I am so scared for the girl who bled for a year straight because that could lead to being infertile, and I have had 3 miscarriages so I hope the best for her
The depo shot did that to me and it's so hard for me to get pregnant and now I very rarely even have periods and I'm haven't been on birth control since then and when i do bleed its so uncertin when it will stop so yea it's scary
@@thisistheday597 yea thst don't tell you the side affects outright just expect to be cured by the thing that created the problem. I was only 16 I didn't know anything about that. I was toldbot was a bleeding disorder and they tried to give me a blood transfusion which I refused. They told me it was a stomach ulcer that could be cured by BC and they gave it to me before even checking to see if it was and when they did they was like it's gone now and I was like how do you know if it was even there in the first place. Can't stand these "only for the money" doctors. I haven't had any type of intimacy in the last 6 years cause I'm scared that I could start bleeding or find out I'm permenantly infertile. It's ridiculous. I'd never suggest it to my daughter. Maybe a implant that just blocks but any hormonal BC nope
@@jazznazz4203 yea that's scary for that age smh. They told me it could be a sign of pcos so I was like ok even thou I didn't know what it was til I looked it up smh
The part about assault at the end really got to me. My first time, we had agreed to use a condom. But when it actually happened, he didn’t put one on and I was too anxious to even speak (selective mutism/social anxiety). And then the next day, while he was at work, I saw a brand new box of condoms in his room...so I’ve always felt kinda strange about that. But the second person I was with wouldn’t stop texting me until I agreed to go out with him. And I said I only wanted to go get some coffee and I was completely uncomfortable with going to his house...and then we ended up at his house. And when I think about that, even though I said no multiple times and was pushing him away, I still feel like maybe it was my fault for even going out with him in the first place. I’ve convinced myself that nothing is really wrong. Even after the second time I saw him, when he told me that it was my fault because I was just too beautiful. They really don’t teach you how to handle situations where you actually like the person. They make it seem like it’s only a thing that can happen between complete strangers that you have no feelings for.
I'm so sorry that happened to you those guys are fucking jerks don't ever feel like it was your fault if you meet people like them cut them off the moment you see a red flag
@@blinkfeverjjlr5059 thank you💖💖 both these things happened a few months ago so I’m still struggling with feeling guilty about it. I’m 19 and I have terrible taste in men, it seems haha
@@jailyn5085 man that’s so sad hopefully u can get over it at some point and move on. U seem like ur doing pretty well so far hope u meet the right person
-jailyn You have NO reason to feel guilty, both of those situations are rape, you were taken advantage of. So sorry you had to experience that. My suggestion is if you see things going a certain way, explicitly say "I like you but in no shape or form am I interested in sex today" if it continues and you're saying no (you have to say no, sex is adulting and adulting calls for some hard nos) literally say "this is how rape begins". Sometimes the word rape brings people back down to earth. If not, start screaming :( if you're feeling uncomfortable make them feel uncomfortable.
Just by watching this video it has opened my mind a little more and made me rethink a couple things in my head. This video gave me some insight on how I can be better for my partner in our relationship
Pure respect. I have a 4 year old & when she gets to the age of discussing sex, this video will initiate the conversation. So interesting & opens up the dialogue.
@@thekid7831 Obviously, your grammar is shit. But what a silly statement. Education is key. How to put a condom on. Birth control. U probably have 27 kids.
@@rahnia8803 yes, education is key especially regarding this topic that doesn’t seem to be normalized. They are probably cringing because they were never approached about this topic and society made it seem like it was wrong and awkward to talk about this. As a parent, you should be educating your child and not letting them figure it out themselves. Usually children follow their curiosity and start watching porn at very young age, that is traumatizing and damaging to the brain and their mindset. You are doing good by educating your child
My first time was so painful I couldn't go through with it, and they guy stopped talking to me afterwards making me feel used AF. So definitely be with a guy who will take his time with you and not just shove it in like tool.
Dee, I used to always watch videos of other girls around my age (15-17) and they always talked about pain and bleeding and I was so scared bc I can't even use tampons but luckily I saw ur video about ur experience. Thx so much for clarifying
@@roddrickcarter2805 it was in fact funny, the little remarks Dee made here and there however the circumstances and content wasn’t which I knew wouldn’t be, as a female myself I know losing your virginity is a serious topic and wouldn’t laugh nor smirk about anything of that nature, if you scroll in the comments you’ll even see lines people dropped that were funny.
