Parenting an LGBTQ Kid | an Interview with Anjali's Mom

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  • @aanyaprasad6120
    @aanyaprasad6120 4 роки тому +767

    Gay, straight, or bi; we all have one thing in common:
    the whatsapp family group chat

  • @anukritikandpal
    @anukritikandpal 5 років тому +2611

    "Whatever you decide it's your life" We need more moms like her😭

  • @aroojyaqub6200
    @aroojyaqub6200 5 років тому +2211

    Your Mom wins the coolest Desi Mom in the world award 🥇

  • @amanpreetbhogal8646
    @amanpreetbhogal8646 5 років тому +1505

    Anjali’s smile is EXACTLY like her mom’s

  • @babalove8676
    @babalove8676 5 років тому +938

    I wanna be her daughter. Anjali is the luckiest she got the best gf and the best mom in the world ❤❤❤

  • @idksamir
    @idksamir 4 роки тому +155

    i think most brown parents don't actually have a problem with many things but they're so worried abt what people think they put that first

  • @dimple7531
    @dimple7531 5 років тому +457

    “Google it”. Her mom is such an icon lol 😂❤️

  • @jayw8726
    @jayw8726 4 роки тому +140

    So many girls and guys commenting "I wish I had a mom like that!" is not just a wish, it is a cry for a breath of freedom and a pinch of understanding! And I share it with y'all!!!
    I wish my mom was like that! *sigh*

  • @farahkhan9794
    @farahkhan9794 4 роки тому +284

    "Log kya kehngey" has genuinly ruined my life

    • @Kafilashayar
      @Kafilashayar 4 роки тому +15

      "Logo ka kaam h kehna"

    • @farhanajesminmomo6827
      @farhanajesminmomo6827 4 роки тому +6

      Logon ka kam hai kehna, so unko kehne de na.
      Kan maat lagana.. Jo bhi man karegi karte reh na.😁😁😁

    • @aiqqi1593
      @aiqqi1593 4 роки тому +2

      Jaldi se koi lesbian dhund Lo. Aur ruin nahi hoga fir kuch b

    • @funnyvideos-rh5yg
      @funnyvideos-rh5yg 4 роки тому +2

      Suno to sirf apne man or dil ki

    • @jayw8726
      @jayw8726 4 роки тому

      So relatable!!! 😂

  • @aishwaryaaish6634
    @aishwaryaaish6634 5 років тому +754

    Sufi looks like female version of zayn malik

    • @mahamsarchive
      @mahamsarchive 5 років тому +9

      broooo frrr

    • @anjuanpanman
      @anjuanpanman 5 років тому +19

      Both are extremely gorgeous people

    • @vishakap6436
      @vishakap6436 5 років тому +36

      she kind of looks like Sonam Kapoor :)

    • @mahamsarchive
      @mahamsarchive 5 років тому +1

      @@vishakap6436 omgggg wow

    • @nibaa1213
      @nibaa1213 5 років тому +9

      like zayn's sister who was in that music video

  • @Varzie
    @Varzie 5 років тому +117

    I'd literally give anything for my mother to be this accepting of my relationship and be this loving about it, I love seeing this

  • @skk3465
    @skk3465 5 років тому +59

    "posted on family what's app group" so confident and badass! ICON i swear ! It is amazing to see desi parents stand up for their kids and not fall for pressure of the relatives . This made me smile and feel so positive . Thank you anjali and sufi

  • @juliakrystal19
    @juliakrystal19 5 років тому +105

    so happy for Sufi as well she is being welcomed so wholeheartedly and warm!

  • @harshawijayskumar6620
    @harshawijayskumar6620 5 років тому +84

    The way Nadita aunty looks at Sufi and Anjali is too cute!

