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  • @SatoshiFibonacci
    @SatoshiFibonacci 5 років тому +3372

    Social media has 5’s feeling like 10’s smh

    • @keithwalker280
      @keithwalker280 5 років тому +27

      Walter Oliva-Gonzalez 😂😂😂💯💪🏽

    • @64gb85
      @64gb85 5 років тому +10

      Good. ;)

    • @SatoshiFibonacci
      @SatoshiFibonacci 5 років тому +161

      Keith Walker beta males need to stop giving validation to 5s so we can stop this nonsense 😂

    • @luckypierce5899
      @luckypierce5899 5 років тому +72

      Social media and thirsty beta males.

    • @kevinbutler6165
      @kevinbutler6165 5 років тому +4

      Facts. Bruh.

  • @QUNYC7
    @QUNYC7 5 років тому +2007

    If you treat a woman like a celebrity..she'll treat you like a fan!
    Pump and dump in 2020 and beyond fellas!

    • @kejuwanoyoro8508
      @kejuwanoyoro8508 5 років тому +39

      Come on man lol pump and dump every single one?

    • @QUNYC7
      @QUNYC7 5 років тому +96

      @@kejuwanoyoro8508 Yes simp...

    • @kejuwanoyoro8508
      @kejuwanoyoro8508 5 років тому +38

      @@QUNYC7 hold on im a simp cos i got a woman that i see more than a hit and run?

    • @QUNYC7
      @QUNYC7 5 років тому +84

      @@kejuwanoyoro8508congratulations if that's what you have. Just dont question my mentality of how I prefer to deal with women. I prefer to make and stack my money, thrive in my career and deal with women on my terms and not be locked in a relationship nor be in a marriage (which is a bad deal). Like I said, I prefer to PUMP and DUMP!!

    • @kejuwanoyoro8508
      @kejuwanoyoro8508 5 років тому +49

      @@QUNYC7 lol fair enough but when u meet a good woman you'll change your ideals, not saying they are bad because thats how i was before i met my chick. Theres not many selfless women out there but when u find one you'll see what im saying my brudda

  • @chelseakatsidzira7153
    @chelseakatsidzira7153 5 років тому +1609

    i’ll be honest. the men that had me the most sprung are the ones that didn’t validate me. always kept me on my toes, wanting to be good so i can get the “reward” of his approval. sounds funny but it works 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @StephIsColdG
      @StephIsColdG  5 років тому +416

      Exactly

    • @All0utj3rk
      @All0utj3rk 5 років тому +64

      So u a puppy? Men gotta be fake 2 get women, dat goes against Men code

    • @jeremysears4263
      @jeremysears4263 5 років тому +324

      @@All0utj3rk I wouldn't look at it like that. Consider it men who understand the nature of women and use it to their advantage.

    • @ThePsychicFish
      @ThePsychicFish 4 роки тому +137

      Similarly the less skin a woman shows (and looser clothing) the more attractive she is for men with good intentions imo cause it commands respect

    • @janellaperez3405
      @janellaperez3405 4 роки тому +64

      it works when you're an insecure women that needs outside validation. When you validate yourself daily then any outside validation becomes an added bonus rather than a necessity

  • @NewWorldRob
    @NewWorldRob 5 років тому +788

    I never wanna tear a woman down but IM tired of building them up. Its exhausting and thankless

    • @juniorberani9035
      @juniorberani9035 4 роки тому +21

      U get it

    • @iToldYoui
      @iToldYoui 3 роки тому +14

      SLUTVROS ! He said he’s not gonna build them up you dumbass nigga

    • @kennethprice278
      @kennethprice278 3 роки тому +7

      Honestly I’m taught ol skool values which in now days are simp values I get it problem is people of new generation don’t I truly finally understand both sides now I’m annoyed wit this beta simp shit I played a couple roles facts it’s about respect at the end of the day hoes don’t respect shit respect yourself find someone of value

    • @pahriz
      @pahriz 3 роки тому +5

      @@kennethprice278 I agree, there was a time when women still knew how to act right. The ones that are still wifed up, earned that lesson. These other women, they bumped their heads or soemthing...for real

    • @talknheadz
      @talknheadz 3 роки тому +4

      @@iToldYoui no he didnt...he said hes tired of building them up. Which means hes acknowledges that he was a simp but maybe hes not a simp anymore because its exhausting.

  • @natturnerheru22
    @natturnerheru22 5 років тому +1334

    no woman is special always remember that when dating

  • @tenkshadw7370
    @tenkshadw7370 5 років тому +801

    That validation bait be real nowadays. Flirting with you knowing she ain't gonna make anything out of it.

    • @tyhulster2790
      @tyhulster2790 5 років тому +109

      Yep just getting your number, and texting you, you text back and they never text back.

    • @cliffhornet7205
      @cliffhornet7205 5 років тому +65

      Hos love to play silly games.

    • @tyhulster2790
      @tyhulster2790 5 років тому +11

      @Real Talk doesn't surprise me.

