh wow.
I do have to add here - all jokes aside I’m sure he genuinely believes this content is harmless, but recording women without their permission or knowledge shouldn’t be “content”. There is a possibility that anyone would be uncomfortable with this, being smiled at in such a way and being recorded isn’t “content”.
Absolutely!
Yes! And at one point, he looks like he's going to try to kiss her. I don't care what he looked like or what mood I was in; that shit's just creepy!
And he looks like a man. Man should want women, not girls. (Seriously, infantilisation of women is such a problem. Some people legitimately see/treat them as either objects, or children, not human adults. Calling women "girls" is a huge red flag, 90% of the time.)
It's concerning that he describes that as trying to meet someone "naturally". The closest thing in nature to a man walking around with a selfie stick and a look of hungry desperation is a rabid wild dog. I would react the same to both as well- get far away and warn other people in the area. But I would feel bad for the rabid dog...
Might call Animal Control on this guy, too 💀
I thinkbhes getting off on it. You can see how uncomfortable the women are. Right now he is a liwl level nuisance but it could be the ground work for escalated behaviour and he could do with a chat from the police...just saying
Men who say they’re “nice guys” are NEVER nice.
There's literally an entire subreddit dedicated to it. r/niceguys
came here to say this.
He never said anything nice he does anyways. Just riding a bike with a pizza? That’s the best thing you do? Does he have hobbies besides complaining that he’s single?
@Iron678Maiden Just the fact that he sounds pissed that no one has scooped him up seems like he's made this his whole personality. Ugh
I can attest to that. My ex was a "nice guy"
"Nice" isn't a personality, it's the bare minimum for a human being. You have to aim to be more than nice.
THIS! ☝️🎯🔥🥇👏
Exactly! I could not have said that better!
Exactly 🙌👏
Yes, jeepers
I was gonna say the same. It's a given.
Nice guy is a HUGE red flag. If you're a nice guy you don't have to say it. Chill out my dude.
I get where you are coming from but how should he describe himself then?
💯💯
@@thatsnotmyname1 My thought is that his actions, behaviors, and priorities describe him. He says he's trying to "Meet women without using an app," yet he is in fact using an app [TikTok] to attract female attention.
@@SelinaShaw I know exactly what that means but he’s doing all this already.. you can say I am a nice person, and then act like a nice person. That shouldn’t be a red flag per se.
It is because of nice guys out there who instantly say I'm nice then turn rude or angry even on strangers.its common on apps@@thatsnotmyname1
He’s 100% the kind of person who brings home a pizza and then later in the night when you say you’re going to bed, you’re tired, he’s all ‘are we not having sex? I brought you pizza!’
You’ve summed it up perfectly. This.
And then says “my love language is physical touch” as coercion when you say no. 🤮
A cold, bent up pizza with the toppings on the box lid
And would gaslight you, and manipulate all the time...
I mean you can’t say he’s 100% that person, you don’t even know him
One big red flag for me is when guys complain on the internet about how they deserve a girlfriend because they’re so great but can’t find one and it’s not fair hahaha
Yea, it's giving minor incel vibes the way he be talkin 😬
Fr. It’s because they think they’re entitled to women. Avoid men like that like the plague.
It's always because they're not tall enough and too nice. It's really sad to hear because it means they've given up. They're never going to figure out what they have to offer and how to do that because they hit a wall of their own creation.
This. I just commented something similar. I feel the same way.
"It's because I'm short and all women are superficial b*****s!" Um, no, it's because you hate women, dude.
"You're born alone"
Robert, who was in fact, not born alone: 😐
Well technically he was - he and James didn’t come out holding hands 😅
@@moominmay You weren't there! For all we know, they did 🤣That would be SO like them
@@NonaPaskemin lool true maybe so whilst chirping “just so you know - we are NOT the same person!’ 😂
@@moominmaythey're not the same person!?
😂😂😂😂 omg that took me a moment
What happened to diaries? Vent ur frustrations there. Don’t forget about the concept of a digital footprint
Get a therapist, talk to your friends.
