This made a Chinese guy fall in love with a black girl instantly😳😳

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  • Hi honeybees, i showed you what a typical conversation with a chinese native looks like, there is a guy in the video that might interest you so make sure you watch till the end.
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  • @missorwa3136
    @missorwa3136 2 роки тому +3738

    The guy instantly fell in love with you, he didn't even care that his parents were around, he just wanted to be closer to you all the time

  • @wendykirby7345
    @wendykirby7345 2 роки тому +2860

    He tripped over a chair to get your wechat name in front of his family. Lol that's my boy! Way to go! He is in love!

    • @greyprice8167
      @greyprice8167 2 роки тому +51

      😂😭😭😭

    • @kycam8.q.554
      @kycam8.q.554 2 роки тому +25

      Aww

    • @SM-qn7sr
      @SM-qn7sr 2 роки тому +36

      He seems thirsty to be honest but yeah lol

    • @jenniferzalik1521
      @jenniferzalik1521 2 роки тому +113

      @@SM-qn7sr that nigga was hungry like understandable since she’s absolutely stunning

    • @ReddShyne
      @ReddShyne Рік тому +7

      China full of people that looks the same ofc he will be fascinated

  • @oyin3231
    @oyin3231 2 роки тому +12815

    Honestly I still think people are more excited around you because you try to communicate in their own language and that's a beautiful thing. Well done

    • @Yoel-dr
      @Yoel-dr 2 роки тому +271

      There is something about your comment here that shows your beautiful soul. I dunno what it is, I feel it though.

    • @oyin3231
      @oyin3231 2 роки тому +148

      @@Yoel-dr oh wow thank you 😁 that comment made me smile.

    • @mashuptitok
      @mashuptitok 2 роки тому +6

      @@Yoel-dr upup

    • @JaejoongPrincess
      @JaejoongPrincess 2 роки тому +83

      Yep, I get that too when I speak Korean, Japanese and Chinese. It's true! They get super excited when you speak their language. I be getting free stuff and discounts lol. I studied Mandarin in high school and college for three years. I studied Japanese for 2 years in college and before I took classes, I was teaching myself Japanese since I was 13 years old. I taught myself basic Korean and phrases. Several years ago at the hair store, there was this one Korean guy who acted just like the guy in the video lol. My mom and dad said that he was jumping over the shelves to check me out. He was following me around and asked me a few times if I needed help. They were aware that I can speak Korean and Japanese because they spoke both languages. His mom kept taking to me about his son and how he was the same age as me. My dad said that he was interested in me because he leaned so close to me when paying for my stuff. I didn't know what was going on. I have autism...so I can't tell when people like me. I don't know until somebody tell me.

    • @oyin3231
      @oyin3231 2 роки тому +42

      @@JaejoongPrincess wow I admire your ability to study multiple languages. It's actually common everywhere. In my country there are 3 main languages spoken besides English. When you are from another tribe and you can speak their language people get excited. 😂😂😂 especially traders. I speak mostly English but when I go to the market I speak in my native language (Yoruba)

  • @vuton7670
    @vuton7670 2 роки тому +1348

    The highest respect you can show someone in any country is learning their language.

    • @timlorgen1971
      @timlorgen1971 Рік тому +15

      Compared to written languages, most of the oral languages in the world are pretty easy to learn, especially when you get the chance to live there. So just go for it!

    • @Elric-zz2sb
      @Elric-zz2sb Рік тому

      agreed lol for instance even french for me is on a quite different level of difficulty when i have to write in it@@timlorgen1971

    • @missguapa
      @missguapa 11 місяців тому +5

      except in america!! many americans can be soo rude to people trying to/learning english

    • @notpinterest.worthyy
      @notpinterest.worthyy 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@missguapa Really?

    • @udonkey431
      @udonkey431 10 місяців тому +1

      @@missguapasadly England too, the amount of ppl I’ve heard been mocked for not being speaking English fluently is upsetting

  • @chrislife1101
    @chrislife1101 2 роки тому +182

    I've never seen such a hyper extroverted, goofy Chinese guy like him before, it's nice to see

  • @haiipeople8390
    @haiipeople8390 2 роки тому +12212

    Mom and dad: she’s fluent in Chinese and goes to medical uni…marry our son 😂😂

    • @okorolina
      @okorolina 2 роки тому +994

      BASICALLY 😂😂😂😂 he was so smitten lol

    • @jaycaspian2137
      @jaycaspian2137 2 роки тому +939

      They were already preparing the weddin in there heads

    • @JasmineThanai
      @JasmineThanai 2 роки тому +342

      I love interracial couples ! I’m one well one part or you all know what I’m saying lol 😂 ONE LOVE ❤️

    • @PrincessHarlotte
      @PrincessHarlotte 2 роки тому +281

      That's EXACTLY what I was thinking. Princess beauty and a doctor. He was 💯 smitten kitten they were practically visualizing the wedding and grandchildren. LEGEND 👸🏾

    • @badgyal4576
      @badgyal4576 2 роки тому +28

      Exactly 👌🏾

  • @QBeezy-gi2lh
    @QBeezy-gi2lh 2 роки тому +7718

    You made his day! He was so excited, he couldn’t stop dancing around, moving, fidgety being goofy 😂😂😂. So cute.

