We love a straight forward queen. The fact she told him so confidentially she wouldn’t go on another date was great. Often people are like “yeaah you know maybe sure” I love that she is honest, saves a lot of time. Good on her
uh, no. you're praising her for the wrong reasons. she was so interested in him right up until that son question about raising sons, and then instantly switched up. she is in the wrong here
@@daquonsimmons8240 If she caught a bad vibe then that’s what it is. There’s nothing wrong with changing your mind. She was respectful and honest. Most people would waste your time and keep engaging when they’re not even interested. If it was the other way around you’d be like yeah fuck her, her views are wrong. But whatever though. Something tells me you’re very closed minded. And it also sounds like you think a female owes you something just cause YOU thought she was into you
I love everyone who participated in this video. They were all blunt, yet kind. Took it seriously, yet still had fun. It was awkward, yet flowed seamlessly. Great casting!
@@daquonsimmons8240 You're probably the 'trash bag' that they were talking about. You just radiate frustration with your spamming this comment section... it's hilarious 😆
@@daquonsimmons8240 Yeah cause she learned about the fighting and the way he wanted to raise his kids. Nothing wrong with losing interest after learning more about a person.
@@ohwelljamie I agree with him, but it should be equal playing fields for both genders. You always gotta give discipline in a smart fashion, where the child learns morals the correct way, otherwise it’s gonna fall apart.
For sure! I LOVE how she was so direct and honest about her views on it and how she explained why she didn't want to go on another date at the end. Loved it!
I love that she called him out on the raising boys/girls differently. Like please just love your children and be soft with them! The world is hard enough.
What stood out to me was when he said “manly” very subtle though, I mean boys are supposed to be “manly” but that statement came across as, if he happens to have a fem son he will definitely be upset and probably lose interest in child.
This will be disagreed with, but as a man raising daughters and sons you love them equally but you have to prepare the boys for the world differently. That difference does mean giving them a little less slack than the girls.
The parental thing killed it for me aswell. Don't need a men who raises my kids with sexism. My kids will be both emotional and strong no matter the gender
Seems like his thoughts weren’t very developed on the situation, and probably pretty hard to judge him for something he’s barely given any thought to being so young. I feel boys and girls do need to be taught life lessons with different emphasis, because like it or not, society treats men and women differently and children need to be prepared to handle society.
@@HappyArchipelago I don´t care if he thought it out, only someone who thinks sexist would say something like he said. Then tell me which life lessons a boy needs thet a girl doesn´t and the other way arround. I think that good life lessons work for both the same I can´t think about one that I would have to make a difference between gender. Enlighten me which one would that be? When it comes to both controll I would explain each of them both versions therefor they can help their future partner since many parents fail their kids in that department
@@HappyArchipelago I'm sorry but my partner and I are 20 and we already know that we ain't raising our kids with sexism, you can prepare them and guide them for the real world experience without being an extension and mirror of it, as a parent I should be better than the real world, not the embodiment of it
@@modelo4504 I can do the extreme reaching conclusion like you and say she's going to raise intelligent and virtuous men while he's going to raise ignorant, reserved men that'll end up in dangerous situations for them and others around them because of lack of caring
@@leyetelleblue6696 what type of men you like?? Men that can take care of you or men that you gotta take care of, I know you don’t want a sensitive man that cries when he don’t get his way and like so many woman say “I’m going to raise him to be nothing like his father” but the father was the one to get under them pants so you going to make the opposite of that and he’ll be wondering why girls don’t like him cuz his sweet and caring that treat woman like queens when girls want the cold tuff strong man that treat woman like trash
@@modelo4504 Remember soft≠weak. He can be mentally stable and take care of himself, but he’s should also build his masculinity enough so it’s not fragile. Yk, let him have a break
I love how she handled her boundaries with dignity, smile and grace. I also love how she reacted to the toxic masculinity parenting strategy - dealing emotional harm by changing rules and denying part of their emotional intelligence until it is opressed. She has her heart in right place and her priorities and red flags set up elegantly.
I love how direct she was with her feelings about parenting and fighting. Also I love how accepting and respectful he was to her after. I have had polar opposite experience of this and it can get scary
Yes! Both of them were so respectful of each other especially when opposite opinion occurs. Instead of pushing their belief on each other, they allow differences but set boundaries of what they want at the same time.
