He’s being honest in this context, with Teal. This guy would have a real hard time being this vulnerable with others, given his upbringing and broken family. It takes a lot of work to work through the shame of feeling unwanted as a child, which translates into perfectionism and and inability to be seen as a full person by others, no matter how much you may want connection.
I gotta say, I've watched a lot of Teal's videos, but this is the one that most helped my expansion. The guy on stage simply described my desperate need for independence and wanting money, and the breaktrough they had resonated in me as well. Thank you so much for sharing these workshops. It's amazing to watch Her videos and learn from them, but it's even more incredible, and easier to relate, when you watch someone with your exact struggles describing what you can't find the words to. I hope that he, as well as me, find a way to what we truly want, after a lifetime of a domestic environment proving otherwise.
I agree. I've been at tug of war with myself for my entire life..I've been in all out warfare for over two years. This Was sooo helpful. I just have to change his story for mine. Daily. Until i am in alignment
I'm glad she picked him, I can see myself in him, I want the success without my family because I'm always getting hurt in the process. I figured something out about myself. The question I ask the inner ME is why are you holding me back. I got my answer with this video.
In high school my mother wasn't around. My dad wasn't around , he left us and my mom left me. I grow up with my aunt and that was hell. Now I'm in college and everyone wants to be a family, I can't just pretend that everything didn't happen, I forgive my mom and Dad but I need a LIFE away from them. They left me for their own selfishness because they realize they didn't love each other. 😏 so yes I pick success over my broken family
Faithful Forever I'm sorry you experienced those things, you're not alone. Does your college friends wanting to be close/family help your heart? Did someone make you feel that you should forget about what happened? That's really great you continue to forgive, that helped me this morning.
A Beautiful Journey Yep!! My aunt's and uncle's said I have to help my mother because she needs me. I had to laugh to myself because I remember when I begged her not to leave me as a child. I like to be alone now, I really don't want any friends I push people away because I hate getting hurt.
Especially as an empath, the statement of growing up in an invalidating environment & losing touch with my emotions is profound. A deeper reason for the disconnection with self while feeling everyone's feelings which created physical illness. The body screamed for attention, because I didn't know how (or even that it was okay) to feel my own feelings. The value of self not being tied to what I do for others is key.
1000% i could've written this, so on point! But i'm successfully SAVING MY OWN LIFE-HEALTH WISE ! Annnnnd the next step is still gonna be about moving out of this place where I acquired all the pain to begin with!
Watching this made me cry as I've been in a tug of war with myself since being a little girl. I always wanted to be wanted needed n loved but wasn't really shown any so I grew up never knowing how to receive love or give it so I stayed in active addiction n alcoholism for 36 years. I'm waking up spiritually now sometimes quickly sometimes slowly n self love is the hardest for me but I'm working on it. Thankyou for sharing I love your videos as they go deep n i can connect to them xx
Dawn Mcdonald thats me now but addicted to the uppers. Why for money to be independant and then maybe a connection. If im let down at least I will still have me. As sad as it sounds I guess Im stuck
This was so profound and eye opening. But I felt like one thing they didn't get to was the fact that he thinks he doesn't have much to offer to anyone else. He doesn't recognize his own value and he doesn't know himself enough to realize how much he's worth. I think with practicing self love he will see that he does have things to offer and then he will feel more of a desire to connect with someone else. It stood out to me as an underlying cause for even this entire problem he has. Anyways this was incredible to watch and I'm so grateful to have come across this video. Thank you Teal.
can u explain again cuz i didnt get how he got satisfied or got convinced . i exactly have same issues nd emetions nd dnt rally care abt anything. i just understand things when thy feel right i trust my self but i dnt care for it . so if u understand plz explain to help me
I can so relate to this guy. Grew up in a similar way, thrived to financial success, had it for a while but then I started to feel completely burned-out. Gosh I think this is a huge issue for men because we as men are expected to thrive and have financial success but oh dear connecting with our own feelings and essence... we still have a long way to go!
Omg how relatable....I literally have changed my goals to manifesting money instead of love or connection because I figured i have no hope there so changed direction. Wow to Teal bringing us together to see we aren't alone in these feelings and to understand the depth of why. You are amazing Teal thank you so much!💫💜💙💚💛🧡❤💫
So this is literally everything to do with the self. I am in the exact same position, and what I understand now is that it’s not literally about going out of your way to go and find connection as if some one is holding it and waiting for you to claim it, it’s more so about being in harmony with every aspect of you first, loving yourself, so that you can accept your reflection in other people. Anything else is secondary??
@@ledbysoulyoga3 What I got from the video is that the man does not believe he can get connection and success at the same time. The part of him that Teal embodied was a part of him that didn’t want success or money because to them it meant losing people. I think the solution would be to find connection and love from people who won’t make it conditional, like basing their love for him on his career or how much money he makes. Find people who will love you regardless of what you do. It’s much easier said than done of course, and it is a process but it will be very worth it.
Teal, I love what you do, and it pains me to hear microphone and sound issues in your workshop videos. I'm a sound engineer and I would love to help. ❤️
Yes, the mic pre is hot and they didn't seem to remove the room sound before hand. There was a moment where they were trying some subtractive EQ while she was talking, though it didn't fix the issue.
