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  • @moebiusjdx7288
    @moebiusjdx7288 11 місяців тому +133

    Are the people in the 2nd story insane? OP stated multiple times he was trying to help her and his wife refused. Geez that pissed me off.

    • @cindyskullz
      @cindyskullz 11 місяців тому +22

      Classic Reddit, always blaming the man even if he did everything right.

    • @aSipOfHemlocktea
      @aSipOfHemlocktea 9 місяців тому

      ​@@cindyskullzwow it couldn't be because millions of men each year commit violent crimes and women don't

    • @brenscott5416
      @brenscott5416 9 місяців тому +9

      Fucking exactly. He basically ran both their lives and couldn't anymore. Reddit needs to stop huffing paint because it's obviously affecting their brain cells

    • @dangerousboxx666
      @dangerousboxx666 8 місяців тому

      You can't help those who don't want to help themselves. What was he supposed to do? Drag her by her hair. People in that comment section have low IQ.

    • @gachacatproductions431
      @gachacatproductions431 8 місяців тому +3

      I was so confused thinking I missed something. Glad to see people are equally as confused and pissed as I am for this guy

  • @janemba42
    @janemba42 11 місяців тому +129

    Those comments are insane. A relationship is a 2 way street. If someone keeps asking you tjings abd you deny it, only to get pissed later "because they didn't push hard enough" is so toxic

  • @magnoliasegun4994
    @magnoliasegun4994 11 місяців тому +92

    Story 2. As an adult, she has agency, and she should be the number one person who advocates for herself. OP did all he could, he can’t force her to do anything not even go to the doctor. He went above and beyond and people are just being toxic because they don’t want her to be responsible for her actions

    • @honeydroptheunicorn6557
      @honeydroptheunicorn6557 9 місяців тому +2

      14:04 it sounds more like she had her own medical trama from childhood.

    • @TaleToast
      @TaleToast 6 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely. As an adult, she has the autonomy to make her own choices and advocate for herself. It’s important to recognize that while OP did everything possible to support her, he can’t force her to take specific actions, like going to the doctor. It’s frustrating when people blame others for someone’s lack of responsibility, especially when efforts have been made to help. Sometimes, the toxicity comes from not wanting to acknowledge personal responsibility or the limits of what others can do.

  • @CptKorn
    @CptKorn 11 місяців тому +46

    If story 2 was genderswapped, the replies would have been 100% in favor of the OP.
    But no, being neglected by your partner and them refusing to work through their issues is his fault 🙄

  • @asherikamichaela8425
    @asherikamichaela8425 11 місяців тому +23

    The second OP is an absolute gem of a human. The people calling him the AH were so far beyond wrong, that was obvious from the beginning. Dude was doing _everything_ he could. He was working, taking care of her, cooking, cleaning, setting medical and therapist appointments, _everything._ For _three freakin' years!_ All this despite how emotionally abandoned and reminded of his childhood he was.
    Now let's not get it twisted. I'm not dissing his wife. She's obviously been through it, too. Like OP, she was neglected and disregarded by the very people who should've been her lifelong support network. Even her GP doctors never bothered to look beyond some nonsense surface-level "diagnosis." Laziness? Really? Whatever happened when she was younger, I'm just glad that it apparently wasn't cancer like it is now, since they utterly ignored it. I'm also glad that the friend reached out, even though it was to ream OP for leaving. But nobody had the full story, and that helped clear everything up and OP and his wife will be staying together. I hope the cancer isn't too aggressive and that she makes it through this. I've no doubt OP will stand by her side no matter what, now that he knows what's going on and she knows that she can finally be taken seriously. Good for them! 🥰

  • @Cookie_King
    @Cookie_King 11 місяців тому +51

    Story 3: LOVE how OP’s girlfriend is making the fight about his “neglect” instead of the fact she had adult fun time with his best friend- aka the most sarcastic thing I’ve ever said. BISH THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR CHEATING.

    • @thetruthof8949
      @thetruthof8949 11 місяців тому +5

      You said cheating with your partner's best friend was sarcastic. Did you mean sadistic? Either way, I agree. Cheating is bad enough, but to do it with a best friend\family member is even worse as it's betrayal from two people you really care about and messes up your relationships not just with those two people, but with the rest of your friends\family too.

