I’m not surprised to see the comment section filled with projections and assumptions. Few people can look past my deadpan sarcasm. I have clear standards and principles for the people I allow into my life, regardless of the nature of our relationship. It’s honestly mind-blowing how often the point gets missed. Keep in mind, I share very little, and when I do, it's general-this is my personal life. Many of my experiences remain private, and that will continue to be the case, regardless of uninformed opinions or being on a "podcast".
I am glad you are one of the Careful Boyz members, and I know many others share that sentiment. Very true. Many in the comments only look at the surface, and go off of their own biases and assumptions, which says more about them then it does about you. You are definitely entitled to your privacy. And lol I know the guys of JK like to be wiseasses in having this be a running bit. Thank you for playing into it at times. May you be successful in finding what you are looking for in a partner. One that brings you the same love, joy and contentment that I have heard Steve mention in regards to Nikki, and that Steve remarked Joe found with Hannah.💖🦋
Same. It's alright to be a strong woman, but that often means we wear the pants/are the protector in the relationships. And those relationships usually don't work out. Unless you're into submissive men. lol. But most women want their man to have a certain dominance. It lets us know that they can take control when shit hits the fan. It's not easy to find a guy with the right balance. Not too dominant, cause that's being controling. And not too less dominance, cause we don't want to feel like we're the man in the relationship. No dominance gets boring fast though.
I think it's called knowing what your priorities are and setting precedence and knowing which of those key items are really important to you and that if you can be conservative in the relationship on the worst times, you deserve enough to be with them during the good times.
Too be honest women don't show up for men either. Gotta choose Women who also show up for you guys and that's super important they gotta put in effort. The only thing about me is I show up no matter what cuz I just don't care and I see if girls show up for me too if they don't its their loss and move on.
True she said that young her would stay longer and try to work things out and now she walks away cause the person you are now she says won't be able to grow or change which is wild.
Loving these more personal for one cast member to answer episodes! Good job Ryan! lol I learned what not to seek when finding a partner from my parents lol Kaylne is probably gonna have to move where more traditional men live to find her true person. Sending love dust to everyone who needs it ✨
I feel similar to Kalyne- my standards aren't that high but some guys I've met are losers or cowards. Apparently I intimidate some of them or they don't realize how fast I cut people off because I come off as someone they think they can manipulate. Sometimes it's funny because they'll think they're a 200IQ manipulation master schemer then they start crying One thing I need is someone who is a bit assertive- not on some alpha masculine shit but I think it would balance out my personality.
@@MegaMoneyManMoves She means she meets men who she thought were ok in the beginning but the more she got to know them the more she found out that they're just spineless losers that needed moms more than they needed a partner in life.
Not all the men I've dated or encountered have been "losers or cowards." Many of them are great people. Relationships are complex, and there are various factors on both sides that can influence why things didn’t work out or why a relationship wasn’t pursued. I don’t understand why some people view these situations so black-and-white. There's always nuance.
@@lionheartcreative well, its just harder for modern dating nowdays. I got lucky with my girl but very hard for both sides because guys and girls play games. It's difficult to find a wholesome person
lol what she says about consistency isn’t really about consistency. she’s trying to say commitment and duty. but one thing for sure is that if she’s not into you, she’ll never give you attention. she’s looking for markers of dependability and reliability. because of the last 20-40 years of social programming not only have women moved to extremes more men have been nerfed for a new norm. but ladies you gotta remember if you don’t set the bar high and every one of you girls should then most men will do the minimum…
Relationships are a two way street she hasnt said anything about herself just whats wrong with dudes these days most women dont ever evualate themsleves and their errors just hyperfocus on the man since hes the one that usually has to be the one to approach. All she said was she had low standards but couldn't that also be part of the problem
"Champagne socialist" lol. side note Socialism and wealth aren't exactly contradictory even though people were told it's like some kind of poverty cult
with all due respect, any man would be lucky to have Kalyne (even though she's already taken, from what I know) Edit: I had to come back to write this after I noticed. The N64 cartridge behind Kalyne, I've seen it a few times in past video and always assumed it was Goldeneye64. I took a closer look at it and it's a fucking N64 cartridge of 'The Room' movie poster lmaooo.
Something a high school teacher told my whole class one day (in mindskills). Treat a women like dirt and she'll stick to you like mud.. which implies negging without being an asshole.
You have a point. Attractive women who say they have no requirements or low requirements are usually the single ones. The ones who are honest and aware of what they want do find and stick with the man who fits.
