Im a girl, so I obviously don’t know what it feels like to not ever feel as if you’re able to cry as a male because it’s “weak” in a sense of masculinity, but the lines “if you wanna cry, make sure that they never see it, or even better yet block it out and never feel it.” Hits SO hard, crying is one of the most vulnerable states to be in and tbh I won’t ever let anyone see me in it.
This song is for my best friend. He doesn't listen to music, (literally just dnd songs lol) and one time in class I took it into my hands to find a song he'd like. I went through Arctic Monkeys, Taylor Swift, MCR, twenty one pilots, Metallica, Eminem, (I have very diverse music taste lol) but nothing he really felt like hit him right. Until I got to this song. He didn't act like he immediately loved it but I caught him listening to it later. We listened to it all the time. It's February as I'm writing this and he moved at the beginning of the school year about 5 states away. This song is still ours. I love you Ayden 💜 always will.
Wasps are nice though, they’re just pest control they keep nature in order by killing over populated bugs most wasps I’ve came across like me all you have to do is not threaten them :3
Sergey Pavlov me: EW A BUG KILL IT robbie: i’ll f*ck you up if you’re mean to bugs me: WHAT A CUTE BABY ID NEVER HURT IT then again if boys will be bugs idk if i can stick to that
i feel.. nostalgic? like, sad in a unique way? it's a fun song but at the same time it makes me wanna protect all the boys out there, man. they really need more love...
Please, just say hi. It really may look like we don’t want to talk, but if you say hi, (I at least) will open up to chat. Maybe not completely, but we still like friends
I'm not a boy, or 14, but honestly this is relatable as hell and also seems like it's acknowledging how boys are pressured to act s certain way, but maybe I'm wrong January 4, 2023 Edit: Ok turns out I'm just a trans dude. Which I figured out like a year after posting this lmao. Crazy 3 years since I made the og comment
Pussies when I came out the womb my mom fed me jet fuel also I use to whoop my own ass by the time I was three I was the ceo of a multibillion dollar company
Same. But it was when I was 14. I'm now 16 and still relate to the lyrics hehe. It's a very relatable song for most boys even though they'd probably not listen to this type of music.
Yeah I seriously don't like how some people just expect certain things from boys such as bad behaviour and like gangs and all those people just can't let them be who they are...
@@DontInterractWithMeBetween9-5. Well me & almost every other girl I know only fancy bad boys in fiction but would actually avoid them as much as possible out of fear irl coz we ain't about to be on the news for being killed by our ex after an argument or get taken hostage because our guy's owe thier drug dealer money or some other crazy shit.
@@DontInterractWithMeBetween9-5. Not gonna lie I have no idea what a piscopat is but I will admit I used the more extream cases as examples as to why girls might avoid so called bad boys but even if you met a bad boy who didn't do that I still think most girls (who weren't emontinally damadged) wouldn't find thier looks attractive enough to put up with thier typical behaviour of exsseive jealousy, aggression, possiveness, unfaithfulness, drinking, smoking, drug taking, constant partying, ditching class, lying, neglecting he's part in the realationship & being emontinally distant/unavoidable as even in fiction most girls I know only really fall for the guys who seem to only fit the bad boy image at first but are slowly shown to actually have a heart of gold. Unfortunately most guys irl seem to ignore the part about having a good heart but if you act like that without a good heart your not actually a misunderstood bad boy (especially because most fictinal bad boys at least have super tragic reasons for acting the way they do but most real guys don't) that just makes you (at best) an asshole or (at worst) abusive.
@@DontInterractWithMeBetween9-5. Oh I'm really sorry I wasn't trying to be disrespectful I didn't see that you'd edited it I honestly just thought it was some new slang term that I was just too uncool to know. Yeah I try to avoid them (well we're avoiding everyone now because of social distancing lol) but what I was trying to say is that bad boys are almost always more appealing in fiction because of the reasons I've stated above & it's safer to fantasies about being able to "fix" them with your love then it is to try to do that with a real bad boy & also as you get older you tend to realise that bad boys aren't usually the modles with great hair, big mussels in leather jackets like they're shown in Hollywood but are in fact usually the girl's "nice" guy friends who try to guilt trip girls into doing stuff with them & get mad or stop wanting to be thier friend if the girls don't let them.
Found this song when I was 15, turned 17 today. What I wanna say to all teenagers is, enjoy your early teenage days. U dont need to be an introvert and feel proud about it, just interact with everyone and have some fun. Though life is not as easy as it used to be but never let anything get between you and fun. Edit: I am 18 now.
What's wrong with being an introvert? You don't need to talk to everyone to be happy. Some us prefer keeping to ourselves and spending time with just a few people.
Me: *the kid who stepped on the ant* Also me: My self esteem is the size of an ant, so if you kill me, your technicaly killing an ant! NotOozy: oh... *cough
I love the silliness in this song, but there is some hidden sadness in the somewhere which is neat, I love the song either way! Edit: I also love the high pitch voice at the end of the song, it really is the cherry on top to this 14 year old character Cavetown created in this song!
Isaac Brewer i like the silliness because the point is that for a kid it’s not silly, it’s legitimate concerns and reasoning and it’s cute. tho 14 might be a bit... 14yo’s don’t go “i’m a big boy, i do karate” but still it’s close enough. it’s capturing the innocence in the song
@@coyote2733 Yea, Its like a kid who didn't want to show people his negative side, (until the song takes place) because every time he starts singing about touchy or negative subjects it is at the end of a verse, almost like he is trying to change the subject because he isn't quite ready to grow up and show the world his imperfections. Away, thats just my thoughts from my first few listens. Let me know of any other theories you've got, I'll love to hear and discuss them!