Or therapy
or take it to your grave
And we were mad when someone read it, and now we share everything online and are mad when someone doesn’t likes our post
Thats exactly what I was thinking bc, say you put the phone down one day & meet a ~nice~ girl not filming her, & she likes you and you're going out & then she sees your social media. And its this. Now shes like.. do i really want to be the most openly desparate man on the internet's girlfriend? 😬 like wow i am the one who would finally date him after every other lady hard passed, and everyone knows that 😶
Consider your digital footprint, guys 🙏🏻🙏🏻
You want someone who wants you, Not someone who wants anybody.
Being super desperate to be in a relationship is a red flag.
This guy is 1000% creepy, seems desperate and clingy and would probably be overbearing and controlling in a relationship.
The fact that he complains so much being single will creep women. It's such an incel behaviour. I don't know if he is conscious of it
Definitely .
And he's 5' 8" ladies....don't forget he's 5' 8" as he keeps reminding us
He’s whining and blaming his height, something he can’t control, instead of anything he CAN control, like his poor personality and attitude. 😂 men who do that are just so pathetic, I have no sympathy for them.
Exactly. Like, oh wow, this person who makes the fact that they’re “unjustly” single their whole personality from everything we can see is having a hard time making genuine connections? They don’t know how to just be normal, and instead they come off like an overbearing, pushy creeper? How shocking and surprising and unbelievable. WOW.
I love it when people list of aspects of being a decent human being and then think that makes them a catch. Yay. You’re a functional member of society. And…?
must be nice...
He needs to let it go. The more you try to force something the less you get it.
Oh he has desperation stank all over him. Dating while desperate/dating someone who is desperate NEVER ends well 😬
@@Snowfoxie1 Yep my therapist says never date when you’re 1.desperate 2. lonely or 3.bored.
My dad used to say that love will find you when you don't look and least expect it
When I was a teenager - long story short, I was diagnosed as codependent, and learned I needed to love myself before needing other people to love me.
@@MeHungeee That’s a life long journey for most of us ❤️ it’s ok to look for love we are community creatures but we must never love anyone else more than ourselves. 🥰
In my experience, men who call themselves "nice guys" are RARELY nice guys.
Creepy af. It's sad too. Bc he's not bad looking. But bc he acts so weird and can't believe that women are not flocking to him makes him cringe. Plus, filming yourself? TikTok is not the way to meet someone.
That’s what I thought… he’s not bad looking but the way he’s going about this is all wrong
Dudes gonna attract some scam on some account soon ...that desperation is smelling. I am single. But even I can see his desperation coming thru my screen. That's when fake profiles find u
He doesn't look like a typical incel until he opens his mouth
Good looks are nothing. There's plenty of pretty attractive incels out there and A LOT of much less attractive men with partners.
It's pretty much never the looks, always the personality.
Agreed!
His desperation to find a woman, any woman is disturbing. His entire identity is revolving around his relationship status. Everything he does, everywhere he goes is for the pursuit of a relationship. He needs real hobbies. Guys like this are not fun to be in relationships with.
Every single man I have met in life who has had to openly state "I'm a nice guy" has NOT been a nice guy. Gross. I feel so much second hand embarrassment and an underlying feeling of unsettledness that makes me feel like I would rather take my chances with a bear in the woods.
I saw some guy say "at least a guy could help you get out of the woods" doubtful and if he did he'd be expecting something in return
Yup!! It’s the desperation. Desperation is unsettling, and with good reason.
How tragic. Exactly how many men that you've daily been around have ripped you apart and stored you for food?
Do some research and stop painting the average man, your father, brother, grandpa, co-worker, butcher, car repairs etc as a predator.
@@Cynthiabecker24 I have a restraining order against my brother sooooo I choose bear
@@Cynthiabecker24 What's actually tragic is young girls and women who are assaulted, r*ped and murdered have been done so by not only men, but men they've also trusted, not by bears.
I am an avid outdoors backpacker, camper, hiker and I've come across my fair share of bears. Not one of them have assaulted me. I have however been assaulted my men, even as a child.