    • @dougyeefresh87
      @dougyeefresh87 5 років тому +49

      Most men think telling her how beautiful she is is the right thing to do. They actually think it makes them special to when in reality they're just like every other dude saying the same shit. These same men get upset and wonder why she doesn't respond.

    • @jeremiah_12
      @jeremiah_12 5 років тому +26

      @@cliffhornet7205 Truth man, I've experienced five dumb broads in this past year and they all came at me then once I react back they want to start with the games. Women are unstable man. They always gonna be in third place at the highest (TMH, my business, maybe her).

  • @Pedro-IT
    @Pedro-IT 5 років тому +417

    Stay on your grind so you stay on her mind. No validation.

  • @ddhaye
    @ddhaye 5 років тому +794

    These Simps on IG need to hear this bro!

    • @sboljay1988
      @sboljay1988 5 років тому +3

      ddhaye facts

    • @SerbyWafflesTech
      @SerbyWafflesTech 5 років тому +72

      Those fuckers liking ass posts are simpin hard. Bitches like 5000 miles away and dudes telling em they wanna marry them and shit.

    • @JB-jf4dv
      @JB-jf4dv 5 років тому +29

      They're crawling all over IG like ants on rotten fruit.

    • @kingethan2351
      @kingethan2351 4 роки тому +1

      @@SerbyWafflesTech That's tuff 😂😂😂

    • @Officialkingz1
      @Officialkingz1 4 роки тому +1

      @@JB-jf4dv Like flies buzzing aroung shit.

  • @Pimpishone
    @Pimpishone 5 років тому +526

    "All these girls are quite the same so it ain't your pencil it's how you write your name" - Ma$e

    • @rasarmusic1
      @rasarmusic1 5 років тому +4

      “Cheat On You” #HarlemWorld

    • @MrNigeriaboy
      @MrNigeriaboy 5 років тому +23

      Classic red pill joint, "Half these cats couldn't live in my world, cause you couldn't picture another hitting your girl"

    • @Pimpishone
      @Pimpishone 4 роки тому +2

      @@MrNigeriaboy Yeah Ma$e was spitting some real pimp game no simp game.

    • @kevinford4701
      @kevinford4701 3 роки тому

      Classic pimp line

    • @helenarose580
      @helenarose580 2 роки тому

      Facts

  • @LukaDonesnitch
    @LukaDonesnitch 5 років тому +389

    James Harden has a UA-cam channel.

  • @Tbatbatba88
    @Tbatbatba88 5 років тому +1017

    if you want to get a woman throw logic out of the window 🤷‍♂️

    • @StephIsColdG
      @StephIsColdG  5 років тому +209

      Ehhhhh I see what ya saying. More so of if you want to get into her head throw logic out of the window

    • @canival317isback
      @canival317isback 5 років тому +65

      No that’s a little girl. A woman has a father she listens too & creates/builds/ uses more logic than emotion & knows when to shut the fuck up when she knows she needs to listen & learn.

    • @canival317isback
      @canival317isback 5 років тому +13

      Now, not all WOMEN have their fathers. But they had men that are truly father like. Leading by example of how our creator would want to treat women children and other men. With logic & respect.
      But even the females who lost theirs can catch up w the right Mind. But idk if that exists right now

    • @doriangrey3817
      @doriangrey3817 5 років тому +28

      I disagree... we gotta understand that male & female logic is different. That's where the balance comes in. Male logic usually leans toward practicality, women's logic usually tends to stem from empathy and emotion. If moderation is the goal, then the best path will usually be somewhere in the middle. Balance, is also compromise. I get a little, you get a little, and we all take home a small victory.

    • @canival317isback
      @canival317isback 5 років тому +2

      Dorian Grey bye

  • @VenDetttaz
    @VenDetttaz 5 років тому +532

    That wolf picture in the back ....gotta be an alpha

    • @StephIsColdG
      @StephIsColdG  5 років тому +98

      Facts

    • @DW-vl2wi
      @DW-vl2wi 5 років тому +7

      There is no alpha wolf in the wild, that's a behavior developed specially with captivity. Think about that for a minute.

    • @BoqPrecision
      @BoqPrecision 5 років тому +40

      @@DW-vl2wi what are you talk about, every wolf pack in the wild has a natural leader

    • @DW-vl2wi
      @DW-vl2wi 5 років тому +5

      @@BoqPrecision That's misconception from studies and reports done on captive wolves.
      In the wild, there is no alpha wolf.

    • @2931anderson
      @2931anderson 5 років тому +1

      Boqoreh ,FACTS!!

  • @h22sparkle
    @h22sparkle 5 років тому +345

    Scarcity is attractive they have this idea when you walk away from them too they wonder why.