Turning 15 tomorrow. I enjoyed being 14 and now it has to end. 2nd year of being a teenager yet I'm still lost on this world. I wonder what 2024 holds. Happy early birthday to me. 26/02/24- Turned 15 today. Happy birthday to anyone that celebrates the same day as me!
20 now and the irony of "I'm a big boy now" just gets better and better. We're always so convinced that we know what the world's about when we're kids and then we become adults who don't know what the fuck we're doing. Or at least I don't.
My 14th birthday is tomorrow, and I'm probably gonna listen to this like once but thats good enough. Thank you, cavetown, for being my comfort during the pandemic and thank you for what you've given me now.
If you're wondering why he said he's 14 in the song-- I think he said he's 14 since that's when you (usually) enter highschool and also when boys are going through the most changes and when they're the most pressured to fit into the "boys are tough and don't show emotions" stereotype
This song is about Men or Boys not being able to show their true emotions as in Crying, being soft or just being not masculine. The protagonist in the song is trying his best to try not to show his true emotions. In the beginning, he's listing out all the things he feels and in the bridges also. The chorus is his attempt at to be masculine, and at the end of the chorus he says the following "Ain't that how its supposed to be? Though it isn't me" The whole song is a play on of the phrase "Boys will be Boys" also. So my fellow Boys and My nonbinary folks and heck even Girls, don't be afraid to show your true emotions, and if your friends/Parents wont allow you too. I can talk in the replies :)
Fun fact. This song holds a lot of backstory. Me and my boyfriend plan to play this on our wedding because we listened to this song all the time while on a call. I was in an abusive relationship and i fell in love with my current boyfriend in the middle. I introduced cavetown to him and he instantly loved this song. We listened to it everywhere. It helped us cope with not being able to be together too
Holy shit, this is just a straight up jam. I like the upbeat tempo. It’s a little different from your usual stuff but quite the step in the right direction. I’m gonna listen to this until my brain can’t take it anymore, great job!
@Jacob Jasper not for me, 14 was probably the year where I didn't understand anything. Life was so much harder, but I do still wish I was 14 cause growing older scares me
"I really like your spotted sweater/if ladybugs are girls/how do you make kids together?/what's it like in a female world?/I bet it's so much better" The last two lines are often taken out of the context of this stanza. Many people hear the last two lines and either go, "yeah girls have it easier because they can express emotion or whatever" or "uh no?? between sexism and periods it's actually way harder being a girl!" but that isn't what he meant. He's talking to a ladybug (spotted sweater) and is saying "if ladybugs are [all] girls/how do you make kids together?" because of the name ladybug, and the idea that ladybugs are all ladies. Then he asks the ladybug, "[if all ladybugs are girls], what's it like in a female[-only] world/I bet it's so much better" ie with only one sex there wouldn't be problems like sexism, toxic masculinity (as explored in the rest of the song), etc. Hopes this helps people who are confused or upset by this lyric!
I'VE WANTED TO DO THAT EVER SINCE I FIRST HEARD THIS SONG BUT MY BIRTHDAY IS IN JULYYYYYYYYYYYY AJEHRJFJFKJDBDHFI update: i have come to report that i have successfully done the funny
Gonna listen to this at midnight!! Thanks, Cavetown, for getting me theough middle school. Your music has helped me bond with new people and made me happier whenever i feel crappy. ❤️
Remind me to came back to this in a year: 1. Is corona still a thing? 2. This still your favourite song? 3. Can you play this on guitar yet? 4. Relationship status? 5. Sexuality? 6. Crushing? 7. Beaten the ender dragon on minecraft with Emily yet? 8. Can you skateboard well yet? 9. Is school okay? 10. Made any friends in your new class? I’ll come back in 2021 :) UPDATE !!!: 1. yes silly goose ofc it’s still a thing it wouldn’t have magically disappeared in only a year 😭 it’s getting better tho, there’s a vaccine now and restrictions have eased. 2. no. it’s still a great song but it makes me so upset hearing it now, it brings back memories of last year that i don’t want to remember. 3. lol nope, i stopped playing the guitar in like October 2020 bc it was making me miserable trying to force myself to play, i found it not to be my kind of instrument . 4. single still 👍 but that’s by choice okay 🙄 i don’t want to b in a relationship bc ew love 5. unlabelled, i don’t need one rn, i’ll discover it when i’m ready 6. yes, have been since nov 2020 and it’s the reason why my life has changed so much and for the better
When I was in primary I was bullied to, then I went to secondary school and the idiot didn't follow me, but peer pressure and society's expectations did. what I'm trying to say is for some people it gets better, others it gets worse, while for the rest it stays the same so all you can do is hope and pray that you go to another school because the teachers sure as hell aren't going to do anything.
my boyfriend grew up being told he can’t show weakness or emotion. it was basically beaten out of him, but i’m trying to help him understand that it’s completely okay to cry and show his true feelings... i love him so much and don’t want him to hide anything he may be struggling with:( edit 6/24/22: thank you all so much for your kind words and thoughts!! we’re going on 10 months on the 26th and there has been so many wonderful moments between us. we’ve talked so much about how he was definitely abused (physically, emotionally and psychologically) because of the way he was raised, especially since he’s Mexican. he’s not only been told that since he’s a man, but also because he’s Mexican that he’s supposed to be all these ways and such, he’s actually opened up quite a lot to my mother about his struggles and she’s helped him understand a lot about his mental health. our relationship is so much stronger now that we’ve talked about this kind of stuff
smol update: we were talking the other night about how much we want to start a family together and he got super emotional and actually cried… i can’t help but feel so trusted and loved that he felt safe around me to cry like he did
this song still makes my heart flutter even after all these years i really love it and other cavetown's songs, i think i can't explain it i don't have much words i feel peaceful when i am listening it it makes me happy
Lol in 10 ft tall, he mentions eating fire and snow. In this song he eats stick and rocks and mud. In the Lemon Boy music video he takes a few bites out of a lemon.
i listened to cavetown during a really dark time in my life. now im back, and life is kinda better now :). still love cavetown as much as i did a few years ago
I get that kind of feeling with other music like this. (And this one) I think it’s because it reminds you of the past. It just kinda makes you remember.
