Yo that’s wild, You know something when we go through “Heart” breaking experiences like the story you told! We tend to think we are all by ourselves, not knowing that someone else is going through the same thing! That’s some Trippy stuff! Thanks for sharing!
You were in love with her to. N that's a real life bitter sweet experience. She showed u her true colors before u went to deep in. That's ok Deon you gonna get someone that's gonna treat u like u deserve to be treated. N u soooooo fine 😍😍😍smh
I can say this.... it's all fun and games in the beginning but feeling start to develop but a part and a pact is played and made till you realize that nothing more is going to come of this situationship and you want more. You were fine with being introduced to her dates and vice versa but you can't continue that forever. Whose ideal was it to not say anything???
Nah she was straight up they had no ties and once the other guy became serious she became committed too. I’m a woman that do not cheat. There are women and men who cheat it’s about finding the right one ☝️
Damn. Guess you're a good teacher Sensual Sensei. Situationships are complicated, we always think we can be smooth and can handle it but in the end it's always a plot twist. it😰
Hey Deon, powerful story. I suspect that she must have felt some type of way being your secret and gave you back every bit you gave her and then some. If she really thought nothing of being secretive, she would have told you outright that she was in a serious relationship and broke up your arrangement. No strings attached. However, I am convinced that there must have been some type string attatched in this "beautiful and sacred yet secret" relationship. I think the reason why she never checked back with you until years later was because she needed a clean break so she could move on to what was real. Your friend he loved her for real. That love was like a light in him that he just could not keep secret. True love is like that. Luke 11:36 So if your whole body is full of light, and no part of it in darkness, you will be radiant, as though a lamp were shining on you." Anyways, I just think that "secret love" is only based lust, just selfish fun, that's it. It never works out in the long term and it sound like if was painful in the end. Often times it doesn't work out in the short term either. Thanks for sharing Deon. Much love and respect.
It sounds like you were a little heartbroken by the situation but you were able to move past it spite of how you felt. How were you able to move past it without being bitter?
@Deon I get the feeling yall were.... "Secret Loooooo-vers"... Yeah! That's what you were... Try so haaaaaard to hide...(The way we feel)....... We both belong to someone else... But we can't let it go. . Cause what we feel...Is all so reallllll so real...so real ..so real......Soooooo REALLLLLLLLLLLL! LOL ..Right?... WRONG! DEON...YOU were a #FirstSIDEnigga Lol
OMG! I had that song going through my head the whole time he was talking! I had a secret love when that song came out back in the 80's! I'm 52 now and still get butterflies when i think of him.....
Oh well Deon you can't be mad at her. I don't hear where you mentioned a commitment and she met someone who offered her what she wanted and who stepped up to the plate. Alls fair in love and war.
Secret Lovers, just like the song. But only different they were married. And you and her were not married. She was only a secret and you felt she felt the same thing you was feeling. SMH! This really was a tragedy secret love story. I hope next time when find true love the woman of your dreams, you will open your heart and let true love in, and tell it to the world. Cause true love is the greatest thing in the universe. Open your heart and live free Deon.
Them cutBuddy situationships is whole mess ...I can imagine that knocked the wind out of him. I can't do it. I have seen men ready kill over that side piece. No Thank You!
I'm sorry this happened to you Deon. You dodged a bullet. I can tell she hurt you. If you had been the one that married her she'd probably have another lil' secret on the side.
Ok all I got to say is.....I brushed off the comments that others were saying about how are you always the sucker in these stories? I was you, I was always the girl that dude's loved to date cause I am quirky and cool. I help them to get in touch with the fun kinky side. In the end I realized they I was helping them with issues with other women. I delved deep into myself and said WTH are you doing lady. Figured it out and became a boss. If I saw things were not going my way i.e. this is about to hurt me I duced out. Sometimes people are leches for what good you have to offer. Once I figured that out I was the better for it. Guys use to asked me why don't you like me I have a penthouses, expensive cars......my answer would be. You are not for me if you cared for me you wouldn't (insert whatever). I am not caught up in the tangible. I'm caught up in the mental. You'have to see the signs.
I dont see the problem. They were not exclusive. D had his ladies, she had her men. Then she fell on love. Only part she did wrong, imo, is not answer Ds call/texts. She shoulda been woman and said yep, its true and we (D and her) can't be anymore. But she ran like a chump. Otherwise, i don't see anything wrong here. I think D fell in love with her and didn't capitalize on it...and what happened? He lost her. Gotta claim what cha want. THATS the lesson here! Love out loud D!!
Bro you becoming my favorite comedian w these true stories
Cooli Highh he’s been my fav & will be my future ex-love um it’s a chi thing
No more secret loves. From now on, love out loud
Amen!!!
She went with the dude, that didn’t mind, announcing his love for her, and while you thought she was your secret, he was hers.
Gemini Enteratyourownrisk And men can't handle it when they think its all theirs and its not. She's the real G
@@MrCchh7 women never claim agency. Everything is someone else's fault.