    • @ShyanTheLegend
      @ShyanTheLegend 5 років тому +10

      Paradox. You can't get the girls you walk out on 😆

    • @captainswift5950
      @captainswift5950 5 років тому +44

      @@ShyanTheLegend actually you can. I know from personal experience

    • @ShyanTheLegend
      @ShyanTheLegend 5 років тому +1

      @@captainswift5950 how tho lol

    • @Lifeoftheparty8290
      @Lifeoftheparty8290 5 років тому +35

      alakazam fam In some cases yeah but who cares about if you can get her or not if you walk away it’s about being a fucking man and having a abundance mindset.. no women if worth more than you no women would be shit without a man

    • @adrianshaw4639
      @adrianshaw4639 5 років тому +26

      alakazam fam Women want what they can't have. So when you walk away from them they wonder why because every other thristy Beta simp doesn't have the balls to do so. With that right there it makes you different why because your a real man who ain't putting up with her shit and believe it or not they are attracted to that type of attitude in a man.

  • @SmallsGang_773
    @SmallsGang_773 5 років тому +179

    We all know these women love attention the worst thing you can give them is rejection.
    No validation 💪💪💪💪

  • @everrettsmith2911
    @everrettsmith2911 5 років тому +524

    Have to admit I still act Beta in some situations.. I’m virtually perfect from a physical and financial standpoint. Yet still have these beta moves that ruin my life.. need these videos to remind me to behave the right way

    • @betagimp127
      @betagimp127 5 років тому +50

      I hear ya ! Just be a selfish bastard . Always make yourself your mental point of origin .

    • @vaughnsuits1574
      @vaughnsuits1574 5 років тому +43

      Its a tough transition. I have begun the process myself and its hard, but it'll be worth it! 💯

    • @everrettsmith2911
      @everrettsmith2911 5 років тому +72

      Vaughn Suits right! I think for most of us being Alpha is our normal state.. it’s usually that one girl we fell in love with that sent us to this channel.. now I’m back in the power position, but only because I’ve trained myself. I still just want to tell her how I feel and be Beta, but can’t..
      It’s just that one girl who has my number that I become Beta with.
      Absolutely not validation since this video was produced and I’m back to being a man with her. Shit really works

    • @brownie3580
      @brownie3580 5 років тому +11

      Everrett Smith facts. I was in a similar situation. I’m a high schooler and she’s the home girl so I’d kick it with her everyday when we weren’t out for summer. She is somebody who is a “part of my circle” and we’re best friends. A couple years back I told her how I felt, but she told me she had a boyfriend. And since I see her everyday, to avoid making shit more awkward than it had already become, I was just like aight ima cool it a bit. It’s since been 2 years and nothing’s come of it. Their was a while when I pulled back from her, and I started to realize that every time that I WOULD see her, their was always sexual tension. Then I slipped and got comfortable and I’m back to where I was 2 years ago. I have improved a lot though, I was a boy back then. I was innocent and I didn’t know shit really. It was my first love and I was naîve. Now I’d definitely consider myself closer to the “Man” side of the spectrum than “boy”. I’ve got a job,I’m in shape and I’m good looking. It sucks though cuz now I get attention from all these girls but just not from the one I want😂. I don’t know if being innocent constitutes being “blue pilled” but fuck that shit, I’m over it. I’m glad I’m learning these lessons while theirs still time to blow some teenage bitches backs out

    • @alexanderstevens145
      @alexanderstevens145 5 років тому +6

      @@brownie3580 cut her off and be done with it. Our ego wants to make things right when we fkd up and prove to ourselves we were good enough all along. She aint shit easier to meet a new chick and do it right from the start.

  • @ej2much
    @ej2much 5 років тому +259

    Took me 11 years to figure this out.

    • @dattepo7534
      @dattepo7534 5 років тому +11

      ej2much damn bro sorry to hear that I’m about to be on my first year and I feel like it’s taking forever

    • @michaelzero5278
      @michaelzero5278 5 років тому +2

      Your not alone.

    • @tim46153
      @tim46153 3 роки тому +5

      Better late than never!

    • @fxstdribbler6427
      @fxstdribbler6427 3 роки тому +3

      Took me 16 I'm now 18

    • @shadainestoddart1146
      @shadainestoddart1146 3 роки тому +1

      🤣out here gathering information before I’m old teen

  • @CosminPerisan
    @CosminPerisan 4 роки тому +91

    "Those who look hungry never get fed."

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 4 роки тому +14

      Even if one is starving, they must appear sated, for the abundant mind never hungers.

    • @jgoat4250
      @jgoat4250 2 роки тому

  • @das8771
    @das8771 5 років тому +157

    Any women I have ever had choose me, when they choose you they also choose to be led by you.

    • @vDorgengoa
      @vDorgengoa 3 роки тому +5

      My beta mindset fucked me up with that from validating her.

    • @therryandpaol3430
      @therryandpaol3430 3 роки тому +5

      F.B.I vDorgengoa Don’t let it control you, You control yourself.💯💫

  • @archieengineer9942
    @archieengineer9942 5 років тому +379

    Break her ego 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

    • @allthingsfabulous9249
      @allthingsfabulous9249 5 років тому +7

      Sad as fuck!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @brittany1484
      @brittany1484 5 років тому +17

      It's always the men with the most fragile egos who feel the need to tear others down.