@@xKaiyoo bounadaries for a future event that you have no idea how you'll handle? God damn i feel bad for your future relationships jfc. Get common sense
@@joejoemartinez6059 Thoses are differents believes, he want to raise his childreens in a different way compared to her. This isn't a fucking red flag, it is just different thinking that it. People have different opinion isn't a red flag but believing pp who don't have the same opinions as you is red flag that shit is your own red flag
@Michel Obasi Statistically, they are just as likely to commit violent crimes as normal people. However, children of single mothers are more likely to commit those crimes or be victims of said crimes. There is a difference in parenting when raising boys, the guy just didn't phrase it properly.
@@PROVOCATEURSK That’s literally my Dad 😭. My Dad didn’t really have a Dad in his life to raise him so essentially how he raised me and my sister was more aggressive and it’s like he wanted to assert his dominance on us
I love how she expressed herself. Very wholesome. I too saw an immediate red flag when he said he would parent boys differently. It's men thinking that men can't be soft....no. You go girl for standing up for that. Men have emotions too. Date was going so well before then. But I saw the change when he said that. Strong, well rounded men happen when you raise them with love and tell them they can express themselves. They tend to handle problems better without resorting to violence.
He views are a big red flag. I don't want a partner to raise our children soft. The soft kids are the ones that get chewed up and spit out by the world.
@@egolubitskiy Tough love is real. Being soft on your kids tells me you don’t love them; because if you loved them you’d be developing them, and development isn’t warm and fuzzy all the time.
IDK why but I found Cedric's stance on raising sons a little surprising, given his appearance (flower pin, pearls, nail polish). He just seemed like a more open-minded I guess? So that response wasn't expected. Still a good first date though
He's gotta be mirroring what he was taught by his father or male figures in his life. And it tracks--he's got issues with fighting, even with his sibling, so clearly that need to assert dominance has trailed him through his entire life unfortunately.
I’m curious why you think that’s a sign of immaturity? And why do you disagree with the notion of raising future men without only being soft with them?
@@furquawn7067 The whole mentality that a son should be treated with less nurture by they’re fathers is psychologically damaging. A very outdated mentality. Also what he said sounds like an ego thing. Think of your child first put them first and raise them right with love. What he said sounds ridiculous and pretty sad.
@@tideio From my perspective, I could totally understand if a father was completely cold to his son, and never showed love how that could be psychologically damaging. However, I don’t think the dude in the video implied that, and toning it down a notch, finding the balance between nurturing and a figure of respect seems like the way to do so. Only being nurturing and soft in my opinion, doesn’t make sense for this world we live in. It’s a hard place to navigate through, and nobody cares about you and your success or failures. And if you’re not mentally prepared for that, you will get used and walked over. Hence why I think only being soft with your kids doesn’t adequately prepare them for the world we live in.
Someone needs to be the one to show discipline and sometimes that means being harsh and cold. If your disagree then your too bias to even have a genuine conversation
@@DA-js7xz The dude didn't say he was gonna teach them to be fighters. You can teach your sons to be strong and manly, while also being strong communicators that know how to vulnerable
"Assert your dominance"? Weirdly old school (in a negative way) for a 23 year old! Besides that he seems chill. Hopefully he opens his mind as he gets older!
Lmfao the Mom’s face, she’s so disappointed after hearing her daughters answer about a... 😂 Wait isn’t Jade from the other vid when she was dancing and got buzzed? 🤣 I feel like they vibin’!
I LOVE THAT SHE CALLED HIM OUT ON THE PARENTING. the parenting thing rubbed me the wrong way. just be respectful and listen to them. gentle parenting is the best way to be.
Only gently raising a son makes him weak. There's a balance between gentleness and toughness, and I think especially for boys that's something they need to be taught.
even if they dont date, i honestly feel like they would have a good chance at being friends her mom wasn't lying when she said that they were a bit similar. their vibes are very similar
I think he needs to go to therapy based on how he talks about raising sons and a parents role lol why should she waste her time, its clear thats what she found issue with
@@imanieich506 I'm shocked at the people turned off by what he said. Dads are tougher on boys, moms are tougher on girls. The fact she said she would be "soft" with her children shows she isn't ready to raise a child.
@@debellatios My dad was strict with my half-brother, and it's been 20 years since they last spoke. He didn't even attend the funeral when our dad passed away. My grandmother told me that because of what happened to my half brother, my father wasn't as strict with us.
@@bchevon There's varying degrees of strictness. You absolutely need to be strict with equal parts love. You're their parent and authority figure, not their best buddy.
I love when Jade called out the Egotistic traits fathers do with their Sons. You don't have to he hard on your boys for them to be men. That's teaching them aggressiveness and prideful energy... I seen some dads who gentle parent and their sons grew up to be assertive mean business comprehending life type of men. There's a difference in proper discipline and being a bully
its not being egotistical, its knowing how to have authority in his household. like you said showing discipline, you cant just be all accepting and lovey-dovey with your kids 100% of the time. They would never learn from their mistakes nor take example from their parents.
