This was my life up until a few years back when i started filtering. One can only take so much mental abuse, gaslighting, being used. All this while i was actually a loner and was always hesitant going in to 'friend requests'. What always struck me that they put so much effort into gaining my friendship & trust.. after that it seemed as if i became almost worthless. They had put me on the shelve for when they needed me, the very second they got some sign that i trusted them.
This was my life up until a few years back when i started filtering. One can only take so much mental abuse, gaslighting, being used. All this while i was actually a loner and was always hesitant going in to 'friend requests'.
What always struck me that they put so much effort into gaining my friendship & trust.. after that it seemed as if i became almost worthless. They had put me on the shelve for when they needed me, the very second they got some sign that i trusted them.
Our adult children do these traits.
As a parent we are used to gving unconditionally.
Notice how viewers are 'running for cover' over this. Just let them go.