    • @Cookie_King
      @Cookie_King 11 місяців тому +4

      @@thetruthof8949 When I said sarcastic I meant the bit where I said that I “LOVE HOW”

    • @thetruthof8949
      @thetruthof8949 11 місяців тому +2

      @@Cookie_King Oh lol. Fair enough

  • @Ekh519haj
    @Ekh519haj 11 місяців тому +158

    Story 1: I think OP got a lot of unwarranted hate

    • @SewardWriter
      @SewardWriter 11 місяців тому

      Yup. Religious extremists need to learn to shut their mouths and still their fingers. They wouldn't recognise a small, still voice if it got a megaphone and did karaoke on their shoulders.

    • @SewardWriter
      @SewardWriter 11 місяців тому +11

      @@codm22712 Nah, man, story #1 was about the mom whose 15yo got pregnant by dubious means.

    • @codm22712
      @codm22712 11 місяців тому +5

      @@SewardWriter oh I think I got the wrong video then ignore everything I said

    • @SewardWriter
      @SewardWriter 11 місяців тому +2

      @@codm22712 It's all good. :)

    • @codm22712
      @codm22712 11 місяців тому +3

      @@SewardWriter I mean that guy should be in jail tho but I guess it’s legal we’re op is

  • @carolday3381
    @carolday3381 11 місяців тому +63

    If the girlfriend didn’t officially break up with op then she was his girlfriend. They were still dating and adulting time. His now ex friend was just spouting nonsense trying to justify his backstabbing. They had been booking up the whole time guaranteed.

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 11 місяців тому +8

      Lol this is an aside, but booking up sounds like a librarian romcom term and I am so here for it.

    • @SewardWriter
      @SewardWriter 11 місяців тому +11

      Precisely. She cheated, friend betrayed the op, end of story. Neither deserve forgiveness. OP may have been off to his gf, but she double dipped behind his back.

    • @Eldritch-1
      @Eldritch-1 10 місяців тому +1

      He needs an STI test...

    • @TaleToast
      @TaleToast 6 місяців тому

      Exactly. If the girlfriend didn’t officially end the relationship, then they were still together, and it’s completely reasonable to consider her his girlfriend during that time. It sounds like the ex-friend was just trying to justify their actions and shift the blame. Given the situation, it’s likely that things were already strained, and their behavior was just an attempt to cover up their betrayal.

  • @leazimridaniels8552
    @leazimridaniels8552 11 місяців тому +38

    2nd story, NAH. Honestly, both of them were hurt by their parents and it almost hurt them both. I'm glad they are back together

  • @CrochetByRoseB
    @CrochetByRoseB 11 місяців тому +12

    I have an autoimmune disease that had symptoms start as a teenager. It took over 20 years and a broken beak to get a diagnosis. Every doctor said it was nothing and all in my head.

  • @legiontepes3474
    @legiontepes3474 11 місяців тому +122

    Story 2 shows how misandrist reddit is. Op tried for 3 years to get her to the doctor, he communicated, fought for the relationship and yet the redditors blame him. Nta. The wife is the ah for withdrawing and abandoning op.

    • @Jade-yx8uu
      @Jade-yx8uu 11 місяців тому +4

      Initially I was thinking that he was the ahole but then I heard how hard he tried to help her and yeah he is nta. But he has no right to be mad that she didn't tell him. He left her

    • @lastraven8575
      @lastraven8575 11 місяців тому +24

      ​@@Jade-yx8uu he seperated because he thought she had already checked out. This was the bad smell in the relationship the answer to everything wrong and you don't think he had the right to know? If someone doesn't want help you cant break yourself trying to help them.

    • @filo4000
      @filo4000 11 місяців тому +14

      it's a sad story, fuck the doctor who called her lazy

    • @burtugey
      @burtugey 11 місяців тому +10

      If it was a vice versa, they would have called him a man child etc

    • @projectjupiter5523
      @projectjupiter5523 11 місяців тому +3

      the details about how OP made doctors appointments and tried to improve the situation in a tangible way were only made in the edit to the original post, and I think that the comments were made before the edit. the original post only discusses how she seemed very tired and clearly unwell, and how this upset OP; the way he described his upset before the edit comes off as though he's utterly oblivious to her illness and is only concerned with the fact that she's too sick to be interested in or spend time with him - if you listen to the second post from 7:16 to 9:13 (stop before the edit) then you may understand how the commenters came to their conclusions

  • @azzafromtazza7744
    @azzafromtazza7744 11 місяців тому +14

    For Story #3, it sounded like OP wasn’t aware that he wasn’t fulfilling his duties as a boyfriend after they had made up, but even if if OP wasn’t being the best boyfriend, then the girlfriend should’ve either sat him down and have a serious conversation after the first attempt went nowhere, or just broken up with him instead of cheating on him.