    • @wandagaines2678
      @wandagaines2678 2 роки тому +185

      I think she made his week!! He will remember this for years to come. It was very nice to see the interaction. You blew the lady away who couldn't believe you Chinese and spoke it so well. It's amazing what people think of others from foreign countries. I love it! I saw him sneak and touch your hair. He couldn't resist.

    • @only1giselle
      @only1giselle 2 роки тому +133

      Exactly 😅 this showed me that men get awkward and goofy in every language if they think you’re beautiful 🤣🤣🤣 you handled it with grace…I would not have sat through all those questions and hovering over me while I’m trying to eat lol

    • @lyndapknox3481
      @lyndapknox3481 2 роки тому +15

      Awesome! Beautiful Sister! Impeccable Chinese. You handled it all very well.

    • @sydneydwoskin4950
      @sydneydwoskin4950 2 роки тому +7

      Hahahaa I know! 😆 so sweet

    • @tomilola_otitoju
      @tomilola_otitoju 2 роки тому

      Very cuteeeee

  • @serenityq26
    @serenityq26 2 роки тому +4355

    homie was like "im getting a blasian son"

  • @Citystateanonymate
    @Citystateanonymate Рік тому +127

    HE'S ACTUALLY SO CUTE TOO! You guys would be so cute together

  • @zhi4452
    @zhi4452 Рік тому +963

    I love how that one lady couldn’t stop saying how beautiful you are and your hair is ❤ I feel like ppl in America don’t appreciate Black beauty like this, it makes me want to go to China 😂

    • @gilnahnu
      @gilnahnu Рік тому +25

      cause in america its normal ig ,

    • @jazminartopee7774
      @jazminartopee7774 Рік тому +80

      Exactly! And because in America it’s taught that black beauty is not as beautiful as anyone else. Black women are out at the bottom of the totem pole. Our hair our skin is frowned upon when in all actuality the ones that publicly display hate towards it secretly admires it.

    • @hedkace
      @hedkace Рік тому +34

      @@jazminartopee7774 Who exactly and where exactly in America is it being taught that black is not beautiful?
      I think black women have an amazing beauty!

    • @deniqueblack8857
      @deniqueblack8857 Рік тому +21

      It’s not just normal it’s looked down upon and villanized for a purpose. China didn’t go through that process

    • @TamaraGarrettAlpha
      @TamaraGarrettAlpha Рік тому +4

      @@jazminartopee7774WE will NEVER be at the BOTTOM EVER !!!💯💙🏹👑💫

  • @SunflowerZen19
    @SunflowerZen19 2 роки тому +5492

    Lol that was so cute, he was definitely flirting and so interested. You really corrected stereotypes about Africans with this video. You truly opened their eyes.

    • @judeayo1806
      @judeayo1806 2 роки тому +29

      what exactly is the stereotypes about Africans? Your name suggests you are white.....do you know the stereotypes about white people JESSICA? huh?

    • @caineallen8132
      @caineallen8132 2 роки тому +503

      @@judeayo1806 oh lawd!! Calm down Karen.🤪🤪🤪

    • @ppjskh
      @ppjskh 2 роки тому +209

      @@judeayo1806 wat da faq lmaooo CALM DOWNNN

    • @Heyguhh
      @Heyguhh 2 роки тому +145

      @@judeayo1806 now miss gurll…

    • @SunflowerZen19
      @SunflowerZen19 2 роки тому +199

      Actually I'm not white nor was I saying my comment in any rude way so if y'all can calm down, I will explain the stereotypes I've heard about Africans.....oh and fyi I am part African too. Anyway... the first stereotype I've heard was that they always have short hair. Completely not true cause all of my African friends have long gorgeous hair. Not weaves and wigs...not that anything is wrong with those either. It's just crazy how people keep taking my compliments and try to flip it to make it sound like I said something bad. Maybe I should change my name on UA-cam so ya'll can stop being so judgmental of it.

  • @maedthings8828
    @maedthings8828 2 роки тому +6119

    he was obsessed with you 😭 but on a serious note, you inspire me a lot, you make me want to go to China for my studies

    • @Tiktok_Reddit
      @Tiktok_Reddit 2 роки тому +57

      Fascinated is the word not obsessed

    • @tashamoh2459
      @tashamoh2459 2 роки тому +80

      @spirit so true that's why we don't have to believe what ever we see in social media 💚

    • @blackwarrior7473
      @blackwarrior7473 2 роки тому +10

      ​@spirit So pretend to be a Chinese to tell lies about Chinese and black people? I think the Chinese are probably the kindest to the black people in the world. See how the black people are treated in the US, even those born in the US. Refer to the Floyd case. Sure enough, the Chinese are sometimes too kind to the extent of harassment, like the young boy in the video.

    • @Crisis-xw3wg
      @Crisis-xw3wg 2 роки тому +13

      “Studies” yea right 😂😂😂

    • @avateraangshoe5025
      @avateraangshoe5025 2 роки тому +68

      @@Crisis-xw3wg what is unbelievable about that? you don't go to school?