Teal, I am a Pisces Ascendant and extremely sensitive woman who grew up around narcissistic parents. I have had no boundaries and that has been a problem. Thank you so much for picking him
I feel for this guy so much. Similar feeling experience in childhood...I’m so grateful for his bravery to go on stage. I heard myself through him. I love how detached yet compassionate Teal is with her guidance as well. Thank you 🙏
This is so good, I love how patient you are, Teal and not giving him the answers. You are really making him think and work through his blocks. I can absolutely relate to this.
wow this segment made me cry- i identify with this guy so much. thank you for raising this question- years later people are still benefitting from this. thank you teal and team for making this material accessible.
I can relate to this guy Part of me wants connections, love and friends yet I put the majority of my time into working and don't take the risks I will start talking to my inner self that's resistant to see why I do that.. Thanks Teal!
we kinda have the same situation, it was almost like listening to myself..it felt so comforting to know that I'm not the only one with this problem, it helped that this guy seems pretty nice and I feel like he can get out of his situation, and that gives me hope for me too...thank you
I don't care if people like me. If they do, great. If they don't then it's no skin off my nose. I'm going to be 33 this year and I have transformed from the girl I was at school wanting kids to like me. The thing is people respond hugely to people who are authentic, and if you want people to like you - you are trying to hard and in doing so you come across as insecure. It's not a huge deal if people like me or not, I guess I'm becoming more and more comfortable being myself. I do have confidence, I think what didn't help for me though was when I was younger I stammered, I was bullied to the point I developed a stammer. I just know that to get on I need to work on myself and I have no problem getting deep or facing the hard truths but I do get that what this guy is saying is something that I'd say to myself years ago. When I leave home and I have my own place I won't need my parents anymore. When I am 18 I will be free of my parents. I think these are just dreams and we tell ourselves things like getting a job, earning money because it sounds like a better way to deal, so we dream. We don't actually do anything about it. I remember years ago where I would be on the sofa with my Mom and she said give us a cuddle now I can't remember the last time I have had that with her. Occasionally when I'm at Mom's one of us will decide I wanna cuddle. I do feel close to her and the relationship has survived its teenage years but I think if I'm doing all these changes why can't my mom do the same. Stupid thing is we don't talk as much as we should and that stumps our relationship growth. My Mom isn't a narasaist but she does have traits of one and depending on what mood she is in she don't always have empathy. But then sometimes I wonder should I just accept her for who she is rather than saying you should be kinder, thoughtful but when she gets off the phone to me, she tells me that she loves me and I like that. I'm actually trying to listen to her kind words rather than the demon voices in my head that make me want to pull away. She has her moments where she acts all grandeous but I'm trying to accept her for who she is because I realise the only person I can change is me and get better at backing up my boundaries.
Really amazing to see how you work through this mans blind spot or block... and for hims to interact with his inner conflict of avoidance, desires, and purpose. I had a very similar upbringing and although I'm present to it's impact, conditioning, and my survival strategies, I see how I inhered others pain of judgment plus my own judgment that mistreated my inner child or authentic self. The transformative and spiritual path I've taken has shown me the possibility of self love and relating to myself as a creator here to experience lessons to evolve and that the universe is supporting me. I'm very blessed to discover a spiritual aspect to life where I get to choose "who I be" and let go of the identity "meanings" to be present and connect with others. This reawakened that... Thank you for this video!
Teal! You changed my life!! This revolutionary exercise has deep layers such that I am unpacking this now in a way I hadn’t fathomed before when it was first uploaded.
This really hit hard! That's why I'm scared of working, cause I wanna do well to please someone else. Instead of pleasing me by doing the best I can FOR ME
Teal, how many people do not realize you have been required to grow through what they are attempting to grow through. The approach taken of splitting the self and having the young man speak to you (himself) was brilliant! Thank you.
she reflects 100% of my inner being. I had same case that's why i had to come back to my mom's home and clear everything out with my part that has been deeply hurt. I had to forgive my parents, and appologize for not loving them and release myself from that guilt. Accept the fact that it was my choice to be independent I've chosen parents who neglected my feelings and tried to even kill me.
Hi Teal, I love you. You open doors that are closed for so many. Incredible wisdom and love you give to the world. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and energy. Amazing and beautiful woman you are. From the inside to the outside. I am happy that you are here with me although you physically are not. A lot of people feel that connection with themselves through your key of self awareness and self connection. Thanks! ❤️🙏😍 Leon
The time had stopped the moment they started talking in the stage. I cried, I laughed, I heard, I understood but then I was distracted too. Very good example of how and why we’re not growing up. I am in need to grow up or I’ll eventually destroy myself emotionally. By thinking that I am not love, that I am not deserving of love and therefore I don’t want love because I can’t have it.
I see , Fragmentation! I can see where the gentlemen switches from the self who wants money and the self who wants connection with others. I think I also have this issue. Good video
I hope you see this Teal. I used to be one of the skeptics on here and I have turned into a faithful fan. I love you a lot and I am sorry for being a hater. Thank you for existing
Aww cool. Never stop questioning people though. I love Teal and I believe everything she says for the most part and there's lots of spiritual teachers I believe but I don't think that anyone knows everything. Like how Teal is always talking about how important veganism is. I just don't think you need to be vegan to open your third eye chakra for example. I also don't know if Abraham is right about everything that she says about aliens. But I believe in these teachers, just not blindly lol. I think I see a lot of people kind of blindly believing someone knows everything and I used to be like that but as I raised my vibration I realized that maybe they don't know everything. Because if they did know everything then why are there so many spiritual teachers with slightly different teachings? You just have to try out their information and if it resonates with me then I try it out. I'm just an indigo so I have to question everyone though I am definitely not a skeptic.