If you're gonna spew hate and misinformation, find another space to do it. Your negativity is not welcomed here.
He comes off as negative and needy.
5’8” isn’t an obstacle. I’ve met great guys who are that height. It’s more about being an intelligent, self-confident, happy person with a good sense of humour.
💯 My husband is 5'8". I'm taller than him, especially when I wear heels. But that doesn't matter to me at all because he's an *actual* good guy.
My boyfriend is 5'8" and I'm a woman of 4'9". We are both 32. I think it's cute.
But there are some women who really want a man that is taller than 6 foot. I'm not with the hype but I have heard of it
I'm 5'5" and love dating people around my height! My current man companion is about 5'7", he isn't insecure about it, and I love that we can look one another in the eye without any issue.
In my experience, the height itself is never the problem -- it's the men's complexes about their height.
They don't seem to understand that someone who would reject them based on their height is not someone they would be compatible with anyway.
Totally. A dude who knows who he is, respects other people, and is a capable adult most of the time waaaayy outweighs being tall.
@@what.the.whateverKey word “some”.
4:15- “I would lose the hat - that looks like you’re trying to sell essential oils” 😂😂
I mean… 👀 it does right!
@@Robert_Reacts You are just too funny - and spot on.
That was my favorite part 😊
Made me laugh so hard 😂
Oily hun viiibes!! 😂
My problem with these 'nice' guys is that they always seem to feel entitled to a relationship. Plus, when they talk about women they almost always use a broad brush. They never talk about women as interesting independent entities with their own personalities. It's creepy, like we're all interchangable. These are the types of guys I've had really scary experiences with. Because they don't see you as much more than an object to suit their desires if they 'do the right thing' and take you to dinner / buy you flowers. Sociopathic.
"This isn't Bridgerton" "You're not born alone, you literally come out of someone and there are loads of people in the room"🤣 He is creepy, If he actually does manage to meet someone, he may never let them go.
Never let them go, in the literal sense😱💀 so creepy
I am getting real "stranger danger" vibes from this guy. He is a stalker waiting to happen.
☝☝☝☝☝ This
He needs to go to therapy before he ends up a headline.
I felt extremely uncomfortable watching his snippets! Therapy is long overdue.
He's wearing headphones on both ears too. Not a good way to invite conversation 🤷♀️
Agree with others who have noted how "incel" flavoured some of his ideas are. He has no instant rights to a "girl". His little giggle at the end sounds so tense and not a relaxed chuckle. Barely contained rage that sets people's radar off on an instinctive level. He's not bad looking but his anger is too close to the surface. I'd have a cold spot at the back of my neck and have to run away
EXACTLY THIS
100% agree
Ooof you nailed it 👌🏼😭
He didn’t even seem or act angry lol he’s just very clearly beyond lonely and handling it in a weird way that’s just making him come across creepy
Did anyone else think of Elliot Rogers?
"Nice" guys aren't complaining online about being single; they're helping their mums do stuff around the house. 💯💯
What? That has literally nothing to even do with being a nice guy looking for a partner. What a stupid thing to say
@@feliciaspringer2795 case and point? 🤣
Well, I can already tell you the incel behaviour of complaining about not being able to get a girlfriend and being such a "nice guy" would send us to the bears.
Edit: Bros filming himself talking to stangers.... In London!? I do pretty much everything on my own so if a man approached me with a camera I would take a fighting stance. I don't know about others but from past experiences and from what I've seen be careful who you go up to. As a feminine presenting person it's scary when strange men come up to you.
TO THE BEARS!
THE BEARS AWAIT! We ride at dawn!
He surely has standards which is why he'll reject any similar woman who might reach out and not his taste. So if you have standards wait don't complain. Nobody gets their type easily unless lucky nowadays. Idk just what I see
Regarding your edit: Yes. I wish more men understood this and had the self-awareness to know when they're doing something that is potentially going to trigger a woman's self-defense mode.