  • @TECHSAVI_1
    @TECHSAVI_1 2 роки тому +1601

    Reason they ask you to eat before pay
    1)They got co comfortable with you
    2) They wanted to be nice with you since you also had a very positive vibe
    3) You where a foreigner
    4) They wanted you to stay for a while

    • @busoladeborah
      @busoladeborah  2 роки тому +197

      Valid points

    • @kycam8.q.554
      @kycam8.q.554 2 роки тому +15

      Aww

    • @TECHSAVI_1
      @TECHSAVI_1 2 роки тому +36

      @PhantomStranger honestly I would too
      Imagine some Asian or white guy . Came to me and started speaking my native dialect or even pidgin to me I would definitely as him or her to stay for a bit longer

    • @STUMAHA
      @STUMAHA 2 роки тому +33

      I agree with #4 100% !! Customers will be drawn there and buy food to get a closer look so as not to appear obviously curious. The owner is friendly, but also a smart businessman.

    • @idc_cope
      @idc_cope 2 роки тому +22

      The Real reason- They wanted to interview a possible wife for their son ✨.

  • @thegraced
    @thegraced 2 роки тому +70

    First off...the young Chinese guy is such a cutie....plus the whole family treated you with so much kindness....I enjoyed the video....you're a true inspiration...love from kenya

    • @CVGH671
      @CVGH671 7 місяців тому

      Kenya West!?

  • @havad3938
    @havad3938 Рік тому +78

    I love seeing how they're treating you. And he was cute and so confident, even around his parents. I'm not surprised they really liked you in every regard.

  • @Fari-100
    @Fari-100 2 роки тому +4498

    Hey, can't blame him, every nationality can understand your Nigerian beauty 😍😊

    • @nonhlanhlanunsy9179
      @nonhlanhlanunsy9179 2 роки тому +236

      Nigerians girls are so beautiful ND intelligent coming from a fellow african

    • @davills_cosplay.
      @davills_cosplay. 2 роки тому +41

      @@nonhlanhlanunsy9179 thank you

    • @dbspaceoditty
      @dbspaceoditty 2 роки тому

      @@nonhlanhlanunsy9179 when white people talk like this its racist XDDD

    • @gwenbily
      @gwenbily 2 роки тому +19

      @@nonhlanhlanunsy9179 thank you ❤️

    • @Nyc.summayah
      @Nyc.summayah 2 роки тому +54

      African woman in general are beautiful don’t get it twisted

  • @india6299
    @india6299 2 роки тому +2202

    It seems like mom and dad was trying to find a wife for their son.

  • @leratomanana917
    @leratomanana917 2 роки тому +4124

    Can we just take a minute to appreciate how cute the chinese guy is 😭

  • @korph6031
    @korph6031 2 роки тому +203

    you handled the ignorant comments well! i know they dont mean harm but i can see how it can get annoying quick, amazing video!

    • @MARILANAEE
      @MARILANAEE 2 роки тому +45

      I honestly felt frustrated watching this 😭 i get they're curious but like she is human after all 😭😭

    • @PrincesaLunez
      @PrincesaLunez Рік тому +16

      I thought I was the only one who felt even the slightest bit of annoyance lol Like not to hate on them as seeing something that’s not typically in your culture is fascinating, so I truly can’t hate. I would just I need more personal space lol
      Props to her for being the one to break the barrier! We love to see it being done safely

    • @annyeongyani
      @annyeongyani 11 місяців тому

      Righttt!! like girl, hats off to you 😅

  • @sleepygirl8344
    @sleepygirl8344 2 роки тому +131

    I kept replaying the intro of the video so many times cause the smile when they said “let’s add each other on WeChat” just made my heart so happy 😭
    So many people are learning Korean and Japanese, and being a black woman it’s strange to others that I would wanna learn mandarin and visit China yk? And people always talk about the bad things like racism and etc making me wanna change my mind and learn a different language ( a language I don’t really wanna learn atm) but this made me feel so much better 😭

    • @manguanxu3612
      @manguanxu3612 Рік тому

      there are shit ass people in every country, and not everyone is like that.

  • @godofjustice
    @godofjustice 2 роки тому +2048

    He looked so cute haha can’t believe there are actually people that aren’t as introverted as me lol

    • @irlandaise5631
      @irlandaise5631 2 роки тому +75

      yeah it's surprising as when I have random men in shops jumping around and being excited they aren't cute. The cute ones generally just look but do nothing in my experience . But then again it's china . She is lucky!

    • @nevaehlheaven
      @nevaehlheaven 2 роки тому

      You haven't met me

  • @Sachistar7591
    @Sachistar7591 2 роки тому +1466

    Homeboy was BOLD in his pink apron with flowers 😂😂😂

    • @roelidani
      @roelidani 2 роки тому +32

      🤣

    • @juniebob4420
      @juniebob4420 2 роки тому +106

      And? Asians arent toxic masculine we don't care about those things

    • @OGigiBunny
      @OGigiBunny 2 роки тому +41

      This brought tears to my eyes the way I went back to look! He sure was bold! He didn't care one bit. He was like, here is my chance boiiiii!!!

