How to Deal with Rejection

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 105

  • @shanellepearse
    @shanellepearse 3 місяці тому +1

    8 years later, still so powerful ❤ thank you

  • @Tabitha04
    @Tabitha04 8 років тому +27

    Best. Video. Ever. I will be rewatching this about a million times. Please for the love of God never delete it. ❤️

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  8 років тому +7

      Awesome!! LOL, I will never delete it!! Glad it was helpful. With love, B

    • @earthloveskin375
      @earthloveskin375 6 років тому +1

      Amen!!! She just nailed how people should understand this!

  • @susanreinersuedahl
    @susanreinersuedahl Рік тому +2

    What an amazing perspective on rejection and life. Thanks B.

  • @godsgrace6851
    @godsgrace6851 4 роки тому +1

    You are such a wonderful & beautiful creation inside out from God ! We need more human being like you :)

  • @mandarbanavadikar
    @mandarbanavadikar 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you, Bernadette, for the pearls of wisdom!

  • @19671967ang
    @19671967ang 2 роки тому +1

    I love your videos ❤️👍

  • @susanfernando4260
    @susanfernando4260 7 років тому +2

    I just found out that my job is coming to an end and i am feeling very rejected. Thank you B for this video!! It really helped to put things into perspective! I will definitely be listening to this again! Thank you Thank you Thank you!!

  • @nieveskinal5096
    @nieveskinal5096 8 років тому +5

    One more powerful message Bernadette! Thank You so much for making us understand how we have to deal with rejection! I had to deal with so much rejection and I thought there was something wrong with me instead of the other people. But I have come to understand that there is nothing i can do if some people just don't accept you.

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  8 років тому +1

      Yes! And you might also find an article on my website helpful, based on your message. Here's a link to it... about people not getting you or supporting you... Love, B www.pinchmeliving.com/32-facts-to-remember-when-people-are-unsupportive/

  • @tullysoulliere8103
    @tullysoulliere8103 7 років тому +5

    Flippin brilliant , thank you ....(O:

  • @arescue
    @arescue 6 років тому +4

    This is gold!

  • @doreenbenson5263
    @doreenbenson5263 7 років тому +6

    THANKS FOR doing this video. I needed to see this.

  • @aleksandrauricic746
    @aleksandrauricic746 7 років тому +5

    I needed this inspiration speech so much! Thank you!

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  7 років тому +1

      Hey Aleksandra, glad this was timely for you. Happy to share it. B :)

  • @malinlundstrom644
    @malinlundstrom644 7 років тому +4

    thank you so much . love from Sweden

  • @kumarihettiarachchi6401
    @kumarihettiarachchi6401 6 років тому +2

    this is amazing tips you giving us. thank you.

  • @itsmarialifestyle4355
    @itsmarialifestyle4355 8 років тому +5

    Thank you for inspiration Bee!

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  8 років тому +1

      A pleasure to share these tips with you Maria!! :)

  • @itzajdmting
    @itzajdmting 3 роки тому

    This is so true, such an important message. Those rejections can hit so hard though.

  • @thanusmom
    @thanusmom 8 років тому +1

    This is for me , I had to see this video. Thank you for the great boost and new insight on looking at oneself

  • @leahinbloom
    @leahinbloom 7 років тому +1

    Thanks so much Bernadette!! Your wisdom and guidance is invaluable to me ❤️love from Ireland

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  7 років тому +1

      Sending love back to you in beloved Ireland!! :)

  • @TwoMarshmallows1
    @TwoMarshmallows1 3 роки тому

    I _was_ planning to deal with rejection by enacting a complicated revenge scheme involving fake identities, houseboats and an extreme car chase, but I think this is much better advice. Thank you!

  • @morningdew9478
    @morningdew9478 4 роки тому

    There are certain people that are not in divine timing and divine order, meant to be in your life.
    There is a flow to your life. You want to be in the flow with people your designed to be with. I'm grateful to hear 'No' from the no people and I can flow on to hear 'Yes' from the 'Yes' people.

