Let's Get Vulnerable | Chloé Lukasiak

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  • Опубліковано 21 чер 2023
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 307

  • @cviolet7373
    @cviolet7373 Рік тому +410

    The people who are calling her perfect aren’t helping her feelings around perfectionism. Nobody is perfect and THAT IS OKAY. She is allowed to not be good at things, make mistakes, etc. that’s human and that’s beautiful

    • @jenniferhalf1650
      @jenniferhalf1650 Рік тому +1

      My opinion. Get over it!!

    • @jennaspencer460
      @jennaspencer460 Рік тому +15

      @@jenniferhalf1650 it is your option and that’s okay but again it is NOT helping her and her mental health journey.

    • @user-zp5ls5ve7u
      @user-zp5ls5ve7u Рік тому

      @@jenniferhalf1650exactly

    • @user-zp5ls5ve7u
      @user-zp5ls5ve7u Рік тому

      @@jenniferhalf1650it is your opion

    • @theredcupcake
      @theredcupcake Рік тому

      @@user-zp5ls5ve7u
      opion?

  • @Elizabeth-xf7yu
    @Elizabeth-xf7yu Рік тому +693

    I think you should write about your experience as a child on a reality show. Not something you publish, just something for you. If you do it for yourself you don't have to worry about hurting feelings, you can just purge all of your feelings. Under the circumstances, it had to be something that impacted your life both negative and positive.

    • @SpencerSalt
      @SpencerSalt Рік тому +11

      I would read this book! This is such a good idea!

    • @OhCrumbs96
      @OhCrumbs96 Рік тому +34

      ​@@SpencerSaltI don't think that was the point.

    • @SpencerSalt
      @SpencerSalt Рік тому +3

      @@OhCrumbs96 oh, sorry :(

    • @kayluvsmusic1121
      @kayluvsmusic1121 Рік тому

      yes i constantly write letters and poetry etc of my raw emotions for therapy. it helps a lot to just put it all out there and give it to someone like my therapist who doesnt judge and wants to help. i ❤ therapy everyone should do therapy

    • @alyssagreene9210
      @alyssagreene9210 Рік тому +1

      ​@@kayluvsmusic1121 I really want to but I'm flat broke 😩 I wasnt allowed to do therapy as a kid because my parents took it personally and felt they did something wrong, but I'm 18 now trying to get away from all of it, im lost if I'm being honest :/

  • @samiemily7467
    @samiemily7467 Рік тому +513

    I’m glad you spoke about this.. a lot of ppl like to force the dance mom cast to speak on the show. Some are comfortable but others are of course not. I really appreciate you being vulnerable and open to us.. NEVER feel forced to participate or speak on something that truly makes you uneasy💘

    • @mevdjemal
      @mevdjemal Рік тому +6

      Any
      Ppl on tiktok still bombard her woth questions about the show and she don't even wanna talk bout it

    • @paulocosta795
      @paulocosta795 Рік тому +2

      She spoke about nothing, the whole video was made as an ad for better help. She just needed to get paid

  • @oddlyoptimistic
    @oddlyoptimistic Рік тому +73

    You managed to remain kind despite you being treated harshly throughout your adolescence. You're impressive for the right reasons that can't be taught, your heart is good

  • @donnalee2112
    @donnalee2112 Рік тому +139

    You Miss Chloe, are a pure Soul, it shone through when you were a child, and you Shine so bright as an adult. Thank you for just being Chloe. Xo

    • @leahlor
      @leahlor Рік тому +2

      Ugh literally I love her 😭

  • @Theglortube
    @Theglortube Рік тому +184

    I’m shocked you girls weren’t offered therapy automatically…a lot of shows in the uk give their cast therapy because they understand how difficult it can be mentally…and that’s for adults. Kids need it more!

    • @corimoon3360
      @corimoon3360 Рік тому +8

      They were offered therapy but it wasn’t the best therapy

  • @ccrew22
    @ccrew22 Рік тому +32

    You are probably the one member of the Dance moms crew that has been open and vulnerable about this ❤ You're amazing.