I rember looping this song when i was 14, four years latter and the line "just turned 14 and i think i know everything and the world revolves around me" is still relevant
Surprisingly I have not seen any tiktoks with this song, though I only go on tiktok every once in a while and the compilations i watch dont have tiktoks with audios like this
I remember making up the "don't mess with me I'm a big boy now and I'm very scary" part in 6th grade with my friend. Never listened to this song before (because it wasn't released at the time). We made it as a Pull-up's diaper ad idea but really chaotic. 💀💀 I remember hearing that part of the song on a video and was like, "wait a second. I RECOGNIZE THAT-" and immediately texted my friend asking if they knew about it (they didn't) It's a very crazy thing and it's hilarious that someone had the same lyrics idea lol
*ATTENTION 13-YEAR-OLDS* Play this at exactly 11:58:45 (23:58:45) on the day before your 14th birthday to time "I just turned 14" perfectly to start the day. You're welcome.
there’s such a huge difference between Animal Kingdom and Lemonboy, and i love them both
I know
FishFilms funny seeing you here!
Anna McKelvey heyyy :)
FishFilms you know the quality music AND animation
Animators must just love cave town. I know I do
it's not healthy how relatable these songs are getting
*Deku...no*
oh no bby deku
wow
Plot Twist: Bakugo was being an arse and Deku meant to post this is on the Pumped Up Kicks music vid
@@cyyy07 holy shi-
someone: *steps on bug* me: ''now you listen here buddy"
I L L F U C K Y O U U P I F Y O U' R E M E A N T O B U G S
Once my brother stepped on a ladybug....
@@perfectKeg same
Listen here you little **** you listen to me when you talk to me
Don't mess with me, I'm a big kid now and I'm very scary.
Im a girl, so I obviously don’t know what it feels like to not ever feel as if you’re able to cry as a male because it’s “weak” in a sense of masculinity, but the lines “if you wanna cry, make sure that they never see it, or even better yet block it out and never feel it.” Hits SO hard, crying is one of the most vulnerable states to be in and tbh I won’t ever let anyone see me in it.
Your not alone
Fr
Real
@@Alex_Fierro_ I appreciate that, you aren’t either! 🤍
delete this, also what is wrong with you
“I don’t care about the government and I really need a hug”
That part hits different now
Aaa-
*wait-*
It really do hit different tho
...yeah... 😔✊
🤗. Heres a virtual one
Someone kills a bug
Cavetown: so you have chosen death
omg yes
rip ant, rip jimmy johns employee
*Enderman noise*
bro yesss
I've Had My Grandparents Kill Soo Many Beetles i cant
"I feel stupid, ugly..Pretend it doesn't bother me"
*THIS HIT TOO DEEP-*
Same
it hit too deep for everyone, dude.
Damn this is even deep for Lucius Malfoy
Hits harder than home
That slaps harder than my dad's belt
This song is for my best friend. He doesn't listen to music, (literally just dnd songs lol) and one time in class I took it into my hands to find a song he'd like. I went through Arctic Monkeys, Taylor Swift, MCR, twenty one pilots, Metallica, Eminem, (I have very diverse music taste lol) but nothing he really felt like hit him right. Until I got to this song. He didn't act like he immediately loved it but I caught him listening to it later. We listened to it all the time. It's February as I'm writing this and he moved at the beginning of the school year about 5 states away. This song is still ours. I love you Ayden 💜 always will.
this was 2 months ago, but i still want to say that it that’s really wholesome. you seem like a great friend
@@BaileyTheGoofball thank you 🫶🫶
Are you still in contact with him?
never thought reading a comment about someone else's life would make my day, so, thanks for sharing, stranger
@@cherry__Soda we haven't talked in a few months but I still consider him a good friend
ABSOLUTELY SLAPS!!
**Turns 14**
Sticks, rocks and mud: Our time has come.
wall: *o h s h i t*
😔
Well, today is my 14th Birthday
@@marvellkairupan444 Poor objects
@@marvellkairupan444 hahaha, Happy Birthday! But remember, Sticks Rocks Mud are waiting..
Song : "I'll f*** you up if you're mean to bugs."
Wasps : *its free real estate*
Those are wasps. Not bugs.
(I know they classify as bugs, but my brain deadass just said that-)
This👏comment👏deserves👏more👏likes👏
I did 8 bits of this song, can you see?
Wasps are nice though, they’re just pest control they keep nature in order by killing over populated bugs most wasps I’ve came across like me all you have to do is not threaten them :3
@@rycon1410 what if wasps arent bugs but are *w a s p s*
this randomly appeared on my playlist. I listened to it once
*NO REGRETS.*
*turns 14*
Sticks: hell yeah
Rocks: hell yeah
Mud: hell yeah
*Bugs have entered the chat*
Now this...is epic
A 'healthy' lifestyle:hell yea
@@imnotnormal458 Hell yeah
lol
Robbie is slowly curing my fear of bugs
same😂
Sergey Pavlov Im getting more scared of Robbie lmao
Sergey Pavlov
me: EW A BUG KILL IT
robbie: i’ll f*ck you up if you’re mean to bugs
me: WHAT A CUTE BABY ID NEVER HURT IT
then again if boys will be bugs idk if i can stick to that
Me too bro
*I don’t care about the government and I really need a hug*
Damn I felt that
same
Same mr.albert
Now a really feel that
* hug *
Idk if I've ever related to it more before quarantine started
Tomorrow I’m 15. Crazy how I found this song on my last day of being 14. Listening to it while I still can.
