Cool Guys Don't Give Compliments - YMH Highlight
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- Опубліковано 21 вер 2024
- Tom Segura and Christina P watch a TikTok in which a man offers an important piece of dating advice: "don't compliment a woman." Tom and CP discuss the merits of this advice.
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honestly would’ve never gotten a girlfriend without the advice from all these cool guys and tommy buns :)
Take your uvers..... WOOOOOOO
@@krazykevmlc best looking Italian in Utah!
You’re obviously lying
Compliments are for the worthy
This is like my two worlds colliding. The goat AMS and YMH, it’s like i’ve entered an alternate universe.
High value 😂
Same here 😂
You know they're being sarcastic right? Never listen to the stuff AMS tries to teach. At least don't take it seriously.
@@nunpho No he has solid advice have you seen any of his videos??
@@nunpho they're being deadly serious, they said his advice is helpful for hookups, not for long term relationships, how is that not reasonable?
I just compliment a gal last night at the club, told her she was pretty and boy did she just go cold. Rookie mistake. Never doing that shit again.
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Yeah man, telling a girl you don't know she's pretty or beautiful will not work 95 percent of the time lol. Keep your chin up!
Tell her something she doesn't know. Like her stats grade
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At the covid club?
It’s refreshing how candid Christina can be
I was pulling that shit while highly intoxicated with a lot with women after a bad break up, when I was in my early twenties. So, your Mrs. said something very insightful, that guy is damaged. Probably very few exceptions, if any.
@@negativeindustrial He's not running on all cylinders. At least while he's being that inconsiderate.
@Clemente I don't think he was curious because he lacks knowledge. I got the feeling he just wondered what I was on about.
Yeah I agree, it's almost like a self sabotage.
@@nunpho Nope, just inconsiderate. Disrespectful even. You get what you want.
@@nunpho She just gets manipulated.
The woman proved his point whether she realized.
“We don’t want a man’s compliments unless we’ve decided that we like him”
Well if a man has gotten you to like him without giving the compliments then why tf would he start to give compliments after he’s already gotten the girl infatuated?
Yep
@@jennifercooljeo6552 seems as if a lot of women think that they’re conditional. She said it herself.
The take away that I remember from this vid is just another reminder of why it’s pointless for men to listen to women about man-woman politics because women don’t care about logic.
It took me 30 years to really understand this but this guy ain't wrong
She is saying that this is toxic, but if she ends up admitting she used to fuck with guys like that then who really is perpetuating that toxicity? She gave positive reinforcement for this kind of behavior. So he ain't wrong.
Yeah but you gotta realise its normally the dumb as shit young women and the damaged ones who fall for it.
We're all stupid when we're young
@@jpk9902 If you've seen the average person it's not just when we're young.
oh im not giving excuses to older people. Im just saying I've done some dumbass shit like that when I was a barely adult aged person@@rutgerhauser2377
BRING AMS ONTO THE PODCASTS! HE'S GREAT! And more respectful than you think
"Two people who haven't dated in decades give dating advice."
They have an outside perspective, plus experience.
But are they wrong?
Yeah and then christine says the guy who didn't give her attention is "damaged" what an R word
Sounds like you never dated …. And never will keep leaving snarky comments
Nothing’s changed in the courting process since they were single….this shit is simple..like he said.
My friend listens to this motivational speaker guy. While I listen to this podcast. Love how things come together.
Like Patrice without any of the nuance lol
Patrice would talk circles around these two lmao.
@@rutgerhauser2377 gotta feeling he'd hv a blast on this show
@@pravkdey Idk patrice was known for being rather uncouth around people's girlfriends and wives. Patrice accidentally made a comment on the back of Kurt Metzger's girl who had scoliosis. And loved being an asshole.
He's right though they can smell the desperation.
He ain’t lying tho. Also..... Tom daddy is real smart right here. Words of wisdom boys
Sorry, incel* 😉
It was funny how she did not just want to admit he was right immediately. Women are shocked when they realize men are catching on to their behavior.
Brooo what a crossover. I used to always listen to AMS 😂. It got me my girl I got now.
AMS is the goat
@@tre.jluster2574 facts!
Lmao i never heard of him but jonsstly he seemed pretty cool from that video
I used to put in my tinder profile “I hate girls with big gum to tooth ratio”- which was true and also a hilarious “qualifier”- girls would always ask about it. I called it Horsey mouth. Fucking gold.
Horse mouth is the worst
It's pretty hilarious but also pretty fucked up making people who can't help it feel bad about themselves. Not the same as saying you don't like fat chicks, because that shit is 99% of the time 100% their fault
Oh God how I hate it too.....
It’s people who mouth breath instead of nose breath. They don’t have proper facial structure. Bill Burr’s Nia is a perfect example.
That’s an immediate pass
Literally Bert's wife is a perfect example; "He didn't call me after a date"....boom
idk women only find mysterious men attractive if they already find them attractive otherwise mysterious is interpreted as creepy
Exactly, some say be above a 7/10 in their eyes or you’re a creep
WOOWWWWWWW never thought I’d see this paths cross
I'll take the Charles route and just send a video saying how busy I am and say let's meet around "ohhh I dunno..." 7:30...?
