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sometimes ocd isnt just cleaning and making sure stuff is aligned and clean sometimes it can be closing a drawer 50 times until it felt right or locking a door 100 times until it felt right
Exactly it can also be when your brain tells you to do all these thing and you feel pressured to do it or something terrible will happen Example: it could be if you don't turn the light switch on and off 5 times but it has to be an even number so 6 times then your family will die, you will get sick you will die etc. As you feel so pressured to do all this you can also get anxiety. (It's probably different for everyone but this was mine)
it can be just cleaning also though because i only suffer with ocd with my hygiene and cleaning my room all the time (but i do feel the need to wash my hands at least 3 times every time they need washing so I end up washing them up to 100 times a day)
My dad has a mental illness of OCD and anxiety attacks, sometimes it gets irritating but it was never his choice to have that. Sometimes he has to count a several times just too make sure, caring about the smallest details. But at the same time that's why he was successful. So I just accepted the way he was and try to think of the positive stuff
Aww I’m soo sorry my grandma is actully dying cuz she has a little hole in her heart and my kitten died he got hit by a car and he was only a baby I’m only 10 yes okd😭😭
My dad has a ocd were he cant wear worn clothes for the 2nd time so he would buy clothes then throw them away and repeat and he wastes alot of money so its rlly bad. sadly idk were he is right now but im hoping he doesnt have it anymore.
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@@TheTigerKingShow I doubt your getting one. I feel like you are trying to get subscribers, and then after you get that amount, you’ll ask for more. So no.
Thank you for another incredibly inspirational video. Raising the awareness for this kind of unseen disabilities has never been so important. Thank you!
As someone who has been diagnosed with OCD my entire life, this is one of the best representation of this disorder I've seen. I can't stand people who don't think it's real or think people are faking it to get attention. I've dealt with these types of people my whole life and I'm glad to finally see some recognition to what it's actually like and not as some quirky personality trait.
Okay first of all OCD is not just perfection and obsession OCD comes with lots of stress depression and worries Not just I need to clean this and clean that Its more like my friend said Hi today but in a different tone what if she is really sad or there parents are divorcing and things like that That is more like kinda perfectionism or mild OCD I have a OCD and a ADD that only 20% of people have it is extremely hard to keep calm sometimes and you freak out whenever you see somebody hurt I like that you added OCD into this and try but its kinda not fair if you know what I mean I love this channel but somtimes it is kinda eh You also need to touch things very closely some have ticks and get bullied alot For me I nod my head and raise my eyebrows alot and I take short breathe because I'm worried that I am annoying people but really they just annoy people
I have OCD (along with Autism) and it can be extremely difficult to live with... I'm hoping and praying that your story here will help many, many more people to see that this is proper medical condition, and that people's patience and understanding are more than a saving grace: these are the things that help reduce anxiety for the person with OCD 🙏
I have ocd and autism 2 and I wish I was better at orders and cleaning gen because all I do is perfectly remake the hit I did on my right leg 2 the left and cause shot circuits turning the light on and off 😂 at least I am in grade 7 and have a 24 aged score on my cognitive test in math
As a person struggling with more severe OCD and a child, thank you. I love this but maybe you should try representing that people with OCD aren’t (mainly) just cleaning-obsessed people… Although it is for some, and can be a struggle.
6:41 Abuela looked like she was about to start crying from frustration lmao. "She took 20 minutes scrubbing the counter!!" I felt so bad for Ruby, especially with Abuela dismissing her OCD, but that moment made me laugh harder than it should.
OCD is not about keeping things organized - this is a common misconception among society. OCD stands for obsessive compulsive disorder. People who have PTSD, depression, anxiety, or stress related mental conditions try to get rid of their thoughts by indulging in repetitive, almost ritualistic activities to keep them calm, and they show signs of tension when they are unable to follow that repetition, because it alters their state of mind. So next time someone says they have OCD, please understand that person's real problem, and not the stereotype that they only like keeping things organized.
Organization is still a behavior in OCD, if something is not perfect that can lead to repetitive behavior (like the girl scrubbing the counter) or thoughts of something will happen if something isn’t perfect, you’re correct on everything you said, but this video is also correct still!
@@alexanderhamilton4631 A lot of it is kind of stereotypical but I wouldn't say this video feeds into those stereotypes. Like @Adelynn Ward said, organization is still a part of OCD, but it isn't the main driving factor at all. That was what I was trying to shed light on :) But I must say, I have a friend who has acute OCD, and he has no organization problems whatsoever. It varies from person to person, but there is a bigger picture to it.
As a person with ocd, this is offensive to me. It is so much more than just being a clean freak. It affects my mental health. I have intrusive thoughts, have really bad anxiety. Everything could be going fine until I think of a bad possible situation and then it takes over me.
This video just serves to be aware of the disorder OCD, it is not intended for offensive reasons. They were just trying to state one of the MANY reactions going along with having OCD.
I'm glad that this video focused on the anxiety side of OCD. Most people think it's just doing little rituals or wanting things to be organized. It's actually intense anxiety and the feeling that you absolutely HAVE to do a certain thing, sometimes over and over. It's exactly what it sounds like: obsessive and compulsive.
I agree! As someone with many different symptoms of OCD, it was refreshing to see a little more accurate representation other than just perfectionism (not saying that isn't an aspect as well, but it's all you ever see in media.)
I love cleaning and things being clean.I don’t have OCD but I do know how it is to like stuff being clean….We’re not just telling stories we’re changing lives…I love it!!!
if you ever get frustrated at someone with OCD because they take too long to do something or whatever, just know that we areas lo frustrated ourselves. The Grandma only had to deal with Ruby’s compulsions “all day” but ruby deals with them her whole life.
I have ocd when I try to watch gametoons (fnf logic), I have to keep knowing what video next and might think I forget and I keep checking on it and again :\
I feel for the maid, and the grandma could have been a bit more understanding, but if you have OCD being a maid/housekeeper might not be the job for you.
Yes so true I worked at different 5 star hotels on the Las Vegas strip. And never was able to finish all my assigned rooms cause I would take longer to clean. Cause I wanted everything to be very neat and clean and organized. And they want us to spend 30mins in these big rooms. That need way more then 30mins. But it's funny cause they always want the rooms to be perfect but u have to rush. I'm like not possible for Me!!!! It's hard dealing with OCD.. 😔
@@ash-pi9ee are you sped? A common stereo type of ocd is that they are all perfectionists which is not entirely true. Every person has a different type of ocd whether that is touching the elevater button five times or maybe Doing the same math equation on a calculator multiple times, just until you feel confert
You have made me feel better I have ocd it makes me have a long night routine and make noises at school people just look at me because of the noises I make. Have a great day HI DHAR AND JASMINE
I have OCD too. And over lockdown, I’ve suffered from anxiety and just can’t help doing these twitches, like jerking my head, or tensing my arms and neck. Some people have picked up on it and made fun of me. But I’ve gotten over it and feel so much better. The fact that Dhar Mann is bringing this into the light is awesome. Thanks Dhar Mann, I watch your vids all the time! ❤️
You're very much welcome. I appreciate you for sharing your experience with OCD. Keep your head up and don't let negativity affect you. I hope this video helps.