This is extrodinary. A PERFECT EXAMPLE OF ME. I wl watch this a few more time to graso all of what you with this guy. Im a christian who doesnt feel free.. chrustianity calls what you do a no no. I was reluctant to watch thus vid but compelled to watch it. Wisdom is wisdim where ever it come. I know i was meant to watch is, Deep down as ive thought about my life connection always coms up.... everytime but i discounted it. I first noted this when i was 7 yrs okd. It has stuck with me for 53 yrs. Ive never gotteb to rhe place i wabted to be be. Ive made poor choices, married the wrong people. Ive had some successes but they are temporary. Im the younger guy in this vid at 60. Wish i had seen this at 40. At 30 i was chasing dreams. The yuppy kinda era. Ty
Don't stop dreaming. And don't give up! You still have time to enjoy life so enjoy life as much as possible. When you're 90, you might regret that you didn't just enjoy your life now instead of living in regret about when you discovered this knowledge. So enjoy your life now. Go heal, get connection, and then do what you love as much as possible and you should eventually have a happy life. If your life isn't already happy that is, then your life will be happy if you just stay happy most of the time and then by the law of attraction your life will be happy. Watch Teal's videos about the law of attraction if you have no idea about what I'm talking about right now then I'll make sense lol
this called me out on a deep level.. kinda knew about this war inside of me but not really and didn't link it to success... Thanks Teal. Also the guy seems really sympathetic, I hope he got everything he wanted
fantastic!! very interesting.. I can relate, my mother is a narc as well.. these people dont realize or dont care about the damage they cause... I love your dress TEAL it is stunning!!
Wow, this Girl is the BALM!!!! Teal did a WONDEROUS job with this guy. Good for you Teal! Great work!!!! P.S. this made me get chills and i've NEVER gotten chills watching ANY youtube video. KoooooooL!!!
Thank you for sharing this. I can so much more hear your wisdom than when you tell about the subject. This is a perfect form of sharing your wisdom for me to let it reach me on a deeper level than my intellect.
Hahah so needed this! Teal, thank you for bringing a kick of wit and sarcasm as always! 💕 I am in love with your teachings and as a former self proclaimed “I can do bad all by myself” female, your messages as so needed in this generation. Thank you so much for this channel! Love and light and a splash of wit 🔥✨
This is me in a nutshell. My whole life I felt like an outcast no one would want me or accept me for who I was. But luckily I had my mother who was always there for me but the family expected me to be a certain way to feel loved which deep down causes resentment like there was something wrong with me. I thought if I focused on attaining money it would solve my issues but when my auntie who is also a spiritual teacher made me do an exercise which was to outline the reasons why you wanted money while talking and staring at someone across the room while they continue to ask. "What does money mean to you" I couldn't answer that question I struggled and only came with 3 answers then I had the realisation that money was not as important to me as I thought it was. I looked inside myself and came with an unsettling truth I wanted freinds but not just freinds but more importantly I craved acceptance I needed to feel like i mattered in this universe. To this day I think if I become something, have nice cars then people will accept me but I guess it will be that way for the wrong reasons. Money isn't evil and it should be desired as it's an important tool but I was wanting it for the wrong reasons to buy love.
Keep that strategy with that highly contagious smile Teal...I'm very happy that I tumbled into your channel tonight, for it's been quite a while; I'm actually very happy as well to see the way you have been evolving over time.
What a sweetheart. We are all one and it is all a projection of aspects of our own psyche. We run the movie reel. Even the horrors, traumas and tragedies are part of our own projections and psyches. She’s right about the various parts of ourselves and moving forward towards wholeness. The attached, abandoned part is the most traumatised & complex to reintegrate. Wholeness & loving yourself to the absolute max helps.
I love the blooming experience I'm having as I keep watching these videos. Taking notes and meeting with new aspects of myself. This just created a party 😂💃🏽
This is so crazy. I’m going through the EXACT situation right now with my parents too. I know I need to move out but so can’t afford to. I recently found out that I’m gonna have to stay a few more months than I planned and aim really upset. I know exactly what needs to change now because of this video. Thank you Teal and thank you UA-cam for recommending this to me
Hey!!! I’m in similar situation. Would you like to share more what change you trying to make? And what this video inspired you please. Because I don’t think I totally get this video. No worries If you are not convenient, have a good day !
I was just thinking I don't know how to get what I want and this video started playing on my phone. This is the exact issue I have been having and struggling with for years and it has been repeating in my life in between the two super moons at the begining of this year. I have struggled with finding success and purpose or I have been sabatoging my achievements due to my motivation for independence and self reliability. Iam grateful I was guided to this video 11:11 🌹
I got something out of that too. I got the strategy I just need more of this . Keep up your magic Teal. Uv helped me thru my journey for a while now. I'm truly grateful to have u around. Namaste
Oh i loved this strategy. It helped me understand why I want the things I want and why I’m not getting it. For instance, I want to be married, to be proposed to and it hasn’t happened even with being in a long term relationship with a lovely partner. Then it hit me, I don’t want the proposal I want to feel safe, connected and validated. If I don’t work on creating my boundaries, attuning to myself and my intentions and honoring my wants and needs, how can I expect someone else to do that? Mind blown 🤯. Thank you for this awareness.