    • @Crocrobon
      @Crocrobon Рік тому +39

      @@juniebob4420 he's cute with his pink apron

    • @MiyaMam948
      @MiyaMam948 Рік тому +24

      @@juniebob4420 she was making a lighthearted joke, don’t worry

  • @MC-vp4eg
    @MC-vp4eg 2 роки тому +746

    I honestly can’t blame him for being so smitten with you- you have an attractive personality, are kind, and exude humility. You are the epitome of a women. You being gorgeous is just a plus.

    • @SnippetsBB
      @SnippetsBB Рік тому +42

      What an honorable, kind, honest, and REAL compliment. So nice

    • @Des_.
      @Des_. Рік тому

      What is the epitome of a woman 💀

    • @YosefAmadeusC.
      @YosefAmadeusC. Рік тому +6

      @@SnippetsBByesssss

    • @someoneelse6934
      @someoneelse6934 Рік тому

      simp

  • @darvoid66
    @darvoid66 Рік тому +20

    It was cute seeing the Chinese boy crush on you. He could not contain how smitten he was for you. Thank you for sharing how nice the people are in China :)

  • @sarahmelody9366
    @sarahmelody9366 Рік тому +84

    It's so cool to see how people from ALL walks of life could come together if only we took the time to understand one another. Break some bread, share a laugh or a warm conversation. It's a beautiful thing to witness.

  • @mishy297
    @mishy297 2 роки тому +1427

    You eat bread
    Chinese woman: she can eat bread too
    You eat watermelon
    Chinese woman: She can eat watermelon too
    You drink water
    Chinese woman: She drinks water too
    😂😂😂

    • @gwenbily
      @gwenbily 2 роки тому +23

      🤣🤣

    • @monique_pryce
      @monique_pryce 2 роки тому +19

      😭😭🤣🤣🤣

    • @sheniquaturner595
      @sheniquaturner595 2 роки тому +12

      Lol

    • @slimchica1
      @slimchica1 2 роки тому +7

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Q.T-T
      @Q.T-T 2 роки тому +39

      She meant like how she can also eat potatoes with the chopsticks..

  • @katien3022
    @katien3022 2 роки тому +1624

    I found it funny that the dad was just boasting China the whole time lol 😂

    • @gwenbily
      @gwenbily 2 роки тому +225

      That's typical Chinese. They're very patriotic 😅🤣

    • @esiana
      @esiana 2 роки тому +157

      Tryna get her to stay!!!

    • @1tim3_JB
      @1tim3_JB 2 роки тому +85

      Honestly they’re very proud of their country which is great to see!

    • @ohsehun6470
      @ohsehun6470 2 роки тому +78

      I mean, regardless of the ccp controversies, its a fact that to the chinese citizens, the gov has mostly been a good gov to them. China used to be in poverty and a third world country just half a century ago. The ccp managed to lift the country out of poverty into an economic and political powerhouse and people are living much better

    • @1tim3_JB
      @1tim3_JB 2 роки тому +36

      @@ohsehun6470 yeah I always notice that. The only people who talk bad about china are people who don’t live there. Usually it’s because of what type of government you guys have. But I’ve never seen a citizen have a problem with china.

  • @thatcookingdude
    @thatcookingdude 2 роки тому +3694

    “She can eat potatoes too” had me dying 😂😂

    • @bikingsolo9194
      @bikingsolo9194 2 роки тому +420

      Like what do they think she is😭 it’s cute but who can’t eat potatoes lol

    • @sharonhicks-jones5471
      @sharonhicks-jones5471 2 роки тому +146

      I Screamed 😱...Just human🤦🏾‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣💃🏾

    • @thatcookingdude
      @thatcookingdude 2 роки тому +92

      @@bikingsolo9194 and the she can use chopsticks too or something like that 😂😂

    • @thatcookingdude
      @thatcookingdude 2 роки тому +14

      @@sharonhicks-jones5471 I don’t blame you haha 😂😂

    • @x--Spectre0--x
      @x--Spectre0--x 2 роки тому +56

      They're just ignorant

  • @MichelMawon4982
    @MichelMawon4982 2 роки тому +46

    This was adorable. People blossom when you speak their language. Their fascination was so genuine and innocent that nothing they did or said was offensive, just people connecting.

  • @daniellathompson3173
    @daniellathompson3173 2 роки тому +89

    我认为这很了不起,因为你一次将一个人团结在了世界上,你让黑人不必与其他种族分开似乎是可以的,我喜欢它。上帝保佑你💙💙🥰

    • @islamamira3910
      @islamamira3910 4 місяці тому

      كلامك صحيح، فالله وحده من خلقنا جميعا كبشر، و لا يفرق بسن ابيض و اسود، كلنا متساوون عنده، شكرا يارب 🎉

  • @seanfenrir
    @seanfenrir 2 роки тому +1323

    One thing I had to learn when dealing with people from other cultures is that when they do or say something that seems like it's an invasion of personal space or offensive, often they don't even realize it. I myself have been guilty of doing this with an Arabic friend of mine and I had to apologize to him. I commend you for being open-minded and calm even when the guy touched your hair without permission, or when they asked if your hair was fake.

    • @yaohuikong
      @yaohuikong 2 роки тому

      China also does not touch men's heads and women's waists.

    • @rachel.shakira
      @rachel.shakira 2 роки тому +61

      this! Like the amount of patience you have to have!