@God is a stupid idiot f*cking assh*ole bit*ch I am asian and wtf definitely not true. Also, I hate your name, that's very disrepectful to God and those who believe Him. If you don't believe Him then please just respect people's beliefs and don't say anything rude to Him and to His believers.
Guys I just wanted to say, ocd is not just about being obsessed. Ocd is when you have constant intrusive thoughts that can only be relieved if you do a certain action, phrase, etc. Imagine always having your worst thoughts on your mind that you can’t ignore, that’s the best way I can explain it. As a person who suffers with it, I can say it’s torture.
Yeah and I don’t want to self diagnosed but I seem to have similar symptoms because I’ve kind a developed these ticks just to make those thoughts go away and it’s so hard because it got to the point that I was hurting myself.
I agree, people stereotype OCD way too often. I suffer from extreme OCD, and when I initially tell people that, they (not jokingly) are like “Oh so would you be pissed if I opened this chip bag from the bottom?” 🙄
I love that you made this because I have OCD and it really hits close to home, and not a lot of people know what it's like having OCD. You should make a video about pediatric autoimmune Neuro psychiatric disorder associated with streptological infections/ PANDAS. It's something a lot of people deal with and it is really hard on people.
@@lili.-.9243 That is not all it is.. it can also be when your brain tells you to do all these thing and you feel pressured to do it or something terrible will happen Example: it could be if you don't turn the light switch on and off 5 times but it has to be an even number so 6 times then your family will die, you will get sick you will die etc. As you feel so pressured to do all this you can also get anxiety. (It's probably different for everyone but this was mine)
I must appreciate you this time for actually bringing a notice to something like this. As a person who has been suffering from mild OCD to a level where education is getting hindered, I appreciate you actually bringing attention to this.
Tbh OCD is extremely difficult and doesn’t get enough recognition, but I feel like the grandma had the right to be mad. If she wanted a cleaner, the cleaner should be up to her expectations, and something difficult like a mental disorder could rlly get in the way of her work like that.
Honestly, as a kid with OCD, this is a lot like how a misunderstanding parent acts around their child with OCD through the child's eyes. Obviously not as extreme in some areas of the video, but very similar. They think they're doing the best for you, but they're really just beating down your self esteem. This video is well represented (still with some room for improvement), and good representation of OCD is not something you see often. You mostly see harmful, stigmatizing, terrible representation.
I hope more people will take mental disorders like depression, anxiety, OCD, bipolar disorder, and many more seriously. They're real and people who have them have a really hard time, so be patient and give them all your support.
My mom has OCD, so I hope and pray that this story helps everyone who have OCD or something similar and also help people who don't treat people equally based on their disorders, disabilities, ect.
I notice that actress is really good at playing a mean person. She is also good at playing a really sweet, kind hearted person. However, I would hate to be on her bad side.
Hey Dhar! I resonate with this! I've had OCD for the past 13 years or so, and have had everyone around me and my own family advice that OCD isn't any condition but just a bad habit I should get rid of. Thank you for voicing out on Mental health issues!
OCD is quite tough but I feel like the grandma did have the right to fire her because she is paying Ruby to clean the house but she can never really do it. And that is money coming from her pocket so I understand both point of views
OCD isn’t just cleaning there’s also the type where you feel like you have to do something or else someone dies, or you get bad luck, etc… so I know what it’s like to have it, a lot of people told me stuff like the grandmother is saying to the maid, and it’s stressful. The point is that “you shouldn’t be hard on people with a disorder.” I also have ADHD and a lot of people say “focus on your work” or “stay on task!” So I know what it’s like. Thank for this message Dhar!
I would like to simplify this to anyone reading . OCD is a mental disorder which causes people anxiety over multiple things . for example I have Memory hoarding OCD , I just cannot let go of any memories , I have to jog everything down at all times, It’s very distressing . That also comes in with what OCD stands for , Obsessive Compulsive Disorder . Basically in simple you will feel distress over something and attend in rituals they will cause major distress.
I love this video because I’ve been suffering from OCD and anxiety for the past five years and after so long I’m finally coming out of it so thank you because OCD isn’t just pet peeves it an actual disorder
I totally agree I have the worst possible kind of OCD (PANS) where your entire brain is structured differently than a normal person so I am one to be able to relate.
I struggle with OCD too , I really appreciate that you did such a great story for those who think that ocd is not real, 🌷 only those who suffer from ocd will understand the pain that we are going through ☹️
Thank you for this video. I can totally relate. I never spoke about it to anyone because I thought that I would be considered mad. OCD is really the worst torture ever. It feels as if we are captivated in a self imposed invisible cage.
I appreciate That ❤️......For real 😀......There aren't much ppl appreciating Psychologist and Psychiatrists, I'm not any of them but ppl really don't think it as an important jon 🥰
I’m glad they portrayed OCD accurately because I also have OCD. I appreciate how they did that 😊 I was first diagnosed when I was in high school and I got help for it. I’m now 28 years old and I still deal with it at times but it’s not as bad as it was when I was first diagnosed.
@God is a stupid idiot f*cking assh*ole bit*ch it’s sad that God still loves you, even though you are so filled with hate. Looks like someone wants a ticket straight to hell
I have OCD and I HAVE to get everything perfect. If something on my dresser, isn't perfect I get upset or take forever to get it right, so for the people who have OCD, I know how it is, and sometimes it gets really annoying for yourself and others. Also TY Dhar Mann for making this video, I really needed it
the abuela: "you don’t understand, this is what i had to deal with all day!" me: no, you don’t understand, that's what people irl have to deal with their whole lives.
@@colleengylphe4750 I had bad OCD last year, thankfully I found a way to stop it. Basically I felt like I had to do certain things otherwise something bad will happen. It wasn't everything being clean or tidy for me. I think you should watch some videos on it or talk to some one! I can try help!
I have lived my life with OCD, and I often don’t get assignments done because I worry too much about how clean my paper is, how smooth it is, and how clean the table is. It really sucks having it, and O even get made fun of for having it. But there is nothing I can do. I have to physically work myself to get out of something that isn’t straight or isn’t clean.
@@bballfanatic1192 that is not it, it can be when your brain tells you to do all these thing and you feel pressured to do it or something terrible will happen Example: it could be if you don't turn the light switch on and off 5 times but it has to be an even number so 6 times then your family will die, you will get sick you will die etc. As you feel so pressured to do all this you can also get anxiety. (It's probably different for everyone but this was mine)
@@liv5661 Yeaa when im laying bed y ocd always wake me up to fix the pillow beside me People think its just a small thing but they didnt know its hard for us that has ocd people gonna say"Its just small things its weird" But they didnt know its hard for us and We dont want that but our brain pressure us and if you dont do it its like uncomfortable
My older sister has OCD and she has a constant habit to rearranging her room around so much. I would say she changes her room around about almost three times a week. But by now I've gotten use to it.