I really like you Teal! You have changed my life! Big deal! I can't talk about it here since it's a public thing, but you are the best! You freed me from something I have been struggling with for years. You are my hero! My Angel on earth. By any chance if you read this message, I would love to express my appreciation. Stay blessed darling!!!...
I want fantastical belonging. I want extreme cocreation and attunment. I want to be in the honeymoon faze forever. I want to look into someone’s eyes and feel like we are magically linked. I want to feel integral. I want someone who I can continually be in vulnerable awe with each other. I want to be priority but not out of obligation. Priority out of preference. enamoured. I want it to feel beyond me and through me at the same time. I want the rapture through a relationship. Unconditional. Special. Dragon like 🐉 I understand that action is important but inspired action isn’t something I have to make myself do. I want it to hit me. Fly to me through our magical realm. But for now I sit not understanding why I don’t have it. My integrity/conviction is in suicide.
What do you mean through your last sentence my love? You are a being of infinite light and you are here for divine love and purpose. The universe choose you. YOU chose you. Please choose life. ❤️❤️❤️
wow Elijah that couldn't have been better said tbh. That magical world that is just out of reach (or in reach?) and you just cant push yourself there because you feel unmotivated :L ... You just get left in emptiness and death feels like the next option forwards. I feel you
That guy should have no trouble making friends when he's ready. He seems so honest and pure, like the friend everybody would want. Such a sweetheart.
He’s being honest in this context, with Teal. This guy would have a real hard time being this vulnerable with others, given his upbringing and broken family. It takes a lot of work to work through the shame of feeling unwanted as a child, which translates into perfectionism and and inability to be seen as a full person by others, no matter how much you may want connection.
@@withinwithout6263 You are so right
So beautiful 🥺 narcissitic parents are the worst
I remember being 4 and looking at my parents thinking "these people are really immature."
Haha! That is really funny
me too, but it was not parents but other people 30-40-50 ages old xD
Kudos to this guy for showing up on stage and opening up himself. I can resonate much with him. Great job Teal!
Me too
He doesn't realise how warm and likeable he is, your time is all you need to offer anyone.
Teal is brilliant in this as always xxx
I burst into tears when Teal said "The first start is understanding that I see you". How many of us need to hear that and don't even know it?
I gotta say, I've watched a lot of Teal's videos, but this is the one that most helped my expansion. The guy on stage simply described my desperate need for independence and wanting money, and the breaktrough they had resonated in me as well. Thank you so much for sharing these workshops. It's amazing to watch Her videos and learn from them, but it's even more incredible, and easier to relate, when you watch someone with your exact struggles describing what you can't find the words to. I hope that he, as well as me, find a way to what we truly want, after a lifetime of a domestic environment proving otherwise.
Stefanie Philadelphi Jatene I'm witchu on this
Ami Propagator as am I.
I agree. I've been at tug of war with myself for my entire life..I've been in all out warfare for over two years. This Was sooo helpful. I just have to change his story for mine. Daily. Until i am in alignment
What other videos did you like of Teal?
How's life now for you? Did you find what you are looking for? 4 years later? :)
HUGE NOISE WARNING at 19:58. Headphones users beware!!
Other than that, HUGE awakening warning on any and every one of Teal's videos!
That part was like nails on the chalkboard
Thank you! I saw your comment 5 seconds before, I feel like you just saved my life 😂
THANK YOU
judging by their faces i am really lucky to have read your warning lol
You are an angel, thank you! ✨
I'm glad she picked him, I can see myself in him, I want the success without my family because I'm always getting hurt in the process. I figured something out about myself. The question I ask the inner ME is why are you holding me back. I got my answer with this video.
beliefless dogmasless ur so funny
I also reflected on him and found out about a belief that was holding me back
In high school my mother wasn't around. My dad wasn't around , he left us and my mom left me. I grow up with my aunt and that was hell. Now I'm in college and everyone wants to be a family, I can't just pretend that everything didn't happen, I forgive my mom and Dad but I need a LIFE away from them. They left me for their own selfishness because they realize they didn't love each other. 😏 so yes I pick success over my broken family
Faithful Forever I'm sorry you experienced those things, you're not alone. Does your college friends wanting to be close/family help your heart? Did someone make you feel that you should forget about what happened? That's really great you continue to forgive, that helped me this morning.
A Beautiful Journey Yep!! My aunt's and uncle's said I have to help my mother because she needs me. I had to laugh to myself because I remember when I begged her not to leave me as a child. I like to be alone now, I really don't want any friends I push people away because I hate getting hurt.
I just want to give this guy a big hug :'(
Awwww when he is vulnerable he is so lovable!!!
Especially as an empath, the statement of growing up in an invalidating environment & losing touch with my emotions is profound. A deeper reason for the disconnection with self while feeling everyone's feelings which created physical illness. The body screamed for attention, because I didn't know how (or even that it was okay) to feel my own feelings. The value of self not being tied to what I do for others is key.
Anitra Hooper Same here!..