I am binging on his road stories! Deon Cole can sure tell a story. Great writer too!
“You, me, and he, what we gonna do, baby!??!
sounds like you caught feelings...
Now! About that move!!!
If you don't go ahead and get a show based on your life!!! You can call it " Outlandish" 😆 😆 😆 It is hysterical!!!
Right - Kenya Barris should help him make it....
Bro its really Deon. Im so glad you made this channel dawg. I had to subscribe. A legend. Stay up bro.
Clearly I can't be the only woman who wants to know what that sex move was. Help a sistah out, Deon!!! 😘😂😂😂
Lmao
Dude: where did u learn this technique
Her: Deezy Taught me! 😂😂😂
Yo that’s wild, You know something when we go through “Heart” breaking experiences like the story you told! We tend to think we are all by ourselves, not knowing that someone else is going through the same thing! That’s some Trippy stuff! Thanks for sharing!
I can't believe I just found these stories!! I'm so glad I did!! Thanks for this big bro!!
I LOVE theses true stories!!!!
Dion you're a real cool dude man
...now your married homie knows 😬😀😀
I love these stories.keep it going after they Corona,lol.I love you!😘😘😘😘😘😘From chi town too!
u a gansta bro I love ur stories
I really enjoy your true stories.
He is a great storyteller.
Been there too... 🤦🏾♀️
Damn, that's real talk. "What makes you is what breaks you."
This story breaks my heart for you.
Glad you were mature enough to keep it moving. Most men aren't.
Olivia Rodrigues right? 😂
@@Francelli22 Right girl - men always agree to something because the picture themselves doing it, not the other way around.
"Most"? That's a broad stroke with a narrow brush, and women are worse when they get replaced.
@@oliviarodrigues2323 Exactly. It SOUNDS good in their mind.
This Idea is genius ,Deon is telling road stories about his experiences .
Although true & personal Funny at the same time.
I love everything about you ❤️
Daang partna that's a while story!! Keep em coming lol
"how come the things that makes us happy makes us sad" - joy and pain, maze featuring frankie beverly.
Uhhhh....can I know this move please?!
I'll teach you
Awww I'm so sorry about this story.
Teach me the move!🙋🏽♀️
Wow! Deceiving
Real shit
Lesson learned 😏WOW!!!🙄
What a wow! Hmmmm kinda feel for you though....
That was Deeper than the Abyss. Wow
That Chicago ish.
Straight up Chicago all the way
You were in love with her to. N that's a real life bitter sweet experience. She showed u her true colors before u went to deep in. That's ok Deon you gonna get someone that's gonna treat u like u deserve to be treated. N u soooooo fine 😍😍😍smh
Nnnnno. Damn De! I'm Glad you MADE IT! 😘
All I Could Think Of Is..."Yeezy Taught Me"
I can say this.... it's all fun and games in the beginning but feeling start to develop but a part and a pact is played and made till you realize that nothing more is going to come of this situationship and you want more. You were fine with being introduced to her dates and vice versa but you can't continue that forever. Whose ideal was it to not say anything???
Man you and R Kelly both from Chicago. This the "Same girl" song. 🤣🤣🤣🤣. She better be of age.
🤔😉👏👏👏👏
Cheeky cheek
She wanted to be more than a secret but she loved what y'all had. Wow, we are some interesting and complex people.
His married patna is Tony Roberts!🤦🏽♂️🤣Lol
Church
That's why you don't agree to be involved with people secretly. You don't know what they're doing in public and with who.
👀 WOW!!! That’s all I can say.
The most legendary thing women did is convince men that men were the cheaters.
Thank you - somebody who gets it.....
Nah she was straight up they had no ties and once the other guy became serious she became committed too. I’m a woman that do not cheat. There are women and men who cheat it’s about finding the right one ☝️
I mean, she played by his rules...there was no cheating. 🤷🏽♀️ I couldn't do it.
2:26 cue same girl 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
And thats how deon cole didnt mess up kevin hart's relationship that turned in to marriage
😒😒😒😒😒😒🤔😉
😄
Yea..that story was about Kevin...
Pull me into the loop - what's going on.....
🤯😂😂😂😂😂
Now see, that's why I'm here for you 😉 Seriously though, The most painful experiences are lifes best lessons ❤
Damn. Guess you're a good teacher Sensual Sensei. Situationships are complicated, we always think we can be smooth and can handle it but in the end it's always a plot twist. it😰
can't help but think about dude and the girl sitting there watching youtube and they run into this video!!
🥺
You were the side dude the entire time. She didn't do anything wrong because you didn't have a commitment with her. I hope you get married one day.
Very deep but true😇
nasty bish
Yo 😂🤣😅
She is wrong sleeping wit the homey she wrong
@@PapaMGTOW he was doing the same damn thing! Why is she nasty and he ain't?
Wonder if your friend has seen this and how he feels about it.
Whats the move tho 🤣🤣
That sounds like some old Five Heartsbeats stuff!! Duck and JT loving the same woman. I guess women play men also.
