Gay Couples Raising Children (Part 2) |Unpacked With Relebogile Mabotja - Episode 20 | Season 2

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  • Опубліковано 7 сер 2024
  • 2 Individuals share their journey as married gay couples raising children - Part 2
    Studio Guests: Gavin Probs & Lukhanyo Kwenene
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 97

  • @thabosithole9982
    @thabosithole9982 3 роки тому +40

    Lukhanyo look and sound so happy 😊. Man he's blessed.

  • @russelnkuna1127
    @russelnkuna1127 3 роки тому +11

    I didn't realize how ready I am to father someone until I watched this. I'm having the conversation with my partner in the morning.

  • @xolanishabangu1089
    @xolanishabangu1089 3 роки тому +18

    This symposium was so insightful and it raises awareness to people who discriminate against gay parents. Well done big Sis we are looking forward to more conversations that promote tolerance and social cohesion among South Africans.

  • @ambrosiasegomotsomoeng8364
    @ambrosiasegomotsomoeng8364 3 роки тому +27

    I love how Lukhanyo is so graceful ❤️❤️❤️

  • @hazelvusi
    @hazelvusi 3 роки тому +12

    This is wonderful thanks Gavin and Lukhanyo and your partners for bringing hope and light to these beautiful innocent souls.

  • @sipelelemadlulela789
    @sipelelemadlulela789 3 роки тому +15

    Having what we can inimba in Xhosa makes you a parent. High🖐 to all gay couples raising kids

  • @emilyphenya6845
    @emilyphenya6845 3 роки тому +17

    The guys are amazing, really... well spoken and grounded to who they are🙂

  • @sontomaboko7568
    @sontomaboko7568 3 роки тому +6

    You make me feel so proud of my Profession...proud social worker

  • @yondontlahla
    @yondontlahla 3 роки тому +5

    This episode left me all warm and fuzzy inside! I am so happy for both guests, and yiu can witness the love! So authentic. Thank you Relebogile, Gavin and Lukhanyo.

  • @patienceikombele9161
    @patienceikombele9161 3 роки тому +8

    Loved the show... Thanks Lebo. Big ups to the two gentlemen and their partners for sharing their love with these kids.👌🙌

  • @khutsochoma4672
    @khutsochoma4672 3 роки тому +12

    Lebo you are a phenomenal sister, PHENOMENAL!

  • @jeromelubabalojacobs8872
    @jeromelubabalojacobs8872 3 роки тому +8

    Well done Lebo. I've been looking forward to part 2. Imagine my excitement when I saw part 2 suggested. It was worth the wait. Amazing content as usual.

  • @jeromelubabalojacobs8872
    @jeromelubabalojacobs8872 3 роки тому +10

    This was awesome. Children need love and these gay men are amazing parents

  • @henogtjikune7483
    @henogtjikune7483 3 роки тому +21

    Its so sad that Namibia 🇳🇦 still discriminate against gay parents. Imagine we still have the crime of sodomy in our common law in 2021, a law that was broughtby the British, German and dutch, and yet they say homosexuality is unafrican . It is so sad 😞. State sanctioned homophobia. Hopefully we learn alot from south Africa in terms of gay friends and right to family 👪. Wow thanks sis relebogile for this episode, they are both wonderful and proud parents. Wonderful stories ❤ 👏.

    • @nomxhosapekani7966
      @nomxhosapekani7966 3 роки тому +2

      Using parts of the same Bible that was a reason they were enslaved and raped as part of the laws, Some African countries really suffer from Stolkholm Syndrom.

    • @haydenvanderberg4877
      @haydenvanderberg4877 3 роки тому +8

      That's why I moved to S.A ,I could not handle being gay in Namibia even if i love and miss my country so much.My partner and i are raising a beautiful son now.

    • @nomxhosapekani7966
      @nomxhosapekani7966 3 роки тому +2

      @@haydenvanderberg4877 Good for you, wishing you happy parenting and family life.

    • @Ngasii
      @Ngasii 3 роки тому +1

      @@nomxhosapekani7966 woooooo MADAAAAM👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 they must know!