@@5kitz hmmmm Setting a Discipline Tone doesn't resort in being negative though far as arguing, yelling,shouting,being aggressive etc 🤷🏽♀️ it's being Assertive while teaching firmly with the base in your voice ya'know lol .. Some Males have a fucked up way in being as such is my P.O.V. never said don't discipline but discipline properly not on bully type of time but I've seen some abusers abuse. A lot of guys are raised off of "CONTROL & POWER GAIN" not so much how to be a MAN and yes some times it is and egotistical trait. I grew up with brothers I'm the baby out of 4 males and 1 older sister. Trust me I know some shit is a hard pill to swallow for acceptance but I speak Truths 💯 😌 while also respecting others opinions too respectfully. My Point is PROPERLY DISCIPLINE 🤷🏽♀️...
@@sola_a you realize most kids treated with discipline gain gratitude for their parents and their own situation? if anything it helps with that as well.
She need to let him go. I know men like that. They are sexist asf. He said he wouldn’t treat his son softly. He has toxic masculinity. Men who believe in that also believe that women can’t have sex but men can. I know he will let his son bring girls and do whatever he want but not let his daughter do that. Cmon women, be smart.
@@Dariusissocool which everyone knows that’s just how parents are. Moms are tough on their girls but have a soft sport for their boys; dads are tough in their boys and have a soft spot for their girls.
@@debellatios lmao wtf? That's some whacky generalizing statement. No. Do better. Raise everyone to be strong, kind, sensitive, and emotionally intelligent. We don't need any more manchildren who act like they are entitled to women's bodies and attention. We don't need parents who tell their children they have to dress "like a boy/girl". We don't need parents who tell boys they should ignore their pain and feelings. We don't need parents who tell girls to be people pleasers and good wives.
@@GenesisBish it’s just true. Ask any parent. And don’t jump to conclusions, I didn’t say we needed parents to raise boys to think they’re entitled to women’s bodies. Jesus. Do better.
It’s more than just a parenting style. It is and can develop into how you view love in general. Seeing someone look at their child and not wanna kiss them, hug them, make them feel loved says more about the persons perception of love than their parenting styles.
He was great until he said the thing about the boys and "I'm not your friend I'm your parents" mentality, that with regular fighting mmm no, girl don't go there
i feel like ik what he means when raising boys, i think he wants to raise sons to be raised into a “man” but i think all kids should be loved with softness and equality
Everyone in the comments is focused on the parenting style mismatch not being a flag while ignoring the fact he has been banned from MULTIPLE places for >>fighting
The way she & I both lost interest when he started talking about raising sons & daughters differently. 😩 What is this? The 1950’s? That was a literal lifetime ago. All kids should be raised the same (while taking into consideration their unique needs of course) regardless of their gender. Boys can be “soft” & girls can be “tough.” Just raise your kids to be empathetic, kind, open-minded and respectful of equality for all. Cedric might need to go to therapy before raising kids so as to not pass on his own trauma/issues.
The facial expressions of the mom are everything for me 😂👌🏻
The mom is more beautiful than her daughter.
@@SchwarzSchwertkampfer did you feel good typing this
I love how confident she is in her feelings and values and how openly she expresses them.
came to say exactly this!
Just wish she didn't support torturing of foxes and dogs for fashion.
@@DA-js7xz do we know for sure that it isn't faux fur or are you just assuming 🤔
@@DA-js7xzgosh ur annoying
She’s way better than me because I wouldn’t care at all what he said. He fine. Let’s see each other again with out my mom.
We love a straight forward queen. The fact she told him so confidentially she wouldn’t go on another date was great. Often people are like “yeaah you know maybe sure” I love that she is honest, saves a lot of time. Good on her
uh, no. you're praising her for the wrong reasons. she was so interested in him right up until that son question about raising sons, and then instantly switched up. she is in the wrong here
@@daquonsimmons8240 but she was still straight forward and said she wouldn’t want a second date. If they aren’t on the same page better to end it now.
Good for him too. She ain't worth it.
@@daquonsimmons8240 If she caught a bad vibe then that’s what it is. There’s nothing wrong with changing your mind. She was respectful and honest. Most people would waste your time and keep engaging when they’re not even interested. If it was the other way around you’d be like yeah fuck her, her views are wrong. But whatever though. Something tells me you’re very closed minded. And it also sounds like you think a female owes you something just cause YOU thought she was into you
@Michel Obasi why are u her biggest supporter ever stop defending someone who doesnt know u exist
Am I the only one who’d be absolutely mortified being on a date and talking about my sex life so casually in front of my mother?! 😭
Of course not.
