9:30 This reminds me of that John Mulaney bit where he talked about how he and this lady were alone in the subway station and something like that happened. She started running, he thought she heard the train and started running, too.
1.Change your routes/times on your daily walk 2. Take out your headphones or don’t play anything 3. Avoid looking at your phone Also, I was taught in a self defence/safety class to walk in the non lit area instead, because if you walk in the lit area anyone hiding in the dark can see you but you can’t see them 🤷🏻♀️
As a parent I do find the gender neutral bathrooms much better. (Most ours are like 20 stalls in a big room) Her father can actually go in with her and wait outside the stall which makes me feel much safer than him having to stand outside when anyone can be in there if it’s a “normal” bathroom
I was a skinny chinese kid living in the sheepshead bay houses back in the early 90s. Me and my mom were the only asians there. I went to school in manhattan and it was a 25 min walk home from the subway station. It was scary. Situational awareness and crossing the street were key survival skills. Still got robbed many times, including by own neighbor and we had to move out.
Crazy hearing this story while I’m living in Japan and kids are even walking home at midnight. But yeah we also have creepy dudes walking around, not aggressive type though😂
Those situations where guys use women as the “honeypot” to lure unsuspecting guys into a trap scares the crap out of me.. Like the scenario where some woman approaches or say knocks on the door and a bunch of guys rush him..
Watch everyone and everything and always have some form of self-defense tools such as weapons or empty hand techniques. Being cautious for safety isn't being paranoid.
That's the only thing I don't miss about being my hot younger self. The creeps. I always tried not to be rude when turning down someone, but jeez... Some guys don't take no for an answer, they think it's a negotiation or something. So you have to get bitchy in the end. Others act like you're the problem for saying no, even if you say it in a respectful way. Others expect you to sleep with them after they paid one drink for you. That's why I prefered getting my own drinks or rounds with friends. Avoids awkward situations.
I've noticed that guys (and even girls) treat us differently when a girl is around too. You could come across the same people everyday and notice that with a girl, you're treated noticeably different.
I just finished Don Jon. And thought how women overdose on romantic movies like porn and guys od on porn like it’s romance. PERSPECTIVE. - Jason Cheny. And yes it’s relatable to this segment
If I was a girl and I have a small knife, I would also carry a small roll of duct tape or something to wrap the knife on my hands. Any stalker/attacker sees that would think twice about attacking someone who is perceived to be "all in" in the life or death situation. Just imagine the visuals, and then you hear a small growl. Nobody wants to mess with someone who might be crazier than they are.
Funny enough, I feel like men usually have more situational awareness, despite it being more dangerous for women in terms of the detriment being potential worse for a woman who isn’t situational aware than it is for a man (generally speaking). I do think there are certain specific things women are more conscious of though (I.e locking the car doors right when you get in the car, weird behaviors being exhibited that might come off as normal, etc). And I think part of the reason why men are also higher victims of violence is because we have the mentality Ryan has where we have more of a fighting chance in a situation. Technically, yes it’s true but most of the time you’re fucked either way.
When ever I’m walking near a girl or walking the same way behind her or even today in the parking garage my feet scrape the floor subconsciously. Walking normally up to the point of noticing then my feet go hey scape the ground with your heel or toe to make some noice 😂😂
I think about this stuff for my sisters it’s crazy but I don’t have to deal with stuff like this I’m 6ft / 300 lbs black and Mexican so that’s why other then walking behind woman at night or going into a mom&pop store I’m Gud
I feel the way Nick and Ryan think. I have to speed walk around women as well to NOT be creepy and get the looks 😭 I have noticed women's danger ranges are larger than men's in general. Women become more situationally aware way earlier.
I definitely know trans men who wish they could use the men’s room without being afraid or the girl’s room without feeling uncomfortable & making women uncomfortable
I try to pay attention to my surroundings. For one thing, to keep me from getting lost, I need to make a point of knowing where I am. Yet also to know who or what is around me. And to find the quickest way through a store, I try to figure out where the items are I am looking for before I even go to the store to get through the process faster. Ngl, when walking alone in public I will picture in my head what I would try to do if I had to try to defend myself.
That's what you "think". Yet that isn't the reality of the situation otherwise you would have a bunch of women walking into people or traffic and injuring themselves. We, as ladies are just more subtle in our awareness without looking paranoid. And for the most part, we plan ahead where we are going, what we are doing, and in what area we are going into before we even leave the house.