  • @SelflessAngels
    @SelflessAngels 5 років тому +151

    I love this video !! Mama Chakra is so chill and the presence of a Desi Mother in the LGBT+ community is so refreshing. I love how accepting she is not just through her words but her actions. ❤🌈

  • @nickyv4904
    @nickyv4904 5 років тому +297

    Forwarding this to my mom who still isn’t comfortable with my sexuality. 🙈

    • @duff3879kazak
      @duff3879kazak 5 років тому +19

      Nikhitha V if you haven’t already, show this video too to your mom, one of the sweetest and powerful speech ever in a wedding
      ua-cam.com/video/a94cR4f3BRM/v-deo.html

    • @anjuanpanman
      @anjuanpanman 5 років тому +6

      Wow! 😂

    • @laraice2269
      @laraice2269 5 років тому +7

      Haha.... Nice idea😀👍

    • @Bookworm-u7j
      @Bookworm-u7j 5 років тому +4

      Did you tell your mom about your mom?

    • @mahimashree717
      @mahimashree717 4 роки тому +1

      Same

  • @lassam333
    @lassam333 5 років тому +53

    Anjali's mom is the sweetest. Great to see how parents should react. So nice to see how Anjali's mother and Sufi bonded, even if that means that Anjali is getting "bullied" by then. I also love the way Anjali's grandmother reacted.

  • @taro_yuan4607
    @taro_yuan4607 5 років тому +67

    "Whatever you decide it's your life. It's not my life." - That's exactly what I wanna say to my mom! Imma translating this video and show her! Love from China

  • @SaloniNahar
    @SaloniNahar 5 років тому +87

    “No one can really judge your confidence” 😭❤️

  • @pewpew5084
    @pewpew5084 5 років тому +97

    This so heartwarming:( she is so nice and educated

  • @sufisania2345
    @sufisania2345 5 років тому +256

    I am glad that at least one family has started to accept her(as a gay girl).this thing makes Sufi strong as well.At least these two have got a family now.♥️

    • @qarishmasolanki7819
      @qarishmasolanki7819 4 роки тому +1

      Not one family,sm r there BT they just don't cm out

    • @misskirsty3026
      @misskirsty3026 4 роки тому +1

      Qarishma Solanki she meant anjali's and Sufi families..not the other people out there!

  • @dpikavashisht9197
    @dpikavashisht9197 5 років тому +67

    She's the coolest mom ever such an adorable person

  • @emonypemony
    @emonypemony 5 років тому +29

    we love a supportive, open minded, and gorgeous MAMA omg she looks like ur sister

  • @irenesbae8233
    @irenesbae8233 5 років тому +26

    Literally the best aunty or mom award goes to Anjali's Mom.

  • @ceciliaquiban7983
    @ceciliaquiban7983 4 роки тому +14

    Mom says: Sufi, you look like a pretty scared mouse, ...So cute message from a Mom who really understands the relationship of her loving daughter. I love it.

  • @Rosesbaby
    @Rosesbaby 4 роки тому +48

    I’m really late but please Tell your mom thank you so much. Even tho she’s not my mom just the way she presented herself and talked about LGBTQ and how caring and accepting she was really helped with my anxiety in coping with the fact that I am as well and that even tho we have hateful people that there’s still good wholesome human beings like your mom out there and that it’s not so scary coming out. I LOVE you guys thank you so much and your beautiful amazing mother 💜 may you guys be blessed with love and happiness forever

  • @iropeach
    @iropeach 5 років тому +27

    This makes me feel so happy and hopeful, I really hope my mom is as accepting too.

  • @Nightloque
    @Nightloque 5 років тому +116

    I live for that blooper!!! 😂
    Also, Nandita aunty is so cool!❤️ Desi moms, inse seekho

  • @rabiajafferi1346
    @rabiajafferi1346 5 років тому +80

    Anjali’s side profile is just 🤩

  • @monikaarora7593
    @monikaarora7593 5 років тому +134

    I wish my mom accepted me like anjali's mom did :)

  • @hadiyah3054
    @hadiyah3054 5 років тому +72

    Anjali’s mom is actually so cool!! It’s refreshing to hear about a coming out story where you were accepted and how Sufi was able to connect to her family. Bro this gives me hope for when I come out ...eventually lmaoooo. 😭😂

  • @goldenskal
    @goldenskal 4 роки тому +7

    Ahhhhh please keep posting! It's so rare to find western-desi youtubers that I can relate to!