Exactly. At first I heard kalynes "preferences and as the video moved along she kept going back on them when the guys more specifically joe would give reasonable responses. By the end of the video I was convinced the she was either oblivious to what she believes are low or the bare minimum standards or if she's kind of spoiled in spirit and believes she deserves "more"
i dont think her standards are that high. as a man approaching his thirty's all the qualities she brought up are ones i strive to improve upon and also look for in a partner. granted, for most men to reach that level of maturity, stability and security takes a long time and a lot of work but it doesn't sound like she has unreasonable expectations at all
I’m not surprised to see the comment section filled with projections and assumptions. Few people can look past my deadpan sarcasm. I have clear standards and principles for the people I allow into my life, regardless of the nature of our relationship. It’s honestly mind-blowing how often the point gets missed. Keep in mind, I share very little, and when I do, it's general-this is my personal life. Many of my experiences remain private, and that will continue to be the case, regardless of uninformed opinions or being on a "podcast".
As a single woman in her 30s I can relate to what Kalyne is saying. Most Men are not investing at all or just showing interest in the „chasing“ phase or don’t even communicate. I mean even if they are not feeling the vibe it’s totally okay but god just say it thennnnnn!
I'm with the first guy that wrote a comment. Think about it from our end, we chase, invest, we pour our hearts out, we're more than willing to do all of those. In fact that stage is so much fun. But why do you think we're a bit more cautious? Maybe some of us got used and dumped a few times? Maybe it's not worth investing time, money, and emtions to a person whose just sitting there going "Oh men don't invest and show up and show interest." she's using the men to just boost her ego because she wasn't loved by her father that much. There's that. Now granted you're might be actually interested and a lot of women are. But just know that if you meet a guy that's on the fence about pouring his heart out to you, just know that maybe this guy is still recovering from the countless PTSD inducing encounters with the opposite sex.
@@thomaschristopherwhite9043 it’s totally okay to be cautious it is the same for women. There are women out there who are also caring, providing maybe not financially but being supportive and understanding about the lifestyle etc. And men don’t appreciate it value it. But just because you have had a bad experience with a person previously doesn’t mean that everyone else will be the same. So yes be cautious that’s fine I get it but there is a difference between being cautious and not interested at all.
@@rph8072 Exactly. I was probably pretty sh*t at making my point but I guess for all our sakes I think we should just be patient with one another. Like it's not enougn going into the dating scene pre-scarred by our upbringing we have to factor in our bad experiences from other people with thought loved us.
@ definitely at the end of the day men and women are different or think and approach things differently but there should be mutual respect and understanding for each other
It has been a while since i have been single. Are dudes really that shitty nowadays? Or is it kalyne just has a type that happens to have guys like that?
Some are, some aren’t. But I don’t let a few bad experiences shape my entire worldview. It wouldn’t be fair to treat the next person a certain way just because of the few who didn’t work out.
everyone is different for me he has to ask i’ve rejected so many attempts i swear you would think they aren’t getting it and t almost becomes too forceful sorry but no and yes im talking about just a first kiss i have to trust you if i don’t completely don’t attempt to just kiss me.
I don't think her standards are high. More like normal to me. She wants a guy who takes charge 60-65% in the relationship so that the other 35-40% will be her role as the woman. For example, planning for the weekend get-away, he rents the car, picks the place. She joins in on the research on where to stop by or visit along the way or at the destination; offers to be the backup driver, selflessly packs for the trip - drinks, snacks, games, sandwiches, etc. Communication is a must because mind games or reading is how relationships take a wrong turn or fail. Sense of humor is what drives the fun factor in the relationship. As for the kissing consent, throw that shit out the window! When you know, you know. Although, some women will intentionally dodge it the first time lol, but will make up for it later.
I like how she talk about men not being strong for her. As i can tell she doesn't have that vibe of wanting to be protected. Also remember women or the new wave feminist changed how men treat women and women treating men. I see how the dating market both sides and i think over time we forgot how to date and treat each other. Because as a modern simgle women if u want youre men to protect u all the time let him but dont switch off and on. As man purpose of dating is different than womens purpose of dating.
Ryan is the best host JK has ever had. He’s good at asking follow up questions to keep the conversation going!
I think we need a:
Anthony Lee "Do i have your consent?" Shirt
More likely to sell that than show me proof
Day 1 of begging jk to make do i have your consent shirts
@@Mr-pn2eh oh god 😂
I should just make a shirt with myself on it and wear it that says that 😂😂
@@martin-pz6dsdon't worry I'm not actually going to beg him
Thats Richard's job
These f around videos are honestly carrying this channel.
Ryan, anthony, steve the carrier
Nick the support
Trippin
That's a good way of putting it
Write that down. WRITE THAT DOWN!