I thought British people don’t really do the American thing of “approach strangers out of the blue (especially women)” so what is he trying to accomplish?
The fact that he's trying to "meet someone naturally" and won't remove his earphones!!
FOR REAL! His idea of trying to meet someone naturally is to simply stand around in public spaces?? Actual good ways to naturally meet people is either through mutual friends or mutual interests. Don't just stand in the middle of a store, go somewhere a bit more specific and try talking to people there - you already have a starting point of conversation since you're there because of a shared interest!
That’s 100% creepy. If some guy filming with his phone came up to me and randomly tried to talk to me, I’d be creeped out. And idk, a man claiming to be a “nice guy” makes me think he isn’t one.
he's just filming so he has evidence that he tries sooo hard but boohoohoo he still can't get a girl despite how nice he is! :( if he was genuine he wouldn't be filming. he's just entitled! he thinks he deserves to have a partner so he can be validated & glorified as a macho man nice guy, not because he genuinely likes an individual woman that also likes him too. he has to work on himself too, we all do, a relationship is taking time & doing things on purpose to show love in a personal way to meet that person's unique needs.
The woman who caught him filming seemed somewhat interested when he approached her because he’s a decent looking guy but he shot himself in the foot because of him recording.
@@roygbiv9038 I didn't get her being interested at all. She was just smiling. That does not mean a woman is interested in you
@@loumeep when I say interested, I don’t mean she immediately would date him, I mean she’s not put off by him. It doesn’t hurt to at least try to flirt and she to me gave the impression she wasn’t put off by him at first encounter. The smile didn’t come off as someone who was intimidated and trying to calm any potential threat. The problem is that he shoots himself in the foot by relying social media and also expecting the other person to put in the work to socialize with him.
If your whole personality is, "nice guy who deserves a girlfriend," baby you might be the problem. It's a major turnoff because it feels like you just want any attractive woman who will have you vs. you wanting to be with someone because you have a genuine interest in who they are as a person. It's an ick.
You're so right about the unhealthily narrow focus on just finding A Girlfriend, any girlfriend, no other preferences just one (1) female lady woman please. If he had friends, hobbies, a community - perhaps he could get some feedback and support. If he's pinning everything on this one connection it's no wonder he's so pressed!
Exactly this. Put your phone down and have real human interactions. If I see someone filming themselves, they get a wide berth. Just walking up to random women on the street/store is weird. (especially while filming) My guess is finding a girlfriend is his whole personality.
@@kelqueen9998he's what we're talking about when we say someone needs to touch grass. He's been in his little self pity circle jerk for so long he's forgotten what being a person actually looks like. He needs to really focus on himself, go to therapy (he isn't in the US, he can afford it), and work on the way he views people (especially women). Otherwise he's going to end up in a news article, and it won't be for his "prestigious social media career".
“Friendly” usually means they bother random women in the most inconvenient times. The amount of men (who are too old for me anyway, I’m 24) who will waste my time at WORK. Like bro, I have a limited amount of time to do a whole lotta things, and entertaining you isn’t one of them.
But yeah dating is horrible right now, I’ve never been in a real relationship because I haven’t found anyone who was more interested in *me* than my boobs. And it’s a lot of dudes like 30-60 who end up hitting on me…
As a South African… we DONT CLAIM HIM or his “good family”
Came here to say exactly this!
My partner is South African and he’s the BEST (and to be clear, not this guy 😂)
Fellow South African. Totally agree 😂
Nah guys, you know we all have that one cousin who means well but… 😂
I thought I was crazy because I clearly heard him say that he was South African and then Robert said that he was from London 😂.... South African men are really manly👌
In my experience men who call themselves "nice" have a sense of unconscious entitlement about them, like they think they are owed something from women for being nice. Being "nice" (a word which connotes a senses of people pleasing and inauthenticity) isn't even that great of a quality; kindness, compassion, authenticity, confidence, self-awareness, creativity, and playfulness are all are much better qualities. Also, he said he's "saving the planet" - I hope he did not mean that seriously 😅
I fear he actually did mean that literally… Gosh the second hand embarrassment is real. But your “list” of qualities is perfection 👌🤗
Dude needs to ditch the phone. If he wants to use a phone he needs to ask people permission first before he does. It’s creepy and disrespectful to film people without their consent unless they’re doing something illegal or something.