It depends on the relation with your mom ig
I'd be pretty comfortable with it, especially with my dad
No
@@scooopable that's weird of u to admit that
her mom is so pretty
I was thinking the same thing.
Yes!!!
Absolutely. Look at her smile
Milf hunter
Facts.
I love everyone who participated in this video. They were all blunt, yet kind. Took it seriously, yet still had fun. It was awkward, yet flowed seamlessly. Great casting!
I couldn’t have said it better myself! Awkward yet flowed is a great way to put it.
i dont like the girl at all. she was so interested then switched up so fast. also, the mom is better looking than her
@@daquonsimmons8240 You're probably the 'trash bag' that they were talking about. You just radiate frustration with your spamming this comment section... it's hilarious 😆
@@shoelacedonkey and u clearly have zero friends. look at how u look. and your entire account
I love how direct she is with her feelings without being rude or harsh.
i dont like the girl at all. she was so interested then switched up so fast. also, the mom is better looking than her
@@daquonsimmons8240 Yeah cause she learned about the fighting and the way he wanted to raise his kids. Nothing wrong with losing interest after learning more about a person.
@@daquonsimmons8240 Why do you paste this inane comment all over this comment section? It doesn't even make sense...
@@shoelacedonkey why do u have zero friends? it doesn't even make sense...
@@shoelacedonkey because this girl is full of herself. she thinks she is really good, she will never be a rihanna or zendaya.
Man she dried up instantly when he started talking about raising sons
and rightly so.
lost interest real quick
@@ohwelljamie I agree with him, but it should be equal playing fields for both genders. You always gotta give discipline in a smart fashion, where the child learns morals the correct way, otherwise it’s gonna fall apart.
For sure! I LOVE how she was so direct and honest about her views on it and how she explained why she didn't want to go on another date at the end. Loved it!
@@aus-li Equal doesn't mean the same though. Boys and girls _are_ different and treating them the same isn't fair to either.
I love that she called him out on the raising boys/girls differently. Like please just love your children and be soft with them! The world is hard enough.
It’s always good to have a balance
What stood out to me was when he said “manly” very subtle though, I mean boys are supposed to be “manly” but that statement came across as, if he happens to have a fem son he will definitely be upset and probably lose interest in child.
This will be disagreed with, but as a man raising daughters and sons you love them equally but you have to prepare the boys for the world differently. That difference does mean giving them a little less slack than the girls.
@@Kwesi-Nimako nah, you got the wrong read on that one .
This comment is contradicting
Her immediate face change when he said "assert my dominance " 🤣🤣 same
Most failed sons are raised by single parent households, and those households are single mothers. Maybe y’all need MEN to teach boys how to be MEN
he also said “assort” not assert, which that alone threw me off
No cus fr 😭
The parental thing killed it for me aswell. Don't need a men who raises my kids with sexism. My kids will be both emotional and strong no matter the gender
Same. I don’t gave a shit if he is a good person. I don’t want my daughter to feel what I felt and feel bad for being a girl.
exactly
Seems like his thoughts weren’t very developed on the situation, and probably pretty hard to judge him for something he’s barely given any thought to being so young. I feel boys and girls do need to be taught life lessons with different emphasis, because like it or not, society treats men and women differently and children need to be prepared to handle society.
@@HappyArchipelago I don´t care if he thought it out, only someone who thinks sexist would say something like he said. Then tell me which life lessons a boy needs thet a girl doesn´t and the other way arround. I think that good life lessons work for both the same I can´t think about one that I would have to make a difference between gender. Enlighten me which one would that be? When it comes to both controll I would explain each of them both versions therefor they can help their future partner since many parents fail their kids in that department
@@HappyArchipelago I'm sorry but my partner and I are 20 and we already know that we ain't raising our kids with sexism, you can prepare them and guide them for the real world experience without being an extension and mirror of it, as a parent I should be better than the real world, not the embodiment of it
This was really cute! I liked how they both respected each other even though they have their differences
She gunna raise sum soft spoken men that’s gunna let woman walk all over them and he is gunna raise strong leaders
@@modelo4504 I can do the extreme reaching conclusion like you and say she's going to raise intelligent and virtuous men while he's going to raise ignorant, reserved men that'll end up in dangerous situations for them and others around them because of lack of caring
@@leyetelleblue6696 what type of men you like?? Men that can take care of you or men that you gotta take care of, I know you don’t want a sensitive man that cries when he don’t get his way and like so many woman say “I’m going to raise him to be nothing like his father” but the father was the one to get under them pants so you going to make the opposite of that and he’ll be wondering why girls don’t like him cuz his sweet and caring that treat woman like queens when girls want the cold tuff strong man that treat woman like trash
@@leyetelleblue6696 ouuuu you much be mad😂😂😂
@@modelo4504 Remember soft≠weak. He can be mentally stable and take care of himself, but he’s should also build his masculinity enough so it’s not fragile. Yk, let him have a break
I love how she handled her boundaries with dignity, smile and grace.