Diabolical thumbnail😂
Is that Kalyne?
@@i_Gotcha_it’s her
@@i_Gotcha_yea
@@i_Gotcha_ Yeah, i think it's on her ig
It's not me. It's AI.
I’m not surprised to see the comment section filled with projections and assumptions. Few people can look past my deadpan sarcasm. I have clear standards and principles for the people I allow into my life, regardless of the nature of our relationship. It’s honestly mind-blowing how often the point gets missed. Keep in mind, I share very little, and when I do, it's general-this is my personal life. Many of my experiences remain private, and that will continue to be the case, regardless of uninformed opinions or being on a "podcast".
I am glad you are one of the Careful Boyz members, and I know many others share that sentiment. Very true. Many in the comments only look at the surface, and go off of their own biases and assumptions, which says more about them then it does about you. You are definitely entitled to your privacy. And lol I know the guys of JK like to be wiseasses in having this be a running bit. Thank you for playing into it at times. May you be successful in finding what you are looking for in a partner. One that brings you the same love, joy and contentment that I have heard Steve mention in regards to Nikki, and that Steve remarked Joe found with Hannah.💖🦋
Man I always show up to the woman I like… I go to her work place, walk by her home, I make sure I’m there when she’s off work…. She thinks I’m a creep
You trying to hard my dude. Simp mode
Yeah tooooo much
lol you said the woman you like. The question is, does she even like you? Are you dating? Or are you in stalker mode?
@@bethnichols2875 someone gets it 🤣
@@TheTinyOrc nah jk I make sure to watch my crush fall asleep
Dam the thumbnail and dam November!!!
GREAT GOOOOOOGALLLLY MOOOOGALLLY!!!!! Ahhh thumbnail🤪
Nick was hilarious this video. (Hip lean stance)😂😂
The thumb nail got me 😢
Same. It's alright to be a strong woman, but that often means we wear the pants/are the protector in the relationships. And those relationships usually don't work out. Unless you're into submissive men. lol. But most women want their man to have a certain dominance. It lets us know that they can take control when shit hits the fan. It's not easy to find a guy with the right balance. Not too dominant, cause that's being controling. And not too less dominance, cause we don't want to feel like we're the man in the relationship. No dominance gets boring fast though.
its going to be difficult to have constant quality conversation if you don't have commonality on hobbies and interests.
I love how close Kalyne is getting with the group! I’m glad she feels the space is safe enough to speak your mind!
I think it's called knowing what your priorities are and setting precedence and knowing which of those key items are really important to you and that if you can be conservative in the relationship on the worst times, you deserve enough to be with them during the good times.
The episode I'm waiting for is yall driving monster trucks in a Stadium, grass area or desert
So, whose idea was the thumbnail?😂
Nick duh 😊
Obviously... not mine
Too be honest women don't show up for men either. Gotta choose Women who also show up for you guys and that's super important they gotta put in effort. The only thing about me is I show up no matter what cuz I just don't care and I see if girls show up for me too if they don't its their loss and move on.
Agreed. Effort is expected on both sides of the coin.
No it's not. The sperm chases the egg
True she said that young her would stay longer and try to work things out and now she walks away cause the person you are now she says won't be able to grow or change which is wild.
My brain hurts watching this. I am in confusion.
nailed it kalyne with what guys lack...i also put my shades on for this episode
I need you guys to go on tour so get on the hoodies and more so they can!!
Lol they just flat out addressed it seconds into the video lol
So Fresh, So Kalyne Dating show lessssgoooo
wait what happened to the guy that helped her with the car 🤔 the eps where Kalyne shouted “Nick” at the end 😂
The clickbait is strong with this one… WE GOING VIRAL BOIS!!!! thanks kalyne…
4:00 nick lolol that works 1/10 times man
🔴Day 1 of asking Steve to take the shirt off 🔴
4 dancers! Extra gay ❤
Ok steve
Joining the club. 😎 I hope Kalyne find true love.
Loving these more personal for one cast member to answer episodes! Good job Ryan! lol I learned what not to seek when finding a partner from my parents lol Kaylne is probably gonna have to move where more traditional men live to find her true person. Sending love dust to everyone who needs it ✨
To me I feel like that won't help. Specially when some modern single women don't like to date traditional man
Kalyne a super baddie. 😍
I feel similar to Kalyne- my standards aren't that high but some guys I've met are losers or cowards. Apparently I intimidate some of them or they don't realize how fast I cut people off because I come off as someone they think they can manipulate. Sometimes it's funny because they'll think they're a 200IQ manipulation master schemer then they start crying
One thing I need is someone who is a bit assertive- not on some alpha masculine shit but I think it would balance out my personality.