Same here recovering from this issue (which caused Fibromylagia and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome) with EFT (tapping) learned on UA-cam free
@@evelinel.9827 EFT and fasterEFt are amazing
Yes I can relate 🙏
1000% i could've written this, so on point! But i'm successfully SAVING MY OWN LIFE-HEALTH WISE ! Annnnnd the next step is still gonna be about moving out of this place where I acquired all the pain to begin with!
Watching this made me cry as I've been in a tug of war with myself since being a little girl. I always wanted to be wanted needed n loved but wasn't really shown any so I grew up never knowing how to receive love or give it so I stayed in active addiction n alcoholism for 36 years. I'm waking up spiritually now sometimes quickly sometimes slowly n self love is the hardest for me but I'm working on it. Thankyou for sharing I love your videos as they go deep n i can connect to them xx
You are amazing, never give up. The universe is on your side. Have faith !
Thank you
You’re on your way! Small steps.
be strong & love yourself.. I wish you a lifetime of true happiness !..
Dawn Mcdonald thats me now but addicted to the uppers. Why for money to be independant and then maybe a connection. If im let down at least I will still have me. As sad as it sounds I guess Im stuck
This was so profound and eye opening. But I felt like one thing they didn't get to was the fact that he thinks he doesn't have much to offer to anyone else. He doesn't recognize his own value and he doesn't know himself enough to realize how much he's worth. I think with practicing self love he will see that he does have things to offer and then he will feel more of a desire to connect with someone else. It stood out to me as an underlying cause for even this entire problem he has.
Anyways this was incredible to watch and I'm so grateful to have come across this video. Thank you Teal.
HI.... you are pretty. lol
can u explain again cuz i didnt get how he got satisfied or got convinced . i exactly have same issues nd emetions nd dnt rally care abt anything. i just understand things when thy feel right i trust my self but i dnt care for it . so if u understand plz explain to help me
@@khaledamer2693did you get the answer ? I can maybe help
I can so relate to this guy. Grew up in a similar way, thrived to financial success, had it for a while but then I started to feel completely burned-out. Gosh I think this is a huge issue for men because we as men are expected to thrive and have financial success but oh dear connecting with our own feelings and essence... we still have a long way to go!
Today they expect the same from women too.. and I regret to have spent so much time to an illusional career..
This is golden. Bigs up to that brave guy opening up about a deep issue that many of us share.
Omg how relatable....I literally have changed my goals to manifesting money instead of love or connection because I figured i have no hope there so changed direction. Wow to Teal bringing us together to see we aren't alone in these feelings and to understand the depth of why.
You are amazing Teal thank you so much!💫💜💙💚💛🧡❤💫
So this is literally everything to do with the self. I am in the exact same position, and what I understand now is that it’s not literally about going out of your way to go and find connection as if some one is holding it and waiting for you to claim it, it’s more so about being in harmony with every aspect of you first, loving yourself, so that you can accept your reflection in other people. Anything else is secondary??
Perfect said :)
What exactly is the solution of this problem/issue shown in the video. I didn't understand.what is the moral of the story? Can anybody please tell?🙏
You are divine. So well said. I love and appreciate you love light and increasing prosperity
@@ledbysoulyoga3 What I got from the video is that the man does not believe he can get connection and success at the same time. The part of him that Teal embodied was a part of him that didn’t want success or money because to them it meant losing people. I think the solution would be to find connection and love from people who won’t make it conditional, like basing their love for him on his career or how much money he makes. Find people who will love you regardless of what you do. It’s much easier said than done of course, and it is a process but it will be very worth it.
This guy is so relatable.
Thank you Teal for choosing him! I had the same childhood experience as him.
Teal, I love what you do, and it pains me to hear microphone and sound issues in your workshop videos. I'm a sound engineer and I would love to help. ❤️
=)
Mic pre way too hot lol
I was thinking the same thing! I would do the sound for free!!!
Yes not sure if there is someone responsable for the sound ...sleeping...yes if i was close would love to take care of this
Yes, the mic pre is hot and they didn't seem to remove the room sound before hand. There was a moment where they were trying some subtractive EQ while she was talking, though it didn't fix the issue.
Teal, I am a Pisces Ascendant and extremely sensitive woman who grew up around narcissistic parents. I have had no boundaries and that has been a problem. Thank you so much for picking him
This hit me so hard! I can se myself in him. I hope he is doing better❤️
I feel for this guy so much. Similar feeling experience in childhood...I’m so grateful for his bravery to go on stage. I heard myself through him. I love how detached yet compassionate Teal is with her guidance as well. Thank you 🙏
This is so good, I love how patient you are, Teal and not giving him the answers. You are really making him think and work through his blocks. I can absolutely relate to this.
wow this segment made me cry- i identify with this guy so much. thank you for raising this question- years later people are still benefitting from this. thank you teal and team for making this material accessible.
I can relate to this guy
Part of me wants connections, love and friends yet I put the majority of my time into working and don't take the risks
I will start talking to my inner self that's resistant to see why I do that..
Thanks Teal!
we kinda have the same situation, it was almost like listening to myself..it felt so comforting to know that I'm not the only one with this problem, it helped that this guy seems pretty nice and I feel like he can get out of his situation, and that gives me hope for me too...thank you
This made me cry ....really eye opening ...
That’s me totally. I definitely was struggling with him but understood what needs to happen. So very grateful for Teal’s teachings!!❤️✨
She knows her stuff SO well and she is so intuitive too.