He gives the vibe that as soon as the door closes and you are stuck in a room with him, he would switch up. Very entitled imo.
He should continue to progress in life and put finding a girl on a back burner and it will come to him.
"You're born alone and you die alone" has always been such a red flag to me. Like how bleak is your outlook on life that you forget that when you're born, you're literally coming out of another person? Being born is by definition at LEAST a two person job.
no actually i have social anxiety and if i see a grown man with his camera out i will, as female presenting, assume he’s a pervert or just annoying in the best case 💀
It’s the zero self awareness for me, like I’m single but I know why, I don’t like talking to people haha. At least I can admit it.
Ohmygosh, I'm just watching this at 10:30 PM (it's a hour later over here) and this afternoon today when I went grocery shopping I had this same kind of guy creeping me out. He came close to me, was judgemental and nosy about the things I lay down at the cashier, I didn't answered, he said the same thing: "I'm a nice guy, that girl just don't understand me." Excuse me?!?!! CREEP ALERT🚨🚨🚨
there are SO MANY nice guys. and the internet is fueling them.
Honestly I wish people would stop filming in public. Whenever guys come up to me now, I’m always paranoid that I’m going to end up on some dating UA-cam channel, and torn to shreds by a ton of strangers for simply going about my day. And with the ease of access people have to Ai I legitimately think the legality of posting videos/pictures of people on the internet without their consent should be called into question. Other countries like Germany already have laws prohibiting this. It’s not enough to not post pictures of yourself on social media - the only guaranteed way that you can protect your image is by not stepping outside which is just entirely infeasible. The moment that your image is on the internet any random stranger can use Ai to manipulate it at their will, and while I know that there’s a greater likelihood of someone you know being the perpetrator behind this sort of thing, with the rise in hatred in highly polarised groups on the internet I think we’re on the precipice of Ai being used in highly malicious ways to manipulate contentious narratives on social media, and it’s going to result in serious fallout for the victims.
When you’re older (like me) and sick of dealing with this crap … yeah, “love dodging spinster” for life!
Omg, it gets worse the longer you watch. KID, I have dated 5’8 dudes, no problem. Your problem is that you’re damn OBSESSED with being in a relationship! You know what desperate to be in a relationship people do? They manipulate to get into a relationship. Cool, you ride a bike … but you ride one because “saving the environment” is supposed to get you laid, not because you believe in it.
Same. I've always said I'd rather be on my own and perhaps a bit lonely at times rather than be trapped (legally, financially, etc.) in a hellish, loveless relationship simply for the sake of not being alone. Spinsters FTW!
I'm 24 and I've already decided that dating just ain't for me, lol. I'm a dude, but I'm all the way down for joining the "love dodging spinster" club. I'll bring a good Pinot and a brie bake, we can have a nice little snack!
@@Nasheepoosame I bailed out of a 2 year relationship with my ex for this v reason. I had a huge crush on this guy who seemed the most smiliest helpful guy and when we got together it took no more than a year for his suspicious controlling and at times, mean side to come out. I took the massive decision to break up with him knowing I would now be lonely for lord knows how long as I have no family/little friends network and work mainly from home. I still made that call though especially when he started pushing me into selling both our homes so we could live together and refused to compromise and at least rent together first to see how we got along. I just felt he wanted to sort of lock me in under his control 24/7. He even got mad if I had to go overnight on work trips! Anyway I’m glad I broke free even though I may never love again it’s better to be alone and happy at least some of the time than with the wrong partner who will likely ensure you never genuinely smile ever again 🫤
Back in the myspace days, I had a girl friend who was dating this guy and she later found out he had a second myspace profile where he would complain about being single and how he was such a "nice guy". I think of that dude everytime I see posts and videos like this
Rule 1, if someone has to tell you they are a 'nice guy' they arent and if they blame the reason they are single on their hight is probably a monster.