@@bethnichols2875 he didn’t mention wether they even saw him to assume right of way they could of been totally distracted looking down at there phones or somthing
Not to mansplain, but "Thank, but I can handle this" is better than "I didn't ask you" whatever tone u think u may or may not have... especially if ur going to put ur headphones back on and act like the guy isn't there anymore
it's exhausting being a woman. I live in the suburbs and going to work downtown and then having to get back home in the pitch-black night, is the only time I can say I can somewhat relate to how a woman feels, every single day. If a woman is walking ahead of me, I do my best to try to gauge how much distance we have between us. If it's not a lot, I wait a bit, pretend to check my phone, etc. I give her enough distance where I hope she's no longer worried about me walking behind her. If she's walking towards me from the opposite direction, I try to take my hands out of my pockets and even then, I will purposely walk as far to the opposite side of her that I can, so as to create separation between us. People might think this is a bit much, but frankly, if it even brings her a moment of less anxiousness, it's worth it.
Damn, where do you live? I live in a college town in Canada and students always get mugged or assaulted or have their residences broken in to. I don't go the University District after 10pm now for safety's sake.
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9:30 This reminds me of that John Mulaney bit where he talked about how he and this lady were alone in the subway station and something like that happened. She started running, he thought she heard the train and started running, too.
Dayum. I like these back to back meeting quota videos
1.Change your routes/times on your daily walk
2. Take out your headphones or don’t play anything
3. Avoid looking at your phone
Also, I was taught in a self defence/safety class to walk in the non lit area instead, because if you walk in the lit area anyone hiding in the dark can see you but you can’t see them 🤷🏻♀️
As a parent I do find the gender neutral bathrooms much better. (Most ours are like 20 stalls in a big room) Her father can actually go in with her and wait outside the stall which makes me feel much safer than him having to stand outside when anyone can be in there if it’s a “normal” bathroom
It sounded like he was specifically talking about the ones that are 1 person use
Soobin saying "I have a great idea!" Then Anthony says "Oh no" like whatt😂🤣
I was a skinny chinese kid living in the sheepshead bay houses back in the early 90s. Me and my mom were the only asians there. I went to school in manhattan and it was a 25 min walk home from the subway station. It was scary. Situational awareness and crossing the street were key survival skills. Still got robbed many times, including by own neighbor and we had to move out.
Crazy hearing this story while I’m living in Japan and kids are even walking home at midnight.
But yeah we also have creepy dudes walking around, not aggressive type though😂
are they just drunk salarymen?
We definitely have to have our heads on a swivel as a woman every single day that we are out in daily life. Especially here.
True. My sister works downtown and she says that a lot about keeping your head on a swivel.
As someone who was actually stabbed in a botched robbery, keep ur head on a swivel and be ready to attack at any time
@@HasanPikerIsADouche I'm so sorry that happened to you
@bethnichols2875 she's a strong lady. I won't go downtown for anything if I don't have to.
6:29 How much could we charge women for that security/party protection parade? 💰
Love this video! “Jazz hands” 😂
Those situations where guys use women as the “honeypot” to lure unsuspecting guys into a trap scares the crap out of me..
Like the scenario where some woman approaches or say knocks on the door and a bunch of guys rush him..
03:36 Suben be thinking about them 5 guys lol
Never had to have more situational awareness than when I was in downtown LA at night
Should be singing I’ll be watching you by The Police
Watch everyone and everything and always have some form of self-defense tools such as weapons or empty hand techniques. Being cautious for safety isn't being paranoid.
2:20 dude completely unaware of how crazy strong people can be when on drugs. 😬
I'm surprised nobody even talked about their 2A right
That's the only thing I don't miss about being my hot younger self. The creeps. I always tried not to be rude when turning down someone, but jeez... Some guys don't take no for an answer, they think it's a negotiation or something. So you have to get bitchy in the end. Others act like you're the problem for saying no, even if you say it in a respectful way. Others expect you to sleep with them after they paid one drink for you. That's why I prefered getting my own drinks or rounds with friends. Avoids awkward situations.
I've noticed that guys (and even girls) treat us differently when a girl is around too. You could come across the same people everyday and notice that with a girl, you're treated noticeably different.
I just finished Don Jon. And thought how women overdose on romantic movies like porn and guys od on porn like it’s romance. PERSPECTIVE. - Jason Cheny. And yes it’s relatable to this segment
The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker is great for learning how to protect yourself and feel safer
10:26 what is on the damn paper 😂😂😂
If I waited 2 seconds I would've known lol
If I was a girl and I have a small knife, I would also carry a small roll of duct tape or something to wrap the knife on my hands. Any stalker/attacker sees that would think twice about attacking someone who is perceived to be "all in" in the life or death situation. Just imagine the visuals, and then you hear a small growl. Nobody wants to mess with someone who might be crazier than they are.
Hey Joe how long do you want to do jk for... is Bart the majority owner at this point?
