How Stoicism Can Beat Your Social Media Addiction | Jonathan Haidt
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- Опубліковано 21 кві 2024
- Jonathan Haidt is the Thomas Cooley Professor of Ethical Leadership at New York University’s Stern School of Business. He obtained his PhD in social psychology from the University of Pennsylvania and taught at the University of Virginia for sixteen years. His research focuses on moral and political psychology, as described in his book The Righteous Mind. His latest book, The Anxious Generation, is a direct continuation of the themes explored in The Coddling of the American Mind.
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“The Coddling of the American Mind” is a must read! What a treat to see a video with Jonathan Haidt.
Seconded.
wonderful
What a great conversation between two great minds!
The Three Great Untruths:
(1) What doesn’t kill you makes you weaker.
(2) Always trust your feelings.
(3) Life is a battle between good people and evil people.
Concerning #3, I’m a big fan of Albert Ellis’ Unconditional Acceptance Framework. That is, to refrain from making global judgments (labeling) about other human beings. Instead, making specific judgments about one’s specific words, specific deeds and specific ideas. While communicating it with 100% respect and 100% honesty. That’s a big challenge for me!
I did not understand this part " What doesn’t kill you makes you weaker. " , are they agreeing on this or not ? .
@@bbbmark3226 The truth is: What doesn’t kill you makes you STRONGER. Adversity builds strength. The obstacle is the way.
"Freedom is the only worthy goal in life. It is won by disregarding things that lie beyond our control." - Epictetus
I think social media should be allowed at 18 and children need to experience resistance. Good conversation.
Ryan, can you start inserting timestamps into your vids?
“Remember when you are offended, are complicit in taking offense”
There are many money quotes in here but if I must choose one, it is this.
I really want your podcast to blow up. It would be nice to also have the episodes on Spotify.
I saw that you were speaking at the naval academy and visited the Maryland state house. I hope you enjoyed it here. I also hope to get to hear you speak one day. You and your work has helped me tremendously in growing as a person and even in my recovery from addiction. Thanks for what you do
Fantastic video. Very insightful. I love Jonthan Haidt. His calm cadence is incredible. Makes it so easy to listen to his fantastic ideas.
that shirt is a victory
Valuable insight as always thanks.
Great talk! You guys look like family members.
Very insightful. Thanks both.
Loved this interview.
Muy interesante. Intentaré recordar las tres gandes mentiras: 1. Lo que te hace daño te debilita. 2. Lo que sientes es real y 3. Hay gente buena y gente mala. Gracias a los dos
"THIS IS the picture!" 💯📷✨️
As a "curated addict of social networks" i would say that the awser is not only left social networks. Like other addictions, the pull will be too strong.
First i started to read a lot of fiction. The more i read the less need i have to go to social networks. So switching one addiction for another healthier thing.
The second thing is understanding that social networks are actually made to make us addicted, specially tiktok.
They have people just working on that. Understanding that twitter and facebook works just because people love to be right
I cold turkeyd everything but UA-cam, the censorship is so bad it's not worth it anymore so it's next. Probably start of summer, that seems like a good time to disconnect from UA-cam and reconnect with nature and myself.
@@troyrager1352 I dont see censorship on social networks, theres a lot of reasons to not use social networks but allow me to disagree, censorship is not one of them
@@hugoantunesartwithblender allow me to add, it depends what you enjoy talking about, comments are highly censored, content is highly censored, I experience it every single day on UA-cam, so do millions of others.
You two should run for VP + President; that's a ticket I would get excited for! Great talk, cool guys, and an important subject. Thank you both. ... *READ: "The Anxious Generation," and adhere to the four norms to solve our collective action problem!
I hope these guys understand that millions of us ain’t on twitter or Facebook or any social media deal.
It doesn’t interest us some of us in the least. My wife and I live very similar to how we grew up. Camping and other outdoor stuff are our life.
They seem to think keeping your phone off an hours a big deal?
These guys are the exact addicts they are talking about
Believe it or not, I have not seen a single man that knows to live life better than Ryan Holiday. He is the Übermensch that Nietzsche talks about.
Just found this podcast (or whatever we call it) cuz I was searching JH stuff...ya'll are tossing around books about stoicism...can you give us titles that you two talked about?
I wish Ryan would have allowed Jonathan to speak more. I really wanted to hear what HE had to say. 😢
Ryan, could you please repeat the name of the author of the book mentioned, The Stoic Challenge, I can’t quite make it out. Thanks
I think they said William B. Irvin. That author has written a book called "The Stoic Challenge". There is a book summary on UA-cam.
ua-cam.com/video/5Vubge9nh2Y/v-deo.html
So, if I delete my social media, how can I find the love of my life? I have been waiting to find it in person, but I just went back on social media because it’s been difficult to find it in person. Any advice from anyone ?
By being your own real self, have the all qualities you wish find in your partner on you because believe me there are a lot of people out there trying to find partners as well .the idea is not deleting social media but the usage of it. Consume social media as the great foul of your soul and brain. And spend sometimes reading, reading will enhance the way of your speaking which I have noticed that in my self. The other thing is, you may find your love of your life in social media, the idea here however , is to not be totally dependent on those tools to communicate and know the other person, you gotta communicate in reality with the person as well so you can see the body language which speaks a lot about the other person intention, I wish that helps!
@@sarah.moh22 this helps. Thank you!
Just like the video discussed it's about building habits first. focus on building the skill of dating: knowing your values and how to communicate them, being proactive and kind, respecting boundaries and taking it slow.
Engage with people directly. Coffee shop, book store ect. The internet will only show you what a person has curated for you to see. Meet people in real terms. Good luck.
He is so handsome!
Beware of the rigid systems.
Remember, Stoicism became popular when the Roman Empire was falling. It's a sign of stagnation. Read your Nietzsche! Liked and subbed to burst my anti-stoic bubble.
The guest seems to have a problem with waiting his turn to speak. It was kind of annoying to watch Ryan be interrupted out of impulse.
Otherwise, great pod. Definitely some great points.
35 comments???
Ok.
Judging by the way the interviewer stacks his books, I’ve concluded that he must be a lateral thinker.
He seems to really love to hear himself speak lol.
His voice does not match Jonathan, lmao
This dude was waiting to talk the entire time. He didn't listen to a word you said.
It's distracting when he keeps going "yeah, yeah, mmm yeah" when the other one is talking
"Neither the data nor reality support his position, and neither should you. Kids and mental health is a very complex issue, and Haidt’s solution appears to be, in the words of H.L. Mencken: clear, simple, and wrong." - Mike Masnick sums this guy up. Dont waste your time