    • @vvvjeko2397
      @vvvjeko2397 11 місяців тому +1

      It sounds like he was fufiling his duties and she is trying to manipulate him

  • @ChilliesNoLastName
    @ChilliesNoLastName 11 місяців тому +39

    "No! Boo this man! Boooo."

  • @Buldogg345
    @Buldogg345 11 місяців тому +53

    Story 3: Narrator? I like you a lot but I'm a little disappointed you tried to rationalize the cheating. IF and ONLY IF OP really wasn't a good partner, why didn't she talk to him like an intelligent human being? Why lie, betray him, and parade their relationship like that? OP dodged a bullet before things got worse. I see this a lot, both men and women working hard to build something and then their partner says "Oh, I felt neglected and he/she soothed me." Like b*tch, I was working so WE could build a future!!! In this case, trash took itself out. Hope OP is doing better.

    • @SewardWriter
      @SewardWriter 11 місяців тому +16

      Oh, boy, do I feel this. My ex-husband cheated while I was the only one bringing in an income. Unfortunately, I was dependent on him for health reasons. Miserable time, and it dropped my tolerance for cheating to somewhere below nil.

    • @Buldogg345
      @Buldogg345 11 місяців тому +7

      I'm really sorry this happened to you. I hope you're doing better now.

    • @SewardWriter
      @SewardWriter 11 місяців тому +6

      @@Buldogg345 TY. 💖 Let's just say it made me reflect, and I realised I REALLY prefer being single.

    • @ABadPassword
      @ABadPassword 11 місяців тому +7

      Hey there! I just wanna point out that I still didn't approve of what the girlfriend did. I just wanted to shine a light on something that may have been overlooked in the story - which was the *possibility* that OP may not have been as a good of a partner as he thought he was - on top of us already knowing the girlfriend wasn't a good partner.
      As for the second part, I don't feel like I was rationalizing the cheating but more so trying to *understand* it - which I don't think there's anything wrong with. Essentially boiling the commentary down to: OP may or may not have been a good partner (the girlfriend definitely not being a good partner), and if he was, then this may be the reason she cheated - despite it still being wrong.
      Thanks for commenting!

    • @Buldogg345
      @Buldogg345 11 місяців тому +10

      @@ABadPassword Two wrongs don't make a right. If OP was a bad partner (a possibility), why couldn't she talk about it? Like a normal person would? Why would the "friend" betray OP? That's one of the many problems with cheaters. They think that talking things through is a herculean task or something. I find it hard to find valid reasons why would anyone cheat. I know exceptions exist but think about it. They are risking a person's health, emotional stability, financials, reputation, and God knows what else. In what scenario are they not the bad guy? Or are they so dumb that they forget they can speak and end a relationship the right way?

  • @Astr0_Man
    @Astr0_Man 11 місяців тому +12

    story 2: OP isnt the AH and literally wnet back w her once they talked shit out. this is literally the case of childhood truama affectin relationships. bro literally tried so hard and needed a break bc her behavior was triggerin his truama. in my opinion, no one was the AH as they both did the best they could and based off of OPs lookin into therapy comment, ne
    iether of them went to therapy.
    story

  • @dragonstooth4223
    @dragonstooth4223 10 місяців тому +3

    Story 3: cheaters are always at fault. just leave the relationship if you want to cheat. doesn't matter if your partner chose to be a crappy partner, you could have ended it before cheating.

  • @SewardWriter
    @SewardWriter 11 місяців тому +20

    That poor kid in #1. Dubious (ahem) consent, birth control woes (ahem again), bullying from adults. I really hope she and her mom are in better straits now, and can have some peace and quiet.

  • @nikkihorn3852
    @nikkihorn3852 11 місяців тому +2

    This narrator/voice actor is one of my favorites.

  • @genevievemeuniere4047
    @genevievemeuniere4047 11 місяців тому +5

    To the story with the sick wife.
    My parents recently had a similar situation, my dad's old 72, and he had skin cancer last year and since they cut it out he started to degrade and get worse, get...old. Then he ate less and less and started to vegitate pretty terribly. He kept that stick up for half a year and just last week I accompanied him to the doctors office and the hospital. He had a blood poisoning from a newer skin cancer wound and was terribly dehydrated + some more things on the side.
    Short said, my mom sheduled appointments over appointments he never wanted to go to beuase he felt ill and weak, now he nearly died. He looks a lot better now but for real people.
    If you see something wrong with you - go to the doctor. please.
    My mom had to move to the couch and give my dad the silent treatment to convince him to finally go.