    • @sola4393
      @sola4393 2 роки тому +98

      I was like omg, he touched her hair 😮😂😂 , thank god she stayed clam and maintained a good gesture and relationship. He must be so curious and excited to see her. lol I've seen a black woman touching an Asian woman's hair without her permission before. She runs her fingers through her hair and complimented her hair is so silky. Sometimes people are just too excited and curious they forget what is happening. Hope everyone can stay clam, if you don't like what happened, just kindly in a polite way let them know if they could ask for permission before touching them. 😂 By the way the Asian guy look cute too. lol

    • @Lonelyeco
      @Lonelyeco Рік тому +26

      I would've touched his hair. 😂😂😂 Let's even it out.😅

    • @issaflo1224
      @issaflo1224 Рік тому +19

      @@sola4393 I hope you aren't confused, when anyone (except in places where black issues, history, and microaggressions aren't talked about much) touches a black woman's (or really any black persons hair) hair it counts as a micro-aggression and has harmful history behind it, the other doesn't

  • @shinagi6807
    @shinagi6807 2 роки тому +857

    The lady that kept complementing your hair made my day lol,I think she said it 10 times in 10 diferent ways omd!!😂😂

  • @nounie123
    @nounie123 2 роки тому +1052

    Imagine being stuck at the foodcart with the same ole customers and your parents and then this exiting young lady your age comes by and you can actually understand each other! Yeah i understand this kid’s excitement 🤣❤️👍🏼

  • @g.jeniseclifton7843
    @g.jeniseclifton7843 Рік тому +11

    I love to see people getting along ... best gift you could ever give the universe. Friendship

  • @beholdtheman3161
    @beholdtheman3161 Рік тому +5

    I've never seen a guy so smitten with a girl before, it was beautiful to watch. I'll watch it again.

  • @magnolia2
    @magnolia2 2 роки тому +655

    I screamed laughed SO many times. Hilarious.

  • @keywordxo5378
    @keywordxo5378 2 роки тому +1349

    Having been a foreigner in China, I can say that the Chinese people are endlessly kind to and curious about foreigners. The will run over to assist you if they realize that you need help. Of course, like other country, there are bad people, but i never once encountered one.

    • @alecgurney9305
      @alecgurney9305 2 роки тому +15

      Could a chinese person receive kindness in your country?

    • @crypticcavern4109
      @crypticcavern4109 2 роки тому +31

      nah my guy there are a decent amount of racist chinese people too lmao

    • @Abena1709
      @Abena1709 2 роки тому +101

      @@crypticcavern4109 but the comment wasn't about the racist people.

    • @crypticcavern4109
      @crypticcavern4109 2 роки тому +5

      @@Abena1709 Didn't ask

    • @keywordxo5378
      @keywordxo5378 2 роки тому +60

      @@crypticcavern4109 I'm sure there are. I even said that the are bad people

  • @devonastearnes8603
    @devonastearnes8603 2 роки тому +604

    I love how you gave the compliment back to re ensure her she just as beautiful and she just giggled I’m glad you told her that

  • @lisewagnac3623
    @lisewagnac3623 2 роки тому +36

    I miss living in China so much, I should've never left. Loved this video it made me feel very nostalgic.

  • @divorce_s
    @divorce_s 2 роки тому +10

    youre so good at keeping your cool when they touched your hair and were all up in your personal space haha, videos like this inspire me to study abroad and learn a different language. except the education in america is such a failure, i could never compete with the countries in asia!

  • @tiphneewestry3129
    @tiphneewestry3129 2 роки тому +446

    He’s going to make a great husband for someone one day! The way he is making sure everything is to your liking and that you are pleased is so heartwarming!

    • @DA-jw4lx
      @DA-jw4lx Рік тому +12

      That really was so uplifting.

  • @temidaniels6055
    @temidaniels6055 2 роки тому +1288

    i love how well you speak..
    i’ve been trying to learn chinese for a while.. but it’s like i’m stuck😭😭

    • @soiammagenta
      @soiammagenta 2 роки тому +153

      A tip: watch a lot of Chinese TV/ listen to a lot of Chinese so you can get used to the sound of the language. Everytime when you listen to someone speak Chinese, try to match the sounds with the subtitles. I'm not an expert or anything, but I've been studying it for a while, and I try to continue by watching Chinese dramas lol. One thing that improved was pronunciation and some other things too I think hehe. Hope this helpeddd

    • @temidaniels6055
      @temidaniels6055 2 роки тому +18

      @@soiammagenta thank youuu☺️

    • @roguesojizukokeleiwatsontu8558
      @roguesojizukokeleiwatsontu8558 2 роки тому +6

      Download the Chinese app pleco for free and hello Chinese. They have both helped me when I'm not in my class at school. And watch tons of shows and videos in Chinese with subs.