I also love how she reacted to the toxic masculinity parenting strategy - dealing emotional harm by changing rules and denying part of their emotional intelligence until it is opressed. She has her heart in right place and her priorities and red flags set up elegantly.
u love a girl who is arrogant, and full of herself? she set herself up for failure
she is someone who is very judgemental and mean
Her Mom is the best... Literally entertaining ❤️
I love how direct she was with her feelings about parenting and fighting. Also I love how accepting and respectful he was to her after. I have had polar opposite experience of this and it can get scary
Yes! Both of them were so respectful of each other especially when opposite opinion occurs. Instead of pushing their belief on each other, they allow differences but set boundaries of what they want at the same time.
i dont like the girl at all. she was so interested then switched up so fast. also, the mom is better looking than her
@@daquonsimmons8240 people are allowed to change their minds. They disagreed on something that was a major factor for her.
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Same girl lol
she is so sincere and gentle at the same time, i love that
Nothing gentle in wearing a dead dog
by sincere and gentle u mean arrogant and rude then yes. shes like a 3 at best
i dont like the girl at all. she was so interested then switched up so fast. also, the mom is better looking than her
Ugh, I LOVE that she stuck to what she believes in and cut things when she saw those red flags 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 that confidence + intelligence are top tier
Red flags according to her.
Red flags is a different parenting style? Jfc you are such a feminist
not red flags but boundaries two different things
@@xKaiyoo bounadaries for a future event that you have no idea how you'll handle? God damn i feel bad for your future relationships jfc. Get common sense
@@joejoemartinez6059 Thoses are differents believes, he want to raise his childreens in a different way compared to her.
This isn't a fucking red flag, it is just different thinking that it.
People have different opinion isn't a red flag but believing pp who don't have the same opinions as you is red flag that shit is your own red flag
His parental ideas would have thrown me, as well. As his fighting. It's good that you bailed out, good choice, girl! And Mom is awesome, as well!
Why do you think boys of single mothers are so troubled? Boys need a man to be raised to be a good man, most women can´t do that.
@Michel Obasi Statistically, they are just as likely to commit violent crimes as normal people. However, children of single mothers are more likely to commit those crimes or be victims of said crimes. There is a difference in parenting when raising boys, the guy just didn't phrase it properly.
@@PROVOCATEURSK That’s literally my Dad 😭. My Dad didn’t really have a Dad in his life to raise him so essentially how he raised me and my sister was more aggressive and it’s like he wanted to assert his dominance on us
I remember Jade from The Button! She has an amazing personality, thanks for bringing her back🫶🏼
is the mom drinking straight vodka lol
I thought it was water! 😂
I love her. She came in and knew exactly what she wanted and didn't settle for less 👑
she had like 5 billion things on her checklist, she will never find the right person
plus she toxic and arrogant
She obviously doesn't if she's slept around and only chooses shitty people.
I love how she expressed herself. Very wholesome. I too saw an immediate red flag when he said he would parent boys differently. It's men thinking that men can't be soft....no. You go girl for standing up for that. Men have emotions too. Date was going so well before then. But I saw the change when he said that. Strong, well rounded men happen when you raise them with love and tell them they can express themselves. They tend to handle problems better without resorting to violence.
Jade is so pretty! I really like her style, and I like how open and honest she was about her thoughts on certain topics.
pretty? uh NO she is not. the mom is pretty, she looks like a bootleg lil nas x
I am so here for her challenging him on his views on parenting. That is absolutely something that would break the deal for me as well.
He views are a big red flag. I don't want a partner to raise our children soft. The soft kids are the ones that get chewed up and spit out by the world.
@@debellatios We all get chewed up and spit out by the world. But having a support system behind us who hold us in love makes all the difference.
@@egolubitskiy Tough love is real. Being soft on your kids tells me you don’t love them; because if you loved them you’d be developing them, and development isn’t warm and fuzzy all the time.
@Brad H I bet yo daddy beat you like a worn out drum.
@lmao nope, nice try. Tough love is helping your kids develop into responsible adults by promoting responsible behaviors and actions.