  • @td1574
    @td1574 2 роки тому +6

    her answers were not normal mom answers. shes so supportive and loving. if only all parents were like her

  • @irenesbae8233
    @irenesbae8233 5 років тому +52

    You know what makes me so happy is seeing all this supportive comments from Muslim people. It makes me so happy and gives me hope.

  • @leiloca96
    @leiloca96 5 років тому +6

    the way mama chakra put her hand on top of sufi's when she was kind of hanging there really shows how she's comitted to making sufi part of the family, even with the smallest things... you make a lovely family, sending the best wishes for 2020 for the three of you and everyone coming in here with love 💜

  • @kushp7923
    @kushp7923 5 років тому +155

    This is the best thing to watch on a years first day ... My first video of the year ...
    More love and power to you girls ❤ 💕

  • @Sherish_Syed
    @Sherish_Syed 5 років тому +87

    She is beautiful your mom btw❤️💕

  • @gjeniazelia388
    @gjeniazelia388 5 років тому +3

    Wow your mom is seriously a goddess! It's literally impossible to focus on anything but her beauty, she's one of the most stunning woman I've ever seen. But what makes this even more amazing is that she's got brains to back up that beauty, she's such an amazingly intelligent woman! She's well spoken, articulate, non judgemental, & so wise. What a human, what a human I say. You're so lucky to have her as a mother.

  • @tgwthfy
    @tgwthfy 5 років тому +10

    Your mom seems so chill, i wish I had someone like her close to me

  • @brianchua4240
    @brianchua4240 5 років тому +57

    It's awesome to see Anjali's mom be very supportive of you both!
    Love you 2!!
    And Happy New Year! :D

    • @padma5289
      @padma5289 5 років тому

      It s awesome to Anjali mom supportive of you both love guys and happy New Year indi

  • @christagrant6901
    @christagrant6901 4 роки тому +5

    I'm so proud of you two. I lived in southern state in USA. Where gays are hated because it the bible belt. At 48 i came out. Your two different religions. You are strong. I'm so glad I heard of your story. It gives me hope. All anyone wants is love. Thank you both and mom for this. Show the world love comes in many forms.

  • @sufisania2345
    @sufisania2345 5 років тому +71

    Stop being so cute SUFI♥️

    • @zoyaz7943
      @zoyaz7943 4 роки тому +2

      sufi and anjali both are you so cute
      i want to see you together

  • @aprilmartinez4253
    @aprilmartinez4253 5 років тому +22

    Wish everyone was blessed to have such supportive parents❤️

  • @amalFkrh25
    @amalFkrh25 5 років тому +9

    WHY IS HER MOM SMILING LIKE THATTTTT😭😭😭 I WANNA CRY

  • @khiethkilser9812
    @khiethkilser9812 5 років тому +50

    It's 2020 now,. Hopefully i can came out now and my family accept me for who am i,. And hope i had mom like anjali that fully accepted her😍😍😍

    • @dollyg4177
      @dollyg4177 5 років тому +1

      hey all the best😊

    • @Sachin6197
      @Sachin6197 5 років тому +1

      GO FOR IT!!!!

    • @khiethkilser9812
      @khiethkilser9812 5 років тому

      @@Sachin6197hmmm,. I don't have courage for now😔

    • @smithajoseph1552
      @smithajoseph1552 5 років тому +1

      @@khiethkilser9812 what happend😕...everythings gonna be alright❤

    • @yeba6635
      @yeba6635 5 років тому +1

      @@khiethkilser9812 same here I don't have too 😥😥

  • @Searching1414
    @Searching1414 4 роки тому +5

    Coolest and bestest mom in the world "mama chakra". Sufi thrilled to the bits when anjali said "log kya kahenge" . God keeps both of u happy always like this. Lots of love ❤...