    • @dzzhang2107
      @dzzhang2107 2 роки тому +22

      It just takes time, nothing else. Make learning Chinese part of your life for the next two years and you will harvest a second language.😊

    • @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587
      @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587 2 роки тому +17

      that's me with Korean right now. I just don't know where to start. It's so difficult 😭

  • @itzzchocolatemimig1226
    @itzzchocolatemimig1226 2 роки тому +478

    The African drum big had me dying it was so random😂🤦🏾‍♀️ loved this vid glad ur back busola hope ur staying healthy n well🙏🏾🙏🏾💛

    • @bloodnessx
      @bloodnessx 2 роки тому +16

      Can't even hate, shit was so random, it's hilarious. All jokes🤣👌🙏

  • @lunarebony6122
    @lunarebony6122 2 роки тому +5

    I love how ur vids solve stereotypes about both Chinese and Africans! Love it!

    • @cat3052
      @cat3052 Рік тому

      asians and africans

  • @thechildfromthevillage
    @thechildfromthevillage Рік тому +3

    It’s funny because the dad was trying to be likable but was coming off as awkward very typical dad vibe. Kinda endearing

  • @MM-ManifestingMiracles
    @MM-ManifestingMiracles 2 роки тому +159

    Medical University! That young guy looking like, he's got to work harder to win you over! LOL. Parents: Very Impressed!

  • @steph8842
    @steph8842 2 роки тому +580

    He was obviously fascinated but I still cringed when he touched her hair. Speaking from experience, black woman's hair seems to have the same effect on people as a pregnant belly. People forget about common sense personal space and just goes for it and touch.

    • @hentai7444
      @hentai7444 2 роки тому +1

      Ur just sensitive

    • @timelizz7719
      @timelizz7719 2 роки тому +69

      As a Latina growing up and going to school with mostly all black kids I also got my hair touched a lot!! Mostly probably because everyone thought I was black and was trying to figure out why my hair looked wavy. I had a lot of people thinking I was wearing weave or I had a relaxer. It was weird at 1st but I got used to it though my mom did get upset because I would always come back home from school with my hair all messed up 😂

    • @lamb4613
      @lamb4613 2 роки тому +37

      It’s ok to feel it lmao y’all so extra….. it’s different textures he just tryna see

    • @zyloz88
      @zyloz88 2 роки тому +91

      @@lamb4613 its defo not ok, but its not as bad as it would be if she was in america tho, he could of asked tbf

    • @Just...K
      @Just...K 2 роки тому +82

      @@lamb4613 he isn't trying to "see" He is trying to touch. I am completely understanding of curiosity but it's not okay to touch people like petting an animal you are fascinated by, like a cute kitten that has soft looking fur. We are people. One can at least ask before touching someone else.

  • @universalsubliminals1174
    @universalsubliminals1174 2 роки тому +380

    this is so whlesome, everyone was so cute! especially the woman who kept complimenting you, so kind

    • @pokeaman1645
      @pokeaman1645 2 роки тому +11

      She went and got her friend aww

  • @veehamp7455
    @veehamp7455 2 роки тому +1

    That was so adorable..the lil crush 😆 lol...i enjoyed this

  • @marie.theartist
    @marie.theartist Рік тому +4

    He can't stop looking at you,hahahaja❤

  • @luclabouche7656
    @luclabouche7656 2 роки тому +1956

    I don't know how you've managed to stay calm and collected while the guy was invading your personal space 😄. They do seem like nice people. They were curious about you.

    • @downundabrotha
      @downundabrotha 2 роки тому +194

      Seemed like fascination

    • @Jolene8
      @Jolene8 2 роки тому +180

      He's cute. That helps. 😂

    • @loriyang2528
      @loriyang2528 2 роки тому +242

      Thats culture. If they like you, they want to know everything about you. Thats their way of being friendly and wanting to be your friend. 😊

    • @oreoluwaadenrele5938
      @oreoluwaadenrele5938 2 роки тому +139

      I felt he was being a pest at some point… but I can understand his excitement, but he’s a big flirt sha😂

    • @kingstonshawn2595
      @kingstonshawn2595 2 роки тому

      No personal space in China.
      Everyone crowds round like sardines. You'd be happy if someone wasn't leaning on you.

  • @kayhunte
    @kayhunte 2 роки тому +202

    Great video! When they added the extra pepper, I cackled. Hilarious! Seems like you've found your future husband, Deborah! 😂😂😂

  • @ZoeysMusings
    @ZoeysMusings 2 роки тому +233

    Marry him! This was better than a romantic scene in a K-drama 😂😂Loved this!

  • @classifiedinfo2047
    @classifiedinfo2047 2 роки тому +5

    hes so wholesome adorable

  • @peachechild
    @peachechild 3 місяці тому

    You are so beautiful! Your spirit is also calm. I love the young mans reaction and his families kindness towards you.

  • @josleenlisakhanya3504
    @josleenlisakhanya3504 2 роки тому +409

    u are making learning Chinese so inspiring, I have been learning Chinese since in 5th grade at first it was hard because Chinese is different from my home language which is xhosa(a South African language) but watching UA-camrs like u makes me confident in learning Chinese like my pronunciation is not on point but I'm getting there

    • @busoladeborah
      @busoladeborah  2 роки тому +37

      Keep going, it gets better 🥰

    • @sange4186
      @sange4186 2 роки тому +10

      Heyyy a fellow Xhosa!! Hello mntase🤍🇿🇦

    • @HangingOrchid
      @HangingOrchid 2 роки тому +2

      I've been learning since 7th grade but still not proficient•́ ‿ ,•̀

  • @lulubaraa976
    @lulubaraa976 2 роки тому +3188

    I feel so bad for everybody in the world that never met a black person in their life

    • @Toastywiththemosty69
      @Toastywiththemosty69 2 роки тому +189

      Ok? 😆 wtf

    • @esiana
      @esiana 2 роки тому +73

      THIS

    • @5_josue5
      @5_josue5 2 роки тому +53

      @@Toastywiththemosty69 ?