  • @rainyrainbow6229
    @rainyrainbow6229 7 років тому +1

    Hi B, this video made me feel a bit calmer. I am watching it on repeat, after I was abandoned by my therapist in our 5th session this morning. I think I am experiencing PTSD right now, on top of the mental issues that I am already struggling with.
    In the beginning of the session, the therapist said that I should feel comfortable saying whatever was on my mind and that the space was safe. So I expressed my thoughts and feelings in an open and vulnerable mental state. But then, she suddenly told me that she had never felt so bad in her life before, that I made her feel really really bad, that I was attacking her, that I was watching how she was sitting and so on, and that she couldn’t do it anymore. She wanted me to leave. What have I done? I was in shock, frozen, and my body was shaking. I never paid attention to her posture or anything she said that I was doing to her. What she said was irrelevant to what I was talking about. I tried to remain calm and tell her that I did not mean to hurt her and that I was sorry if I made her feel the worst in her life. I told her that I felt really bad that she felt hurt by me, and that I would continue to feel bad after I left. She didn't respond and was just staring at me. I felt really scared and my heart was pounding. I went on to tell her that I felt abandoned by her, and that I had been abandoned by several therapists when I was little, who disappeared without any prior notice. I’ve always wondered if it was something that I said, or did, or it was me as a person that made them want to leave me forever.
    After I left her office, I came straight back home. I’ve been trying to calm myself, but I continued to feel frightened and confused and exhausted. I really want to cry and release the emotional load so that I can feel calm afterward, but I am not able to do it. I feel emotionally dried out and numb. I think I am still in shock.
    Now, I am trying to listen to your words, but I keep losing my concentration. It seems that I keep running into my “no people” in life maybe because I attract negative, abusive people because of my vulnerability or something I don’t know. How do I know it is not something wrong with me when I am abandoned again and again? Where do I find my “yes people”? How can I recover from this event?
    Thanks for reading my comment.

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  7 років тому +1

      Hi, sorry to hear you've been through that experience. And as you say if it happens again and again, we ask why? It leads us to wonder what life might be asking us to see and heal, in order that we can be at peace within ourselves and in life. And when difficult things happen, it's not necessarily that we "caused it", in some cases the difficult things we experience are life's interesting way of helping us... giving us a gift to learn something that will benefit us now or in future. A tool that is really helpful for emotional release is EFT (tapping). If you don't know it, you might want to check it out. If you do know it, I suggest using it to process the feelings. And please feel free to join our Pinch Me Living tribe (yes here on UA-cam as a subscriber but also over on our website), we have like minded people committed to personal growth. Warmest wishes, Bernadette

  • @maincharacterNRG
    @maincharacterNRG 7 років тому

    After hearing "no" from a job I really wanted today, I really needed to hear this, B. The disappointment doesn't sting as much as it may have years ago when I wasn't as strong, but I still feel it and am wondering what to do next. I think staying open to my "yes" people is wonderful advice. You are so right on!

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  7 років тому +1

      😊❤️ Totally! The right job, the right alignment is around the corner. Universe knows best!

  • @19671967ang
    @19671967ang 2 роки тому

    Keep up these daily inspirations I love them

  • @cutechiangels
    @cutechiangels 7 років тому +2

    "How can u be with the Yes people, when you're stuck with the No people"! Great! Lets move!

  • @ejgibson7116
    @ejgibson7116 5 років тому

    This is an excellent video!❤️
    Thank you! I really needed to hear this today-many, many thanks.