I had depression and OCD when i was in 3rd grade, i don't know what caused it but it was extremely tideous and my friends thought i was ridiculous. Thankfully i'm a lot better now, and i hope this video can raise awareness
I actually have autism and OCD and other problems as well, and I'm glad that Dhar Mann is understanding what people are going through, he really is changing lives.
I understand how the lady feels, I was raised OCD, trust me this really is a disorder, I get very bothered when things are not in order or when things aren’t very clean, but it’s the only way I know how to live, but as long as it works for me then I’m good, so if anyone has this disorder don’t worry there’s nothing wrong with you, God made us all special and unique, much love and respect to everyone.🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️
OCD is not about keeping things neat, for example OCD is like if you locked your doors but you HAVE to go check AGAIN so something bad doesn’t happen. Also you learn what OCD is in health I obviously don’t know what grade your in but if your not in 6th grade or above for health you are going to learn more about OCD.
OCD is a debilitating anxiety based disorder characterized by unreasonable thoughts and fears that lead to compulsive behaviors. I have it myself, it's horrible, and it doesn't just make me bothered, it's incredibly stressful. I feel like if I don't do something a certain way...something awful will happen.
@@pink9113 so is pseudodementia is the same but not fully same Also if you ask what is pseudodementia? İts a mental disorder caused by severe depression the symptoms are delayed motor response anxiety severe deppresion memory problems wich gives alzheimers later on life
@@pink9113 I understand what you're saying I never meant to mention it for clout Usually a few of my friends are down on themselves because of this disorder They've mention the symptoms to me and the way I see it for them to overcome it and own it, I consider it a benefit of the doubt. Plus back in 5th grade I've condoned a speech about Howie Mandel how he slowly reassures himself and the world on how to handle life with OCD, ADHD, and germaphobe He's an inspiration to the world❤ But once again, I apologize to you and many others that took it the wrong way Just trying to advocate your best self🤜🤛💪💪
@UCi_GW6bpkPs8NaVc2534ksQ fr with ocd you always feel like if you don’t do this one thing your family is gonna die or something bad is gonna happen if you don’t do something in the right order
From a person who has OCD this really hit home for me because your own parents and family will judge you for being different even if you can’t control it. They would say that ocd isn’t real but it is and for those who have it as well I hope you’re ok.
I actually really love cleaning and everything has to be straight as HECK so if the house is SOOOOO messy I end up crying cause of my OCD this video means a lot 🙏
@Charlotte Alexander uhhh yeah DUH... that’s obvious 😂 Dhar man purposefully used that film technique so you can predict what happens next... it’s called foreshadowing
As a person who has OCD before I know how she felt. OCD ain't that easy to live with.It's like torture everyday and it's also being a slave to your mind.I dealt with it for 3 whole years.I managed to beat it. I saw my therapist and she really help and so as my parents.
Being honest, the grandma had the right to fire her. She was paying her by the hour and if she took a whole hour after one spot then the granny loses her money.
I also have OCD, but I learned to control it for over half my life. Now I don’t need to worry about the tiny speck of dirt, scratches, or that tiny spot on the whiteboard where the teachers don’t erase
On one side, I feel bad for her because of her OCD. On the other side, I feel bad for the Grandma(I'm not saying that the Maid's Mental Health is ridiculous or anything like that). Imagine being too old to work, and one day your Grandson has come home after years. You want this day to be perfect, until... the household isn't done, and the room isn't clean. Then comes the laundry which has taken double the time. Fast-forwarding to the dinner, it has become cold, and the food has spilt. Now you can't eat your food on time. Whenever I go to my Grandmother's home(I live a few hundred kilometres away from her), she's delighted to see me. It's like her best day ever. She always wants the day to be of great importance, she wants the day to be 'perfect'. She cooks my favourite food, and everything's just great! Coming back to the video, now imagine all of that hard work getting spoilt. I don't exactly blame the Maid for that, but it is a Mental Injury to the Grandma as well.
@Sharan Shibu No he doesn’t! He can’t just put everything together by himself! Of course he needs help but even so he’s still the one behind the video he’s made a big contribution to his videos
My OCD is obsessive thoughts: just really annoying and unwanted thoughts. The type mentioned in this video is probably the worst one and I’m so thankful I don’t have it and I pray for those that do. Trust me, those that do, it’ll get better.
OCD comes in many different variants other than perfectionism. It comes in intrusive thoughts, contamination, just right (comes with bad thoughts as well), checking, doubt, religion, self control, etc. this isn’t the only type of OCD. In fact, contamination might be the most common. Just putting that out there so some people can know and understand and not misjudge ☺️
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sometimes ocd isnt just cleaning and making sure stuff is aligned and clean sometimes it can be closing a drawer 50 times until it felt right or locking a door 100 times until it felt right
Exactly it can also be when your brain tells you to do all these thing and you feel pressured to do it or something terrible will happen Example: it could be if you don't turn the light switch on and off 5 times but it has to be an even number so 6 times then your family will die, you will get sick you will die etc. As you feel so pressured to do all this you can also get anxiety. (It's probably different for everyone but this was mine)
@@liv5661 my mom might have slight ocd, everything has to be perfect with her
it can be just cleaning also though because i only suffer with ocd with my hygiene and cleaning my room all the time (but i do feel the need to wash my hands at least 3 times every time they need washing so I end up washing them up to 100 times a day)
and sometimes when I get anxiety when my parents fight I walk around like im crazy in the same rooms over again, like a endless loop
Yes, I think their’s also a type where you have intrusive thoughts.
My dad has a mental illness of OCD and anxiety attacks, sometimes it gets irritating but it was never his choice to have that. Sometimes he has to count a several times just too make sure, caring about the smallest details. But at the same time that's why he was successful. So I just accepted the way he was and try to think of the positive stuff
Im so sorry for ur dad
Aww I’m soo sorry my grandma is actully dying cuz she has a little hole in her heart and my kitten died he got hit by a car and he was only a baby I’m only 10 yes okd😭😭
My dad has a ocd were he cant wear worn clothes for the 2nd time so he would buy clothes then throw them away and repeat and he wastes alot of money so its rlly bad. sadly idk were he is right now but im hoping he doesnt have it anymore.
Same my brother had OCD but now he's cured
@@Yellowify63 That’s really good, it must be hard having OCD.
OCD is a problem and people don’t take it serious enough, everyone cares about everything else except OCD. It needs to get the awareness it deserves !
Yes that is true
I have OCD for the past 2 years
Just like my mom
But not me
Yes :(
@@isaac1shot348 :(
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“I probably wash my hands fifty times a day, that’s how I deal with my anxiety”
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@@TheTigerKingShow I doubt your getting one.
I feel like you are trying to get subscribers, and then after you get that amount, you’ll ask for more.
So no.
Me too
@@crawlermutantnvzr2076 It is the same comment I saw on a other video
Lol
ruby: ur my husband
Thank you for another incredibly inspirational video. Raising the awareness for this kind of unseen disabilities has never been so important. Thank you!