*Happy* late *birthday!* 🎉
@@timas_channelxxx Thanks
enjoy 15
@@lyricleopard thank you!
Cringe loser
i feel.. nostalgic? like, sad in a unique way? it's a fun song but at the same time it makes me wanna protect all the boys out there, man. they really need more love...
Please, just say hi. It really may look like we don’t want to talk, but if you say hi, (I at least) will open up to chat. Maybe not completely, but we still like friends
Playlist Central I completely agree man
@@madmillion88 Yea. Just say hi to us
I wish people at least acted like they care about me
people treat me like a joke because I'm ftm and that means "I'm not a real man"
That aint a kazoo thats just mr. mosquito singing backup
Under rated comment
das is good
We Stan bugs in this house, but not Mr. Mosquito. He isn’t true to the bug spirit of keeping to himself and living his own life.
Dang when he said *bZZZzzZxzz*
I felt that 😞😞😔😔
It’s a bee-
I'm not a boy, or 14, but honestly this is relatable as hell and also seems like it's acknowledging how boys are pressured to act s certain way, but maybe I'm wrong
January 4, 2023 Edit: Ok turns out I'm just a trans dude. Which I figured out like a year after posting this lmao. Crazy 3 years since I made the og comment
Tbh a mood as a trans boy I'm scared of being different and crying all time cause I'm a cry baby but only because of male stereotypes
Yea girls can be in same situation
Same hut im 11
Pussies when I came out the womb my mom fed me jet fuel also I use to whoop my own ass by the time I was three I was the ceo of a multibillion dollar company
nope not wrong im 13 and i cam relate to this song no joke
this was my anthem when I was 14 😅wonder if any younger ppl still listen to this
I do!!
@@flutteringwonderlandSame!
Same. But it was when I was 14. I'm now 16 and still relate to the lyrics hehe. It's a very relatable song for most boys even though they'd probably not listen to this type of music.
Definitely listen to this all the time
YUPPPP 13 tho
am i allowed to say this is probably one of my favourite cavetown songs yet? AMAZING - thanks robbie :)
same
Cavetown liked this
@@bluevibez7659 are you sure? How do you know?
@@prat751 we can see it-?
@@heyitz_Faithz LMAO it was sarcasm but it doesn’t really show over text, sorry, that’s on me
People listening: It's about how boys are pressured to act a certain way and conform to society's expectations.
Me: Hehe bgug
Yeah I seriously don't like how some people just expect certain things from boys such as bad behaviour and like gangs and all those people just can't let them be who they are...
@@DontInterractWithMeBetween9-5. Well me & almost every other girl I know only fancy bad boys in fiction but would actually avoid them as much as possible out of fear irl coz we ain't about to be on the news for being killed by our ex after an argument or get taken hostage because our guy's owe thier drug dealer money or some other crazy shit.
@@DontInterractWithMeBetween9-5. Not gonna lie I have no idea what a piscopat is but I will admit I used the more extream cases as examples as to why girls might avoid so called bad boys but even if you met a bad boy who didn't do that I still think most girls (who weren't emontinally damadged) wouldn't find thier looks attractive enough to put up with thier typical behaviour of exsseive jealousy, aggression, possiveness, unfaithfulness, drinking, smoking, drug taking, constant partying, ditching class, lying, neglecting he's part in the realationship & being emontinally distant/unavoidable as even in fiction most girls I know only really fall for the guys who seem to only fit the bad boy image at first but are slowly shown to actually have a heart of gold. Unfortunately most guys irl seem to ignore the part about having a good heart but if you act like that without a good heart your not actually a misunderstood bad boy (especially because most fictinal bad boys at least have super tragic reasons for acting the way they do but most real guys don't) that just makes you (at best) an asshole or (at worst) abusive.
@@DontInterractWithMeBetween9-5. Oh I'm really sorry I wasn't trying to be disrespectful I didn't see that you'd edited it I honestly just thought it was some new slang term that I was just too uncool to know. Yeah I try to avoid them (well we're avoiding everyone now because of social distancing lol) but what I was trying to say is that bad boys are almost always more appealing in fiction because of the reasons I've stated above & it's safer to fantasies about being able to "fix" them with your love then it is to try to do that with a real bad boy & also as you get older you tend to realise that bad boys aren't usually the modles with great hair, big mussels in leather jackets like they're shown in Hollywood but are in fact usually the girl's "nice" guy friends who try to guilt trip girls into doing stuff with them & get mad or stop wanting to be thier friend if the girls don't let them.
@@DontInterractWithMeBetween9-5. No problem. Glad we ended up understanding eachother.
14 year olds be like :
"hmm what to eat... Oh i know!"
* *proceeds to eat sticks,rocks and mud* *
my favorite meal 😩☝️
@@kenae19 lololol
Yea I prefer a lil bit of grass with it....but like I respect other people's choices
@@tiamaria3980 😳
Fav food uwu
Found this song when I was 15, turned 17 today. What I wanna say to all teenagers is, enjoy your early teenage days. U dont need to be an introvert and feel proud about it, just interact with everyone and have some fun. Though life is not as easy as it used to be but never let anything get between you and fun.
Edit: I am 18 now.
Oh my goodness you’re so sweet I just turned 14. I’ll keep this in mind for sure.
Yoo its true (16)
True! (17)
@@Fart3_38enjoy it! High school year are intense but they can be great
What's wrong with being an introvert? You don't need to talk to everyone to be happy. Some us prefer keeping to ourselves and spending time with just a few people.
random human: *Steps on ant*
Me: *teleports behind them*
"It's nothing personal Kid"
NotOozy ...
I’m pretty sure your using that phrase wrongly but nice joke tho
Me: *the kid who stepped on the ant*
Also me: My self esteem is the size of an ant, so if you kill me, your technicaly killing an ant!