All Teal Workshop pieces I've seen resonate so strongly with me and the problems I go through. I have all those fragmentations
thanks to this guy .....i need this answer right now in my life...
i hope he gets the connections he is truely seeking for....
I don't care if people like me. If they do, great. If they don't then it's no skin off my nose. I'm going to be 33 this year and I have transformed from the girl I was at school wanting kids to like me. The thing is people respond hugely to people who are authentic, and if you want people to like you - you are trying to hard and in doing so you come across as insecure. It's not a huge deal if people like me or not, I guess I'm becoming more and more comfortable being myself. I do have confidence, I think what didn't help for me though was when I was younger I stammered, I was bullied to the point I developed a stammer. I just know that to get on I need to work on myself and I have no problem getting deep or facing the hard truths but I do get that what this guy is saying is something that I'd say to myself years ago. When I leave home and I have my own place I won't need my parents anymore. When I am 18 I will be free of my parents. I think these are just dreams and we tell ourselves things like getting a job, earning money because it sounds like a better way to deal, so we dream. We don't actually do anything about it. I remember years ago where I would be on the sofa with my Mom and she said give us a cuddle now I can't remember the last time I have had that with her. Occasionally when I'm at Mom's one of us will decide I wanna cuddle. I do feel close to her and the relationship has survived its teenage years but I think if I'm doing all these changes why can't my mom do the same. Stupid thing is we don't talk as much as we should and that stumps our relationship growth. My Mom isn't a narasaist but she does have traits of one and depending on what mood she is in she don't always have empathy. But then sometimes I wonder should I just accept her for who she is rather than saying you should be kinder, thoughtful but when she gets off the phone to me, she tells me that she loves me and I like that. I'm actually trying to listen to her kind words rather than the demon voices in my head that make me want to pull away. She has her moments where she acts all grandeous but I'm trying to accept her for who she is because I realise the only person I can change is me and get better at backing up my boundaries.
"I feel like there's nobody who's gonna want us" Those words resonated so much with me, when I heard her say it tears wouldn't stop flowing. Wow.
Really amazing to see how you work through this mans blind spot or block... and for hims to interact with his inner conflict of avoidance, desires, and purpose. I had a very similar upbringing and although I'm present to it's impact, conditioning, and my survival strategies, I see how I inhered others pain of judgment plus my own judgment that mistreated my inner child or authentic self. The transformative and spiritual path I've taken has shown me the possibility of self love and relating to myself as a creator here to experience lessons to evolve and that the universe is supporting me. I'm very blessed to discover a spiritual aspect to life where I get to choose "who I be" and let go of the identity "meanings" to be present and connect with others. This reawakened that... Thank you for this video!
I love these videos and find them so helpful seeing Teal unpack real life problems with someone. I wish I could see more of these ♥️.
That’s me on stage with you, Teal. That’s everyone I know who yearns. So helpful. Many thanks.
Teal! You changed my life!! This revolutionary exercise has deep layers such that I am unpacking this now in a way I hadn’t fathomed before when it was first uploaded.
What exercise is this
This is GOLD.
“You’ve been taught that what you do represents how lovable you are.”
The lady is a genius, love her so much
@@katt1134 frfr! Big facts!
This really hit hard!
That's why I'm scared of working, cause I wanna do well to please someone else. Instead of pleasing me by doing the best I can FOR ME
That is really deep and to the point. I'm becoming a big fan of Teal Swan.
Teal, how many people do not realize you have been required to grow through what they are attempting to grow through. The approach taken of splitting the self and having the young man speak to you (himself) was brilliant! Thank you.
This is one of the most relatable videos I have ever watched. This guy honestly feels like he is me. Thank you 😌
she reflects 100% of my inner being. I had same case that's why i had to come back to my mom's home and clear everything out with my part that has been deeply hurt. I had to forgive my parents, and appologize for not loving them and release myself from that guilt. Accept the fact that it was my choice to be independent I've chosen parents who neglected my feelings and tried to even kill me.
OMG. This entire video is EPIC!! Thanks Teal. Blessings!!
This dude is literally ME. Teal is amazing ♥
I see myself so much in this guy. So much. I'm grateful for this!!!!!
I so needed this ....nothing n my life is a coincidence
Hi Teal, I love you. You open doors that are closed for so many. Incredible wisdom and love you give to the world. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and energy. Amazing and beautiful woman you are. From the inside to the outside. I am happy that you are here with me although you physically are not. A lot of people feel that connection with themselves through your key of self awareness and self connection. Thanks! ❤️🙏😍 Leon
bruh this made me cry so much the whole time wtf
I opened this video and yelled: Oh my God I love you Teal you’re SO beautiful!!!!!!❤️
The time had stopped the moment they started talking in the stage. I cried, I laughed, I heard, I understood but then I was distracted too. Very good example of how and why we’re not growing up. I am in need to grow up or I’ll eventually destroy myself emotionally. By thinking that I am not love, that I am not deserving of love and therefore I don’t want love because I can’t have it.
I see , Fragmentation! I can see where the gentlemen switches from the self who wants money and the self who wants connection with others. I think I also have this issue. Good video
How do I do it?
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Teal you are a wonderful gift to mankind. Thank you.
Putting this into practice and it’s hard but so worth it
The clothes you're wearing are beautiful!