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As someone who has been diagnosed with OCD my entire life, this is one of the best representation of this disorder I've seen. I can't stand people who don't think it's real or think people are faking it to get attention. I've dealt with these types of people my whole life and I'm glad to finally see some recognition to what it's actually like and not as some quirky personality trait.
Yes bro I have debilitating OCD and it is the worst possible type. I agree
Me too, I had ocd ever since I was 8.
Okay first of all OCD is not just perfection and obsession
OCD comes with lots of stress depression and worries Not just I need to clean this and clean that
Its more like my friend said Hi today but in a different tone what if she is really sad or there parents are divorcing and things like that
That is more like kinda perfectionism or mild OCD
I have a OCD and a ADD that only 20% of people have it is extremely hard to keep calm sometimes and you freak out whenever you see somebody hurt
I like that you added OCD into this and try but its kinda not fair if you know what I mean I love this channel but somtimes it is kinda eh
You also need to touch things very closely some have ticks and get bullied alot
For me I nod my head and raise my eyebrows alot and I take short breathe because I'm worried that I am annoying people but really they just annoy people
9:25
"😊 The person you need to apologize to is... 😑 ruby"
Why'd he switch so fast?? 😅😂
Omg fr that was so weird
Oh that’s weird I just realize that
I have OCD (along with Autism) and it can be extremely difficult to live with... I'm hoping and praying that your story here will help many, many more people to see that this is proper medical condition, and that people's patience and understanding are more than a saving grace: these are the things that help reduce anxiety for the person with OCD 🙏
This helped my friends understand me
I have ocd and autism 2 and I wish I was better at orders and cleaning gen because all I do is perfectly remake the hit I did on my right leg 2 the left and cause shot circuits turning the light on and off 😂 at least I am in grade 7 and have a 24 aged score on my cognitive test in math
Of course you do
Sorry
I have ocd
Grandma: OCD isn't even real!
Son: *breaths*
Grandma: ah yes OCD actually is real hehe my bad
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As a person struggling with more severe OCD and a child, thank you. I love this but maybe you should try representing that people with OCD aren’t (mainly) just cleaning-obsessed people… Although it is for some, and can be a struggle.
@Bonkers Yea, I missworded text by accident… fixed it now-
I don't have big old but little spots on whiteboards or stuff make me DHRIDKOWLRIDWUDDH if you get it
OCD is a matter of how your brain functions rather than making stuff clean, it makes you have stuff in order or you get anxious.
WAIT WHAT
Yeah mine isn't cleaning mine is like checking, rituals and hoarding. I get a lot of really bad sexual intrusive thoughts aswell
6:41 Abuela looked like she was about to start crying from frustration lmao. "She took 20 minutes scrubbing the counter!!" I felt so bad for Ruby, especially with Abuela dismissing her OCD, but that moment made me laugh harder than it should.
No she didn’t look like she was going to cry?!
She did
The actress playing the ocd pateint is really beautiful. I love her looks.
Ikr😻
@@skitz5126 ok creep
reminds me of corona (the singer)
Me too I think she is so so beautiful
@@ASTR0TALKSPHILOSOPHY wtf
OCD is not about keeping things organized - this is a common misconception among society. OCD stands for obsessive compulsive disorder. People who have PTSD, depression, anxiety, or stress related mental conditions try to get rid of their thoughts by indulging in repetitive, almost ritualistic activities to keep them calm, and they show signs of tension when they are unable to follow that repetition, because it alters their state of mind. So next time someone says they have OCD, please understand that person's real problem, and not the stereotype that they only like keeping things organized.
Thanks for explaining it . I always thought it was just people who were very organized ,etc.
Organization is still a behavior in OCD, if something is not perfect that can lead to repetitive behavior (like the girl scrubbing the counter) or thoughts of something will happen if something isn’t perfect, you’re correct on everything you said, but this video is also correct still!
@@adelynnward1874 yeah - I forgot to make that clearer, thanks for clarifying.
Thank you, honestly I’ve seen a lot of Dhar mann videos feeding into stereotypes especially with the one about anxiety that one was just terrible
@@alexanderhamilton4631 A lot of it is kind of stereotypical but I wouldn't say this video feeds into those stereotypes. Like @Adelynn Ward said, organization is still a part of OCD, but it isn't the main driving factor at all. That was what I was trying to shed light on :) But I must say, I have a friend who has acute OCD, and he has no organization problems whatsoever. It varies from person to person, but there is a bigger picture to it.
She’s the perfect Employee,
She needs to make everything the best
Yeah
Ok
Exactly!
She takes too long tho
@@marshy6523 So?
As a person with ocd, this is offensive to me. It is so much more than just being a clean freak. It affects my mental health. I have intrusive thoughts, have really bad anxiety. Everything could be going fine until I think of a bad possible situation and then it takes over me.
Are [@Annaweeee] And [Annawee 🎀 roadto1k] Actually same Person etc?
Helo I found Ur nams Randomly so I am Curious if I can ask You Questions about Frustrating Vague Events etc?
This video just serves to be aware of the disorder OCD, it is not intended for offensive reasons. They were just trying to state one of the MANY reactions going along with having OCD.
I have ocd to.
Believe me when I said *Dhar Mann is changing lifes with this inspirational upload👌 I love watching him💖
MY FRIEND TOLD ME TODAY AT 10 AM THAT IF I REACHED 200 SUBSCRIBERS BY NEXT MONTH HE WOULD BUY ME A MIC FOR UA-cam VIDEOS!
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hi
Well i hate watching him
Girl- ur everywhere
I'm glad that this video focused on the anxiety side of OCD. Most people think it's just doing little rituals or wanting things to be organized. It's actually intense anxiety and the feeling that you absolutely HAVE to do a certain thing, sometimes over and over. It's exactly what it sounds like: obsessive and compulsive.
Yes, it’s very hard, I have very serious OCD
I agree! As someone with many different symptoms of OCD, it was refreshing to see a little more accurate representation other than just perfectionism (not saying that isn't an aspect as well, but it's all you ever see in media.)
True
@@silliestbilly39 hi
What is OCD stands for and the meaning? Sorry for asking
“I said I can do it”
Come on Jeffry, you can do it
pave the way put your back into it 💃
Tell us why show us now
Look at where you came from
Look at you now
Zuckerberg, you can do it
I love cleaning and things being clean.I don’t have OCD but I do know how it is to like stuff being clean….We’re not just telling stories we’re changing lives…I love it!!!
Helo I am Curious if I can ask You Questions about Frustrating Vague Events etc?
Abuela: "Look what you did now"
Me: You literally snatched it from her hand-
@@powgg2895r you telling the truth
@@abrahamlincoln8037 it’s a bot
@@abrahamlincoln8037 no it’s not
@@abrahamlincoln8037 omg ur alive
@@swedishem5336 wth
"ok lemme just wash my hands first"
"NO I DONT WANT YOU TO LIFT A FINGER RUBY GET TO IT"
🖐️ 🗡
@@shdhhrhrhdj2690 they suck
222 likes
What. I'm so confused LMAOO
@God is a stupid idiot f*cking assh*ole bit*ch no
@YoZxro hey. I did:) also you get money from yt right. Like at the point your in now? Just asking cuz ima start soon
Pros: ✨Everything is clean✨
Cons: After a hundred years.