Im 4ft 9 and hight has never meant anything to me, nor has money. Personality, humor, how they treat others and animals and are self reflective and supportive are the only things that are important.
He seems very desperate and if you went on one date, you didnt hit it off, he would stalk you for a year....... just the vibes.
I would decline, any interaction with him, plus hes filming, no thanks.
I have been single 8 years because online is a fucking mess and i work too much to meet folk in the real world, i am very happy being me and my dog if this is the best the world has to offer. ❤
As a single woman, where he misses the boat is he doesn't say anything related to feelings. He doesn't say what he brings to the table as far as love goes. You're correct though, he is desperate too.
Be fair! He showed you the (frozen) pizza though woman - what more could a modern girl want?! 😅
That room is gorgeous, and in regard to the video, you shouldn’t have to tell people your a good person to be a good person.
Bingo!
He enjoys being single and complaining about it. That’s why he’s single.
He almost seems mad that it's not working out like some video game side quest. "Show up at farmers market by 10 am to unlock quirky GF mission "
I was just saying this to my friend last night, that if I ever became single, I would die alone before I get on a dating app and deal with the men on those things. The lack of self-awareness and entitlement is overwhelming. 5'8" has NOTHING to do with it. My bf is 5'8" and SHORTER than me; height is not why they're single, they just use it as an excuse for being rejected for their terrible personality. Everything you said is on point. People, if you're having trouble finding a partner, work on yourself and focus on your life goals instead of finding a partner; don't blame other people. And don't film people in public!
In my opinion it seems a little desperate so I’d probably remain single.
This desperation alone is quite alarming to start with. I had an encounter with one of those "nice" guys and nice they are not. We had been friends for years, countless times I saw him trying cringy pick up lines on waitresses or being all thirsty for younger girls when he suddenly decided I was the end game. Then he started to tell me where I was and who I met without me informing anyone, prying for personal information despite being repeatedly said to respect my privacy, telling me who I shouldn't date, acting like a victim for me not cancelling my programme to meet him, creeping in to my work after dark uninvited all the while commenting how I do not look glad to see him etc etc. Later I found out several other girls had similar experience with the dude. Same energy to this guy - a weird mix of cowardly and spiteful, somehow entitled to OWN a girlfriend just because. Worse yet - mutual friends stopped inviting me to socialize and a few of them barely greet me - for them he's just very unfortunate poor guy and girls are mean to him, because yo, he is SO NICE. Do not give this kind of men your time or attention, I'm serious.
I wonder what kind of krap he said about you behind your back to your friends.
@@jelatinosa oh, I sort of know, unfortunately. Months later he wanted to go for a coffee, I said absolutely not, he said he had a right to explain, I said I've had enough information already so naturally I received pages and pages of "explanation". Basically he's a knight in shining armor Who was taking care of me and I didn't appreciate it but instead"kicked him when he couldn't defend himself." And boy, would it save me so much trouble if I actually did 😄
Anyone who is a professional "nice guy" and makes a platform out of it is an automatic red flag. #single&lovinit
That's a frozen fffing pizza, man.
That’s where his girlfriend would step in 😅
Filming people without their consent - sexy!!! Just why?!? Also all the people I've ever met who called themselves "nice" were bullies!
100% creep. Just be chill, ffs. Being nice and being smart is like being of legal age: you aren't unless you can prove it, and if you keep having to say it, you probably aren't. I've also never met a woman who ACTUALLY cares about a man being 6' tall, except for my ex's mother who was 6'1" herself.
This guy enumerating his qualities is also kind of a red flag. I'm all for self love and self awareness but the way he does is it just sounds like he has a big ego which is not good. Those types of people always feel entitled. They think they are owed life's finest be it things or access to people/relationship.
@3:40 no, the self pity is a turn off. It's like a precursor to a whiny and guilt tripping kind of relationship
I get the idea this guy would also have cameras hidden around the house….y’know? Like the bathroom. 🤨 even female ‘friends’ should be cautious about using anything in his house. 🤮
yikes! that’s frightening but i could believe that too😮
I'd be amazed if he has female friends.