    • @henogtjikune7483
      @henogtjikune7483 3 роки тому +1

      @@haydenvanderberg4877 so I definitely hear you and am really happy 😊 for you, that you found love and a loving family 👪. Well don't forget to support the right to family in Namibia. This was an incredible year in terms of LGBTQIA issues. The potgieter case was heard before the high court and the Phillip lehl case also also hear before the high court. Society is slowly changing in the right direction.

  • @mosnakhaile4308
    @mosnakhaile4308 3 роки тому +3

    Relebogile, you're amazing. Thank you for the topics you cover, it's so wholesome hearing how open you are.
    I hope you have an opportunity to interview surrogates and parents who gave up their children for adoption. It would be lovely to hear from the "other side" of the story.

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 роки тому +5

    She knows where she left her children mos why angabuyelanga ekhaya ukuyokhankela abantwana 🙆‍♀️

  • @thandekilemafa1977
    @thandekilemafa1977 3 роки тому +12

    Thank you for this episode. Very informative, we need content like this. Keep up the good work👏

  • @lebogangdlaminilebogangdla1691
    @lebogangdlaminilebogangdla1691 3 роки тому +8

    Thank you Lebo for allowing these brilliant met to share their stories with us . they are awesome parents and this show is very informative

  • @luthandotetani6657
    @luthandotetani6657 3 роки тому +5

    Lukhanyo is so blessed ne. tjooooo now your won child coming from your husband. Blessed blessed

  • @lillianmaloleke6095
    @lillianmaloleke6095 3 роки тому +9

    Lukhanyo's story 😢😢😢

  • @nomsaconstancemboweni7065
    @nomsaconstancemboweni7065 3 роки тому +7

    Lukhanyo you so happy, I like it❤

  • @katlegomhlauli8423
    @katlegomhlauli8423 3 роки тому +6

    😭😭😭😭 all love and light to Lukhanyo ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @candyphillipchipopa7879
    @candyphillipchipopa7879 3 роки тому +3

    All we need is love......even gay people are humans,see how they are contributing in raising kids ,that means alot and takes alot of effort and courage......
    It's high time we stop judging these people nd become a little open minded and accept, accommodate each other 😭🙌♥️

  • @matifadzamainamunuwa8653
    @matifadzamainamunuwa8653 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you Lebo ,i come from a no gay country and i have learnt so much and understand them so much after hearing from them and i appreciate their challenges ,Ngiyabonga for the enlightenment.

  • @kamogelomabunda938
    @kamogelomabunda938 3 роки тому +3

    God bless Lukhanyo and his partner for taking his nephew . 👍🏼👍🏼

  • @viwenunu8410
    @viwenunu8410 3 роки тому +4

    Lukhanyo is at a good place. These gentlemen are content, it's beautiful!

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 роки тому +3

    Hayi man!😭😭iyamlimaza umntana lento ka mamakhe

  • @sinazonoqhamza6281
    @sinazonoqhamza6281 3 роки тому +3

    Loving the consistency

  • @chiccoponela3688
    @chiccoponela3688 3 роки тому +7

    I love you guys more especially because I am a biological mother myself.

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 роки тому +4

    Lukhanyo ufumene likhaya lakhe 🤗

  • @MrsMax2009
    @MrsMax2009 3 роки тому +5

    Phila cos uphila hayi 1..There is NO comeback !

  • @khanyizuma6513
    @khanyizuma6513 3 роки тому +5

    Beautiful show ...

  • @neosjournal_
    @neosjournal_ 2 роки тому +1

    Gavin seems like a really cool dad😂❤️

  • @thonkhaPatricia
    @thonkhaPatricia 3 роки тому +20

    I'm glad Lukhanyo remained in the closet then,even though it was painful. I feel people in that environment were gona kill him. Righteous people are very dangerous.

    • @jeromelubabalojacobs8872
      @jeromelubabalojacobs8872 3 роки тому +3

      "Righteous people are dangerous" wow that could be on a T-shirt. Very profound.