What do you mean loser or cowards? I hear stories
@@MegaMoneyManMoves She means she meets men who she thought were ok in the beginning but the more she got to know them the more she found out that they're just spineless losers that needed moms more than they needed a partner in life.
Not all the men I've dated or encountered have been "losers or cowards." Many of them are great people. Relationships are complex, and there are various factors on both sides that can influence why things didn’t work out or why a relationship wasn’t pursued. I don’t understand why some people view these situations so black-and-white. There's always nuance.
@@lionheartcreative well, its just harder for modern dating nowdays. I got lucky with my girl but very hard for both sides because guys and girls play games. It's difficult to find a wholesome person
Do i still have to communicate if i am black?
nonverbal communications only
@@martin-pz6ds what he said^
@@lionheartcreative 😂😂
Everyone love Khalanyenia.
So yall are saying. There's a chance? 😅
20:33
Boys, I’m so cooked
I love you khalyn❤
If a guy wants you, he’ll have no problem showing you. It’s just that he’s just not that into you. And he’s just trying to hit it
I want to communicate to Kaylne that I would never pull out.
Let me get my notepad!!!
By believing in the Heart of the cards.
lol what she says about consistency isn’t really about consistency. she’s trying to say commitment and duty. but one thing for sure is that if she’s not into you, she’ll never give you attention. she’s looking for markers of dependability and reliability. because of the last 20-40 years of social programming not only have women moved to extremes more men have been nerfed for a new norm. but ladies you gotta remember if you don’t set the bar high and every one of you girls should then most men will do the minimum…
Relationships are a two way street she hasnt said anything about herself just whats wrong with dudes these days most women dont ever evualate themsleves and their errors just hyperfocus on the man since hes the one that usually has to be the one to approach. All she said was she had low standards but couldn't that also be part of the problem
I don't know who or what Kalyne does outside of JK but damn she looks stunning in the thumbnail
She’s a director and cinematographer; also sometimes models
@@ryanimaycheers, Ryan.
"Champagne socialist" lol. side note Socialism and wealth aren't exactly contradictory even though people were told it's like some kind of poverty cult
100%
But it is a poverty cult
with all due respect, any man would be lucky to have Kalyne (even though she's already taken, from what I know)
Edit: I had to come back to write this after I noticed. The N64 cartridge behind Kalyne, I've seen it a few times in past video and always assumed it was Goldeneye64. I took a closer look at it and it's a fucking N64 cartridge of 'The Room' movie poster lmaooo.
“D size you aspire to be” 😂😂😂☠️
Something a high school teacher told my whole class one day (in mindskills). Treat a women like dirt and she'll stick to you like mud.. which implies negging without being an asshole.
Kalyne is awesome. Any guy would be lucky.
Whenever a girl said her standard arent high, you know she's lying.
You have a point. Attractive women who say they have no requirements or low requirements are usually the single ones. The ones who are honest and aware of what they want do find and stick with the man who fits.
Exactly. At first I heard kalynes "preferences and as the video moved along she kept going back on them when the guys more specifically joe would give reasonable responses. By the end of the video I was convinced the she was either oblivious to what she believes are low or the bare minimum standards or if she's kind of spoiled in spirit and believes she deserves "more"
i dont think her standards are that high. as a man approaching his thirty's all the qualities she brought up are ones i strive to improve upon and also look for in a partner. granted, for most men to reach that level of maturity, stability and security takes a long time and a lot of work but it doesn't sound like she has unreasonable expectations at all
@@renesuarez2411 what about her standards were so high all she said was for them to show up😂
I’m not surprised to see the comment section filled with projections and assumptions. Few people can look past my deadpan sarcasm. I have clear standards and principles for the people I allow into my life, regardless of the nature of our relationship. It’s honestly mind-blowing how often the point gets missed. Keep in mind, I share very little, and when I do, it's general-this is my personal life. Many of my experiences remain private, and that will continue to be the case, regardless of uninformed opinions or being on a "podcast".
These are the best jk videos
Kalyne 👋 lol
Connection of the my Sus
What are u saying?
When Kalyne said there's no perfect man or woman it made me think of the footballer Kaka, recently his wife split up with him cos he was too perfect
how precious that the most perfect man in the world is named Kaka
As a single woman in her 30s I can relate to what Kalyne is saying. Most Men are not investing at all or just showing interest in the „chasing“ phase or don’t even communicate. I mean even if they are not feeling the vibe it’s totally okay but god just say it thennnnnn!