If you tried i bet you would get AMS on the show. He is a pretty cool guy based on his content.
They're taking the piss
@@nunpho just took one what about it?
The truth isn't toxic. Most people who haven't dated many women wouldn't understand what he's advising. The fact that you stated this is spot on for players but not for the real women, dosen't change anything. There is no special woman.
Rest In Peace Patrice O'Neal!!!!!!!
"I wish I could show you my text messages" If only there were some way to show other people your texts, but alas, it's not possible.
Ray Ray and Pookie didnt teach him that yet.
That would be disrespectful to the many women in his phone
Probably too lazy to blur em all out
@@Y0utubeIsFuckingHomo oh yeah, I'm sure that's the reason 🤣
bro i got jack shit in my messages but i still aint showing it to thousands of people i dont know
Tom and wife keeping it real.
He’s exaggerating the main idea of pickup: Don’t give women validation. If you constantly tell them how great they are, it gives off the impression that she’s above you. Women want to DATE UP, not down. It sounds manipulative because it is but you have to keep them guessing where they stand with you so they pursue YOU and seek your validation.
Yeah. Don't treat her like a celebrity. She'll treat you like a fan. She's a person that has flaws. If you idolize her it's already over.
It's not any more manipulative than complimenting a girl. 99% of compliments guys give girls are toxic.
Shit! I can totally skip therapy next week now thanks to Saturday morning YMH. You guys are fucking great! 🤣🤘🤘🤘
"I wish I could show you my text messages; but theyre made up, so I cant"
Lol they’re not. This dude slays and he shows receipts. He’s also pretty much a millionaire now.
He has receipts
AMS is a legend😂
This is gonna be a fucking insane remix. That shit might chart
The best compliments are genuine, deep, and insightful
the best compliment a man can give to a women is by representing himself as the best in front of her but without being cocky
I like her openness, it’s good to see.
Lmao that sound clip is gold
I learned the "he who cares least" method years ago and it works like a charm. Women can't figure out why you aren't into them and it makes them curious about what you got that makes you not want them.
Only thing is how do you express interest in a girl just enough? Because women expect you to approach them.
This immediately puts the negotiating advantage on them, because you're approaching them. But you can't show you care too much... it really is a balancing act.
@@rutgerhauser2377 you hook them in and withdraw a bit.
@@HenryDube72 Tried but then they just think I completely lost interest.
@@rutgerhauser2377 it means they weren't that interested.
@@HenryDube72 Tbh I kinda lost interest too. I gotta work on that.
why is a wall mart greeter an essential worker....they have one cashier and 3 Korean War vets manning the front door....this is comedy in real life
I want the following statement on my tombstone: 0:07
He’s a fuckin BEAST. His books are on point
Toms joyful expression is HILARIOUS
I love this guy respect bro
You can give compliments, no problem. What he's trying to say is probably "don't be so needy".
Cause you can totally give a compliment without being needy. There's a difference between giving a normal compliment and giving the "I wanna fuck you" compliment.
There's nothing wrong with being a gentleman as long as it's not obvious that you're only doing this to get something out of it.
In fact, most of the womanizers I know are always complimenting women. They just do it so good, the only way you can react is "oh damn, he's smooth, no wonder he's drowning in it...".
Dude has a point though. Women these days don't appreciate the small stuff although they say they do they actually want and respond to the extravagant lies social media and disney has spoon fed them.
What he says is true for bad bitches , for normal people you can be sweet
I wont lie, my whole life ive been wearing two plastic bracelets and they say "WWPD?" and "WWRRD?". Which clearly mean "What Would Pookie Do?" and "What Would Ray Ray Do?"
And they have gotten me out of some rough situations.
Just last week i was at an art gallery and i saw an amazing painting. I really wanted to buy it but it was a bit too much. So i decided to instead just compliment the woman who painted it but then i looked at my bracelet and i had to tell myself "NO!!! You do not compliment that bitch". Where would i be without Ray Ray and Pookie?
I love hearing girls say shit like this while fallowing up w “I can’t find a guy that one cheat” or some other horrible shit 😂
You don’t want girls(or guys) that are damaged like that lol
I want the following statement on my tombstone @ 0:07
If i ever find just a soundbite of that I will be forced by all the cool guys to set it as my ringtone or text alert.
I respect toms wife she is a pretty smart and centered women.
But not worthy of you learning or addressing her by name
Tom's black voice is hilarious
True, he did the exact AMS impersonation.
He’s right to an extent
I hope the king is in Tim’s seat for this weeks show. Try it out
I think that compliments can be over done. I like a nice compliment that gets my attention but just one is fine when the guy is just showering me with them and it's like the first time I seen them or the first date yea it comes off desperate. Nothing wrong with saying one little thing though. I can't speak for every woman though this is just how i am.