@@ajaneeason9373 I made that comment in addition to yours. It was never to imply anything that you said. Only saying it's really good to hear different perspectives from different women on a personal subject matter.
the black woman with short hair in this video was also in the video about what it's like to be a virgin. If I remember correctly she was also wearing the same shirt. I'm not sure if it made sense to have her in the first time video if she was still a virgin at the time of recording.
Assault is a legal term. Do you understand how horrifying that is that despite consent you can legally say you were assaulted based on how you feel??? That's not "deep" that crazy.
You gotta understand, if you feel uncomfortable you should always speak up. I know people and me myself I have anxiety and people have other things that makes to scared to talk. You can revoke consent anytime you want
I am one of them few who had sex just before my girl got her period and she was beyond a freak. She was doing all kinds of things I never thought of. Woke up and she had her period, ran her shower then got her into the bath and changed the sheets.
@@marshmwllo here couldn’t find it at first.If you look in the comments you should find someone who mark the place she starts talking ua-cam.com/video/FcrWSWkuSfg/v-deo.html
@@elisvec4613 Her comments in her video just brought me back to Bi girls I have come across in my own life and the response I had towards them. Good for her though if she is Bi. And I am not trying to date her so its not a problem.
9:00 coercion definitely a problem, especially when the perpetrator or both are under the influence. Idk if I would call it assault, more bullying, but its mosdef rape.
I am so scared for the girl who bled for a year straight because that could lead to being infertile, and I have had 3 miscarriages so I hope the best for her
The depo shot did that to me and it's so hard for me to get pregnant and now I very rarely even have periods and I'm haven't been on birth control since then and when i do bleed its so uncertin when it will stop so yea it's scary
@@briezy6205
@@thisistheday597 yea thst don't tell you the side affects outright just expect to be cured by the thing that created the problem. I was only 16 I didn't know anything about that. I was toldbot was a bleeding disorder and they tried to give me a blood transfusion which I refused. They told me it was a stomach ulcer that could be cured by BC and they gave it to me before even checking to see if it was and when they did they was like it's gone now and I was like how do you know if it was even there in the first place. Can't stand these "only for the money" doctors. I haven't had any type of intimacy in the last 6 years cause I'm scared that I could start bleeding or find out I'm permenantly infertile. It's ridiculous. I'd never suggest it to my daughter. Maybe a implant that just blocks but any hormonal BC nope
@@jazznazz4203 yea that's scary for that age smh. They told me it could be a sign of pcos so I was like ok even thou I didn't know what it was til I looked it up smh
That’s exactly what I was thinking
I ain’t faking shit...
-Dee
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"it ain't not question no more" -dee
I was hoping someone caught that😭😭
God had a stroke reading that shit
The part about assault at the end really got to me. My first time, we had agreed to use a condom. But when it actually happened, he didn’t put one on and I was too anxious to even speak (selective mutism/social anxiety). And then the next day, while he was at work, I saw a brand new box of condoms in his room...so I’ve always felt kinda strange about that. But the second person I was with wouldn’t stop texting me until I agreed to go out with him. And I said I only wanted to go get some coffee and I was completely uncomfortable with going to his house...and then we ended up at his house. And when I think about that, even though I said no multiple times and was pushing him away, I still feel like maybe it was my fault for even going out with him in the first place. I’ve convinced myself that nothing is really wrong. Even after the second time I saw him, when he told me that it was my fault because I was just too beautiful. They really don’t teach you how to handle situations where you actually like the person. They make it seem like it’s only a thing that can happen between complete strangers that you have no feelings for.
I'm so sorry that happened to you those guys are fucking jerks don't ever feel like it was your fault if you meet people like them cut them off the moment you see a red flag
@@blinkfeverjjlr5059 thank you💖💖 both these things happened a few months ago so I’m still struggling with feeling guilty about it. I’m 19 and I have terrible taste in men, it seems haha
@@jailyn5085 man that’s so sad hopefully u can get over it at some point and move on. U seem like ur doing pretty well so far hope u meet the right person
@MoreWeight Media are you referring to the first story?