North indian clothes are gorgeous
gangliums it’s middle eastern dress
Right? OMG
High On Life And Love from Hogwarts
Seriously! I know it's superficial compared to the content of her videos, but I wish she would curate a fashion shop.
I like this guy. He's charming :) and im dealing with the same struggle.. Teal knows what she's doing!♡ she's really good!
I hope you see this Teal. I used to be one of the skeptics on here and I have turned into a faithful fan. I love you a lot and I am sorry for being a hater. Thank you for existing
Aww cool. Never stop questioning people though. I love Teal and I believe everything she says for the most part and there's lots of spiritual teachers I believe but I don't think that anyone knows everything. Like how Teal is always talking about how important veganism is. I just don't think you need to be vegan to open your third eye chakra for example. I also don't know if Abraham is right about everything that she says about aliens. But I believe in these teachers, just not blindly lol. I think I see a lot of people kind of blindly believing someone knows everything and I used to be like that but as I raised my vibration I realized that maybe they don't know everything. Because if they did know everything then why are there so many spiritual teachers with slightly different teachings? You just have to try out their information and if it resonates with me then I try it out. I'm just an indigo so I have to question everyone though I am definitely not a skeptic.
This is extrodinary. A PERFECT EXAMPLE OF ME. I wl watch this a few more time to graso all of what you with this guy. Im a christian who doesnt feel free.. chrustianity calls what you do a no no. I was reluctant to watch thus vid but compelled to watch it. Wisdom is wisdim where ever it come. I know i was meant to watch is, Deep down as ive thought about my life connection always coms up.... everytime but i discounted it. I first noted this when i was 7 yrs okd. It has stuck with me for 53 yrs. Ive never gotteb to rhe place i wabted to be be. Ive made poor choices, married the wrong people. Ive had some successes but they are temporary. Im the younger guy in this vid at 60. Wish i had seen this at 40. At 30 i was chasing dreams. The yuppy kinda era. Ty
Don't stop dreaming. And don't give up! You still have time to enjoy life so enjoy life as much as possible. When you're 90, you might regret that you didn't just enjoy your life now instead of living in regret about when you discovered this knowledge. So enjoy your life now. Go heal, get connection, and then do what you love as much as possible and you should eventually have a happy life. If your life isn't already happy that is, then your life will be happy if you just stay happy most of the time and then by the law of attraction your life will be happy. Watch Teal's videos about the law of attraction if you have no idea about what I'm talking about right now then I'll make sense lol
Thank you Teal 🙏
Plot TWIST to everyone saying they see themselves in him....wellllll.....its cause....you are HIM.
We are all one consiosness!! Love light to All
we are also that person who raped his own mother and later on daughter and then got executed in the electric chair in front of people
this called me out on a deep level.. kinda knew about this war inside of me but not really and didn't link it to success... Thanks Teal.
Also the guy seems really sympathetic, I hope he got everything he wanted
fantastic!! very interesting.. I can relate, my mother is a narc as well.. these people dont realize or dont care about the damage they cause... I love your dress TEAL it is stunning!!
Wow, this Girl is the BALM!!!! Teal did a WONDEROUS job with this guy. Good for you Teal! Great work!!!!
P.S. this made me get chills and i've NEVER gotten chills watching ANY youtube video. KoooooooL!!!
I have so much Love for her. She really does help alot of people. Even if she's dark sometimes at least she's real.
This was really really eye opening for me. Thank you Teal! You’re pure gold!
This guy is me
Karolina Lind ...my thoughts as well.
Karolina Lind Can you explain me the end part of this video ??
how are you doing at the moment Karolina? :)
This guy is exactly me too
@@thadonis. he transgender and now prefers to be called by her pronoun “Ke” which stands for her.
Wow that was incredible to watch. Hats off to Teal and everything she’s doing to help people.
Thank you for sharing this. I can so much more hear your wisdom than when you tell about the subject. This is a perfect form of sharing your wisdom for me to let it reach me on a deeper level than my intellect.
Hahah so needed this! Teal, thank you for bringing a kick of wit and sarcasm as always! 💕 I am in love with your teachings and as a former self proclaimed “I can do bad all by myself” female, your messages as so needed in this generation. Thank you so much for this channel! Love and light and a splash of wit 🔥✨
This is me in a nutshell. My whole life I felt like an outcast no one would want me or accept me for who I was. But luckily I had my mother who was always there for me but the family expected me to be a certain way to feel loved which deep down causes resentment like there was something wrong with me. I thought if I focused on attaining money it would solve my issues but when my auntie who is also a spiritual teacher made me do an exercise which was to outline the reasons why you wanted money while talking and staring at someone across the room while they continue to ask. "What does money mean to you" I couldn't answer that question I struggled and only came with 3 answers then I had the realisation that money was not as important to me as I thought it was. I looked inside myself and came with an unsettling truth I wanted freinds but not just freinds but more importantly I craved acceptance I needed to feel like i mattered in this universe. To this day I think if I become something, have nice cars then people will accept me but I guess it will be that way for the wrong reasons. Money isn't evil and it should be desired as it's an important tool but I was wanting it for the wrong reasons to buy love.
This video changed me when I first saw it in January. Thank you. ✨
Thank you Teal for guidence, you are always here in my dreams. Happy new year from Slovakia.