    • @archieengineer9942
      @archieengineer9942 5 років тому +40

      @@brittany1484 no validation for you either.

    • @infamousaries1095
      @infamousaries1095 5 років тому +25

      Fuckk what these bitches are saying break em

    • @adrianshaw4639
      @adrianshaw4639 5 років тому +8

      but yet it's the women who hides in the closet and cry when y'all don't get validated and attention

  • @MrSmith-eg7oh
    @MrSmith-eg7oh 5 років тому +112

    Men need to get back on top of the game. Stop being thirsty

    • @ownthispwn
      @ownthispwn 4 роки тому +2

      tell that to these simp ass niggas out here in they comments bro.... FUCKin the game up OD

  • @kmanmanifold6433
    @kmanmanifold6433 5 років тому +158

    My girl a 10 and she damn good. But like this dude said, you have to be a doer. I trained home girl real good. My relationship issues ended when I killed the beta side of me

    • @johnnyresto1154
      @johnnyresto1154 4 роки тому

      You still with her?

    • @kmanmanifold6433
      @kmanmanifold6433 4 роки тому +7

      @@johnnyresto1154 7 years still going.

    • @johnnyresto1154
      @johnnyresto1154 4 роки тому +2

      @@kmanmanifold6433 thats awesome; i'm happy for you. i'm going thru issues where i forgave a chick that broke our exclusivity agreement, its been 3 months since then and im seeing improvements, i was a believer of love and now i still am but to a certain point. we rushed a lot, and i'm developing into more alpha which i was before her (i never forgave a liar before, i wanted to see what a second chance is like) and she is showing me a lot of improvements. we tell eachother we love one another, how do i get myself out of telling her i love her even though its how i feel inside?

    • @kmanmanifold6433
      @kmanmanifold6433 4 роки тому +3

      @@johnnyresto1154 sounds rough man... You can't just stop saying how you feel that easily. Be honest with yourself. You're feeling something, just call it something don't call it love and you probably would say it less. And tell her to understand shyt ain't easy and she should stop forcing it out of you (if this is going on). Last but not least, don't undermine your market value... Know your worth

    • @johnnyresto1154
      @johnnyresto1154 4 роки тому +7

      @@kmanmanifold6433 it was rough, and we actually had a really good conversation this morning. i told her with or without her, im good. im done being a nice guy and i wont allow her to walk all over me. i said if you want to be around, cool, if not, cool, either way im focusing on myself. she gets that i wont ever be putting up with any bullshit again. thank you for taking the time to respond man i appreciate you being genuine.

  • @AlmightyGhostKing
    @AlmightyGhostKing 5 років тому +128

    Hey that’s real I’ve done a few 10’s in my life and the sex was wack head game was terrible but the last 6 I messed with had skills!

    • @enriquejimenez7941
      @enriquejimenez7941 4 роки тому +2

      no floppin

    • @jayomega2717
      @jayomega2717 4 роки тому +2

      Don’t you got demons to be killing?

    • @AlmightyGhostKing
      @AlmightyGhostKing 4 роки тому +3

      Jay Omega I’ve killed them all

    • @vDorgengoa
      @vDorgengoa 3 роки тому +1

      Same. Not a 10 but a good 8.
      Her head was terrible. But this loyal 6 I got.....

    • @kevinford4701
      @kevinford4701 3 роки тому +1

      Head game is super terrible. I stopped her immediately

  • @MeridianPanther
    @MeridianPanther 5 років тому +74

    Boy that "Thank You" had me weak. If you do that she going straight into her feelings heavy she gone feel some type of way.

  • @hahaumad
    @hahaumad 5 років тому +100

    I needed this video. I have to work on non validation on chicks because I feel like when I don’t they start chasing.

    • @tenkshadw7370
      @tenkshadw7370 5 років тому +12

      I have had that same experience

    • @StephIsColdG
      @StephIsColdG  5 років тому +18

      Prioritize yourself as dr BOA says

    • @Andre25167
      @Andre25167 5 років тому +17

      Ive talked to 8,9,10s one thing i dont do is say how pretty or fine they look ,they already have an ego so u dont want to make it bigger plus if u do that ,it somewat throws the ball on her court sort of like a power shift,i hate that honesty , men have to value yourself , u get that by getting your body game and financial game on point ,when u do that your value comes from the heart its real,not no fake it till u make it bs.You have to bring something to the table ,once u can do that ,thats value ,then u know deep down that you are a good catch.zafter that u can talk to women with enough confidence knowing u deserve her and are a high value man. Initially when u first meet her dont say u are pretty or fine ,but maybe when u take her on a date u can say ,"u look nice" ,now if shes looking bad as hell when u take her on a date u could say "damn girl u look hot,then give her a hug!" Keep the look compliments at a minimum

    • @hahaumad
      @hahaumad 5 років тому +7

      SwaggyD nowadays Now it’s 6’s 7’s they have that ego like 8,9,10 .