-jailyn You have NO reason to feel guilty, both of those situations are rape, you were taken advantage of. So sorry you had to experience that. My suggestion is if you see things going a certain way, explicitly say "I like you but in no shape or form am I interested in sex today" if it continues and you're saying no (you have to say no, sex is adulting and adulting calls for some hard nos) literally say "this is how rape begins". Sometimes the word rape brings people back down to earth. If not, start screaming :( if you're feeling uncomfortable make them feel uncomfortable.
Virgin Gang, no? Ok😔
P.S don't rush to lose your V card🙃
don't worry im still one too
Here
Y’all prolly bout 15 so calm down
🙋🏾♀️
@@amen20505 I'm 22
This was a very interesting and educating video because where I come from sex is a weird topic that my mom does not like to talk about
Just by watching this video it has opened my mind a little more and made me rethink a couple things in my head. This video gave me some insight on how I can be better for my partner in our relationship
Yea when ever I have my first time I will ask if anything hurts ,are you sure you’re ready , no rush and etc
Real men care about they women
No cap like bruh ion want it to hurt
Pure respect. I have a 4 year old & when she gets to the age of discussing sex, this video will initiate the conversation. So interesting & opens up the dialogue.
I'd just cring of my parents ever say sum bout sex to me, do jhit a favor and let em find out for they self
@@thekid7831 Obviously, your grammar is shit. But what a silly statement. Education is key. How to put a condom on. Birth control. U probably have 27 kids.
@@rahnia8803 yes, education is key especially regarding this topic that doesn’t seem to be normalized. They are probably cringing because they were never approached about this topic and society made it seem like it was wrong and awkward to talk about this. As a parent, you should be educating your child and not letting them figure it out themselves. Usually children follow their curiosity and start watching porn at very young age, that is traumatizing and damaging to the brain and their mindset. You are doing good by educating your child
@@cyancat333 Appreciate your comment!
My first time was so painful I couldn't go through with it, and they guy stopped talking to me afterwards making me feel used AF. So definitely be with a guy who will take his time with you and not just shove it in like tool.
1:19 first time i've ever seen dee pause a video in my life
Then you gotta become a more consistent viewer she pauses her videos regularly
Dee, I used to always watch videos of other girls around my age (15-17) and they always talked about pain and bleeding and I was so scared bc I can't even use tampons but luckily I saw ur video about ur experience. Thx so much for clarifying
I bled so much my first time, it was like someone cut my arm off. That's not an exaggeration.
Damnn that’s cray how diff bodies work 😭
@@user-bg6qg4rh1b ikr. I knew it would be painful but I can't exaggerate when I say this I felt like I was being torn apart.
Damn, I’m only 12 and I’m scared..
@@EmilyHernandez-jt4cs same but I’m 13
I can already tell this Finna be funny due to the thumbnail 😭😭😭😭
And then it was something informative and deep
@@roddrickcarter2805 right....
@@roddrickcarter2805 it was in fact funny, the little remarks Dee made here and there however the circumstances and content wasn’t which I knew wouldn’t be, as a female myself I know losing your virginity is a serious topic and wouldn’t laugh nor smirk about anything of that nature, if you scroll in the comments you’ll even see lines people dropped that were funny.
@@ajaneeason9373 I made that comment in addition to yours. It was never to imply anything that you said. Only saying it's really good to hear different perspectives from different women on a personal subject matter.
@@roddrickcarter2805 My apologies if that came off the wrong way I totally understand
Great video! I agree with all the things you said at the end
dee can you react to “among us but its a reality show”
The part where they discussed rape really threw me off sad 😩
the black woman with short hair in this video was also in the video about what it's like to be a virgin. If I remember correctly she was also wearing the same shirt. I'm not sure if it made sense to have her in the first time video if she was still a virgin at the time of recording.
The add on this vid is literally called “PUR”. Iconic.
"Yes more people." HAHAHAHAHAHA
DEE WE WANT MORE AMONG US VIDS WE LOVES IT
Had me stressed out
At 2:34 had me sooo dead “oh I didn’t feel like that” the laugh though is what got me 👀👀☠️☠️🤣🤣 love your videos D
Virgin age check. ✨21✨ (I’m curious 🤨)
35
i am joking
18
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21 👌🏾
I appreciated this video
nice reaction💜
My first time was painful for me. He tried to be gentle but he was too big.