  • @thecringysweet6360
    @thecringysweet6360 5 років тому +35

    Your mom is so adorable 🥺

  • @sadiaanam8634
    @sadiaanam8634 5 років тому +7

    Lots of respect for your mom my mom accepted me too i wish all parents accepted their kids. Live and let live

  • @Sherish_Syed
    @Sherish_Syed 5 років тому +22

    She is so supportive omg and so sweet❤️

  • @Emily-bp6qz
    @Emily-bp6qz 5 років тому +7

    This is sooo wholesome! My cheeks hurt from smiling so much.

  • @noqueer
    @noqueer 5 років тому +18

    I watched sufi's cry-laughing more times than i would like to admit Y'ALL ARE SO CUTE GAHHHH

  • @Thoughtscapexx
    @Thoughtscapexx 5 років тому +49

    i couldn’t stop smiling during the whole video 😬

  • @rin8500
    @rin8500 5 років тому +37

    I'm literally obsessed with you two

  • @SeeBeautyThroughMyEyes
    @SeeBeautyThroughMyEyes 5 років тому

    Your mom is so cool and very supportive of you two. We need more moms like her!

  • @dulceamorcudiamat8156
    @dulceamorcudiamat8156 5 років тому +26

    WOW! What a beautiful way to end the year and to welcome year 2020! 🥰 thank you for the gift of happiness and good vibes! Knowing the two of you is the best part of my 2019! i love you both sooooo much! Btw mommy c is the cutest,coolest and the bestest, i love her too! 🙈🥰😘

  • @sus5134
    @sus5134 5 років тому +2

    being 1/2 desi, this absolutely warmed my heart and im so grateful for the both of you for representing us. love u both xx

  • @bellatrix9256
    @bellatrix9256 5 років тому +13

    you got lucky because she is not really a typical desi mom ❤

  • @mamathacnjain
    @mamathacnjain 5 років тому +12

    Anjali's mom was so so cool ! This love story brings tears always i see them Happy new year guys i wish you guys have more fun together lots of love and be safe ❤

  • @whoooisv
    @whoooisv 5 років тому +3

    Anjali's mom and Sufi are the Leos I aspire to be lmao. I need chill, confident vibes for 2020, man. That party Sufi went to all shy but ended up having a great time by the end of the night with Anjali's mom? Goals.
    But no yeah, I was so taken aback at how chill her mom was. As a WOC, I'm stressed as hell at the prospect of my entire family and community knowing about my sexuality. I'd be cool with just a few knowing, though I know they wouldn't be 100% comfortable or supportive, but everyone? Nope. Couldn't do it.

  • @FactsDominate
    @FactsDominate 4 роки тому +8

    Wow, her mom, wow. Totally beautiful and obviously intelligent. I am in love. She can come to my Puerto Rican community and blend right in. She looks so much like a girlfriend I once had. Thanks for your positive involvement in your daughter decisions. I believe that people should live their lives their way as long as they are not hurting anyone or violating the law. I am a straight male however I would support my children in anything they decide to do as long as they are happy.

  • @rubinat2179
    @rubinat2179 5 років тому +7

    Wow. That is all I can say, and Anjali, you are right, she is ICONIC . Love you guys 🤗❤️

  • @suzrainushshaque7341
    @suzrainushshaque7341 3 роки тому

    Why was she crying and laughing at the same time I couldn't understand ..... She looks adorable even that way !!!!! you guys are really the best!!!!!!!!!!