  • @kevikev214
    @kevikev214 5 років тому +87

    All facts never validate. She will do everything you want chasing your validation 💯

    • @Pikesburgh
      @Pikesburgh 4 роки тому +8

      As long as she thinks you're at least cute or some shit. If she doesn't find you physically attractive even slightly, she won't give a fuck if you ignore her or pay her no mind.

  • @carl3063
    @carl3063 5 років тому +97

    “I used to go to a gym called Gold’s Gym” 😂😂😂 bruh, if people don’t know of Gold’s gym, they’re irrelevant people. You don’t even need to workout to know of this

    • @j.vosier6786
      @j.vosier6786 5 років тому

      CusWeAre what about it?? I go to golds gym

    • @carl3063
      @carl3063 5 років тому +1

      john l you a poser

    • @ismailmcdonald58
      @ismailmcdonald58 3 роки тому

      Facts

    • @whitewolf9547
      @whitewolf9547 3 роки тому

      @@carl3063 lmao right. That’s like the OG of gyms. All the juice heads in there 😂

  • @DonKheru
    @DonKheru 5 років тому +74

    Facts, I left and smashed a different just cause of the disrespect.

  • @RB-ye1bq
    @RB-ye1bq 3 роки тому +30

    I can’t be the only fw with the instrumentals at the back 😂

    • @SaintSSI
      @SaintSSI 3 роки тому +1

      Bro!!! 🔥🔥

    • @SaintSSI
      @SaintSSI 3 роки тому +1

      do you know the name??

    • @RB-ye1bq
      @RB-ye1bq 3 роки тому

      Gontse Simango nah bro I couldn’t find it

    • @RB-ye1bq
      @RB-ye1bq 3 роки тому

      If anyone knows the instrumental drop it

    • @RB-ye1bq
      @RB-ye1bq 3 роки тому

      Gontse Simango it’s drake type best money can buy dreams 2😎

  • @sparkzmentalz2
    @sparkzmentalz2 4 роки тому +34

    8:26 I love that job analogy. I validate God, loved ones and my blessings in life. Validating women leads to nothing but heartbreak and insecurity since you are constantly seeking her approval. If she leaves, she leaves.

  • @nuknuknuk111
    @nuknuknuk111 5 років тому +141

    james harden out here giving advice on women thats wassup lol

    • @yoldad3223
      @yoldad3223 4 роки тому +6

      Lmaoooo and you are giannis antkinonumpo

    • @svfjo773
      @svfjo773 3 роки тому +2

      @@yoldad3223 😂😂

    • @superrodney3008
      @superrodney3008 3 роки тому

      He shrunk like 10 inches and got some big ass arms.

  • @Justkeepitabuck
    @Justkeepitabuck 5 років тому +66

    Never chase these Female!!! But always chase the 💰

  • @sareemj1828
    @sareemj1828 5 років тому +367

    Honestly, unless you’re completely gay or asexual, there’s simply no way you’re going to not give any form of validation if you have genuine attraction and interest.
    Also if consciously making effort not to give any form of validation it’s pretty unnatural and phony since having to hide your attraction and PRETENDING you’re not interested.. I believe women can sense this and it’s ultimately based on fear of rejecting, losing attraction or whatever.
    I think the much more simple and practical strategy is to simply don’t overdo or exaggerate compliments and act needy and also a creative or witty compliment can help your game and boost attraction with women especially if it’s an internal quality. It can also be a conversation starter and to get know more. If she’s decent she’ll most likely respond positively.
    Also, ask yourself if her ego is that high in the first place and can’t gracefully accept compliments, is she even worth pursuing and trying to form a bond with?

    • @moelester775
      @moelester775 5 років тому +83

      Sareem J this!!!!!
      Fuckin nailed it bruh
      Validation isn’t a bad thing, you acting like she’s a fuckin angel is

    • @19zach75
      @19zach75 5 років тому +76

      Of course bro. But as a man, you can let a woman know you're interested in her but, you don't have to be all up in her ass everyday- all day. Dudes be looking like fools chasing up behind these women. Validate yourself before you validate her ego...or suffer the indignation of being just another notch in her belt.

    • @t.6071
      @t.6071 5 років тому +21

      EXACTLY: A MAN!!

    • @AskShaneequa
      @AskShaneequa 5 років тому +14

      Thank you King.

    • @SerbyWafflesTech
      @SerbyWafflesTech 5 років тому +14

      Some girls do think they're ugly. Usually the fine ones are the most insecure. They need validation but don't provide shit back.

  • @Mojo-fg7ps
    @Mojo-fg7ps 5 років тому +95

    Nothing but the truth because these days 6s and 7s think and act like dimes, guess it's a new trend that only women know about. (SMDH)!

    • @theopulentone1573
      @theopulentone1573 5 років тому +4

      Man this is a damn epidemic.

    • @publicenemy-mgtow9710
      @publicenemy-mgtow9710 5 років тому +11

      They act that way too is because all these thirsty simps boosting their egos and making them think that way.