  • @IzzyPR2010
    @IzzyPR2010 11 місяців тому +10

    Story 4, when she finally contacted friend, "she said doesn't want to meet in person because I might just up and leave if another one of my family members gets hurt" should have gotten the response "if you gonna be like that then we are not friends anymore' . B thinks her ego is more important than the well being of Op's family.

  • @Chreative427
    @Chreative427 11 місяців тому +23

    Story 2 sounds like the wife had depression

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 11 місяців тому +9

      Close. She was definitely depressed, but it was moreso a side effect of other issues. This regular qttempts to diagnose and treat her depression would have failed.

    • @lastraven8575
      @lastraven8575 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@Maninawigif they went to therapy surely the therapist is trained to recognise signs of other illnesses though. It might have been diagnosed sooner

    • @Avrysatos
      @Avrysatos 11 місяців тому +3

      ​@@lastraven8575Not necessarily. They didn't for me.

    • @hennigadient4265
      @hennigadient4265 10 місяців тому

      I understand that her being tired was from having cancer- she got diagnosed now , but the cancer is sure growing since longer.
      its important to see first if there is something wrong in the body before diagnosing depression.

  • @empressmarowynn
    @empressmarowynn 11 місяців тому +28

    Nah dude, there is never an excuse to cheat. Even if the guy was a terrible boyfriend she should have just broken up with him instead of cheating. Your takes are usually pretty good but that justification was rubbish.

    • @ABadPassword
      @ABadPassword 11 місяців тому +6

      Hello! I clarified on this in super duper detail in response to another comment on here by ​Buldogg345 if you want the whole thing. But I'll summarize.
      I don't approve of cheating, never have, never will. You won't find a single video on this channel of me doing so. I simply wanted to understand *why* the girlfriend wanted to cheat and pondered over her mindset/reasoning. I wasn't giving her an excuse or pass to cheat, what I wanted, was to know why SHE justified cheating on her partner. Because cheaters will frequently give themselves a reason to justify it (which I never agree with).
      I believe she SHOULD have talked to her boyfriend or broken up with him if she was unhappy - like a rational person. Unfortunately, she didn't do that.

    • @vvvjeko2397
      @vvvjeko2397 11 місяців тому +3

      It sounds like he was not a bad boyfriend, she is just trying to manipulate him

  • @The_Nightsong
    @The_Nightsong 11 місяців тому +14

    God, the ex of the daughter is why I can't stand it when guys don't want to use a condom, but insist on having sex anyway, only to get all scared when a pregnancy happens. Like, what did they expect? Sex is how babies are made, just like breasts are meant to feed babies. It isn't just for fun or pleasure. If men were the ones getting pregnant, guys like this wouldn't hesitate to use protection. And age of consent in my country is 15, so in my culture, I see nothing wrong with her having sex. But the age-gap is concerning. Like, if the guy was 17 or so, it wouldn't be big deal. But what 20 year old wants a geniune relationship with someone so much younger than you? We also get tried as adults from 15, so 15 for us is like 18 for Americans. We come of age, actual adults (like Americans 21) at 18 though, can get married, move away from home, go out to drink, ect.

    • @tuckvison
      @tuckvison 11 місяців тому +1

      Condoms make sex feel like nothing, though. That guy being a predator was unrelated to the fact.

    • @The_Nightsong
      @The_Nightsong 11 місяців тому +3

      @@tuckvison well then, you need to deal with the consequences and step up. That guy was an a-hole in every way possible.

    • @tuckvison
      @tuckvison 11 місяців тому +1

      @@The_Nightsong Step up to what? I don't have any children lol.

    • @The_Nightsong
      @The_Nightsong 11 місяців тому +2

      @@tuckvison I didn't mean you literally 😛

    • @lastraven8575
      @lastraven8575 11 місяців тому +4

      In my country 16 is the age of consent and you can live on your own get married etc can't drink till 18 though. it's legal for 16 year olds to be with 80 year olds however it's not socially acceptable and will get a lot of dirty looks

  • @RaccoonImpact3rd
    @RaccoonImpact3rd 11 місяців тому +5

    Most reddit people saying to "do this", "do that" are the same type of people who would do the exact opposite if they are the ones who are put through the wringer. smh 😒

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 11 місяців тому +5

    In many places drs don't hear women and from what you said they were dismissive of her. Why should she continue to go to drs if they are just telling her she's lazy. Drs do that to women all the time and it's hard to struggle back
    From that