  • @relaxitsokay
    @relaxitsokay Рік тому +44

    i just watched maddie’s podcast with emrata, I’m so proud of both of these girls and the way they’re opening up and feel valid to talk about it

  • @carolinealson2164
    @carolinealson2164 Рік тому +9

    Thank you so much for this, I want to talk to someone, but I was always too scared. Your voice is so soothing, and you seem so kind. ❤

  • @georgiaemily
    @georgiaemily Рік тому +1

    I’ve had things come up recently that I thought I was healed from but haven’t as well. I think it’s the universe telling us it’s time to heal and start a new life chapter. It’s the best feeling when you get to the other side!

  • @violetkessler8925
    @violetkessler8925 Рік тому +21

    Thank you for being real! You are a very very kind person and people really appreciate how open you are! On another note, those cookies looked SO GOOD!

  • @sheameg
    @sheameg Рік тому +43

    growing up with you has probably been one of my fav things about my life :) we are the same age and i just feel like we always go through the same things around the same time. everytime u said "if that makes sense" or "I'm not making sense" i totally understood you! love seeing vulnerable chlo bird, and love you endlessly girl

  • @gracemiller3861
    @gracemiller3861 Рік тому +1

    I am happy you're in a place where you feel ready and better equipped to address and process what happened to you. it's ok that you weren't and I'm glad you had therapists who didn't force you to confront that when you weren't ready. I think it's important to remember that you will probably have to grieve many aspects of the things that you went through and grief is a process of processing that sometimes doesn't end. That doesn't mean you will always be unable to think about it or you will constantly be sad, but rather there will be things that sting to think about and there will be days where you feel more sad about what happened. Don't expect yourself to be completely "healed" or to feel one way or another about your experiences. It's ok to be mad, angry, happy, sad, resentful, or whatever emotions you feel. Wishing you the best of luck in your healing journey!

  • @bellapell9026
    @bellapell9026 11 місяців тому +4

    I’m so happy to know that all of the people from dance moms are still OK I love you guys ❤ you guys were amazing dancers and it’s really OK. Some people left dance moms when they wanted to.

  • @tiffaniholcomb3633
    @tiffaniholcomb3633 Рік тому +15

    Chole your such an inspiration & don’t ever feel like you can’t ask for help when ya need it, asking for help makes you a stronger person! Your so beautiful don’t ever forget these things honey❤

  • @heyheyheyheyhey269
    @heyheyheyheyhey269 Рік тому +2

    chloe you are my favorite from dance moms i am on season 7 on the witches cauldron dance episode and im literally watching the group dance rn and you are absolutely incredible i give u so much credit for all those years you delt with abby and u slayed coming back to the girls and winning EVERY SINGLE NUMBER you did with MVP ( or mbp ? im not sure oop) but anyway keep doing what you’re doing you are incredible and such a happy and bright person

  • @amaalladha1657
    @amaalladha1657 Рік тому +144

    Heads up that Better help has caused a lot of harm by not screening for licensed counselors/therapists. Much love to you though Chloe!

    • @carenarizzotti4935
      @carenarizzotti4935 Рік тому

      ive heard only horror stories and they aren't HIPAA compliant and were selling patients data... there are def way better legit ones out there thx for pointing it out!!

  • @kenedidipietra5115
    @kenedidipietra5115 Рік тому +4

    I loved this. Thanks for sharing 🥹💜 you are so genuine

  • @danascheidt2731
    @danascheidt2731 Рік тому +1

    You are one of the most well rounded grounded young ladies ever... I adore your sweet and gentle mannerisms and seem to still have a lovely relationship with your mother. Keep doing you friend 😊

  • @emilylloydcontu
    @emilylloydcontu 10 місяців тому +1

    im so glad that you talk openly about it. You and brooklinn have helped me so much and continue to inspire others to not be afraid to speak out. If you need it, seel help. I promise its okay and it doesnt make you weak. Its normal, and okay.