    • @t.6071
      @t.6071 5 років тому +5

      You guys just sound sad that you got rejected by a girl that’s just out of your league 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @bpbeast
      @bpbeast 3 роки тому +2

      Princess Tee no such thing. A woman cannot be above me because she’s a woman lol

    • @danbrown1344
      @danbrown1344 3 роки тому +2

      Princess Tee Always that one bitch smh

  • @francislepcha8668
    @francislepcha8668 5 років тому +135

    Brilliant....I just unfriended some chicks....lol

  • @ENJOY.JAAMM.LIIIFE
    @ENJOY.JAAMM.LIIIFE 4 роки тому +6

    That beat goes hard. I'm vibing while listening to this man talk.

  • @toonice06
    @toonice06 5 років тому +17

    You putting out some great material bro. Keep em coming homie

  • @hbk6970
    @hbk6970 4 роки тому +8

    I needed this man.Most of my childhood 1-8 I was raised by nun but my grandma and my mom .I was beta from the start gotta go alpha 💯

  • @MrWorldtraveler68
    @MrWorldtraveler68 5 років тому +12

    I approve of this message 💯

  • @mackaready1
    @mackaready1 5 років тому +6

    Great video man, I feel you, I'm tired of going through the "situation-ship" relationship time and energy spent to get laid or have company. Focusing on my purpose and such instead.

  • @elyad67
    @elyad67 5 років тому +1

    Your youtube channel is majorly life changing big bro! keep up the truth

  • @aslaammahdi3244
    @aslaammahdi3244 5 років тому +184

    When i first met my ex she use to cry because i wouldn't bust Lol

    • @garbagetrucklover4306
      @garbagetrucklover4306 5 років тому +9

      i dont have this problem just kissing amd touching her does it for me

    • @BjtheLawyer_
      @BjtheLawyer_ 5 років тому +8

      Hell yeah. My chick was embarrassed that she didn’t suck me off

    • @R.O.T.C._SEEM
      @R.O.T.C._SEEM 5 років тому +10

      Same thing happened with my Ex, she thought I didn't enjoy the sex but her shit was just too tight

    • @thebizness5596
      @thebizness5596 5 років тому +9

      R.O.T.C SEEM facts, sometimes the loosey juicy be the best pussy

    • @jonathancoleman7148
      @jonathancoleman7148 5 років тому +4

      @@candyc4713 damn sound like a freak girl

  • @JW-mj6ry
    @JW-mj6ry 5 років тому +40

    Tell em Clinks! Be different from the norm. You'll set yourself apart from the rest. Love it yung soulja.
    Dat PRESSHA.

  • @brandensmith759
    @brandensmith759 4 роки тому +2

    I felt yo talking to my soul keep dropping gems

  • @dominickphelps7244
    @dominickphelps7244 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you brotha we appreciate you for all the great game and wisdom🙏🏾☝🏾

  • @goodlife1150
    @goodlife1150 5 років тому +221

    Unfortunately you men who actually think that you own your woman better think twice you are just useful to her, security & an option she doesn't love you, she never loved you, it was just your turn & when your turn is over someone else will take her over to her next level or victim, 🤣remember you are not the first or the last on her .be cautious😂

    • @t.6071
      @t.6071 5 років тому +12

      Obviously, you talk like you’ve found something revolutionary. All women will never love a man they truly want to be loved, we love men for what they do for us, the family, for the kids and there’s nothing wrong with that.

    • @denzel9455
      @denzel9455 5 років тому +77

      @@t.6071 a lot is wrong with that

    • @giovanniwomack9881
      @giovanniwomack9881 5 років тому +3

      Stay Dangerous

    • @firstlast8703
      @firstlast8703 4 роки тому

      lmaooo true bruh

    • @mlsrise9356
      @mlsrise9356 4 роки тому

      see the problem is you guys are intellectually boring and you mess with intellectually boring girls... what you said is not true out of billions of women but its true for a lot.

  • @SweetcheeksMcGee
    @SweetcheeksMcGee 4 роки тому +5

    Big ups for showing guys out there how to respect themselves and not give in to these social norms

  • @almightypower4895
    @almightypower4895 5 років тому +9

    THIS.. is powerful. I've been doing some of these tactics

  • @captainblood9616
    @captainblood9616 2 роки тому

    Damn! Now it all becomes so so clear.. thank you brother!

  • @johnprofits6932
    @johnprofits6932 5 років тому +19

    Bro keep it up your the truth

    • @desm2358
      @desm2358 5 років тому

      YOOSURF TV who’s the girl he uses in thumbnail

  • @moremako
    @moremako 4 роки тому +6

    this video changed my way of thinking and perceiving women

  • @jujuu3756
    @jujuu3756 5 років тому

    BRO you speak some real shit! Never watched a guy on UA-cam I fully relate with. Thank you for your videos brotha

  • @unique74muzik
    @unique74muzik 5 років тому +84

    @9:34 Advanced game!! They get furious or insecure when you don't bust. Not knowing that our retention is power which gives us the upper hand.