NotOozy: oh... *cough
@@alexisthomas9396 lol 😂
Do earwigs count
I love the silliness in this song, but there is some hidden sadness in the somewhere which is neat, I love the song either way!
Edit: I also love the high pitch voice at the end of the song, it really is the cherry on top to this 14 year old character Cavetown created in this song!
Isaac Brewer i like the silliness because the point is that for a kid it’s not silly, it’s legitimate concerns and reasoning and it’s cute. tho 14 might be a bit... 14yo’s don’t go “i’m a big boy, i do karate” but still it’s close enough. it’s capturing the innocence in the song
@@coyote2733 Yea, Its like a kid who didn't want to show people his negative side, (until the song takes place) because every time he starts singing about touchy or negative subjects it is at the end of a verse, almost like he is trying to change the subject because he isn't quite ready to grow up and show the world his imperfections.
Away, thats just my thoughts from my first few listens. Let me know of any other theories you've got, I'll love to hear and discuss them!
Isaac Brewer perfect way to put it
@@coyote2733 Thanks! everytime I relisten to this wonderful song I can't stop hearing more verses that give me more and more theories!
Lol at 14 I was singing with the bass's in an adult choir
I’m turning 15 on Tuesday, so I can finally stop eating sticks, rocks and mud 🥲 but I’m so glad I discovered cave town back when I had just turned 14
Wow
Cool story dude
wow :'0
I’m turning 15 this month glad I found this song while I’m 14
I turned 16 last december, glad i discovered this song when i was 14 :)
I found cavetown when I was 15 so I'm upset
5 years later and this song still hits hard..
i thought i was the only one who listens and likes this song in 2024 :)
This song is the song i would listen too sitting outside my school and fiddling with rocks and mud on the ground.
YES YES YES YES
Totally
Same
Anna, that's gross!
Lol, get it? Sorry...😔 But same
*to
*"don't message me, cuz i won't reply, wanna make u cry"*
probably written by my crush
Ow
Ow
Ow
Ow
Ow
Sticks and rocks and mud: *exist*
This lad: Delicious. Finally some good fucking food
I mean same though, lov the cronch
@@dragonmage1175 c r o n ch 👁👄👁
@weeby weeb :)
Mmm I can see why (づ ̄ 3 ̄)づ⚪🟫➖ ( just pretend those are a stick rock and mud )
LMAOOOO
Turning 15 tomorrow. I enjoyed being 14 and now it has to end. 2nd year of being a teenager yet I'm still lost on this world. I wonder what 2024 holds. Happy early birthday to me.
26/02/24- Turned 15 today. Happy birthday to anyone that celebrates the same day as me!
Happy early birthday 🎂
Happy late birthday!
Good luck homie, 15 was a crazy one for me.
Yealokre pfp!!! What's ur fav song from them? Mine's Harpy Hare!
Also, happy late b-day!
Cavetown: say no curse words
Boys will be bugs: I'm about to ruin this man's whole career
and that's how cavetown abandoned the record of not saying bad words xd
Pigeon: I ruined this man's career before you
Beautiful profile pic
@@eatdetergent Hug All Ur Friends before that
@@avastepanian567 oh shit
I DONT CARE HOW LATE IT IS I WILL ALWAYS LISTEN TO A NEW CAVETOWN SONG! Love you Cavetown!
legit mood
10:30 isnt late but mood
this is so cute but powerful at the same time
20 now and the irony of "I'm a big boy now" just gets better and better. We're always so convinced that we know what the world's about when we're kids and then we become adults who don't know what the fuck we're doing. Or at least I don't.
I do, barely
I misread this as “just gets wetter and wetter”.
Me being 14 when this came out makes it even more ironic for me lmao
@@Sinbaby-rt5pe lmao 🤣
"I feel stupid"
"ugly"
"I pretend it doesn't bother me"
*me too, hun.*
Mood.
tbh
Relatable 😞
Hun, same
y'all know me so well :,)
Me before finding Cavetown: :'(
Me after finding Cavetown: :')
me :D
happy tears
rt
Me finding cave town: 😔🔫
Before- :c
After- :'c
"Im a dumb teen boy" "i just turned 14" when i realized he's 20 i couldn't help but laugh
It's almost like he's mocking them **gasp**
Poodle kitten it’s agism!!! Or wrote it when he was 14
@@dinosore4782 *ageism
TJ jones oh ok thanks
Or he wrote is AS a 14 year old
My 14th birthday is tomorrow, and I'm probably gonna listen to this like once but thats good enough.
Thank you, cavetown, for being my comfort during the pandemic and thank you for what you've given me now.
i know this days later but....HAPPY BIRTHDAY :)
"in the end we're all bugs" -Garret Watts
Ha ha
we love garrett watts
@@slayateturn Yes!!
Yes,it's true
HAHAHA YES
If you're wondering why he said he's 14 in the song-- I think he said he's 14 since that's when you (usually) enter highschool and also when boys are going through the most changes and when they're the most pressured to fit into the "boys are tough and don't show emotions" stereotype
Agreed
yeah but robbies english, and in england we go to secondary school at like 10 or 11
Wow, thanks, that makes sense now.