Funny enough, I feel like men usually have more situational awareness, despite it being more dangerous for women in terms of the detriment being potential worse for a woman who isn’t situational aware than it is for a man (generally speaking). I do think there are certain specific things women are more conscious of though (I.e locking the car doors right when you get in the car, weird behaviors being exhibited that might come off as normal, etc). And I think part of the reason why men are also higher victims of violence is because we have the mentality Ryan has where we have more of a fighting chance in a situation. Technically, yes it’s true but most of the time you’re fucked either way.
Its also bc ppl are less likely to help men in trouble
When ever I’m walking near a girl or walking the same way behind her or even today in the parking garage my feet scrape the floor subconsciously. Walking normally up to the point of noticing then my feet go hey scape the ground with your heel or toe to make some noice 😂😂
I think about this stuff for my sisters it’s crazy but I don’t have to deal with stuff like this I’m 6ft / 300 lbs black and Mexican so that’s why other then walking behind woman at night or going into a mom&pop store I’m Gud
I have a solution, appendix carry a 9 and practice ur QuickDraw. Prob solved
Kalyne🔥
I feel the way Nick and Ryan think. I have to speed walk around women as well to NOT be creepy and get the looks 😭
I have noticed women's danger ranges are larger than men's in general. Women become more situationally aware way earlier.
Subin is like that hypeman in a rap battle. Just repeats something you say immediately after.
im between wide swinging or jiggle peeking corners
People visually only pick the weak. Most don't want the big fight
like and comment so ryan can afford lotion for them ashy ass elbows
I definitely know trans men who wish they could use the men’s room without being afraid or the girl’s room without feeling uncomfortable & making women uncomfortable
@2:10 what fkn spot you talking bout. joe and subin a tourist in hawaii. dey don't know sh*t
Singing tip toe by tiny Tim
High key out crazy the possible crazy.
I try to pay attention to my surroundings. For one thing, to keep me from getting lost, I need to make a point of knowing where I am. Yet also to know who or what is around me. And to find the quickest way through a store, I try to figure out where the items are I am looking for before I even go to the store to get through the process faster. Ngl, when walking alone in public I will picture in my head what I would try to do if I had to try to defend myself.
I can be your bodyguard 💪
Nah, most of the women I see out and about have no clue what's going on around them 🤷
That's what you "think". Yet that isn't the reality of the situation otherwise you would have a bunch of women walking into people or traffic and injuring themselves. We, as ladies are just more subtle in our awareness without looking paranoid. And for the most part, we plan ahead where we are going, what we are doing, and in what area we are going into before we even leave the house.
@bethnichols2875 lol I do Delivery's for work and every time someone steps in front of my trolley , it's usually a woman
@@alexfunniman5335 lol that is more than likely women thinking they have the right of way vs not being aware of your presence.
@@bethnichols2875 he didn’t mention wether they even saw him to assume right of way they could of been totally distracted looking down at there phones or somthing
@@InfamousPlatoon And yet you just made an assumption because he didn't discount my scenario either, now did he.
😂😅😂😅😂😅😂
Not to mansplain, but "Thank, but I can handle this" is better than "I didn't ask you" whatever tone u think u may or may not have... especially if ur going to put ur headphones back on and act like the guy isn't there anymore
I agree with this. You have to be “kind” or they will get more angry :/
Nick 🤍
Ik I’m late at noticing but what happened to Gina Darling, I lowkey miss her
I’m late too I wanna know!
@@TheTinyOrc she left years ago...started streaming, worked a bit on tv for G4, and is back to streaming these days, as far as I know
She's friends with Tiff still and probably avoiding JK News in solidarity.
@@mov744 before Kalyne she was my high school crush
Sounds like you all need to leave California....
it's exhausting being a woman. I live in the suburbs and going to work downtown and then having to get back home in the pitch-black night, is the only time I can say I can somewhat relate to how a woman feels, every single day.
If a woman is walking ahead of me, I do my best to try to gauge how much distance we have between us. If it's not a lot, I wait a bit, pretend to check my phone, etc. I give her enough distance where I hope she's no longer worried about me walking behind her. If she's walking towards me from the opposite direction, I try to take my hands out of my pockets and even then, I will purposely walk as far to the opposite side of her that I can, so as to create separation between us.
People might think this is a bit much, but frankly, if it even brings her a moment of less anxiousness, it's worth it.
Ahhh yeahhh! A lady… 🤵🏻♂️.. I would follow her around all day! 🚶♀️🚶🏻♂️ jk😂.. news.😂
College towns are totally different. They're so safe that you don't have to worry about getting robbed or something.
Damn, where do you live? I live in a college town in Canada and students always get mugged or assaulted or have their residences broken in to. I don't go the University District after 10pm now for safety's sake.
Women’s 🤣😂😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