“That was the beauty of what we had” Deeeeeep
Soon as he said it was a secret affair I knew he was a side piece. Don't agree to be anybody's secret
Can we talk about that move though👀
I need more information about this move 🤔😜
Cant keep secrets.
These stories would make a hell of a movie script. You are a writer ?
Hey Deon, powerful story. I suspect that she must have felt some type of way being your secret and gave you back every bit you gave her and then some. If she really thought nothing of being secretive, she would have told you outright that she was in a serious relationship and broke up your arrangement. No strings attached. However, I am convinced that there must have been some type string attatched in this "beautiful and sacred yet secret" relationship. I think the reason why she never checked back with you until years later was because she needed a clean break so she could move on to what was real. Your friend he loved her for real. That love was like a light in him that he just could not keep secret. True love is like that.
Luke 11:36
So if your whole body is full of light, and no part of it in darkness, you will be radiant, as though a lamp were shining on you."
Anyways, I just think that "secret love" is only based lust, just selfish fun, that's it. It never works out in the long term and it sound like if was painful in the end. Often times it doesn't work out in the short term either.
Thanks for sharing Deon. Much love and respect.
Can you tell us what the sex move was? Lol 😝
I'm thinkin the same thing...lol like oooooh i wanna know.
Classic lol
It sounds like you were a little heartbroken by the situation but you were able to move past it spite of how you felt. How were you able to move past it without being bitter?
Live by the sword die by the sword, eh?
Fucking church..."Same thing that make you is the same thing that break you."
Damn Deon, I've been in similar situations. Keep your head up.
😂😂😂
Can you tell us the move? Asking for a friend. 👀
Whoa. Juicy stuff. You have lived darling. Bring it in, you need a hug😂
Ouch lololll
These women man
That is too nasty. But those 2 dudes didn't know anything.
You was side action
Sad story if it’s true.
She used your own words on you!
@Deon
I get the feeling yall were....
"Secret Loooooo-vers"... Yeah! That's what you were... Try so haaaaaard to hide...(The way we feel).......
We both belong to someone else... But we can't let it go. . Cause what we feel...Is all so reallllll so real...so real ..so real......Soooooo REALLLLLLLLLLLL!
LOL ..Right?...
WRONG!
DEON...YOU were a #FirstSIDEnigga
Lol
OMG! I had that song going through my head the whole time he was talking! I had a secret love when that song came out back in the 80's! I'm 52 now and still get butterflies when i think of him.....
Oh well Deon you can't be mad at her. I don't hear where you mentioned a commitment and she met someone who offered her what she wanted and who stepped up to the plate. Alls fair in love and war.
Secret Lovers, just like the song. But only different they were married. And you and her were not married. She was only a secret and you felt she felt the same thing you was feeling. SMH! This really was a tragedy secret love story. I hope next time when find true love the woman of your dreams, you will open your heart and let true love in, and tell it to the world. Cause true love is the greatest thing in the universe. Open your heart and live free Deon.
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
You know u still gothat juju doe
Them cutBuddy situationships is whole mess ...I can imagine that knocked the wind out of him. I can't do it.
I have seen men ready kill over that side piece.
No Thank You!
I'm sorry this happened to you Deon. You dodged a bullet. I can tell she hurt you. If you had been the one that married her she'd probably have another lil' secret on the side.
AWALT
Ok all I got to say is.....I brushed off the comments that others were saying about how are you always the sucker in these stories? I was you, I was always the girl that dude's loved to date cause I am quirky and cool. I help them to get in touch with the fun kinky side. In the end I realized they I was helping them with issues with other women. I delved deep into myself and said WTH are you doing lady. Figured it out and became a boss. If I saw things were not going my way i.e. this is about to hurt me I duced out. Sometimes people are leches for what good you have to offer. Once I figured that out I was the better for it. Guys use to asked me why don't you like me I have a penthouses, expensive cars......my answer would be. You are not for me if you cared for me you wouldn't (insert whatever). I am not caught up in the tangible. I'm caught up in the mental. You'have to see the signs.
Wow, all the skeletons are coming out the closet. I’m sure her husband knows what’s up now. 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
This was a fling
She just doin what guys did to her !Self defense in her mind!
BS is BLISS SMH
This must’ve been Andrea? 😮
So what was the sex move...👀👀
I dont see the problem. They were not exclusive. D had his ladies, she had her men. Then she fell on love. Only part she did wrong, imo, is not answer Ds call/texts. She shoulda been woman and said yep, its true and we (D and her) can't be anymore. But she ran like a chump. Otherwise, i don't see anything wrong here. I think D fell in love with her and didn't capitalize on it...and what happened? He lost her. Gotta claim what cha want. THATS the lesson here! Love out loud D!!
Deep message and proof women aint shit
Is this REALLY true?
Sorry D, meant to tellya...😒
Like a man, I would've told my potna that I was poking on her too. Don't let him marry her thinking she's solid and she's not.
People are so filthy.