  • @marleefayez9118
    @marleefayez9118 Рік тому +7

    Hi Chloe, love the content! Please film more makeup videos! I love the authentic lifestyle vibes

  • @morrisonhannah
    @morrisonhannah Рік тому +29

    I relate so much to this. It's interesting how you really do tell yourself that it's fine and a certain traumatic or all-consuming thing in childhood didn't affect you in the few years after it, but I think after a certain point that defense mechanism breaks down and it gets crazy... growing up I guess! Much love

  • @pinkdoggo6224
    @pinkdoggo6224 Рік тому +1

    I hope things get better for you luv u chloe

  • @kyribun
    @kyribun Рік тому +8

    you've been such an inspiration to me

  • @April_Song
    @April_Song Рік тому +15

    Hey Chloe! Your videos are so genuine and refreshing to see amongst a huge crowd of extra/fake content! Love you~

  • @emmawills4112
    @emmawills4112 Рік тому

    You’re really a cool person. I enjoy just hearing you talk about what you’re up to. :)

  • @fannychmelar3574
    @fannychmelar3574 Рік тому

    I 100% get what your saying. ❤ letting yourself feel everything is the first step to processing. Well done!
    You seem lighter.
    Also have to say, from my childhood I also developed perfectionist tendencies, and telling myself it was ok to make mistakes and not be perfect was life changing. In fact it’s good for you and makes life way funner. Keep going your doing amazing.
    Love your videos.

  • @theredcupcake
    @theredcupcake Рік тому

    chloe, you deserve a million hugs!! ❤❤

  • @thestubbins138
    @thestubbins138 Рік тому +27

    Glad you’re figuring stuff out, and I’ve also been dealing with perfectionism for most of my life so what you said made perfect sense. I constantly have to tell myself when I’m trying something new or making art etc…. that it’s ok to make mistakes and that we have to fail before we can get better.

  • @yoodlepoodle69
    @yoodlepoodle69 Рік тому

    I LOVE YOU SO MUCH CHLOE PLEASE LOVE YOURSELF YOURE AMAZING ❤

  • @Cooww
    @Cooww Рік тому

    Tysm for this and I’m so happy u posted❤

  • @beckyh1802
    @beckyh1802 Рік тому +1

    You are aloud to do things just for the fun and experience, your doing great! No one is perfect and that should def be shown more! Just be yourself ❤

  • @queenroyale
    @queenroyale Рік тому +25

    chloé, your videos are so relaxing. its amazing that you've come to the realization that it's okay to lean on others when you need it. keep you, and keep being the wonderful person you are 🤍

  • @nicolebenton9090
    @nicolebenton9090 Рік тому +2

    So proud of you ❤

  • @mevdjemal
    @mevdjemal Рік тому +2

    Love this chloe
    Ur amazing
    Ty 4 being u queen
    Such a great role model ❤

  • @celesterodriguez9135
    @celesterodriguez9135 Рік тому +1

    I love her so much❤❤

  • @hollyblackwell6919
    @hollyblackwell6919 11 місяців тому

    You have such a beautiful soul Chloe

  • @JamesRocks920
    @JamesRocks920 Рік тому

    You’re amazing Chloe ❤

  • @goofball2228
    @goofball2228 Рік тому +7

    I love you Chloe. You’re so beautiful and you are such a talented dancer. It’s ok to not be perfect because nobody is.

  • @katelynmorgan2621
    @katelynmorgan2621 Рік тому +2

    I love you Chloe and you will always be one of my favorites ❤

  • @briellegirl4875
    @briellegirl4875 Рік тому +2

    Hey Chloe this is my first time realizing you have a UA-cam channel! And I just wanted to know I’m your biggest fan because you were my favorites dancer in dance moms I love you!

  • @elmostourguide
    @elmostourguide Рік тому +2

    chloe i love your videos they calm me down alot, ❤️

  • @elsie26
    @elsie26 Рік тому

    chloe, you are such a beautiful, kind young woman with such a pure heart, both as a child and now. you deserve all the best

  • @buriedinthestars
    @buriedinthestars Рік тому +2

    i love your videos, they mean so much

  • @Liv_Laugh_Lovex
    @Liv_Laugh_Lovex Рік тому +4

    Chloe is the definition of beautiful 🫶🏼

  • @jlkraynik2
    @jlkraynik2 Рік тому +31

    girl as a fellow perfectionist, you make perfect sense to me when it comes to following through with doing something you enjoy

  • @BexleyBug1214
    @BexleyBug1214 Рік тому +1

    You an amazing person and a inspiration I am 13 and have been a dancer for 10 years and finally get to perform at Disneyland with my performance team thank you for being inspiring