As a guy
I want to be an outlier
I want to invest in a wife
I don't want to chase
I can concur that chasing just leads to heartache
I'm with the first guy that wrote a comment. Think about it from our end, we chase, invest, we pour our hearts out, we're more than willing to do all of those. In fact that stage is so much fun. But why do you think we're a bit more cautious? Maybe some of us got used and dumped a few times? Maybe it's not worth investing time, money, and emtions to a person whose just sitting there going "Oh men don't invest and show up and show interest." she's using the men to just boost her ego because she wasn't loved by her father that much. There's that. Now granted you're might be actually interested and a lot of women are. But just know that if you meet a guy that's on the fence about pouring his heart out to you, just know that maybe this guy is still recovering from the countless PTSD inducing encounters with the opposite sex.
@@thomaschristopherwhite9043 it’s totally okay to be cautious it is the same for women. There are women out there who are also caring, providing maybe not financially but being supportive and understanding about the lifestyle etc. And men don’t appreciate it value it. But just because you have had a bad experience with a person previously doesn’t mean that everyone else will be the same. So yes be cautious that’s fine I get it but there is a difference between being cautious and not interested at all.
@@rph8072 Exactly. I was probably pretty sh*t at making my point but I guess for all our sakes I think we should just be patient with one another. Like it's not enougn going into the dating scene pre-scarred by our upbringing we have to factor in our bad experiences from other people with thought loved us.
@ definitely at the end of the day men and women are different or think and approach things differently but there should be mutual respect and understanding for each other
21:06 not dating potential is a FUCKING lesson and the sooner you learn the better
Kalyne🔥
A guy can show up for his girl consistently and still get dumped
Too many men these days are avoidant attachment style. You guys don't get it because y'all older millennials
What happened to the guy that helped her with the car
We're just friends.
4:50 😂
It has been a while since i have been single. Are dudes really that shitty nowadays? Or is it kalyne just has a type that happens to have guys like that?
Some are, some aren’t. But I don’t let a few bad experiences shape my entire worldview. It wouldn’t be fair to treat the next person a certain way just because of the few who didn’t work out.
Kaylyne is so fine
everyone is different for me he has to ask i’ve rejected so many attempts i swear you would think they aren’t getting it and t almost becomes too forceful sorry but no and yes im talking about just a first kiss i have to trust you if i don’t completely don’t attempt to just kiss me.
Does paying for gas work?
That clickbait thumbnail tho. 🤣 What is this 2010? 😂🤣
lol no, that doesn't work. Her standards are higher than that.
It's appreciated but not expected.
@@lionheartcreative Hope you are having a wonderful weekend. And may you have a beautiful week ahead, Kalyne.🦋
I don't think her standards are high. More like normal to me.
She wants a guy who takes charge 60-65% in the relationship so that the other 35-40% will be her role as the woman. For example, planning for the weekend get-away, he rents the car, picks the place. She joins in on the research on where to stop by or visit along the way or at the destination; offers to be the backup driver, selflessly packs for the trip - drinks, snacks, games, sandwiches, etc.
Communication is a must because mind games or reading is how relationships take a wrong turn or fail.
Sense of humor is what drives the fun factor in the relationship.
As for the kissing consent, throw that shit out the window! When you know, you know. Although, some women will intentionally dodge it the first time lol, but will make up for it later.
Nick taking mental side notes for the right time....
Got ghosted 😊
Question for Nick, what do you call someone who nags a lot, a nagist? Doesn’t sound right 🤨 please help me ear
lol This episode is bringing to mind the song, "The Future's So Bright, I Gotta Wear Shades" by Timbuk 3
This is so true
one white sock and one black sock for kalyneee
Anyoungsayo
I like how she talk about men not being strong for her. As i can tell she doesn't have that vibe of wanting to be protected. Also remember women or the new wave feminist changed how men treat women and women treating men. I see how the dating market both sides and i think over time we forgot how to date and treat each other. Because as a modern simgle women if u want youre men to protect u all the time let him but dont switch off and on. As man purpose of dating is different than womens purpose of dating.
Ah, yes, forming opinions based on a vibe. You know exactly what I want.
To the OP: In case you miss it, Kalyne's replying with sarcasm.
🤦♂
U want traditional, be more traditional yourself, and don't look for a lion amongst sheep
Or a lion without a heart
Or a Liar amongst Lions
you probably have a point but i think she wants traditional and not archaic :D
Some sheep disguise themselves as lions, but in time, their true character is revealed.
What Kalyne wants is a Man with female qualities. 😅
You couldn't be further from the truth. But nice try!
I’ll sign up for the Patreon if Kalyne dresses like that thumbnail in all the videos.
noted
❣️Noted ✅️
U absoul I
Bro Tyler fits the bill!!!
21:37