How are people in the comments making fun of people for being virgins... that’s so immature
I’m learning about women👍
Dee you should react to chris brown 2014 medley soul train awards performance its kinda old but its really good
Early again ❤️❤️
This was a good video
The only thing I learned in sex Ed which was back in 4th grade is that the dude just sticks it in🧍🏾♀️
THE QUALITY
dee im just turned thirteen but my puberty makes me feel too confident and hairy but i been smashing since the first grade
She is a beautiful woman ❤❤❤❤❤❤
5:41. Soooooo there a chance for a Dee experimental video 🥴
Nice video 🌻
The whole video i was just starring at you... damn you're beautiful🔥🔥🔥
3:25 lmao
Wow my first took his time....I feel for girls who got rushed....guys can be so gross
Hey Dee Shanell can you please react to Monique reading Gizelle on Real Housewives of Potomac Reunion Part 1?
That girl was in your videos the other day with the face 2 face attraction R8ing.
What did you say about the roast beast comment lol I couldn't hear and your hand was in the way 🤣
Why this reminds army on Netflix 😭
You mean Grand Army? Cuz same 😪
It because you thinking about been 😂😂
Hey Dee
Assault is a legal term. Do you understand how horrifying that is that despite consent you can legally say you were assaulted based on how you feel??? That's not "deep" that crazy.
You gotta understand, if you feel uncomfortable you should always speak up. I know people and me myself I have anxiety and people have other things that makes to scared to talk. You can revoke consent anytime you want
I’m glad I’m gay...this is complicated as hell...though at the end it was still relatable. It isn’t fun...ever coercion.
It’s the same for guys too but just differently if you think about it
I am one of them few who had sex just before my girl got her period and she was beyond a freak. She was doing all kinds of things I never thought of. Woke up and she had her period, ran her shower then got her into the bath and changed the sheets.
as a man, like nigga i am getting demonatized right now, i swear the God
i lost my v at 24, im glad of that. and period sex rules
Bussy 👀
Sike naa nohomo
Dee plz respond
I am a man but if after having sex woman don't want to have sex than how can they live with their husband
wtf is this LMAOOO
Women talk about their first time experiences. It says it in the title of the video😔
Wow
Bro lol
Dee stop playing lemme find out you like girls
She does & already admitted in a video.I be forgetting about that because she doesn’t make it her personality
@@ajat3202 mind sending me the link? And true true, I’ve been vibing with Dee for years and would have never guessed or assumed that about her
@@marshmwllo here couldn’t find it at first.If you look in the comments you should find someone who mark the place she starts talking ua-cam.com/video/FcrWSWkuSfg/v-deo.html
ua-cam.com/video/x96CIWxWy8o/v-deo.html She mentions it at the beginning of this video.
5 years later? Bullshit.
I might be different from some guys but once I find out a girl is bisexual I quickly start losing interest. But that's just me.
The fact that you commented this on Dee’s video when she is literally bisexual ain’t it dude.. it really ain’t
You can have preferences but the way you worded it sounded so biphobic
@@elisvec4613Dee is bisexual? I honestly didn’t know that.
@@elisvec4613 Her comments in her video just brought me back to Bi girls I have come across in my own life and the response I had towards them. Good for her though if she is Bi. And I am not trying to date her so its not a problem.
@@dudleyred267 yeah she’s mentioned it in videos and comments replying to people :)
I lost my v card at 14 years old
We know that's common sad but common. You don't regret it?
i lost mine at 15 bro it’s all good
Whatdidyousayyyyy👭🏿
@@--BACKTFUP I can just hear the drama in your tone😭. The profile picture and the dog on name! I can't! I'ma have to call 1800backtfup one day!
@@BlackDaddy Girl...it’s a meme-
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No you was good just chalking it up to curiosity lol smh 0:50 idk how she took it that far
1:20 sometimes no matter how gentle you go, some women still get pain. Start at a pinky and went up slowly over days and it still hurt
9:00 coercion definitely a problem, especially when the perpetrator or both are under the influence. Idk if I would call it assault, more bullying, but its mosdef rape.