  • @camrentoorealcam8437
    @camrentoorealcam8437 Рік тому +1

    Love your content Chloe! Keep it up! 💖 Greetings from MX 🇲🇽

  • @jenniferclancey2514
    @jenniferclancey2514 Рік тому +9

    Keep it up Chloe. Your videos are awesome

  • @user-mw8do3ck9z
    @user-mw8do3ck9z 11 місяців тому

    I love you so much Chloe 💕💕

  • @Jennalover-4
    @Jennalover-4 Рік тому +1

    she was my favriot on dance moms and she still is

  • @ZoeyTaylor-wl9kk
    @ZoeyTaylor-wl9kk Рік тому

    Chloe I’ve been your big fan since you were in dance moms! I LOVE YOU

  • @catied2319
    @catied2319 Рік тому

    I LOVE U SO MUCH YOUR LIKE THE BEST!you made me get though hard times ur so nice and caring! I hope you have a good future,day,week,year,!

  • @5starspamzzzzz
    @5starspamzzzzz Рік тому

    I love your videos Chloe!

  • @ariannapeterson1195
    @ariannapeterson1195 Рік тому +1

    I love you Chloe. You and all the other girls from dance moms are sooooo strong. I promise girly you can get through anything. You've put up with Abby lee miller I know you can face any mountain out there after facing that avalanche.

  • @TennisballAnimations
    @TennisballAnimations Рік тому

    I'm so happy ur back🪻

  • @jessieliana
    @jessieliana Рік тому +11

    I couldn’t even handle the stress of seeing an abusive dance teacher yelling at kids with adults not stopping it and continuously letting it happen so i had to stop watching. I cant even imagine going through it!!

  • @dasilvalara188
    @dasilvalara188 Рік тому +2

    We def should have one "Cooking with Chloe" 💝

  • @kacimclaughlin4445
    @kacimclaughlin4445 Рік тому

    GIRL SLAY YOUR DANCES I LOVED THE BLACK SWON DANCEE

  • @moirahazel5805
    @moirahazel5805 Рік тому

    ily chlo

  • @Adi-mf1fv
    @Adi-mf1fv Рік тому

    I love that you trusted your supporters enough to talk about this. You were a child on that show. You have grown so much and are doing completely different things, so I wish you didn’t have to hear about it so much. I’m so glad you’re planning for therapy tho!! Try to be as open as you can so you can get the full help you need. We love you Chloe! So many people stand behind you 🫶🏼
    Btw for anyone reading this, you are loved and you MATTER 🤍

  • @Nataliemcfarland
    @Nataliemcfarland Рік тому

    omg chloe i love you so much i just lost my grandpa and i ❤ you and you were amazing on dance moms i love you and im 10 years old my grandpa died from heart attack and i am speechless right now you are my idoli can’t tell you how much i love you❤❤

  • @xlilirae
    @xlilirae 5 місяців тому

    I love how she talks to us like we’re her friends.

  • @speechlessedits6432
    @speechlessedits6432 Рік тому

    She is my comfort UA-camr like to the point I go insane when I don’t watch these vids to Iv watched this three times this is my third 😀

  • @krista3446
    @krista3446 Рік тому

    I love your style

  • @shirleybartolo59
    @shirleybartolo59 Рік тому +2

    Practice makes perfect just have fun baking sweetie 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

  • @Alessandra-xk7ss
    @Alessandra-xk7ss 10 місяців тому

    omg this girl is so pretty ong

  • @jaclynjackson6388
    @jaclynjackson6388 Рік тому

    Lysm Chloe remember your so amazing💖🥹🫶🏻

  • @lvega5606
    @lvega5606 Рік тому +1

    As soon as I saw the title and a candle being lit, I knew this was a disguised commercial for BetterHelp.