  • @joevans9186
    @joevans9186 5 років тому

    Thank you so much B! My work just got rejected and I wasn't feeling good. So did a search on Daily Positive as I knew you'd be able to help. You didn't disappoint - this vid has helped reframe my thinking already. 💗

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  5 років тому +1

      Hey Jo, so glad this was helpful and you found it when needed. Sending love your way! B 💛

  • @MissVioletaOrange
    @MissVioletaOrange 7 років тому

    thank you Bernadette. Your videos always help me when I'm feeling bad. Thanks so much for spreading such love and kindness. It helps so much

  • @wandabrown538
    @wandabrown538 8 років тому

    I truly appreciate your videos. they have inspired me to become my greatest version of myself. this video was very enlightening. it helped me to see and deal with a situation that I was not aware of. ur video helped me realize that i was dealing with this person who was using rejection as a tool to use against bcuz He knew about my rejection with my father that stems from childhood in order to control me . ur video help me to recognized it. afterwards I was able to apply the principles to my situation and it is helping me to overcome this issue of rejection inside of me that's been tormenting me since childhood. thank u so much😊

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  8 років тому

      That's great to hear Wanda! So glad this was helpful. Good work on seeing things with new awareness. Best wishes, B

  • @andrefrade4494
    @andrefrade4494 3 роки тому

    This video is very empowering. Thank you for sharing this with us. Would you consider making a short meditation video with I am affirmations for the fear of rejection? I cannot find a good one and you say and explain it all so so so well.

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  3 роки тому

      Thanks for your suggestion! In the interim check out the affirmations audios on my channel for confidence and the 400 powerfully positive affirmations audio too.
      😊👍💛

    • @andrefrade4494
      @andrefrade4494 3 роки тому

      @@Bernadette_Logue Thank you :)

  • @roygreer38
    @roygreer38 6 років тому

    Excellent video

  • @SierraWilloughby
    @SierraWilloughby 8 років тому

    Thanks Bernadette, rejection and my taking it personally has been the most challenging thing I have been experiencing in my 40+ years of life. The moving on from the no people toward the yes people really resonates with me. My only concern as a gay man is my real and perceived concern that there are very few yes people when it comes to dating. the rate of ignoring, dismissal and saying no I encounter when I have reached out with kindness openness and love toward other gay men is astounding. I'm at the point of my spiritual evolution where I'm not taking it personally, but at the same time It is sad to witness how much pain and trauma gets in the way of connections between myself and the dating pool I am part of

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  8 років тому +2

      Hi Sierra, I hear what you are saying. I can only recommend you hone your mindset powerfully on the reality you wish to see. We create our reality more and more by our perception, and draw into our lives more of that which resonates with our mindset and energy. For sure there will be past evidence of the lack and issues you are talking about, but if you make a shift into mindset and energy that says "there are yes people who perfectly resonate with me, and they flow into my life easily" and you bring yourself to real emotional alignment with that... they will show up. We hone that energy and mindset as a daily practise, and with patience and faith. You can draw into your life what you want, it's all about the energy, belief and patience, keeping yourself aligned to the reality you want to experience, knowing 100% it is available to you. We live in a powerful quantum field of energy, and you have that power in you to work with it to create outcomes that you desire. It's all about trusting in what you can't see, and not looking back at past evidence or issues you see around you. Look beyond that, look into the vision of what you know is possible. With love! Bernadette

    • @giovannapratesi
      @giovannapratesi 8 років тому +1

      Hi Sierra, I really encourage you to "work" in the direction that B suggests. I did resonate a lot with your words/experience (and I am not gay) and since I follow B's insights/way of training the mind etc. I can tell you and witness that I have made huge shifts in my consciousness and awareness. This lately has started to reflect not only into my choices (of the "no" and "yes" people") that before I simply wasn't making, but also and most importantly to you as an evidence for where you stand, on the kind of people I am attracting/meeting on my way. Still haven't found Love again, but maintain my Beliefs healthy and my faith while I build stronger confidence and love for myself. All love to you and your path

  • @michaelthomas8788
    @michaelthomas8788 5 років тому

    Thank you so much for this video, B! I really needed this. I've definitely been feeling this way quite a bit since I've been having trouble getting a job, just getting passed on and such. I know I'm qualified and experienced and will get a chance to build it. Just subscribed to your channel by the way. Thanks again 🙏🏿

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  5 років тому

      Hey Michael, ah yes I hear you, job interview time is a portal for practicing self assurance for sure. Finding your job match means sifting through those jobs that don't match! Stay strong, and a mantra I love for such times is... "I am drawn like a magnet to where I belong".
      Wishing you the best and welcome to our community! B 😊👍

    • @michaelthomas8788
      @michaelthomas8788 5 років тому

      @@Bernadette_Logue Thanks B!:)

  • @maf22yaya
    @maf22yaya 7 років тому

    thank you so much for this

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  7 років тому

      Very happy to share it with you Melissa. Best wishes!