  • @farawayxgalaxy
    @farawayxgalaxy 6 місяців тому +1

    Story 2 just sounds so tragic. OP really really tried. But she had agency too. I hate the comments there. He seriously tried and cared, and obviously sounded like he was still in love and cares. The wife was spiraling, and there’s only so much you can do for someone like that. It honestly sounds like the separation is what gave her the kick to go to another doctor and get diagnosed!!! My heart broke when she said she didn’t want to sound manipulative by telling him as well because that’s 100% something I feel at times 😭😭😭
    I feel like no one was the A-Hole there. It was a really really unfortunate situation, but everyone is still there for each other.
    My heart breaks for all of them: and I really hope life gets better for them. Wishing them all the best 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @journeyofgrace68
    @journeyofgrace68 11 місяців тому +3

    Are the occupants of the second story nuts? The OP said that his wife had repeatedly rejected his attempts to assist her. Oh my, that annoyed me.

  • @WomanRoaring
    @WomanRoaring 11 місяців тому +4

    I have an autoimmune disorder that causes extreme fatigue and general pain. It’s so annoying and my parents were totally the, you’re just lazy kind of parents. As an adult I ended up with severe depression and highly functioning anxiety. Recently I finally got some meds that actually work and make me feel better mentally but I still have flare ups from the autoimmune disorder and the guilt I feel for being “lazy” is so annoying. Because of how my mom would ignore my pain as a kid and tell me I’m a hypocrite I ignored things for years. I almost died because of that. I ended up with blood clots in my lungs during Covid so I thought, I have Covid I’ll just stay home but when I couldn’t catch my breath after sitting for a half hour I realized it was time for the hospital. If I didn’t go to the hospital that night I would have died in my sleep. I am not ignoring things anymore and I’m finally going to the doctor and talking about everything and not ignoring little things.

  • @alexs2195
    @alexs2195 11 місяців тому +4

    jesus christ, the guy was living his life, his wife was not paying attention and was the entire day on tik tok, he asked her to go to doctor did do his things and helped her but no response, then he decided to ask for a divorce, then she goes to doctor and she discovers cancer and dint tell him... And now is th guy fault? He dint know, i did see people asking woman to divorce the guy for much less than that. Guy needs also needs to be a psychic

  • @kurotsuki7427
    @kurotsuki7427 11 місяців тому +2

    Im disapointed in the comments from the first update to story 2. But im glad they are communicating better now, at least for now. And ya, agree that the fatigue she finally opened up about sounds like a serious medical issue too.

  • @Avrysatos
    @Avrysatos 11 місяців тому +2

    Aw man... Screw medical gaslighting. it ends lives and relationships... I hope the couple with cancer get past that all.

  • @vvvjeko2397
    @vvvjeko2397 11 місяців тому +2

    5th story choosing friend over girlfriend because he knew her longer is just wrong

  • @iamalbertwesker2
    @iamalbertwesker2 11 місяців тому +4

    I love how American can't comprehend other counties have different AoC laws
    ETA before you all come at my throat AoC laws that are younger like Hungary and U.K. are in spirit for the people around the AoC. While yes it's legal for a 20 year old to sleep with a 15 year old, it'll get bombastic side eye because technically by word of the law it's legal. which is why I love Japan's AoC where while yes it's 13 (in some prefectures), the law basically has an age range of typically 2 up, 2 down (except obviously the youngest and 18+). They covered all the bases with their young AoC law

  • @mari.s752
    @mari.s752 6 місяців тому

    Sometimes not answering is an “I’m not entertaining this bs” silent statement and sometimes it’s not. It’s difficult to discern the difference.

  • @dianjordaan2924
    @dianjordaan2924 11 місяців тому +3

    Story at around 15:18 op is not the ass hole he wanted to take care of someone with cancer, that warms my hart, I lost my mother to cancer and I know two other people who lost or has some with cancer and it's a hard time

  • @mog-gyveroneill2500
    @mog-gyveroneill2500 8 місяців тому +1

    WTF???? 2nd story: are the commenters totally off their rockers??? What else was the fella supposed to do, become a mind reader?? If a doctor dismissed her symptoms, how was he to know?? In my opinion, from everything that was said, she's also accountable, for not telling him, etc.

  • @wmj1860
    @wmj1860 6 місяців тому

    As someone who has cheated in the past(I was dumb teen), there's absolutely no excuse for it, if it does happen then you NEED to tell your partner & go from there whether separately or together.

