This hit so many points. What happens when you have been widowed and then remarried a man you have dated a couple of years, then only to find he is a narcissist and ignores your child? A 15 year old that needs a father. Now he seeks fatherhoods through the father of his friend. Hurts my heart so much. I have to escape. I can't deal with the daily tension that pollutes the air in a place we are supposed to call home. If I stay here any longer, my fear is that my son will grow up thinking that he will never amount to anything. My husband is so quick to let him know the things he does, like mow, is not good enough. When my son cooks, my husband purposely doesn't eat. This truly makes me ill.
Angie I am sorry for your pain and the negative impact this situation has on your son and yourself. Just saw your comment today and is wondering how your doing now? Do you have any support maybe thru a church group? I pray that God touches you and your son right now. May he put a hedge of protection around you that the enemy will not come near. My heart goes out to you. Have you heard of the book;Boundaries in Marriage? It's a valuable book. I will mention you before God in my prayers so he will guide your path as it is deemed my his will. Pray for wisdom that he will give you as far as what to do. May you walk forward to a life of peace and joy. Love from a sister that the enemy stoled so freely but yet God is slowly restoring back peace and joy. I pray that your experience won't turn your heart cold but rather start to share it as it may help others. Praying for you now. Trust in God with all your heart. Dwell on this verse and believe it. ALL things work together for them that LOVE the Lord. Hope I wasn't being insensitive in anything I said?
This hit so many points. What happens when you have been widowed and then remarried a man you have dated a couple of years, then only to find he is a narcissist and ignores your child? A 15 year old that needs a father. Now he seeks fatherhoods through the father of his friend. Hurts my heart so much. I have to escape. I can't deal with the daily tension that pollutes the air in a place we are supposed to call home. If I stay here any longer, my fear is that my son will grow up thinking that he will never amount to anything. My husband is so quick to let him know the things he does, like mow, is not good enough. When my son cooks, my husband purposely doesn't eat. This truly makes me ill.
Angie I am sorry for your pain and the negative impact this situation has on your son and yourself. Just saw your comment today and is wondering how your doing now? Do you have any support maybe thru a church group? I pray that God touches you and your son right now. May he put a hedge of protection around you that the enemy will not come near. My heart goes out to you. Have you heard of the book;Boundaries in Marriage? It's a valuable book.
I will mention you before God in my prayers so he will guide your path as it is deemed my his will. Pray for wisdom that he will give you as far as what to do. May you walk forward to a life of peace and joy. Love from a sister that the enemy stoled so freely but yet God is slowly restoring back peace and joy.
I pray that your experience won't turn your heart cold but rather start to share it as it may help others. Praying for you now. Trust in God with all your heart. Dwell on this verse and believe it. ALL things work together for them that LOVE the Lord. Hope I wasn't being insensitive in anything I said?