  • @hrishita6788
    @hrishita6788 5 років тому +2

    That's such a cool mom. I'm glad Anjali has her support and I hope someday I can show MY mom this video and see how she reacts :")

  • @janoxz9223
    @janoxz9223 5 років тому +45

    I want mom like her please 🙄😍

  • @cindythang
    @cindythang 5 років тому +7

    Brooo shes such a good mom omggg

  • @shameersaleem2504
    @shameersaleem2504 4 роки тому

    This is something out of the world ..if your parents are supportive then you are luckiest .and wht ever you are it's not your fault .it's natural.. may God bless both of you . Anjali your smile is so positive .. Sufi you are like a gem .. keep it up .thank u so much for this video .lots of love and prayers straight away from Pakistan ..

  • @rakshithsridharan5078
    @rakshithsridharan5078 4 роки тому +7

    Anjali and Sufi best couple in the world ❤️.

  • @avgbrententhusiast
    @avgbrententhusiast 5 років тому +368

    I LOVE YOUR MOM LOLLLLL

  • @Thereal2727-c2y
    @Thereal2727-c2y 4 роки тому +6

    The way Sufi looks at Anji 😍😍 I bet she hardly has takeaways from This interview 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @isharawat9340
    @isharawat9340 4 роки тому +1

    U both are amazing and your mom is open minded which is very good I wish every mom supports her child like this in these topics

  • @ananyaarora8599
    @ananyaarora8599 5 років тому +19

    5:06 oofff that awkward laugh of brown families 🤣🤣🤣
    Next we need anjali’s coming out story!!!!!!

  • @alana1873
    @alana1873 5 років тому +1

    this is so sweet omg thank you for making this

  • @jalabi99
    @jalabi99 5 років тому +7

    Anjali's mom: ICONIC

  • @ireenhassan3101
    @ireenhassan3101 5 років тому

    Oooh my God anjali's mom is the best and supportive mom ever,the world needs more people like her...

  • @CarlyCarly1636
    @CarlyCarly1636 4 роки тому +1

    I am a black Canadian heterosexual woman with parents from the Caribbean and l want this woman for my mom. I was crying watching this. I came here to watch this because l think my young son is gay and l want to show him that he is accepted for whoever he chooses to love when he comes out. Some other people are critical however l will stand by my son. I love the responses from this mom. You are the best mom ever. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @vineeth1042
    @vineeth1042 5 років тому +1

    what an absolute happiness to see Anjali's Mom.....Sorry Sufi and Anjali's Mom...Best Mom in the world..!!! 💖

  • @scarted1916
    @scarted1916 5 років тому +5

    The best video to start the year off.. your mom, she is really beautiful.. the world need more supportive and brave parents like her.. Happy New Year, guys.. keep shining.. 😆❤

  • @Twinkle-o1n
    @Twinkle-o1n 9 місяців тому +4

    Hey 😢Sufi why you did this to Anjali
    Oh goddd....Please Anjali stay strong

  • @rheakumar4786
    @rheakumar4786 5 років тому +3

    Love the video❤️ however in my opinion I’ve noticed desi parents who aren’t born in India are definitely more open minded so that’s why I feel she is more understanding, I hope we can see more desi parents in the future embracing their children

  • @thirisha26
    @thirisha26 5 років тому +3

    protect ur mum, she is PRECIOUS !!

  • @jothiraj85
    @jothiraj85 4 роки тому +1

    Mamma chakra is amazing.. anjali is very lucky to have a mom like her..♥️

  • @kedarkavekar1
    @kedarkavekar1 4 роки тому +1

    Did I hear Aaji? Do you have Maharashtrian roots ? Because we Maharashtrians call our grandmoms Aaji. Hence. Anyway , it's great to see such a supporting and open minded family. Best of luck to you both. :)

  • @carmelyap2558
    @carmelyap2558 5 років тому +1

    most admired mother...very loving,sportive and kind....