She's amazing, quickly recognized that it wasn't gonna work for her and bailed out. Dude needs to do some reflexion on parenting
IDK why but I found Cedric's stance on raising sons a little surprising, given his appearance (flower pin, pearls, nail polish). He just seemed like a more open-minded I guess? So that response wasn't expected. Still a good first date though
If he's using violence as a form of communication, then it shouldn't be surprising.
He's gotta be mirroring what he was taught by his father or male figures in his life. And it tracks--he's got issues with fighting, even with his sibling, so clearly that need to assert dominance has trailed him through his entire life unfortunately.
Mom always chooses someone she thinks will be a good influence on you but not everyone likes that
It went totally left for me when he said he wouldn’t be soft with his sons, he needs some growing up to do.
I think he meant in general
I’m curious why you think that’s a sign of immaturity? And why do you disagree with the notion of raising future men without only being soft with them?
@@furquawn7067 The whole mentality that a son should be treated with less nurture by they’re fathers is psychologically damaging. A very outdated mentality. Also what he said sounds like an ego thing. Think of your child first put them first and raise them right with love. What he said sounds ridiculous and pretty sad.
@@tideio From my perspective, I could totally understand if a father was completely cold to his son, and never showed love how that could be psychologically damaging.
However, I don’t think the dude in the video implied that, and toning it down a notch, finding the balance between nurturing and a figure of respect seems like the way to do so.
Only being nurturing and soft in my opinion, doesn’t make sense for this world we live in. It’s a hard place to navigate through, and nobody cares about you and your success or failures. And if you’re not mentally prepared for that, you will get used and walked over.
Hence why I think only being soft with your kids doesn’t adequately prepare them for the world we live in.
Someone needs to be the one to show discipline and sometimes that means being harsh and cold. If your disagree then your too bias to even have a genuine conversation
I was fully rooting for him until the parental question, after his answer I was like damn he’s out.
It makes sense. He clearly was raised the same way: to physically hurt others instead of using his brain and communicating.
@@DA-js7xz The dude didn't say he was gonna teach them to be fighters. You can teach your sons to be strong and manly, while also being strong communicators that know how to vulnerable
Facts, he was giving drill sergeant "I'm the boss" chest beating vibes, bad for raising emotionally intelligent, balanced, healthy sons.
@@BertBerenhap wrong.
@@BertBerenhap the dude who gets banned from clubs for fighting is gonna teach his kids how to use words lol sure bud
"Assert your dominance"? Weirdly old school (in a negative way) for a 23 year old! Besides that he seems chill. Hopefully he opens his mind as he gets older!
he's a parrot
Omg I love the mom! She’s so sweet and and funny-
the mom is better than the daughter
Her style is immaculate
Nah lol. That 20’s vibe ain’t it. Her mom is fly though.
Wearing a tortured and skinned infant animal is immaculate? Nah bro.
um no, nothing about her style is immaculate. the mom looks way better than her, and im not even kidding
Jade is gorgeous!
Her mom, too!
She did the funny dance on the Button right? I giggle every time I watch that episode
I would be so nervous going on a date in front of my mom omg- I can’t- Also, the mom’s face at 3:31 got me 🤣
As soon as he said "My relationship with god (more important than anything)", I knew why her mom choose him! (I'm not religious)
i love how open and honest she is. she definitely knows her worth 😌 good on her!!
You should do the mum press red button to press whenever she starts to not like the boy. And also the girl should be blindfolded lol
Lmfao the Mom’s face, she’s so disappointed after hearing her daughters answer about a... 😂 Wait isn’t Jade from the other vid when she was dancing and got buzzed? 🤣 I feel like they vibin’!
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I mean, he is handsome and what not.
But damn it, she is beyond beautiful! Great sense of style as well.
Wearing a dead dog is not great style..
she looks like a bootleg Lil Nas X, she aint even good
I LOVE THAT SHE CALLED HIM OUT ON THE PARENTING. the parenting thing rubbed me the wrong way. just be respectful and listen to them. gentle parenting is the best way to be.
Naw raising a man is different
Only gently raising a son makes him weak. There's a balance between gentleness and toughness, and I think especially for boys that's something they need to be taught.
@@BertBerenhap I’m curious, what characteristics does a weak boy have?
i dont like the girl at all. she was so interested then switched up so fast. also, the mom is better looking than her
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even if they dont date, i honestly feel like they would have a good chance at being friends
her mom wasn't lying when she said that they were a bit similar. their vibes are very similar
nooo he's so fake
and she's so genuine
Her mom's smile is amazing
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I just can't get over how amazing her style is. The gold nails, the peacock feather, the beret/headwrap combo.