Róbert Bendík Zdravíčko Roberte :D
Alan Rotenflesh zdravím :)
ahoj, ako sa tesim vidiet niekoho na Teal workshop videu zo Slovenska : )
This was so hard to hear/watch. Struck every cord in my heart. This guy was 100% me. Thank you for this!
Keep that strategy with that highly contagious smile Teal...I'm very happy that I tumbled into your channel tonight, for it's been quite a while; I'm actually very happy as well to see the way you have been evolving over time.
What a sweetheart. We are all one and it is all a projection of aspects of our own psyche. We run the movie reel. Even the horrors, traumas and tragedies are part of our own projections and psyches. She’s right about the various parts of ourselves and moving forward towards wholeness. The attached, abandoned part is the most traumatised & complex to reintegrate. Wholeness & loving yourself to the absolute max helps.
I love the blooming experience I'm having as I keep watching these videos. Taking notes and meeting with new aspects of myself. This just created a party 😂💃🏽
That was amazing! Great strategy to talk to the other part of him and making him self aware of the conflict...Great work Teal!
OMG this guy is me! Thank you so much for your wisdom Teal ! Love you!
It is not what you do for a living that is the purpose but who you can love for living that will give both of you purpose!!!!
This is so crazy. I’m going through the EXACT situation right now with my parents too. I know I need to move out but so can’t afford to. I recently found out that I’m gonna have to stay a few more months than I planned and aim really upset. I know exactly what needs to change now because of this video. Thank you Teal and thank you UA-cam for recommending this to me
Hey!!! I’m in similar situation. Would you like to share more what change you trying to make? And what this video inspired you please. Because I don’t think I totally get this video. No worries
If you are not convenient, have a good day !
Teal can you please make a video on parts therapy or just resolving internal conflict in order to move on, it's very powerful.
Nada I think this video could be helpful to you. ua-cam.com/video/EeUlPO2iXb4/v-deo.html
I was just thinking I don't know how to get what I want and this video started playing on my phone. This is the exact issue I have been having and struggling with for years and it has been repeating in my life in between the two super moons at the begining of this year. I have struggled with finding success and purpose or I have been sabatoging my achievements due to my motivation for independence and self reliability. Iam grateful I was guided to this video 11:11 🌹
Without faith in yourself, the 17 second rule of manifestation will never work. You have to have self esteem. Teal, you rule.
I got something out of that too. I got the strategy I just need more of this . Keep up your magic Teal. Uv helped me thru my journey for a while now. I'm truly grateful to have u around.
Namaste
Oh i loved this strategy. It helped me understand why I want the things I want and why I’m not getting it. For instance, I want to be married, to be proposed to and it hasn’t happened even with being in a long term relationship with a lovely partner. Then it hit me, I don’t want the proposal I want to feel safe, connected and validated. If I don’t work on creating my boundaries, attuning to myself and my intentions and honoring my wants and needs, how can I expect someone else to do that? Mind blown 🤯. Thank you for this awareness.
This is the best youtube channel I have seen so far.
I really like you Teal! You have changed my life! Big deal! I can't talk about it here since it's a public thing, but you are the best! You freed me from something I have been struggling with for years. You are my hero! My Angel on earth. By any chance if you read this message, I would love to express my appreciation. Stay blessed darling!!!...
When you said you don’t want money, you want friends. I started SOBBING
Wow this one dive deeper than anyone I’ve probably ever heard before
She is so beautiful in soo many ways
This made me cry.
Thank you Teal.
I was crying while watching this...Teal THANK YOU !!! I LOVE YOU ALL !!!
I love this fragmentation thingy
Teal I love your calm confident energy.
That was very beautiful and impactful process. Thank you for sharing it!
I want fantastical belonging. I want extreme cocreation and attunment. I want to be in the honeymoon faze forever. I want to look into someone’s eyes and feel like we are magically linked. I want to feel integral. I want someone who I can continually be in vulnerable awe with each other. I want to be priority but not out of obligation. Priority out of preference. enamoured. I want it to feel beyond me and through me at the same time. I want the rapture through a relationship. Unconditional. Special. Dragon like 🐉
I understand that action is important but inspired action isn’t something I have to make myself do. I want it to hit me. Fly to me through our magical realm. But for now I sit not understanding why I don’t have it. My integrity/conviction is in suicide.
The most powerful relationship is with self; to thyself be true. Oneness with others begins with unconditional love of self.
nicely put!
What do you mean through your last sentence my love? You are a being of infinite light and you are here for divine love and purpose. The universe choose you. YOU chose you. Please choose life. ❤️❤️❤️
wow Elijah that couldn't have been better said tbh. That magical world that is just out of reach (or in reach?) and you just cant push yourself there because you feel unmotivated :L ... You just get left in emptiness and death feels like the next option forwards. I feel you
Have that relationship with your self. Feel that awe for your self.
so much love to you my teacher,r from Saudi arabi!
norah seud I’m an Arab as well from Libya and I’m a huge fan of teal as well :)
shes incredible isn't she? let's chat!! hit me up on instagram @imnorahsaud
Is this man in the video from the Arab world, too?
I think he is. I truly admire people from the Muslim world who are able to free themselves from their religion and society.
@@nickilovesdogs8137 Our religion is freedom from society, you know notning of us or our geopolitical situation. I suggest you keep your mouth shut.