  • @anityyu
    @anityyu 5 років тому +2

    I strive to be a beautiful and supportive mom like her one day!! This whole video is so wholesome omg

  • @janeyaa
    @janeyaa 5 років тому +3

    your mom is so extraordinarily sweet 😭😭😭

  • @PoojaPaul
    @PoojaPaul 4 роки тому

    In one word, your mom is so cool and confident and smart also... She don't take everything granted... And I'm sure she always open her mind on everything... I like this type of character... ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @sifatkaur5706
    @sifatkaur5706 5 років тому +6

    This was the cutest thing ever😭😭😭 your mom is so cool tho!!

  • @navdeepsidhu6271
    @navdeepsidhu6271 5 років тому +34

    Omg anjali’s mom so cool i hope everyparents understand their kids
    Im so happy for you guys😍😍
    Sufi you are so blessed 😇
    #loveeeeyouuuuuuuuuuuu😘😘😘😘
    #sufianjali😘

  • @AarshiMehta
    @AarshiMehta 5 років тому +3

    THIS IS SO GOOD, I LOVE THESE WOMEN💘

  • @zaramir5517
    @zaramir5517 5 років тому

    Thank you so much for posting this! It’s so important! 💕

  • @lavanyagowdalavi8653
    @lavanyagowdalavi8653 4 роки тому +3

    Best mom in this world the way she speaks ❤️❤️

  • @kurokotaiga7600
    @kurokotaiga7600 4 роки тому +1

    I love your mom, her attitude and her approach to life and people

  • @joelpayne1193
    @joelpayne1193 2 роки тому

    Wow, this is extraordinary mother who accept her daughter lifestyle is extraordinary and her daughter is very lucky to have sweet relationship with her family,friends and her partner who clearly love her

  • @sharayutravels
    @sharayutravels 5 років тому

    The point To say #Desi say a lot. Good for you girls to have amazing parent and family to stand by you. Big thumbs up for Mrs. MOM.

  • @sachinkawale4
    @sachinkawale4 4 роки тому

    This shows us When strong wall like family and friends is with you no one will defeat you in any battle. 💗 From Mumbai

  • @balticstain7150
    @balticstain7150 3 роки тому +1

    Your mum is not only very pretty but loving supportive that's great 💜

  • @Itsmeashiii
    @Itsmeashiii 5 років тому +4

    You guys make the desi community so proud :(( Also I've said this before and I'll say it again you guys are the cutest

    • @BissKay
      @BissKay 5 років тому +1

      Omg! You know, we have similarities!! I'm your subcriber, I got to know your from Banglore and I'm from Banglore too. And now I found you in this channel accidentally, gosh! I'm so happy that your a LGBTQ supporter too. I'm glad you are! 😄😁
      Sorry if this was off topic, but I'm really glad that we have these similarities 😅😁💜

    • @Itsmeashiii
      @Itsmeashiii 5 років тому +1

      @@BissKay yessssss💜💜💜💜

  • @Veesce
    @Veesce 5 років тому +1

    This is the most awesome video to start the year!!!much love to all of you ❤️

  • @benj9380
    @benj9380 5 років тому +19

    Oh lol, her mum is American, that makes more sense. I thought she was fully born and raised Indian and I was surprised that she was so supportive.

    • @personalaccount7531
      @personalaccount7531 5 років тому +7

      I'm a bisexual Indian and I and a lot of my gay friends have supportive parents... It's not impossible

    • @lianalini1983
      @lianalini1983 5 років тому

      Ben J Okay well theres some misappropriated stigma here. Beliefs and opinions depend on humans, not on their race or nationality. Maybe on religion, but any person of any race can be any religion... so. Its just that you apply assumptions to pocs that you wouldnt to ... the caucasians. And thats all, thank u good night

    • @Traumatised311
      @Traumatised311 5 років тому

      @@personalaccount7531 , i am asexual when i came out to my parents they really couldnt care less cause they dont actually understand asexuality and think its just a phase

  • @waynebottomley3078
    @waynebottomley3078 4 роки тому +1

    No wonders you are such a wonderful young woman. Your mother is wonderful