  • @dominikawieczorek9893
    @dominikawieczorek9893 7 років тому

    Thank You for this video. It's powerful and gives so much hope. There's only one thing that bothers me a lot. A year ago I met someone I consider very special. We dated for some time, we could talk for hours, share our thoughts, interests and passions. But it turned out that person didn't feel this way even though, as she said, she really wanted to. It seems it was simply a NO person and I am aware of that. I just can't understand why my feelings are still so strong eventhough it's over and we' haven't seen and talked to each other since our last meeting a year ago. Just to move on I've been traveling, learning new skills, meeting new people, I've just found a better job I looked for so long (my YES JOB :)), I've also noticed positive and essential changes in me. But still my feelings hasn't changed, there's still pain in my chest, longing and unexpectedly returnig memories. Is it possible to feel so much to a no-person that is no longer in my life? Or is there something wrong with me?

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  7 років тому

      We can often carry emotions around for a long time if we don't know how to effectively process and release them. It's like the emotional energy gets locked into place and yes it's possible to still feel strong feelings for someone who isn't good for us or right for us, or aligned to us etc EFT is a great way to release old emotions so you can be free to move on positively with your life and have peace. Sending best wishes! B

    • @dominikawieczorek9893
      @dominikawieczorek9893 7 років тому

      Thank You so much! Sending best wishes to You, too :)

  • @Butterflye9
    @Butterflye9 7 років тому

    Fantastic video! thank you!!

  • @wandalee5010
    @wandalee5010 5 років тому

    I am not reject-able, I accept myself completely.

  • @kathleenblakey9621
    @kathleenblakey9621 7 років тому +1

    Who in their right mind would not just love you. Thanks for the kick in the pants.

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  7 років тому

      Awwww, thanks Kathleen, glad this was helpful :)

  • @wandalee5010
    @wandalee5010 5 років тому

    God, bring on my YES people! ❤️

  • @earthloveskin375
    @earthloveskin375 6 років тому

    Wow you put it so eloquently! I love your channel! Found you just this week while looking for meditations on mania or anxiety (I am Bipolar).
    Your video makes so much sense. I've heard the same advice but the way you made me understand is impeccable. I look forward to hearing more!
    Would you be interested if I interview you for my personal development and wellness blog?

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  6 років тому

      Welcome to our community. Awesome to hear the vids are helpful for you. And if you reach out to me via email to support@thedailypositive.com re the interview 😊 Warmest wishes! B

  • @jodimontoute
    @jodimontoute 5 років тому

    Thank you

  • @abigailroe6162
    @abigailroe6162 8 років тому +2

    literally a one million dollar video

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  8 років тому

      Hey Abigail, I'm glad this resonated with you. Warmest wishes, B

  • @sunnivaskeidsvoll6312
    @sunnivaskeidsvoll6312 4 роки тому +1

    This video helped a lot, and is very similar to the positive path I am currently walking. There is something I find complicated, though, and that is the sexual rejection that sometimes happens in a loving relationship. I believe you have a great point saying "This is not me". But I believe one shouldn't move on to ones "yes-persons" when you get a no from your love in bed? Because one should respect ones partner in the question of consent and no consent... Perhaps you mean no as in "no, I don't love you anymore" and not as in "no, I don't feel like having intercourse with you tonight, love". Thoughts?