Fucking fire
Wearing a dead dog isn't fire.
uh what? she doesnt look good at all
@@daquonsimmons8240 lol dude calm down
@@cookiegirl891 i'm being honest. im baffled at all of u guys gassing her up. she aint even all that
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She's a confident woman! I loved that
It definitely was a sex thing like you don’t think girls need to learn how to assert themselves?
The mom is giving me serious Michelle Obama vibes. She just radiates class and elegance ❤️
so shes michelle obama cuz shes both black? racism is still alive folks
the way her mom laughs is so cute and contagious!!
I swear they look so cute and chill together they’d make a good couple or friends at least
"sibling fighting is different"
Yeah. In childhood.
Ugh her honesty and values are amaaaazzzing👏🏼
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real gross how he talked about raising boys.... she is lovely tho.
"WAITA WAITA WAIT A MINUTE" this dude has me dying
THIS IS LIKE PARENTAL CONTROL OFF MTV !!! Who remembers?? 🔥
YES
I miss those wild mtv shows. NEXT, Room Raiders lol
I would be too mesmerized by her style to answer the questions. :D
I hope we get to see more of jade, she seems very (emotionally) intelligent and confident, I love it!
CUT PLEASE BRING BACK THE BLIND DATE BOX VIDEOS
He’s spot on about raising kids and she’s why kids act like they do. He definitely avoided a headache with her not wanting a second date
OMG JADE!!! She’s the one who got buzzed out after dancing 😂 I loved her in that video.
Yessss xD
Also that blind date look at eachother phones with the Asian guy it was hilarious
I am always surprised to see people at this young age have so much experience. I am almost 26 and never had a relationship.
Me too! I'm 28.
her mom is so pretty and her voice is so soothing
as soon as i heard banned from different stores and fighting it instantly killed it for ne
I think she should go out with him if only to discuss her reservations about dating him. They both might learn something! ❤️
I think he needs to go to therapy based on how he talks about raising sons and a parents role lol why should she waste her time, its clear thats what she found issue with
@@imanieich506 so you think he needs to be engineered to have a weaker and more submissive mindset. This generation, haha.
@@imanieich506 I'm shocked at the people turned off by what he said. Dads are tougher on boys, moms are tougher on girls. The fact she said she would be "soft" with her children shows she isn't ready to raise a child.
@@debellatios My dad was strict with my half-brother, and it's been 20 years since they last spoke. He didn't even attend the funeral when our dad passed away. My grandmother told me that because of what happened to my half brother, my father wasn't as strict with us.
@@bchevon There's varying degrees of strictness. You absolutely need to be strict with equal parts love. You're their parent and authority figure, not their best buddy.
I love when Jade called out the Egotistic traits fathers do with their Sons. You don't have to he hard on your boys for them to be men. That's teaching them aggressiveness and prideful energy... I seen some dads who gentle parent and their sons grew up to be assertive mean business comprehending life type of men.
There's a difference in proper discipline and being a bully
How will you tell a man how to raise a man?
its not being egotistical, its knowing how to have authority in his household. like you said showing discipline, you cant just be all accepting and lovey-dovey with your kids 100% of the time. They would never learn from their mistakes nor take example from their parents.
@@5kitz hmmmm Setting a Discipline Tone doesn't resort in being negative though far as arguing, yelling,shouting,being aggressive etc 🤷🏽♀️ it's being Assertive while teaching firmly with the base in your voice ya'know lol .. Some Males have a fucked up way in being as such is my P.O.V. never said don't discipline but discipline properly not on bully type of time but I've seen some abusers abuse. A lot of guys are raised off of "CONTROL & POWER GAIN" not so much how to be a MAN and yes some times it is and egotistical trait. I grew up with brothers I'm the baby out of 4 males and 1 older sister. Trust me I know some shit is a hard pill to swallow for acceptance but I speak Truths 💯 😌 while also respecting others opinions too respectfully.
My Point is PROPERLY DISCIPLINE 🤷🏽♀️...
@@5kitzit's parents like this that wonder why their kids won't call over visit after they move out.
@@sola_a you realize most kids treated with discipline gain gratitude for their parents and their own situation? if anything it helps with that as well.
I wish I had her level of boldness to voice out her values and boundaries unhesitantly!
For some reason, from the thumbnail - I thought it was the man's mum.
She dressed up like First Lady at a Baptist church
7:39 THIS MANS FACE AHAHAHAHAHAHA
I had to pause the video to avoid second hand embarrassment 😭
My heart dropped instantly, moms was shocked too😭
@@martincarmel9078 Her bluntness was a little shocking, but he took it well. Didn't find it that awkward.