    • @lust9818
      @lust9818 2 роки тому +80

      Umm ok???

    • @mrsjrenae4738
      @mrsjrenae4738 2 роки тому +346

      We really are a very kind hearted and fun group of people. I think the crazy idiots give us a bad name when the truth is, we're nothing like that.

  • @PisceanAviationTraveler
    @PisceanAviationTraveler 2 роки тому +201

    Their interacting with you is so cute! You definitely made that guy's day!

  • @jetpaq
    @jetpaq Рік тому +2

    He's actually really handsome! I hope y'all become a couple?!!!!!! Two beautiful young people usually make lovely babies.

  • @EclipsetsunePlays
    @EclipsetsunePlays Рік тому +32

    I love these kind of videos. It kind of makes me sad that more black aren't open to traveling due to stares. Ppl see stares & automatically jump to the conclusion of "racism." Ofc sometimes it actually is, but most of the time staring is just human curiosity.
    Ik it's hard for some to fathom bc most English speaking countries are melting pots, but any foreigner that visits a homogenous society will get stares. Especially if you stand out by being really tall or tiny, different facial features, different skin color, eye color, hair color or texture & so on.

  • @pamelabustos8376
    @pamelabustos8376 2 роки тому +77

    He's actually a pretty cute guy! What a sweet family and running their own business. Cute family ,cute as a button son. Some girl will snatch him up, I'm sure.

  • @larryhasgonefishing1374
    @larryhasgonefishing1374 2 роки тому +179

    Even for a few minutes, you made this family so happy and excited. How many people can do that as a stranger? God bless you!

  • @samsalamander8147
    @samsalamander8147 2 роки тому +60

    He was adorable and handsome. His face is so open and curious. I loved this interaction.

  • @christinaevans8700
    @christinaevans8700 Рік тому +7

    I studied abroad for a semester in Dalian China in 2013 and loved it! I was treated like a celebrity, especially when they found out I was amercian but black. I wanted to go back to teach but then the pandemic hit.

  • @P1Gman
    @P1Gman Рік тому

    These are some of my favorite videos on youtube. I love when knowing someones language brings people together, it's beautiful.

  • @AC-ih1dr
    @AC-ih1dr 2 роки тому +519

    You are beautiful, so it is understandable that any man with good eyes would keep looking. But I just realized at 10:11 why my boi was obsessed. He probably watches black content (music, influencers, ect). He said your hair would look really nice in braids. Girl, he is trying to turn you into his hip-hop fantasy girl hahaha. He has been waiting for this his whole young life lol
    Let us know if he actually ever says anything to you on wechat
    Also, the family was very sweet overall.

  • @SessmaruKusanagiGaming
    @SessmaruKusanagiGaming 2 роки тому +167

    He was SOO adorably excited, omg. So wholesome. You could see the excitement sparkle in his eyes like a kid! The big ole goofy smile that can't be contained.
    He also has GORGEOUS eyes. They're like a very very light brown, almost a dark honey. I have dark brown eyes, and have always LOVED that offshoot of brown. So gorgeous.
    He's also not half bad looking. (; lol.
    Absolutely wholesome. Thank you for sharing this. ❤ Totally subbing!

  • @carolinetaylor6757
    @carolinetaylor6757 2 роки тому +292

    Oh I loved this. How lovely was this family. The young man seriously fancied you-he was so cute. I am glad you are back, I have missed you. Your videos are informative but really fun at the same time 💐💐❤️🇬🇧

  • @Solastar
    @Solastar Рік тому +25

    As a black girl...the title is kinda cringe but love the video its super cute

  • @AtherischPrince
    @AtherischPrince Рік тому +5

    I was smiling so much, this is how the world should be ❤️ kind and progressive

  • @deandrictv5132
    @deandrictv5132 2 роки тому +145

    It was adorable watching the interactions. They were so warm-hearted and kind! 🥺🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @ItsLahai
    @ItsLahai 2 роки тому +89

    "Like African drum" I was laughing at this part. I kept replaying it.

  • @kiabowens4286
    @kiabowens4286 2 роки тому +171

    For some reason this really warmed me.. I'm so elated in seeing their genuine awe, appreciation and interest in you.. Keep emitting your light and love... The world needs more of this universal love and respect!!!

  • @kevinbrathwaite1116
    @kevinbrathwaite1116 2 роки тому +4

    This is the beautiful when people of different races and cultures appreciate each other 🇨🇳 🇳🇬

  • @destinyofforji6318
    @destinyofforji6318 2 роки тому

    The way the women was gasing you up I love it lol 😂😂👏🏾👏🏾there so nice and welcoming 🥰

  • @virginiabarbara4053
    @virginiabarbara4053 2 роки тому +88

    It's so funny to see how mesmerized they are because you can speak perfect Chinese!! Keep doing you girl!!!