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  4 роки тому +1

      Hey Sunniva, indeed, you're right on point, that this "moving onward, away from no people toward yes people" is not related to dealing with intimate relationships, and is not relevant to the scenario you are referring to. It is completely okay, healthy and natural to have times in intimate relationships where one person wants to engage in physical intimacy and the other person does not, and vice versa. To have someone say "no" to wanting intimacy, is not necessarily a rejection of the other person, though it may certainly feel like that, as it's a sensitive vulnerable space to open oneself to physical intimacy, even with a long term partner. So it's really important if your partner says no to one occasion of you wanting intimacy, to acknowledge your own feelings in that moment (e.g This "no" is making me feel ____), and then to ask "What might be going on for my partner right at this moment as to why they don't want intimacy right now?" For example, are they stressed, are they tired, are they unwell, are they distracted, are they feeling out of balance, is their mind elsewhere, are they hurting emotionally from something else that has gone on between you where they are distancing themselves". By trying to put yourself in their shoes, you can both acknowledge your own feelings about the "no" and also attempt to understand where they are coming from, so that the "no" is less about rejection and more about "this doesn't work for me right in this moment". That said, if it's a repeated pattern, it can help to later raise the topic and ask your partner to share how they feel about intimacy together and whether something is bothering them, to be able to have a calm and compassionate conversation outside of those moments, to get closer together in understanding of what might be going on. A few ideas, I hope that is somehow helpful. B :)

  • @jmv1969
    @jmv1969 6 років тому

    You deserve more subscribers...I regret i have only one account to give

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  6 років тому

      🤗💛 Thanks for being part of our community! B

  • @cooperforever1156
    @cooperforever1156 7 років тому

    But how do you just do it? Of course I want to be in the “yes” but how do you get away from the pain? I love this video and it helps but the pain doesn’t go away and I. Trying to figure out how to be in the flow and handle this pain

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  7 років тому

      I hear you. The pain is very real emotional energy that needs processing, while also taking a new perspective. I recommend EFT "tapping" for releasing the pain. Easy to learn and easy to apply. 😊 If you go to thedailypositive.com/eft-tapping you'll see my guide for tapping. Best wishes! Bernadette

  • @StarHealingJourney
    @StarHealingJourney 7 років тому

    Now that I am trying to buy a flat in my town I keep getting bad results. I have seen 13 apartments and every time i was going to buy someone else bought it. I felt rejected every time I did not get what I wanted. I am feeling now that maybe I should not buy a flat where I live because I was rejected so many times that maybe this is a sign to search else where? How can one know if this kind of rejection means you should go and see elsewhere?

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  7 років тому

      Tune into your deeper voice, the intuition inside of you. I've heard "no" many times on certain paths, and I still knew deep down that it was right for me to keep going. Or, perhaps the overall direction is right, but the exact trajectory or way of going about it might need adjusting. Depends on the situation and only you will know for sure as it's such a personal thing. Stand back a little and reconnect with what you most want and what FEELS right, and then continue forward. Remember, hearing NO is sometimes just a delay, not a denial. And, those other apartments may not have been the right place for you in divine order, so while you thought they were perfect, maybe the Universe knows better! :)

  • @karenbird1279
    @karenbird1279 2 роки тому

    The link to the video of 32 facts does not work.

    • @Bernadette_Logue
      @Bernadette_Logue  2 роки тому +1

      Hi Karen, apologies, here's the updated link: www.thedailypositive.com/32-facts-to-remember-when-people-are-unsupportive/ 💛

  • @xperiencytheorist4996
    @xperiencytheorist4996 5 років тому

    😘❤️❤️❤️🙏

  • @danagabay6679
    @danagabay6679 8 років тому

    lm totally inlove at u 🤓

  • @cutechiangels
    @cutechiangels 7 років тому

    😃😆😚

  • @Sunshineleo_94
    @Sunshineleo_94 5 місяців тому

    Yup tried not to cry and lost it as soon as you started talking directly to me at the end 🥲

  • @rubyanaya126
    @rubyanaya126 2 роки тому

    Thank You