Jesus how did I not know this when I was younger? I used to pull all the time by accident, and never knew why what I legitimately wasn't doing was working. I just actually didn't give a fuck, and it worked.
I recently came across a tik tok where a guy asks girls how many times a guy complimented them this month, they all had around 15-20 times. No wonder a compliment has no value.
pickup artists support this video
It's better than being super available and complacent and this rule is a good training wheels, but if you are actually confident and valuable as a guy you can give whatever compliment you want without seeming too available.
All my life women young and old approached me so I rarely made a move on them because they're making it for me so I kept quiet. I never said anything I just agreed then we got busy. I can honestly say if I did complimented them it would be the same result. I guess people coin the term betas chase and alphas just sit back and let the girls chase them.
Alpha Male Strategies is one of the best UA-cam channels out here. You simps should go give him a follow!
It’s not a good relationship. He’s just gonna run through.
Holy shit AMS done made it to YMH
I want to look at his tes messages
My friend listens to this guy. This guy is always spewing relationship advice. Him and my friend are both single.
So they’re both smart? 😂
@@charlesbhustlin That’s one way to look at it
This is game for early 20s. By your mid 30s, women don't fall for this shit.
They're done with bad boys and want man who will he good father, good husband, and women I knew man had to make 🏧🏧🏦🏦.
That's hilarious
@@edp3202 which is why men should be careful.
Their beauty starts to fade, so complimenting their looks is bullshit and ignoring them doesn’t work either.
Lol.. speak for yourself Micuhm…
Pookie and Ray Ray sound cool
I will stop complimenting my bitch immediately I had no idea.thank you kind sir for your advice.
AMS THE GOAT
🤣🤣🤣. "We just made out, ew gimme space.". Yeah, she was all horned up Tim, way to be observant. Also can someone ask Christine to say "alluring" ? 😆
lol AMS the cool guy king
7:45 Fed 100% sounds like a pirate💀💀💀🙌💯
He’s right
He’s 100 right
It’s all how you speak. Most things can be turned into “pick-ups” if said the right way.
"Are you drinking skim because you think youre fat? Because youre not fat, you could totally drink whole if you wanted"
You will never find love if you listen to guys like this
Yea and honestly a shit ton of guys now just want to get laid and don't give a fuck about love. I want someone I can grow old with. I don't understand the current dating culture
Christina you don't have to worry, nobody is complimenting you
Hot take: if a girl needs me to play games to stay interested in me, I'm not interested in her.
Best podcast ever! Always follow proto...
Ohhhh i like that thing you said on your podcast and I like the way you speak. Am I good now..
I ignored a really cute girl because i was shy and now she's my girlfriend
You should reach out to him and get him on your show it would be interesting content
I used to get all the chicks in college from that. Too bad I have a phobia of women, and it was not a confidence thing.
The best way to pass a "shit test" is to go to another toilet.
Man this dude smart thats good advice
"Hes right, BUT, im a dyed in the wool simp who can't deal with reality."
its like martial art. if u are really good at it u can go as close to the punch as possible. because there ur counter is most dangerous from... when u have really strong game: u can give compliments- and then like a superman deny the lowering of ur status by giving it.... see u know game so good that when and if u give compliment it does not lower ur status... and that is a skill in it self... if u learn it its very powerful. compliments are powerful, it would be stupid just to not use them ever.
Garth Brooks continues to scare the shit out of me
He sure is one of those rare artists who‘s always reinventing their image
@@jonathannagel7427 and a narcissistic.
@@aj897 correct sir.
The most random crossover i never expected, but not entirely surprised by now that i saw you had Andrew Tate on there too! 😅
You fuckin' nice guys! LmAo
Can someone PLEASE tell me who that guy is at the end? His comments literally almost made me piss my pants!!! I haven’t cried laughing that hard in so long..😂
You talking about fedsmoker?
Christina is spot on
My ex wanted me to be mean to her, like daddy in childhood after her mother died.
I haven't laughed this hard in weeks
@@TheHiyy truth hurts your sides? 😂
Christina spends the first few minutes saying how toxic the guys advice is and at 4:11 proceeds to tell us she’s attracted to that kind of behavior. Never rely on a woman to tell you how you pick up a woman lol
She comes from a wacky upbringing, which is basically a prerequisite for being a comic. Watch her last appearance on Ryan Sickler’s show for a full rundown of her childhood. Someone from that environment usually is not going to be looking for a regular boring person.
@steveknick1978 she is giving you the sauce
I’m only 21 and I’m already over it. Yeah I fell for that shit in high school, now it just feels fake.
7:43
To give some balance here there's some pretty cool girls on tiktok giving some pretty cool dating advice. #stopcoolgayhate
Holy crap he dropping true game
*AMS the goat*
How ridiculous... we shouldn't compliment women anymore. Unless they're your girlfriends already
Most American women need to be humbled. This dude ain’t wrong. We actually need more of this.
I used to listen to alpha male scrakagees when he started. It’s funny and cool that you went there and talked about this.
His contents gotten better I think
This dude getting dating tips from the nard dawg.