  • @FelThommy
    @FelThommy 2 роки тому +85

    The fact that you made something so beautiful out of this is sooo creative 💥✌🏽✌🏽

  • @storytimetv1
    @storytimetv1 2 роки тому +78

    THEY WERE JUST REALLY EXCITED.

  • @peanutbutter3102
    @peanutbutter3102 Рік тому

    That was so cute! You're really pretty, no wonder he was interested...I hope y'all talk to each other, it was adorable

  • @zelda_the_queen2096
    @zelda_the_queen2096 10 місяців тому

    Oh my gosh this is so cute! What a beautiful interaction. Also they are right, you’re very beautiful 😊

  • @watermelonsugarr9958
    @watermelonsugarr9958 2 роки тому +105

    I like the woman who is endlessly complimenting you

  • @christyslif4666
    @christyslif4666 2 роки тому +60

    I wish every race welcomed others this way! So beautiful and heartwarming

  • @dailywithsun2530
    @dailywithsun2530 2 роки тому +79

    That lady kept saying your hair is beautiful 😂😍🔥 and the dude was deffo obsessed he deffo felt as though he made it 😂💀

  • @meganbrown8749
    @meganbrown8749 2 роки тому +3

    Love this video they were definitely shocked reason your black beautiful woman and knew their language. I had mentioned to my daughter years ago to study and learn different languages it can take you far in your career and in life . Congratulations my sister keep up the good work do you know other languages?

  • @iMsOiNsO
    @iMsOiNsO 2 роки тому +2

    i always love and appreciate people who learn other cultures and languages, and love when those people from different places get so happy to see others people speaking their language

  • @thugchuldtv
    @thugchuldtv 2 роки тому +24

    Smitten!!!!!! Home boy was not trina miss his shot lmaoo. You handle everything so elegantly.such class!!!

  • @berthonylouis5823
    @berthonylouis5823 2 роки тому +287

    You should TEACH Chinese on UA-cam for a small fee on the weekend..

  • @JustAndreaEdna
    @JustAndreaEdna 2 роки тому

    Beautiful video! Your patience with a people other than your own was a blessing to watch. They were so impressed with your mastery of their language.💕🥰

  • @belovedage
    @belovedage Рік тому

    They ready to make you part of their family 💖💖💖

  • @nalya0
    @nalya0 2 роки тому +78

    His reactions are funny, it's cute. They really like your hair, it's true that it's beautiful 💕

    • @delroymckoy2742
      @delroymckoy2742 2 роки тому +4

      I like the reception she got, I am a new UA-camr and I know I will learn something from her…

    • @delroymckoy2742
      @delroymckoy2742 2 роки тому +1

      I checked out your channel and realized you have no videos, didn’t know you could start a channel like that, cool 😎

    • @pokeaman1645
      @pokeaman1645 2 роки тому

      Have you ever seen a Chinese person have curly or afro hair, never

    • @delroymckoy2742
      @delroymckoy2742 2 роки тому

      @@pokeaman1645 lol, never for me too

  • @unkiindg
    @unkiindg 2 роки тому +283

    The 8:34 "how is that even related?"
    Killed me. 😂😂😂😂
    First time viewer here on this channel! You're so fluent! Its a god given gift to speak multiple languages and feel whole with the native tongue. Its beautiful. He was so excited and you opened up his personality to the fullest! So cute! 😂😂
    Keep being amazing!

  • @Amaechipov
    @Amaechipov 2 роки тому +121

    I enjoyed every bit of this vlog surprised that guy again he will be so pleased to meet you

  • @RC-yb5dp
    @RC-yb5dp Рік тому +1

    This is my first time watching your channel, and I have enjoyed it immensely. You are so beautiful with a beautiful voice in any language.

  • @nikkirockznikkirockz8551
    @nikkirockznikkirockz8551 Рік тому +1

    Gurrrlll, you rocked homeboy's wooorrrlllddd just by showin' up!!! 😊

  • @Soulociraptr
    @Soulociraptr 2 роки тому +54

    This was really nice! Homeboy definitely had a crush! 😂
    And I love how excited people get, seeing foreigners getting immersed in their culture.

  • @cheryljennings-blanchet2016
    @cheryljennings-blanchet2016 2 роки тому +67

    I’m soo happy that your videos are back!!!!!! I love hearing you speak Chinese. Yes girl that Chinese boy was mesmerized by you. It is so good of you to mix and mingle with the local everyday people. You are truly educating them about someone who may be unfamiliar with them. I praise you girl for making the world a better place love ❤️ love ❤️ love ❤️

  • @megshawskitchen
    @megshawskitchen 2 роки тому +27

    The genuine smile on his face is making me smile too. That’s so cute. He feels so much happier that you can communicate in his language too which is a plus

  • @mel-b7193
    @mel-b7193 2 роки тому +1

    This video changed my perspective on Chinese people.And its crazy how we grew up hating our hair but others find it beautiful..watching from Namibia🇳🇦

  • @alainpierre
    @alainpierre Рік тому +2

    I really understand the chinese boy's enthusiasm, you are really very beautiful! Kisses from Brazil.

  • @SNXO
    @SNXO 2 роки тому +43

    This brother is STARVING 😭