@@shdhhrhrhdj2690 bruh
@God is a stupid idiot f*cking assh*ole bit*ch bruh please change your username
I was the 100 like 💖😵💫🤣
@@shdhhrhrhdj2690 bruh who tf cares about ur friend and his ps5?
Gramma: Ruby! The soup is getting cold!!
Me: so is your heart
if you ever get frustrated at someone with OCD because they take too long to do something or whatever, just know that we areas lo frustrated ourselves. The Grandma only had to deal with Ruby’s compulsions “all day” but ruby deals with them her whole life.
Is dat grandmas prblm?
“The Maid with OCD.”
Everyone: *The door of our house is always open for you.*
LOL
I have ocd when I try to watch gametoons (fnf logic), I have to keep knowing what video next and might think I forget and I keep checking on it and again
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🤣
@@kidthatisnotaweeb5725 i know those
Why do you keep spamming
I feel for the maid, and the grandma could have been a bit more understanding, but if you have OCD being a maid/housekeeper might not be the job for you.
Yes, it is an important message, but it also is important to realize that some jobs aren’t for some people.
Yeah
Sometimes u dont have a choice for a job, you take whatever you can get and being a maid is a fairly easy job to get.
@@tyssamacias5559 yeah
Yes so true I worked at different 5 star hotels on the Las Vegas strip. And never was able to finish all my assigned rooms cause I would take longer to clean. Cause I wanted everything to be very neat and clean and organized. And they want us to spend 30mins in these big rooms. That need way more then 30mins. But it's funny cause they always want the rooms to be perfect but u have to rush. I'm like not possible for Me!!!! It's hard dealing with OCD.. 😔
Grandson: I dropped out of school because of my anxiety
Grandma: I'm so sorry
😂
We’re not just telling stories, we’re supporting stereotypes about OCD
Facts
Lol
Heheh...
that’s not a stereotype, that’s one of the versions of ocd tf
@@ash-pi9ee are you sped? A common stereo type of ocd is that they are all perfectionists which is not entirely true. Every person has a different type of ocd whether that is touching the elevater button five times or maybe Doing the same math equation on a calculator multiple times, just until you feel confert
LMAAOO FRR
I love the awareness this spreads to a very overlooked issue.
Thanks, Jasmine. I appreciate you watching.
@@DharMann hi
You have made me feel better
I have ocd
it makes me have a long night routine and make noises at school people just look at me because of the noises I make.
Have a great day HI DHAR AND JASMINE
Lol
L
I have OCD too. And over lockdown, I’ve suffered from anxiety and just can’t help doing these twitches, like jerking my head, or tensing my arms and neck. Some people have picked up on it and made fun of me. But I’ve gotten over it and feel so much better. The fact that Dhar Mann is bringing this into the light is awesome. Thanks Dhar Mann, I watch your vids all the time! ❤️
I like the roller coaster head movement with twitching 💅 on a. Calm summer day inside a hammock it is the most comfortable thing thing
How did You Get Over It? :(
@Jsjs Shsjs Ok?
You're very much welcome. I appreciate you for sharing your experience with OCD. Keep your head up and don't let negativity affect you. I hope this video helps.
I think that's called Tourette Syndrome
“Are you purposely trying to ruin our dinner”
The sun shining in the background: am I a joke to you?
Some people call lunch dinner.
I’m dead
I have OCD like I pre schedule what I will do everyday and if something is not in my order my whole day is ruined 😭
@God is a stupid idiot f*cking assh*ole bit*ch I am asian and wtf definitely not true. Also, I hate your name, that's very disrepectful to God and those who believe Him. If you don't believe Him then please just respect people's beliefs and don't say anything rude to Him and to His believers.
@God is a stupid idiot f*cking assh*ole bit*ch that's like saying "being straight is homophoic " Or saying "breathing is offensive to dead people"
I have OCD and it’s more than just cleaning, but thank you for being supportive for us❤
Are [@w1lli4ms19] And [ᴀᴄᴇ] Actually same Person etc?
Helo I found Ur nams Randomly so I am Curious if I can ask You Questions about Frustrating Vague Events etc?
@@arnoldkumar8497 yeass
@@arnoldkumar8497 Sure you can ask
Guys I just wanted to say, ocd is not just about being obsessed. Ocd is when you have constant intrusive thoughts that can only be relieved if you do a certain action, phrase, etc. Imagine always having your worst thoughts on your mind that you can’t ignore, that’s the best way I can explain it. As a person who suffers with it, I can say it’s torture.
Dhar Mann inspirational vids are cringe, mines are better and Dhar Mann should switch to Fortnite
Exactly (I don't have it but I know abt it) people think it's just being obsessed with cleaning but if it was like you said it's bc of the thoughts
Yeah and I don’t want to self diagnosed but I seem to have similar symptoms because I’ve kind a developed these ticks just to make those thoughts go away and it’s so hard because it got to the point that I was hurting myself.
I agree, people stereotype OCD way too often. I suffer from extreme OCD, and when I initially tell people that, they (not jokingly) are like “Oh so would you be pissed if I opened this chip bag from the bottom?” 🙄
@Finn Skeen Wdym get ocd?
I love that you made this because I have OCD and it really hits close to home, and not a lot of people know what it's like having OCD. You should make a video about pediatric autoimmune Neuro psychiatric disorder associated with streptological infections/ PANDAS. It's something a lot of people deal with and it is really hard on people.
What does it do to you?
@@CliveMcEwen i think it makes you like really perfectionist and making you feel like something isnt right but it is. i dont have it though so
WAIT WHAT
@@dhowvcidnv well it was a good idea either way
@@lili.-.9243 That is not all it is.. it can also be when your brain tells you to do all these thing and you feel pressured to do it or something terrible will happen Example: it could be if you don't turn the light switch on and off 5 times but it has to be an even number so 6 times then your family will die, you will get sick you will die etc. As you feel so pressured to do all this you can also get anxiety. (It's probably different for everyone but this was mine)
I must appreciate you this time for actually bringing a notice to something like this. As a person who has been suffering from mild OCD to a level where education is getting hindered, I appreciate you actually bringing attention to this.
Your appreciation means a lot, Sapnil. Thank you!
@@DharMann your so good at making videos
I can relate to ruby
I feel bad
@@DharMann well actually her name is swapnil 😅
The soup can be heated up, unless its Gazpacho. If its Gazpacho, leave it cold 🥶.
The colder the better!
Helo I am Curious if I can ask You Questions about Frustrating Vague Events etc?
Ruby: I’m sorry
Grandson: OCD is real
Grandma: I’m wrong and you can eat and you’re not fired
*I LIKE CHEESE*
@@idea-_-6902 what?😶
@@idea-_-6902 what?😶
@@idea-_-6902 what? 😶
It was her grandson btw, not son. :)
Tbh OCD is extremely difficult and doesn’t get enough recognition, but I feel like the grandma had the right to be mad. If she wanted a cleaner, the cleaner should be up to her expectations, and something difficult like a mental disorder could rlly get in the way of her work like that.