@@kelqueen9998given the way he acts, I'd be surprised if he had friends at all. Not real ones, anyway, if they let him act like this.
@@transsnack😂
Men like this are getting pepper sprayed.
His whole vibe screams desperation & cringe. I've been single for awhile but I'm not announcing it every way I can, like this dude.
9:55 - your SD card was 1000% over it as well and overloaded from the cringe 😆
He is coming off as needy,impatient and angry = scary……………..hopefully I’m reading him wrong……sending him good luck….
- "I have manners I come from a good family"
Robert: "This isn't Bridgerton"
😂😂😂
The issue with these men is that they want “a girl,” he wants to feel like a provider but the actual person is immaterial to him.
Edit: I’m aroace. A relationship won’t fix or complete you. You’re still gonna have issues with bills and walking home with pizza in the snow, and I bet eventually he’ll stop giving up on wanting to do things for her and get resentful of bringing home that pizza. That’s what happens when you think a person can fill a gap in your life as if they’re an object. It’s better to be alone until you find someone whose company you actually like. And hey why not bring pizza for your bros? Your friends? I’m sure they’d appreciate it! Just chill and wait, it’ll happen
Not to mention that pizza will be cold by the time he brings it to you
I'm not aro / ace and can still say with confidence that a relationship will not complete someone or bring them happiness if they're relying on the relationship for their feelings of happiness.
I'm not sure he has friends tbh. If he did they'd tell him that he's being crazy, or at least try to introduce him to people if they know he wants to date. This creepy invasive behaviour isn't something any friend would let another one do.
100%
"We're not looking to marry you off" *handsign* 😂Love your humour Robert.
Robert he’s very creepy. I’m not attracted to him at all… maybe if he swayed his shoulders a bit more… wait what no never 😂😂😂😂 ♥️☮️🖤
😂😂😂
Omg I'm gonna go watch that video again, after I finish this one 😂😂😂
The more I sew of hi. The more I feel the police need a word with him. Oh christ I can't deal with him.
Just to add...his thumbs are all wrong h 😂😂😂
Yeah I need to see more thumbs
I once met a guy that kept telling me how nice of a guy he is. He was unhinged, jealous, insecure, controlling, and that’s just in the first couple of days of us hanging out. Completely ignored my boundaries when I told him I can only see him as a platonic friend. I ran away from him and blocked
Its funny because my husband and I have openly joked so many times how crazy the dating world is now, and how should anything happen, neither of us wants to hop back into that game...I will happily be an old cat lady spinster, reading, and colouring, occasionally go to the movies so I can have popcorn
it always pisses me more when people film strangers minding their business without censoring anyone's faces
if someone was doing that with their camera, I'd literally think it was some sort of prank video and be out of there so fast. Like this guy is nice looking (and like it or not, that goes a long way in this world), so the amount of creep/desperation he must be exuding to chase off people must be astonishing. Also, fair or not, lots of women aren't interested in dating someone without a car (at least in North America, I know he's English and maybe expectations are different there)
He’s South African but lives in London and from my experience living in London… no one really has a car 😂😂😂 well obviously some do but a lot of time people just use the tube!
His body language does not match his words. His frustration screams resentment and bubbling aggression.
Yet to watch the video of course but what a stunning bed!
Edit: Yeahhhhhh this guy. I think if he needs to meet anyone it's a mental health professional
“i’d lose the hat, looks like you’re trying to sell essential oils.” ROBERT PLEASE🤣🤣
Guys who are _this_ desperate for a girlfriend A) need a therapist instead, and B) make the most clingy, insecure, controlling boyfriends.
Ok is he being cute or creepy????
I'm in 1:45 and already know this guy is a classic incel 😂
Creepy
Creeeeepy
He’s just trying way too hard to be endearing and it’s very weird 😂
Creepy and it just comes across as a bit desperate 🙈
Nope nope nope nope nope. I've seen my fair share of red flags on dating apps. This guy needs a therapist, and a reality check.