Wow, thanks, that makes sense now.
no, you go to high school at age 11 in the uk and then leave at 16
"If your gonna cry make sure they don't see you" hits hard
Yep :')
True true
I’ve been able to adjust my voice so it sounds like I’m not crying even though I am👁
Mhm, My Dad Once Told Me To Suck It Up. Act Mature. Don’t Cry It Doesn’t Look Good On You.
you're*
I love the kazoo added into the vocals toward the end, its amazing
This song is about Men or Boys not being able to show their true emotions as in Crying, being soft or just being not masculine. The protagonist in the song is trying his best to try not to show his true emotions. In the beginning, he's listing out all the things he feels and in the bridges also. The chorus is his attempt at to be masculine, and at the end of the chorus he says the following "Ain't that how its supposed to be? Though it isn't me" The whole song is a play on of the phrase "Boys will be Boys" also. So my fellow Boys and My nonbinary folks and heck even Girls, don't be afraid to show your true emotions, and if your friends/Parents wont allow you too. I can talk in the replies :)
What's up, Boys, Gals, and Non-Binary pals?
hi fellow clikkie
Thanks
Heyy
Dude this is legit what I feel I’m not very masculine and I try to be I’m also scared to spill out my emotions
"I feel stupid,ugly,pretend it doesn't bother me"
This hit too close to home
Way too close
YES
"their names are spider beetle bee"
the enbys: *WRITE THAT DOWN WRITE THAT DOWN*
Me and my nine different names feel called out…
I feel personally attacked and now I think it's a cool idea
stop calling me out
Non beeinary
Idk if I should be names Beetle or Robbin both are good names 👁️👁️
I starred listening to this 5 years ago at 14...It's 18 now..
Some things don't change..
Agreed! I'm an 18 year old girl 😂
Me: *Listening to music while vaccuming*
Also Me: *vaccums up spider*
*Song:* "I'll f*** you up if you're mean to bugs."
Me: *nervous laughter*
perfect
The only bugs I kill are flies and mosquitoes which is like, self defense
*w h o o p s*
spiders aren't bugs though-
@@goat7409 I thought about saying that but it seems you have beat me to it
Fun fact. This song holds a lot of backstory. Me and my boyfriend plan to play this on our wedding because we listened to this song all the time while on a call. I was in an abusive relationship and i fell in love with my current boyfriend in the middle. I introduced cavetown to him and he instantly loved this song. We listened to it everywhere. It helped us cope with not being able to be together too
congratulations on the engagement. Hope everything goes according to plan.
Awh congratulations! I wish you well on your wedding and I wish you both health, happiness and vigilance in these difficult times xx
Hows it going get married yet?
i am a grapefruit that’s actually really cute and sad
Are you a girl?
*"Dont mess with me, Im a big boy now and Im very scary"*
Said every pre-schooler
my five year old little cousin relates, cuz she said so
I just heard the line as I listened to it 😆
i read this RIGHT as he said it in the song 🤣😐
sad yeehaw spitting facts
Lets get the likes to 420
It’s my 14th birthday, and I’ve been waiting for this moment since I was 12!! 🎉🎉🎉
12 right now and waiting till I'm 14 the funny thing I'd that we're both stays.
Holy shit, this is just a straight up jam. I like the upbeat tempo. It’s a little different from your usual stuff but quite the step in the right direction. I’m gonna listen to this until my brain can’t take it anymore, great job!
magix shiz fffff
"I'm a dumb teen boy, i eat sticks and rocks and mud"
*_Omg, same_*
wt-
@weeby weeb ....
Can relate
@Louis Pierson that's a positive thing
These comments 💀
Me, 18, in college: I JUST TURN FOURTEE-
i wish im fourteen again
@Jacob Jasper not for me, 14 was probably the year where I didn't understand anything. Life was so much harder, but I do still wish I was 14 cause growing older scares me
@@apathetic_aesthetics yeah for me when I was 14 I was very depressed and tried to do something I now regret. 14 sucked
@@blake8109 same im 15 now but last year was just the worst. it'll probably stay the worst year of my life
I’m turning 11 in 4 days- TwT
I TURN 15 IN A FEW HOURS! I remember being so excited to turn 14 because the lyrics will finally be true. How time flies…
HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYYY!!!!!!
This song weirdly makes me feel so much better about everything
-gives u internet hug-
have a hug. i need one too. but take mine.
@Katarina Nilsson
thanks. here -internet hug-
*i t s b e c a u s e y o u a r e a b o y a n d f e e l u n d e r s t o o d
Thetryhard Waffle what
"I really like your spotted sweater/if ladybugs are girls/how do you make kids together?/what's it like in a female world?/I bet it's so much better"
The last two lines are often taken out of the context of this stanza. Many people hear the last two lines and either go, "yeah girls have it easier because they can express emotion or whatever" or "uh no?? between sexism and periods it's actually way harder being a girl!" but that isn't what he meant.
He's talking to a ladybug (spotted sweater) and is saying "if ladybugs are [all] girls/how do you make kids together?" because of the name ladybug, and the idea that ladybugs are all ladies. Then he asks the ladybug, "[if all ladybugs are girls], what's it like in a female[-only] world/I bet it's so much better" ie with only one sex there wouldn't be problems like sexism, toxic masculinity (as explored in the rest of the song), etc.
Hopes this helps people who are confused or upset by this lyric!
i never would have thought of that. thank you smart person i dont know!
ffs thank you
makes sense to me
That makes a lot of sense!!
Thank you 😩👏🙌🙌
yum yum eating this right up
hmmm? what're you doing here!!
same lmao
Crunchy
kindoflinc same
There is certain people i subscribe to and think to myself, "I bet they listen to cavetown" you were one of them! Love your art!
Tener 14 fue todo un sentimiento, ahora me despido de ellos con esta canción, gracias por todo cavetown.
*"I eat sticks and rocks and mud"*
he's just keeping that healthy diet
Is iT kEtO
When I was little I would eat rocks...