    • @hunlag4700
      @hunlag4700 2 роки тому +1

      Yeap just had to kick this girl out my car one time after we had sex we went to the store to get more condoms and she kept asking why didn't I orgasm and I said I'm not going to I'm going to tonight, she flipped out causes a scene in the parking lot and I had to leave her there.

  • @BigBrothaAlmighty
    @BigBrothaAlmighty 5 років тому +3

    I went and gave all the comments a upvote stay strong 💪🏿 fellas

  • @TiyeeglowTV
    @TiyeeglowTV 5 років тому +3

    Strong message 💪 thanks brother 👊

  • @qmntwini9092
    @qmntwini9092 5 років тому

    Just saw the title and I got goosebumps! Big ups G

  • @isaiahsearcy9525
    @isaiahsearcy9525 4 роки тому +2

    💯 Mentality u preaching man

  • @HassanaKareemaNeferRa
    @HassanaKareemaNeferRa 5 років тому +91

    Feed the spirit starve the ego

    • @doulayebangoura8318
      @doulayebangoura8318 5 років тому +1

      Jay 💀💀💀

    • @superrodney3008
      @superrodney3008 3 роки тому +3

      When you don't feed the ego your feeding the spirit, cause then she gets a glimpse of discipline and we true men know that discipline is our power, self discipline, stay true to yourself, don't make exceptions, and don't commit to nothing but you and your plan.

    • @HassanaKareemaNeferRa
      @HassanaKareemaNeferRa 3 роки тому

      @@superrodney3008 Let's build on that

  • @motivity715
    @motivity715 5 років тому +3

    Man i love your realness thanks you for the work you do mahn !!!

  • @Vectorp47
    @Vectorp47 5 років тому

    You have spoken so much truth here man!!!!!

  • @lungelozain3100
    @lungelozain3100 Рік тому +1

    Working like a dime !!
    Listen to this guy and stay cold fellas

  • @jackfrost7513
    @jackfrost7513 5 років тому +3

    Finally someone is addressing the validation of instagram likes. Great work brother❤️

  • @TheWutangclan1995
    @TheWutangclan1995 5 років тому +13

    Hearing this from you and AMS changes the way I view social media. I can't help but cringe sometimes when I'm scrolling through the comment section on IG and I see a bunch of dudes acting thirsty. Most I would do is give the pic a like and call it a day or tell myself I'd smash.

  • @skat3r430
    @skat3r430 4 роки тому

    Daily reminder. Thank you bro.

  • @OGFantum
    @OGFantum 4 роки тому

    Preach my G. All facts. Social media boost their mentality so much. Thirsty for validation

  • @dwaynefox5121
    @dwaynefox5121 5 років тому +18

    Let her know that she's the one that's blessed by being in your presence, opposite of what she's thinking.

  • @jahqari8286
    @jahqari8286 4 роки тому +15

    Validation is definitely a drug because when u NEED other peoples opinions to be satisfied you’ll never be satisfied with your own

  • @dattrax7
    @dattrax7 5 років тому +2

    This is The Fucking BEST 12mins to learn of how to be a man in this current environment with social media and women's options for attention. Been following you for weeks now and this is lightning bolts for me. Thank you!!

  • @blakeleming4360
    @blakeleming4360 5 років тому +1

    Like the vibe you got, subed and notifications on. Keep waking guys up from this daydream they live in.

  • @TheRealest127
    @TheRealest127 5 років тому +4

    What you saying is ALL Facts. I wish i could like this video 5,000 times.

  • @h22sparkle
    @h22sparkle 5 років тому +88

    I back away when she sends pics im like im busy right now.

    • @nullx6777
      @nullx6777 5 років тому

      h22sparks does this fuck their ego up?

    • @ellisddomenicus2231
      @ellisddomenicus2231 5 років тому +18

      Phantom x they’re expecting you to say some shit about how good they look so yeah

  • @joemac8831
    @joemac8831 3 роки тому +1

    Salute to the truth my brother 💯 thanks for your videos and info

  • @christopherdavis18
    @christopherdavis18 3 роки тому +1

    Hell yeah I hear that fam I'm gonna hydrate myself

  • @dreg6431
    @dreg6431 5 років тому +17

    It work for me now she following me around n puttin herself in my energy more

  •  5 років тому +166

    The below and moderate average chicks are horrible too

    • @SerbyWafflesTech
      @SerbyWafflesTech 5 років тому +2

      Worst ones are the mud ducks.

    • @jayisagem8
      @jayisagem8 5 років тому +1

      Thank you somebody said it..... why men think pretty women are so horrible?..WTF ....is going on in the world

    • @phoenixrising9352
      @phoenixrising9352 5 років тому +20

      Míchele Cobré
      Females in general. Only less than 1-3% are anything near “wife material”, and I’m saying that loosely.

    •  5 років тому

      @@phoenixrising9352 they are suck to me so as men do too but not much as women

    • @SerbyWafflesTech
      @SerbyWafflesTech 5 років тому +6

      @@phoenixrising9352 80 percent of divorce are initiated by women. Once a woman is divorced, she's off the market for me. That subtracts 80 percent right off top. 1-3 percent is about right. 20-25 age bracket. Once they hit 30 they are not marriage material period. Ever.