  • @mongviemong
    @mongviemong 8 місяців тому

    “My mom got accident.”
    “I dont care, my wedding more important!!”
    Brooo, if my friend said that Ill knock some sense on them 😂😂😂

  • @_lei_c_8138
    @_lei_c_8138 11 місяців тому +9

    I'm in love with this narrator's charisma XD

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 11 місяців тому +4

      I have a theory he's shy. Cause he definitely read this, but never comments on a compliment.

  • @Maninawig
    @Maninawig 11 місяців тому +8

    4:27 😂made my day!!!

    • @ABadPassword
      @ABadPassword 11 місяців тому +3

      sHe sPeLLeD iT LiKE tHiS, so I had to read it accurately 😂

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@ABadPasswordit is these creative moments you take that takes this channel from a guy reading reddit stories to the feeling of a friend sharing a crazy story he heard.
      It is also the reason the subscribers try calling you back whenever you're not voicing the stories.

    • @ABadPassword
      @ABadPassword 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@ManinawigThe vibe of "friend sharing a story" is almost exactly the goal we wanted when I got hired on, so I'm glad to see it's holding true!

  • @vvvjeko2397
    @vvvjeko2397 11 місяців тому +1

    3rd story it sounds like he is a food boyfriend but she is manipulating him

  • @rickynieves3144
    @rickynieves3144 11 місяців тому

    Even if it's the unplugged wedding of your best friend, an emergency is an emergency and any friend worth their salt would have been WAYYYY more concerned about the mother's condition and supporting her friend's need to leave immediately to be there for her mother in the HOSPITAL than for the sanctity of her unplugged rules. The bridezilla is a shitty friend and not at ALL like a sister. If my best friend's mom was in an accident and in the hospital, I would be offering to leave my own wedding to support my friend in the situation if she needed it, not turning on her. This person needs to cut her and everyone else who attacked her for the situation out of her life. These people are unbelievable.

  • @bethmoran6190
    @bethmoran6190 8 місяців тому

    There is no reason for cheating. If you feel the need to be with somebody else, just break up with your partner first have a little dignity.

  • @irishuisman1450
    @irishuisman1450 11 місяців тому +1

    there is never a good excuse for cheating. If you're unhappy in a relationship, _break up._ Don't string your partner along while sleeping with someone else behind their back. Yes, OP in story 3 was likely a bad bf, but the cheating is still entirely on the girlfriend. Even if your partner is neglectful to you, unless you officially declare the relationship over it's still cheating if you decide to become involved with someone else.
    Honestly, that story was just an ESH situation. OP was a bad/neglectful boyfriend, the girlfriend was a cheater, and the friend was a douchebag.

  • @CrackyFox
    @CrackyFox 10 місяців тому

    Story 1 - people are disgusting. Those moms should be sued for emotional damages.
    Story 2 - OP is not in the wrong. He tried until he had no more fuel, but stepped up more than most people would.
    Story 3 - Despite the circumstances there is NEVER any excuse to cheat. If you're attracted to someone else and you realise there is more of an attraction to the new person, get out of your relationship! Don't string someone along to not feel guilt and blame them for you being a tool.
    Story 4 - family emergencies are ALWAYS an excuse to get out of obligations. If the friend was understanding at all she would understand that the mother being in an accident and her sister giving birth are urgent (cannot be left until later) matter to attend to immediately. Friend is a poes.
    Story 5 - dude's an AH. No more words needed.

  • @v3ru586
    @v3ru586 7 місяців тому

    Story 2: I can confirm from experience that after being called lazy by medical and mental health professionals, it gets progressively more difficult to deal with yet another medical professional. It feels like running through doctors until I get a diagnosis you want, when in fact, you simply want to know why the things you were told would help don't do anything in the best case. So it's understandable that the wife refused appointments.
    I have ADHD btw, missed when I got it checked out on my own, my parents knew but were advised against treatment or support so I could "grow out of it"

  • @ItzPubby
    @ItzPubby 11 місяців тому +3

    you sitting there saying "what did he do for her to cheat" isnt a excuse, it doesnt matter and has zero bearing on her cheating. Zero excuse to do it.

    • @dman052470
      @dman052470 8 місяців тому

      He's already explained he isn't justifying it or her reasons. He is more interesting of the WHY she did it. WHY does she feels the reasons she gave make it seem ok in her mind. That is what he is asking. The thoughts in her head. He's stated many times in numerous videos, in this one, and more than one in the comment section that he believes cheating is wrong and it is always wrong, you should just break up and end thing than to cheat.