@@kittycatboi923 cronch
I’m Palio and his diet is better than mine
Me eating sticks
@Brianna McLaughlin I ate the grass too bud we all are a little bit of grass tho I only ate the really green grass
"I feel stupid ugly pretend it doesn't bother me." Never related to something so hard In my life before.
me too
same bro
Same:/
kinda cliche comment tbh everybody feels that in some sense
@@cobletoffire6 Stfu not everybody does relate to that, and for the ones who do, it's hurts like fucking hell
I JUST TIMED IT SO IT SAID “I JUST TURNED 14” RIGHT AT MIDNIGHT ON MY 14TH BDAY YES HAPPY BDAY TO MEEEE
legend
i know i'm late but i hope you had a kick-ass bday :) well as kick-ass a bday can be in quarantine lol
PLS TELL ME WHATS THE TIMING
I'VE WANTED TO DO THAT EVER SINCE I FIRST HEARD THIS SONG BUT MY BIRTHDAY IS IN JULYYYYYYYYYYYY AJEHRJFJFKJDBDHFI
update: i have come to report that i have successfully done the funny
right as I read i just turned 14 he said i just turned fourteen. we both got the timing right :)
i love the kazoo at the end bits
the fact that the Comet Moth in the album cover has a backstory is amazing
No bugs were harmed on the making of this song
Oh my god i love this comment way too much
Yes! I see you everywhere on tøp videos
It's been six years since I was 14 but I still feel this in my soul.
same man same
i hope youre doing okay bro
Not the akechi pfp 😭😭
4 years and counting, but i still feel like a dumb early teenager trying to understand the world, and i cant wait for the year imma finally be me
@@Blanche_255 lmao I thought the same thing
“I don’t care about the government and i really need a hug” This has just been me all 2018
Just a random guy ya still wanna hug fam? XD
Yeah
Mood
I’m Brazilian and we had our elections this year and everything just went downhill so I’m with u
Just a random guy, same
Gonna listen to this at midnight!! Thanks, Cavetown, for getting me theough middle school. Your music has helped me bond with new people and made me happier whenever i feel crappy. ❤️
if this doesn't get on the trending page imma scream
shooketh s s MOOD
cavetown for trending p l e a s e
this tops UA-cam Rewind 2018 by a million and one percent hhg---
off topic but YT rewind 2018 was literal garbage other than the animation squad except that they did in my feelings..
scream...
shooketh s s that picture keeps me breathing
Only Cavetown can make depression such a pure sound
Tomorrow's my 14th birthday, I'm gonna play this song at midnight
Happy Birthday
Cheers lad
happy late birthday. it'll go downhill from there
It’s my 15th birthday in less then 2 days because it’s exactly 11pm rn so I’m a little late to have my birthday match the song XD
sya umm damn
This song hits so close to home. Cavetown really understands what it's like to feel vulnerable and confused.
brotha shutup
Anyone: makes a good song
Tik Tok: HA HA MINE!
Facts
The slimmers !!! Exactly
The slimmers !!! Sadly yes, very true
*it's free real estate*
Some people actually discovers songs thanks to tik tok. You know that right. I mean aren't YOU here bc you discovered the song on tik tok?
When u find out cavetown is 20, low key thought he was 16
i- he isnt?
he's wHAT
LOW KEY!?!?!?!?!?!?
Bonnie Lee what????
He says hes a teenboy in the song tho
Remind me to came back to this in a year:
1. Is corona still a thing?
2. This still your favourite song?
3. Can you play this on guitar yet?
4. Relationship status?
5. Sexuality?
6. Crushing?
7. Beaten the ender dragon on minecraft with Emily yet?
8. Can you skateboard well yet?
9. Is school okay?
10. Made any friends in your new class?
I’ll come back in 2021 :)
UPDATE !!!:
1. yes silly goose ofc it’s still a thing it wouldn’t have magically disappeared in only a year 😭 it’s getting better tho, there’s a vaccine now and restrictions have eased.
2. no. it’s still a great song but it makes me so upset hearing it now, it brings back memories of last year that i don’t want to remember.
3. lol nope, i stopped playing the guitar in like October 2020 bc it was making me miserable trying to force myself to play, i found it not to be my kind of instrument .
4. single still 👍 but that’s by choice okay 🙄 i don’t want to b in a relationship bc ew love
5. unlabelled, i don’t need one rn, i’ll discover it when i’m ready
6. yes, have been since nov 2020 and it’s the reason why my life has changed so much and for the better
I also wanna be reminded so here I am
aye, i wanna know too so hello
this is such a good idea!
Also if you see this in a year can you reply to remind us?
I wanna know
Listening to this one last time before I turn 15 🥲
14 was one of my best years, and I’m so proud of how far I’ve come.
Yall are doing great
happy bday!!
Love your pfp
I did the same, I turned 15 on the 19th. 😬
bully: **bullies me**
me: Dont mess with me im a big boy now and im very scary!
bully: ...
me: ...
bully: **bullies me more**
I'm deceased 💀💀💀
oof-
I totally fuck with demons man
name name name yup that's totally my name name name i mean if you said that to me i would bully you even more
When I was in primary I was bullied to, then I went to secondary school and the idiot didn't follow me, but peer pressure and society's expectations did. what I'm trying to say is for some people it gets better, others it gets worse, while for the rest it stays the same so all you can do is hope and pray that you go to another school because the teachers sure as hell aren't going to do anything.
Cavetown: ɪ ᴡɪʟʟ ғ*ᴄᴋ ʏᴏᴜ ᴜᴘ ɪғ ᴜʀ ᴍᴇᴀɴ ᴛᴏ ʙᴜɢs
His chameleon in the cage: ...ᴡᴀᴛ?
Hmmm but a lot of bugs eat other bugs
@@octanemain1988 r/woooosh
@@dolphlouw8875 r/dontusewooshoutsidereddit
@@dolphlouw8875 r/dowhatyouwantcuzyouhavehumanrightsandareyourownuniqeperson
R/whyistheresomanyrslashesimscaredandconcerned
i can’t wait to go to a cavetown concert and scream at the top of my lungs “stupid” and “ugly” lol.
When no concept ed rys ever come to africa despite being "worldwide" 👁💧👄💧👁✌
Same :)
HAHA same
it is amazing, all of the concert does it :D
@cleevage :0 rlly?