@@TrankDuo7 her bluntness was REFRESHING. Fuck. I wish more people were that honest.
It’s dancing Jade , I love her pls. 😂🫶🏾
he's smiling the entire time like he's proud of his acting
he just mirrors her
lies
he's proud of his bad behavior
That got awkward really quickly 😭
I didn’t really see it working either wouldn’t say it got awkward though
you guys should make follow up videos for people who have stayed together since one of these videos
Parents selecting blind dates is so common in India . We call it marriage 😛
Mom is cute and daughters style is pristine!!!
I like how their red flags were losing interest quickly and they really did.
I love the mom's reaction. She's screaming inside with them questions. I died when the anal topic came in. Kudos!
The mom’s facial expressions were cracking me up
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Jade ? I want more of her. First saw her do that dance from that blind date 💯.
Both Of Them Are Beautiful !
The mother's reactions to everything is just the funniest thing!
She need to let him go. I know men like that. They are sexist asf. He said he wouldn’t treat his son softly. He has toxic masculinity. Men who believe in that also believe that women can’t have sex but men can. I know he will let his son bring girls and do whatever he want but not let his daughter do that. Cmon women, be smart.
He didn’t say any of any of that.
@@debellatios He did allude to treating them differently so that is a reasonable conclusion to draw. It is only an 8min video so who knows.
@@Dariusissocool which everyone knows that’s just how parents are. Moms are tough on their girls but have a soft sport for their boys; dads are tough in their boys and have a soft spot for their girls.
@@debellatios lmao wtf? That's some whacky generalizing statement. No. Do better. Raise everyone to be strong, kind, sensitive, and emotionally intelligent. We don't need any more manchildren who act like they are entitled to women's bodies and attention. We don't need parents who tell their children they have to dress "like a boy/girl". We don't need parents who tell boys they should ignore their pain and feelings. We don't need parents who tell girls to be people pleasers and good wives.
@@GenesisBish it’s just true. Ask any parent. And don’t jump to conclusions, I didn’t say we needed parents to raise boys to think they’re entitled to women’s bodies. Jesus. Do better.
It’s more than just a parenting style. It is and can develop into how you view love in general. Seeing someone look at their child and not wanna kiss them, hug them, make them feel loved says more about the persons perception of love than their parenting styles.
That’s not what he said though.
Asserting dominance on a child is a huge red flag
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He was def being polite
He was great until he said the thing about the boys and "I'm not your friend I'm your parents" mentality, that with regular fighting mmm no, girl don't go there
these blind dates are such a breath of fresh air from the Button blind dates lmao
i feel like ik what he means when raising boys, i think he wants to raise sons to be raised into a “man” but i think all kids should be loved with softness and equality
Yes, I was thinking the same thing.
I love how Cedric be sporting that Bass Pro Shops headgear there.....definitely Mom's #1 choice!
This date was very funny😂
But yeah can y’all do the 12h in the box?
jesus joined the table and i checked out metaphysically as fast as this girl left the chat when he started talking about having sons
🚩🚩🚩 he does know he can teach his sons to be strong while also exhibiting softness & kindness
Everyone should treat women like princess and men like a soldier. That's how it's supposed to be.
@@truth6074 you're spittin nothin but truth
Everyone in the comments is focused on the parenting style mismatch not being a flag while ignoring the fact he has been banned from MULTIPLE places for >>fighting
lmao "relationship with god", relationship with a fictional book character lmao. i have a cracking relationship with harry potter
The pic made me think Jade was the mom w that church hat.
This is so immortally funny. I am laughing my ass off
"and I'd do it again"... Truer words have never been spoken 🤣
The way she & I both lost interest when he started talking about raising sons & daughters differently. 😩 What is this? The 1950’s? That was a literal lifetime ago. All kids should be raised the same (while taking into consideration their unique needs of course) regardless of their gender. Boys can be “soft” & girls can be “tough.” Just raise your kids to be empathetic, kind, open-minded and respectful of equality for all. Cedric might need to go to therapy before raising kids so as to not pass on his own trauma/issues.
Right, how would you know how it is to be raised as a man ?
I like her style she has this regal retro thing going for her. She’s a cutie!
i dont like the girl at all. she was so interested then switched up so fast. also, the mom is better looking than her
Wearing a dead dog isn't stylish.
@@daquonsimmons8240 I didnt ask you though so why are you telling me that?
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I wish I could do this with my mom but I would drink at every question 😂
I can never get over how fine this man is 😩