  • @derekstrait5860
    @derekstrait5860 4 роки тому

    My dude keep it so real man!! I love it!

  • @VanDavid94
    @VanDavid94 4 роки тому

    This video and even the bonus tip at the end, pure fucking gold!

  • @Kpree-_-
    @Kpree-_- 5 років тому +4

    Great video keep these kinds of videos coming

  • @jmartinez7144
    @jmartinez7144 5 років тому +3

    Damn G, this video at one point word 4 word just happened to me. I was fucn up big time..
    time to bounce. Thanks.

  • @anarchy7198
    @anarchy7198 4 роки тому +1

    Bruh I needed to hear this shit like 2 years ago, glad i finally saw this now. Better late than never!

  • @toddr7289
    @toddr7289 5 років тому +2

    True words and dope beats!!!

  • @tonys9796
    @tonys9796 5 років тому +68

    Real talk i had a 9 that was so-so. But me ex was a 6 1/2 and had bomb 😼👈 and was twice more affectionate than the 9.
    Is as if subconsciously hot girls feel they never need to cater but only get catered to.

    • @bruisedheel
      @bruisedheel 5 років тому +10

      True every fine fine chick iv messed wit was lousy in bed..

    • @fjmt1441
      @fjmt1441 4 роки тому +1

      entitlement

    • @ERoss338
      @ERoss338 3 роки тому +1

      It’s not subconscious it’s conscious

    • @superrodney3008
      @superrodney3008 3 роки тому +1

      That's why u court them, and train them, put in they head what type of guy you are and what you want, and then when she's wrong start ignoring her or let her see u with other girls, and then she will call u asking u wyd, tell her you busy, and you will call her back at like whatever time you decide to say, cause you can't be having her lead the convo, so call her, and tell her to come over.

  • @whoistlovesburbrryshouldst186
    @whoistlovesburbrryshouldst186 5 років тому +8

    This is straight up what AMS breaches about

  • @realalpha2833
    @realalpha2833 5 років тому +1

    This is one of the realist videos iv ever seen....1000💪.....facts....thank you my Brotha.....no one eles can top this one...

  • @mav6232
    @mav6232 3 роки тому

    Thanks for your perspective g, the music in the back is perfect

  • @Carlos-od7jr
    @Carlos-od7jr 5 років тому +38

    Never chase,keep a straight face, never validate her so she thinks "wtf y isn't this guy jocking me" then she chase dm like you done this for years cause these chicks are on they high horse

  • @19zach75
    @19zach75 5 років тому +24

    I know this is true, because I've been doing it all of my life. I never show extra unnecessary interest, or attention, in a woman. Flocking all up behind them, gawking and thirsting at them, is what fuels their ego. This is my motto: " A female can walk out of the house and 99 out of 100 dudes will try to get at her, and I'll be that 1 dude that pays her ass no mind." And trust me when I say, they are shocked (slightly appalled) that I'm not oogling all over them. 😂
    #NotMe

  • @thebestgameplay6278
    @thebestgameplay6278 4 роки тому +1

    This man speaks gold!

  • @vincecruz8410
    @vincecruz8410 4 роки тому

    This video was STR8 BARZ! Ives used all these tips in the past, now they’re chasing me🔑🔑

  • @CooLin1stPlace
    @CooLin1stPlace 5 років тому +14

    I just noticed that many chicks compliment so they can hear it back.

    • @travtra8346
      @travtra8346 2 роки тому

      True bro a female said I look good on fb the otha day I said thanx and she said nun bk 😭😂😂🤷🏾

  • @LOOKOUTFILMZ
    @LOOKOUTFILMZ 5 років тому +14

    Never be thirsty😂😂

  • @mellomel74
    @mellomel74 5 років тому +1

    Yo bro you inspired me to work out im 5'7 you motivate me man keep it up red pill 4 life

  • @shadainestoddart1146
    @shadainestoddart1146 3 роки тому +1

    Last part was the most important 🇯🇲🤜🏾

  • @kikilovesyou63
    @kikilovesyou63 5 років тому +6

    On point.💎💎💎💎

  • @perry-rashad4099
    @perry-rashad4099 5 років тому +7

    All facts.

  • @isaacgradeless8673
    @isaacgradeless8673 2 роки тому +1

    These old videos are gems 💎

  • @bwheel2962
    @bwheel2962 5 років тому

    Homie so on point with this one!!!

  • @KiKiCarr
    @KiKiCarr 5 років тому +6

    This old ass highschool game 😂

  • @Dnizzle25
    @Dnizzle25 5 років тому +27

    This is real talk I have witnessed this behavior happen damn near daily and I be wondering why all these dude or ORBITORS constantly liking everything these females posting

  • @bammbamm5797
    @bammbamm5797 3 роки тому

    Coach Steph the truth💪

  • @micahbriggs7467
    @micahbriggs7467 4 роки тому

    Real talk man. I noticed when you don’t pay attention, they damn near beg for it