  • @autisticnation7140
    @autisticnation7140 5 місяців тому

    Cancer story: Trauma sometimes interacts like this. I have a trait from trauma that I am very open about my personal life with anyone who asks. My friend has trauma that makes her feel like she has to fix other people's problems to earn love even when that isn't asked of her. You can imagine how we have to be careful not to end up setting up bad presidents in the friendship.

  • @Itsmysecret17
    @Itsmysecret17 5 місяців тому

    Story 4 - you need to remove both the best and the friend from your life. There is no way that someone's life being at danger is less important than a wedding

  • @metal.gendalf
    @metal.gendalf 11 місяців тому

    Story 3:
    Sounds like the bf and "friend" have an open relationship without calling it a relationship.
    I'm sad and angry OP got played like that.

  • @vvvjeko2397
    @vvvjeko2397 11 місяців тому +1

    5th story, he is definetly cheating

  • @leadingauctions8440
    @leadingauctions8440 8 місяців тому

    Lol.
    Mother and daughter both like the same types of guys.

  • @TheOriginalReiChikita
    @TheOriginalReiChikita 11 місяців тому +1

    Story two not his fault cry about it she neglected herself refusing help ignoring appointments comments are wack

  • @TheGrandy123
    @TheGrandy123 11 місяців тому +2

    4:00 all my support...such a hard position. I dont know what I would do. A chart with the different options and pro and cons. If your country cant provide and it is too late for abortion, you only have the adoption left. Maybe some therapy to help your daughter go through that. Have you tried to discuss with the boyfriend's parents?? As it would be their grand child, they might want to help her to keep the child ??
    Maybe your daughter can stop school few years, put money aside and go back to school later or study at home. Yet it depends on what your country allows... Otherwise no idea. Good luck. May God help you all 😢

  • @JetsonAustin
    @JetsonAustin 11 місяців тому

    The 3rd story is ridiculous. There is no reason to cheat. She also blamed OP for her ignorant, hurtful act. I don't care if you were hurt by OP's lack of attention. Break up with him. She was spineless because she couldn't break up with him. The friend is a selfish spineless asshat.

  • @kriegsman1534
    @kriegsman1534 8 місяців тому

    Scary thought in my country, the age of consent is just 12 yo.

  • @vvvjeko2397
    @vvvjeko2397 11 місяців тому +1

    Story 2, she neglected him

  • @jacalynnepuder1172
    @jacalynnepuder1172 11 місяців тому +6

    Mr sparked, please go get some mint chocolate chip ice cream and enjoy

    • @ABadPassword
      @ABadPassword 11 місяців тому +3

      I'm more of a Brownie or Cookies and Cream guy, but ice cream is legit my favorite food. So I will very much enjoy lol

    • @YUN6_V3NUZ
      @YUN6_V3NUZ 11 місяців тому

      ​@@ABadPasswordhow bad is that password? "weak" bad, or "not creative, original, or funny" bad?

    • @ABadPassword
      @ABadPassword 11 місяців тому

      @@YUN6_V3NUZ I can't reveal all my secrets 😉

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 11 місяців тому

    I think op spent three years getting out his neglect, I don't think they talked much about the wife so he didn't have her history, because there wasn't enough time to talk about her trauma. If it had been a conversation from the start husband would have know.

  • @anitalogsdon6623
    @anitalogsdon6623 7 місяців тому

    Get off your high horse! He doesn't know what was wrong! If she didn't say anything, then how could he knows.....

  • @Zayashuku
    @Zayashuku 11 місяців тому

    Hmm. What makes me not like the narrative in Story 2: OP asked for the separation. But then immediately, goes to honor the wedding vows because the wife has cancer? That's what I don't like. He exited but still want to know all of this stuff? Feels like he's cross because he feels like he is owed the information (because you are married but you asked for a separation remember? That means spending time apart and that also means not knowing everything anymore. That's what was wished for, hello). If he feels so entitled to the information then *I* feel like he owes it to his wife to explain that her behavior reminds him of his traumatic childhood rather than dumping all of that shit on to strangers on the internet, then, for him to act surprised that his wife honors the separation HE asked for. That's what makes me not care too much for him. Reddit should be last resort. People post these stories and it's like they tell everyone they are NOT married to what the issue is, but never tell who they ARE married to. But ALWAYS want the spouse to communicate with them after the fact they spoil the relationship by being tight lipped in person but a fanfic writer on reddit. It's honestly no better than the gossip circles people condemn. Same shit different toilet at this point

  • @yuniwulandari3917
    @yuniwulandari3917 11 місяців тому

    No man keep any woman as trully just friend, unless they expect something will change. He loves that woman since longtime ago, they were only "friends" because she friendzone him. The second that woman open the door for him, he jumped in. Op better move on, man who really loves you never put you bellow any othet woman, especially when you tell him it makes you uncomfortable

  • @bethmoran6190
    @bethmoran6190 8 місяців тому

    Have you ever actually looked at the age of consent in the different states in the United States? They go as low as 12.