Agree
Facts👏
True. I feel like she should have told the grandma about her OCD if it was that bad and could get in the way of the job.
I agree...its her job to get things done on time since she's getting paid
I think that the grandma had the right to be mad,but she was rude to Ruby
Honestly, as a kid with OCD, this is a lot like how a misunderstanding parent acts around their child with OCD through the child's eyes. Obviously not as extreme in some areas of the video, but very similar. They think they're doing the best for you, but they're really just beating down your self esteem. This video is well represented (still with some room for improvement), and good representation of OCD is not something you see often. You mostly see harmful, stigmatizing, terrible representation.
Very true Issy
Candy candy candy
I have OCD and I hate having it gets hard having it.
I also have ocd and my mom thinks I can just fix it.
@@victoriatzyu_shinobu is it like hard to control or something?
I hope more people will take mental disorders like depression, anxiety, OCD, bipolar disorder, and many more seriously. They're real and people who have them have a really hard time, so be patient and give them all your support.
same
I have anxiety and I get the " you dont have anything to be anxious about" I mean I am not in your mind you are not in mine
*Down Syndrome Autism
Thank you so much, I have ocd and seeing this makes me rlly happy :)
@@ruanyoujun I'm glad this makes you really happy :)
Remember Fan Mann Dhar Not We're Telling Stories We're Lives Changing 😁
bro u everywhere😂😂
ye
You be everywhere
DHARMANN IS MY INSPIRATION!!! My mom said that if I get 1K subscribers!! She definitely buy me professional mic!! Begging you guys please
I love it when the notification show up, "someone liked your comment" and "you have a new subscriber"
My mom has OCD, so I hope and pray that this story helps everyone who have OCD or something similar and also help people who don't treat people equally based on their disorders, disabilities, ect.
I have OCD too like your mom.
I can’t believe that your mom has ocd
Disability and disorders are nothing it’s just specially abled
Me too
I hate having ocd
This is the first and probably the only time I will see ocd ever mentioned, thank you so much. I have never felt more included
The grandma would make a perfect villain in a Disney movie.
I notice that actress is really good at playing a mean person. She is also good at playing a really sweet, kind hearted person.
However, I would hate to be on her bad side.
The grandmother isn’t even wrong in this scenario
Dhar Mann's content is cringe and Fortnite isn't cringe so therefore Dhar Mann should switch to Fortnite.
@@MakingAUsername umm says the kid with 60 subs
LOL
Hey Dhar!
I resonate with this!
I've had OCD for the past 13 years or so, and have had everyone around me and my own family advice that OCD isn't any condition but just a bad habit I should get rid of.
Thank you for voicing out on Mental health issues!
It’s a bit like when you have clinical depression and people tell you to “just cheer up!”
They just don’t get it.
L
Sorry about that, maybe tell them to look up ocd if u haven’t already so they can try understand you more! Have a good day!
@@TheSnowdogsShorts I'm dying!
Well, just live
But it is habit that needs to be controlled instead of get rid of..i know.
OCD is quite tough but I feel like the grandma did have the right to fire her because she is paying Ruby to clean the house but she can never really do it. And that is money coming from her pocket so I understand both point of views
fr.
Fr fr!
I agree
Exactly they should live up to the expectations of the employer not over or under I’m disappointed in this video
Ye
OCD isn’t just cleaning there’s also the type where you feel like you have to do something or else someone dies, or you get bad luck, etc… so I know what it’s like to have it, a lot of people told me stuff like the grandmother is saying to the maid, and it’s stressful. The point is that “you shouldn’t be hard on people with a disorder.” I also have ADHD and a lot of people say “focus on your work” or “stay on task!” So I know what it’s like.
Thank for this message Dhar!
I would like to simplify this to anyone reading . OCD is a mental disorder which causes people anxiety over multiple things . for example I have Memory hoarding OCD , I just cannot let go of any memories , I have to jog everything down at all times, It’s very distressing . That also comes in with what OCD stands for , Obsessive Compulsive Disorder . Basically in simple you will feel distress over something and attend in rituals they will cause major distress.
I have OCD and I love that he is talking about it instead of just the anxiety and depression he's talking about all mental health
Yeah I have ocd too
@@springgg7. yo I just reacted to this video!
@@gamireacts6361 u did so quick?
same i have ocd
hope u all with ocd get better 🙏
I love this video because I’ve been suffering from OCD and anxiety for the past five years and after so long I’m finally coming out of it so thank you because OCD isn’t just pet peeves it an actual disorder
I'm glad you love this video, Madeline. Thank you for watching. I hope this video helps.
Same but I'm not planning on coming out soon lol
i feel the same way
I totally agree I have the worst possible kind of OCD (PANS) where your entire brain is structured differently than a normal person so I am one to be able to relate.
@@ninaadbhat Good luck, it’s not easy :(
I struggle with OCD too , I really appreciate that you did such a great story for those who think that ocd is not real, 🌷 only those who suffer from ocd will understand the pain that we are going through ☹️
me too
Same 😞 I feel you and people make fun of it especially when your a young age❤️
The job has to be done tho.
What happens when things don't go in order? Btw stay strong and safe 😍😍🥰🥰
ikr I’m going through it too . Stay strong ❤️
Thank you for this video. I can totally relate. I never spoke about it to anyone because I thought that I would be considered mad. OCD is really the worst torture ever. It feels as if we are captivated in a self imposed invisible cage.
That's why Psychology and Psychologists are much needed part of the society
Hi
Yeah, It could make it even worse
I appreciate That ❤️......For real 😀......There aren't much ppl appreciating Psychologist and Psychiatrists, I'm not any of them but ppl really don't think it as an important jon 🥰
But rather hard to find a good one, some can simply use what you say against you.
I’m glad they portrayed OCD accurately because I also have OCD. I appreciate how they did that 😊 I was first diagnosed when I was in high school and I got help for it. I’m now 28 years old and I still deal with it at times but it’s not as bad as it was when I was first diagnosed.
Thanks for saying that this is an accurate portrayal, Gwen. I hope this video was able to uplift you. I wish you all the best.
Gosh, two bots in a row!
@God is a stupid idiot f*cking assh*ole bit*ch it’s sad that God still loves you, even though you are so filled with hate. Looks like someone wants a ticket straight to hell
@@CT-5555-7 Thats true in every way..
@God is a stupid idiot f*cking assh*ole bit*ch Im Asian and i support BLM.
I have OCD and I HAVE to get everything perfect. If something on my dresser, isn't perfect I get upset or take forever to get it right, so for the people who have OCD, I know how it is, and sometimes it gets really annoying for yourself and others. Also TY Dhar Mann for making this video, I really needed it
Thanks for sharing that, Deepika. I hope this video helps.
I wonder can you try to control it or you can't if not then I'm sorry how you feel and you have to go through
I have OCD aswell ☹️
0:46 is the N Word.
@@DeadeyeDarcy ......just why? I can hear it now
I love how stereotypical this video is 😊
Exactly. As someone with actual ocd this kills me
This lady was so crazy who else aggres with us??