    • @Ngasii
      @Ngasii 3 роки тому

      JONGA! The righteous are wicked bona qala!

    • @rosequartz2290
      @rosequartz2290 3 роки тому

      Not as dangerous as people who don't know what gender their supposed to love

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 роки тому +3

    uxolo Lukhanyo you will be okay ne!

  • @vernonfredericks1226
    @vernonfredericks1226 2 роки тому +1

    Awesome guys. I loved 😍♥❤💗this episode.

  • @tholilegodi2613
    @tholilegodi2613 3 роки тому +1

    Wish I can listen to Lukhanyo's story over and over !!!!! 👌🏽

  • @PalesaJonas
    @PalesaJonas 3 роки тому +1

    Beautiful episode 😍

  • @charmzab101
    @charmzab101 3 роки тому +7

    Thank you for being authentic and sharing your stories

  • @siyamanengele2998
    @siyamanengele2998 3 роки тому +2

    I love Lukhanyo so so much.

  • @Ngasii
    @Ngasii 3 роки тому +3

    20:54: Ndicela ukuthi LOL kulo ndawo because we know that this has not stopped a looooooot of people and churches singing obliviously with whom they were taught is their enemy😂🤣

  • @kokimo6589
    @kokimo6589 3 роки тому +1

    I love this ❤

  • @guyarends5577
    @guyarends5577 3 роки тому +2

    wow love this

  • @Sbongile962
    @Sbongile962 3 роки тому +1

    WOW THEY ARE GREAT PARENTS

  • @sydneymphela3230
    @sydneymphela3230 2 роки тому +1

    Wonderful ....n also the are do many gay people that are still taking their life because of discrimination of our own society n it's sad

  • @sibongiledigasu9184
    @sibongiledigasu9184 3 роки тому +2

    Lukhanyo is blessed 🙌

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 роки тому +1

    People talk you do good bano nywere nywere,you do bad nywere nywere..
    Just do You boo!

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 роки тому +1

    My children are my life I will never leave them!!!The mother must have been really hurt to just up and leave the children 😭

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 роки тому +1

    And sounds happy too

  • @portiaphiri2682
    @portiaphiri2682 3 роки тому

    Rele, ke kopa di subtitles where your guests speak vernacular. It will be helpful SaMma 😘

  • @more2much696
    @more2much696 3 роки тому +3

    Mama also suffered because of the lie

  • @LEO-jq7sz
    @LEO-jq7sz 3 роки тому +2

    Lukhanyo 🤙🏾🤙🏾

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 роки тому +1

    uSisi kaLukhanyo usile as for yena uvunduka out of the blue

  • @luthandotetani6657
    @luthandotetani6657 3 роки тому +6

    See how God works.

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 роки тому +4

    I hate this "allowed " because people use to abuse others rather control them

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 роки тому +5

    Thandazelani endleni Christians are hypocrites.....

  • @whatsgoodinthehood5561
    @whatsgoodinthehood5561 3 роки тому +4

    Lukhanyo ❤️

  • @cjchidoofficial
    @cjchidoofficial 3 роки тому +1

    You both amazing

  • @emilyphenya6845
    @emilyphenya6845 3 роки тому +4

    Aus Lebs, showing her beautiful something 😜

  • @lelobaleni8258
    @lelobaleni8258 2 роки тому

    His sister's situation it's not his story to tell... 😏
    I even forgot what was the topic about 🤔
    Lukhanyo not cool dude

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 роки тому +1

    He does look happy.

  • @sheriseswithsonate9974
    @sheriseswithsonate9974 3 роки тому

    In your hands oh Lord I commit my self everyday. Help me

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 роки тому

    I hope she stays this time around

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 роки тому

    I don't buy it either

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 роки тому

    Ufuna imali ona le maaka

  • @more2much696
    @more2much696 3 роки тому +2

    If there are no straight parents available than a homosexual couple can adopt

  • @stellamooibedi9027
    @stellamooibedi9027 3 роки тому

    Narcissists,abusers and gaslighters are all found at churches hiding behind God's word.