I love the little kazzo in the back round at the end, like a little fly in the song too. 🥰
my boyfriend grew up being told he can’t show weakness or emotion. it was basically beaten out of him, but i’m trying to help him understand that it’s completely okay to cry and show his true feelings... i love him so much and don’t want him to hide anything he may be struggling with:(
edit 6/24/22: thank you all so much for your kind words and thoughts!! we’re going on 10 months on the 26th and there has been so many wonderful moments between us. we’ve talked so much about how he was definitely abused (physically, emotionally and psychologically) because of the way he was raised, especially since he’s Mexican. he’s not only been told that since he’s a man, but also because he’s Mexican that he’s supposed to be all these ways and such, he’s actually opened up quite a lot to my mother about his struggles and she’s helped him understand a lot about his mental health. our relationship is so much stronger now that we’ve talked about this kind of stuff
some time you know its ok... but it feel like you lost the ability, like a mental block
That's beautiful! You're a supportive partner, keep it up!
Your a great partner and I wish you and your boyfriend a happy life!
smol update: we were talking the other night about how much we want to start a family together and he got super emotional and actually cried… i can’t help but feel so trusted and loved that he felt safe around me to cry like he did
lol imagine
This is it chief
Luv ur profile pic
@@orca4991 Urs is great 2
This whole melody is a mood
this song still makes my heart flutter even after all these years
i really love it and other cavetown's songs, i think i can't explain it
i don't have much words
i feel peaceful when i am listening it
it makes me happy
No one:
Not a single soul:
Robbie: *eats inanimate objects*
Are you implying that you eat still living and moving things-
Sam Well.. no, I wasn’t implying that. But I do eat inanimate objects.
@@citrus5923 I will like your original comment but it's at 169 and I don't want to mess it up
Lol in 10 ft tall, he mentions eating fire and snow. In this song he eats stick and rocks and mud. In the Lemon Boy music video he takes a few bites out of a lemon.
@Random person on the internet already did
song- boys will be bugs right
*kills a bug*
me- mamma just killed a man
lmao
Xddd
HAHA ill now think this every time I kill a bug now
I died XD
two references in one
Not sure why, but whenever im sad I always manage to come back to this wonderful song
Thank you for your service, Mr smiling Aizawa man.
same *cries*
i listened to cavetown during a really dark time in my life. now im back, and life is kinda better now :). still love cavetown as much as i did a few years ago
Listened to this on bandcamp just then and omg. This is so so amazing.
Aww this is so cute
Lmao didn't mean to reply that but I stand by my statement
Oh, hi!
This feels nostalgic but it’s literally not old enough to be?
I'm 34 years old and i also feel nostalgia when i listen this song. It's like this song is older than what is it in reality.
Aaryss Cooper Come back to this video 4-6 years later to have the nostalgia destroy you
it's not the SONG that's nostalgic, it's the feeling that it gives you
Yeah I totally get that
I get that kind of feeling with other music like this. (And this one) I think it’s because it reminds you of the past. It just kinda makes you remember.
"And I really need a hug"
man me too, it's been a tough life
Here bro, friendly hug from me :)
A hug from one stranger on the internet to another 😊
y'all are so damn sweet wtf be my friends lmao
lol Okay sure but how would one officially confirm friendship status?
@@xlectraheart lmao sure!
I rember looping this song when i was 14, four years latter and the line "just turned 14 and i think i know everything and the world revolves around me" is still relevant
me who just killed a spider in the shower: what are you doing
cavetown, holding a knife: time to die
Noo poor spider 😔
he's watching me with a knife in my living room because I killed bugs that were under my nightstand
I crush ants oh no
@@latriz0 I thought you said
"I have a crush on ants oh no"
@@1SKRAAC1D LMAOO
Song exists:
Tik Tok: It’s free real estate
Kinda glad cause it got me into cavetown...
Surprisingly I have not seen any tiktoks with this song, though I only go on tiktok every once in a while and the compilations i watch dont have tiktoks with audios like this
Lmao
legit
Chingkie Mad Tik Tok: *HiPeTtY hOpEtTy ThIs SoNg Is PrOpErTy*
Guys don’t be mean to bugs
Leave that ant alone
I mean bugs are cool and all
But those darn ants ain't getting my bread
same
@@twigzyisdying Same.
Corinna denning
* smashes snail *
@@gavart4509 Snails are so innocent though lol
I remember making up the "don't mess with me I'm a big boy now and I'm very scary" part in 6th grade with my friend. Never listened to this song before (because it wasn't released at the time). We made it as a Pull-up's diaper ad idea but really chaotic. 💀💀 I remember hearing that part of the song on a video and was like, "wait a second. I RECOGNIZE THAT-" and immediately texted my friend asking if they knew about it (they didn't)
It's a very crazy thing and it's hilarious that someone had the same lyrics idea lol
*ATTENTION 13-YEAR-OLDS*
Play this at exactly 11:58:45 (23:58:45) on the day before your 14th birthday to time "I just turned 14" perfectly to start the day. You're welcome.
Jacks Flat omg perfect I’m 13 and I think I should do that
U got it chief
Good idea!
in a couple of months I'll be 14
hope i will remember!
Well darn I’m a girl
Nobody:
Me on chorus: STUPID! UGLY!
That part hits ngl
Bruh
me: screaming that part
my younger brother: "you're STUPID! UGLY!"
yes that happened. my brother is mean.
@@dg-ly1bmatleast he didnt break your charger lol
I did that and my family was like: WhAt ArE yOu DoInG???
Cavetown making a song:
Tiktok: HA HA MINE!
Those damn Tikers.
Hippity hoppity you are now my property
Kanecarp •O• *dOn’T sAy ThAt iT’s rAcisT*
If they don't play this at my funeral, I'm not going.