  • @JenniferJohnson-l3r
    @JenniferJohnson-l3r 11 місяців тому +1

    Story 1- why is mum on the couch when two perfect girl have a room each?

    • @m310grass
      @m310grass 11 місяців тому +4

      She wants her daughters to have their own rooms, something that is probably needed at that age, she’s putting her kids first and that’s admirable

  • @susioeandno1else
    @susioeandno1else 9 місяців тому

    2nd story- her screen time is 14-16 hours? Omg same... Am I lazy? Am I cancer?

  • @legiontepes3474
    @legiontepes3474 11 місяців тому +10

    Story 3: commenter you suck justifying cheating. Cheating has no excuse. If you are not happy, break up. Shame on you.

    • @ABadPassword
      @ABadPassword 11 місяців тому +1

      Hello! I clarified on this in super duper detail in response to another comment on here by ​Buldogg345 if you want the whole thing. But I'll summarize.
      I don't approve of cheating, never have, never will. You won't find a single video on this channel of me doing so. I simply wanted to understand *why* the girlfriend wanted to cheat and pondered over her mindset/reasoning. I wasn't giving her an excuse or pass to cheat, what I wanted, was to know why SHE justified cheating on her partner. Because cheaters will frequently give themselves a reason to justify it (which I never agree with).
      I believe she SHOULD have talked to her boyfriend or broken up with him if she was unhappy - like a rational person. Unfortunately, she didn't do that.

  • @fayboedecker2532
    @fayboedecker2532 11 місяців тому

    God word said that a man don't work don't eat. Humankind has been working since Adam.

  • @animetalk8132
    @animetalk8132 11 місяців тому +1

    S2 yea it sounded like they asked while to must of op like when you do everything and book appointments and other stuff. And your wife just says she's lazy and other stuff it's all you can do

  • @mooshimooshi3890
    @mooshimooshi3890 8 місяців тому

    Story about the ahole with the cancer and trying to blame op, op you are nta, you did what you could and anyone who says different need to shut the hell up, this woman did all she could to be a lazy then played victim card so everyone could hate on op, you dodged a bullet op, let her go and find someone who wont pray on your past trauma

  • @susioeandno1else
    @susioeandno1else 9 місяців тому

    Story 4- i would fake dna tests to show op's ex and his ap are half siblings and then spread it all over the internet... it doesn't matter if it's true but the rumour mill would call them incestuous freaks...
    I guarantee with enough snarky comments thrown their way they'd either break up forever or run away together... either way great vengeance

  • @yourlocalraven489
    @yourlocalraven489 4 місяці тому

    Story 1: Well. It would have been better if it would be adopted out, should it have been a viable pregnancy. The people in my generation are so stupid and can’t keep their legs closed.

  • @cherrypopscile3385
    @cherrypopscile3385 2 місяці тому

    If you arent happy in a relationship, don't sneak around and bang other people. LEAVE. EXIT. BREAK UP.
    Jesus h Christ people it isn't actually that hard

  • @TheGrandy123
    @TheGrandy123 11 місяців тому +2

    24:00 crappy friend...

    • @LunaP1
      @LunaP1 11 місяців тому

      She's a psychopath with control issues and can't stand not getting any attention. And she learned it from her mom who hates the world.

  • @Bella-hk3ds
    @Bella-hk3ds 11 місяців тому

    8:08 15:01 15:16 21:40 22:08 23:21 29:23

  • @therealzuxana
    @therealzuxana 11 місяців тому

    No respect 😞

  • @codm22712
    @codm22712 11 місяців тому +2

    Hi ppl

  • @_lei_c_8138
    @_lei_c_8138 11 місяців тому +2

    Macarena

  • @jorgeaguilar2615
    @jorgeaguilar2615 11 місяців тому

    Hell yeah cheating is awesome everytime

  • @thatsmoker7200
    @thatsmoker7200 10 місяців тому

    there isn't ever a reason for cheating

  • @PilloTheStar
    @PilloTheStar 8 місяців тому

    The comments in story 2 are the kinds of people who read one sentence of the post, ignore the rest of it, then go straight to the comments section.