  • @slaybaddiethe
    @slaybaddiethe 11 місяців тому

    Love u Chloe ❤

  • @CassGaff
    @CassGaff Рік тому +10

    How it instantly brought up tears shows what a trauma it was for you and your response was immediately to tell people that it didn’t affect you is a trauma response. Be gentle with yourself. ❤❤

  • @gracie9256
    @gracie9256 Рік тому +1

    Omg same with the cookies, I don’t like to much chocolate chips, most people do so I just thought I was weird

  • @rosaliriosa
    @rosaliriosa 11 місяців тому

    off topic but i love the aesthetic of your videos 🌼🥺💕

  • @mikeymadisonswife
    @mikeymadisonswife Рік тому

    ILYY

  • @donutpuff144
    @donutpuff144 Рік тому

    Chloe! I love youuuu

  • @Katerinalime1
    @Katerinalime1 Рік тому

    Love this vib

  • @Its.daisy.xoxo.
    @Its.daisy.xoxo. 10 місяців тому

    yet your still kind 💗

  • @susymartinez986
    @susymartinez986 11 місяців тому

    i love watching your videos love you

  • @wakeupitsnya
    @wakeupitsnya Рік тому +1

    Youre so cool I look up to you ily chloe

  • @rody1152
    @rody1152 Рік тому

    Girl your so pretty

  • @bellamarquis8753
    @bellamarquis8753 Рік тому

    I have a long drive to work and it’s helped me so much in terms of reflection 😂

  • @AlinaBorcea-sn9mq
    @AlinaBorcea-sn9mq Рік тому

    this happened to me, my friend in summer camp. We were together the whole year and we were best friends and then at the end of the day at summer camp, and we had to leave each other forever.

  • @laylagaston3364
    @laylagaston3364 11 місяців тому

    She looks like her mom ❤

  • @user-ob5qr5bq5m
    @user-ob5qr5bq5m Рік тому +1

    You were always my favorite in dance moms Chloe

  • @IHeartCats.345
    @IHeartCats.345 11 місяців тому

    I just found your audition video for dance moms from 12 years ago😭❤

  • @malaikajamil8107
    @malaikajamil8107 Рік тому

    Omgg choleee ❤❤❤❤

  • @Hearts4viv
    @Hearts4viv Рік тому

    Hi Chloé! ❤

  • @Team_bEllY
    @Team_bEllY Рік тому +1

    First,and omg I love you so much ❤(your so pretty 😢)

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa Рік тому +1

    Hi Chloe good morning happy Friday morning and happy weekend and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

  • @Eviehoughton6696
    @Eviehoughton6696 11 місяців тому

    You are my fav dancer from dance moms I love your turns and everything about you your even on my lock and home screen

  • @bigstronkgorl2138
    @bigstronkgorl2138 Рік тому

    I really like your style

  • @OliviaRodrigo4Lifes
    @OliviaRodrigo4Lifes Рік тому

    You are so pretty 😍💗!!!

  • @meredithyoung186
    @meredithyoung186 Рік тому +2

    giiiiirl you should talk to a therapist about it! WE LOVE YOU.

  • @burkieeggertsen98
    @burkieeggertsen98 Рік тому

    It Chloe I was on UA-cam and I see this video and know I so happy and she is so pretty

  • @LIL_P2006
    @LIL_P2006 11 місяців тому

    Man do i miss you being on dance moms. You looks so pretty!

  • @justinfelt748
    @justinfelt748 Рік тому +2

    Hi, Chloe! Welcome to the second season of Summer!😊😊😊😊😊💙💙💙💙💙💙🌷💖💖💖💖💖💖🎇👍. Those chocolate chip cookies looks delicious!😍⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐👍

  • @Rohansbabymama
    @Rohansbabymama Рік тому

    What curling iron is that? It works so good

  • @navaehlovesyouu
    @navaehlovesyouu Рік тому +2

    chloe, u dont know how much i missed u since u have left dance moms. i know that u came back later in the seasons, but after u left in s4 (i think) i had stopped watching dance moms completely. im so suprised that u have a youtube channel!! super excited to explore moremof ur channel!! u are such a huge inspiration to me and my little sister. we love youu!!! 💓🥂

  • @venuskane4796
    @venuskane4796 Рік тому

    im so happy for you, that you have come to this place where you realize what you need and that you have the tools to better yourself. i wish you the best chloe

  • @KAYLANIMALIBU
    @KAYLANIMALIBU Рік тому

    Hey chole u prop don't know be but ur my idol and I just want to say the tho your amazing and believe in your self bc your self is amazing I will never stop like you ❤❤