@@powgg2895 shut up
@@shdhhrhrhdj2690 shut up you
She was actually the most sensible and realistic person
That's not how you spell agrees ...
Yes
HAVING O.C.D is no joke it can really ruin things for you, It's a tough disorder to deal with.🤦🏾♀️🙄
the abuela: "you don’t understand, this is what i had to deal with all day!"
me: no, you don’t understand, that's what people irl have to deal with their whole lives.
I might have OCD too and it is frustrating.Everything has to be an even number for me.I am very frustrade about it.
I do too. I also struggle with OCD alot
@@colleengylphe4750 i have that ocd aswell
@@colleengylphe4750 I had bad OCD last year, thankfully I found a way to stop it. Basically I felt like I had to do certain things otherwise something bad will happen. It wasn't everything being clean or tidy for me. I think you should watch some videos on it or talk to some one! I can try help!
Dhar Mann vids are cringe, mines are better and Dhar Mann should switch to Fortnite
I have lived my life with OCD, and I often don’t get assignments done because I worry too much about how clean my paper is, how smooth it is, and how clean the table is. It really sucks having it, and O even get made fun of for having it. But there is nothing I can do. I have to physically work myself to get out of something that isn’t straight or isn’t clean.
Are [@AviatorsTandR] And [AviatorsTandR] Actually same Person etc?
Helo I found Ur nams Randomly so I am Curious if I can ask You Questions about Frustrating Vague Events etc?
I have OCD myself, I appreciate you spreading awareness about this.
@@bballfanatic1192 😐
@@bballfanatic1192 that is not it, it can be when your brain tells you to do all these thing and you feel pressured to do it or something terrible will happen Example: it could be if you don't turn the light switch on and off 5 times but it has to be an even number so 6 times then your family will die, you will get sick you will die etc. As you feel so pressured to do all this you can also get anxiety. (It's probably different for everyone but this was mine)
I might have OCD but I didn't even know it existed until I watched this video.
@@liv5661 Yeaa when im laying bed y ocd always wake me up to fix the pillow beside me People think its just a small thing but they didnt know its hard for us that has ocd people gonna say"Its just small things its weird" But they didnt know its hard for us and We dont want that but our brain pressure us and if you dont do it its like uncomfortable
I hope this video helps, Neon. I wish you all the best.
My older sister has OCD and she has a constant habit to rearranging her room around so much.
I would say she changes her room around about almost three times a week.
But by now I've gotten use to it.
@Dhar Mann stop
@Dhar Mann hi
@God is a stupid idiot f*cking assh*ole bit*ch everyone that sees this comment don't reply he's just trying to make people mad.
@God is a stupid idiot f*cking assh*ole bit*ch bro judging by your user and about page, I wish the best for you. Stay safe my guy.
@Dharr man
Finally Frankie is back for a great video!!!😄 Love you Dhar!❤️
Thank you Dhar so much for liking my comment!!!!!!!! I am so happy! I’m a big fan btw
@RLM [Good Videos out my Channel] shut up
I had depression and OCD when i was in 3rd grade, i don't know what caused it but it was extremely tideous and my friends thought i was ridiculous. Thankfully i'm a lot better now, and i hope this video can raise awareness
Maid: *Has OCD*
Grandma: *IT’S NOT A REAL THING.*
When her grandson has it: *It’s a real thing alright.*
I actually have autism and OCD and other problems as well, and I'm glad that Dhar Mann is understanding what people are going through, he really is changing lives.
I have autism myself
My sister has autism
@Don't hate on Sword Master or Lobster Reviews ok we don’t really care
Same I’m happy ppl like Dhar Mann make me feel normal about it’s good for ppl to talk about these things
@@xxmarmxrswcrldxxx thank you
He's not just telling stories, he's uploading almost everyday.
Ikr its crazy i could never
Every Monday through Thursday
4 days per week
@@yunjins_fearnot ikr bro I would of token a long break my mans has unlimited energy
I saw your orher comment ruffie
OCD is nothing made up!!❤❤😩😩
5:55 dinner? It's broad daylight outside mam😅
People can have dinner Early
@Linnea only because it’s summer, in the winter it’ll be mad dark by then
@@ItzSonic69 not really. when they commented it might’ve been winter for them
I like how the boy is being respectful it’s amazing 🥰!
I got OCD with the number 4, I like everything in 4s . Just a part of my life, but not a bad one.
same, everything i have to do has to do with 4s
I love it when the notification show up, "someone liked your comment" and "you have a new subscriber"
Hi verified
1,2,3,…
🙂🙂🙂…
I understand how the lady feels, I was raised OCD, trust me this really is a disorder, I get very bothered when things are not in order or when things aren’t very clean, but it’s the only way I know how to live, but as long as it works for me then I’m good, so if anyone has this disorder don’t worry there’s nothing wrong with you, God made us all special and unique, much love and respect to everyone.🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️
OCD is not about keeping things neat, for example OCD is like if you locked your doors but you HAVE to go check AGAIN so something bad doesn’t happen. Also you learn what OCD is in health I obviously don’t know what grade your in but if your not in 6th grade or above for health you are going to learn more about OCD.
OCD is a debilitating anxiety based disorder characterized by unreasonable thoughts and fears that lead to compulsive behaviors. I have it myself, it's horrible, and it doesn't just make me bothered, it's incredibly stressful. I feel like if I don't do something a certain way...something awful will happen.
I consider OCD a superpower
Even though perfection doesn't exist there's always stability 👊👊
PLEASE do not call it a superpower. I know your intentions are good but OCD is a serious mental disorder.
@@pink9113 so is pseudodementia is the same but not fully same
Also if you ask what is pseudodementia? İts a mental disorder caused by severe depression the symptoms are delayed motor response anxiety severe deppresion memory problems wich gives alzheimers later on life
@@pink9113 I understand what you're saying
I never meant to mention it for clout
Usually a few of my friends are down on themselves because of this disorder
They've mention the symptoms to me and the way I see it for them to overcome it and own it, I consider it a benefit of the doubt.
Plus back in 5th grade I've condoned a speech about Howie Mandel how he slowly reassures himself and the world on how to handle life with OCD, ADHD, and germaphobe
He's an inspiration to the world❤
But once again, I apologize to you and many others that took it the wrong way
Just trying to advocate your best self🤜🤛💪💪
@UCi_GW6bpkPs8NaVc2534ksQ fr with ocd you always feel like if you don’t do this one thing your family is gonna die or something bad is gonna happen if you don’t do something in the right order
Lol, A superpower? Biggest joke ever 凸(-_-)凸
I literally love dhar Mann he deserves to be on Netflix 😃
He deserves to be on cable tv
That would be cool if he were on Netflix
I know right
You dont know how much this video means to me, I have OCD and this video just made me feel so much better
Omg I feel so sorry for you
The video makes the OCD people look dumb
Thank you for watching this video, Charli. I hope it helps. Stay tuned for more.
Lol
@@DharMann Hello dhar mann
Washing hands too much is relatable for me😢
I love how Dhar man posts every weekend or day with his wonderful actors
Your right!