Yeah this is TERRIBLE 😂 he definitely gives creepy and the whole “nice guy” thing and the whole being desperate thing definitely gives me the vibe that if things don’t work out, he would harm me or him- so NOPE 🤮
He's the type to befriend a woman after she says she's not interested in anything beyond platonic, then whining about the friend zone.
"Wahhhh, I'm only 5'8"!" So am I and only short men care. People who don't know how to be single are a red flag. People whining about being single are going to stay that way because that's a HUGE red flag.
I mean good on him for taking steps forward and putting himself out there. Unfortunately he sounds like any other guy posted about in r/niceguys. Being a good human is the bare minimum. People who are nice don't need to say they are nice. Their actions show it. No amount of good looks, money, or door holding will matter if your not a good person. Not saying hes necessarily a bad person. He just seems to be mostly focusing on the looks, money, and Manners.
This genuinely feels like the opening scenes to a found-footage horror film. Seriously, this reminded me of a film called "Creep" that has a very similar premise.
If someone has to tell you they’re nice, then they are probably not nice 😅
Just caught the from South Africa part and wow this makes so much more sense now, there are a 'type' of guy in South Africa that is exactly like this if you dont fall madly in love with them they get grouchy and start moaning and whining about 'how nice of a guy they are' and how any woman would be lucky to be with them. It's really creepy and there are so many of them 😅 sending much love to anyone who has to deal with these men
He's coming off waaaaaay to desperate to me and needs to chill out a bit. The constant filming is definitely creepy. There's no way I'd ever date someone who was recording himself all the time.
From this single womans pov.. single life sucks and the dating scene feels like a nightmare. Having to dodge all the guys with wrong intentions and trying to figure out whether someone who says they want something serious is speaking the truth or lying.. it's really hard. I wish I was in a stable loving relationship instead of having to deal with all this.
Hang in there!! You just have to sift through a lot of garbage to find the gem. Take lots of breaks and remember that you are worth more than those skeezy dudes will give you credit for. ❤❤❤ There are some genuine people out there looking for a real connection, it just takes time to find them.
Oh jeez. Bless his heart
He’s cute, but even through the screen, he absolutely REEKS of desperation and that’s NOT cute.
If anything happens to the current Mr Sinclair I'm going to be single to the grave.
6:56 "Ok, you're you & I'm the guy with the camera filming you." THIS TICKLED ME SO MUCH I REWATCHED IT 10 TIMES!!! 😆😂😆😂💜🖤
Oh, I have seen the videos of him "going to places alone, etc". The way he's staring at those women and getting them on video, I would not be happy if I was one of them.
I mean the guy was handsome, but definitely creepy
There needs to be some sort of lessons on how NOT to be creepy. Because that just seems totally performative and like an extended skit. ick.
"I'm a nice guy" - that's all I needed to hear.
For some reason straight men seem to think the only things they need to find the “girl of their dreams” is a job, a car, an apartment, and maybe abs. They go through life not realizing that they need to actually have a good personality, be interesting, and care about being a good partner. You know who else brings me pizza? Pizza Hut, and it’s already cooked and everything. 😂
Hey Robert, today you're giving off major James vibes with that hairstyle😂💜
He sounds really angry and that to me spells short temper, no tolerance. Alarm bells should start ringing
“I’m a nice guy” you mean the thing that is expected of everyone that exists in a society? That absolute bare minimum that often separates you from jail? Oh wow.
Creepy...he needs to be taught how to interact with people without a phone attached to his hand.
"This is not 'Bridgerton'" had me rolling. Lol 😂 Robert you have the best one liners.
Any guys who call themselves as "Nice" is an instant No/Swipe left. Any hint of negativity in a profile is an automatic NO/Swipe left 🙅♀️
That first TikTok had at least 10 red flags alone 😂
If these tiktoks were the way that I first was introduced to him, I would definitely be turned off and not interested in getting to know him further.