Here before this comment blows up 😎
here b4 comment blows up
@@Stephfan- 😎
He posts mondays to thursdays, but maybe Tuesdays to fridays depending on the timezone.
From a person who has OCD this really hit home for me because your own parents and family will judge you for being different even if you can’t control it. They would say that ocd isn’t real but it is and for those who have it as well I hope you’re ok.
That’s not ocd. If you’re like she is, you don’t have it.
my mom told me oklahoma isnt a real place
You don’t have ocd, so stop for attention
@@coneburger9081 She isn’t t wrong
@@devoisnothere do you have ocd? I don’t, but these people are pretty annoying.
Shouldn’t be a maid if you got ocd🤣💀
Most OCD isn't like this
if it's the maid in the vid, yh I agree
not gonna lie, i will also get kinda mad if my maid start rubbing one spot
tru
tru
Or throwing my food back in the pot constantly
Yeah like she was hired to work for her she doesn’t get to choose the job the boss does
@@micahchote5934 but it's hard for her. She has a disorder.
This is amazing. I never really heard about OCD and this is an awareness for me. Thanks a lot, Dhar Mann🤗🤗🤗
CRINGE
@@GOD-vo2ns Auditor the road with a boy but pray that your day will be there with you have you have you tried the deal then don’t
Are you are you know but but but but but but but trade trade trade trade trade trade trade my bubble but he will want to do
Bruh 🐩
same i didnt know about it too-
He's not just telling stories he's helping generations
WAIT WHAT
I’m happy that Dhar is replying to some of these comments, it’s really thoughtful of him!
I actually really love cleaning and everything has to be straight as HECK so if the house is SOOOOO messy I end up crying cause of my OCD this video means a lot 🙏
Omg,me too if the house is messy or not in order,I cry or I tell at someone,I was diagnosed at middle School
Don’t cry, do it
@@notso_original7808 they were diagnosed i think they know what there are talking about
@@notso_original7808 ,..
I knew from the moment the grandma said ocd isn’t a real disorder that the son would have it
@Charlotte Alexander uhhh yeah DUH... that’s obvious 😂 Dhar man purposefully used that film technique so you can predict what happens next... it’s called foreshadowing
That’s how all these trash predictable videos are
Same
Same but its still entertaining
SAME-
As a person who has OCD before I know how she felt. OCD ain't that easy to live with.It's like torture everyday and it's also being a slave to your mind.I dealt with it for 3 whole years.I managed to beat it. I saw my therapist and she really help and so as my parents.
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I agree with you, it is like torture😔
Same here
@@waaaaaaa.0_0.7 it is indeed
Same over here
The grandma: aRe YOu TrYiNG TO RuIN OuR DinNEr
Me: but it’s light outside-
He's not just telling stories, he's making a full TV show.
See im here
Ok
Shown time
He is changing lives wanna know how on some videos you can setup donations and that is how he is changing lives
Being honest, the grandma had the right to fire her. She was paying her by the hour and if she took a whole hour after one spot then the granny loses her money.
She cant help it, thats the point of this video
But That's not something to waste money on
True
I also have OCD, but I learned to control it for over half my life. Now I don’t need to worry about the tiny speck of dirt, scratches, or that tiny spot on the whiteboard where the teachers don’t erase
Dhar Mann vids are cringe, mines are better and Dhar Mann should switch to Fortnite
@@frmlmhighqualityvideos4790 noone really cares
Same
If you criticise a maids work don't hire one in the first place ❤ so glad it is just a video
As a person who has ocd in happy to find a video that’s relatable 🎉
This isn’t even realistic OCD, and that’s coming from someone with OCD.
On one side, I feel bad for her because of her OCD.
On the other side, I feel bad for the Grandma(I'm not saying that the Maid's Mental Health is ridiculous or anything like that). Imagine being too old to work, and one day your Grandson has come home after years. You want this day to be perfect, until... the household isn't done, and the room isn't clean. Then comes the laundry which has taken double the time. Fast-forwarding to the dinner, it has become cold, and the food has spilt. Now you can't eat your food on time.
Whenever I go to my Grandmother's home(I live a few hundred kilometres away from her), she's delighted to see me. It's like her best day ever. She always wants the day to be of great importance, she wants the day to be 'perfect'. She cooks my favourite food, and everything's just great!
Coming back to the video, now imagine all of that hard work getting spoilt. I don't exactly blame the Maid for that, but it is a Mental Injury to the Grandma as well.
Thats what I thought about and u perfectly explained it so well😊
@@PeterVaipheiOfficial123
Glad to hear that!
Exactly. The Grandma's behaviour was very rude but I think she was right in firing the maid. What good is a maid if she can't even follow orders.
@@beamazed54 finally someone said it all these snowflakes never think in the grandmas perspective
Totally agree, she's not in the right job.
Let's just take a moment and think how busy dhar mann must be, because he uploads like almost every 2 days or 3, and the stories are awesome! 🤍
MY FRIEND TOLD ME TODAY AT 10 AM THAT IF I REACHED 200 SUBSCRIBERS BY NEXT MONTH HE WOULD BUY ME A MIC FOR UA-cam VIDEOS!
MY FRIEND TOLD ME TODAY AT 10 AM THAT IF I REACHED 200 SUBSCRIBERS BY NEXT MONTH HE WOULD BUY ME A MIC FOR UA-cam VIDEOS!
Everyone needs to stop thinking they are better iTs pEople LikE u (not everyone sorry) tHat SocIetY cAnt PrOgRESs
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@Sharan Shibu No he doesn’t! He can’t just put everything together by himself! Of course he needs help but even so he’s still the one behind the video he’s made a big contribution to his videos
As someone that has OCD, i can agree i would really like to get ride of it, i hope i do, Amen❤
2:28 grandma: the counter is fine but do u know what isn't?
Me: yea that annoying attitude of yours
Sometimes a bit of kindness and understanding goes a long way.
Ruby looks funny when she's trying to clean the spot
@love mc community Omy goodness STOP. we dont care whether or not ur "friend" gets 1k
Yeah
@@beckiemunson4928 Chill dude you don't have to be so mean i mean i get it can be annoying but don't be rude please
@@sourmilkky5556 no it’s annoying
@@mariagranados3900 yeah but you could just politely say that it's annoying y'all don't have to snap at them
My OCD is obsessive thoughts: just really annoying and unwanted thoughts. The type mentioned in this video is probably the worst one and I’m so thankful I don’t have it and I pray for those that do. Trust me, those that do, it’ll get better.
OCD comes in many different variants other than perfectionism. It comes in intrusive thoughts, contamination, just right (comes with bad thoughts as well), checking, doubt, religion, self control, etc. this isn’t the only type of OCD. In fact, contamination might be the most common. Just putting that out there so some people can know and understand and not misjudge ☺️
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@Don't hate on Sword Master or Lobster Reviews also shut up
@Don't hate on Sword Master or Lobster Reviews - Quit spamming this nonsense.
thank, you actually know what your talking about unlike dhar mann:/
Thank god someone understands